Every time you feed your insomnia, you make your insomnia more powerful and more demanding

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Insomnia Coach

Insomnia Coach

Күн бұрын

Living with chronic insomnia is hard. However, when we change our lives to accommodate our insomnia, we can actually end up feeding our insomnia and make it more difficult to get rid of.
Just as Cookie Monster immediately demands more cookies as soon as he is given a single cookie, insomnia demands more and more of our attention and more and more accommodation whenever we make changes to our lives in response to poor sleep.
So, if at all possible, try to give your insomnia as little attention as possible. Avoid compensatory behaviors that only serve to feed your insomnia - don't spend more time in bed, don't cancel plans with friends, don't call in sick to work, don't become less active, don't spend too much time researching insomnia and sleep.
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Every time you react to insomnia's demands, you give it the attention it craves and its demands for attention become louder and more persistent. Try to live your life as though insomnia is not part of your life. Doing this will starve your insomnia and give it far less power.
When insomnia becomes less of a focus, sleep tends to become a lot easier.
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@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 4 жыл бұрын
All content found on the Insomnia Coach KZfaq channel is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
@Gwynbuck
@Gwynbuck Жыл бұрын
I paid £200 for a course of CBTI to cure my insomnia. I needn't have bothered. I learnt far more by watching your videos. I even passed on your tips and guidance to my insomnia 'mentor'. This course suggested that when I get up after 15 minutes, I should sit in the dark! Other advice I'd come across, suggested I read the most boring thing I could possibly find. Only you suggested I get up and do something pleasant like watching TV until I felt sleepy, then go back to bed. You don't have much time for 'sleep efforts', so I ditched them - they didn't work anyway. The crux of what you are about is getting rid of anxiety. Everything you suggested worked. If I can't sleep, I just go through in my mind all the advice you give, and it works. Soon - in a less anxious state I fall asleep. it's worked every time for me so far and I thank you for it.
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach Жыл бұрын
Yikes - that kind of approach sounds a bit like a punishment and I can see how it has the potential to create even more struggle! As you shared, the key to getting rid of insomnia is to move away from all the effort involved in trying to fight or avoid it. I appreciate your kind words and am happy to hear you've found a more workable approach!
@rhambn2990
@rhambn2990 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this information... What a beautiful advice....
@gigi1332
@gigi1332 Жыл бұрын
I am so grateful for this. Thank you so much!!!
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach Жыл бұрын
You are very welcome!
@seanking6184
@seanking6184 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice! Made me laugh too
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
Glad this was helpful AND made you laugh! I don't think we need to be all doom and gloom and serious all the time, in order to get across some serious points!
@monikavarro2020
@monikavarro2020 3 жыл бұрын
I like the cookie monster! 🤩
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
He was a very helpful guest!
@monikavarro2020
@monikavarro2020 3 жыл бұрын
Using the cookie monster was a very clever way of explaining feeding your insomnia. 😃 I've re-watched this video countless times!
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
@@monikavarro2020 I'm so happy to know you found this helpful!
@m.v.d.4064
@m.v.d.4064 Жыл бұрын
I have been working with another sleep coach for about 2 months. My sleeping issues had been getting better, even had the courage to leave a antidepressant I was given to help me sleep. I was sleeping fine with an occasional night of poor sleep. Now it seems like its come back with that vengeance you talk about. I think I will give you a call if this doesnt improve in the next couple of weeks
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach Жыл бұрын
It sounds as though you are on the right track - it's not unusual to experience difficult nights from time to time (just as it's not unusual to experience difficult days from time to time). What's more important is how we respond to them!
@Rudi1984
@Rudi1984 4 жыл бұрын
haha love it :D
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I am a firm believer that respectful humor can be appropriate and relevant!
@griszellong5242
@griszellong5242 2 жыл бұрын
😊 love it . 🍪 👹
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words!
@Chicken_Godd___
@Chicken_Godd___ 3 жыл бұрын
Do u know much about trouble sleeping due to caffeine withdrawl?
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
Withdrawal from any drug can create some temporary sleep disruption. As the body adjusts to the absence of the drug, sleep usually gets back on track all by itself - this can take time, though!
@edenlifeonearth
@edenlifeonearth 3 жыл бұрын
When I haven't fed it in the night and I didn't sleep at all, I end up invariably being so tired the next day : headaches, feeling faint and weak and an't do my normal activities like running or seeing friends. So I end up taking an anti - anxiety pill to calm me down and perhaps help me to get a nap in the afternoon to survive the evening but come night time I'm wide awake again. What shall I do?
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
I wonder if seeing friends even after a tough night might help reduce fatigue a little and improve the quality of your day a little? As you have experienced, daytime naps reduce sleep drive and can make nighttime sleep a bit more difficult. It's a bit like snacking during the day and then wondering why you aren't hungry at dinnertime!
@edenlifeonearth
@edenlifeonearth 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve tried to see friends in the day when I didn’t slept the night before but I just couldn’t string my words together properly when talking and looked so tired so I would just cancel my appointments usually at last minute. And even when I tried to take a nap I couldn’t sleep anyway so my sleep drive is the same! But I still can’t sleep at night! It’s baffling!
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
​@@edenlifeonearth As it sounds like you have experienced, canceling appointments when we don't have a good night of sleep usually guarantees a bad day and perpetuates sleep disruption. If you are unable to nap during the day, this suggests that you might be fatigued rather than sleepy. If you are unable to speak during the day, I would suggest talking to your doctor since that is not usually a symptom associated with chronic insomnia.
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