Forced To Live In a Shed as a Child - Date's Heartbreaking Story

Forced To Live In a Shed as a Child - Date's Heartbreaking Story | First Dates

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6 жыл бұрын

He had his bedroom moved to the shed.
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@Channel4Entertainment 6 жыл бұрын

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@sjg2 6 жыл бұрын

but what episode is this? that is the real question.

@sjg2 6 жыл бұрын

Hey me from the past, it is season 10 Episode 9

@rhythmisadancer8394 6 жыл бұрын

sjg2 Nice one mate 😊

@iancannon2825 4 жыл бұрын

@Joana C Me too!☹ I'm in Australia!🇦🇺How's about you?🙄

@iancannon2825 4 жыл бұрын

@Channel 4 Hey Channel 4! You guys need to get your shit together!🤨 Here in Oz🇦🇺,we can't download your app or watch any of your episodes!😡....☹

@saltycycling 6 жыл бұрын

I've always said - if a child REALLY loves school there must be something bad going on in the house...

@LoveYou-ol3dt 4 жыл бұрын

Damn I loved school lol...😕

@EIsabella1 4 жыл бұрын

True that

@Karlijn2 4 жыл бұрын

Or in the shed.

@rahbid121 4 жыл бұрын

I had an abusive upbringing, but I hated school.

@natalala1803 4 жыл бұрын

Dokladnie!

@ibrarmfaiz 6 жыл бұрын

Want to know the saddest part guys ? She liked him and found him really interesting so wanted another date. He REALLY liked her but didn't want another date because he felt that it would be a few dates and that he wouldn't ultimately make her happy for life so she still needs to find her soulmate......wtf how like genuine can someone be

@StonerAardvark 6 жыл бұрын

fuck ;_;

@Gadfly333 6 жыл бұрын

or gay?

@stanbarkworth6198 6 жыл бұрын

Ibrar Faiz because he was neglected as a young man. When people are abandoned/neglected and seen as the least favourite by their parents they think it's their fault and push people away later in life...

@bloodsling 6 жыл бұрын

His folks putting him in a shed for 5 years did a number on him,his thought is if even his folks can cast him aside then why would a woman ever love him.

@mzaphod64 6 жыл бұрын

Stan Barkworth That's sad. How do you counter that?

@jessicab4751 6 жыл бұрын

Awe, bless him. He deserves a great life.

@erica5624 6 жыл бұрын

ben grey wtf is wrong with you?

@adamwest2688lea 6 жыл бұрын

ben grey that’s a bit cold. I mean do you just dabble in talking bullshit or is it a full time thing?

@GBAPCLAN 6 жыл бұрын

ben grey is getting into heated debates on KZfaq about masculinity alpha? He's confident enough to go on national television and open up about himself.

@mandyschmidt7164 6 жыл бұрын

ben grey ironic that you, a beta male, are telling others they need to be alpha. He’s more of a man than you are. Also, please get an education. Your syntax, diction, grammar and just overall literacy is awful. Go ahead, reply to me and get butthurt. It only proves my point, so go for it🤷🏼‍♀️

@adamwest2688lea 6 жыл бұрын

Ben Grey, you have proven my point. Your comments and attitude do not sound manly of alpha but instead childish and attention seeking. Mandy is proof that she is not impressed from your attitude and has not fallen for you. I would also suggest you watch the clip again as the woman seems interested in him. It takes a lot of strength and character to go through what that person has gone through growing up and takes even more strength to tell someone.

@MartinsGarage97 6 жыл бұрын

I bet he's a great guy.

@bengrey4856 6 жыл бұрын

he is not going to get women acting soft and crying about childhood he is putting himself in friend zone right away

@katherinepettit6585 6 жыл бұрын

He's so cute and sweet sooooo dateable! 😍💓

@bengrey4856 6 жыл бұрын

yah you will get all the resources you can from him because he will give them too you then when the time comes in your cycle you go out and screw the alpha male who does not give a fk

@katherinepettit6585 6 жыл бұрын

He seems like boyfriend material not promiscuous 😍💓 so calm and cuddly haha

@bengrey4856 6 жыл бұрын

he would fold in a street confrontation against aggressive men , fail in a animal attack and not be prepared in a survival situation with knowledge and gear there is a reason you ladies go for us alphas is because we are the strongest to survive and protect not be crybaby material , we all would not be here if men were weak and cuddly

@clairefigiolini5856 6 жыл бұрын

No wonder he loved school.. he felt part of something, sense of belonging!! Humans are made that way, so if you don't receive it from your parents for whatever reason you search elsewhere x

@chellephillips349 5 жыл бұрын

so true.

@Redruby27 5 жыл бұрын

Claire Figiolini Yep I had this said about me as a young girl

@BarriosGroupie 4 жыл бұрын

Yep, that's why so many from broken homes fall into the prison system or right-wing nationalism because they find their sense of family there.

@Tombrosapien 4 жыл бұрын

Barrios Groupie Or gangs, or the army

@abz1ist 4 жыл бұрын

hauha most introverts still want to be part of something, just in small doses

@HashCorp_ 3 жыл бұрын

The thing about being neglected as a kid is that you don't know how bad you have it because you don't know any better. It's only as you get older that you realize just how damaging it truly was..

@viola7052 6 жыл бұрын

His parents are terrible, they sound like Petunia and Vernon Dursley but a shed instead of a cupboard under the stairs

@viola7052 6 жыл бұрын

kellyc612 Yes and she chose a man over her own son, so sad

@howey935 5 жыл бұрын

@@viola7052 it disgusting but shes not the first and definatly wont be the last to put a man before her kids. If my mother had a boyfriend and he suggested me or my brother had to live in a garden shed its him who would be in the shed but more than likely out the door with his bags. Im so glad and so lucky i have an amazing mother. She brought me and my brother up alone after we lost my dad when i was only 3 so I can only remember having a mother. Even before my dad died i hardly saw him as he was in the navy and spent 10 month a year at sea.

@ashleym8658 4 жыл бұрын

@Nenethegreat W i know, how can someone ckmpare a true life story to Harry Potter wtff

@ediejeanne1930 3 жыл бұрын

i’m maxes little sister, my mum is one of the most incredible women in my whole life, my real dad (maxes step dad) didn’t get along with max and my other sister, they were not abusive at all nor terrible

@shoot4thstars 5 жыл бұрын

Some of the nicest people have the biggest issues. He has very low self-esteem and abandonment and trust issues. I think he can work through it. He has intelligence on his side and once he does he is the kind of person who would blossom knowing he is loved. I wish him luck. Never give up.

@weknowwhatweare7600 4 жыл бұрын

This guy is so humble when he is talking about his upbringing he down plays everything

@esma2933 4 жыл бұрын

‘I love school so much, its probably because of the attention’ that part broke me man😔😔 I really hope he gets the best life and sweetest wife ever💕💕..

@soundseeker63 6 жыл бұрын

Well, I say shame on the stepfather for doing that to him, and equally shame on his mother for letting him do that to her son! He seems to have turned out really well considering what crappy parents he appears to have had. Respect for that!

@thisguy976 5 жыл бұрын

@Vankruze negligence, poverty is never an excuse for neglect.

@thisguy976 5 жыл бұрын

@Vankruze well you asked why he was left isolated and I replied with neglect as the answer to your question. They parents could have been poor but that's isn't a valid reason to neglect your child or in other terms it isn't an excuse.

@terrysmith295 4 жыл бұрын

How did no one know this? The school his classmates

@terrysmith295 4 жыл бұрын

I think both parents should be arrested . What happens to the next kid

@rmz2232 4 жыл бұрын

You know nothing about went on. why do people feel the need to share their useless feelings on these things like they know everything. okay yeah his stepfather seemeed shitty but who is to say his mother enjoyed this? You never know what happens behind closed doors. I'm not feeling sorry for.his parents at all, no kid deserves that upbringing. But he never said as to why, as someone said before could have been because of the money, maybe it was abuse.... Who knows.... He had it difficult and he didn't deserve any of that.

@tinabaker8115 6 жыл бұрын

What a lovely bloke..

@speedy28001 5 жыл бұрын

Tina Baker bloke?

@lordfondue2215 3 жыл бұрын

@@speedy28001 yeah

@Jojohumf 6 жыл бұрын

Damn he seems like such a down to earth guy, I hope he finds love. Wish him and her all the best. He might have been taken out of school but you can see his clear intelligence

@PunkyPrincessPop 6 жыл бұрын

Cetus he wasn’t taken out of school, he was taken out of his home.

@IHACKER316 6 жыл бұрын

What a great guy - Love him

@helenlingard7790 6 жыл бұрын

Hes so gorgeous, I want to give him a hug.. I hope they last..

@ffi1001 5 жыл бұрын

Helen Lingard he decided not to date her

@mikelitorous5570 5 жыл бұрын

Helen Lingard tell Jesse to play better

@TheWilDOn31 6 жыл бұрын

Some ppl should never be parents. How can you do that to a child? Bless him, he's good looking, and seems so sweet.

@lilylily3230 5 жыл бұрын

TheWiLdOne Daniela There are two sides to every story. He could have cast himself out of his family home out of jealousy or fighting with his step dad. Some kids like the attention 🤷🏻‍♀️ we'll never know

@Lucyinthskyy 5 жыл бұрын

Lily Lily wtf are talking about. It’s still his mothers fault for picking a man over him. You’re probably one of those.

@peterbalac1915 4 жыл бұрын

@@lilylily3230 I pondered on what you said lily and somewhat agree, I've witnessed this ist hand with my freind and his son. The shed as his son called it was a summer house although it was built of timber it was very warm and cosy, basic amenities like having your own pad he had his drum kit playstation ect. Tha lad in question was a bit of a loner similar age to this kid at the time. He could have stayed in the house he chose not to, obviously there is more involved to my freinds story but basically you summed it up.

@emilyryan892 4 жыл бұрын

@@lilylily3230 "cast himself out". He was 11 for God's sake. A CHILD. Whether it was attention seeking or not no child deserves to be neglected. Idiotic comment.

@shannondavidson683 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah but I would like to know if he communicated this to his mother at the time? I know my teenage daughter and I have had times where we made decisions together that she said and seemed to be perfectly ok with at the time. And then months later it came out that she was very upset about it (was sharing a room with my BF's daughter). I honestly didn't know she was all that time as we had had many conversations with her to make sure she felt absolutely comfortable and ok with whatever rooming situation was decided upon. Just saying. I was heartbroken to learn that she felt like it wasn't her room or home anymore as a result of something I thought she was good with. 🤷‍♀️

@emilyslaton2100 5 жыл бұрын

My dad beat me up regularly and I constantly had to wear dark sunglasses to school to hide the black eyes. Different kind of child abuse but still just as terrible. I feel for him and I 100% relate to his comment that the abuse changed him for the rest of his life. It changed me.

@KingFrederik1309 5 жыл бұрын

@Vankruze it's not that easy fucktard...

@petuniamuffins 5 жыл бұрын

Vankruze Yes, she’s the “dumbass” as opposed to the person trolling someone sharing a story of abuse. You must be well liked and not at all tedious to be around. Good job.

@lila8546 5 жыл бұрын

Vankruze you’re disgusting.

@lila8546 5 жыл бұрын

Emily Slaton I’m so sorry. I wish you happiness for the rest of your life. I hope you know you don’t deserve any of the abuse that happened to you

@ralphlyda4545 5 жыл бұрын

I'm a stranger, but it breaks my heart this happened to you! 100% well wishes and, and Godspeed on your life from here forward!

@duvine3882 5 жыл бұрын

So dreamy with bedroom eyes, inner & outer beauty of an individual; like a strong shining diamond made out off pure pressure.

@napriaa5175 3 жыл бұрын

He's kind and funny, no one taught him that let alone anything hes just good. Even after being utterly neglected in every sense of the term he turned out good by the grace of God. I hope he gets the peace we all deserve, that he's never had. Sending love and strength to you from out in the world 💗.

@Cookieman524 5 жыл бұрын

Max, if you are reading this I totally understand why u did that. I have done the same before. It's not good for us tho bro. I'm 31 soon and never had a gf because of fear of intimacy because of the emotional pain that I feel due to being abandoned as a kid. I get told I'm a great guy and get attention from girls but I have a problem. I have decided now to go to counselling to try sort it out. Please do the same mate. And also next time a girl likes u and u like her just stay with it as best u can man even if u have to take it really really sliwly. Be strong, I know it is painful, but it will get easier. The right girl will bewith u regardless. I am doing this now as my psychotherapist recommended I just 'stay with it'. I can only handle friendship for now tho as even a basic connection like this is something I never had. It's easier now. I set u that challenge man to 'stay with it'!

@jemmaj2919 5 жыл бұрын

Mathew Cooke, waw my brother is 35, we r trying to help him to date too, i never realised the fact he was abandoned as a child might be the reason for this... Im speechless.

@ralphlyda4545 5 жыл бұрын

What a lovely, heartfelt comment! Quite good advice, and absolute Godspeed to both of you chaps!

@hellovanite 4 жыл бұрын

I highly recommend you do some spiritual healing in order to let go of the past. Meditation is excellent for this but you must do it guided first.

@yasminwinwinkxD 4 жыл бұрын

Best wishes! You can do it! Xx

@MissCBwasadancer3 4 жыл бұрын

Very kind & brave of you to tell your story. My thoughts are with you. Reiki is wonderful for all kinds of pain. I wish you luck in your journey. ‘Love & light’💡

@krystal498 5 жыл бұрын

God I pray he finds his soulmate. An lived the happiest life ever.

@tasneemshhake 6 жыл бұрын

Heart breaking 😢

@magaman5154 5 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately as lovely as a bloke he seems to be..he personifies the motto nice guys finish last

@blademaster9297 2 жыл бұрын

He seems like a beautiful soul. Obviously still holding onto a lot of trauma from his childhood. I hope he finds happiness.

@katlondon9618 6 жыл бұрын

Heartbreaking. We are told all the time as teachers how much school can mean to children. We are so aware of this but never quite know who the child is as it’s not obvious. Hope his life now is lovely.

@opheliacloser6255 5 жыл бұрын

I want to date him! He's adorable, pretty and I just want to sit down with him, talk about life and the world and hug him for what has happened. See his drawings, hear his poetry, just, like, spend time with him to find out more about his personality.

@rinkle396 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah so did she and he rejected her

@laurenbonsor2359 4 жыл бұрын

What a sweet sweet guy. I never find myself interested in anyone and I shall stay this single until I find someone like him

@keepXonXrockin 4 жыл бұрын

I wonder how his little sister feels about this now, looking back on it as an adult. Wonder if she realised that her parents were being horrible.

@ralphlyda4545 5 жыл бұрын

Max, you are an absolutely lovely human being!!! Most people would have crippling hatred over the abuse you suffered, but you are philosophical about it, and have a wonderful personality!!! A few detractors are saying you're gay, but I don't believe that; it's just their feelings of inadequacy about themselves. In addition to being one of the loveliest personalities on the planet, you're extremely good-looking. You'll make a lovely husband for any human you choose, and any human would be extremely fortunate to have you as a friend!!! Absolute well wishes and Godspeed for your life!!!!!!!

@charlisa24mimi 6 жыл бұрын

I'm the biggest lesbian but i want him, he's so sweet

@duvine3882 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks sister, more than sweet; naturally feminine without trying. Perhaps the studious isolation, the lashes, the smile, mannerisms, tone, level & inflection of voice, expressions, the perfect one for any who dislike & get turn off masculinity or machismo in others.

@BarriosGroupie 4 жыл бұрын

He comes across as gay, so perhaps you're attracted to his femininity.

@1rewd133 4 жыл бұрын

How big, exactly? 295, 300 ?

@keithhinchcliffe5629 4 жыл бұрын

@@BarriosGroupie - You gay people are so good at picking up on that; he didn't come across to me as gay at all; I missed it completely! Hat's off to ya Groupie Girl!

@lostinspace699 4 жыл бұрын

You can have me ,,, Yes

@jojobee42 6 жыл бұрын

What a lovely guy! And it has nothing to do with the shed - not saying this out of pity etc - he's just a really nice guy! And the best part is he doesn't even realize it himself.

@tommyftw4996 6 жыл бұрын

He seems like a great guy. Most people would break after going through what he's been through.

@kingpuppet5881 5 жыл бұрын

I want to give him a big hug. It's nice to see that he is doing something creative and amazing with his life. You can't change your past but your future is very much in your control. They seemed really cute together.

@scharika1 5 жыл бұрын

Awh his story actually hurts to listen too, he seems like such a genuine and loving gentleman. Would love to go on a date with him ❤️

@sykosaiphy 6 жыл бұрын

Feel so sorry for him 🤕no one deserves that upbringing

@jaimeewitkowski9918 5 жыл бұрын

He's such a genuinely kind soul, god love him. Just hearing that absolutely broke my ♥ heart. No child should be treated that way, I just want to hug him xx

@Jac-Jay 4 жыл бұрын

Shame on his "parents"....some people don't deserve children.

@ramtoon 6 жыл бұрын

Aww he is making me sob reminds me of my childhood

@ATrueLoveOfficial 6 жыл бұрын

*Different is good* Indeed man, indeed. A painful past can teach you a lot of lesson. And since you're there now, in front of that beautiful lady means you survived and learned from it. You are both adorable. I wish you the best. :)

@lewislewis4811 5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely heart breaking I’m proud of u for talking about it

@Bed8Biscuits 4 жыл бұрын

Where ever this man is, I hope and pray he is happy, sending warmest hugs god bless x

@x4nd3r1n0 6 жыл бұрын

"Its going to put Tinder in the BINder" Me: *screams internally*

@chrizzygoesoriginal 6 жыл бұрын

That is so sad

@LittleLifeGuru 5 жыл бұрын

Such a lovely human being. Love the way he thinks. Found him hilarious

@connorlowe1302 5 жыл бұрын

You're a hero mate. Keep on keeping on.

@racquel9742 5 жыл бұрын

Omdssss I can relate!! I've never heard this. I loved school too because of what I went through as a child. You are amazing and the journey makes u who you are!

@bojana27 4 жыл бұрын

😔 sending this boy good vibes he deserves the best in life, nobody can give you your childhood back or make it better, but you can have the best life ever I promise.

@rachelnikiforou4639 6 жыл бұрын

what a delightful angel he is

@sebastianp3181 6 жыл бұрын

Wow dude, I lived in a shed too but I hated school. My fav size card has to be small enough to make a descent roach

@FeOfTheElement 6 жыл бұрын

Sebastian P madman

@mush3787 6 жыл бұрын

Quality

@justloc3908 6 жыл бұрын

loool

@anguskane8195 6 жыл бұрын

A big piece of card is unlimited roach my dude

@kingjaack6332 6 жыл бұрын

U killed me 😂

@emerlytodd6486 5 жыл бұрын

The sad thing is he’s going to keep pushing girls away in fear of rejection. I wish him all the best and hope he finds the one.

@lisagoff2033 3 жыл бұрын

An absolute gentleman and beautiful person. ❤️

@eggznbakey1 6 жыл бұрын

This broke my heart! Such a lovely guy, but his background has left him so vulnerable and scared of rejection. I hope he comes back. X

@Aliyah8754 6 жыл бұрын

Aww bless him. He looks like such a nice man😭

@jonathanwood8847 5 жыл бұрын

I love the sudden change of subject at the end

@asiamahmood8230 4 жыл бұрын

What a lovely bloke. I wish him all the success in every part of life

@beckyfab4874 5 жыл бұрын

Horrible vile mother . I hope she is feeling it now .. No child should have to endure a life like that It breaks my heart everytime I hear about kids who are neglected abused . This has to stop My prays are for any child who is experience abuse . Reach out to someone or myself , organisation. You are not alone and your life does matter ...

@poppybee9709 5 жыл бұрын

What a guy. The question he asks at the end. Much love to you in your life.

@caitlin3362 6 жыл бұрын

Bless his heart

@mikajulius8148 6 жыл бұрын

😢What a beautiful soul he has & still a sense of humour despite it all,bless.

@sineadcollins7594 3 жыл бұрын

That poor man. His story is heartbreaking 💔 I do hope he finds happiness & his soulmate ❤️

@jojibot9193 6 жыл бұрын

So is Tinder in the Binder yet?

@lisab9541 5 жыл бұрын

Did he come up with Bumble?

@RabbitTeaPot 5 жыл бұрын

Bumble! That’s what I was thinking...

@hollyrebekahblog7097 5 жыл бұрын

Witney Wolfe came up with Bumble.

@diamondhead5432101 5 жыл бұрын

His app is called, "The Shed".

@adam-uy6qg 4 жыл бұрын

Think he made grinder

@dmballadon 4 жыл бұрын

Wtf isn’t that illegal? Get that stepdad down the social work centre

@lily-may1056 6 жыл бұрын

He’s so cute!!!

@AH-mg3hj 5 жыл бұрын

He deserves nothing but the best, what a sweet soul

@lovervenable 4 жыл бұрын

I just want to hug him. Aww God bless you with love amd all the attention you deserve

@DrDudelidge Жыл бұрын

He turned out amazingly well for his experience. That’s the kinda stuff that creates dangerous individuals.

@thara21 5 жыл бұрын

Omg he is so amazing! I feel his pain. But what a strong man!

@TheMantaRae 6 жыл бұрын

Brilliant. And striking.

@kiefywhy4342 4 жыл бұрын

Some people make the worst parents. How can they send a child to a shed. Shame shame shame on his mother for doing that. She should have been there to look after him not abuse him.

@Hoodoo123 6 жыл бұрын

I like him:)

@carollothian4583 6 жыл бұрын

I really like him

@brienneoffriggintarth5510 5 жыл бұрын

He's such a wonderful person! I hope he finds love!

@dreamer2260 3 жыл бұрын

What an intelligent, lovely guy. Really feel for him. I hope he finds someone. They were both completely lovely actually.

@TinnyChai 6 жыл бұрын

Both of them are lovely!

@mikemackky346 4 жыл бұрын

Top lad.. Wish or good things mate sad an touching story stay up mate ull get the universe willprovide a beautiful spirit like you to.. All the best.

@theadinesen7294 6 жыл бұрын

I love how happy he was about School. I envy him. For me all I wanted was to be alone. I’m not trying to sound like I’m all sad and need some attention, that was just how it was for me in the situation with my family. He seems like a very warmhearted person

@pleasuredesire 3 жыл бұрын

Aww bless I just wanted to hug the guy when he said that. It’s so sad but he’s still such a lovely guy ❤️

@Kajp-se9eq 5 жыл бұрын

Omg what a monster mother he has. He's so sweet we can see his character he deserves to be happy.

@ediejeanne1930 3 жыл бұрын

i am maxes little sister, my mum is NOT a monster she is one of the most loving people ever, max and mum love each other to pieces

@alexgawthrop1748 4 жыл бұрын

Where is this geezer? Let me be friends man.

@erricashowe2140 6 жыл бұрын

Aw God Love him. The poor soul 😪 Such a lovely guy - I hope he finds love so much 💕

@samburns6405 5 жыл бұрын

I’d love to see some of those poems and drawings I reckon there real powerful

@barbaraoconnor7038 4 жыл бұрын

Poor guy, I hope he and anyone who is neglected as a child is surrounded by love as they grow up xx

@mitkat68 4 жыл бұрын

Bless him. How can parents be so cruel. I hope he finds love in its sinserest form

@peppermd9484 3 жыл бұрын

He is so nice. Hope he is blessed with a wonderful life

@JessicaHarmina 5 жыл бұрын

Every story makes you think of just how hard some ppl really have it.

@biggreen751 3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭 bless him he deserves so much more

@karlikm1119 4 жыл бұрын

This is a powerful video

@jus2cute09 5 жыл бұрын

Omg he’s so sweet and a lot of people would turn out complete psychos from that abuse but he seems emotionally intelligent. I would totally marry him.