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Their personalities don't look like they mesh well at all, let's be honest

Damn this relationship sounded exhausting

The whole time she looked like she wanted to beat him up-

Bruh, what an epic moment The sex ratings were 6 and 9

When she apologized when he couldn’t even hear.. I felt that

*"i didn't find you cute"* actually that kinda hurt to hear

Her:intensely stares at his lips to see what he’s saying Him:casually looks around

her: “ARE YOU GIVING TOO MUCH DETAIL?? DONT GIVE TOO MUCH DETAIL😳”

Her - "That's what you gave me, high cholesterol and blood pressure" Him - "You're so *salty* ...." I see what you did there 😂😂

Jubilee shady for posting this before Valentine’s Day 😂😂😂

these comments are hurting my brainnnn. why are people getting so heated arguing over who’s more toxic?? both of them clearly had their faults

Wendy: *has high cholesterol and high blood pressure* Richard: *tells her she's salty*

“You are so salty” you literally cheated on her. She has the right to be salty 👀

I’m confused. Why are people blaming the girl? He said he only stayed in the relationship for the sex, cheated on her, made her feel down, & he never apologized. He just said “let’s move on”. while the only thing she didn’t do was show affection, but why would she the way she was treated.

When internet people think they know everything about people and their relationships by watching a 10 minute video.

She’s not even passive aggressive she’s just aggressive

“ARE YOU GIVING TOO MUCH DETAIL? DONT GIVE TOO MUCH DETAIL.”

Ah I see you guys are making us happy we are single this year rather than making us feel bad.

The fact that she didn’t mention that she was a COLLEGE freshman is a troubling for a man. That’s her fault for not being carefully descriptive.

bruh the guy actually knows what he did wrong, but the girl kept denying everything smh

When she said “i think its because Richard fucked me up” and he looked down and couldn’t look at her ! HE FELT THAT !

She didn’t even dress liked she cared about him 😂😂😂

Too many people pointing out “she wanted a driver not a boyfriend” while ignoring how she was around thirteen/fourteen when they got together and he was seventeen/eighteen 🤨

Everyone is trashing the guy when the girl is such a toxic person in general

I dated someone for 3 months and came out bitter af, I can't imagine what it's like to be with someone for YEARS and have a bad breakup

When Wendy said something about people commenting on her stuff saying “oh any guy would be luck to have you like how come I can attract all these men on the internet.... but I have my own Fucken man not doing the same to me, like what do I have to do for you to see me and look my way” I Fucken felt that...

It sounds like she wanted a driver more than she wanted a boyfriend.

bruh, i followed Wendy on ig way before this and her attitude is everything. She was salty to him way before so this just seemed so natural to me

did he deadass say "it's good that you took the initiative and blamed yourself for once?" nah man

She’s straight out of a reality show

“its good that you took that initiative, finally blame yourself for once” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I love how her energy screamed "your loss not mine"

I adore how she’s not all dressed up in front of camera. I don’t find it weird when people get dressed up for camera but it’s refreshing. That’s one hell of a chill person.

She’s not dressed up because she’s not trying to impress him lol. Acting like y’all people don’t wear the same thing

College Freshman. She's older than him.

I like how y’all asked them the questions separately with earphones and then asked together. This really shows how couples speak about each other when their spouse not around compared to when they are together speaking about the situation. They tend to be blunt separately but when speaking about it together, they tend to tread lightly.

So he was hanging out with a freshman after he graduated

Wendy walked in dressed like she was going to CVS to grab a antihistamine 😂😂

she "roasted" him for wearing Vans, whe she was wearing sandals

I think she was being a little immature with her responses and attitude. Just something I wanted to say.

"I was barely becoming a freshman and he had just graduated high school." Ah, he's one of THOSE dudes...😬😂

Why does all toxic relationship last longer?

She made fun of his shoes while she’s wearing socks and sandals

I mentally NEED this with my Ex. We fell apart and he hasn't been able to give me an explanation since or vise versa. Its been almost 8 years now and just last year I finally "got over him." He was the only man in my life that I wanted to marry... it still stings to this day thinking of all the passion and connection that will never be again.

He didn’t find her attractive but she’s better looking than him 😂

When he said “Good for you, taking initiative, blaming yourself..for once” and then an ad played I went 😲😳

Knew he was toxic straight away When she had headphones on he said he didn't find her attractive but he then realized she was BUT when he was telling HER, he said he didn't find her attractive and never told her he eventually did. Classic playing on her ego to make her feel small. Well done for leaving girl.

“i made her choose between me and her friends and she chose her friends and that was her toxic trait” ?!?!

They’re able to talk about their feelings and not cry. MUST BE NICE. I’d be choking up

“It was good that you took that initiative and blamed yourself for once.” WHAT

“He has a car” 🤣 every freshman girl lmfao

"Do you think that I have a to do list where I put: To piss off Richard?!" Lol i felt that in every single way lmao

This guy doesn’t represent all Richards, just saying.

“He was like the driver of the group” Yeah, because y’all were like 14 and he was already graduated. Yikes, one of those guys.

She looks different irl than what she posts on in my god

Gotta love how she takes 0 responsibility for anything and even blames him for subsequent relationship failure. No, honey that is not how life works.

Sooo is no one going to mention that’s she’s misswendyyy? The girl who made them funny ass videos about makeup on early Insta?

why tf did I get closure from this video lol

"I didn't find her attractive at FIRST" This man is covering his ass for some statutory charges lol.

She’s blaming him for everything she can’t have a simple argument

Even though their relationship was toxic, she is so much happier with a baby and someone who treats her great

Guy looks like an asian Elon Musk

girl: i know for a fact i loved him more than he loves me also girl: he's a 6/ I don't think he's that attractive

Boys: Why is she so aggressive? Girls: why is the he yelling at her!!

Sounds like he doesn't really give a damn about her and she is way to salty about it. Typical toxic relationship really. They were togheter only because of habit I guess.

If i didn’t already know of her, I would’ve found her extremely annoying but since I’ve been following her on social media for years I’m like “oh that’s so Wendy 🤣”

"I was barely becoming a freshman, he was already graduating"sounds about right.. Seniors do love their freshman.💀

Followed her for a long time, and I'm happy that she's in a better place now ❤️

Target held their relationship together longer than it was supposed to be 😂

she was lowkey listening to him lmao

4:58 Something really important and telling happened here. He explained very plainly that they fought, and he would feel drained, so he knew that he needed to end it. That is very understandable. No blame there, just a feeling, and a need. Her immediate response wasn't to meet that, but to assume blame and immediately bite back. Throughout the whole video I felt that he was telling his truth, while she was talking from a place of conflict. I wonder how that played out when they were together, and how it factored into their breakup. They could just be incompatible in important ways. Like maybe she's wiser with other people but certain things about him trigger her due to some prejudices from childhood, which is fair enough. Or I'm just projecting lol. It's fun to contemplate these things based on pretty much nothing.

Him: I wasn’t even there when that happened Her: I know, that’s the thing, where were you? I died lmao 💀😂

Can we talk about how she came with sweat pants and slippers?? Sis is slying

She's legit dressed like she's at a prison visit lmao

Hats off to both of them for their honesty. Makes you wonder why they couldn't have sat down and had this chat at the time?

She said that she never loved him and then later in the same vid says she loved him more than he loved her lmao

Damn and all this time I would see her being told that she was to blame by everyone on social media for her and Richard not being together cause she got her body done and literally it was his fault for being shady smh and she never once but their business out there about that. Damn just goes to show how people are sheep and just go along with what they assume smh.

When she said, I know for a fact I loved him way more he loved me. That one hit hard

bruh how old are they? they’re so childish like wtf

Now Wendy is thriving and glowing with her baby daddy!

I’ve been following Wendy for years even when she was with Richard and the fact that she was so civil online when everyone blamed her for the breakup (people assumed because she got her body done) proves that she was in a new chapter in her life that she didn’t want to lose. But I agree there was an IG story about how so many guys compliment her and how Richard was lucky. But this video was proof how he didn’t even bother to hype her up. I almost cried just watching this but her apology was just spot on 🙏🏾 I’m so glad she has her own little family and is being more understanding and loved by her current significant other 🥰

“I didn’t even find her that attractive to begin with” bruh... my man could NEVER. Everytime I ask him about our first time meeting he was literally so overwhelmed with how “beautiful” I was and how he’s so thankful and lucky he is to have me. This relationship had lack of communication and insecurity on both sides, probably looked for things in each other that they couldn’t find in each other. Stayed in the relationship just for each other’s existence to have, and unfortunately for Wendy she loved him more than he ever did.

I think a valuable lesson to whomever is the needier one in a relationship needs to learn that the other won't always just compliment you just because. Unless you two are similar in the fact that you both need lots of attention and compliments, don't always expect it and when it does happen don't take it for granted as it means more if you say something less with more meaning than more with less meaning.

This was more chill than I expected

“Yeah that’s the thing... where were you?”- point made.

“I didn’t think you were that cute.” Uhm he’s not cute at all

THATS MY GIRLLLLLLLL. you can tell they both changed for the better. 💗

Interesting video! I'd love to see more exes talking about their relationship.

OMG! I remember them! She's a whole mom and wife now.

Dam yall won't know why I have 17k likes

"He had a car" great at picking people out.

ik they aren’t together but friendship wise they’re bond is amazing

do six professional lie detector people against one professional liar in odd man out

"We met in high school" Alright cool "I had just become a freshman and he had just graduated" wuHUT

Everyone has a past, you gotta move on, that’s what shows your strength

These videos make my emotional fr...

This girl had a viral insta video where she did her makeup with no background music so she just narrated it, or am i the only one who remembers?

Usually things are so calm and everybody eventually understands each other's points of view... not this time! xD

Damn who this one hit deep in the heart you else seen this after a breakup and cried and at the end seeing them part ways🥺