I like his videos but I just wish his face was different

It's crazy because every single thing these dudes say about women is extreme projecting; being easily manipulated, emotionally unstable, sex driven, etc

"Pick up art" is just another way of saying sexual harassment 99.999% of the time

"Master Opener of Women" sounds like a poorly translated description of Jack the Ripper

How horrified would these straight guys be if they came across gay men trying these same tactics on them?

Guy: *treats woman like a child* Girl: *doesn’t want to date a person who treats them like a child* Guy: “why are all women so triggered?”

Someone on twitter once said: garbage men and pickup artists should trade names

Pickup artists should learn the art of picking up a phone and contacting a therapist.

Honestly the joke responses would have actually worked on me waaay better than the actual ones

these pickup artists are literally just y/n and these girls are the fictional characters they’re obsessing over

Literally no girl wants to talk to you in the grocery store

just because a woman is somewhere outside of her house doesn't mean she is inviting you to hit on her like how are these men so stupid

Remember boys, this is a man who has a wife already. Listen to him.

You can tell a lot about a guy who refers to women as "females"

The only unrealistic part of this is HR actually doing something about sexual harassment in the workplace.

It's so funny that the joke responses to the first tweet and the ACTUAL responses have such a difference in how they're written. The joke ones have good punctuation and wording and the genuine ones look like they're written by a 7 year old lol

As a trans person I can confirm that they taught me womanese when I was inducted into the hall of womanhood

Saying you’re good with women because you ask them out a lot is like saying you’re good with money because you’ve applied to the lottery 6000 times

Ah yes, the three emotions women value 1. Fun 2. Intrigue 3. Good emotions

My favorite opener was "Hey... You guys like toothpaste?" It wasn't a sexy opener it was just so unexpected and really funny.

how to get a girl: have self awareness and respect her boundaries. that's it, advice from a woman.

*walks up to woman in store, sweating profusely* “doritos? d- do you like them?”

Drew wasn't lying when he said he procrastinates his videos until the absolute last day of the month lmfao

It's moments like Drew reading the "ACCORDING TO PHYCOLOGY" tweet that make me believe he would be great at voice acting for an animated series.

I love how these self-proclaimed pick-up artists have this plethora of tactics, lines, and strategies, and not one of them involves behaving like a decent human being.

I literally cannot imagine a worse pickup line than that future wife one. There are like 4 red flags in that alone.

i feel bad for the women whose photos this dude uses for his tweets

Women: We would like someone who's honest, open, and respectful. Pickup artists: Women are basically Rubik's cubes. I am the first man in the history of the world who has solved the puzzle of how to attract them. Give me $500 and I'll share the solution with you, which is basically just different types of negging and emotional manipulation.

Why would you admit to desperately wanting sex with someone you believe has the development of a child

Feel like "have you tried Cool Ranch" might unironically be the best pick up line

for guys who swear up and down that women aren't funny, it's amazing how some of them rely so heavily on rehearsed lines to get a women to even talk to them in the first place.

I am going to quote a genius who once said: “Pickup artists are the 1% of bacteria that Dettol doesn’t kill.”

Once when I was 14 a boy around my age who I had never seen before in my life walked up, said "Are you from Tennessee? Because you're the only 10 I see. Can I have you number," then looked down at the floor like he was about to start crying. And he was still a much better "Casanova" than any of the grown men in this video.

the best way to completely kill an innuendo: just pretend you absolutely do NOT understand, and demand they explain in detail what they mean. they get awkward real quick

I get unironically excited every time squarespace is the sponsor because I know the hot dog is probably getting something new

In addition to being really funny, I admire and appreciate Drew's way of pointing out how problematic toxic masculinity is by shining a light on how deeply silly all of those people are.

I think one of my favorite tiktoks was a guy being like. "You want to get to know a woman, pretand you're gay. Like....just get to know her like you arent attracted to her."

I'm imagining Drew's stock image search history is something like: "hot dog" "car" "seductive cowgirl"

Genuine thank you for bringing up the fact that men like this often script the woman’s response and get angry and all too often violent when she goes off script. It’s so scary and uncomfortable to experience.

My funniest encouter with someone like this was in War Thunder where some guy spent a month sending me a hey every time I started the game, never carried on the conversation any further, then called me a bitch when I hadn't become his girlfriend. It was a lost cause in the first place since I'm a lesbian but like I'm just intrigued by the completely lack of efforts paired with these expectations.

I don’t understand why a woman being alone means she needs someone to come sexually harass her lmao people are nuts

I love how so many guys think being emotional is only crying. Dude, anger is an emotion, too. Flipping a table and screaming is being emotional.

me: hey you thick fish woman: *smiles, falls on love, shits aggressively*

Speaking for basically every woman I've ever met, straight, bi, or lesbian, guys who believe this stuff is an immediate red flag

I've just gotta say... coming up to me, snatching something out of my hands and then insisting that you know what I want better than I do is a _really_ good way to get me to immediately become hostile.

I hate that this exists, I'm physically cringing. But I'm also glad Drew drags them properly.

Imagine writing "SEXCALATION SYSTEM" with a straight face.

The whole "woman are basically NPCs" thing reminded me of this one Tumblr post where they talked about responding to shitty pickup attempts with RPG quotes. So it would be like: "Are you from Tennessee? Becau-" "Do you get to the Cloud district very often? Of course you dont!" OR "Hey baby, did it hurt when you fell from Heaven?" "DWARVEN CRAAAFTS!"

Life changing tip: u can open a bag of chips at the store as long as u pay for it before leaving 👍

Can I just say how grossed out I am when men compare women to children then discuss the best way to get into their pants. It's just ew

i wish people would realize “triggered” means when someone with trauma is reminded of that trauma.

i've had so many customers, old enough to be my grandfather, hit on me randomly. i get carded for energy drinks so i sure as hell don't look like an adult. it's mildly terrifying and one of the reasons i started dressing down for work. all that changed was that i got told to dress up more by strangers though.

Thats so gross bc if they majorly treat women like children. Why... are they attravted to people they view as children??

“How do you open?” Coroner: “obviously a Y-incision.”

Oh man I hate the “I can’t even be sexist or harass women anymore because of this SJW/PC culture” mentality. Just recently, a famous comedian in my country proclaimed that “flirting and seduction is dead” after a celebrity got convicted for STALKING one of his female employees. This celebrity sometimes literally sent 70 messages in consecutive order, many of which were gross and obscene. And him being convicted somehow means that “PC culture killed flirting”. like WHAT???

These pickup artists are a riot. I'm a chubby, awkward, no style sense nerd, and I even realize that these lines are absolutely cringeworthy. A simple "Hey, how's it going" or "Cool jacket/phone case/shirt etc" is probably better. You might be able to strike up a conversation.

For the first tweet: I would stand there awkwardly as I wait for her to move because I hate being in people's way but I want chips

"She thinks her choices are her own but really it's social conditioning, primal drives, emotions, sociological factors, etc." Newsflash: that's everyone.

I think this video was the perfect example of how to joke about something while still taking it seriously. Sometimes when men make videos about incels or just generally creepy dudes it feels insensitive. Like they laugh at how ridiculous these guys are but it doesn’t feel as silly to watch as a woman when you’ve actually experienced these things.

If a man wants a woman because he thinks her emotional level is that of a child’s and finds that attractive, he needs to unpack that with a therapist and stay away from not just children but also women. If a man is attracted to the maturity level of a child, he is gross and needs to be put on a watch list, because he might eventually realize that he’s attracted to children. So gross!!

"you like Doritos? Me too! You should totally go down on me!" How I met my wife, all thanks to Twitter.

As a woman, I do appreciate a man talking about this subject because some men most likely won’t listen to women when we say this.

advise to people who don't know how to talk to women: do not take advice from a book by a man that calls himself an expert. In fact, don't take advice from anyone that wants you to pay for it. Also, women are not a separate species. If you can't say the same type of stuff to women that you say to the guys to get them to like you, maybe reconsider what type of stuff you say to the guys.

The beautiful thing about just being awkward and sincere is that I don't _scare_ people. The worst they're gonna think about me is "aw, that person was awkward", and then never think about me again. Most of these lines will have a girl wondering if you're following her home.

I had a man corner me in the grocery and insist on getting my number for seemingly forever. Finally I backed away and finished my shopping for another 40 mins. Go out to my car, load up, and as soon as I go to back out I hear a knock on my window. Guess who!

basically, it's code for: find a girl and poke at her to see what trauma she might have and exploit her attachment issues.

I want someone to pose as a pick up artist and dupe incels into buying a book about emotional intelligence and effective communication tactics

It's so creepy how they mention that the women in the hypothetical situations are young.

This is my comfort youtube video

Their like “she doesn’t know what she wants, she’s a child” until she consents to have sex then she’s fully capable of her own thoughts. So she’s not to be treated like an adult until you get what you want, yk…like a child.

I love how Drew’s idea of a sexual harasser is just him in a Hawaiian shirt

“What’s naughty about the top shelf” That’s where they keep the alcoholic chips drew

This may be the best I’ve heard it explained. it makes vulnerable men hate women, someone who is already lonely in the first place, and validating that women are everything wrong in his mind. Sad

I love that these guys can "predict" how a girl would respond to their pick-up lines, because one time I was at a coffee shop reading a book and this guy came up to me and asked me "do girls like androids?" (as in the phone, not the robots) and I was just so confused about what he meant that I just kept saying "what?" lmao. Needless to say, it didn't work and he just gave up and left.

I use to work with this girl who was the sweetest person I ever met. I liked how she treated people and how she could have genuine sympathy for someone she never met before. I admired her when she was going through a hard time and grieving the loss of family, how she could stay so determined and strong. Without trying, she made me want to be a better person and see the world how she saw it, because the world seemed to be a better place to her. One day after work I asked her if she wanted to go out to eat with me, and she gave me the spill that she wasn't interested in dating anyone she worked with and that she wanted to spend time out of a relationship for a while and she had a lot of stuff going on. I told her that I understood completely and just left it at that. It sucked. I was pretty disappointed, but I didn't treat her differently at work, and we didn't make it awkward. We just kept being friendly coworkers until one day after work she approached me and asked if I still happened to be interested in getting dinner some time. She told me that she hadn't stopped thinking about me asking her out, and how when she turned me down, I respectfully accepted her response and didn't hold it against her. We dated for several years and we're about to celebrate our one year wedding anniversary soon. I know all situations and people are different. But I think a lot of dudes problem when talking to women and asking them out is taking rejection personally. If you really like her and think highly of her, you wouldn't get angry if she respectfully turned you down.

7:40 I've had at least 2 men tell me I don't know how women talk when I say I can tell a movie is written by a man.

Not exactly related to the content of the video, but I just wanna mention how much I love how comfy and familiar Drew makes the vibe of his videos. He doesn't go over the top with edits, cut aways, or noise- it just feels very homey.

This feels like the maladaptive daydreaming of someone whose never actually met a girl

I hate how low my expectations are. Drew talks about treating women like human beings and I'm like, "Finally!! A really good guy!"

although womanese doesn't exist, there is an area of study in linguistics focused on how women communicate, interestingly, men communicate to gain status and women communicate to establish contact. it's called report vs. rapport, so women are actually more emotional in their conversations men also interrupt women more frequently than other men and talk more than women when in a group setting

It just dawned on me that this is why men will STILL approach you when you are sitting alone in a park with headphones on while reading a book and wearing a hat that says “leave me alone”

The tweet at 4:22 is honestly so telling. "She'll respond because it seems innocent" This is why women don't trust men they don't know. This is why when men claim they're just being friendly, we don't believe them. Any good faith we have is used against us, so we learn not to approach conversations with strange men in good faith.

“Garbage men and pickup artists should switch names” - someone in the Kurtis Conner comments

I have neurodevelopmental disability, and was taken out of school for 5 years growing up and one of these bullshit "charisma" scammers sold me on the hope that he could teach me how to be accepted

the sega sexcalation system sounds like a good console

4:18 "since it seems innocent" He's implying that his intentions aren't actually innocent, but he's pretending they are. That's so scary

"You have to be extremely aggressive in getting what you want" This is exactly why women are afraid to be alone literally anywhere, even in broad daylight. seriously what the fuck

The saddest part about this video is that he never came looking for me I spent four months in my hiding spot (underneath my refrigerator.) I just feel so betrayed.

How do you open? Easy. Grab the door handle, pull or push depending on the signage, and potentially hold it open if anyone else is walking through the doorway.

the best opening line ever: "you wanna get flirted with?" she says yes, you're in. if she says no, just finger gun away

"u see this woman vibing on the beach alone. how do you open?" i walk up to her and tap her on the shoulder n say "hey watch this" and start shovelling sand into my gob

I once left a grocery store crying, alongside an employee escort because I was minding my buisness trying to pick out a salsa when a creepy old man came up behind me and whispered RIGHT IN MY EAR "you're pretty". It's disturbing, it's unsettling, and I don't want that. No woman wants that. LET ME BUY SALSA IN PEACE

Just doing the math here: that guy who said he had 4,000+ opens would have had to harass a different girl every single day for at least 11 years to reach that number.

Alternative advice: Just be comfortable with being single. It's not nearly as bad as people make it out to be.

No Drew, you CAN hit on people in a grocery store As long as that grocery store is Whole Foods and one person buys celery while the other buys rosé

According to ChatGPT, humanity's collective answer to the first tweet is: "Excuse me, miss, but I couldn't help but notice that you're buying Doritos. What's your favorite flavor? Mine's Cool Ranch, but I'm always open to trying new things."

2:46 that is a scary representation of how i speak to real people

In extreme scenarios, these cringey pick up lines end up in murder. And that's terrifying. Edit- to all the people who got triggered with this statement, u didn't get my point at all. Being murdered for simply not having any romantic interest in a man is a terrifying reality. Those of you saying anything can lead to murder, why is it so hard to grasp that REJECTION SHOULDN'T CAUSE DEATH?? seriously yall are part of the problem.

My ex redpilled after I broke up with him. It hurt me so much to hear him talk about how much he hated all women, especially me. Anyway, I really appreciated this 20 minute video of Drew dunking on people like him, so hey thanks Drew

I like to watch this video whenever i see to many “women ☕️” comments on instagram