Law of Attraction: 3 Things that Attract Men 50 and Up! | Engaged at Any Age | Jaki Sabourin

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Engaged at Any Age

Engaged at Any Age

6 жыл бұрын

Jaki’s on a mission to coach as many women as possible into a meaningful relationship. That’s why she’s opened her Inner Circle to help you navigate the journey from dating to SOULMATE LOVE! Read more and join here: bit.ly/gifttojoin
Men over 50 and up do want different things from women. This video touches on the law of attraction and will empower you if you are dating over 50!
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Jaki Sabourin was voted “Best Female Relationship Expert” by her peers. Jaki is a Coach, Speaker, Author, and the CEO of Engaged at Any Age®. Jaki’s company, Engaged at Any Age, is more than a ‘love brand.’ It is a sanctuary for high-value women who are ready to awaken their feminine power to create the life and relationship of their dreams! Jaki’s wit and no-nonsense attitude have guided thousands of her clients to empower themselves so they can create meaningful, healthy relationships.
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@peaceandlove544
@peaceandlove544 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of divorced men and widows just want to relax, laugh, have a nice home-cooked meal, they want to feel they are fun, listened to and supported and needed in not a needy way.
@evamaria644
@evamaria644 4 жыл бұрын
Amen! It's not that complicated
@earlwilliams5473
@earlwilliams5473 4 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head. I want to be in love with my best friend. Share life with.
@peaceandhumanity5705
@peaceandhumanity5705 3 жыл бұрын
@@earlwilliams5473 Hi Can we talk?
@brentmiller4467
@brentmiller4467 3 жыл бұрын
Am also looking for true love,but it's so hard to find?
@brentmiller4467
@brentmiller4467 3 жыл бұрын
Am also looking for true love,but it's so hard to find?
@jackwalker1822
@jackwalker1822 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 65. I want a woman who is on my side. Not against me. Very supportive and encouraging and helpful. And yes you made some very good points.
@carolinegatakaa1286
@carolinegatakaa1286 Жыл бұрын
Hi
@kelleo9213
@kelleo9213 Жыл бұрын
I love your beard🥰
@jessicadjonne2687
@jessicadjonne2687 Жыл бұрын
I know what you mean, so many women have a bad attitude towards their man and it’s shocking to me! Home should be the place where your most comfortable, relaxed, excited, joyful, playful, appreciated and loved.
@alicewangari1302
@alicewangari1302 10 ай бұрын
Hey
@laurencenabbs4535
@laurencenabbs4535 3 жыл бұрын
People can be old yet have young souls. Two people who get on well together who have both young souls, that's beautiful.
@sethdanse8581
@sethdanse8581 2 жыл бұрын
That’s true that is why I chose to be with a matured lady from stress and games, they love the best and I want to be the one you can give your love and heart too and be treated like a queen you are always
@Jennifer-di4nl
@Jennifer-di4nl 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 43 dating a 54 yr old man and I've never been happier. He likes my intelligence and hes so romantic. It's so drama free and relaxed. He said I'm teaching him how to appriciate life again.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 3 жыл бұрын
That's awesome, I'm so happy for the two of you! I'd love to have you in our Ladies Club Facebook group where we share our wins and discuss how to grow with your partner. facebook.com/groups/engagedatanyageladiesclub
@Jennifer-di4nl
@Jennifer-di4nl 3 жыл бұрын
@@EngagedAtAnyAge Definitely will check it out. There are some pointers I could use maybe your group could help! Thank u!
@joannephillips6781
@joannephillips6781 Ай бұрын
I’m 63 dating a 80 year old man. We are having a very nice time together with lots of laughter.
@goodtalker
@goodtalker 2 жыл бұрын
Sometime along what I call "The Road Less Traveled" I discovered that I'll settle for peace rather than trying to be a happy person. I will be sixty soon, have retired but still work part time at a hardware store, have a friend in my life who is about 15 years younger than me, and I have to tell you, I have never had this much joy. I have come around to a God of my own understanding and have let go of the fear of the future and the regret of the past. The woman in my life knows that it is simply age and experience that makes men, by and large, better as they age....I am blessed. Thanks for reading.
@ansel9466
@ansel9466 3 жыл бұрын
As a man over 50, this woman is about 50% right. You are better off trusting your own instincts than listening to her.
@askew9976
@askew9976 2 ай бұрын
I’m 47 and widowed. I hung around with a guy, 8 years older, for 3 years. Nothing but games. Still at that age. I’m looking for maturity. Intellectual maturity, living independently, employed. I love hugs and long talks. I’m not up for playing games. I was with the same person for 20 years. I’d rather be alone than play games.
@LisaGemini
@LisaGemini 5 жыл бұрын
You're right, Jaki. A lot of older people do think they know it all and are very cynical. I believe that learning is lifelong. Even if I'm not gonna marry a guy, I'm sure I can learn a few things from him. It is important to be open-minded.
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Lisa that’s so good of you 😊
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year hope this year bring joy to all Americans and all over the world 🌎
@dorisjones7959
@dorisjones7959 6 жыл бұрын
Great information and as a youthful woman of 74 who is dating again it is very true about older men.
@annwrog
@annwrog Жыл бұрын
I do so hope you are right as I am 68 and contemplating dating again after 10 years of widowhood. I have not even been trying to meet any men up until now. Everyone tells me I'm very funny, smart, and intelligent, so I hope these things are true!🙏 Wish me luck!
@theShelou14
@theShelou14 3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is 55 and I am 25. We can talk all day long and spiritually we are on the same plane. We have many of the same hobbies and passions in life. We can sit and give eachother crap all day long. I will tell you I have never met someone like him once in a lifetime ❤️
@BellambiFredRoberts
@BellambiFredRoberts 3 жыл бұрын
Eye roll and yawn. Literally whatever. Rofl
@loveeware6442
@loveeware6442 2 жыл бұрын
Thats great to have good communication
@louiscyfer6944
@louiscyfer6944 2 жыл бұрын
he likes a chubby wubby?
@a.d.b535
@a.d.b535 6 жыл бұрын
Don't negotiate spiritual values
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 жыл бұрын
Always accept yourself!
@a.d.b535
@a.d.b535 6 жыл бұрын
J OneLife Better not get sick and lose weight or you'll be on your own.
@CorneliaMu
@CorneliaMu 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. it is true!
@billsmith1965
@billsmith1965 4 жыл бұрын
Most women's spiritual values are that they should get the sole and complete benefit. This ignores the reality that it takes 2 parties to make any relationship work, not just a perfect man.
@billsmith1965
@billsmith1965 4 жыл бұрын
@J OneLife I would take a thin woman in a heartbeat if she had a good attitude. Looking like you could be on a magazine is not necessary in the slightest, though I have found having a good attitude is harder for many women than staying or regaining a reasonably thin look, however hard that may be.
@earthgirl2629
@earthgirl2629 3 жыл бұрын
I was asked out by a 75 year old and I'm 52. I think I really want to date him. He is so handsome and I love his conversation. I love your show, you make me feel so much better. I really hope he ask again, because I'm going to say yes, I really hope I see him again.
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@kalilaterrell5644 3 жыл бұрын
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@kalilaterrell5644
@kalilaterrell5644 3 жыл бұрын
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@kalilaterrell5644 3 жыл бұрын
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@johnballard6725
@johnballard6725 2 жыл бұрын
Take the plunge and ask him out? As he clearly likes you already there's no fear of rejection which we men face on a daily basis!
@dallismiller6319
@dallismiller6319 5 жыл бұрын
All of it boils down to just finding something that works no matter the age.
@sethdanse8581
@sethdanse8581 2 жыл бұрын
and can I be that something you looking for in a man
@moiczyk
@moiczyk 2 жыл бұрын
Anyone else reminded of the old preschool TV show “Romper Room” when people who do lives say hello to the viewers LIKE: Hi Laura, hi Carrol hi Jeanne, hi Susie!
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 2 жыл бұрын
It’s important to me that I make connects with the ladies that show up live. Curious why you’re trying to be critical?
@rhondarose8180
@rhondarose8180 6 жыл бұрын
I think women tend to take care of themselves more as we get older and men seem to give up on style and grooming
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 жыл бұрын
:-) Not all men, but I understand where you're coming from Rhonda
@jspprn7767
@jspprn7767 6 жыл бұрын
Rhonda Rose - True.
@LucaB0830
@LucaB0830 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@MissHannah2036
@MissHannah2036 6 жыл бұрын
unfortunately some men have no idea, it doesn't come easy to everyone, some people have a sense of style when some people have no idea....I find the more educated or higher up the professional ladder they are the more stylish they will be as they understand how much presentation matters. It's not really that hard to get a decent hair-cut, shave if necessary and get a nice pair of jeans, shirt, belt and matching shoes..to wear at least on a date ;)
@elvap1457
@elvap1457 6 жыл бұрын
Rhonda Rose 0
@geraldbrienza4474
@geraldbrienza4474 5 жыл бұрын
Not one word about sex. The number one thing the guy is interested in.
@angelaoliver7776
@angelaoliver7776 5 жыл бұрын
I think that she diplomatically covered that with "Romance" but at this age seriously we are all adults here, we can state the obvious. Men and women still want intimacy in some form or another.
@geraldbrienza4474
@geraldbrienza4474 5 жыл бұрын
Angela Oliver : “Romance” and “intimacy” not withstanding, as a rule, sex is a different from a mans perspective and that crevasse only widens as women get older. Tell me you don’t know several women in long term relationships where the man has left for the notorious “younger women.” Well, he did not “leave” for a younger women (generally,) yes, he normally winds up with a younger women, but that’s not the “why.” He leaves for sex, that’s the “why.”
@mariedina625
@mariedina625 5 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't say that because there are many that are important. some just want companionship.
@LucaB0830
@LucaB0830 5 жыл бұрын
Marie Dina Did you mean impotent?
@mariedina625
@mariedina625 5 жыл бұрын
@@LucaB0830 I did. My fingers move across the key board after than my brain can see it...smile. Life is still good. Isn't it?
@MissHannah2036
@MissHannah2036 6 жыл бұрын
It's a double edged sword. I've dated and chatted to a couple of 50-53 yo men in the last few weeks, one had never been married with no kids, was flakey, couldn't pin him down to a day and kept moving the time around. Another admitted he had trouble with emotional connection and another was out right saying he didn't want to get into a relationship just because he was afraid to be lonely - then why are we even talking. Seems as we they get older they acquire even more baggage, become more set in their ways with less of a view of moving outside of their comfort zone. The longer these men are single the more set in their ways they become and the more jaded they become and we've got online dating to thank for that..
@kimdiedrich9712
@kimdiedrich9712 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@1969bogdi
@1969bogdi 5 жыл бұрын
But the baggage thing is valid for women as well..
@billsmith1965
@billsmith1965 5 жыл бұрын
The baggage is in spades for women. Not sure how you find a truly faithful one at this age. Easier to find a unicorn.
@joycejackson9315
@joycejackson9315 5 жыл бұрын
MissHannah2036 remember what miss Jackie said sometimes as we age we get set in our ways. open your mind. and don't be to picky. I think that's what I got put of her talks. :)
@margaretmiller4718
@margaretmiller4718 5 жыл бұрын
It's tiresome honestly having to be some perfect person that's bs
@heatherwheeler828
@heatherwheeler828 4 жыл бұрын
i am 37 the guy that is into me is 55 i guess age dont matter as long as they treat u right and love u for who u are right i want a real man
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Heather 👋
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎
@BellambiFredRoberts
@BellambiFredRoberts 3 жыл бұрын
Heather Wheeler, you 30-something yr olds all eventually want babies. And more importantly cashed up men. I see this all the time and the 50-something old men get cat-fished every single time.
@KidCity1985
@KidCity1985 2 жыл бұрын
How's it going?
@lacygorman9154
@lacygorman9154 2 жыл бұрын
How about a video on what women over 50 are looking for?
@jeannena100
@jeannena100 6 жыл бұрын
I am considering putting those several qualities on my POF dating site profile =Jaki told us men want- no Rigid thingking and don't think you know it all / A woman who is curious / physically active, etc. Thank you, Jaki!
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Jaki is right Jeanne,
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year Jeanne, hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎
@adriennevanstaden9460
@adriennevanstaden9460 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully said....nobody teaches you how to be a widow...so it is a learning process....nice to listen to all these talks.
@delaliafewu4761
@delaliafewu4761 5 жыл бұрын
This is amazing lecture. Things you talk about are facts I'm looking up to in women Wonderful presentation. Bravo !
@gardnerhappy2114
@gardnerhappy2114 5 жыл бұрын
They are looking for a twenty year old or a nurse with a purse, cook, cleaner and someone to wait on them. No thanks I like being single.
@jerrypeukert5732
@jerrypeukert5732 5 жыл бұрын
Gardner Happy Really?
@zenepseville6823
@zenepseville6823 5 жыл бұрын
Haha true
@dionbrooks4981
@dionbrooks4981 4 жыл бұрын
Yep . U would love to take care of me too... Go get my diaper..lol
@suzannepresler9650
@suzannepresler9650 4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree! And spot on with the "nurse with a purse"! I just broke up with a dude that was exactly that and he is two years younger than me. Although I would really like to find a man to do stuff with. I have been single for too long and I can't bring my dog everywhere.
@lifeslessons9889
@lifeslessons9889 3 жыл бұрын
Gardner Happy . How negative! What are you doing ON HERE then ! Who are you trying kid .
@shanbrown7930
@shanbrown7930 6 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately in my experience I’ve found most men over 50 want a woman UNDER 40.
@velvetsimmons9513
@velvetsimmons9513 6 жыл бұрын
Shan Brown TRUST AND BELEİVE, İTS TRUE. HOÜEVER, ÜHY WOULD A MATURE ÜOMAN ÜANT A MAN ÜHOSE NOT AGE EQÜAL OR ON YOUR LEVEL OR ABOVE İN UNDERSTANDİNG HOÜ TO APPRECİATE YOU İN ANY RESPECT?? MEN İN THİS MİNDSET, MAY BE AFRAİD AND TAKE RHE EASY AND UNKNOÜİNG
@jamesdavies542
@jamesdavies542 5 жыл бұрын
Not me I can assure you, women around my age are awesome 👏 plus older women are intelligent, emotionally mature, passionate, have awesome listening skills
@shanbrown7930
@shanbrown7930 5 жыл бұрын
James Davies Where are you James Davies??? 😂😂😂
@jamesdavies542
@jamesdavies542 5 жыл бұрын
Shan Brown Hi Shan 👋 I live in the UK, where in the world are you? 😊
@shanbrown7930
@shanbrown7930 5 жыл бұрын
James Davies Darn ! New Orleans, Louisiana!!! Too bad we are such a distance!!! 😭
@Irene-gq4jr
@Irene-gq4jr 5 жыл бұрын
Those men over 50 who still want a 20 year old never grew up and will never find happiness. They're clutching at youth and living in a fantasy. There's no fool like an old fool, and if they do find a 20 year old that young adult will take as much of their money as possible before settling with a man closer to their own age. I'm not specifying gender here as it also applies to gay men, possibly more so, where youth is everything. As a 19-year-old woman I went out with a man aged 30, and what I got was deal-breaking jealousy and suspicion. Rightfully so, as I was young and pretty, frequently going out clubbing and occasionally snogging (albeit not sleeping with) other guys. I wasn't a money grabber but I did enjoy financial benefits my friends didn't.
@jerrypeukert5732
@jerrypeukert5732 5 жыл бұрын
What are you saying Irene, your emotionally unfaithful. Plus men over 50 looking for 20 year olds are pedophiles. I am in my mid 50's and women in their 20's look like children. I look for women my own age. But you sound like you might have been too wild in the past, your choice of course.
@theShelou14
@theShelou14 3 жыл бұрын
This is funny. Sorry, but I think y'all are wrong. Sorry your relationship failed.
@laetitianeethling3471
@laetitianeethling3471 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your insight and experience. I'll keep on listening. A stunning personality with a genuine positive attitude.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I hope so! If there’s a topic that you’re interested in please feel free to suggest it! 💝🎉🥳
@tanyafabuluje4141
@tanyafabuluje4141 6 жыл бұрын
Yesss very helpful Thanks for sharing
@katparks4631
@katparks4631 5 жыл бұрын
I am open minded,opinionated and I love learning new things. I have a sense of humour. I get told all the that I don't act old ,and I don't look old. I have been divorced over 11 years and I am still single.
@tonydrabenstott4745
@tonydrabenstott4745 4 жыл бұрын
Hi r you looking for a good relationship with a good man. I a looking for a good woman😉💌💌💌💒
@yasmodaofori7062
@yasmodaofori7062 4 жыл бұрын
Great
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Kat you just have to believe in God and everything will fall in place I just want you to believe in God ok 👌
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year Kat, I hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌍
@wildwoman8310
@wildwoman8310 6 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed the video. I think it's very helpful.
@catlynenriquez3197
@catlynenriquez3197 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my god thanks,i learned a lot from u because I am 22 younger to my bf but he is caring and honest that's why I love him
@LisaGemini
@LisaGemini 4 жыл бұрын
I am fairly open minded and tolerant for my age, 58. I am opinionated, yes. And I am not afraid to express them. Yet I also will explore new ideas and believe learning is lifelong. I also have a great sense of humor. But the men seem to be staying home. I admit I'm not really open minded about S&M and all that gross stuff, though. Many strangers on the dating sites ask personal questions way too soon. I'm done with the dating sites.
@edwardmarsh4127
@edwardmarsh4127 3 жыл бұрын
Hello dear, how are you doing today, I hope all is going well in this time of covid. I will be glad to hear for you, stay safe!
@johnballard6725
@johnballard6725 2 жыл бұрын
You are not opinionated but rather have strong opinions which you are open minded enough to bend if you get more information.
@thinkforyourselfjohn3163
@thinkforyourselfjohn3163 6 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thank you. So true. 🌻💗
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
@pjm377
@pjm377 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy your clear, direct communication style.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Paula! You're invited to join the conversation in a more private platform in our Engaged at Any Age Ladies Club Facebook group! Go here to join: facebook.com/groups/engagedatanyageladiesclub
@joycejackson9315
@joycejackson9315 5 жыл бұрын
thanks Jackie you are helping me alot. I was married for 27 years and I've felt like rip van Gina for so long. like I was asleep and the whole dating thing I was out of touch with what is dating in the 21st century. you've given me a new energy for following the road I've been on. it is the right road for me. I know I'll meet the right man listening to your advise. thanks for sharing
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Joyce for sure you will meet the right man just believe in God and everything will be Ok 👌
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌍
@mariacapra2271
@mariacapra2271 5 жыл бұрын
First time being here, hearing you out and loving it. ,,
@marvindanny2279
@marvindanny2279 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@terrileblanc7464
@terrileblanc7464 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very informative. Awesome speaker. Im interested but...guess you here that alot. I will be tuning in. Thx again.
@rdsginia7499
@rdsginia7499 5 жыл бұрын
I love this video. Your relationship with Michael has given me hope that I'll meet a man who appreciates me for more than my appearance. It's interesting that you say men are looking for open-minded, intelligent women and that they want to grow because I have yet to meet one. My experience is that they want an instant committed relationship; are close minded, yet expect me to be open-minded to their wants, needs, beliefs, opinions, sexuality; want emotional intelligence, yet, are not themselves emotional intelligent; are threatened by intellectual and spiritual intelligence in a woman; and that they a firmly planted in their beliefs, opinions, personality, character and show no desire to grow, yet expect me to adapt to them How do I find a man who wants what you described? I live in the Midwest. I'm wondering if that's a large part of why I haven't found a man I would commit to long-term. .
@billsmith1965
@billsmith1965 5 жыл бұрын
So you would take a man without regard to his looks RdSG? I bet that is not true. One sided desires are unlikely to be fulfilled.
@SSGTA440
@SSGTA440 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 63....after my heart attack 3 years ago, I turned to bodybuilding and fitness....I look REAL good, can bench my own weight and am running on ALL cylinders....it's a matter of choice, for me, it was to sink or swim....most women after fifty I've met are fat and sloppy with short haircuts, with very little interest is self maintenance....sorry, that;'s what I've seen. Real sad.
@dorisampofowah5215
@dorisampofowah5215 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your video and for sharing! Is very helpful!👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👋👋👋👋💗💗
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 жыл бұрын
Your welcome Doris and I'm so happy you found it helpful.
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s very helpful Doris 😊
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year hope this year brings joy and happiness to all Americans and all Over The world 🌎
@glengardner3734
@glengardner3734 3 жыл бұрын
On dating profiles women are encouraged to present with a good photo showing her as well groomed happy and smiling. And n most cases this applies and women look attractive in their profile pics. However I find a lot of men present with grumpy faces, bad photos, very little thought to their grooming and choice of clothing. Good for the goose ........why not for the gander too?
@lwhite474
@lwhite474 2 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful
@lynnthompson6796
@lynnthompson6796 2 жыл бұрын
Love your videos 📸👍💯and thanks for sharing
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@thrive1282
@thrive1282 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jaki for this advice! What good timing for me, coming across your channel today! I am at rock bottom within myself bc of my man and the life I am living with him! He does not connect with me, ever! Does not share his thoughts, is not intimate with me the way committed couples normally are, does not let me know he appreciates me, has no interest in my thoughts or my feelings, in fact he does not want to hear about what I am feeling (unless of course it is fun related), or what I am thinking or really anything that a man in a committed relationship generally takes part in! He mainly concerns himself with himself, his own needs, how he feels, what he wants, etc. I have a renewed sense of hope from listening to your advice! I am going to plan a talk with him (I am taking all kinds of notes to talk to him about), I need to get this relationship on track!! Ever since it began it has been on his terms and we never set up ANYTHING that is required in committed relationships! I just wanted to thank you and let you know I appreciate you very much!
@magsteel9891
@magsteel9891 5 жыл бұрын
"3 things" turned into about a dozen. Add in: financially secure, healthy inner child, rational, knows that her man isn't her father, son, girlfriend, or therapist.
@MightyCrazy
@MightyCrazy 4 жыл бұрын
No such thing as a healthy inner child. They off your fantasy world.
@jenjen3581
@jenjen3581 6 жыл бұрын
Great advice. Btw, It’s amazing how much you and your husband resemble each other 😊
@jerrypeukert5732
@jerrypeukert5732 5 жыл бұрын
Jen Jen ?
@karenmatthews3046
@karenmatthews3046 6 жыл бұрын
Loved it and You!!
@williamjohnson2118
@williamjohnson2118 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@williamjohnson2118
@williamjohnson2118 3 жыл бұрын
How are you doing today
@bevrolee8887
@bevrolee8887 4 жыл бұрын
Since I was 10 years old I’ve noticed men in this age range want MUCH younger girls.
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
I hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎
@williamjohnson2118
@williamjohnson2118 3 жыл бұрын
Hello dear
@williamjohnson2118
@williamjohnson2118 3 жыл бұрын
How are you doing
@pattimilton2737
@pattimilton2737 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 65 years old and I was dating younger men, well not too young! The youngest I dated was 50! At present I found my soulmate whose behavior is almost like my late husband. Btw, I look 10 years younger than my age coz I'm petite and slim!
@64katesy
@64katesy 5 жыл бұрын
Aren’t you the lucky one ?
@katparks4631
@katparks4631 5 жыл бұрын
I am not petite and slim, but get told all the time, I look either in my thirties or early forties .I am 55 so being petite and slim doesn't always mean younger looking.
@patriciahayes7127
@patriciahayes7127 5 жыл бұрын
There is a lot of mysogeny about...and men cannot drop their baggage and start again...hopeless..better off on our own😏
@jerrypeukert5732
@jerrypeukert5732 5 жыл бұрын
@@patriciahayes7127 If that's what makes you happy, being a man in my 50's, I agree women not worth the trouble it seems. No hate meant just being real. And no I am not fat and ugly or live in my mothers basement. Just facing the way things are.
@billsmith1965
@billsmith1965 5 жыл бұрын
Imagine having to compete with your mental picture of your late husband. Amazing if he can do it, but few can live up to the perfection that builds in your mind.
@johnspear7181
@johnspear7181 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you...."Engaged at Any Age" I am 72 and I need a good female relationship.....! I will do the things you advise....! Hope she will be satisfied....!
@rhondarose8180
@rhondarose8180 6 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who is 70 and what a woman!!!
@aishapaulus6121
@aishapaulus6121 5 жыл бұрын
Really?
@MariastellaERmt
@MariastellaERmt 5 жыл бұрын
Hi
@pogatajosephine6688
@pogatajosephine6688 5 жыл бұрын
Yes I like 60 ages of men
@tictacbee2317
@tictacbee2317 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 59
@jo-annlouw3157
@jo-annlouw3157 5 жыл бұрын
Nice, this is helpfull, thank you!
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Jo-Ann yes it’s very helpful 😊😊
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎
@emjoymusic8530
@emjoymusic8530 6 жыл бұрын
You right some people can be very rigid (fixed and formed from a previous relation) 😊 😊 😊
@karynnpoole9217
@karynnpoole9217 5 жыл бұрын
yeah, Duh!
@williamjohnson2118
@williamjohnson2118 3 жыл бұрын
Hello, how are you doing?
@margaritakleinman5701
@margaritakleinman5701 6 жыл бұрын
This is very good advice and very encouraging. Thanks for another great and helpful video. The best is yet to come!!
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s good advice and encouraging Margarita
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year hope this year brings joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎
@carol7roberts
@carol7roberts Жыл бұрын
You always provide such amazing insights and wisdom. Thank you so much. These are Excellent tips!! 💖🙏🏾💖
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I’m glad you resonated with it! 💕
@ireneajodha5418
@ireneajodha5418 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome dating tips
@tonydrabenstott4745
@tonydrabenstott4745 4 жыл бұрын
Hi r you looking for a relationship .?😉😏
@richard242ful
@richard242ful 5 жыл бұрын
so true I need this so miuch
@claudian7515
@claudian7515 5 жыл бұрын
It is so true what you said😀
@lourdes1941
@lourdes1941 2 жыл бұрын
Hello,from "PHILIPPINES" i like your topic here🥰
@mariamnick7204
@mariamnick7204 6 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful 😍 & kind too thanks for your good advice 👌🏽
@symon9485
@symon9485 5 жыл бұрын
i really like your channel i learn a lot i am your new subscriber..I'm Daisy from philippines..
@johnnyblaze2257
@johnnyblaze2257 4 жыл бұрын
How old are you daisy?
@tessbarrios4480
@tessbarrios4480 5 жыл бұрын
I love the way you connect with me.
@CorneliaMu
@CorneliaMu 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! I totally agree, but it is so difficult to find, because Iam looking for... Love me tender! ❤️
@tonydrabenstott4745
@tonydrabenstott4745 4 жыл бұрын
Hi I am to👰💒💘💋
@tonydrabenstott4745
@tonydrabenstott4745 4 жыл бұрын
Hi ???💋💖👰💒💎💌💌💌😉😉😉
@Lavenderlight1
@Lavenderlight1 5 жыл бұрын
I am in my late 40s and men in there 50s Only want friends only and friends with benefits . There not looking for any long term relationships or marriages . Because they been there and done that
@billsmith1965
@billsmith1965 5 жыл бұрын
I stupidly want that Levenderflight, but I am also realistic to see that I am not hot enough (money or looks) to get that.
@rgt9985
@rgt9985 4 жыл бұрын
Lavenderlight1 That’s because men are their 50’s have come to realize there is absolutely no benefit to marriage, just risk. Why would an financially strong man want to risk being divorce raped at this point in their life. Stay single and date younger women.
@heloisearmes3924
@heloisearmes3924 3 жыл бұрын
My friend at work is 60 and has a great pension and a house. Men chase her left and right. Goes both ways lol
@barbaraelder8517
@barbaraelder8517 4 жыл бұрын
I have done everything and all I get is hurt with a broken heart I am 60 I lost my husband after 37 years I dont do being alone well
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Barbara don’t worry everything will be fine I just want you to believe in God ok 👌
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌍
@victoryamartin9773
@victoryamartin9773 5 жыл бұрын
So how do I even find someone worth dating? I live in a small rural town where all the older men are just spent on drugs and hard living. I'm not looking forward to having to drive 50 miles to meet someone.
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Victorya you just have to believe in God everything will fall in place
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year hope this year brings joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎
@carloscisneros577
@carloscisneros577 3 жыл бұрын
Hollo Victoria .how are yuo Today
@richardmorholt1175
@richardmorholt1175 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 72, you are spot on in this video, after all it's not rocket science ladies.
@zipporahmwikali383
@zipporahmwikali383 2 жыл бұрын
I am here, 53 years...
@alicewangari1302
@alicewangari1302 10 ай бұрын
Hey
@Christian_Girl120
@Christian_Girl120 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 54 and still haven't found the right man yet. In my experience, men in their 30's and 40's are still sowing their wild oats when they should have been sowing! However I'm not affluent so often myself and others like me are judged by that. Are we gold diggers? I don't want to be seen as someone as this. I have the good qualities women over 50, but geographically speaking I live in an area where prospects are limited. Maybe there's hope for me yet!
@tonydrabenstott4745
@tonydrabenstott4745 4 жыл бұрын
Good morning how are you I have the same values and I have morals and respect for a good woman I'm looking for a long-term relationship with a good woman I don't smoke I don't do drugs I am looking for a my partner and Me A Lover a friend if you don't mind me asking where do you live and what are you looking for in a good man so please let's talk get back with me okay
@tonydrabenstott4745
@tonydrabenstott4745 4 жыл бұрын
Good morning how are you today I seen your ad today I am a good man I have respect and morals for a good woman are you looking for a long-term relationship with a man I don't smoke I don't do drugs if you don't mind me asking where do you live let's talk okay
@joannpotts1407
@joannpotts1407 3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful Jaki
@sethdanse8581
@sethdanse8581 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome, what you looking for in a man ?
@sallybon8701
@sallybon8701 5 жыл бұрын
engage at any age. i just want a person whom i could listen,.whom i could talk to. i am 63..single..mom..i enjoyed listening ,reading comments on your section..want to have friends from other countries, too. .
@beatricesmith3496
@beatricesmith3496 5 жыл бұрын
Who gives a dam about what men want. I'm old school what happened to men pursuing women. Women have always catered to men. What ever I do to better myself is not just to please a man. If your a certain age and been through the bullshit. Either we're mentally and spiritually connected or we're not. Point blank. Im willing to meet anyone in the middle. Women stick to your morals and self respect and spiritually.
@marvindanny2279
@marvindanny2279 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Beatrice
@daviddods3345
@daviddods3345 3 жыл бұрын
Re men over 50. We want tall, classy, intelligent, wise: , creative, kind, patient women. No mention of just raw sex! On this video tho. Many things men look for but the physical side is extremely important but as women past menopause are no longer interested - some men go for much younger - we don't want but feel that we have no choice
@miriamariel6185
@miriamariel6185 Жыл бұрын
And giving support when it's needed
@annetcell-ly4571
@annetcell-ly4571 2 жыл бұрын
Define relationships. Does this mean cooking, cleaning, company, caregiving as our primary role? Define romance. What does this mean?
@LayneHazel
@LayneHazel 9 ай бұрын
Thank you! I actually have known him for a year or so. Every time I have ever been around him, he seems like the life of the party so to speak . Such a great man. I am open to it for sure. My concern is/was is it socially acceptable? Or will people want to know what he’s doing with his “daughter”.
@mjoswong1947
@mjoswong1947 3 жыл бұрын
Just I notice that u breath on and off between ur speech , i am nurse with the same problem . The cause of this is actually because u breath through ur mouth most of the time not ur nose so that is why u need to breath in between ur speech. Actually this habit is not encouraged but we r so used to this that it become a habit it will take a lot to change this habit .
@nadenehall6843
@nadenehall6843 3 жыл бұрын
He supports you, love and adore you .love that , I am 45 till single what for the man who will love an d adore thank you for sharing your videos
@sethdanse8581
@sethdanse8581 2 жыл бұрын
How are you
@teresagaleano9287
@teresagaleano9287 5 жыл бұрын
You are right in everything!!! I am experiencing all that with a man 60 years old. I am 39
@themoonbleu627
@themoonbleu627 4 жыл бұрын
Teresa Galeano how is it going ?
@lwhite474
@lwhite474 2 жыл бұрын
That’s great
@brendamacuto7238
@brendamacuto7238 4 жыл бұрын
Nice to see you mam ..
@marvindanny2279
@marvindanny2279 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Brenda
@christinemadrazo6755
@christinemadrazo6755 6 жыл бұрын
Brava Jaki, brava!!
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Christine 👋
@pollacksharman8708
@pollacksharman8708 3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year hope this year brings joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎
@loridavis5699
@loridavis5699 8 ай бұрын
I am 53 and i literally cannot find any man who seems interested. I am friendly and smile and they mostly just seem miserable. I have totally given up on the online dating site and doubt there are any men at work either.
@inkerikavantera
@inkerikavantera 3 жыл бұрын
I am under 40 with life experience worth couple of lifetimes. And gorgeous. Even 50 yos feel a bit immature. Gosh it is hard.
@estherwendy492
@estherwendy492 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I would love to know you
@inkerikavantera
@inkerikavantera 3 жыл бұрын
@@estherwendy492 Hey 👋 You're not spam are you? 🤭
@estherwendy492
@estherwendy492 3 жыл бұрын
No sweetheart
@inkerikavantera
@inkerikavantera 3 жыл бұрын
@@estherwendy492 😄
@estherwendy492
@estherwendy492 3 жыл бұрын
Do you use line
@lindajackson2382
@lindajackson2382 4 жыл бұрын
Most men over 50 REALLY want MUCH younger women starting in their 20's-- that is IF they can! Then if they can't get THEM, then they go down the line beginning with the 30's, etc. ALSO the reality IS men that are DIVORCED don't want to get married again because they've typically been taken to the cleaners by their EX!
@miriamariel6185
@miriamariel6185 Жыл бұрын
Do some things together and some things together.
@hump1953
@hump1953 11 ай бұрын
I'm 70 and interested in relationships and go to Thailand and Philippines twice a year...
@astralpx
@astralpx Жыл бұрын
I'm down, just don't want to be an ATM and absorb all her debt. Lol
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge Жыл бұрын
boundaries!
@Joy-iw4mp
@Joy-iw4mp 5 жыл бұрын
men want a woman that don't want a relationship cuz they want what they can't have
@marvindanny2279
@marvindanny2279 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@alicewangari1302
@alicewangari1302 2 жыл бұрын
Very true
@sethdanse8581
@sethdanse8581 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Alice how are you doing ?
@katemckenzie6117
@katemckenzie6117 5 жыл бұрын
I'm in a relationship with a man online. It's been going for 8 months. We plan on getting married when he returns home
@margaretmiller4718
@margaretmiller4718 5 жыл бұрын
Hmm, watch out for that one. If he doesn't return soon let him go. I hope for you that he does. But when he does there are things that are different when you meet face to face.
@mariaa.5829
@mariaa.5829 5 жыл бұрын
hilarious!
@kimberlymanogin8242
@kimberlymanogin8242 5 жыл бұрын
Hi, I’m a 49 1/2 female whose never been married but am interested in older white men. I’ve always been attracted to white men, since 6th grade. I’ve been trying to go through friends but that hasn’t worked out so well yet, and I’m a very spiritual woman and he would have to be of my faith too, and oh, by the way, I’ve abstained from sexual relationships for over 20 years, because, I’m worth waiting for or at least, I think so. My age range would be 58-62, depending on how he looks.
@marvindanny2279
@marvindanny2279 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Kimberly
@miriamariel6185
@miriamariel6185 Жыл бұрын
An interesting conversation and have a good laugh
@blankchck
@blankchck 4 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@waterbug1135
@waterbug1135 3 жыл бұрын
Honesty is something that only exists until it's no longer convenient. For all people. People are great at rationalizing any position.
@miriamariel6185
@miriamariel6185 Жыл бұрын
The little things mean a lot
@kquinze
@kquinze 4 жыл бұрын
I clicked on this because im dating a man in his 50s and omg why do men age so finely?! When we first met i thought he’s in his 40s he’s so attractive i look like a potato im so insecure😆 “he’s been there and done all that” to me it is fascinating
@dannigirl5579
@dannigirl5579 4 жыл бұрын
I agree wholeheartedly! I am also dating a man in his late 50s. He is very handsome to me
@DabneyFountain
@DabneyFountain 5 жыл бұрын
Clear as a bell.
@Maggie-hy2ub
@Maggie-hy2ub 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Jackie I've been talking to a great guy for the pass 3 weeks, he does live about 1.5 hours away. We are going to met next week. We've talked about family career politics emotions food so many other things. My question is how would I know if he's really interested. We have been texting and talking as well.
@mariedina625
@mariedina625 5 жыл бұрын
I think he has shown that he is interested. What more to you want? To show him that you are ask him to meet you for dessert, or coffee.
@johnballard6725
@johnballard6725 2 жыл бұрын
A real time meeting can answer many questions and is worth a hundred emails or ten videochats.
@shacknastyray4429
@shacknastyray4429 6 ай бұрын
Men have always been attracted to Fit, Fun, Feminine women that dont add drama to your life.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 ай бұрын
Agreed! What do you consider drama?
@shacknastyray4429
@shacknastyray4429 6 ай бұрын
@EngagedAtAnyAge Making a mountain out of a mole hill. We all face issues but making things up out of nothing is unacceptable
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 ай бұрын
I totally know what you mean! Typically high cool girls do this to get a need met or for attention. So not attractive when we get older!
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 ай бұрын
I’ll add that this used a sign of an emotionally immature person. EQ is the key to attracting and maintaining high quality relationships 💫
@robertall.dawson2002
@robertall.dawson2002 6 жыл бұрын
Where's the woman who can have a conversation about anything under the sun, and not become offended?
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 жыл бұрын
I'm sure she may be out there for you. Good luck.
@florenceanderson477
@florenceanderson477 6 жыл бұрын
Robert all. Dawson They are everywhere
@florenceanderson477
@florenceanderson477 6 жыл бұрын
Robert all. Dawson Theyy are everywhere.
@paulinabesada1967
@paulinabesada1967 6 жыл бұрын
Problem is whenever they find a woman with such qualities, they always go after the ones that are only interested in their money
@nora22000
@nora22000 6 жыл бұрын
Lots of them out there; but most men prefer blondes...
@marykarle9592
@marykarle9592 3 жыл бұрын
@Gregg H..Loved your comment on this site..guess you are a little bit older now..do you still feel the same way?
@shahrazadsaied4426
@shahrazadsaied4426 6 жыл бұрын
I like your videos and find them helpful. My experience is different, though. The men I have met lately show interest in me but don't seem to be ready for a relationship. Weird, huh? Late 50s and early 70s and they still don't want a lady in their lives.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for commenting and hang in there!
@MissHannah2036
@MissHannah2036 6 жыл бұрын
Emotionally unavailable people of all ages. Also I’m finding as they/us get older get more set in your ways even more so as the years go by. They might not be seriously looking so not fully committed to looking for something serious. Also remember we are the ones picking these men so don’t just take anyone that comes along.
@kimdiedrich9712
@kimdiedrich9712 6 жыл бұрын
Not unusual. Most guys say they want someone but she must meet 10/10 criteria, while he thinks of himself as perfect. True story. I think most men are happy playing the field.
@reikidreams9265
@reikidreams9265 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we have to step back and take a look at ourselves too and see how we can be more apealing. I personally discovered l come off too aloof, too casual. With each date l discover things about myself.
@jerrypeukert5732
@jerrypeukert5732 5 жыл бұрын
@@MissHannah2036 What do you mean exactly?
@olafhermans
@olafhermans 2 жыл бұрын
I had my list made ... and fun, honest and having a good time were not on it , none of them... my problem I suppose Hahaha
@kelleo9213
@kelleo9213 Жыл бұрын
Whats on your list?
@miriamariel6185
@miriamariel6185 Жыл бұрын
Nice life experience yes
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