How to Control the Conversation - The One Powerful Strategy

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Some people attempt to command people in speeches, meetings, and simple chats by using a powerful tone of voice and a long thorough discussion.
However, this passion in speaking does not necessarily translate to persuasion.
If you are looking for a long-lasting and true empowerment of yourself, in your communications, and in your career and life... this video is for you.
Discover the one powerful strategy on how to control a conversation anytime and anywhere as advised by executive coach and mentor, Dr. Grace Lee.
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@kosinskr 2 жыл бұрын

It’s seems like asking good questions is also a good leadership skill to get better context around work those reporting to you are doing.

@barrysmith8193 Жыл бұрын

Learning how to ask better questions is skill of higher leadership. Better questions will produce better results.

@nicholass. Жыл бұрын

This is great material. Only now (after 15 years in the industry) I start to understand the meaning of it.

@paulodili751 11 ай бұрын

Dr. Grace I feel liberated by your intervention. Kudos for your formulation.

@dianamihaela9448 Жыл бұрын

It totally resonates with me as well. Thank you so much. I am captivated by what you say.

@garycummingsjr.6896 2 жыл бұрын

i would like to be passionate about what I'm saying and persuasive. I think when you really care about something it comes across as passionate.

@dianamachado2415 Жыл бұрын

Most of the time when I am in the group of people and I don't know the topic or nothing to say, I make a lot question and it is always good because I learn a lot than monopolise the conversation. I have the opportunity to listen to and improve my abilities in term of becoming a good listener.

@fckuyt3160 Жыл бұрын

The quality of this information worths gold. Thank you a lot. The authenticity of this video leverage my vocabulary. Your kindness demostrates the power behind this channel. Greetings from Colombia.

@DrGraceLee Жыл бұрын

I appreciate your support from Colombia and hope that you continue to find helpful content on the channel. Welcome to my channel!

@bendmountainbiker Жыл бұрын

Fantastic videos. Excellent. Thank you for your coaching!!

@stephena1196 6 ай бұрын

This reminded me of when I was a child: my dad would rant at us (he had mental health concerns). My sister timed it once, it went on for two hours. We found asking questions worked then too.

@rickykwokshingsun 9 ай бұрын

thank you Dr. Grace, I love what you teach, very clear

@hinkeambe1738 11 ай бұрын

Thanks very much Dr Grace.

@tumisangmogapelwa1990 2 жыл бұрын

It is genius to find the questions🙌, this is such a great truth.

@MelGph 2 жыл бұрын

Thank u for the knowledge

@mehriaalbert6263 10 ай бұрын

You are, indeed, the best. Thank you❤🙏

@Ren0799 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your valuable guidance. You don’t know how much I needed to hear this advice. Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤

@honghoangthuy3962 Жыл бұрын

Great!thank you

@chris49509 Жыл бұрын

Much appreciated

@hasanovai 10 ай бұрын

Last time I was asking questions at work I ended up being called for a private meeting where my supervisor told me that she feels disrespected when I do it. I am assuming because she didn't know the answers and it made her feel bad about herself. I left that job.

@silvershit_28 10 ай бұрын

Currently working in BPO industry, this helps a lot. Thank you!

@abrahammorales3266 Жыл бұрын

Great advice here!

@drsundipshenoy2471 2 жыл бұрын

Great Approach Madam,very helpful 👍

@germainkibad1682 12 күн бұрын

Thank you.

@tracyhoe3178 Жыл бұрын

Wonderful

@sandeepkondur6121 9 ай бұрын

You are amazing , you have deep understanding about human psychology ....

@phyllisboynton5748 2 ай бұрын

It's amazing!! Truly I appreciate your advice.

@akkumakku01 Жыл бұрын

You are doing a great job. All your videos are so insightful

@DrGraceLee Жыл бұрын

I appreciate that, Akanksha. Welcome to my channel!

@neilmoral7118 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks🌹

@palawenia2 Жыл бұрын

I love listening to you. I need to learn how to communicate effectively to my coworkers and higher managers

@DrGraceLee Жыл бұрын

Glad to have you here, Enia.

@user-gr4wm5mv5p 8 ай бұрын

Awesome channel!!

@arifnun Жыл бұрын

thank you

@dr.chinese6932 Жыл бұрын

You are next level speaker

@anujbhardwaj5753 22 күн бұрын

I resonate with this video 🎉

@user-ty3bm1kq7e 11 ай бұрын

Great video

@I_got_the_keys Жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr Grace

@DrGraceLee Жыл бұрын

You're welcome, Abdul!

@NoncedolucyNtsangani 10 ай бұрын

Great material only now

@megaworldastra-jedrodrigue7551 2 жыл бұрын

First time to watch your video. Will surely be watching more on your channel

@DrGraceLee 2 жыл бұрын

That's wonderful to hear! Welcome to my channel, Jed Rodriguez!

@kittycrow314 3 ай бұрын

yes something on those lines

@faisonfaison679 Жыл бұрын

I fox wit you Lee. ❤❤❤

@followJamesBrown Жыл бұрын

What is the video you spoke of at 9 minutes that helps us to formulate or articulate who I am by knowing who I am

@tinadefeo2145 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Your videos are very helpful. 🙂

@DrGraceLee Жыл бұрын

You're welcome, Tina!

@DanielKoch-kw6fw 6 ай бұрын

Hi Tina 🌹, good morning and also God bless you abundantly amen 🙏🍀

@janesmy6267 3 ай бұрын

I find the one who can tell the best story and logic/solution is the one with the power in the meeting lol. It’s awkward as hell when it’s not your job to provide it though lol. They always give you a scared look 👀

@phyllisboynton5748 2 ай бұрын

Yes

@anujbhardwaj5753 8 ай бұрын

Nice video

@barrysmith8193 11 ай бұрын

Anyone can ask questions. Truly successful people ask better questions. Creating a written plan before every meeting then debriefing by yourself immediately after that meeting will provide a platform that enables you to ask better questions as you go forward.

@christophergardiner5351 Жыл бұрын

Not a bad presentation. I do agree with you that he or she who is the loudest, is the most passionate, uses the greatest range of vocabulary, or drones on and on (like I'm doing right now) is not necessarily the one who controls the conversation. Absolutely. I also believe that asking questions is more powerful then giving answers as that person chooses where the conversation goes directly (though when done right, answers control it indirectly). Where I differ in belief is that performance can not control conversation, and the plan laid out for authenticity is always dependable. Good performance does much to sway others and direct attention where one wants, and we as humans will have times when we are not able to be completely calm within ourselves that we cannot be phased. That is why I believe courage is the ultimate fall back. All in all, a good lecture.

@eliciaabrahams8442 2 жыл бұрын

I love ❤️ critical thinking topic presented by you. It was wonderful, thank you, Dr. Grace Lee. You are impacting your nation 🌍 .

@DrGraceLee 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the kind words. Glad to have you here on my channel, Elicia!

@geetachaurasiya7432 Жыл бұрын

@@DrGraceLee@😊

@joshuaang9118 2 жыл бұрын

Your wisdom is sweeter than pisa. Thank you for your help

@DrGraceLee 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate it, Joshua! Welcome to my channel.

@arifnun Жыл бұрын

my opologies, Arif Nun here; I am still finding the link that you mentioned.

@arifnun Жыл бұрын

I am still new to your talk

@arifnun Жыл бұрын

Dr Grace, I have to go now. Before that your words and advice were scary but also happy and relieved. Your description the ‘loud’, talking too much and talking too long made me uncomfortable because for a moment I really got the impression that you were talking about me. Thanks Doc😊

@danielvillarreal6610 Жыл бұрын

In grad school, I used to direct softball questions to my Asian classmates that were on topics that they were likely to be knowledgeable on (“Isn’t there a concept in Buddhism that’s similar to what the journal article says?”). This would stop the show and allow them to participate. Please don’t tell Professor {REDACTED} at The University of {REDACTED}!😮

@robertrixey8447 Жыл бұрын

*TEACHABLE MOMENT🤔*

@madamhelenart Жыл бұрын

When a question is asked you are at risk that people will roll their eyes.

@arifnun Жыл бұрын

I could not locate the Link to press …

@mariosalazar5837 Жыл бұрын

❤

@sallyho146 Жыл бұрын

Lol. It happens in our meetings. We have to wait for his train of thoughts. And the answers from him are not clear. I didn’t see your link Grace

@DrGraceLee Жыл бұрын

Hi Sally, glad to have you here! If you're looking for the link for my program, you can book a call to explore more with my team here: careerrevisionist.com/application

@DanielKoch-kw6fw 6 ай бұрын

Hello say 🌹 good morning and also how are you doing today ?

@XxfreezEDxX 3 ай бұрын

I want to convince, rather than persuade.

@ets2atstruckermartin527 Жыл бұрын

that is manipulating not "control" middle-longterm comes back

@johnkaufman9075 2 жыл бұрын

Here is a way to control a 2 way conversation is to ask question(s).

@Vital_Things Ай бұрын

Understand that you bring a strategy which is good. However, I disagree on this because "Asking questions" is totally far away being a key stone to control a conversation. It really depends on situations like talking to your supervisor (or higher level like directors, ceo) or discussing with client which will make them feel questioned. It will be more dramatic within families (like son-father or wife-husband). So, I think this practice will not be helpful for the most of the daily life conversations.

@user-bv8we8ri6t Жыл бұрын

So sick and tired and feel awful to be working with this person very day .I was so depressed..I do not give this person any credit but concentrate who need to be done and do it well .I have to be ready to defend myself kind of back strapped And this kind of behaviour was unexceptionable. If that effects me Then I will send the clear message and proof this person was lie ,this kind of this behaviour have bad impact for the team and organisation,😊

@barrysmith8193 11 ай бұрын

Did you read this before posting it? It’s no surprise that you are challenged every day. Your communication skills are beyond pathetic. Don’t worry about others. Work on you first.