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Although trauma bonds are actually toxic patterns of relating, this video explores my personal experience growing up in one. Despite the abusive dynamics (or rather BECAUSE of them), when I was feeling "chosen" and "seen," I actually felt powerful. I felt like I had some control. And the contrast of going from being ignored, punished and devalued to suddenly being adored had a magical quality that people often mistake for love.
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Dr. Ingrid Clayton is a clinical psychologist, trauma therapist and trauma survivor speaking on the intersection of Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma. She combines her personal experiences of childhood trauma with her clinical background to educate others on trauma responses, trauma bonding, trauma reenactment and more.
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