Anyone who has one person to talk to about anything will never need anything from anybody. They will always be %100 secure in troubles throughout their lives.
@keaqan4 жыл бұрын
People need at least one person to communicate with for sanity.
@keaqan4 жыл бұрын
The cure is for two people to be so securely attached, they will never feel like they will be abandoned.
@keaqan4 жыл бұрын
Narcissists have a fear of abandonment. Fixing the fear is the solution. How can a narcissist be a narcissist if they are not afraid of abandonment?
@b522704 жыл бұрын
Your vulnerability is so courageous and real. Thanks!!!
@stclairkaleb7 жыл бұрын
So glad I found your channel on npd- I know what and who i spent 8 yrs with he is a cluster of sociopath and narcissist- Long story but he is dangerous in all human categories
@keaqan4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Where is he now? Has he received help? Is he locked up?
@larkshelleycrudele10646 жыл бұрын
My ex narc didn't care about his appearance. He's a slob. This was interesting. I was under the impression there was only unhealthy narcissism. Unfortunately my ex narc is an unhealthy narc. Waiting with bated breath for the day my son can get out from under his thumb.
@robertklimeck19185 жыл бұрын
In your experience, have you found that it is more likely for a person with narcissism to heal, the earlier it is diagnosed? For example; a teenager on the verge of becoming a young adult, that is exhibiting narcissistic behaviors that are beyond the norm for an adolescent.
@dafyddaprhys7827 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing: Childhood survival... conditioned to 'Echo' to keep the peace or conform. Would this be similar to being conditioned in early childhood as with the 'People Pleaser syndrome'. To Echo the Narcissist is to mirror back what he/she wants to see or hear?
@eyeswideshut73548 жыл бұрын
Wonderful podcast. A lot of interesting information to think about. Thank you.
@BellePhoenixTheSubterraneanSea4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the medicine
@JennySieck5 жыл бұрын
I think someone can have echoism and still be a covert narcisst. I love the way you offer solutions. I know primary healthy narcissm and secondary, unhealthy narcissm was from Freud's work initially....K9hut came later...Objuect relations I believe.
@CraigMalkin5 жыл бұрын
Jenny Sieck yes-I address that in #rethinkingnarcissism: introverted narcissism (aka covert) can look like extreme narcissism vacillating with echoism (transient) you’re close about Kohut. He was relational, but departed from object relations, forming his own school of thought: self-psychology.
@CraigMalkin5 жыл бұрын
Jenny Sieck and so glad you like the solution focus :-)
@asadsoul79407 жыл бұрын
my husband love's to be seen as the hero to other people, gives money, time etc, he brags to me about how nice he is, well not to me, but l relpy (no honey, l know who you really are, tell it to some one else, who doesn't know you. l can never get sick or have a need, want, it actually infuriates him and he calls me childish and selfish, and to get up and clean the house, especially if i'm pointing out his mistreatment of me. you are not allowed to have any feelings, just need to cater to theirs. it's too late for me..!! when l found out about this disorder and tried to get a divorce. l discoverd first hand, how violent they can be. i'm trapped relating in a unauthentic relationship.
@okiemmarty3375 жыл бұрын
:( Has your situation changed since you wrote it?
@odette89055 жыл бұрын
Sad Soul, it's never too late to get out. Do it for your sanity. After 20yrs I'm getting out. And it feels like a release!
@JennySieck5 жыл бұрын
Thats right...Grad. School was a while ago...
@corsicanlulu6 жыл бұрын
so basically ur saying that anyone who doesnt have relationships for whatever reason, is in danger of being a narcissist? if u dont trust people because since childhood they have always let u down, or u just dont like people very much then its always unhealthy? always? some people are just loners i feel. just like some people are asexual and are not attracted to anyone either. i dont think people are so cookie-cutter
@JennySieck5 жыл бұрын
I think whether one is functional and has unconditional positive regard for self and others is a really important definition of what creates a pathology vs. just a trait for being an introvert or a loner.
@sheabell96465 жыл бұрын
thank you. Are alocoholics narcissists?
@keaqan4 жыл бұрын
Shea Bell ive heard researchers say narcissists can be alcoholics to cope
@renaudtremblay65416 жыл бұрын
I score very low on healthy and extreme narcissism and very high on echoism, yet i have a narcissistic traits diagnosis, it doesnt make any sense Who the hell is the culprit in this nonsensicalvaganza? Answers from all are welcome
@JPYvideos6 жыл бұрын
Stop with the Politics! It’s foolish to alienate!
@tinaferr3 ай бұрын
Lol, it's not politics to say Trump is vain and preening. He's a great example of that and it's thrown around often bc it's true. He didn't say anything about politics. Nice deflection tho