boundaries when dating...girl talk ☆

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Genelle

Genelle

7 күн бұрын

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#boundaries #dating

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@nahococo57
@nahococo57 5 күн бұрын
Please please please do girl friends boundaries version 😭💓
@maggielittle2706
@maggielittle2706 5 күн бұрын
in a committed relationship of 6 years but im still watching bc i love you 💀🫶
@camilleschmidt5844
@camilleschmidt5844 4 күн бұрын
omg this should be a biweekly bathroom talk 🥹
@nenawells3916
@nenawells3916 5 күн бұрын
This was such an incredible video. You mentioned you had alot more to say. Please do another video talking about this.
@Noturbasikbeautyxo
@Noturbasikbeautyxo 5 күн бұрын
I’m 32, happily married and have a 2.5 year old babygirl. ( for disclaimer lol) However, this video was so good to see, because when I was in my 20’s I wish there was more of this online for girls in general. My mom ALWAYS stressed on my sisters and I that valuing yourself/body and having self worth ( aka not sleeping around) was so powerful as a woman. Grateful For her advice to this day and you beg your ass I will teach my daughter this as well. Stay classy baby ✨🩷
@Rachel-qj7zr
@Rachel-qj7zr 23 сағат бұрын
Loveee what you said about choosing who you sleep with. 100% agree
@nat8237
@nat8237 4 күн бұрын
As someone who just went through a breakup, thank you for this, Genelle. 💖 I love how u emphasize on the feeling this person gives YOU by doing/saying something rather than putting the focus on THEM. Instead of asking yourself "Why do they follow other girls on ig, do they not like me enough?" --> "They are doing this and I don't like it so I'm leaving". Controlling your thoughts in that way is going to save you so much time and heartbreak. If you leave it up to them to explain themselves, you're giving them the opportunity to have the last word / control you. Always put yourself first when you notice something is off! Girls- if someone is crossing your boundaries/ non-negotiables, don't leave it up to them to explain themselves. Their actions show you their true colors, trust me. Just "LET THEM". Just lean back and let them show you, who they are. Then, you get to decide if this person is for you or not. Don't try to adjust them to your liking because they're their own person. Stop creating a false version of them in your head. Men show you how they feel about you with their actions. If their values don't align with yours, there's 100% a better match for you out there. I get that we're all growing and learning our whole lives, no man you meet is going to be perfect for you. There are so many things that you guys will have to work through in order for the relationship to flourish and become long lasting. But if it's basic respect they're lacking or you start noticing certain patterns in their behavior that are causing you to overthink- leave.
@nat8237
@nat8237 4 күн бұрын
Also- us women are gifted with such a strong intuition. If you're truly detached from everything and deeply connected to yourself, you are going to feel when your energies don't align. Let's use our gift wisely and not let any dusty men disrupt our peace 🩷
@ajanebarber
@ajanebarber 5 күн бұрын
needed this! 💕
@gracelee1085
@gracelee1085 5 күн бұрын
Love this video! Refreshing and truthful!!!
@sabrinaseldon
@sabrinaseldon 5 күн бұрын
Loved this Genelle!! Love this style of video. Thank you for being so real and transparent! I know your advice comes from the heart
@alimullinax4789
@alimullinax4789 5 күн бұрын
Love these types of videos! ❤
@maggie717
@maggie717 5 күн бұрын
Me too! Feel like i needed this haha, thanks @genelle 😌
@angel_d99
@angel_d99 5 күн бұрын
Absolute diamond advice. Honestly. Amazing
@maleekakhan2316
@maleekakhan2316 5 күн бұрын
You beauty, oh girl you look absolutely stunning as ever. Guys she is the most gorgeous girl ever, sending you the most beautiful love ever ❤❤❤😊🥹😭❤️🙏
@Icyl0ve
@Icyl0ve Күн бұрын
You are so right! Thanks for sharing your insight on these things. I’m 41 and it’s helpful lol ❤
@KiwaSyahnadz
@KiwaSyahnadz 5 күн бұрын
Wow love this 🤗💕
@rebekahmichelle8185
@rebekahmichelle8185 4 күн бұрын
Loved this video
@djsargex7777
@djsargex7777 3 күн бұрын
Ive found that one requires far less boundary setting when one becomes very picky. Too many people hate their ex's for this reason. Visionboarding also = far less grief because it was something that you wanted to experience rather than a "convienience" which most relationships are i think. Hence regret. Im yet to meet a person who has zero regrets like me in dating. Love isnt a on off switch either, one of my ex's taught me that one!
@jade8107
@jade8107 5 күн бұрын
Such good points! 🥰
@solschumacher
@solschumacher 5 күн бұрын
Loved this video.
@reemnamin7415
@reemnamin7415 2 күн бұрын
Born to be a lover girl forced to master detachmenttttttt.
@sasharibbs5157
@sasharibbs5157 5 күн бұрын
I’m so glad you made this video I’ve always been a relationship girlie it’s the Libra in me can’t wait to use these tips
@Roro-pt4rq
@Roro-pt4rq 5 күн бұрын
So pretty ❤❤
@SaraHandlez888
@SaraHandlez888 4 күн бұрын
Still watching as a married woman because of my love for Genelle❤️🥰
@alliechun
@alliechun 5 күн бұрын
Dude I wish we could be friends in real life. You seem like the coolest girl ever. Love your honesty and transparency.
@sarato9
@sarato9 5 күн бұрын
lmao the extras were so funny!!!! why is the aloe drink pink?? l
@Genelle
@Genelle 5 күн бұрын
i had an olipop in it 😆
@VrushaliKhadilkar
@VrushaliKhadilkar 3 күн бұрын
Sister!!!!!❤❤
@angel_d99
@angel_d99 5 күн бұрын
💗
@annjung2225
@annjung2225 3 күн бұрын
Love this video ❤ just quick question - what do you think about splitting the bill on every date? I think its kind of becoming a thing between me and this guy I’m starting to see and I’m ok with it but I worry things might become calculative or that he might not be generous without me asking on special occasions like Valentine’s day
@madsdins657
@madsdins657 4 күн бұрын
you're so taurus coded... lol love u 🌸🫶🏽
@Ohoudali_
@Ohoudali_ 5 күн бұрын
I find this very informative (I have never dated anyone before and don't know if I ever will) Where I live, dating is unacceptable and forbidden...the only way to a relationship is to marry directly without truly knowing the other person.. It's so fucked up and I will never accept this I know my value and the life I want it Thank you so much I need to know more about dating You pointed to things I have never thought about
@AsTheSunRises
@AsTheSunRises 4 күн бұрын
I want to be treated like a 'Cookie Muffin Princess Angel Cupcake' 🍪 🧁 😇 🧁🍬🍭🍨🍰🎂🥠🥧🍩🍫' ! Like the sweetest sweets on earth🎉🥰. Yes, Spot on! Right!!!🙌🏾
@chelseaw9355
@chelseaw9355 5 күн бұрын
💯
@audreys4007
@audreys4007 4 күн бұрын
what if we’ve been on 3 dates so far should i plan the 4th?
@mey5207
@mey5207 5 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@mohammad-nw6ny
@mohammad-nw6ny 5 күн бұрын
Be girlfriend
@di.biano33.
@di.biano33. 3 күн бұрын
Olha aí ... Shampozada é bom pra lavar louças! Cade a dayana???
@bluemint4359
@bluemint4359 4 күн бұрын
Off topic but where is your bikini from?
@clairenicholls8024
@clairenicholls8024 4 күн бұрын
Swimsuit ???
@Genelle
@Genelle 4 күн бұрын
gooseberry 💗
@clairenicholls8024
@clairenicholls8024 4 күн бұрын
@@Genellethank you sooo much! You look amazing ! ❤
@di.biano33.
@di.biano33. 3 күн бұрын
Genelle' nada haver ... Eu quebrei a taça de proposito! Deu batom da Dayana! Horrivel' ja recebi 1mi por mexerem aqui em casa! Acredite eu quebrei.
@hannaolssen668
@hannaolssen668 4 күн бұрын
Girl…. You don’t tell your date about your trauma😅
@Genelle
@Genelle 4 күн бұрын
that’s what i’m saying don’t do that! a lot of ppl i know do
@PortiaJackson777
@PortiaJackson777 3 күн бұрын
In a previous video, you said you weren’t doing “the big thing” with guys, but sounds like you’re now OK with it if they say they’re committed to you/show you tests? As a Christian woman, do you believe in saving yourself for marriage?
@Roro-pt4rq
@Roro-pt4rq 5 күн бұрын
So pretty ❤❤
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