Getting Physical While Separated (Pros and Cons)

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2 жыл бұрын

In today's video, I talk about being physical while you are separated. Is it a good idea or not? I will give you what I have done while I was separated from my husband and give you the pros and cons of being physical while separated from your spouse.
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Tasha Curry has been through a divorce and has been separated from her current spouse twice. But with personal development she has been able to maintain a long-term marriage and bring her marriage back from the brink of divorce. She wants to help you get your marriage back to being loving and full of passion. The tips she share are things that changed her relationship and lifestyle. Hopefully It can work for you.
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@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor 2 жыл бұрын

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@gaylefontaine-richards6910 5 ай бұрын

My husband and I have been separated for about 8 months. He sent this to me today and it is truly helpful. Thank you.

@toody1117 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! I love your videos! I’ve been separated from my husband for 3 months now and we have now began being intimate together. We even text one another everyday and pray together at night over the phone. He told me he’s coming back home and wants our marriage. It takes time and patience…we are believing God and stepping out in faith that our marriage is reconciled and restored in Jesus name.💜.

@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You. I love this!! I'm so glad that you two are talking to one another and working to get back together. Just remember to keep the communication open and strong. So happy for you.

@itumelengmosailane1192 8 ай бұрын

A relationship that was based on status of money and sex will fall but the one that is based on God it won't fall

@nikitaachaibar1560 2 жыл бұрын

You truly heal my soul. I love your videos so much. It's helping me to cope and think and be better. Thank you so much for being you! ❤

@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for that I really appreciate that!!

@nikitaachaibar1560 2 жыл бұрын

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@IOVRSLPT Жыл бұрын

Agreed, That was my issue earIy on, continuing to have sex was definitely a false hope, when I already knew she was checked out, now in this stage, about 3 months later, I know it’s just Sex, you have to protect yourself, male or female, if you can’t have sex with no strings attached at that point, because that’s what it really is, then don’t even do it, you will get yourself hurt in the end

@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor Жыл бұрын

So true!

@npblevins Жыл бұрын

My husband and I have been separated for about 2 months. I’m praying for reconciliation. We have been intimate twice and I honestly would love to continue it, I can’t see myself having a connection with anyone else. I do feel like it’s ok because he’s my spouse but we don’t communicate afterwards at all. I do agree that if he gets a gf all intimacy would have to stop I just don’t know how to even talk about it with him. It’s like I don’t want to know if he’s seeing someone but I know a conversation will have to take place if we continue being intimate.

@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor Жыл бұрын

It's a hard conversation but you are right at some point a conversation is going to be had. My question is, is there any talks about reconciling? You haven't been separated that long and I'm all about giving things time. But I'm just wondering if you know where his mind is with the situation.

@npblevins Жыл бұрын

@@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor yes there has been talks about reconciliation. He got an apartment and wants to break his lease and come back. He’s saying all the right things like he misses me terribly and can’t imagine a life without me but his actions don’t match his words. I definitely can’t trust that if he comes back he won’t do this again. He’s started counseling so I’m open to the conversation once he’s finished counseling.

@issatagibateh1724 Жыл бұрын

@@npblevins hi Nicky I had liked a separated/married man his no longer living with his wife he has his own place now. He has been asking me to come over his new place but I wasn’t ready to go until I was ready. I have flirted with him before but I never went to far with him. Also he has a new girlfriend now because he said I play to many games and am not series so he told me the new girlfriend won him and I loss smh 😒😒😒😮

@Doctor.Dentista 2 жыл бұрын

What’s crazy, my husband bought that same tapestry you have hanging, but it was a throw blanket. I packed it up for him when he left. He tried to have sex last night, but I declined because I know he’s still trying to find his own apartment.

@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor 2 жыл бұрын

We are actually getting rid of that thing. It's covering this ugly contraption and when I find something I like to hang there that will be gone. lol. I know it's hard...I know it was hard for me to say no to my husband. He will probably try again. Only you know what is right for you and your relationship.

@stevenkovler5133 Жыл бұрын

We have been separated since I left . We were no contact. We ended up speaking about 8 weeks later. We met up at a hotel and it was the best ever for both of us. Just like you said we did some crazy stuff. We started talking about reconciliation. Then we had some arguments etc. We got back together again. But she was late meeting me. I know it was because she was on the phone with a business partner that she is considering as my replacement . All of a sudden I have become super jealous and attached to her. I am a bundle of anxiety. I told her after the last hook up that we maybe should finish the divorce. I think I threw her into the arms of someone else. But now I am so jealous . I can not picture her with anyone else ? I am so super jealous !! I do not know what to do!! I know that when we were together things were not great. But now that I am away from her , I am scared to death of loosing her . What do I do?? I am on the brink of insanity !

@dgjFOURlife Жыл бұрын

Quit acting like she is the only chick out there. Focus on improving urself. If u had plenty chicks throwing themselves at u; u wouldnt care. You threw something away, now ur considering looking in the trash for it. What you need to do is improve yourself and find some newer fresh off the lot modelS

@Mike_61610 5 ай бұрын

Hope you’re doing well bro

@acquineholmes3500 2 жыл бұрын

My wife and I are separated. 1 minute we good we have sex I spend numerous nights at her home. We go out to eat we talk on the phone for hours at a time. We laugh and play all night. Now when her mom comes around we back to square 1! Instead of talking for hours now I am blocked from all areas. I found out her mother been doing witchcraft on my wife to keep her away from me. My wife know her mom is envious of our marriage. She been a thorn in our marriage. It is so aggravating! I can't do anything about it. I just 🙏 up. If my wife would have her in her place we would be better off. I use to get so angry about it. Now I just focus on getting me together.

@acquineholmes3500 2 жыл бұрын

Excuse my miss words

@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor 2 жыл бұрын

That's all you can do, take care of yourself. If your wife sees what her mother is doing it's her job to stand up to her mother. It's hard but it's something I had to do for my marriage. But if she sees there is nothing wrong sadly the mother will always be a thorn in your side.

@piinkz30 Ай бұрын

Me and my husband is seperated in the same home (he's in our 3rd bedroom) do to some unfortunate circumstances, he had no choice but to stay here. At first sex was off the table, and I felt divorce was imminent... however Idk if I want the divorce, and we still socialize and I recently started letting him kiss me. Im afraid to have sex because I don't want him to feel like he is off the hook for what seperated us in the first place