I agree with Mpumi. After a fall-out with a friend, don’t expect to go back to where things were, just focus on what’s ahead. We should not shy away from having uncomfortable conversations with our friends, don’t rush to apologise and forgive because most time it’s not genuine.

I love how Brenden doesn't really want to have an opinion on how people live their lives... It's a teaching moment, everytime!

Guys...im 6 min into this but i just need to pose and acknowledge how beautiful Mpoomy is. Also, guy i love how you've been keeping neutral colors in your latest videos, it makes everything look so exquisite. You are doing a great job

My husband was also nice to me when we met but I had to initiate things. I told him that he had to make up his mind about me because we both like each other 😂😂😂 I basically gave him an ultimatum. That was 2 years ago. And now we’ve been married for 3 months. And we’re very happy.

"if you can't save, don't even think of investing".. I felt that! 🥵🔥

When Mpoomy said "men don't wanna be men anymore" my mind "Bafana ba ke banyana, banyana ba ke Bafana". I'll stick to my old ways of dating - men must chase...ain't chasing anyone nna

Brenden is so emotionally wise. Bless!

My favourite couple, as s 20 year old I've learnt a lot about being a future good father and husband. I wish to meet this couple and just dash them a 100k because they deserve it.

100% agree with Mpoomy on the “traditional “ way of pursuit. I still fall under those that believe that men should chase and go after the ones they want. That way he appreciates more what he had to work for..

What Brenden has mentioned is the Golden rule of money. : Spend less than you earn. The less you spend, the more you have available to earn. If we miss this, there's basically no disposable income to do anything else.

That facial expression Mpoomy made on 33:02 when Brenden was trying to highlight why an an open marriage can make sense to others, sent me 🤣🤣🤣. One thing about Brenden, He will view concepts from all angles 😅.

Please I love it here. You guys said quality, background, wardrobe, make up and INSIGHT. Talk about premium content

I agree with Mpoomy on that one. I don’t believe in girls making the first move yo. If he wants it bad enough, he’ll take initiative. Anyone can be nice🙊

I completely agree with Mpoomy's point about how men don't wanna be men anymore 😂😂. Silly example, but I'm in matric and so far at school we've had zero promposals, when we question the boys as to why they're not asking girls out, they say that they are afraid of rejection😭. Like no man

Yeey, love from Kenya. Since I came across this channel I've learnt alot despite being single and young. Can't wait to hear and be part of this discussion.

Yoh! Let's take a minute to appreciate the production. Its amazing how you guys have gradually improved and are gradually improving still. The sound, the background setting, the text-labelling, honestly everything. Truly inspired by the growth.

😂😂😂"Knotless braid princess!" I enjoyed this discussion.

I agree with Brenden that a lady should ask a guy out. If a guy is slow to make a move and you feel him, go for it, sis. I did and we are now happily married for 3 years :-).

Good to have you guys back, loving the topic❤️

You guys are so honest and such individuals, Brenden is so smart and respectful thank you guys for sharing, keep it real Brenden always.

I this "potential" thingy deserves a podcast separately Pls.. Coz people want to be with a person based on wat they can see or have physically, but fail to see the potential.. Discernment spirit is very very important

Notification Gang, keep them coming, more wisdom and knowledge, much love my favs💖

I learned a lot from this, thanks guys 💕

Really enjoyed this episode. Really motivating it’s true, if something is your passion money doesn’t matter that much. Love it.

I really enjoyed today's podcast as always, thank you ❤️

I really enjoyed this video, I even took notes! It is a blessing to be able to learn from you guys! Thank you and may God continue to richly bless you!

Always excited for another banger from yall, Lots of love ❤ and blessings 🙌

This conversation reminds me of when I started my career as an engineer, aspiring but making very little to nothing. Then my friend introduced me to you earlier video where you were singing "Jesus make new wine out of me🍷🎶😍" Need I say more... In the crushing I surrender.. Sometimes it seems like nothing is happening and you are pouring your all into something. Something is always happening. Think of the parable of the talents in the Bible 🙏. It takes time but put it your all and something will always prevail

Just started watching you guys a few days ago & I LOVE YOU GUYS!

Been waiting... The excitement on my face... My gosh

Love "afloat not affluent " -laughter was Amazing!!!!. Love tuning in to your podcasts guys!

You guys are glowing !!!!!

I can’t wait for the day you record a video announcing your first book. Love your content Mpoomy! Here’s to living intentionally❤️

I always learn one or two things from u guys ….keep pushing we love it here❤️

Love love these conversations always looking forward for the new podcasts

Great installment guys as usual! What I'd say on the friendship with single people is that you can absolutely be in a solid friendship with a person who is single. Paul(a single man) spoke extensively about marriage in the Bible and had the same Spirit we do. So I believe that your single friends can give you valuable advise that can help your relationship with a spouse. It doesn't have to speak directly into your marriage but can be good general advise on how to handle yourself in a certain situation that can help your relationship with your spouse.

I enjoyed every bit of this Q & A. Intelligent and mind engaging discussions wow mehn! i am blessed with you guys. And keep up the great work guys. love you😘(sharing this vid with my friends right away💃💃

I enjoyed this Q&A so much and resonated with the views about being a creative and not doing it for the money. Such a wholesome conversation guys

“If you can’t save, don’t even think of investing.” Damn 😭. You have literally taught me so much in one line.

“You have to believe in a person…”. No truer words have been said 🙌🏿.

Always a pleasure, Thank you 🙏

Notification Gang my favourite Mrs Mom hello. Missed you so much ❤❤

The chemistry between you guys is so beautiful😭we learn so much from you guys and love you so much❤❤

I really enjoy these ..so informative. You guys are great :)

Realest conversation. I love love you guys🙇🏾‍♀️ God bless❤️❤️

This Q&A is great! I love the friendship between the two of you guys! May the Lord continue to bless you. We love you ❤

The high potential chat will always remind me of acrimony 😂😂 great advise especially finical advice

What a healing thank you guys God continue blessing you with a spirit of wisdom.

It’s always such an honour watching our favourite people 😍🙌🏻🥹

So happy to learn from my favorite couples,as always😍❤❤

Notification gang gang! Missed you guys❤

Thank you for having these conversations they help alot, currently 20 and there are things I am going to have to navigate and I think these conversations are great awareness givers. So happy I can always come back and listen again. God bless💐❤

We are consistently learning and growing on this channel. Thank you so much Mrs mom and Brendane Praise for always sharing those gems of wisdom with us. It truly does make a difference in our lives, we are mostly impacted and changed for the better by being a part of this family. Thank you once more.❤❤❤ Ps. These words come from the bottom of my heart. I am truly filled with so much gratitude and May God bless you fam.🙏🏾

You guys are just amazing....the alignment in your conversation is incredible. Be blessed and be kept.

It's Mpumi's perfect makeup for me...love the topic guys ,thank you.

Perspective on friendship by Mrs Mom👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 we should categorize our relationships💯

I've always felt like I'm seen as the kind of person that doesn't like to apologise, when in actual fact, I have no problem with apologising when I know that I messed up. I've always felt like I just apologise to validate the other person but I am unsatisfied in the end because I was really being my best in the situation. This was so comforting to me. Thank you

Premium Quality International Content !!!! Such an honor to receive such content wooow We are a blessed Generation with you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Brendan “if you are a deep mzalwane” ay that line sent me🤣🤣😂😂😂you guys are funny. Can’t keep a straight face while watching you. Thanks for the chat

Lol I use to also be old school about asking a man out. I now agree with Brenden, some guys are shy and need a "push" 😁 The relationship can still work out perfectly. For example, bona Pretty Ugly and Bontle 😍 A beautiful relationship that started with the lady shooting her shot.

Love you guys. You are awesome. 💕💕💕

Thank you for encouraging me as a creative❤️

This is a packed and profound, helpful presentation. Thank you guys

I love how you guys watched insecure ✨

I enjoy Brenden's open-mindedness so much.

A bit uncomfortable with the lion-buck analogy. I think that is the very mentality we are trying to dismantle. It's not chasing, it's communication. I absolutely agree with Brenden. How the relationship starts does not define how it will progress. Definitely nothing wrong with women taking initiative.

I loved this so much!

The way I use what you guys say in conversations is like we are real life friends🤣 I will go like, Mpoomy said this… my boo gets confused because he doesn’t know you all. I’m definitely getting him to watch one of your episodes 🤣 I’m done with the questions.

This was very interesting to watch and very informative. You both have the wisdom of God. I have learnt so much from this podcast. ❤

I love Brendens perspective, he knows what works for him and what God has planned for him but he won't look at what people's lives are structured. What he also said about being broke but having potential 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

I can't actually listen to you the whole day yazi❤️🙏

The friendship conversation hey, I think we also mustn’t find ourselves in situations where we move on with people that have done thing that really hurt us. You can forgive someone and choose not to want to move on with them.

You guys r such a treasure thank u for this discuss

I love the braids 🤦🏾‍♀️😭😭 Please plug me. You look gorgeous

The open marriage issue is so tricky lol! New perspective on the concubines even in the Bible. I think the conversation should span beyond just finances and also include the humas-apect. Very interesting topic!

I enjoyed this conversation sooo much especially the finances part

Nice closing Mpumi, I so much agree

All career paths have an element of being hard... You need to choose your path knowing that you'll be tolerant of the hard that comes with it... Just because people say they went for what their passionate about, doesn't mean they have it easy...

I have cost us a lot of money but I have also made us a lot of money 🔥🔥

Very insightful, thanks. All the way from 🇳🇦🥳🥳

“I wasn’t broke, I was broke” damn Mr. Ledwaba ngalama one liner are top tier.

Hey guys, please don’t forget us there by the podcast. Some of us listen in the car on our way to & fro work. Love you guys thanks bye lol 💕

Braid Princess, the way Brenden said and Mpumi smiled ❤️❤️❤️😍

I think women should stop waiting around to be “chosen” and start asking questions. She clearly wants a future with him so she can ask him what his goals are for their relationship and if they are not on the same page ,she can then make a decision for herself. Waiting around can cause resentment in the long run.

I love you guys so much ❤️

Ofcourse; fulfilment is the go. Thanks much.

The way Mpoomy almost got jealous there when Brenden said "I would want to be asked out" 😍😂 so sweet.

Finances are something close to my heart, what the scripture says in Deuteronomy 8:18, " Remember the Lord your God. He is the one who give you the *Power to be wealthy*...." I'm going to end it here but my thing is we have the Power that is vested in us by the Lord our God to be successful all we have to do is to put on the work and be disciplined and intentional. We can't ask for spirit of money then we sit and do nothing, God gave us the power to be successful and wealthy.

Today Brenden brought it. Well done guys.

Mrs mom looks gorgeous 😍

Sooo powerful. It's okay for people to not want more, you just need to find someone who wants more. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

You got a good one Mpoomy😍

15:30 " knotless braids 🤴 " 😂😂 Man I love you guys😊

I agree with mpoomy Men dont wanna be men anymore ! And they are naturally chasers! Girls should ease the process but i don't think it is for them to chase. But surely clarity is needed. When things are clear, a girl Can Ask him out too. Thank you very much, i always learn things from your podcasts. Be blessed🙏

Affluent😂😂😂kuback room? This made me laugh 😃 watched it over and over again...love this young couple. Thanks for sharing the wisdom to many out there🙏🏼

Mpoomy🥰 damn!!! You re so beautiful and gorgeous..I love u a lot❤️❤️

Hey to my favorite couple 😍

Loved this whole podcast. Engaging arguements carried with respect...or some! Definitely agree with Brandon about the idea of ladies taking initiative and I do find Mpoomy's opinion on this a little backward. x

Thank you for teaching me affluent and afloat.

Brenden,"I wasn't poor,I was broke." Yes please😂😂🤞