Can you make a video on your experience on getting married so soon after your late husbands passing? Maybe talk about the struggles you and your husband go through with the grieving process.

It's ironically funny to me, the part where you talk about having women in your life that have their own struggles but pull through, and how you like to have those sorts of women in your life so that you can soak up some of that energy to utilize yourself because that's EXACTLY one of the reasons I've been following you for so long. You give off this vibe (at least to me) of calm, like you just handle everything that comes at you with as much grace as I've ever seen, and you refuse to let the tough times take away the little joys in life. You always seem to have a positive outlook. I know that's not reality, because you must have bad days too, but it does a remarkable job of inspiring me when I'm dealing with my own real life things. Because look - Emily's doing it, so can I. Even if "it" is just getting to the end of the day in one piece, grateful for what I have. Thank you for being one of those women for me. 💛

You are just so real and precious. No pressure for videos...give yourself grace. No expectations. Do what you enjoy...keep it simple and do what serves your family. If it's one video a week...the hurray! That's perfect. You are the Lord's favorite child, rest in that! And your journey is reaching so many that need to hear your words. Keep running that race! ❤

John is such a handsome little man. He looks just like Martin :) thank you for these videos. Some days I feel like I'm drowning in sadness or struggles of my everyday and words like this just give me that motivation to wanna do better and be better so thank you! I can't imagine how hard these last couple years have been. And for you to still put out videos and reach out...that is just a wonderful thing. Thank you! ❤️

It's so true. You and I have had vastly different life experiences, but have at some point shared similar pain and feelings of worthlessness. Even though I wish none of us suffered, it is strangely comforting to know that we're not alone in our times of depression and sadness. It doesn't matter to me which days you post - it's just REALLY good to see you showing up for yourself. I hope in some way, doing that helps you to heal. I find your videos very soothing xx

Thank you for sharing and opening up your heart to strangers. This is something people really need to hear. SO TRUE. Everyone has had trials, burdens, sadness, and loss and so many other things that we couldn't possibly name them. Knowing we are not alone is something that is so helpful. Of course we always have our Savior, but some who don't share our beliefs or need someone in life right now to relate to. We had a big sudden loss in our family this past August. And as you know....the grief ebbs and flows and comes in waves and at unexpected times. I am so glad you have a big supportive family & friends community and that you have Richard. Thanks for blessing & strengthening others by sharing your heart and your story.

This spoke to me so much! I go from feeling alone to getting back on my feet and then back down again and it all feels like a rollercoaster. I've tried to do an act of kindness or service to someone when I get to my lowest to pull me out of myself and my negative thoughts. Still tough. Much love and love seeing you back.

I appreciated this video. I admire your willingness to be so open and transparent. It is SO hard to open up in ways like you have lately. I've been finding a lot of peace through journaling, reading the book "present over perfect" and just acknowledging, like you said, that life isn't about being perfect. Thanks for being so real!

Really loved this video. I've been in a place lately of transition and change, and it's all good, but it's very new and it's very challenging, mentally-wise... It's NOTHING along the lines of what you've experienced and I feel guilty for struggling so much when I have a lot to be grateful for... but what I've really been doing a lot lately is just pressing into God, pressing into His heart and His will for me. Not letting anxiety/fear rule my day. And every day is a struggle and every day is a battle, but I'm trying to stay close to Him because that's the only place where I feel true comfort and peace. Meditating on Scripture really keeps the heart and mind stayed on Christ and it's SO necessary. I've been loving Psalm 118. I find it encouraging to know that we all share these kinds of low points, these times of hopelessness or discouragement... it's good to remember that there's always a bigger picture, there's always a POINT to what we go through, and God will never leave us nor forsake us. ♥ The future WILL be good, I loved that you said that.

I've been following your story for about two years now. Thank you for being such a source of strength. This video meant a lot to me. I'm 20 and have been dealing with a lot of serious issues with my siblings in the past 2 years and though obviously a completely set of experiences, this video brought me a lot of comfort. Thank you! Love from Australia! Xx

you're like my own personal motivational speaker!! i love how active you've been on youtube lately, it's so nice to see someone not filter their life, but rather speak so much from the heart. love from canada!!

You're wise beyond your years! I love soaking in your wisdom being that I was born into the informationist era and authentic messages like yours always seem to get washed away in the media. So, thank you! Your words mean the world to me!

Love all these new updates! I get extremely happy whenever I get your channel upload notification... lol. Thank you for these talking to you videos. They're super relatable. Love You and as always I wish you and your family all the best :)

I've been very sick since I was a kid. I'm 31 now with 3 daughters and a superman of a husband. But my illnesses are so unique and I feel alone all the time. What helps me is hearing this video. Knowing you don't have to be sick to feel alone. That others feel the exact same. Also having people on your side no matter how you feel. There has been so many times I've been told I was negative because I was sick all the time. Having someone you can go to that is not going to judge you if you're having one of those I don't feel very strong today days. Thank you for such an amazing video!

I am enjoying your videos. My grandma died this past St. Patricks Day and her funeral is on Mother's Day. My 90 year old grandpa is living with my parents and I'm taking care of him on my days off from work. I know your situation is different, but thank you for your positive messages. They have really helped the past month!

Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and rawness through your struggles. It's such an important reminder that everyone has struggles and reaching out for support is key. Love and blessings from Scotland, UK ❤️

I see positivity in you, but also a struggle within to stay positive amongst so many sad life events. I can relate to the sadness that sometimes tries to pull us down. However, there is always positivity and thankfulness keeping me up. My family keeps me up, always getting on my case when I self loathe. Your son is a gem, and one of the many reasons to stay positive. He looks so handsome like your late Martin.

I've only recently joined this community, but I just wanted to say how inspiring you are! Thank you for being honest and saying things as they are, it seems those qualities are rather rare nowadays, especially on social media... It's so important for people to accept how "normal" they are, and to stop holding themselves up to these impossible standards... Anyway, love watching your videos!

I needed to hear this today! We are not alone. Everyone goes through struggles. Thanks dear for being real and not glazing over the struggles in life.

I am in tears... I haven't found a way to combat these same feelings I have yet... This made me feel much less alone though...When you said failing means that you are trying- I needed to hear that... Thank you for this...

Hi Emily. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and advice in this video. I had a rather hard breakdown last night... yes I cried the "ugly cry" on the bathroom floor and had the mother of all puffy eyes to deal with this morning. Thank you for putting things into perspective for me again. We all have troubles and feel like we aren't worth anything to ourselves or anyone. But like you said, we aren't alone and there are always people to turn to who care for us when we need a little extra strength. You are a truely beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing yourself with all of us. You make a difference. Remember that on the good and especially the not so good days xx 🕊

Was really excited to see that you are doing lots of videos in April and popping back here often to catch your next one. Massive well done for keeping them going around the family life and other 10000 things you must have to do as a busy mum. I would also love to hear more about your and Richard's story - from the little bits that I have read on your blog and instagram, it really shows that he loves you so so much and you probably have a very unique love story to share. I was crying along with you watching the video when you opened the letter with Martin's words. I am quite new follower (sense you went on the Jenna Cutcher's podcast) and today I scrolled to all your old posts on the website - was so special to see as a quick climple few years of your life documented and looking forward to reading some of the older posts in the future as well. Thank you Emely for who you are and for sharing your heart with the world. You do matter so much! Teele (from Estonia but living in the UK)

First things first, YOU. LOOK. STUNNING. Ugh. I can't. You're so beautiful. And your hair is perfect. Second, You are incredibly strong and it's so cool to watch. It makes me feel like I can get through anything. 💛

After watching this video I created a playlist folder titled ‘motivational’ and added this one in to watch over again. I started following you after Martin got diagnosed so much of what I have seen of your life is about your struggles and how you find your strength. I love this style video and completely related to today’s topic about the combination of doing really well whilst also struggling with the voices that tell me otherwise. I was touched by your honest, out there approach to saying it how it is so thank you. A daily vlog would be fab ♥

this video resonated with me so much, thank you for being so real and relatable.

You're the only one I have my bell notifications on for, I love all your videos! I never hold it against you if you're not on "schedule", I'm just happy to watch a video when you do get the chance. I have three boys and it gets hectic so I can only imagine how busy you are with 5 little ones 💕 I've followed you for a few years, way before Martin got sick. I admire you so much, for all that you've endured you still radiate positivity. You're an inspiration! This may be silly but my hair is also red and I always dyed it because I remember being made fun for for it when I was younger, then I found your blog and realized how beautiful red hair is! I stopped coloring my hair and embraced my natural ❤️ My Husbands thankful because it's saving money having to color my hair every 6 weeks 🤣

loving these sit down videos! so excited when I see a new one pop up! there is a maturity and wisdom I don't get in other ppls videos. needing this lately!

I just want you to know that while I'm pretty sure I'm much older than you I find you to be such an inspiration to me. Your kind hearted beauty is just irreplaceable. I aspire to be more like you. You are so open and honest about everything you have been through. Your last video about the gift from your sister touched me so deeply. I was very grateful that I watched it in the bathtub because I cried my eyes out. You are an amazing woman and although I don't know you in person I love you! ❤️

New here to your channel and I've been going back and watching all of your videos. It's good to see that you're back to posting. You are such a strong woman! ❤️

sometimes its the person who is helping you who is secretly leaning on you and a simple smile or thank you. sometimes its your allowing them to help you that helps them and make the day a little (sometimes a lot) brighter.

That was great Emily!! Oh, and so cute to hear John speak at the end… "Wobert" 😍 oh melt my heart xx Have a great day x

I love these kind of videos from you! Thanks for always being so open, honest and raw. You have no idea how much it helps a person!!

I so appreciate your honesty and your desire to be transparent and encourage others with your story. You have been a great encouragement to me. ❤️

You're amazing! Keep doing what you're doing, and never hesitate to throw your words to wind... They may just fly! 💕 Still praying for your beautiful family! You've been through much too much, but you're the kind girl that just keeps holding on! Your 8 seconds may not be over for a while, but you'll surely learn to ride!

"John Woberwt Meyews" Gahhh! Little John is so sweet and cute. Praying for you, Emily. You're the sweetest :)

Thank you Emily for your beautiful encouraging words. I felt like you knew what I have been feeling & were telling me exactly what I needed to hear💗

Such a perfect little thought for yesterday. while listening it reminded me of what I like to note and notice as the little tender mercies I find in life. It seems like when things are a bit rough (or full on super difficult) I need to step away from myself and those troubles even for a short minute. Today my middle kid is home because she is having trouble with her autoimmune disease. She has so many ups and downs which are hard to watch as a parent. I couldn't stay home this morning with her because I had signed up to help volunteer at her older sister's school. I know once kids are in middle school it is hard to find volunteers, so I just didn't feel like I could bail. I took the morning away to go help someone else which felt great. It was a tiny break I needed to see life outside myself. Meanwhile as I was there I chatted with another mom and somehow my daughter who is struggling came up. I off hand mentioned we were searching to find some child-size crutches so she can get around when she has these difficult painful times. And it just so happened that this lady had a pair she didn't need that she graciously gave my girl. It just was that little reminder that sometimes to get the help, support, strength, etc. I need I have to step away and help someone else. I have never regretted serving someone else. I know so often I feel like I am blessed so much more then the small acts of service I might be doing. If we can find a way to look outside ourselves when we struggle and help another it might just be what we need to help us keep going or keep fighting our own battle. We have something to give even if it doesn't seem like much or enough. Every little bit of service or kindness matters.

I do the same thing. there are some days that I feel like I am helping and that I can conquer the world... then there are the not so good days where you feel useless, silly, not important, like you are wasting you're time, that you're a fake, yadda yadda yadda. it's just the struggle of day to day life. I think it's how we come back from the bad days :) thanks for sharing.

Aww John is so sweet. Love seeing you with your kids!

You are only a year older than me, but you are so wise! I've been following for a year and a half and I always love your perspective and often share your blog posts with my best friend. Thank you for being so open and honest ❤ From a fellow Emily

Emily I'm so glad you've so much support that's helps you.....the voice yup I've had them still do now, even with being at the start of a new relationship with amazing guy, I'm getting terrible thoughts, but as a Christian I know it's the devil trying to get to me, so I just say out loud no not happening. Your amazing and to share something so very painful thank you, from one sister in Christ to another, may you feel Jesus peace and love every single day xxx

Emily; Just a thought (or 2) Good qualities in people are as heavy as bad qualities. (You wouldn't know bout the second one) In my opinion you carry an extra dose of empathy and compassion and tons of love and caring and willingness to share. All ends up being quite a heavy load for such a beautiful young person. So. You are right in sharing (your load) Simple as that. Big (co-backscratch'in) hug from old man in Reno.

Thank you for this. I needed to hear exactly what you said. I'm so sorry for your loss and the pain you are experiencing. Thank you for sharing through such a difficult time. You have influenced my life for the better ❤️

Thank you so much for posting these videos!!!! I've been following you for a while, and been praying for you and your family!!!

Love your chatty videos like this - so glad you're back on KZfaq ❤️

Emily you are such a sweet lovely person! I cant even imagine all of the things you have gone through and you are so strong and wonderful and it sounds like you have the best support group around you. I love the message of this video, and oh my gosh is John ever the sweetest! He looks so much like Martin! (I hope its ok if I say that!) Ive been following your blog for years and its so nice to see you on youtube as well!! Sending you a bunch of light and positive energy and prayers! Xo.

Thank you so much for this Emily! I really do love this style of video; you're so thoughtful and articulate (also you have a really soothing voice!) With love from England xx

You are one in a million! Always so happy to see your videos! You make an impact on so many lives including my own. Never forget that :)

This was so so encouraging Emily! Thank you

beautiful. simple. thank you for the reminder that we're all a little lonely at times and we can imagine other people at that moment who feel the same - we have companions of experience. 😘

Just want to thank you for the GREAT video, insight and intro to the 7 cups of tea website. I am going thru a very rough time right now, soon to be better. But I think, as you, it is SO SO important for people to know that others go thru exactly the same kinds of feelings everyday. I have been getting a little stronger everyday and am glad for your kind advice and great start to my day. Take care and have a lovely day.

Thank you so much, I needed this today!

i understand what you mean i struggle like you we all have ups downs we all do it i always say to myself on bad days i'm thriving i just keep saying it over and over i've went threw a lot too from the death of my son and step dad in one yr life beats you down but you must pull yourself up and keep going my hearts always with you beautiful keep thriving !

Emily you are rocking these videos. I wish you will continue but I'll be grateful for anything. Love you honey.

Thank you so much Emily for this. I really needed to hear that we all go thru bad times. I feel like a mess lately. -You are so sweet and I love your videos. Been following you on instagram and KZfaq for some time now. I'm so sorry about Martin. He was such a special guy and loved you all so dearly. It was easy to see:) I don't usually post on things but I am here supporting you. Just feel like I prolly won't get heard. Sending love to you and your beautiful family hun💜 Love Em x

Dearest, I wish I could quote the actual scripture, but I don't know it, but our GOD says HE will never leave us, nor forsake us. That brings me great comfort. Feeling alone can be so consuming, even tho' we have family and friends around, when we are faced w/a difficult situation, we tend to think we are the only one who has ever gone through that very thing. If we can just remind ourselves that HE is right beside us driving the outcome, it makes everything 'ok' again. Love from Texas, Carol. ❤❤❤❤

So nice of you for sharing your strength and vulnerable moments ,,,amazing you are an ANGEL 🙏

I really love how genuine you and your channel are. Thank you for sharing your life, your wisdom and your sweet babes. Hello Jon. You are so handsome! All my love, Emily. You have an army behind you. We all want you to succeed and I think that's because you have given us all hope and love in our lives. Hang in there.

You have such a beautiful family and a great outlook on life! Your honesty is refreshing and I'm really enjoying your video updates! I love your IG and blog as well. Take care!! ❤️☺️

I'm a Listener at 7Cups and I'm so glad you found us and found it helpful. 😊

boy aren't you telling it right! I am there like sometimes in the same day. Some days I am super woman who can conquer the world and some days I am just thankful for bread that doesn't have mold growing on it. ;) Cutie patooties too! Happy Easter!

I love your videos and that you've been positing more. Even spur of the moment videos that are short and sweet are the best! Hope you had a happy Easter with your family ! ❤️ What helps me is turning to my bible when I'm struggling. I recently have been reading books written by the senior pastor of my church, Craig groeschel. He has a book called WEIRD that I'm currently reading and it's helped me with my struggles a lot. Its about living life not being perfect, and being different.

I just adore you and your family! I love these videos your doing. I've been a follower for a while and have watched your family these past few years. You are so inspiring and so beautiful! Keep being you😉

I'd love to see a video on some of the things you found/use to help cope with struggles like the seven cups of tea

I'm so glad I found your KZfaq channel

Thank you for sharing. These words meant a lot to me today. Nothing major going on - just one of those days when I feel like I'm not a super mom - I'm sure you know what I mean, haha! It's refreshing to hear others share REAL moments these days. God bless.

thank you for posting. stay positive and present 💟

Your hair is BEAUTIFUL. Would you ever be interested in doing a video on advice for girls/guys in their 20's? things you wish you would have known?

Such an inspiration!!! Love these types of videos, great job emily 💜

You should think about doing a couple daily vlogs! I'm sure even if you're at home hanging out, they would still be interesting & give everyone a snippet of your life! :)

Love this💕 wish everyone could hear this!

are you an Aggie?! John is so precious!!! He looks like Martin...the eyes!

omg John Robert those beautiful eyes 😍😍😍 so adorable

can you do a video on relationship advice? like what if someone likes you but you dont like them back, or how to build relationships with people?

I'm glad you're making more videos now!!! 😍 you're amazing xo, Daria

This video made my day!!😍

You always seem to say exactly what I need to hear! ❤️

Thank you !!

Jon Wobert 😍 loved his little cameo. Such a sweetie.

I'd love to see The Husband Tag with Richard if he was open to being on your channel! We just uploaded it on our channel and had such a time filming it. Some of Tim's answers were so funny! 💜💜💜 - A

hi. I have red hair and I was wondering if you could make a video of your makeup routine. I love it. it's not dark and sometimes I need help on what colors maybe I shouldn't use cause it could clash with my red hair 😬. just lmk 😊. I love your channel btw

Anybody like her vids before watching LOL

Yaayyy!! I'm sOOO happy to see regular videos from you!!!

emily, have you tracked when you feel so low?? I have PMDD (a severe version of PMS premenstural syndrome), look it up just in case! half of the month i feel on top of the world and the second half I feel absolutely miserable

Good video! Thank you so much for sharing!!

i like you ! i like your story, your family , your hair, your eyes and of course your videos! 😙Kiss from France ! 💖

Wonderful words! :)

Super sweet and helpful video

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Freckled fox 🐺 can you do a hair tutorial please ❤️please

You are just so stunningly beautiful, I can't get over it!!!

Wow, your son is sure a spitting image of his daddy hey? Adorable. (Also, my son is a John Robert also....he's actually a III)

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😍😍😍😍😍😍 red hair 😍😍😍😍😍

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Iam first again so can you please in your next video do something fun with the kids and video it

Emily, I wonder if you heard about Brittany B. Price and her story. She is 26 just like you and lost her husband one year ago. They have 3 little boys, she shared her story on KZfaq and her blog

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