Gay and Celibate for God

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8 жыл бұрын

23-year-old Christopher Ong has never had sex with a man. And he plans to keep it that way. Christopher grew up an Evangelical Christian and after a lot of soul searching and crying himself to sleep he decided his religion forbids gay sex. In this episode of “Heaven or Hell” he explains why celibacy is not an oppression but something he chose for himself.

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@EllisPepper1999
@EllisPepper1999 11 ай бұрын
I'm gay, and if celibacy or chastity is the only way that I'll be saved from sexual immorality, so be it. 🙏🏻
@jenisebrooks4308
@jenisebrooks4308 5 ай бұрын
It's worth it!!
@corym8358
@corym8358 Жыл бұрын
I am gay (no longer label myself as that at this point) and beginning a journey of celibacy as well, for both spiritual reasons as well as the lack of opportunities for meaningful relationships in the gay community, with its overall focus and obsession on youth (you're basically invisible after 40). The gay life is quite lonely and void of meaning for many people, including for me. And yes, gay is a lifestyle as well as an orientation.
@kwinters9898
@kwinters9898 3 жыл бұрын
I'm gay and celibate. Not because of god, but because I absolutely hate being touched by other people. Its taken me a long while to accept that there's nothing wrong with me, i dont need to change and that celibacy is actually fine. Sending lots of love to Christains for helping me become more positive about celibacy.
@chastitywhiterose
@chastitywhiterose Жыл бұрын
Same!
@dgbx6
@dgbx6 8 жыл бұрын
He's not advocating that everyone else choose his path. Why can't people respect his decision? Seems like an honest sensitive interview. I appreciate the way he explains himself. If he chooses another path a decade from now, great. If he doesn't, well, it's still great.
@wolfuck
@wolfuck Жыл бұрын
Because everyone else is completely controlled by satan. As aristotles once said: "Most people are slaves of their own nature"
@thomascampr
@thomascampr 6 жыл бұрын
He's choosing God over his flesh. God bless him.
@akikulit3111
@akikulit3111 Жыл бұрын
Such power. Such strength. A human like you is a target for the devil... .may god protect you and may the holy spirit never leave your side.
@sheree6102
@sheree6102 3 жыл бұрын
So much respect for this man living his truth in the way he feels is true to his heart.
@_eMJay_
@_eMJay_ 7 жыл бұрын
As a Christian who happens to be gay, I admire your strength and courage on your spiritual journey with Jesus! May God continue to always bless you!
@trainsupporter9088
@trainsupporter9088 6 жыл бұрын
Nicely said. God bless you brother
@Nolzyfied
@Nolzyfied 2 жыл бұрын
God Bless
@marshallapplewhite47
@marshallapplewhite47 2 жыл бұрын
I'm just begining this journey, this is very motivating, thank you
@AC-ck6mv
@AC-ck6mv 2 жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong with being gay. The only journey you have to do is to accept yourself as a gay person. Celibate is not necessary. Don’t let others ruin your life by depriving you from your sexuality. Celibate is going to consume your mental health, you might not notice it at the begging, but with the years you won’t feel happy.
@mohammadazzawi2738
@mohammadazzawi2738 Жыл бұрын
@@AC-ck6mv celibacy is a great gift, not just for homosexuals, but for all people. It allows you to be free from your animalistic carnal desires and ascend into a higher state of being.
@curtisfranks1882
@curtisfranks1882 3 жыл бұрын
These days find myself more of good honest friends as opposed to a sexual partner. My sexual orientation doesn't define me. My caring and love I have for any and all others, "strangers" or not will. I'm no saint, but I hope I've helped someone along the way and let them know that no matter who you are you are loved and worth it. Never let anyone tell you different. Godspeed in this life.
@gerarddeepak4822
@gerarddeepak4822 8 жыл бұрын
I salute your decision and You've made the right decision to stay celibate and inherit the Kingdom of God. Jesus will be your refuge and The power of the Holy Spirit has made you take this decision. God Bless You and I respect you. The world will say a 100 things but You stay with your decision as Salvation is more important than this life for us Christians.
@volstrekt
@volstrekt 5 жыл бұрын
I'm gay and I'm a Christian. I will not practice homosexuality because i will be sinning against God. I believe God is more important to me than my pleasures. I plan to remain celibate and serve God all my life. Christ is enough. :)
@user-cu2gy9fc4o
@user-cu2gy9fc4o 3 жыл бұрын
As a gay muslim i am proud of you 🥺
@jenathent4840
@jenathent4840 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-cu2gy9fc4o are you also practicing (Muslim ) celibacy ?
@eroegen987
@eroegen987 2 жыл бұрын
You can't not practice what you are be gay but just don't have sex
@Nolzyfied
@Nolzyfied 2 жыл бұрын
Gay is not sin
@volstrekt
@volstrekt 2 жыл бұрын
@@Nolzyfied cringing so hard over my comment lmao im lost my faith
@Teddybearboy
@Teddybearboy 8 жыл бұрын
Just as we as gay men don't want people to judge us based on what we do in the bedroom, since it is our own business, similarly we cannot judge him for what he doesn't want to do in his bedroom. He doesn't seem to shove his views down everyone else's throat, so neither should we. There's a lot worse you can do than not have sex, or at most, torment yourself over it. If he changes his mind in years to come, then so be it.
@musicchannel5439
@musicchannel5439 3 жыл бұрын
Omg bless every one on this video!! 🙏🙏😍
@ronsmith2241
@ronsmith2241 2 жыл бұрын
Loving, committed, monogamous gay marriage for life is not condemned in scripture anywhere. It is a medically proven fact that some people are born gay. God creates some people gay and also many hundreds of animal species gay. I was a Baptist Pastor, and now retired. May God provide you with a wonderful husband as He has for many others.
@marshallapplewhite47
@marshallapplewhite47 2 жыл бұрын
Why do you think its okay to bother other people about how they live? You're being bigoted and hateful.
@Coolguyallthetime2k
@Coolguyallthetime2k Жыл бұрын
@@marshallapplewhite47 this comment makes no sense lol. He did not condemn anything. Read the comment again because you may want to edit your comment.
@davedvdy4946
@davedvdy4946 23 күн бұрын
​@@Coolguyallthetime2k Pretty sure he read it. Those who discriminate against the LGBT playing the victim card - role reversal.
@susieenglish302
@susieenglish302 6 жыл бұрын
God is love and gave humans free will to fall in love, make mistakes, have successes and rejoice in them, have children, not have children, having faith is knowing that your God takes you as you are whatever you are
@marshallapplewhite47
@marshallapplewhite47 2 жыл бұрын
Is that in the Bible?
@rohitgour5154
@rohitgour5154 Жыл бұрын
Really beautiful … and he seems so happy in Lord Jesus Christ
@stewartcowan9659
@stewartcowan9659 8 жыл бұрын
He has come to the decision that salvation is more important than a few decades of carnal gratification. How right he is, of course. What is a short period of lust and homosexual behaviour compared to all of eternity? We all have trials and tribulations and this happens to be one of his. For other people, it's other psychological or spiritual issues or physical ones or debt or family problems and many other things about which choices have to be made. The interviewer asks how he knows he's gay if he hasn't had 'sex'. If this is a prerequisite for 'knowing' you are gay then why are young children being groomed into a homosexual lifestyle? (It's ideological subversion and to help reduce the population.) Peter Tatchell has said that being gay is a 'choice'. I believe that this man, should his faith be strong enough, can overcome his unwanted desires and live the 'American dream'.
@stijn4687
@stijn4687 8 жыл бұрын
+Stewart Cowan Being gay is not only about carnal gratification, being gay is about love. A man loving another man. I feel sorry for this man because he has been brainwashed by his parents and sociaty into religion. I hope for him that one day he find the force inside himself to get out of it and live a happy life.
@aubreywilliam9048
@aubreywilliam9048 6 жыл бұрын
Stewart Cowan god isn't real fuckface
@irememberla6460
@irememberla6460 Жыл бұрын
Everybody has their own life story...
@picsoritdidnthappen665
@picsoritdidnthappen665 5 жыл бұрын
God bless him. Although everyone should be celibate until marriage
8 жыл бұрын
That's weird. Gay means love, connection, not (only) sex. This guy might stay single, but he might date more than any gay guys out there :p
@joelvaldez5381
@joelvaldez5381 6 жыл бұрын
So what’s the 1st step on becoming gay?
@aubreywilliam9048
@aubreywilliam9048 5 жыл бұрын
Joel Valdez believing in god
@Nolzyfied
@Nolzyfied 2 жыл бұрын
@@aubreywilliam9048 thank you
@Mabeylater293
@Mabeylater293 8 жыл бұрын
Hell on earth....... by choice. (his choice).
@Nolzyfied
@Nolzyfied 2 жыл бұрын
Heaven*
@hudsonm2010
@hudsonm2010 Жыл бұрын
Living a gay life is a hell on earth indeed
@Mabeylater293
@Mabeylater293 Жыл бұрын
@@hudsonm2010 if that’s your experience, then you can thank homophobes ,especially the religious ones, for that.
@derrickfisher7894
@derrickfisher7894 8 жыл бұрын
We'll see how long that lasts. LOL
@joelrionstaves4684
@joelrionstaves4684 4 жыл бұрын
I say if he's happy, then more power to him.
@artemidor09kowalski49
@artemidor09kowalski49 8 жыл бұрын
👣
@aubreywilliam9048
@aubreywilliam9048 5 жыл бұрын
LOLOLOLOLLLL
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