"1. Be a challenge, make him earn it every step of the way. 2. have a lot of self-respect. Always be your self-respecting, challenge-representing self all the time, no exceptions".
@amyjacquelineg.95415 жыл бұрын
Having good boundaries and self-respect are so important for a healthy relationship.
@Drayton6275 жыл бұрын
Sad something so fundamental has to be taught to adults nowadays.
@rebeccawilliams36715 жыл бұрын
“Don't let anyone treat you like free salsa. You are guac, baby girl. Guac.”
@gracechan30395 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Williams i love this. I also love guac
@ItsAsparageese5 жыл бұрын
@@margaritam.9118 Guac is green honey
@Rancid-Jane4 жыл бұрын
Ha, I despise both salsa and guacamole !
@starchildgoddess_33354 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Williams Lol!!
@tinasilvas29124 жыл бұрын
LMAO, that's a good one!
@vrobinson51004 жыл бұрын
My mother taught me well while I was a young woman. She told me this and more. She noticed that men were looking at me when I was too young to date, so she schooled me about men early on! RESPECT yourself! You make the choice of how it goes. You are the treasure! Thanks for sharing. My friends and I have a saying...You may be alone while waiting on the right one but, you are not lonely or desperate! Love yourself and the rest will fall in place! 😊❤️
@Lili-vn5cq5 жыл бұрын
Brian teaches women things that every mother should have taught her daughter from a young age.
@cynthiayakushev34825 жыл бұрын
Can't teach what you don't know. Momma suffered too because grandma got married at 14 and didn't learn either. Fortunately, she didn't marry again after widowhood. Oh, but my mother married 5 times, last guy, she married twice. I learned from them. A smart woman learns from other women's mistakes.
@chrissymataira5 жыл бұрын
exactly !!!!
@Lili-vn5cq5 жыл бұрын
@@rv1377 I learned one thing that brought a lot of success in my life is to be in love with myself. I do recommend you try that
@cynthiayakushev34825 жыл бұрын
@@rv1377 You might try a higher manifestation of abundance and love. Let your mind imagine it, let your heart feel everything you imagine. Talk to yourself the whole list of how it will feel. then go into public and watch what your energy automatically does for you. Feel your happiness of love inside, and your energy will exude it all around you. Don't ask anything from them, just feel their conversation and move on, go experience as many conversations as you can with others. Don't look for love, exude it and love will come to you.
@maribellasocrie5 жыл бұрын
I’m agree with Lili; that worked for me. But was really difficult to love my self with truth.simetimes we are think, yes, I love my self, I’m a very nice person but we are just waiting something else. When I found myself and when sincerely starts to think in what I want (for real) not the average things, then, this guy came to.
@Temanvideos5 жыл бұрын
his voice just so calming
@HeiseiNiin5 жыл бұрын
Honestly I listen to this channel for ASMR
@stephanieganowski5 жыл бұрын
it really is haha
@tabatatee4 жыл бұрын
Whisper to me dzaddzy😂😋
@tayyibahyussoff55145 жыл бұрын
"When a woman is a challenge has a lot of self respect and very direct about her boundaries", the second he said that I couldn't help but smile i swear he was describing me... It felt so good to be appreciated for having those qualities instead of been constantly told that you think too much of yourself or you obnoxious etc . Thank You Brian
@draganafitness98244 жыл бұрын
Don't ask from a man to say that he loves you, let him show you .
@user-dp5qi8cz1n4 жыл бұрын
Our emotions completely blinds us from thinking wisely .
@Freespiritedqueen3 жыл бұрын
As an empath, why have them at all?🙄 They don't help put food on the table or pay bills, wtf?! I have come to understand what you said and had been rejected for the first time by a younger guy I fell in love with as a middle aged woman then realized he was trash. You can't turn it off once it is activated😔.
@kuluuthappa3 жыл бұрын
@@Freespiritedqueen hhhh-hhh
@Rancid-Jane4 жыл бұрын
Great points. If girls had strong support, growing up, they would become women who were strong like those you mentioned. Sadly, too many don't and arrive in adulthood; bitter, confused and weak.
@Freespiritedqueen3 жыл бұрын
💯TRUTH
@karenwalkersginglass3 жыл бұрын
My mother taught me that a woman is worthless without a man. Thanks, mom.
@Rancid-Jane3 жыл бұрын
@@karenwalkersginglass Yikes!
@Freespiritedqueen3 жыл бұрын
@@karenwalkersginglass so did mine...she said I NEEDED one🤣!
@Freespiritedqueen3 жыл бұрын
@@karenwalkersginglass OH...you are most definitely NOT worthless😎!
@Amysbiblereads5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, following you I left my narcissist boyfriend and I have a date on Sunday with someone new! Thank you 💖💖💕
@espo18485 жыл бұрын
my daughter in law was narcissist marry for 4 months that is the end of his marriage.
@Amysbiblereads5 жыл бұрын
@@espo1848 I hope you son finds the freedom he deserves 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@MrsAngelLover5 жыл бұрын
I once dated a narc too, leaving was the best thing ever. I am so happy for you and hope everything goes well with the new man.
@Amysbiblereads5 жыл бұрын
Woohoo thank you xxx
@muffinsgow72295 жыл бұрын
How did your date go hun 💕💕
@audi5164 жыл бұрын
If he ask for time ...give him a watch!!! 😂😂😂😂😂⭐❤
@faraheluasghiri57384 жыл бұрын
Be sure it is a Rolex :p
@marylandwilliams76614 жыл бұрын
I was going to say Fossil.
@Freespiritedqueen3 жыл бұрын
@@faraheluasghiri5738 nah sis...a mickey mouse one. Don't go buying or giving them expensive ones, we keep that kind the Rolexes!😁
@LittleBambi7773 жыл бұрын
It's sad that my parents keep telling me that I should obey and do whatever they want me to do. They always tell me that how bad I am and always see the good things in others, the result is I have low self esteem. Even though I'm good looking and have many boys chase me, I don't know how to value and love myself. I tend to sell my self short because in the bottom of my heart I don't believe I deserve better. I ended up being with people who didn't love and respect me, it's just the reflection of how I feel about myself. I've learned it the hard way. P/s: Dear me, I'm sorry that it took so long but baby I love you, you deserve the best and never let anyone make you think differently.
@kritikajeffrine52745 жыл бұрын
I got my husband tht way and must say it worked. I just let my self run on my own rules, definitely not rude but the self respect worked for me. It really works no matter how u look no matter how beautiful or not so beautiful u r but darling ur self respect definitely works.
@screenwritingbeast4 жыл бұрын
kritika jeffrine
@Sue64203 жыл бұрын
How do you run on your own rules without appearing rude?
@adrianavilchez27062 жыл бұрын
@@Sue6420 good question. I would like to know too …. Cuz then you would come across as a bitch no?
@smarts12122 жыл бұрын
@@Sue6420 by being assertive instead of negative and aggressive.
@smarts12122 жыл бұрын
@@adrianavilchez2706 by being assertive instead of negative and aggressive.
@adaariina71754 жыл бұрын
Let him invest on you ( Value ). Self love , self respect ( integrity ).
@eliseenglish53154 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh! Everything I’ve heard since discovering you on KZfaq, (and buying all your Audible books, so far), is already making massive changes inside of me. Not being taught to value and respect myself growing up, (in fact quite the opposite!), I never knew how to do that. I tried and tried to, but I couldn’t do it. I didn’t know how. I just felt like I was as worthless as a piece of garbage. What you are saying seems to be like the mirroring that a healthy father would do to his daughter to teach her to love herself and to truly believe, deep in the core of her being, that she is beautiful and a deeply valuable human being, who can believe that no matter what anyone else says. Wow. My insides just resonate so deeply and feel so nurtured by hearing this stuff. It’s like an old, hard, dried out sponge having water just poured out all over it, saturating it with nurturing life. Like a dead flower coming back to life and blooming. Thank you!
@Fiiii45673 жыл бұрын
@ Elise English such a valid and beautiful comment.. I hear you completely 🤩😍
@amyb78235 жыл бұрын
I really wish I had seen this video in my younger years.(I’m not that old, 32.) I spent a lot of my 20s giving myself away to men very quickly, but it wasn’t because I was a “whore.” It was because I wanted them to like me. This video explains why every time I did that with a man, a relationship never flourished. I hope a lot of women see this video because women should know that they are valuable and worthy and shouldn’t give themselves away to just any man, especially if the only reason is because you want them to like you. Don’t do that. Love and respect yourself like this video says. Don’t give yourself away to anyone who doesn’t deserve you.
@posterb39624 жыл бұрын
your right,dear!
@Marychange4 жыл бұрын
I ditto this, Amy. I didn't do "young" very well. It took a long time to learn. These videos by Brian are really putting things in perspective.
@toriyt27144 жыл бұрын
That should be added to the questions to ask yourself, am I doing this to get something or in other words make him like me. If you ask yourself that throughout it will help you keep the balance and healthy standards.
@vitalygolubchik15354 жыл бұрын
Haha, sure ,sure .
@veronicaalmeda80144 жыл бұрын
Honestly I think it depends a lot in the man. If a man hasn't had that many experiences at all, let's say less than three, and he likes you, he won't care if you give in the first week. But men who have been with plenty and you give it to him in that same week, they will treat you like every other woman before even if he likes you. It's weird. But it's the truth
@KiahLopez4 жыл бұрын
Brian you're honestly so admirable. It's crazy how I sometimes sit back and already know everything you're explaining in these videos but still hearing it from another person is so powerful. When I watch your videos you really make me so confident in my choices. It's hard to explain and put into words. Sometimes in a hard positions you know your standards but I guess at times you can question them and watching your videos always remind me how important it is to never doubt your intuition.
@nickyclauchar11124 жыл бұрын
Men are so complicated all this makes me so exhausted.
@dsmusicbird4 жыл бұрын
Seriously!
@Mistysfedora4 жыл бұрын
👍
@nupurnpr14 жыл бұрын
Right?! And men cry that women are complicated ughh.
@denisewatford70724 жыл бұрын
@@astridkate5328 .
@moongoddess93134 жыл бұрын
He is just telling you to have some standards...its an important principle in life in general.
@azizahkastari2994 жыл бұрын
Stay classy and never accept mediocre behaviour from men. Self-respect makes no room for bs
@Freespiritedqueen3 жыл бұрын
👍🏽💯💯👏🏽
@jenniferjuneau73294 жыл бұрын
"He thinks getting her companionship requires a thumb and writing one simple sentence". Wow. Just, wow.
@Bakerygo5 жыл бұрын
Women don't believe me when I tell them that men like challenges. I hope they will believe this video. Everything said in this video is true and I've seen it happening!
@adrianavilchez27062 жыл бұрын
Can you give examples of these challenges??
@user-ww6pj4vk6p5 жыл бұрын
I don't usually leave comments on youtube but I just had to. Thank you so much for doing what you do. You have such a wise and beautiful insights regarding humans' minds and behaviours. Your words always speak so much truth and wisdom. Your voice is always calming and reassuring. You have no idea how powerful your words are, they make us so much stronger and wiser mentally, emotionally. They strengthen our faith in Ourselves again. I'm sure you have changed so many lifes for the better. Thank you very much for Empowering us all women. I truly appreciate all your effort and everything that you do.
@Marychange4 жыл бұрын
I ditto this to Brian. I couldn't have said it better.
@annefelice47914 жыл бұрын
Well said. Thank you.
@CourtneyIsGoblin5 жыл бұрын
Wait, wait... HE WASN'T INVITING ME OVER TO PLAY MONOPOLY?!!!
@djw37075 жыл бұрын
I love this!
@azraelmariani11105 жыл бұрын
Courtney Shatley 😂😂😂😂😂
@stephenridley11535 жыл бұрын
But he IS going to teach me how to play backgammon!
@TheFactsofLife2375 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@bleumoccasin3165 жыл бұрын
Laughing
@AmandaStefanin5 жыл бұрын
I love this! Thank you for the reminder to not fall into the needy trap. I started doing everything with my guy as I started falling for him and he started pushing me away. I saw your videos and reversed it, and let’s just say we are very happy now!!
@bluaurora8635 Жыл бұрын
Are you guys still happy? I have been a little needy, and trying to impress him kinda by cooking for him, giving him massages, etc., but I’m trying to pull back and wait for him to give instead of trying to please him. Hoping I can switch this.
@kathy-leew39894 жыл бұрын
Amen on the standards! My date and I are currently a bit very busy and we don't communicate as much because of our schedule (I am in class when he is free and he is working when I am free, it's a bit hard) Yesterday after 4 days of no calling, just a bit of texting, he asked if we can talk on the phone. I was busy trying to catch my train and I was not about to wait 1 hour for my next one so I told him "I am running to my train, catch you later". He said "see you later". When I got in my train I asked how long he would be awake in case we could talk but he said "I don't know". Obviously I was a bit displeased and just responded with "let me know as soon as you know". He immediately responded with "tomorrow, before noon?" And I responded with a simple "we will see". He called me today and we had a normal conversation, no passive aggressiveness, no shade, nothing. Just two people talking about their days, some plans for the future and how we missed eachother (and he initiated the "I miss you")
@wshelby832 жыл бұрын
I hope everything worked out between you two
@1LaOriental5 жыл бұрын
YES! So true Brian. Women have more power than they think over men. I LOVE this. ♥️♥️♥️
@graceannneri62165 жыл бұрын
Now I know why my bf chose me over prettier women out there. I remember he said that I am respectable and I respect him. :) Thank you Brian for this video. Your tips are all true when it comes to relationship. Of all love and relationship coach I have watch online, you are the most straightforward and realistic one. :) continue to inspire women all over the world. ♥
@barbilove16985 жыл бұрын
Always be a challenge 👍 make him earn every step of the way. Know your worth. Communicate it. Know that there are many men out there that would fight for your time & attention. Show your standards always. Do not fear being called "high maintenance" by your crush 😁 let him feel like a man, fighting for the relationship. If I have a ton of self-respect, what would I do now? Ask yourself...let thinking override feelings (my paraphrasing 😄)
@2legit2Kwit4 жыл бұрын
I love this message. All of this is so important. I have friends do the opposite of this and are miserable and depressed. Keep the self respect high ladies because we have to live with ourselves and self love is so necessary.
@santiagoscho4 жыл бұрын
In short, if he is doing level 1, don't give him level 10! 1 deserves 1
@Freespiritedqueen3 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽made that mistake, never again!
@pnkcloud4 жыл бұрын
Geez, I am going to watch this a couple dozen times to thoroughly wash my brain..it so needs this rearrangement. I was imagining myself as the goddess you were describing and it definitely feels attainable even amidst the pangs of doubt. I have been her before, with this one guy I reeally liked. For about 2 weeks I was all sass, from that clear place of knowing-not trying for his sake, or at least I thought. And then, I reverted back out of some desire to "seize the moment" (fear of abandonment) because he was so strongly coming towards me. I fell for the bedazzlement. Oh brain 🤔😂
@jodij92575 жыл бұрын
Never respond to low invest
@CailisCritterCrib5 жыл бұрын
Now I know what I've done wrong, oh... my entire life! And I've already sworn off men a few years ago because I got tired of being hurt. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, I'm sure you've helped so many people. God bless you.
@fussballnot4 жыл бұрын
This is the one male with advice for woman I really really like. Not at all condescending, doesn't try to tell us we need to contort our lives around the eccentricities or egos of men...quite the opposite, he guides us towards valuing ourselves. Thank you Brian Nox!
@amyb35854 жыл бұрын
Brian, you give such valuable, reasonable, understandable information in all your videos. What you talk about should be put into middle school curriculum and taught to ALL girls BEFORE they start getting in relationships with boys. If I had know even a fraction of this 20 years ago I could have saved myself a lot of heartache. I’m so happy to have discovered you...better late than never. Thank you for enlightening me and so many women. Lots of love to you 🥰
@eldamjanovic59895 жыл бұрын
His voice is so soothing, I want him to read me a book and or sing a song to me. His partner for sure is blessed with someone this relaxing. Sigh. I love the sound of his real name though, I wonder where it is from.
@lpprince7775 жыл бұрын
I'm in a relationship for about a year now it was very deep until I forgot myself to please his bossy attitude it didn't serve at all. At the moment when I understood I have to be the first priority I become a challenge again. Thank you Brian for making this video it helps me a lot about the confidence I have to acquire to save my relationship.
@raaven36904 жыл бұрын
Brian what you’re saying is so hard when you are so into the guy but it is still so true what you are saying. You have opened my eyes. Thank you
@31Alden3 жыл бұрын
Brian: This is, bar none, THE best video on the World Wide Web. #1 primer for young girls entering the dating minefield, as well as women of all ages. It’s never too late, Ladies, for a mind-check. On a personal note, I said “Buh-Bye” to a former love interest 6 months ago. He first attempted to ‘Friend Zone’ me. Plan B was playing the “I need space” card. Both scenarios: I shut him down and showed him the door. This video should be MANDATORY VIEWING for every female on the planet. Thank you, Brian!
@nuheilah5 жыл бұрын
Ya'll give this gentelman a medal
@suzp86275 жыл бұрын
Nohaila Eyas'sb 🥇
@kalindigor58085 жыл бұрын
Brian, being a man you are teaching these very important things to women..... I really adore you and respect a lot !! God bless you!
@rosejohnson59633 жыл бұрын
He is so real and humbling. Great Guy.
@estelleassala45255 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree. I know don't care about pleasing a guy just because he thinks he is a catch. I want actions, work. And it works for me. I have beautiful relationship with my boyfriend now. He surely proved himself. 😊
@pinkpops85754 жыл бұрын
You know what all these techniques also do to you ? Make you feel like you're failing every time some of these things do not work. As if you were not enough, and always had to work to get into a relationship or be respected and valued for who you are... Don't misunderstand me, I understand the value of these techniques and coaches, and I really appreciate it because it's accurate... I have respect for their implication. But be careful to not start feeling like you're always failing a test, as if it was your fault because you didn't know how to apply this best. Thank you, I hope you all here have a beautiful day.
@rightthewrong60504 жыл бұрын
I get it... It's just like raising a child. As A Mother, I want my Son to have everything he could ever want or need. I don't like saying no, but if I'm going to teach him how to be a well-rounded, Man, with a healthy way of thinking and treating people. I know I must tell him no sometimes and allow him to work hard for certain things he may want. I try to enstill the idea of "Once you walk out that front door, no one will treat you like your Mother has. You'll have to earn and show respect and give and show appreciation to others before they trust or Love you..." That's my job as A Mother. To be a great Teacher to my Son or any child I may know. Like my Nephews. It's also my job as an Auntie. We adults have to build a great foundation and set our children up for success!
@annefelice47914 жыл бұрын
That's an interesting way to explain it. Thank you.
@conejita71mx4 жыл бұрын
Brian, congratulations! This is by far the best video i've watched in years regarding to relationships. I thank you so much and appreciate the effort you constantly put in all the work you do. You give us the tools to build amazing relationships and to always show that we respect and love ourselves above anytbing else. I've improved so much my behavior in general and definitely my love life has changed for the better since i started watching this kind of videos. God bless you Brian... 👏👍
@SM-JIL Жыл бұрын
My father would always give me great advice similar to this and after he passed away a few years ago, I didn’t have anyone to remind me. Thanks!
@sydluvsdepechemode5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'm in love and normally put a man first. I'm remembering to put my life, my job, my happiness first. It's paying off because I see more effort to show me I'm valued. Respecting myself helps show that I'm not co-dependent or a door mat. I'm worth respect and effort.
@emmajane-fandom5 жыл бұрын
And One After Midnight yes!
@spacecat62523 жыл бұрын
Where are these guys who wrestle tigers and spend an entire paycheck to fly to see me? Haha 😂
@adrianavilchez27062 жыл бұрын
They don’t exist 😂😂😂
@BCCanadaRes4 жыл бұрын
I ❤️ your videos. You have such a unique, communicable, deep way of getting your message across. They make me GET IT. And such important content. You're helping the world to value and experience true love. Very admirable.
@kls97105 жыл бұрын
The one with the least interest holds the power. This is how I got engaged after the break up. I did not call or try to contact him. 10 days later he contacted me and proposed. Sadly he told me I can't eat, I can't sleep, life has no meaning without you. It was all about him, not a word about how wonderful I was.
@violet68484 жыл бұрын
Omg you are really the best. I fell for a “low investment, inconsiderate punk” 😶 never again
@zoraidacastro54032 жыл бұрын
JUST ONE???
@kishajohnson19624 жыл бұрын
You probably have heard this before but love so much when you pronounce your name, such a beautiful name 😊
@susanmalombo82845 жыл бұрын
Do men like Brian still exist?
@chicachica24104 жыл бұрын
Can we be a challenge even in our marriage? Sometimes our spouses forget our value
@lovebeyondthemoon52323 жыл бұрын
yes and start going out dressing sexy (clsssy) without him
@hwago1233 жыл бұрын
If you’re trying to constantly play games with him and test him, if that’s what you mean by “challenge”, I doubt any man in his right mind will want to stick around.
@hwago1233 жыл бұрын
@@lovebeyondthemoon5232 why? To try and make him jealous?
@lisasunshine76543 жыл бұрын
I would say that the short answer here is, yes. Marriage actually requires the same or MORE respect over the long haul. It’s not a stopping point.
@songlyrics31015 жыл бұрын
I have a long distance boyfriend, and I know I have shown him how I like him so much. I always make time for him, telling him that I aways missed him, and everything. But just last night, I was hurt. This is not the first, but I always believe his explanation and accept his apology. He asked not to talk to me because he got some problem and he wants to be alone but he promised to make it up for me. I understand he has problem and wants some space, but the thought hurts me that he asked me some space. I feel bad about myself. Am I not a good companion for him? Am I rather a disturbance for him ? Can I not make him forget his problem? He keeps on saying he loves me and I Iove him so much. But, I just blocked him. This video is just right for me, if he don't need me, why would I stay for him. Now that he ask for space, I gave him all that - forever. It's painful, and I will miss him alot, but I have to let him go. He doesn't worth my time, so much for my love. I deserve better. ... but still this is he'll so painful. Part of me wants him back, but the other have had enough. I had already cried for him, and will never cry again... hopefully
@jolieo78jonas5 жыл бұрын
Be strong x
@user-li9ut3mw1b5 жыл бұрын
I understand your pain . I have been in same situation as you . It hurts you very bad . But it will go away be strong
@songlyrics31015 жыл бұрын
@@user-li9ut3mw1b Right. I hate myself. I fail. Hhh he tested me back and ask for apology. I don't know but I can't let him go. I don't want to regret it. For now I'll keep him with me, I'll just accept whatever happens later. I just love him. It's true you're out of control if it's about love. We're now back together. Thanks for the reply. Appreciated it.
@jolieo78jonas5 жыл бұрын
@@songlyrics3101 I'm happy for you, and what not a little jealous because I wish I can see the guy that i just fell in love with around xmas. He just broke up with me and I'm pregnant by him he dont want the baby and I'm not ready to be a mum I'm so scared and sick.. he said if I abort the baby he will see me again.. he is a liar!
@songlyrics31015 жыл бұрын
JOLIE Bee Im sorry to hear that. If someone leave us dont come back, that means they dont deserve our love. Dont worry, you will find someone better. Who knows the reason is you prayed for the best person, and he is not. Gog knows always the best for us. Just believe, everything will be fine.
@jasminej62814 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this and reminding us even when we catch a feeling we still need to remind ourselves not to make it too easy for him. Bit hard but it's worth it.
@schneeroseful5 жыл бұрын
Hi Brian, standards and self-respect are important, but can you get more into detail on how to be a challenge and still show availability so the guy does not loose interest thinking the Girl is not interested?
@cubbylax36965 жыл бұрын
Yeah we need that please
@Drayton6275 жыл бұрын
Read the book called "The Rules".
@hfrady90205 жыл бұрын
@@cubbylax3696,
@hfrady90205 жыл бұрын
,
@kalondumakau2684 жыл бұрын
@@Drayton627 who's the author?
@tulikasahadpsbopal8444 жыл бұрын
Hey! I have been married for 27 years but I love watching your videos. Having always been in an all girls school, I didn't understand much about guys. Mine is a more or less arranged marriage. I sometimes use your advice in my marriage too.
@a.marvellehoneyman45603 жыл бұрын
How’s your arranged marriage going? I’m so intrigued by that. ❤️
@tulikasahadpsbopal8443 жыл бұрын
@@a.marvellehoneyman4560 Oh its good! I'd be lying if I said it was smooth sailing. I think it's the mental preparedness. We go in with very low expectations from our partners. The guy works to earn a living and the girls takes care of the house and kids. If the girl works, then tasks get divided.
@zemiyac.29494 жыл бұрын
I seriously want to see a video with you and Matthew Hussey. You guys taught me so much. Thank you!
@raqhitawilliams60694 жыл бұрын
I have watched 3 of your videos today. They were very effective in helping me to understand where I have been going wrong. Thank you for your gentle delivery of the facts along with clear examples. Many talk about this subject but they are just not believable. Thank you again Brian Knox.
@marinaostroumova86434 жыл бұрын
Thanks, this video just boosted my confidence back as I was about to loose it! Back to normal now. Cheers!
@nadousha225 жыл бұрын
Strange! I texted a guy yesterday saying hi ans hope all is well he never replied till a few hours ago. He replied but I felt zero investment. Thank goodness I had the presence of mind to tell myself you know what he isnt interested or playing games and in general his text does not deserve you to write hik back.
@GothPopTV5 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, you know everything now
@linaazmiin74795 жыл бұрын
than what happened did he texted u again
@monalizasayon68745 жыл бұрын
Been watching videos like this and you gave the most mature advice so far. Thanks! I needed to hear this.
@PatriciaJKamel5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being such a great influence .
@peziki5 жыл бұрын
You are so good at descriptive euphemisms.... very humorous and enlightening. You make me chuckle and have a great manner of delivering the point to your discussion. Many thanks.
@emilywilliams74325 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, this is exactly what I need to hear right now.
@MejgJanssenTV5 жыл бұрын
Geert, it’s hilarious how you incorporate turtles and tigers into relationships 💪🏻. LOVE IT😃
@GodIsLove73773 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so soothing.
@joynieves86975 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Brian .. You always speaks the truth .. I heard this kind of advice from my grandma its classic but never gets old.. Now , I am happily married with my husband.
@priyak25755 жыл бұрын
You are the best sir! I owe you... God bless you.
@Love-qd8hk4 жыл бұрын
Now I watch all your videos Brian. 😁 I feel like were talking in person and you're giving me lessons. Your voice is so comforting esp what im feeling right now. You gain a subscriber 😊
@quickgirl803 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this valuable information. I messed up. I’ll start over with another, but first, focus on myself & my goals.
@senoritamesh89165 жыл бұрын
I strongly agree. Not making any effort no way go away from me! Hahahahaha it happened to me although his good looking dude but not make any effort who are you?!! Lol “ chatting with him” Him: you wanna meet? Me: let me see on Saturday after my hiking! Him: okay. “ the next day” Him: Saturday I can’t meet, Friday I can. Me: nope do your things Goodluck! Him:okay “ end of story” Lol 😂 Watching from Australia Love your vid B 🥰😘💖🙏
@mae88b.165 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Flores 😂😂😂
@florr7565 жыл бұрын
Lol. How about next time you let the man go the extra mile to choose the day and then you say yes or no. Just saying
@DetectiveHouse5 жыл бұрын
That’s a little rude, don’t you think? I don’t know what the whole context of your conversation with him was, or what relationship you have with him, but from what you posted I have to say your response to him seems rather rude, demanding and immature. Sometimes you have to give someone a chance or the benefit of the doubt. A family function/emergency could have come up for him on Saturday. Do you expect him to cancel that and wait around for you to let him know whether or not you are bothered to meet him after your hike?
@senoritamesh89165 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha just shut up cos u don’t know okay so don’t comment! U are rude here comment without knowing and I don’t have time to tell you the whole story so just shut up! Hahahahaha
@Evettecord5 жыл бұрын
Elle Kay If he was interested, he would’ve showed up. Interested men show up, we never need to make excuses for them
@sweetheart1312554 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Love Aboriginal Australia 🖤💛❤️
@giseleasseo98295 жыл бұрын
Thanks Brian, always very helpful! Stay blessed!
@mistynight1235 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these brilliant videos.
@gglin55953 жыл бұрын
you are amazing ! thank you so much for teaching me as a high value woman , I used to be a door mate to him , he treated me like a shit and meanness, I want to change...
@user-nm1ch3hg2z4 жыл бұрын
You don't need to thank us for watching... We Thank you!! for all of this important and crucial knowledge that you share so simply with us!! Really helpful.!!
@MK-zo3zk5 жыл бұрын
Excellent! I've been telling my kids this for years!
@texaseregistered34633 жыл бұрын
I love his advice that I press the 👍 button, watch his videos to the end and watch all his ads plus bought his book on amazon. That’s how I appreciate his wisdom🥰🙏
@sheenatran26003 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian for your education to teach us women to be better ourself and prevent a lot of heart ache in the future God bless you Brian.
@nataliatothemoon4 жыл бұрын
The way you lay it out clear as day is the best way to convey these crucial guidelines to our life
@gglin55953 жыл бұрын
you are my saviors for being a doormate to a toxic man. thank you so much for making this subject...i have learned what your message is to us ! very very accurate ! 🖒🖒🖒🖒
@jelizabethpetrie66563 жыл бұрын
Brian is highlighting the roadmap and driving you to the destination…Society has become stupid…but not men. (married 33+ years & own a (logistics) trucking firm, so listened n watched mens lives & comments for 3 decades-🙌)
@debwright31904 жыл бұрын
👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽Thanks! For the knowledge and support Brian. Some people are raised up, some are dragged up, and some are beaten down. It's good having access to videos with sound advice, and good common sense, that's not so common.😘😘😘
@sylvier3335 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian. Just in time. Très apprécié.
@sutapadey39403 жыл бұрын
You talk my mind.. appreciate your efforts in helping high quality women 👍
@Aris-Darling5 ай бұрын
This is SUCH a good video and advice.. I always put my needs before theirs (considering this is a man I barely know no matter how hard he makes my heart beat), and I always leave with my self-respect intact, and I garner respect from men. They only seem to try harder to make me like them..
@josephinekomen9473 Жыл бұрын
The BEST advice ever, thank you Brian.
@suzannebrady62014 жыл бұрын
I love your videos ! I especially love that you keep it classy and don’t have the need to use foul language❤️❤️ . Thank you !
@susan8sul5 жыл бұрын
I love you Brian knox . you are such a genius. thank you for your wise and informative videos
@NurHidayah-te2wq4 жыл бұрын
Excellent video! I see so many women indiscriminately accepting "friend request" on FB from men until they have thousands of male friends. To seek attention, to gain popularity, etc... Then the virtual hearts and kisses start coming in from the wolves with every post she makes on her timeline, and gradually she reciprocates with hearts of her own. Then it's a chat onf FB messenger, then it's a date, not aware she 's turning herself into a low-value woman. I wish more women would watch this video!
@vn95515 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I’ve been doing so many wrong things lately 😥
@simplymarilyn52955 жыл бұрын
So ladies....let's remember to always be a challenge! That's what keeps them interested.
@lydiajkessi31284 жыл бұрын
I dnt believe in this stuff what abt After marriage it is impossible to stay a challenge for ever u need to choose a good guy
@veronicaalmeda80144 жыл бұрын
@@lydiajkessi3128 And that's why women divorce lol. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. I live in Denmark where there are more divorces than marriages and marriages don't last over 4 years on average. Many of these tips is only to play the mouse and the cat game and the fact that you can't be yourself and have to pretend to be a "challenge" just tells you everything you need to know about the dating scene. Reason why more and more women are only caring lately if the guy is 6 feet tall at least and has a house, a car and a stable job. Otherwise is a waste of time.
@gracechan30395 жыл бұрын
Maybe I’m just listening to this at the perfect time but I this is the best relationship advice I’ve ever heard. I watched all my videos and you helped me get my self esteem back
@kerrypatrick12555 жыл бұрын
You make so much sense. Thank you
@sjgbrighton3 жыл бұрын
So helpful as I am working on improving my boundaries. Thanks ☺️
@AngelicSunFlame5 жыл бұрын
What if it is love at 1st sight? An overwhelming feeling of love and need for this person? Literally happened and I am not a dating type. Never actually have. I was with my husband for 21 yrs from age 18. He passed 3 months ago and I knew for a fact there would never be another man that would compare nor would I ever want one. 3 months of the darkest days of my life. My 14 yr old boyfriend who I briefly dated and his parents moved him away in the middle of the night recently found me. Like 2 weeks ago. He found me and my brother. It’s been 25 yrs. I had no interest and barely remembered him. I was out saying hi because my brother insisted saying it was rude of I didn’t. I started crying over my husband. My brother and this man are consoling me and telling me it’s ok and I’m not alone and my husband will always be here with me. Then this man says God brought me back to you for a reason. I looked up at him and thought wow. And cried harder. I then went inside and I instantly had this feeling that I said I felt as though I know him, I love him, I need him. I want him in my life. It’s crazy and ridiculous. I thought maybe I have PTSD. Well I started texting him after we all hung out the next day. I decided to tell him what happened and how I feel. I was already feeling like he felt the same because it appeared he was with me, texting me and not my brother. He was showing respect for my husband and my kids. This dude is amazing. So I started being a little flirty. I started saying things to let him know he was amazing, attractive, and I wanted him in my life forever. Finally after days of flirting he calls me to tell me about his job because he is moving back home where we live. Currently he lives 4 hrs away. We get off the phone and he texts me to tell me my voice is so hot. That’s the first time he ever actually said anything although I could feel his feelings. I told him exactly how I feel and he says he has loved me for 25 yrs and he wants to never have me not in his life again. He wants to be with me forever. I feel the same. Like what has happened? This is all a matter of 2 weeks, maybe 2 and 1/2! We r now planning to move in together!! He had his own career and I have mine. Pretty equal. We both went paralyzed from 2 different incidents and had to learn to walk again. We are madly In love and the only kiss we ever had was our first kiss at 14!! What is this! Are we both crazy?!! Have we both lost our minds???!!
@linaazmiin74795 жыл бұрын
awnn thats such amazing story
@annefelice47914 жыл бұрын
That is rare, beautiful, and blessed. I am very happy for you. God bless.