How To Handle Jealousy As a Man - Mate Guarding
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Күн бұрынIn this video, we look at an extreme example of jealousy, and mate guarding, with some unhealthy considerations by our example.
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@thecheck4020 3 жыл бұрын
The second this is an audiobook, ill buy it instantly :)
@mahdisoleymani660 3 жыл бұрын
We want it as an audiobook! Please narrate it yourself, it's gonna be much more effective. Thanks for all the content, it's been really helpful to me.
@wilmersegarra2472 3 жыл бұрын
Is your book also sold translated to Spanish? Now that the book is out, will they be anything that you would've added to it, that is not in the book?
@Rmalikk 3 жыл бұрын
If this is an audio book I'll buy it
@bmpetrov 3 жыл бұрын
9:50 my girl is going out on bars with her friends and I think its perfectly normal for girls to hang out that way. I don't have problems with it.
@glennmoonjr 3 жыл бұрын
"A harmless man is not a good man. A good man is a very dangerous man who has that under voluntary control." - Jordan Peterson
@Stefanburakov 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@drivethruabortion280 3 жыл бұрын
JP is harmless
@Tkimba2 3 жыл бұрын
@@drivethruabortion280 JP is the dumb person s smart person
@MystiqWisdom 3 жыл бұрын
This thread went to ad hominems real fast. Nothing demonstrates insecurity more.
@drivethruabortion280 3 жыл бұрын
Who you calling a homo?
@anthonywebster8638 3 жыл бұрын
This guy needs to understand the guys hitting on her aren't the problem. The problem lies solely on whether or not she's entertaining them, and if she is, that means she's the problem.
@adityamakwana612 3 жыл бұрын
well guys hitting on his gf is problem because if the guys know him and his gf still hit on her its 101%disrepectfull to him they arent really considering him anything and respect is everything for most man
@Aldo7899 3 жыл бұрын
It is irrelevant whether she is entertaining them. If you are unbothered by it, she will know. Chances are she’s done other things that would make a solid, stand-up guy think twice about her, and possibly even walk away a few times. If you are that type of guy, she will cancel the bullshit right quick. If you’re not, you’re not. There’s no shame in it.
@JustaNobody2004 3 жыл бұрын
@@matthewnelko fuck, that must’ve been so painful.
@cherrygirlhunter628 3 жыл бұрын
I disagree if its family, friends, or neighbors. Its disrespectful and should be addressed, not a police restraining order but go tell him to square up beat the shit out of eachother grab a beer and get the fuck on with your life. Don't use violence as a way to dominate use it to communicate what words cannot your value and right to respect.
@cherrygirlhunter628 3 жыл бұрын
@@matthewnelko not sure what your comment says because youtube won't show all of it but it's not relevant to what I said from what I could read, if a guy hits on your girl you square the fuck up taking that shit lying down is like watching a dog get beaten and stay loyal anyway, if your girl entertains it even a little you walk away from her after the fight too
@MrShysterme 3 жыл бұрын
If you are a reasonable guy, and a woman regularly triggers your mate guarding instinct by her interactions with other men, then do not date that woman seriously.
@jumhed994 3 жыл бұрын
He shouldn't date anyone. He sounds pathetic.
@sean7269 3 жыл бұрын
@@jumhed994 not helpful
@chrisburns5691 3 жыл бұрын
If she behaves that way in front of you, imagine how she behaves when you aren't around.
@adityamakwana612 3 жыл бұрын
@@sean7269 exactly we guys should have each others back girls are able to do this shit because we got no unity
@e-shockwaave7418 3 жыл бұрын
@@adityamakwana612 Right. Us guys regularly talk shit on each other whether we are doing well or not. Women take advantage of this and cause us to act just like them.
@oghren6617 3 жыл бұрын
This chick is just using the dude until she swings to a better branch, move on bro and work on yourself
@kkrystus 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe she is actually an 8 and he is 5. And that's why he asks what to do to be used by her a bit longer.
@senseofstile 3 жыл бұрын
You are probably right.
@atvman1014 3 жыл бұрын
Remember there are always plenty of fish in the sea! And it's a big wide sea.
@senseofstile 3 жыл бұрын
@@atvman1014 Nope. If there was, Rich Cooper would post pictures of his hot gf that hasn't had children yet.
@atvman1014 3 жыл бұрын
Did I say wide? Hahaha chow down wide load!
@Pwg1985 3 жыл бұрын
His gf is finished with him. She just hasn’t left yet. My guess is the guys hitting on her, are spinning plates with her. They don’t want a relationship with her. Just a turn. Probably have already.
@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels 3 жыл бұрын
I'd say your guess is bang on.
@ryanvtec3885 3 жыл бұрын
She's gonna monkey branch
@Pwg1985 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels thanks. Ied say these videos have changed my life. I can see clear now. Lol
@ENIGMAXII2112 3 жыл бұрын
@@ryanvtec3885 Yes she will...
@ENIGMAXII2112 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed, 100 percent..
@Michael23f 3 жыл бұрын
We shouldn’t laugh at this man, we should encourage him. My advice would be improve on yourself, lift weights, read books, talk to other women and find ways to make more money, never let a girl/woman be the focus, let her be worried about what you’re doing, if it gets too toxic for you leave find someone better.
@LazyPanda89 Жыл бұрын
Yess! Cheat your way out of jealousy! I spin plates right now and i don't give an F about what my main chick is doing or talking to...as long as i f*ck her i keep her...
@mrdeeds72 3 жыл бұрын
It's easy to beat up on this guy, but he's still the norm in today's society. At least he's sought out help.
@egemensuzgun4208 3 жыл бұрын
more gym
@jdraven0890 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I was thinking the same thing. He's got insecurities, but at least he knows he needs to do something.
@BOG0690 3 жыл бұрын
@J This isn't tough love. This is regular honesty. Only tough if he can't handle it
@jcnlaw 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for writing what I was thinking. Have a great day.
@itsdatboi7179 3 жыл бұрын
This is important as with many men it’s a fine line between being comfortable with your girl going out and having fun, and beta material letting her talk to other guys etc. it’s a important discussion to have for sure, especially those that haven’t had too much experiences with relationships and women in general
@kellystigger9318 3 жыл бұрын
Rule 101 of life: TAKE THE EMOTION OUT OF EVERYTHING. When emotions are no part of things, thinking becomes clear, and actions become natural.
@kailashnair4447 3 жыл бұрын
Stoicism
@jakequirit6757 3 жыл бұрын
Step 2: Become a terminator
@fshn4x4 3 жыл бұрын
@@jakequirit6757 I know now why you cry, but it is something I can never do.
@hoosmyster 3 жыл бұрын
This comment made me think how politics is always so full of shit. Absolutely spot on to take emotion out of everything
@playerhater948 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds psychopathic. I’m in
@BrownBrown270 3 жыл бұрын
Bro, if you have to fight men over YOUR woman, just leave.
@youreallythinkso 2 жыл бұрын
If a woman really loves you, she wouldn't even try to put you in compromising positions like that
@gregabrams5792 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@humblebeginnings8328 2 жыл бұрын
If your girl is with you and she’s all about you and she approaches you upset because someone slapped her ass when she walked by the bar dude is getting fked up. There is boundaries to set if necessary. You frequent the same bar a lot for everyone who else who also does. Don’t disrespect my girl. I’m not a jealous guy at all, but if someone puts his hands on my girl unwanted he’s getting tuned up. If you can’t be the guy when you need to be you should stay single.
@johnj.w2414 Жыл бұрын
Ong
@smiechu47 5 ай бұрын
@@humblebeginnings8328 You stand up for her and you get stabbed, who wins?
@Toxic_Male_Minimalist 3 жыл бұрын
Majority of men in prison are there for not being able to control their emotions. Take a deep breathe and count 10 seconds before making any decisions.
@smiechu47 5 ай бұрын
@@muaythaibachatero393 I'm sure that lets them sleep better at night in their prison bunks.
@CitiesOfAsh Ай бұрын
@@muaythaibachatero393Respect yourself more to not let an insecure female ruin your life and possibly future jobs. You got a lot of growing up to do.
@underclassh3r058 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! and I thought I was insecure back when I lost my ex. Men, if you see signs that "your girl" is going to bars, going solo on social media pictures, noticing changes in your sex life with her, noticing a long list male friend all the sudden enter your life, don't do anything! Have value in yourself. Retreat and go talk to another girl. You are the prize. It's ok to be alone.
@oskarkarrera Жыл бұрын
thank you this comment lifted me up for reals.
@katgreer6113 Жыл бұрын
Yeah but no cheating, break up with them first.
@muaythaibachatero393 Жыл бұрын
@@katgreer6113 if they’re already thinking about other men, then it’s fair game to cheat. Integrity in a man today is a weakness, not a strength.
@ripdajacker23 3 жыл бұрын
My ex gf once told me that a co-worker had tried to kiss her. I asked her why did she think that he felt he could get a kiss from her knowing she was in a relationship. She gave me a confused look and I broke up with her. Her hesitation told me she never pumped the brakes on him and he felt “invited” to go in for the kiss.
@GriffyBoiii Жыл бұрын
This is some good advice my man!
@ElizabethPhaire1 Жыл бұрын
FYI-There are men who make assumptions all on their own, especially ones who think they are alpha and can take whatever they want. It has nothing to do with the woman "inviting" him.
@Stan-mh7bf Жыл бұрын
Good choice!
@humansvd3269 Жыл бұрын
How did she react when you broke up with her?
@rookie999 3 жыл бұрын
You do not train martial arts to start fights, you do it to stop them.
@AlexTrainsChest 3 жыл бұрын
The important part is how SHE responds to getting hit on or touched. I’ve dated girls who immediately respond to advances with mentioning that she is seeing someone or says something about what her and I do together as bf/gf. This is good. On the other hand, I know girls who have boyfriends and actively try not to mention their boyfriends around me, try to break the touch barrier intentionally, and overtly flirt. This is bad - if you discover this in your gf, do not waste your time with women like this.
@JoMama123451234 3 жыл бұрын
That was my narc ex. It was only through loyal friends that told me while I was away that she would tell guys hitting on her that she was in an open relationship. Hard nexted her ass
@methembethomastshuma9587 3 жыл бұрын
we watch alot of the same content sir
@davorebo5790 3 жыл бұрын
I've gotten with so many married or women in relationships that it boggles my mind why anyone would entertain the idea of getting into a relationship .. especially marriage which is extremely risky..
@supercal333 3 жыл бұрын
@@davorebo5790 Because you're getting a biased perspective. Only the low quality ones are cheating on their partners with you. Obviously the high quality ones aren't having anything to do with your low quality ass.
@tonym3712 Жыл бұрын
@thre362fdsgsd 👍🤣🤣🤣👍
@WR288 3 жыл бұрын
Walking away is the most potent, and sometimes only, weapon you have if she acts up. Withdraw your attention/commitment and be prepared to leave if necessary.
@Girz0r 3 жыл бұрын
This...
@armageddon8237 3 жыл бұрын
Walk away, and be prepared to DO THE WORK
@Stefanburakov 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on
@davidkoziar1811 3 жыл бұрын
Walked away plenty of times from my ex. She's nice for a little while and then back to her regularly scheduled programming.
@youreallythinkso 2 жыл бұрын
He who has the ability to walk away holds the most power in any situation
@AdamNoEve 3 жыл бұрын
Simple. A woman isn't worth being jealous over.
@curlywolfone 3 жыл бұрын
My wife is almost 60. She’s just a few months older than me. Men still come on to her. I take it as a compliment. She doesn’t put up with other men touching her or making sexual advances. I have a line; don’t cross it. As long as you don’t, I’m cool and I think it’s great that someone else appreciates her. Nuff said.
@ezequiel5260 3 жыл бұрын
Every dude knows, he can tell it, or at least feel it on their guts when your chick is feeling really flattered by other dude's adance, you can tell when she is calling for attention on social media, posting selfies, going all out sexy to her class and talking flirty with some of her colleagues. If she is doing that, fine that's her choice, but you don't date her anymore. You gotta be like, hey you either reject those folk or I reject you. Lastly, if she doesn't stop, you are not her best choice, she is wasting your time. She is making you a favor. Invest on yourself so the next chick doesn't behave like this.
@Makoto_MMA 3 жыл бұрын
I used to think about this with a girl I was dating because she got a lot of inappropriate comments from all of her male friends and she would complain about it to me very often just to get a rise out of me. I later found out she would secretly flirt with them on social media, needless to say, I dumped her.
@ryanj357 3 жыл бұрын
I always laugh at the chumps who defend their girlfriend from being hit on. She brought it upon herself. No need to waste any energy. If it starts to ruin your relationship just leave.
@AA-sc7kb 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I encourage my teenage son to watch all your videos. As a single mom, I appreciate all you're doing for the youth, especially those who don't have fathers. You're really making a difference :)
@eurosalamander 3 жыл бұрын
One of the biggest problems women in this day and age have is that most of them do not understand that there is a HUGE difference between guys that are willing to sleep with her and guys that are willing to be in a relationship with her.
@brocsmith3917 3 жыл бұрын
This was precisely me young 20s, about 6 years ago. I got physically fit, went to college, gained leadership experience and a badass career. Long journey but now the only jealous person are the women I date. Muy Thai and Jiu Jitsu were a major confidence booster as well as learning Spanish. Latinas melt over a white dude droppin self taught Spanish.
@gabrielguzman6018 2 жыл бұрын
Most Latinas are sellouts
@brocsmith3917 2 жыл бұрын
@@gabrielguzman6018 sounds like u need to level up
@higherpower7176 3 жыл бұрын
bottom line is if you are full of doubt about her, she isnt doing her part to make you feel secure in the relationship. she should be telling you stories about how she told guys off, not how they "kept" harrassing her. let her go, she is too insecure and is still enjoying attention from other males, let her go and show indifference
@higherpower7176 3 жыл бұрын
@Hamza a i have had two girls do this to me, when it was happening I could feel it in my gut that something was off, not right at all. that's when you know you are being manipulated
@maxximilianm3752 3 жыл бұрын
@@higherpower7176 100
@zero1188 3 жыл бұрын
this guy just found the red pill, i forgive him
@j2z1000 3 жыл бұрын
It sounds like he's a nurse working in a hospital where his girl also works and is dealing with her recieving attention from other guys who rank higher within the work place, (doctors, surgeons, anesthesiologists, etc.) I spent a long time in this same environment. My girl was a pharmacist and was constantly being hit on by the same types of guys just mentioned. The difference? I make as much if not more than almost every one of these guys, definitely the younger ones. Also it doesn't hurt I'm more masculine than all of these guys put together. Beard, bikes, muscle cars, bodybuilder physique, tattoos, and a former combat Marine. These guys hit on my girl when I'm not around. When I am, I make them nervous. This guy needs to realize, if my guess about him being a nurse is accurate, that, healthcare is not an industry where there are a large collection of classically alpha masculine men. He needs to toughen up. Grow a beard, lift weights, split wood by hand, read Richs book, or start driving something with a lot of horse power and stop chasing after his woman like a woman
@alex-p 3 жыл бұрын
Real talk
@MrBirgerB 3 жыл бұрын
Beard, bikes, bodybuilder, muscle cars. Doesn't exactly translate to alfa. You have to be able to take care of your self and have a winner mentality. The rest is just facade.
@koma7778 3 жыл бұрын
Or get an ugly tattoo that looks stupid to be a real man
@usarmymedic07 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrBirgerB Most men will not test the façade.
@ceeb107 3 жыл бұрын
Great input. I’ve come to learn that the games tests never end even when in a relationship they may dwindle slow down but overall sometimes no. My goal is to get a woman’s: youth fertility domestic duties monumental moments cooperation. We all are going to get old one day and lose value it’s apart of life especially women with menopause. Dudes will always hit on chicks when the guy is not around but it’s up to her to bite or not. even in a relationship don’t let up cause if you do it increases chances of her leaving and even if she does leave I’m in tip top shape mentally and physically so I’ll be able to rebound. After age 50 the chances of a dude wanting your old lady SERIOUSLY dwindles significantly lol. But you got her youth fertility so you’re all set.
@sockoblocko 3 жыл бұрын
If your girl is being hit on, and she doesn't handle it herself, she doesn't respect you. She should not be trying to make you jealous by accepting the attention, and she ought to know by now how to shut it down.
@smsmarkin 3 жыл бұрын
If she's getting hit on, you hit on other women. Why should she have all the fun?
@Vidis88 3 жыл бұрын
And if its a shittest you fail, theese women..
@MrTimjm009 3 жыл бұрын
@@Vidis88 Then again if she valued you would she shit test you like that ? Its her fault . If that was a shit test then she is shitty in the first place . You cant win with women LOL
@sherpaderpdingo3405 3 жыл бұрын
patrice oneal said something to the affect of "your woman is a fish. Youre a fisherman. As a fisherman, she needs to smell fish on you so she knows you can catch other fish and toss her back". paraphrasing but same message.
@DarkoStantic 3 жыл бұрын
He says he is mid 30s,but the questions are like he's a teenager.
@ajc5370 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree with you more. In that early teen. Truthfully I remember thinking like this in middle school and first crush.
@jimmycampbell78 3 жыл бұрын
People have said this before but I definitely think this is a fake email. Especially if they did not share any social media links.
@jackd9300 3 жыл бұрын
Ease up. You guys look like stupid assholes on here. It’s tough because movies and other media...they push the idea of reacting this way when you’re in a situation like this. So it’s confusing sometimes what you do because guys don’t know how to protect there masculinity in a mature way without getting the cops involved.
@johnnyp655 3 жыл бұрын
@@jackd9300 well said. Unless you search for improvement and educating the mind you will evolve from being a teen into an adult who still kinda thinks like a teen still. Easy to cast judgement from an educated mind that sees how life works. Until that point we are blind like this poor dude...he had the balls to ask...now it's up to him to evolve and learn.
@visionaryman3548 3 жыл бұрын
Absentee father is my guess.
@JDOGFTW 3 жыл бұрын
If she leaves she leaves. She wasn't for me she was for the streets.
@_sstyloideuss_ 3 жыл бұрын
When I hear a story like this and see what blue pill mindset can do to a man I am so grateful for swallowing the red pill. It may be bitter but you don't live in the world where women confuse you and you end up chasing your own tail instead of excellence.
@porgyjr.7737 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, ain't that the truth
@daydreamdirty 3 жыл бұрын
Or where you end up getting used
@peripheralparadox4218 2 жыл бұрын
Chasing your tail? Chasing HER tail!
@lifthvy7263 3 жыл бұрын
The neighbor is already wearing her out while he's away. Get your head right build yourself so you can demand respect without having to ask for it. Be the prize !!!
@carni4873 3 жыл бұрын
This topic is funny. Back in 2010, I was seeing a chick and we had country dancing in common. We had been going to a dance club for several months and thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. One day, a random dude walked up and asked her to dance while I was on the way back from grabbing a drink. She accepted and danced one song with him. About a half hour later, after she and I danced to a few more songs, an attractive gal walked behind us and winked at me, so I extended my arm and nodded to go dance. We danced and wouldn't ya know, after that dance, the gal I was there with started to give me the third degree about dancing with another woman. I simply reminded her this can't go only her way. She pouted for a bit, then I pounded her out and went to bed. Great teaching moment indeed !!! 😎
@CryptoTruthBombs 3 жыл бұрын
Country western line dancing is Beta
@carni4873 3 жыл бұрын
@@CryptoTruthBombs Country & Western line dancing IS beta. I was two stepping, my friend... There's a difference. Learn to dance as part of your masculine frame & women will gravitate toward ya. Thx for your input, though !! 😉
@thecakeisalie6601 2 жыл бұрын
This is urban cowboy lmao
@tysonbrown1277 2 жыл бұрын
You should of slayed the other chick
@carni4873 2 жыл бұрын
@@tysonbrown1277 Slayed ?
@nophone9311 3 жыл бұрын
I treat others how I want to be treated. That means, when I am in a relationship, outside of a professional setting I do not interact with women when my girlfriend is not around, so flirting and touching other women is unthinkable. I don't care if my girl wants to flirt or touch other men, she is free to do what she wants, but the second she does, she is not my girlfriend anymore.
@discovery2727 3 жыл бұрын
pure beta, not good.
@tl8142 3 жыл бұрын
Beta in part; just choose a chick who doesnt behave like that....
@travis6694 3 жыл бұрын
@@tl8142 it’s not beta in part. He’s saying that any girl can do anything at any time. No girl is exempt from potentially flirting or cheating. Which is truth. He’s saying once he has reason to leave, then he will leave, but he isn’t stressing about it and letting it consume him.
@tl8142 3 жыл бұрын
@@travis6694 yeah you re right. I read his comment again. He has a clear limit to what he finds acceptable and not. The moment ”she does” she is done. 👍
@travis6694 3 жыл бұрын
@@tl8142 exactly, right on my dude 👍🏼
@jaym9879 3 жыл бұрын
This dude needs to learn to fight. Period. He needs that confidence based in competence.. He may even need to take a break from woman and rebuild himself.
@19AKS58 3 жыл бұрын
If becomes a badass fit capable fighter and earns swagger, then other dudes will steer clear of him
@jaym9879 3 жыл бұрын
@@19AKS58 lol if he just wasn't who He is, he'd be better off 🤣
@Yarmox 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah fight once for a woman and regardless if he “wins” he ends up rotting in jail. Why stoop to that level. Just walk away.
@jaym9879 3 жыл бұрын
@@Yarmox depends on the situation imo. And I'm not saying fight for a woman. I'm saying the confidence that comes with actually being able to handle yourself well in violent situations is priceless
@robertmodalo8086 3 жыл бұрын
if he ever considers walking away from women, he might as well get ready to take the black pill and go full monk. If what he really wants is to get married it's better be now than never. He's mid 30s. It's pretty much game over
@CamdenMcInnis 3 жыл бұрын
If your girl isn't shutting that ish down? She's not that into you bro.
@dwocelot6913 3 жыл бұрын
This is the Truth. A woman who is 100% devoted to you will tell these guys off, or that very least, thank them for the compliment but tell them that she's taken. The moment the guy has to do the work to keep guys from crossing the line with his woman, it means she's no longer his woman.
@bluedouchemark4685 3 жыл бұрын
Never invest emotion and you’re all set😂
@Alexander.Anthony 3 жыл бұрын
No really, don’t do that and you’ll be fine.
@icarus9097 3 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done, but you're totally right
@thatguyblue4811 3 жыл бұрын
1. Sounds almost like she eggs him on because she is hoping to see that bad boy side of him come out. 2. Don’t worry about what guys do; worry about how she responds to it. If she responds unfavorably ditch her.
@MrTimjm009 3 жыл бұрын
not at the expense of getting arrest or beat up . Dont let her play with you r feelings like that . He should just let her go and find another girl worthy of him
@anthonylozano8035 3 жыл бұрын
“If you could have the capacity of lethality but do not rely upon it or use it” the very definition of meek. Better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener In a war
@Bob31415 Жыл бұрын
And wind up in prison.
@aherrns1894 3 жыл бұрын
Brother, your patience for explaining is amazing. At the same time, I understand this guy. I appreciate you taking your time.
@willclouded 3 жыл бұрын
Dude sounds like he has some issues himself
@drb4074 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. That's why the advice in the video is directed at the guy improving himself, and subsequently these "problems" will go away.
@sagafcasagafca9197 3 жыл бұрын
Tell her in the beginning of the relationship. I'll fight for you, but I won't fight over you, if someone else has your attention over me, they can have you.
@mitchellcrow8761 3 жыл бұрын
Perfect advice.... I say the same thing... the anguish they will cause you won't be worth the prize 😎
@khalifabinhendi6107 3 жыл бұрын
I just got your book a few days back, and simply from the TOC; my eyes were as wide as dinnerplates. Thank you for writing and publishing the book.
@michaelcranwell9456 3 жыл бұрын
Great video. Hit the nail on the head. Solution - remove yourself from the situation because you can’t handle it and the spidy senses / gut feeling is enough confirmation that something is wrong. Step away. Work on yourself. Level up. Try again.
@thechosenone9943 3 жыл бұрын
Men that project insecure energy always get cheated on , Most women who cheat have a partner that’ s beta , Be the man she break rules for not set 🤷🏿♂️
@Fu3g0.100 3 жыл бұрын
No, women will cheat on Alphas and Betas. It's the women not the men
@macioluko9484 3 жыл бұрын
This is a great topic. So tough to deal with correctly in the moment. I had this happen to me with my gf. Abundance mindset worked every time.
@DariaZeev 3 жыл бұрын
Great video, Richard! I actually watched it because my guy checks out other women and got a lot from your video as a woman. I love the abundance vs. scarcity mindset and the fact that there are other people who we can always find if our partner decides they can do better. Your energy is very grounded and you seem very confident in yourself - it's almost healing to listen to you. Thanks a lot, you are making a lot of good to the world.
@Oakdieu 3 жыл бұрын
Bought the book! Buy the book guys lets support these guys for the benefit of us all.
@39PSIOnTheDaily 3 жыл бұрын
It’s up to her to respect you as her boyfriend. If she can’t you give her one firm, strict warning with dire consequences and TONS of eye contact. If she doesn’t learn from it or continues to do it, you drop her like a fucking atom bomb and find the next one. Never let a woman control you.
@t.o.5623 3 жыл бұрын
If you're in a relationship it's not jealously. Jealously is towards things you don't have, if you already have it but dont want to lose it, you're being territorial. Protecting what's already yours.
@neiljacob3446 3 жыл бұрын
Great video Rich. Just bought your book. Can’t wait to read it.
@doctorartphd6463 2 жыл бұрын
I taught my woman to handle her situations, and to ONLY call me if things get "touchy" and out of hand. She handled herself before she met me, so she can handle herself, and I will always be there for her if she needs me. All is good.
@nigherperu 3 жыл бұрын
The most common excuses women will use when cheating on a man is "I was sexually assulted" or "I was too drunk".
@davorebo5790 3 жыл бұрын
The most common is that most of them will never admit to it .. because they're crazy
@sherpaderpdingo3405 3 жыл бұрын
or, "nothing happened. you need to trust me"
@sherpaderpdingo3405 3 жыл бұрын
i had a gf that would sometimes dance sexy with strangers in the club. I wouldnt cause a scene right there because i didnt want to look insecure but would bring it up after we left. Her response everytime was "its just dancing, you need to trust me". Looking back i should have left her behind immediately but i dated her for over a year AFTER she started doing this shit and it was because she was prettier than any girl ive been with and felt pride going to social events with her on my arm. For young guys out there, dont do that.
@usarmymedic07 Жыл бұрын
You should have just demoted her to plate status.
@stevecalvert6420 3 жыл бұрын
Great video Rich. This man needs to read your book and send an update in a few months to see if he can apply the mindset. You seem to hit on the strongest points in the first few questions. Hopefully this will help him. 👊
@cbxxb4841 3 жыл бұрын
Good Video. I enjoy your mounting frustration with this guy asking the same question in different forms over and over.... Good answers.
@JackNapierKnows 3 жыл бұрын
"She's lucky to have me" Nice
@kylelove927 3 жыл бұрын
When I was 19, my gf worked fast food. A guy at work kept harassing her (trying to get her to go out with him) and she didn't want anything to do with him. I told her to stop beating around the bush and tell him that you are not interested because you are in a relationship. If he doesn't stop, then I will make an appearance. She told him and he still kept bothering her. So when I picked her up for work, I went into the lobby to "meet her work friends" and when the guy reached over the front counter to shake my hand (he knew I was her bf) he tried to grip my hand extra tight so I squeezed the fuck out of his hand as I pulled him over the top of the counter and quietly spoke into his ear "stay away from my girl." Then I calmly gave him back his hurting hand. Very next day he stopped talking to her all together.
@rod8970 3 жыл бұрын
Just ordered your book. Looking forward to the refreshing content. 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
@marcusj97 3 жыл бұрын
I like you bro. Probably the most intelligent advice in regards to dating I've heard. Def subscribing.
@whatishiphop5690 3 жыл бұрын
Bottom line... she's not telling anyone "look, I have a man." So coworkers touching her, that's something SHE needs to report. If she doesn't, she's not opposed to it. Don't get into fights, HR and all that. Either she's okay with boundaries that you should establish, or she's not and you need to get out
@robhulson 3 жыл бұрын
“Those who have swords and know how to use them, and keep them sheathed, will inherit the earth.” -Jordan Peterson’s take on the word “meekness” in Matthew 5.
@MystiqWisdom 3 жыл бұрын
I can't seem to forget about this quote. JP is the only person I've heard it from, even including Christian talks.
@tesla845 3 жыл бұрын
GM. I really hope this guys applies ideas you are sharing of your valuable time Richard.
@bf_stv 3 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel today and have watched dozens of videos. About to buy your book 🙏🏻
@MrHav1k 3 жыл бұрын
I broke out laughing multiple times during this video. Wow, this guy 🤣🤣
@myselfasevan 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@theabstract4936 3 жыл бұрын
This was pure comedy 😂😂😂
@diapersFTMFW11 2 жыл бұрын
It just got worse and worse as he read 😂
@grigorijelavstefanovic1523 3 жыл бұрын
Love the content, keep uploading vids like this !!!
@iamalignedandfocused5452 3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the consistency
@thebusiness70 3 жыл бұрын
You guys wanna hear a joke? Female pornstars in a committed relationship 💀
@snookiebellbottoms8044 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the great comments & wisdom. I just bought your book.
@slickdaddy4001 3 жыл бұрын
Nice video Rich! Strong valid points
@caleb-dx7yd 3 жыл бұрын
I was like this at 18 to 20... Hearing this guys' email gives me physical pain due to so much cringe. I am glad this video was done though. Hopefully any other males out there, similar to this, can learn from this video.
@dexterbarnes5249 3 жыл бұрын
Yup. Glad that's over...
@mesmith2526 3 жыл бұрын
“I do plan on enrolling in wingchun soon.” 😂😂😂 He watched IP Man once!! ONCE!!!!!
@AllHailNumo 3 жыл бұрын
I'm dead!! He saw him take out 10 black belts and thought to himself "hmm 🤔" 😭😭
@brotherpinzon9991 3 жыл бұрын
Sound advice! Been a martial artist since 2012. It has helped me with my confidence not only in fighting but in life as well. It has helped me become a better version of myself, and leave the beta mentality behind.
@thorzyan 3 жыл бұрын
Oh man this is timely. Just started dating a 9, need to brush up on my skills. Thanks Uncle Rich!
@YLS8763 3 жыл бұрын
I would say if she herself doesn’t have respect for him and is just allowing other dudes to keep doing it, my man needs to just say fuck it and move on. We all deserve to be with someone that respects us.
@aherrns1894 3 жыл бұрын
He won't. He lives in Scarcity.
@danurachman5626 3 жыл бұрын
My Dad told me like a Decade ago: - The Primary rule of a man is *RESPECT*, be the best person for those who know it, but if it's not there: Walk Away & Don't look back - *He told me that, right after ending relationship with his 4th wife because she's so insolent, and i always keep that in my mind
@MrFreeGman Жыл бұрын
I don't know if I'd trust the words of a guy who got divorced 4 times. Seems like he didn't have his sh*t together.
@MrBrotein Ай бұрын
This is absolute GOLD! Asking if to get HR involved 🤣
@EC-it2fx 3 жыл бұрын
Advice always sounds better when it’s not for me. I can imagine listening to something like this when I had an “interest” and probably feeling worst about this type of feedback. However now, maybe thanks to age, experience, or knowledge, I understand how this message works and can absorb it internally
@HMAKmusic 3 жыл бұрын
Yea like other comments say, you need to look at her reaction, if she enjoys it then you do nothing, if you feel that she feels uncomfortable then you need to do something, everything depends on situation
@HMAKmusic 3 жыл бұрын
But don't use aggression and cops on things like that 😅
@mas7937 3 жыл бұрын
The dude is gaslighted
@Archemik99 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of what you're talking about reminds me of principles Niccolo Machiavelli described in the Prince. You shall not be the weak sheep, that gets easily lured into a trap nor you should be a wolf that easily gets shot by a huntsman. You should be a man of your own principles, who's kind and charming ( not to mistake with nice ) when required, but can also be a ruthless savage when required
@joe-vl3nd 3 жыл бұрын
Once again great info Rich
@amadeuss3341 3 жыл бұрын
In Russian we call it a "Deer Stock" female keeps few Deers around, and sometimes puts them on same arena and watch what happens. Being in a "Deer Clashes" is one sure way to find yourself in criminal defense lawyer office. Not sure if it worth on any women. It's up to a woman you in relationship with to deal with guys who hits on her, if she is not willing to do that- put her stuff to the curb and keep walking.
@robertedwards2453 3 жыл бұрын
You are 100% correct.
@johnm140 3 жыл бұрын
I had a girlfriend like that once. She would try to get me into fights with the biggest dudes at the club. Glad that's far in my rear view mirror.
@egemensuzgun4208 3 жыл бұрын
this guy had no real farther figure in his life
@danch10 3 жыл бұрын
This here. Im only 70 kgs but In the past I have been aggressive as fuck lol I did have alot of respect as people knew they would get sorted out or confronted if they crossed the line. My dad was the same.
@carlospinasalazar5237 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all you’re advice 🇲🇽
@93notchback 3 жыл бұрын
Picked up the book. Awesome read!
@christianhackl8966 3 жыл бұрын
- she is lucky to have me - Perfectly said. This is coming from a guy who had a at least 8/10 wife. Improve yourself. Go to the gym. Men, stay focus and become a better version of yourself! I am about to get 9/10.
@trepan4944 3 жыл бұрын
His girl is getting piped into oblivion and asking for it each and every time.
@rokyericksonroks 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly what about her makes her “his girl”? She belongs to the streets.
@trepan4944 3 жыл бұрын
@@rokyericksonroks truth
@dougchism5085 3 жыл бұрын
Nicely said Rich!
@jaydunstan1618 Жыл бұрын
Good advice Richard!
@iskrentsekov104 3 жыл бұрын
He needs to be prepared for her breaking his heart she already looking for Alfa
@Garandmasthumb 3 жыл бұрын
the problem is her. its her job to be loyal to you. if she is being flirted with to the point of being touched its because she's flirting ! its 2020 what else can I say?
@yuureighost 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how you dismantle fem-society's "macho guy" caricature of the Alpha male.
@dougingram4183 2 жыл бұрын
Never took the time to comment. i've always generally like your content. i'm enjoying your personality more and more.
@chrischapman7026 3 жыл бұрын
This guy needs to address his physical insecurities as much as possible, as in getting in the best shape he can. He then needs to address his anger issues because he is gonna do some stupid shit and get fucked over by the legal system. His girlfriend is obviously putting it out there that she is looking to transition from one relationship right into another.
@SPONGEY7244 3 жыл бұрын
Hold on, 4:40 in but if my neighbor is hitting on my girl knowing damn well that’s MY girl he sees coming to my crib on a daily basis then that’s a clear sign of disrespect to ME. Nah at that point I’m taking action because it’s not even about the girl at that point, until then I scope to see how the problem escalates and if she’s the reason. You can definitely press someone without getting straight to violence
@dominikm1457 3 жыл бұрын
Do you think the guys would continue talking to your girl if she has zero interest? No. What are you going to do? Tell him how bad you‘re gonna hurt him?
@SPONGEY7244 3 жыл бұрын
Dominik M ideally nah but some mfs don’t know when to stop or take a hint. & nah, actually hurt him if it comes to that. But before that Ima make him feel like a weirdo for consistently coming for someone who doesn’t want them, cause who tf does that? If you’re telling me this persistent loser doesn’t deserve some kind of punishment for these actions then that’s where we see different. But doing nothing after already doing nothing falls right back to being a beta if you want to think of it that way
@dominikm1457 3 жыл бұрын
@@SPONGEY7244 Why would I threaten to beat someone up who’s imposing zero danger to me or my girl?
@SPONGEY7244 3 жыл бұрын
Dominik M So they stop. Again there are many other ways to get this, violence being the last resort. Think about this, what’s the point in having that capacity for violence if now it’s escalated to the point it’s needed and you refuse to use it because you strongly believe you should just do nothing. By words of the same dude what if she’s shit testing you? Maybe she didn’t want to at first but since it’s kept going on now she wants you to do something. Lose a girl you actually fw because you were scared to press someone? I wouldn’t want to go out like that. Yeah you’re the prize but you’re acting way too passive at that point
@lukedavis6711 3 жыл бұрын
@@SPONGEY7244 idk the neighbor isnt threatening violence himself so violence isnt warranted. I agree it's not about the girl at all it's about that he disrespected you. Also your girl disrespected you by not stopping the neighbors behavior. It isnt your job in the 21st century to guard her it's her job. If you let her get away with disrespecting you and instead confront the neighbor all you're doing is communicating she has you by the balls. She will be attracted to you but it wont be a good relationship; itll be more like you're a beast she has control over.
@FeonaLeeJones 3 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this video. Great questions actually 👍
@aambriz51 3 жыл бұрын
He's right absolutely right once you gain a set amount of confidence in you from your daily habits and your success from that as a man you know what you bring to the table in a relationship if your woman is being hit on it should be a compliment to you as a man it shouldn't disrupt your your day or your routine or anything cuz the confidence is set there you know what you bring
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