For HER husband

As terrible as the virus was for a handful of people it was also really good for other people

8:40

@@isaacgarcia-iw5ucand she’s his wife?

True

i do believe it's "kudos"? just saying

@@the-GameRipper🤓

@@the-GameRipperDoesn’t matter

I always feel weird when you guys say this like... you thought cheating as not normalized in the past? the "catholic husband has a mistress" is literally a classic. Maybe you mean that now women do it too?

Why shouldn’t women cheat when society literally cheers them on?

She went from spawn point to mom

💀💀💀💀

That was wild

@@Chuuyasimp49 _”SPAWN POINT”_ IS *_WILD_* LMAO 😭😭🖐🏽

​@@Chuuyasimp49spawn point is actually mad

I think she did dawg

@@UnfunnyMan5908Did what?

@@ebonaparte3853fixed kt

@@ebonaparte3853fixed and changed

​@@ebonaparte3853 he saying she did fix it (the main comment said "atleast she 'tries' to fix it")

crazy is an understatement but not unexpected

I'm glad he saw it

The way she just casually said it was shocking

@@user-ic2dm8id9k wait i didnt even think about that

It wasn't casual but it was building up to her being the pos she knew she was then.

Yep, she started off as a terrible human, and ended the saga of redemption as an incredible mom and partner 😊

Yes horrible 😤

@@Momovr36 not anymore

Amazing character development

But the way she was able to willingly acknowledge her behavior and fix it is admirable

Yeah atleast she realised her mistake 😊

I think she thought like that before having kids and being a working adult. Like her fantasies of what life would be ten years later when she was in her early twenties or something. And then life happened and other things took priority. It sounds to me as if she was very focused on having a good work/personal life balance but then forgot to make room for the kids in her routine when she had them. These weeks of introspection made her both realise the sort of parent she was and remember the sort of parent she wanted to be. Tbh she sounds amazing, not everyone can put the work into changing their ways so much even when they see the damage their doing.

The mind is really good at lying to you.

The wife was still not a good person why? You ask Well she's doing all this only coz of a guilty conscience

@@devthakur84 I wouldn’t go that far. To be fair, no one is good if you look at it that way. We all have our motives but if the motives lead us to being better for the people we love, that’s good and should be celebrated.

The ending ❤

Because they aren't adults, just old children.

It's because some people are in a situation where it would be too inconvenient to leave because of finances or other perks they have in their relationship but they want more so they cheat. I don't condone such behavior and think it's messed up to use someone like that.

It's all so true, but I especially hate when these people say are unworthy of me i have cheat. As one user There's truely "not adult, they are old children" #superdogsbrothers. At least she woke up before it was late

They get rapped in themselves. In their work,in their activities. They don't consider what all is actually happening for the outcome they see on a daily. Then they begin to ignore. Fortunately for OP,her eyes were forced to open. When she had to step in and do all the things her hubby handled. Unusual as it is,she looked at what she was doing. How much interaction she actually had with her family. She realized that she didn't even know what her daughter liked or wanted. That was the slap in the face that woke her up. She also realized that all she did was nag at her hubby. She just demanded. She didn't show him any kind of appreciation or affection. She actually got lucky. The quarantine forced her to see and do a lot. She has a ton to make up for. She also needs to look more into why she was considering cheating instead of really looking at her hubby and herself. Hubby has a lot to consider as well. Especially with finding her post. Learning how she considered him a "Man child" and her thinking about cheating. They're going to need quite a bit of couples counseling and individual counseling. They are off to a good start.

She always thought that she would be the fun parent, and then she was the working parent that's emotionally distanced from her family. It's actually kinda sad.

No idea how many of those stories are real but taking your husband for granted is present in 100% of them. I might want to do some actual research about it.

they are split custody?

and broke up?

nevermind i didnt watch it all

No- no breaking up- they are working together as a team now instead of one sided

@@ItsValakithey are still together

ofc he would. But then again, she proved otherwise

that's why he is broken and want to get to a counceling

bro. She has spent a WHOLE YEAR redeeming herself why is everyone clinging on that one sentence where she has considered cheating, even though she HASNT

​@@Unoriginal-Username69because, and I'll quote one of the top comments, it's insane how cheating is starting to get normalized. It's like, any error, no matter how tiny it is in a relationship, can and will be an excuse for someone to cheat on their partner. That's actually scary. I'd be extremely conflicted with myself to keep dating someone that ever pondered to cheat on me.

@@Unoriginal-Username69 Imagine you are a son, your father nonchalantly said to you "You know son, three years ago i actually want to strangle you and your mom. Not because i'm depressed, because i'm bored." What would you feel?

It's also he's

@@KysYujiPls yeah I know but like it’s also hers

@@KysYujiPlshis*

Nah he always thinks about her even when he's taking care of the kids. She's too self absorbed to notice.

Did y’all even watch the video?

It’s also a reflection of how easy it is to get caught in our own world and perceptions and not realize what is happening around us. For everyone wanting to trash the wife in this; she was seeing her reality when an emergency caused her to readjust for the moment. In that time, she saw life from a different angle that let her view what she had been missing before. The same thing happened for the husband. I think that is what so many are missing when they want to put the lion’s share of blame on the wife. The husband was silently planning separation himself. Nothing said indicates that either of them went to the other with their concerns before quarantine caused an involuntary shift, but thankfully for them both they were willing to pursue the new reality presented and resolve their past errors.

@@trenae77 agree whole heartedly. It sucks that it sometimes needs that kind of shock to the system to wake up to reality, but in a lot of cases it's too little too late. This lady deserves recognition that she changed for the better and had the resolve to do so and accept the fact that she was going to be hurt doing it. She knew it wouldn't be easy. Does it suck she thought of having an affair? Yes, but that is a single bit that she actively rejected and saw how she was wrong for thinking so. This is at least evident on her making an effort to return his affections, and seeing her husband in a different way recognizing she was in the wrong. That's personal growth. I sincerely think a lot of people need a therapist and not a youtube comments section. These wild fixations on a single line while ignoring the context surrounding it is disappointing.

This lady was delusional and completely detached from reality. How the hell she could believe her husband was lazy and neglectful while she was amazing and contemplated an affair cause she "deserved better" is legit beyond me. He does EVERYTHING and she only sees the kids at dinner, doesn't cook, and goes out with friends both days of the weekend! Good on her for waking up and making positive changes, but how her view on her family got so warped and delusional is beyond my understanding

@@levy9595 You know what, you articulated it better than I could. She definitely had to be delusional to think the way she did. I'm glad she snapped out of it cause she was definitely on her way to some serious consequences.

@Amagem81 yeah it's good for her she realized the error of her ways in time to correct it, but she needs to take a serious deep dive into why her thoughts about her husband and the effort she put into her marriage and family eroded in the first place. Based on this post, her husband seems like basically a perfect husband and father, so her twisted view of things suggests some deeply flawed issues with her entire way of thinking. She needs to address the core reasons as to why her perception got so twisted in the first place, or she runs the serious risk of falling right back into the same trap with time.

@levy9595 I can't remember if she stated whether or not she/they were getting therapy. It's definitely needed.

@@Amagem81they got couples counselling

Kudos for her admitting it, I guess, but, it doesn't make much sense. Did she think her dinner magically cooked itself? The laundry hopped, skipped, and jumped into the washer? The dishes shimmied up to the soapy sponge on their own? Where did she think her kids were while she was watching tv? I'm glad she's making a change, but to be that completely oblivious is really crazy

Yes. AMEN 🙏 Sometimes you just have to look at yourself, get out of your head, and realize how reality is.

Almost like the writer purposefully foreshadowed it.

@@RunawayYe you must be fun at parties 😂

@@Baba_Yaga_123 If you were on the Amazing race you'd want to be with Runaway.

Sadly this case is much rarer than the other one

im pretty sure it pissed everyone off.

@@deathrail1326 true, it just feels like people are obsessing over that, even though it didn't happen. I truly think some folks are so damaged and don't know it themselves that they obsess over the idea of something and don't see that she didn't only reject the notion, but she also ended up getting counselling, likely for that and other things.

Yup! She has the perfect husband and father to their children. She will surely regret it for the rest of her life if she actually cheated on him before She finally realize that she has a Gem of a Husband.

And she wasn't a good partner until she became one!

I know right

This is more of a why do PEOPLE do this. Men and women alike somehow turn to cheating when they feel their partners aren’t right for them. It’s foolishness. Just leave. No reason to step out 🤦🏽‍♀️

I think people do it because they are actually hurting. They feel like they are too good for their partner because they are feeling hurt that their partner isn’t doing enough for them, even tho they themselves are likely the one not doing enough as seen in this story, and instead of talking about it and being open and vulnerable they just want to either hurt their partner or get that excitement without losing the stability and routine they already have with their partner. It’s very interesting from a psychological view on why cheating happens like that, but I’m glad she realized that she was the problem and actually worked on fixing it.

@@KylaAdams14 Women do it more and people like you make excuses. Men's rights matter.

you think men have different reasons for cheating what. y’all ain’t special

She does now :D

@@shashwatsingh3230not yet, but she’s on the right track

@@shashwatsingh3230 She doesn't and never will. She failed to do the bare minimum for years. That is something that she will never be able to undo.

@@VRDejaVu Say that to her kids. I doubt they would agree with that, especially now.

@@zamirshair5054 yeah because children are the founts of all wisdom. Ask her husband, ffs you people on the internet acting like you know everything - he knew his worth the moment things began to get better and he is the one who decides whether or not the relationship persists, whether or not she is worth his continued support as a husband and the father of her children. If he believes she is good enough now that she's improved, then it is so. We are a bunch of outsiders looking in and your opinions, while you are allowed to have them, are not important to them and their life. Humble yourselves, my god.

Did... did you actually watch the story or just live in your head while it was playing after the single line about an affair?

True but they are still entertaining

@@WGWP maybe

It is a huge deal for healthy relationships, I know it is cringy to hear but for them or for any broken marriage getting intimate again is a really big step that shows everything or most is getting better. Don't think about it as just them having sex, getting intimate is far different.

naaaa fr as soon as they start mentioning getting intimate shit gets so awkward for me i am here to listen about the story not you fucking each other😭

@@thelettera582 *…My mind just opened.*

Agreed. Sometimes these reddit stories focus so much on the horrible that these nuggets of light seem to get lost, or worse yet, drowned out by negativity.

She did have a job it’s clearly stated she had a job

She worked from home. She had a job.

Really isn’t a mother not paying any attention to their husband neither their kids is NOT wholesome

@@ThatOneBowlOfSoupyou didn’t watch the whole thing did you

​@@ThatOneBowlOfSoup You're right. It's not. But that kind of person realizing that's what they are, and working tirelessly to fix it and managing to mend their relationship is.

@@ThatOneBowlOfSoupdid you even finish the video? She literally realized she was a bad partner and mother and changed 😭

I guess it’s kinda wholesome, but idk how you could ever go back to someone who considered cheating on you. Thoughts of divorce on the table, sure that hurts but you can come back from that, but thoughts of betraying your partner. That says a lot about your character and I think the majority of people wouldn’t want to come back from that.

It hasn't. Always been openly accepted for men. Only difference is now it's openly accepted for woman to. But both genders have always done it.

Because sex and having numerous partners has been so normalized. So narcissists easily brush it off as nothing.

Agreed. I was cheated on before so it hits especially hard when a woman is like "uhm i think i'll cheat you're not good enough" because a lot of the time the excuse is "I was bored" like, okay?? How am I supposed to know you're bored of me and why the fuck can you even get bored of me didn't you mean it when you said you loved me???

Fr if I fell out of love I'd tell them not just straight up cheat on them

@@BlazingMoth28 exactly what should be done. If you and them both want to save it, you can then try and rekindle - but at least you're being fair to them, telling them the truth, even if there's no way back. It's not fair to rip someone's heart out like that

So you assumed it was a man because you saw one parent was neglectful and was a terrible partner? Even though in the title it says "wife" and "mother" you still went ahead and assumed it was the husband. That's incredible

@@Rahat-cg8rv it’s been my experience growing up. So I guess I have an internal bias

Its simply not realizing what you are doing wrong She needed a wake up call she was simply living in a world of her own not realizing what was really happening she’s not the first one that this happened to and she for sure won’t be the last At least she is part of the minority willing to try and make amends and fix the sinking boat

That's rare

@@DezGrowSpotFR

Because threatening to have an affair is a really bad thing to do? Especially when you are married? And have kids?

​@@TheMantisLord50 yes but thought process doesn't work like that. The things we all speak comes from concious mind while such things doesn't. I am not justifying it but yes people come with such thoughts when they're literally disconnected in relationship. Affairs is one of the most common thought process among relationship where people really believe that having a attention from another person might able to help them out without loosing anything. People do find other's attractive while they're married doesn't mean they're bad or need to jump into divorce crap. We all have a thought that what if we rob bank and get rich instantly. Should we are jail time because we think about it? Ofcourse not unless you're not actively planning on that or execute that doesn't mean anything. It's okay understand why you get this thinking and work on it. Why so much noise?

Does! Now they love each other very much and the kids too stay mad

@@KysYujiPlsno she doesn’t. if it took him getting covid and her having to be an actual parent to realise all this, then she doesn’t deserve him. what would’ve happened if he never got covid?

Statistically proven that women cheat more get fked

That’s a very generalized statement, have you considered not being a sexist asshole?

"Most” men 🤡

@@zacharysawcyn3066you’re right, almost all men do it

@@ryuk6517 You’ve met all 4 billion of them? Such generalized statements is so fucking stupid, congratulations.

She didn’t though.

​@nikig2891 so? Still doesn't make it better. She still thought about it

@@nikig2891 yeah something tells me that if we reversed the genders here it wouldn't matter if he did or didn't. He'd be "disgusting" right?

@@Arricovshe didn't tho and they love each other now so u can't do anything

@@Arricovit’s definitely a topic to converse about as a family But it is not an unforgivable offense merely thinking about something doesn’t make you a horrible person She turned her life around and fixed her problems