I was raped a few months back and it's the cause of my second pregnancy. I'm 6, almost 7 months now and I don't eat. Maybe a piece of fruit and tons of water a day. I never gained more than 100 pounds, I'm 120, now and I know it won't harm the fetus because it gets it's nutrients from my placenta. Not my stomach.

If you ever need someone to talk to I’m always available ♥️

wine mom 810 same.... I’m so scared. I’m almost so scared that I’ve thought about lying about not being able to get pregnant and pretending to take my IUD out.

Yes! I am one of those! That now I am afraid of going out with my fat instead of flat belly! But I thank God for giving such a mysterious gift ever! I am getting used to it and enjoying it!

Did you get kids? ☆

how are you doing now love?

How did you end up going? ❤️

maeg fry I've had an eating disorder since I was 11 and now I am 28 I have 2 kids and another on the way and it is one of the best things that I have done and scariest because of the fear of the weight gain during pregnancy and believe it or not I liked my body more after my first child and you learn to love yourself more because of what your body has gone through to bring a beautiful child into the world... My eating disorder was bad in my first pregnancy and it was good in my 2nd one and now that it's my 3rd one it's harder again but I've learned that now that I've had kids I've become better with how I view food and my body there are always ways around having a healthy pregnancy without gaining much weight go to a dietician and eat healthy and exercise don't let this fear of weight gain interfer with your chances of becoming a mother it's never to late and when you become a mother nothing else matters because you will get there and learn weight isn't everything being healthy is I know it's hard to accept the changes in your body because you have no control over what is happening to your body but you can learn how to eat healthy but you can get there believe in yourself and achieve it, its one of the best things you can ever do good luck with things😄

I understand this... I want children to, but it's horrifying to feel out of control. 😞

maeg fry I relate. It’s so scary. I’m afraid it will kill me, but I also don’t want to not do something simply because of my stupid eating disorder. I don’t want to look back and think food had that much control over me.

Natural roots and herbs are best remedies which can help beat infertility, pcos/pcod , I suffered pcos and had hair loss unable to get pregnant then I decided to try natural herbs from dr Onosetale on KZfaq who helped me beat infertility permanently! Now I have my baby boy and I’m so happy........

To have children one first has to fix underlying problems w/ their mental, emotional, and physical health. Choose yourself over your eating disorder now, by seeking help 🌸

You Poor dear, how are you now??? We’re you able to find help?

"Too big to be diagnosed w/an ED"? WTF?

Well there's no shame or guilt. You've got an eating disorder, it's not your fault. x

Me too, sometimes I feel like losing my mind

@@melissas8721 I hear you and I feel for you..,🤗💞 It's the most amazing/difficult/petrifying time... Keep holding on (even through the really dark days) and make sure you surround yourself with people who understand it and what it's like, especially your medical team... Unfortunately I didn't have this during my pregnancy and it made it excruciatingly hard (I was involuntarily hospitalised from 29 weeks cos bub was measuring small and I'd hardly put on any weight), however, carried to term and delivered a healthy baby. You've got this! 🌷💞🙏

@@aussiewarriorwithbpd9380 thank you so much for your comment! What you say is so true, it's so important to have a good support system.

@@melissas8721 You're more than welcome, hope you're doing ok? 💕🌺

majalind if you ever need someone to talk to I’m always here for you. I uploaded a video about this too

majalind how are you doing now?

How was your pregnancy?

Hey I’m sorry i didn’t see any replies until now, it went ok, had more ED thoughts during pregnancy than after. I think for me having my daughter and knowing she relies on me and will learn from me and notice little things if i engage in ed behavior she will notice. So it’s helped me alot. But of course inside I still have bad body image , but working on it. My pregnancy was 100% healthy (Personally I’m vegan) my daughter came out 9.8lbs. Follow danaemercer, she and pages like her that she engages with a lot have also helped me to work on my mental state about body image. 🌼 Need any advice or support I’m here.

@@mlind-je5jn Thank you so much ... for me it's my unhealthy relationship with food. I'm barely eating and when I do morning sickness is a toll, so I'm really concerned about the health of the baby

Natural roots and herbs are best remedies which can help beat infertility, pcos/pcod , I suffered pcos and had hair loss unable to get pregnant then I decided to try natural herbs from dr Onosetale on KZfaq who helped me beat infertility permanently! Now I have my baby boy and I’m so happy........

32 and it is hitting me again after 8 years. I used to deal with it in early 20s. But yes older people get it too.

I have so many tantrums i want my baby out of me i hurt so bad my bones and my ED problems 😢

katiesbooks if you ever need someone to talk to I’m always available.

Your body may need a little more time to heal, love. Be kind to yourself, that is super important ❤

And if you’re already trying to get pregnant make sure you are taking your prenatals. Prenatals realistically should be taken before trying to conceive because our bodies use a lot of the nutrients that were stored in our body over the last 1.5 - 2 years. That’s one reason why doctors ask you to wait 18 months after having a baby before getting pregnant again. Because while pregnant the baby takes up a lot of folic acid! And other nutrients too. So especially if you’re less than two years since your ED was active, then it may take a little more time/nutrients for your body. I hope that made sense! And I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers! P.s. : The prenatals you choose to take are important too. They should have DHA and you should also take iron if iron is not in your daily vitamin regimen. Babies take a lot of our iron/blood!