HOW DID U GAIN 200 000 FOLLOWERS IN LIKE 2 WEEKS , nvm im not shocked ur amazing

It fine, your content is amazing!!

@@Heshel198same 😭

That so nice of them 😻

Is aight

Hearing her saying that women are more attracted to guys who are standing in the rain romantically than guys with muscles reminded me of the time a girl in my Engineering class said “He has to be taller than me, like even when I’m in high heels. I would literally leave him at the altar if I was wearing high heels and he was shorter.” I feel like the unrealistic body standards go both ways.

​@@liammadden7572 There's a difference between systemic marginalization and individual incidents of ignorance.

​@@manicmuffinWell said and I agree. However, systemic marginalization is often built upon individual incidents of ignorance. Just as many young women are putting so much stock into their youth, many young men are also putting too much stock into their appearance, especially height. While the marginalization is not nearly as deep or concerning (aside from the horrible height increasing procedure) the internet seems to be rapidly accelerating all young peoples negative perception of themselves. As a 32 yr old short guy, I can say height and age are not nearly as important as simply living life and not worrying. People, youth especially, really need to understand that the beauty standards portrayed by the internet, media, and ignorant loud mouths should mostly be ignored. I say mostly because I think it is beneficial to preserve youth through healthy natural means such as exercise, avoiding cigarettes, excessive alcohol consumption, stress etc. I wish I spent more of my youth less worried about my appearance and height, I know I would have been much happier and more successful with dating. There is an attractiveness that comes from not caring so much about what how you look or how you're perceived. A guy standing in the rain romantically doesn't care how tall he is, what his hair looks like, or how many wrinkles anyone has, he doesn't even care if his socks are wet. It's sad because there are many young men that think themselves as almost less than human for being short, and many young women that will have a literal mental breakdown when they inevitably get their first wrinkle, and none of it really matters.

I mean it's true that aging for men is more societally acceptable, men actually do age "better", at least skinwise. The epidermis has more layers in men (literally have thicker skin) which means they get less sun damage and therefore age more slowly. Also why women bruise more easily than men! But then balding is an issue so it's not all pros 😅

I mean it's true that aging for men is more societally acceptable, men actually do age "better", at least skinwise. The epidermis has more layers in men (literally have thicker skin) which means they get less sun damage and therefore age more slowly. Also why women bruise more easily than men! But then balding is an issue so it's not all pros 😅

LMAO agreed

Even my great aunt who just recently passed at 95 barely had any wrinkles and she still looked like an old women

Because 70 year olds are supposed to look like 70 year olds. Imagine someone would date a 70 year old that looks like 15... Society isn't ready for that can o' worms...

First it's 70 year olds that loolook 15, next its gonna be 1000 year olds that look like 8 year olds, dear god....

Omg yes-

I'm sorry for your loss. Stay strong.

@@gravel9270 Lost my brother at too young an age. Embrace every scar and wrinkle as a life well lived! The older we get the more loss and goodbyes we have to face.

I'm so sorry that you had to go through the pain of losing your brother 🙏🙏🙏

May he rest in peace, that’s so heartbreaking, stay strong

I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you the longest life, filled with wrinkles and stories. ❤

so true. waiting for everyone to realize that less can most definitely be more.

What did it for me was just the rocks on that one beach

Let's just smoke weed (or don't) and enjoy the moment. ❤

Yk my dad’s 39 years old now and he doesn’t have a grey hair he’s a happy man And here I’m 17 with gray hair🧍🏻‍♀️

​​@@igloo_31people dye their Hair Grey sooo~. I dyed my Hair White, Last year. Embrace it,hehe

MAC!

MAAAAACCCC

MAC!

Hannible be putting us all in our place😓😓

Omg macs here :D

actual supervillain behaviour selling a product that slows aging that actually makes you age faster

i think i saw the same one some old ad that might be from the 1970s or something one of the lines from the ad was "innocence can be sexier than you think" or something similar

Um that’s disturbing and is also very uncomfortable for me to think about, aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

A man on a certain list definitely made that

*ahem* Uh oh! That sounds like....pedo-pedo-pedo-pedo-pedophelia! Stop! (in all seriousness, the weird obsession with women looking young and innocent feels a little too much like they want to date a fricken child)

"how to never Look old : die Young"

that one was just straight up a disorder

I think those people mean “don’t wait until your thirsty to drink water but drink water throughout the day” (I mean, I hope that’s what theyre saying)

​@@thoughtsofafanI keep wondering why she was drinking cream instead of water. Who drinks whole cream straight from the carton 😅

@@thoughtsofafan I did not watch what they actually said but I'm guessing it either means: Drink water at scheduled times to avoid pursuing your lips as much as possible, OR drink water throughout the day to avoid getting dehydrated. Hopefully the healthy advice

😂

[Insert joke about a WW2 anti-war film taking place in Belarus]

I guess I have a head start bc I am 14 and has forehead wrinkles which is very normal. I don’t know why they’re scared of it.

I'm gonna dedicate myself to being full of joy and grinning more to give myself so many smile lines

@@Shockbucklincome and see?

The best part was the cut to seeing the little forehead kisses XD

"Why do you wantg to look like a seven year old child" because ageism (older women are treated like crap...... well, women in general are treated like crap, but daring to be visibly old and not give men b0ners, as is your ~only purpose in life as a woman~, just makes it worse), and men (sexism). I mean men think 25 year olds are expired. Like???

I want to be a vampiress, not for the men, but for myself.

@@roxassora2706 honestly slay, be a vampire, curse the men

@@gaspshichat Yep

Eww degenerative flesh such a terible design choice

Yep, probably! Most "made for TV" items are disability aids marketed to a larger audience. Like foot scrubbers for a shower, it isn't some "hack"; it's for people who can't bend down to reach their feet. Or folks who use shower chairs who can't move their legs. It's a shame that aids have to be marketed towards the public to be affordable ://

yeah, a lot of weird products you see and think "who would ever need that?" are targeted towards the disabled and elderly but are marketed toward general audiences, it's really strange when you think about how they don't market those things more toward people who actually use them

You’re probably right-

@@jasperjazzie Yeah, like those moving chairs to go up stairs. Comically lazy for an average person, but for someone who has trouble walking, elderly or otherwise, probably a godsend.

Yeah, welcome to being disabled. You have to act like you are insanely drunk and normal in order to get any products not for infants to be marketed to you.

Exactly

that’s my biggest issue, like i don’t want to sacrifice joy and laughter so i can look younger

that, and people who let themselves express their joy will probably look way younger than they ever will be, in about 20 years

In my culture, it is quite the opposite actually, frowning and not being happy will actually make your wrinkles worse than smiling or at least that's the superstition in my culture.

If laughing adds wrinkles to my face then those are the most beautiful wrinkles I can have. I hope my most inset wrinkles are laugh and smile lines instead of brow furrows

@@harubynspadesthat’s also problematic but for different reasons

Your sister is a wise woman, may she rest in peace 🕊️🙏🏻

She is right. My mother had a sister who died after a liver transplant at the age of 9. It’s depressing how people take life and being able to experience it’s beautiful moments for granted.

Those are great words, im sorry for your loss

That’s a really lovely way to think about it. Your sister sounds like a beautiful person. Thank you for sharing this with us, and I’m sorry for your loss 🖤

Rip to that lady.

F### that, I cast ZA WARUDO!

That's so wonderful!

that's so cute omg

whattt thats so cute

aww, that's adorable!

Stop that's actually the cutest thing I've heard and I hope the same

That's.. actually so sweet 🥺

Wow! Then they're an awesome invention!

​@@kaywee4200yeah but, those anti aging people are pretty much liars then

Ahh, just like with body acceptance something for the crippled gets co-opted by the stupid.

I thought it was for the elders to drink easier

@@ShadowPhoenixzz it's probably for both paralysis and old people, it would make sense

Yes. Yes they should

YESSSS, the Barbie movie was the best thing I’ve watched

❤❤❤

This is deep 😔

This hits so close to home. My mother used a lot of anti-aging products over the years. Turns out she didn't need to do that, she wouldn't be able to grow old in the end. She suddenly died at the age of 47.

i genuinely can’t tell if these replies are satire or not

@@peachy1835 Nahh

That was one of my favorite parts! Yes, aging is and can be beautiful

I cried the most at that scene cause I was reminded of my mother who thinks that her now wrinkled skin is horrible and ugly…when in fact, she’s the most beautiful woman in my life and she’ll continuously be 💓

That’s my favorite scene!! It’s stuck with me hardcore since! It made aging seem beautiful and aspirational because that’s what it should be!! To live that long is a blessing no matter what you end up looking like!

The actress playing that lady was actually the real girl that the Barbie doll was inspired by

@@sws496 it’s not her, that’s been going around but it’s not true. still a great scene

There's a song from (I think) the 1930s "Keep young and beautiful It's your duty to be beautiful Keep young and beautiful If you want to be loved" Now I'm an 80s baby, and even in the 90s that was being used in adverts. It's saying you're unworthy of love, and worse, that you've failed in a duty, if you age at all. That's really twisted.

There's things like Botox that you get every so often but that's probably way less expensive and less scammy than buying all this consumerist crap,

​@@screamingbanshee1282Also Botox can be used for medical issues as well such as migraine, so Botox I have no issue against

@@screamingbanshee1282It’s still part of the same phenomenon though. It’s ridiculous to expect women to sacrifice the ability to show basic human emotions through their face for decades just so that they can hold back the tide for a few more years.

exactly. my mom is in her late 40s, and i only call her old when i'm joking around and teasing her (all in good fun), i don't actually think she's old. she's not wrinkled at all or anything, neither is my dad, they don't look the youngest but they DEFINITELY don't look geriatric by any means. they just look middle aged at the most, they look their age, maybe a little younger. and even if they did look older it wouldn't be a problem. i hate that looking old is considered such a bad thing because it really isn't, it just shows that you've lived.

I don't get the idea of looking old equals ugly. Tons of old people are attractive.

i love aging

True

getting wrinkly and having back pain doesn’t sound like fun

@@justasentientmclarenp1879like UR MOMMM. HAHHAHH

To be fair, once women reach the age of 45, the risk of children being born of congenital conditions like Downs' Syndrome increases exponentially by age...

YASSS

aging is a blessing and better than the alternative (dying lmao) imo!

also like what do you talk about. some of these age gaps it’s like “i LOVE euphoria!!” “NOO I WANNA WATCH *I LOVE LUCY* GOD DAMNIT!!!!!!” and scene

That's unfortunately the point. It's not their actual attraction that makes them think young women are preferable. It's that younger people are seen as more naive and easy to control and influence

i understand wanting a younger wife or gf for them but there comes a limit to it ,compatability and reason when dating someone younger, like bro she has absurdly different life experiences and you will not match for anything. If she can be your daughter there is a broblem

rlly da power imbalance is da only reason some age gap relationships can b wrong, any form of "[insert thing] in other ppl's relationships makes me uncomfortable" is not a valid reason 4 hate. like da reason bestiality is wrong isnt "its icky", its dat a human usually has a lot of power over an animal, & the lack of communication, & probably some other points i forgot dat r based on facts not disgust.

@@x-foliage-xyah like 👁️ understand u so much like da power imbalance is rlly da only reason 2 be h8ting u feel me like so many ppl h8 da age gap but like be 4real like do yah feel me like i hope u understand da thing 👁️ typed brah

This makes me want to kiss my cat on her tiny forehead Update : I kissed my cat on her tiny forehead

Ikr I am absolutely gonna develop the most intense mouth wrinkles from kissing my reptiles so much! It flexes that they are loved and that I have little babies in my life that give me this much happiness in my life!

We go from kissing her cat to “you want a toy kiddo??”

oh shit.... wow I keep forgetting that was a thing, but that's a real kick in the teeth to think about....

yeah, as a trans person i will be grateful for my first wrinkle. as getting to that age seems out of reach on so many days

This is so true. Seeing older queer people with wrinkles or grey hair makes me so happy. Like, yes, we’re getting old now.

I hate that they made the aids epidemic the fault of gays. I remember being young and getting a glimpse of my mother watching an AIDS documentary and seeing a gay nightclub visual. So although it affected the gay community differently I hate that they have made it a “gay disease” as I’ve heard. But yes it makes me so happy to see that those in the community have been able to live their lives, marry those they love, and become accepted in our society. As it always should have been! I just appreciate being born in a time where we were taught to use common sense.

that's a wonderful thought, elder gays are so revered and so special I desperately want to be that elder gay, who kids can go to for a safe space

Sad and beautifully true ❤

So are grey hairs!

Yeah skincare users act like it's a sign of ugliness-

Im so sorry for your loss❤

@@MICAELACartagenanot all of them. Also to maddiejoy sorry for your loss!

And the blue & red light mask claims, pretending that those dumb masks are not like the tanning beds that eventually damage the skin and increase risk of cancer...all for sponsors and clicks

I thought so too! she looks horrific, and I feel sorry for her, but it's her own fault for putting needles in her face. She should just admit that that's what she did. you're right, she's a liar. and a creep for spreading her "message"

​@@disasterbi8610 I used to think only non-human or dead things could be in the uncanny valley, turns out living people can be too...

Yea... she looks like what I'd imagine Sephora employees would look like in 2180. A dystopian nightmare.

I agree with the Botox theory, as a person who is interested in poison and its history, Botox is relativity not harmful in small amounts, but you can get poisoned from it. It makes your face frozen and if you get too many injections of it, slowly it may start to kill you. Beware of Botox and stay safe!

I mean, they asked for it

yummy yummy 😋

she looks like shes wearing someone elses face😭

she denies this, but there’s a lot of people who say she’s gotten botox, which would explain the uncanniness. ig you can do what you want, but the idea of someone in their early 20s getting botox is absolutely insane to me lol

The 14 year old was horrifying as well. I’m 13 and I have smile lines and forehead wrinkles and I love them. I can’t imagine going to a fellow eighth graders house and seeing this.

@@HunterMcDonald2010Yo I have frown lines and I’m 15, not self conscious of them tho

@@boomerangswingsbothways any sort of wrinkles makes you look wise, and friendlier.

I look younger for my age, and my beef with it at times is when people think they can talk to me like I'm a child. Older folks talk down to me just like they did when I WAS 22 and it absolutely infuriates me. One thing that even happened recently is I was giving advice to someone at my place of work about skincare, and she called me cute and pat me on the head. But I bet she wouldn't do that to someone who she looked at and thought, "that's clearly a 30 year old woman" but bc she thought it seemed "cute" to disrespect someone she assumed was younger, I got treated like a lap dog 🙄

Same! That's why I'm excited to look older when that time comes

I'm 29 and people have told me that they think I'm somewhere between 19 - 26. Especially when I have my makeup done and I'm dressed in my normal gothic witchy style. But I've also had men be disappointed when they realize my age and when I was younger (like actually 15 - 18) adult men would hit on me because I looked older. It was always gross and even now, it's super icky. I've even been talked down to because of someone thinking I was a teenager.

Yeah I always get the shocked look when they find out I’m 32 and expect me to be 21-23… it’s gross lol

My friend that’s like 13 a adult man offered her a drink in she was like uhm sir I’m 13 I can’t legally drink alcohol

I cannot imagine it is good for young skin to use products for older skin? Also most of that doesn't work if it's OTC, actual wrinkle prevention comes from Retin-A and it's RX only because it's extremely drying and you aren't supposed to have sun exposure for 24hrs after using bcuz it can burn the skin

I’m 15 years old, and I like to steal my moms anti aging cream, one because I have really bad deep eye bags, and cause it has sunscreen In it and it doesn’t feel like regular sunscreen.

@@meganmerrells2942i’m fairly sure your eyebags arent “bad”, please dont describe any if your features as bad :( and aging cream wont help eith those! id try being more hydrated and getting a but of extra sleep…

@babydyke I mean, if the ingredient list is good, then that kind of skincare is still good, even for young skin. It's just that it does nothing anti-aging because there's nothing to anti-age. Plus, yeah, it's definitely sad to see a child thinking they already need to do sth about their future probable wrinkles and fine lines. But if she used the serum just cuz she researched ingredients online, found them to be medically proven and thought it'd be a good one to use, there's no problem (was the case for an18 yo me baaack in high school, I have dry skin and so I was looking for certain ingredients I knew my skin liked in one package, only found them in an "anti aging" cream, which was just a nice hydrating moisturizer). Also, retinol, as u said, is one of the very best, but it's more than 24 hours, it's several days (5?7?) during which u should limit sun exposure and wear a strong enough sunscreen - it makes your skin a bit more sensitive to the sun but sun protection is imperative for skin cancer prevention anyways, so for many it doesn’t change much. I believe it's a good thing to take care of your skin at any age, it simply shouldn't be done out of fear but out of love. And definitely not by stripping yourself of expressing emotion or buying stupid-looking straws😂😂😂😂

Me and my 12 yr old bff doing this stuff cus why not:fuck it "dalia we gotta stop this shit" (her name isn't rlly dalia)

As a Hunger Games fan, I absolutely love this and agree-all these anti-aging videos really give me Capitol citizen vibes

I was thinking of this when I was watching this video. And that was something I kept in mind for a while

omg i remembered this in the book too! she also mentioned how they (the capitol civillians) would vomit out the food they binge ate just because of the fear of being fat when back at home, being fat was a luxury because it meant you had enough to eat and never known the agony of starvation.

@@syzn2584 The vomiting thing was actually so the Capitol citizens could keep binge eating all the excessive amounts of food available to them being in the luxury that is the Capitol

@@oncerand_directioner it was probably both, honestly, since upsetting amounts of gluttony, FOMO, and vanity were very much part of the Capital's culture

She didn't even smile when her child was born, I'm pretty sure.

that's so sad!

@@anglepsycho Or when she got married.

I think her name was Tess Christian

Poor lady

She's pretty clearly botoxed up and lying through her teeth about it (while causing irreparable damage to many young people who think they should follow her advice). She even has to use her fingers to move her muscles.

thats what i thought too, like- your eyes are wide and so is your mouth but why is your face not moving??

Only woman must be very emotional and sensitive BUT no have any signs of those emotions or of time 😮 But... If you are a man you became a silver fox... 😂

As someone with extreme ocd who’s gotten much more help from it since being diagnosed, this girl seems to have extreme ocd with that. It’s her biggest hyper fixation on worries. It manifests from her fears, making her look more creepy than young or youthful. It’s really sad

She will look só cute in the club though. The club I mean is the one that she will never get into, because the bouncer will never believe that she is old enough to be there.

Well a certain group of people do want that

i get wanting a partner thats in their 20s or 30s but when people want someone younger? its disgusting!! and theres such a huge market for school girls and teen girls who are barely an adult in pornos. i absoutely despise people like that

​@@juliaboskamp9666 you shouldn't be wanting to have sex with children

totally, I read this as another symptom of implicit pedophilia. Same with no body hair, being extremly skinny, big, wide eyes, high voice, and so on.

Like that old meme that won't die says: Pedos. Pedos everywhere.

HAHA LOVE THE ATTITUDE

us omg

same

Hehe same guess I am going to look like I’m 50 when I’m 30 years old just because I’m having fun with my life

My ten year old sister has anti aging cream and all kind of skincare bc she thinks she’s going to get wrinkles.. it’s really sad. When I was ten I still thought unicorns were real….

Self projecting ass people

​@@Cabin7_official have you ever told her she doesn't need skin care until she's older

@@Inky_doodledoo yes I have. But I’m not her mom so i really can’t do anything about it 🫠

My parents actually called me out a little on my mouth wrinkles.

Wtf

As a young teenager, I would have beaten the hell out of this person. Like genuinely, ppl who try to make ppl feel insecure abt themselves are literally the FUCKING WORST‼️‼️

ESPECIALLY at a very young age

Oh I wanna FIGHT that person

Super predatory of her, but okay.... Uh....

Congratulations! Your existence means so much to so many trans people. You truly have made it ❤ /gen

👏👏👏👏 beautiful

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This is awesome I wish you the best in your life and eternal happiness for you. ❤(If you don’t mind my asking what’s your age range, totally understand if your uncomfortable with sharing that information)

I'm gonna look up to you and feel less alone when I become an elder

Same here. I'm coming close to my 30th birthday in a few weeks and I'm so excited I made it this far

Same! I just turned 33 and I didn't expect to even make it to 20. I've seen myself getting older and I see the signs of aging as such a blessing because I actually made it this far and am still going.

As much as I don't understand trying to defy your own genetics (aka how fast you'll "age" physically), I personally am trying not to look older, as it's the people who always try to treat me as an "adult" despite being a naive minor all because i look and act "old for my age" is the reason why I even wanted to d!e in the first place. Seeing myself age and be reminded of those people make me deeply uncomfortable for some reason. Then again who knows, it's different for everyone.

Same. There was a time in my life where I genuinely thought I wouldn't even get to be 30 years old.

I was struggling with depression made worse by BPD and when someone asked me how I don't have smile lines I died inside

I fainted once at the zoo because I didn’t drink enough

@@edenanimates1465 Yeah dehydration is no joke. A good rule of thumb for the amount of water you **need** to drink daily while sedentary (but you should always aim for more, exercise and heat can double that requirement) is 1ml for every 1 cal you need to maintain your weight. The rest, assuming you eat a relatively normal diet, should be able to come from your food. For example: To maintain my current weight, I eat about 1500 calories a day, so that's 1.5 liters of water **required** to stay reasonably healthy. What I should aim for is about 2 liters, 2.5L-3L if I'm exercising a lot

Looking and feeling like the crypt keeper or a dry mummy is all the rage

@@hambone4984 Hell yeah, you can lose up to 65% of your body weight!

Maybe it stems from some people just not drinking water and instead some things that are bad for your health? The amount of Tiktoks I see about people not wanting to drink water cause they don’t like it and thus not doing it is scary. To be fair American water (even bottled or filtered) tastes like crap compared to the water in my hometown but I was lucky enough to grow up in an area with great tab water (and German bottled water is somehow a lot better than American bottled water I really wonder what stuff they put i their water)

Ewww he is so gross!!!

Bro did you dad ditch that friend??? That’s terrifying

@@hanaxbabyy nope he just warned me to leave the room if I ever found myself alone with the guy and not to accept lifts from him etc he said that comment in front of my Mam, so I could only imagine what he would have said if we were ever alone together

That's his opinion, nothing wrong with it

@@mapofthesoultagme7143 bro they were 12 there was most definitely something wrong with an old man saying something like that to a 12 year old??????

societal norms: make no sense guys: can't cry girls: can't age hotel: trivago

Ah yes, the wonderful double standards of misogyny! :D

The cruelty is the point, unfortunately

Men want kids. Especially girls. This is the problem. All this "looking mature young girls" and not allowing women to age is p@edophilia. And yes beauty standards are p@edophilic, so the most men are

They want young girls older to sexualize them. They want women younger to infantalize them. It's about control.

I think you’re hit on more at those ages not bc of beauty, but bc scumbags like to pick on the naive and weak. There are plenty of stunning older people but losers can’t mess w em.

Yep, seems like women after 30 just stop being "desirable" by "alpha males". Fine by me 😂

11-17 hit on more by boys around your age makes sense as they are the biggest horndogs in that age range but by men older than you? Man that's just disgusting to hear... Really does sound like beauty standard lately have been more and more rooted in ped*philia, with the obsession of being as young as possible, saying you look 15 at 30

@@awatcher4965 Absolutely. When I had a smaller chest, was thinner, and younger, I was hit on more by adult men. I was in middle school, high school, and very early college when men the age of my father would roll down their windows and literally bark at me or whistle. I'm only 24 now but I barely get cat called anymore because I look more mature- even when wearing graphic t-shirts or youthful clothing. I never ever get cat called when wearing work or mature clothes. It's because I look like an adult. Creeps don't like that.

I am 14, and I get hit on. What? It makes me so uncomfortable.

Tbf she seems to have some unprocessed trauma regarding her dad. I remember watching a video where she mentioned he would call her ugly and watch her videos to criticize her later. She probably doesn't realize how this obsession with being attractive forever is an extension of her dad's psychological abuse and very damaging for her mental health.

​@@lizzy4827okay, every tik tok influencers, LINE UP! Y'ALL GOING TO THERAPY!

​@@lizzy4827of course she has some sort of traumas/mental illness if she reached that level of not wanting to age. She should get a good therapy to address it, instead of doing that 😢

Maybe that’ll be her wake up call? love and happiness are more important ❤

@@lizzy4827 yet another reason to feel bad for her. She needs a lot of therapy, I think.

I basically just did another opposite, making the least human faces I could

This is oddly relatable

yerp

Omg autistic core memory unlocked. I forgot I did that, yeah I’d pretend I was talking to people and practicing a laugh or smile or to look genuine, OR ESPECIALLY try to “not look so mean/ bitchy”. A lot of my mannerisms were seen as anti social, that’s how I learned to mask

Not on the spectrum, but as someone with Tourette's syndrome, the voluntary-facial-paralysis advice is absolutely fucking hilarious to me 😆😆😆

Love this perspective

Same

Finally a tumblrina. My people

Ah, i see you too use the hellsite

i like your shoelaces

It gets even more upsetting when you realize that a lot of the beauty standards that young girls and women are pressured or even forced to adhere to are rooted in p*dophilia. Young, no signs of aging, oftentimes skinny and short, hairless, somehow sexually experienced without ever having had sexual partners, the way distinctly childlike things like “daddy” as a nickname and schoolgirls’ outfits have been sexualized, “teen” and “barely legal” being acceptable and even popular porn categories. And now young girls are being convinced that they aren’t young and youthful enough. It’s sick and deeply predatory.

it goes beyond anti wrinkles too, it ventures into the sexualization of young girls. wanting to look young and have no wrinkles, but at the same time sexualizing your body and making yourself look older with makeup for men and boys alike. I would recommend Shanspeare’s video named “12 going on 21: The end of the tween era” for a deeper dive into this topic.

@@nothanks13At 12, I was in my tween era, now I’m 16 and 12-year-olds are starting to look more adult than me

I'm really sad my fellow youngsters are so worried about aging, we should be focused on all the possibilities for the future! If you're terrified of aging then you won't experience everything to the fullest. I'd rather laugh and have fun with my friends than freak out over laughter causing smile lines. I refuse to sexualize myself, and I will wear whatever I feel comfortable in. Then again I'm sex averse so that part isn't surprising...

Especially with how certain things are just based on how are faces are naturally constructed, like where our eyes sit! It’s like right off the bat these kids are being taught the way you are is bad and it’s just so upsetting

Beautiful and aspirational.

I'm too lazy to dye my hair

My mom decided to dye her hair around the same time she started getting a lot of grays. She didn’t dye the gray hairs. She dyed the underside of her hair blue.

my mom had super beautiful white hair that glittered like snow🥰 Now that I am 30, I have started noticing the same glittering white hairs on my head and I don't dye my hair because it reminds me of her. 😊❤

I once got in an argument with my mom over her grey hair. She hated them and I had to take weeks to get the same color. I love grey hair. Especially the silvery grey! Her hair was almost white silver. So gorgeous. AND SHE DYED IT FACKING BROWN!! Eventually she loved her hair in the end. “Each strand a memory, every shade a learned lesson to pass on. “ I miss her everyday. I’m glad she’s at rest now though. ❤

Lol that is my biggest face insecurity and this helps.

in my opinion a flawless face is one with wrinkles so I'd say you're winning

A pretty face is one that is laughing, smiling, and enjoying life to the best of their ability imo.

We're screwed if we think 40 is old. The average human lives around 80 years. Are we just supposed to walk around half of our lives calling ourselves old?

Fully agree. I'm 41 and I'm not ancient. Weird!

I enjoy basic skincare and avoid going outside when the UV levels are above 2 because I got a lot of sun exposure as a child with abusive, neglectful parents. Aging used to terrify me but not anymore.

I like skincare but only because I want to manage my acne and pores, idgaf about aging

The fact that you're the first person besides myself, I've seen you use the word ageism in a public space... Shows how bad it is. I hate it. It really makes me so angry.

Yeah it's totally fine to want to take care of your skin. I'm all for hygiene and caring for yourself. But freaking out at the thought of a single wrinkle is very unhealthy and I feel bad that society pushes the notion that women aren't allowed to age at all

​​@@pissapocalypseI don't think it's just because of aging looks-wise I mean, that some people get nervous about wrinkles. I'm 27, so I've started to get my first few gray hairs, and I've started to get crow's-feet. It just freaked me out, because it really reminded me of my mortality. How there's really nothing I can do. Lol

omg? 20 is insanely young wtf. i’m turning 20 next year and while it’s almost incomprehensible to me, that’s so fucking young.

I relate to this so much. Every birthday I’ve had since 18 has almost sent me into crisis bc of things like this

i did the same thing when i turned 20!

@@saranlinx9301 I agree! I turn 24 next week and still had to convince myself I'm not a fucking grandma lol, social media has ruined women's perception of themselves, definitely fucked with mine.

@@saranlinx9301I’m also turning 20 next year and tbh I’m terrified but it is still definitely young so I’m trying not to stress about it

Consider this: I cannot even wear lotion due to how it feels _in_ my skin (even when I use a small amount and rub it in fully) I'll try to see if I can get my hands on spray on sunscreen, since the bug repellent I use doesn't affect me too badly, but it's not guaranteed that I'll be able to tolerate it. Until then, I only have access to the "normal" kind of sunscreen lol

Yeah but not because of anti aging but because of how exposed we are to sun damage

Dude I got a bad sunburn at the beginning of this year and now I am religiously applying sunscreen every time I go outside

@@bonnietelocole6777I’ve seen spray lotion, body butter, and fast absorbing oil lotion be recommended for people who have sensory issues with lotion! I’ve personally tried fast absorbing oil lotion and it felt way better than regular lotion

I am Australian and yeah definitely wear sunscreen

i have never dated a man that can't dance. are you even a real man if you can't do 10 backflips in a row then the moonwalk?

Also aren’t women the most fertile in the their mid twenties to thirties, so why would the goal be to look 16 instead if it was about biology

But when it comes to actual science they all find excuses to not trust it🤭🤭

People are conditioned to compare themselves its not "biology" or "human nature". It's leanred

i have rejected many men for having dull black clothes

Marry him

@@byaoboyra3370 I plan too. Been two years strong, planning to pop the question to him in the next few years

If he wrongs you I'll stop believing in love

@@zaizesty lol I don’t think he would.

@@byaoboyra3370 that’s the plan