How To Get An AVOIDANT MAN? Try This RIGHT NOW!

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Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert

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@misty-annehope2667 6 ай бұрын

The thing about an avoidant man is that I can see the love but he hides it all the time

@patricmira Жыл бұрын

Leave him for good, and never come back. Life is too short for dealing with this kind of people who will only cause you hurt! Believe me, I know...

@MichelleECKHU8 10 ай бұрын

Me too….. easier with others…

@Jessiethegirl23 9 ай бұрын

I don’t agree. I am an avoidant and we deserve love as well. We communicate differently. We are guarded, suspicious, and annoyed by over emotional people. We value freedom because we have learned to be self-reliant.

@Wawa-kn8sd 8 ай бұрын

I think so too, here i am breaking my back for crumbs. Nah if it's not meant to be it isn't n.thats ok. He can't loss himself, i can't loss myself either

@Wawa-kn8sd 8 ай бұрын

@@Jessiethegirl23am sorry i really am but loving you guys comes at a cost for the anxious ones. Try looking for SECURE individuals because it's just torture wat you guys put us through. Cn U even listen to your request...y'all jus impossible 😢😢😢am sorry

@agotahorvath 4 ай бұрын

You should work on healing yourself instead of expecting another person to be accomodating to your issues while ignoring their wants and needs in the process@@Jessiethegirl23

@dianalereve5402 Жыл бұрын

Ya i mean who in the world would want a small talk relationship where you can't express feelings and your point of view...? 😄 It sounds like a disaster and it is. I think we should stop adapting to avoidant people and instead let them know that they need therapy.

@pix1chick Жыл бұрын

100%!! You nailed it. I wasted years on a dismissive avoidant. They are broken A.F. ~ simply not capable of the kind of vulnerability required for a true relationship. Alex was right when he said they are only interested in the dating phase. It doesn't go deeper than that! Fleeting fantasy is easier to pursue/obtain than dealing with reality.

@TheMallyjoe Жыл бұрын

Don’t try to communicate with him what the hell.🙄 They need to have a relationship with goldfish or something.

@gutsandgrittv5076 Жыл бұрын

😂

@MichelleECKHU8 10 ай бұрын

😂yes

@daughteroftheking6402 3 ай бұрын

Noooo!!! They are even horrible with animals and give them the same treatment

@KittyTempleton 18 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@wearewho Ай бұрын

Never tolerate an avoidant man. Focus on yourself. Know what you want.

@vhagler01 Жыл бұрын

I've been with a dismissive avoidant man for 15 months and he's had me so confused that I don't even know what's up or what's down and this topic actually resonates with me and you helped me a lot❤

@artsylady3187 11 ай бұрын

it is so hard....I just want to tell him I love him and him love me back...but oh no that is too easy

@carlablachat6241 9 ай бұрын

RUN 🏃‍♀️

@januarybaby 10 ай бұрын

I literally do EVERYTHING alone. If for some reason I'm able to convince him to do something with me, he makes issues when we are out so I won't want to go out with him again.

@MichelleECKHU8 10 ай бұрын

No more….. thanks for making this so abundantly clear that it isn’t worth the effort….

@sherrymshephard-massat5929 5 күн бұрын

I know exactly how to deal with an avoidant man. The most beautiful male I'd ever seen in my life, even to this very day, gave me some sage advice decades ago. He said to never call a man. Never. He said that if a dude wants you, he will come to you. Do not ever call him. If you return his call/text, let some time lapse before you do. When you see him, be your usual wonderful self. When he's not around, love your life, pay attention to your career, your support system, learn yoga, exercise regularly, play your favorite music. Do these things so that when / if /when / if he starts to get distant or ghosts you, not touch bases with you in some days, just understand that it's not you. He's crazy and you're livin' your best life. If he begins to want more of your time, then make some suggestions as to what you need from him in order to put your eggs in his basket. If he's not down for some counseling and doesn't want you bad enough to work on his behavior, then he's not the one. Case closed.

@gwortman3515 Жыл бұрын

I avoid the AVOIDANT MAN HE IS A TURN OFF TO ME. NO MATTER THE ATTRACTION!!!

@PhyllisRM222 5 ай бұрын

It’s so hard when you’re older (although a young, pretty 63, who drove him wild during sex for so many years), but don’t date like the younger ones do/are able to, yet he’s all into the dating scene now and talking to women, young and old, on social media, from ALL over the world since it’s SO darn available now… like he’s having a mid-life crisis at 65… a complete sensationalist. I’ve realized this now, and cannot look at any of it anymore or it makes me sick, but am so glad I found out. I’m not a “dater” nor do I want him after he is now sleeping around. Old fashioned, perhaps, but true 🥺💔. Alex and Adrian have helped me more than you’ll ever know… thank you ❤️.

@mamaknow8056 8 ай бұрын

Just be another avoidant = perfect match

@tiname1805 Жыл бұрын

You can't avoid the real talk for years. This advice is fine in the initial stage but if it goes on for years...

@lilliankirk434 Жыл бұрын

Dear Alex so true .I have dealt with this for long long time.thank you so much it is an enlightenment,and tremendous help.

@heazzer012 12 күн бұрын

Thank you. This clarifies the fact that it’s not worth dealing with.

@Askrelive 8 ай бұрын

This helped!! I think I saved the relation after this video! 😅♥️ I did exactly the opposite in a text before and now I corrected it. Thank you soooo much!! I have never been explained this before. He is avoidant, truly, and I loooove him!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

@FrenchRelationshipExpert 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate this!

@yogabrindha5640 5 ай бұрын

Even I had very hard time making him try to understand the way I feel.... The distance keeps growing everytime I talk about emotions.... I will act accordingly now. 😂 He is a simple person to me now... Totally... I know there is lot of love between us.... One time he is full of love and another time he is acting like a stranger

@melissa3986 Ай бұрын

It’s hard not to take their behavior personal. Because there are people out there who treat people this way and it is personal.

@agotahorvath 4 ай бұрын

Don't ever abandon yourself and your wants and needs for another person . Avoidant people need healing , they need to take responsibility for their issues if they want to be in a mutually satisfying relationship . Life is way too short to bend over backwards for another persons dysfunctional way of interacting . If you are prone to bending yourself into a pretzel or jumping through hoops to accomodate another individuals pathology then work on yourself , get some energy healing and focus on self love and self worth . No other human is worth this much effort . Choose happiness because life is gone in a flash and relationships should not be this demanding .

@InspiredbyDee Жыл бұрын

Dealing with an avoidant man is just too much, I’m a Nigerian and I’m dealing with one myself, the question is how long should one keep waiting for him to come around and want to commit.

@amarachistreams2983 10 ай бұрын

Can I have your number so we can share updates and what worked...have been with mine for 2yrs. The more I understand him, d less triggered I get.

@ANU-pz5bx Жыл бұрын

I've codependency in my relationship with avoidant and It's so painful and difficult😢

@amytiffanyhemingway Жыл бұрын

I have tried EVERYTHING because I do really truly love him. Not needy, but true love. And even though my gut tells me he feels the same he treats me abominably and even says so. The best times we have, the week after he will disappear completely. Tell me and list everything wrong with me. Telling himself why it will not work. I have to take all of this and just say in my heart, in my gut, I know he does not actually mean it. Because when you have a deep connection with someone, they can be mean and they can say what they want, but all you hear is "I am afraid."

@pix1chick Жыл бұрын

His fear is his job to overcome. Don't get stuck fixing. You deserve a partner, not a project.

@amytiffanyhemingway 11 ай бұрын

Well as Alex says they are not toxic, they are just different. If I knew he were bad bad, I wouldn't do it. But it's more, I say tomato he says potato....... By the way we are both called Amy H!!! 😊 @@pix1chick

@sassykat2000 10 ай бұрын

You're pushing your feelings down when he behaves abominably and you should be Done. I know you believe you can work through it, stay anyway, try to approach with understanding. I'm telling you right now enduring his abusive behavior WILL begin to rewire your brain. It doesn't matter if you know why or can rationalize it. Your subconscious knows you are staying close to someone who is harmful to you. If you proceed you will feel effects with mental changes/illness and even the physical manifestations which are illnesses.

@christyligom8708 Жыл бұрын

This is raw truth

@saharfathi4804 9 ай бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to understand 🌷🌷🌷thank you Alex!

@FrenchRelationshipExpert 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your comment!

@rickylumo8666 5 ай бұрын

Same here. Very helpful!

@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын

Hi coach alex love ur work good evening 😊

@user-hi1se4ms4j 10 ай бұрын

How can you marry a person like this if he won't commit?

@urnkimshouse Жыл бұрын

He needs to be ALONE!

@rashmeranjith881 4 ай бұрын

Yeah, leave him ALONE! Lol

@kimmywadsworth 12 күн бұрын

Too much investment with little to no return. It's a no for me after putting up with it for 13 months. Next.

@vx4535 11 ай бұрын

I wish I had watched this video before making assumptions, and addressing my concerns with him. It only created an argument. And now he’s super distant with me.

@gabriellaberetta2465 Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@a.d.b535 Жыл бұрын

We're already BF/GF and all of these things are true.

@mollykam8294 Жыл бұрын

☺️merci

@sarahkf2241 Жыл бұрын

they sound like hardwork alex

@rahikhan3618 Жыл бұрын

50 days of no contact, I am still blocked. Will he come back? He is an avoidant person. I was more serious than him.he never talked serious but he was committed.i was trying to be more attached but he never said anything suddenly he said he doesn't have any future plans with me. I was shocked.i love him so much. Before one month of breakup he was saying he wanted to stay forever with me . Then suddenly way happened i don't know. What should I do?

@semonegroce2610 Жыл бұрын

Just be strong God bless 🙏🙏🙏🙏

@beyondher 11 ай бұрын

The best revenge for this kind of lovelessness is to Live your best life, become super independent, put your eggs in as many baskets as you can! Self love is the key

@lunallena5594 Жыл бұрын

He is perfect for women like Alex said, just don't be human.

@chrissy_rose8052 Жыл бұрын

Will an avoidant want to be in a long term relationship?

@valengracevalenzuela522 7 ай бұрын

I'm dating for two month avoidant man my god he control her emotion i dont know wht he want until I'm tired so I walk away he never give signal he control his emotion

@gemmaburns6407 6 ай бұрын

What if he fears intimacy 😅 sometimes I don’t even know if he finds me attractive!!

@SandraSoll 9 ай бұрын

Alex je ne sais plus 😢

@SandraSoll 9 ай бұрын

Ils ma dit qu’ils m’aime beaucoup maintenant on ne parle moins 😢

@SusmitaSarkar-hl1ll Жыл бұрын

He don't love me

@booboobearify 5 ай бұрын

The worst relationship I have ever had was w an Avoidant!! 🫣🫣🤕😪😪😪

@liliantalbot3805 Жыл бұрын

I think my ex is an avoidant he never expressed his feelings when we have small fights it takes him time to make amends and he barely apologize.@ coach Alex

@theonejaynewallace296 Жыл бұрын

I personally think, @alexcormont means the avoidant attachment males. These are attachment styles. You, as a female also have an attachment style. Google will provide you with great answers. 😉

@liliantalbot3805 Жыл бұрын

Do avoidant love??@coach Alex.cause I’m loosing hope since we’ve been on this back and forth and his not saying he loves me or wants me back