Amen

My husband decided we were separated. I feel like it’s his way of seeing other people without considering himself a cheater. We have a 6 month old and dealing with this was well as postpartum has truly been a nightmare.

mine hurts even worse because we were forced to separate and we didn't even get to say goodbye. we were on really good terms. it feels like my life has been taken from me she was genuinely the only good thing in my life and we had an insane bond.

I don’t care if I have 10 kids and I’m married and I love you. If you cheat WE ARE DONE but I don’t ever want kids & I prob won’t ever be married because all these men cheat even this woman who just had a baby is complaining her man keeps looking at other woman at target like these men are sooooooo desperate for anything that isn’t the woman that actually cares for them

My greatest fear is waiting then her saying she wanna stay separated im just confuse on the whole thing honestly

Omg, woman are so hard to deal with, man are such much simpler

Thank you for this!

Me and my husband is seperated in the same home (he's in our 3rd bedroom) do to some unfortunate circumstances, he had no choice but to stay here. At first sex was off the table, and I felt divorce was imminent... however Idk if I want the divorce, and we still socialize and I recently started letting him kiss me. Im afraid to have sex because I don't want him to feel like he is off the hook for what seperated us in the first place

Because I changed my mind :( I’m sorry

After 28 years of marriage we separated for 3 years. I realized that l was better all by myself. There is no going back for me.

Love your videos! Thank you.

That second “it’s going to be ok”, broke me down… 6:40…. I wish I could believe that wholeheartedly… 😔

Whats the point kf getting married if you're gonna break the convenat. God hates divorce. And any man that narried a divorce woman commits adultery with her . My God honor hour convenet. God doesnt acknowledge divorce. Just becasue you go done to the court House. You shoild be reconciled

Being marrie young is no excuse. My homeboy and his wife got married after high school graduation year 2000. They're still married in 2024 had kids and are doing just fine. Yes they had problems. America an western society is the only place where they day experience life and dont get marreid young. What a bunch of bs. Other countries and cultures are prepared and raised to be husand and wives. Western society is just immature.

If they leave its God bringing in peace for the both of you unless there is infidelity involved then it's different then divorce becomes an option I too have seen infidelity and restoration thereafter. God allows divorce even though he doesn't like it he says it happens because of the hardening of the hearts which makes sense.

My husband and I separated 5 months ago and he is showing all these signs!

how did you know you were gong to get your husband back?

The re-dating part is really hard for me. It’s like I don’t want to restart when we already had everything. I can’t get over what we had in living under the same roof

We’re new to separation, I asked for it because of some of his issues that I find difficult to forgive. But I wish he at least text me.

Oh my…..

Hi Tasha I have a question. My wife and I have been married for six years. Long story short she wanted a divorce. I moved out and got my own place. It has been three months. I have tried to talk to her about why she left and why she wasn't happy. I suspect she cheated again but she will not tell me the reason except that she is the problem that it is her fault. I have tried to see if she wanted to do marriage counseling and she refused that. I even asked her if she was one hundred percent sure she wanted this divorce. She is on the fence about it and just tells me she needs more time to work on herself that she can't say she wants the marriage or not. I have kept my distance. I don't try to text her unless it is about money or bills. I am at a loss and part of me just wants to go the other way and cut all ties and the other part of me wants to try to make it work. I don't want to see other people because I have only wanted to be with her as a soul mate and I'm sure she is either living with or seeing someone else. The thought of it does bother me and I don't know how long she wants to keep this going. She has told me she wants counseling for herself and that she needs to figure herself out. I told her that I would give her time to figure it out. My question is should I continue to let her do her own thing and see other people til she figures out what she wants or should I just cut all ties and go through with the divorce? I just don't know what to do or who to turn to for advice. I'm not trying to play the victim I need help.

My mental health spiralled where I had self harming thoughts and was out of work for awhile. Self-care was absent, I couldn’t get up to brush my teeth. My mum is a marriage counsellor so that helps a ton, my friends were trying to split my husband and I which I don’t appreciate. I also have an individual and couple counselling. I started journaling too. Some days feel impossible to get up, other days I’m ok to go to the beach.

I feel like this was awesome advice. It's exactly what I needed to hear

I want to move out of this toxic marriage but I fear for my kids, ten years of waiting and holding on but I am really tired😢

Amen My Sister ❤❤❤

Love this to my bone

My partner is the best. He makes me feel loved, validated and truly loves/cares about me. But our 'bed time' falls flat. He almost always says no and i start to feel terrible because i have to beg. We talk about it, he says he will work on it, but nothing ever changes. That Lilly Allan song really strikes true to me now, before i found it dumb but now i get it.

Thank you

2 Corinthians 1:3-6

Amen

Thank you

Is that the classic excuse for men? I’ve heard that same manipulative talk- this is all too familiar. New sub I appreciate your delivery. I hope you start accepting new clients soon.

Tasha..What can i do if my wife and i are 6 hours apart and she wont talk to me..?

My husband and I have both had infidelity issues many years ago. I had an affair once after discovering his infidelity, but I believe that when he gets unhappy with our marriage, he either starts seeing someone else or has interest in someone else because he starts working late, going out after work for drinks, he becomes isolated from me and after a couple of months he talks about separateion, He never follows through and ends up staying. We continue the marriage, but we're more like roommates. This has happened 3 times in the last 13 years. We have 2 children together and having two households is hard with our income, so this is the reason why he never follows through I believe. This seems to be the pattern and it's draining me. He has a hard time communicating with me and we've stopped doing couple things together years ago. I've made suggestions about going out on dates, but he always puts work, co-workers, his friends, and our children before me. I don't even think I'm on his priority list. This year on Valentine's Day was when he mentioned separation for the 3rd time. He said he wanted us to stay friends and still do things with the kids as a family, still go on vacations together, but 8 weeks have passed and he's still here. He never leaves. He has it all planned out when we have "the talk", but doesn't follow through. It's so hard being here at home together as a family. I don't know how to be around him. We're still sharing a bed everynight. He's working late, going out with co-workers, doing band practice with his friends on Friday nights, and spending the rest of the time with the kids during the week and on weekends. When we do have some time to spend together after the kids go to bed, he's already fallen asleep on the couch. I know he's not working late because I've seen him leave work 3 hours before he gets home, but when I asked, he says he was working, so I know he is lying to me. I'm not proud of spying on him but I want the truth. I'm tired of this, but I love him so much and I know that we can be happy again. I believe that my affair is something he can't get over. He hasn't forgiven me. I guess he doesn't understand that he has been unfaithful too, multiple times and he lies about what he's doing, but I guess he feels that his past and likely current infidelity isn't as bad as mine was. The other day I saw him go to the gym. He normally has a 1 hour lunch break, but I drove by his work 90 minutes later and he still wasn't there. I sent him a text asking if he could meet me for lunch since I was in the area. I honestly was trying to see what he would say regarding his whereabouts, but he actually said yes. I was shocked. I thought for sure he would say no because he had already spent 90 minutes on his lunch break. So we went to lunch. I had no idea what I would say but I thought this was a good time to ask him why he hadn't left yet. I told him it was hard being around him at home knowing he doesn't want to be with me anymore and still sharing a bed with him. I told him how confused I was when he says we can still vacation together We talked about rental homes and I showed him a few that I had found, but they were pretty expensive and it could be done, but it would really wipe us out with any savings and gas/grocery expenses. I told him that I have a feeling that he is likely spending time with someone else and maybe he could stay with that person. He said he wasn't seeing anyone. I told him that he didn't have to lie to me, in a friendly and honest manner. I didn't make any accusations and certainly didn't tell him I had spied on him. He did admit that he has gone out but he is not involved with anyone so that would not be an option. He continued to talked about saving some money by having dinners on the days when he had the kids, I could eat with them sometimes. He also talked about still going on vacation together as a family this fall. So I really don't know what the hell is going on with him. I talked with him about forgiveness, that this is all likely happening over and over again because he hasn't been able to move beyond my affair 13 years ago and I don't think he can move forward with me or be happy himself until he forgave me. I explained how important forgiveness is and that I've forgiven him completely, even now knowing that he's gone out with someone recenlty. His mouth was jittering and he was tearing up. He had a hard time speaking when telling me that he wanted to forgive me but wasn't sure if he ever could. He told me before we ended the lunch date that he was so glad we met and he thanked me for talking with him because he has a hard time talking about these things with me. He told me he's had butterflies in his stomach everynight, he's stressed, and can't sleep but this talk made him feel better. He walked me to my car. He thanked me again and turned to me for a hug. I could feel extreme emotion from him. He hugged me tightly before getting in his truck to leave. So some of the things in your video made me feel as though there is still hope for us. We've been together for 24 years, half of my lifetime. I love him so much and I really want us to be amazing together. I now realize that I have to be the one to keep things going because he is unfortunately terrible at it, but he's worth it to me. I just can't keep allowing this behavoir and I know that his struggle is forgiveness. If he can completely let that go, I know that would help him so much. It has certainly helped me. Thank you for the video and I'm so sorry to everyone that this was such a long comment.

My gf told me she don’t want kids ask if I wanted to do surrogacy or adoption. We been dating 8 months and I feel like it’s a slap in the face. What is the best advice I can do? I want a family but I don’t want to adopt or do surrogacy. I like this girl but I’m not sure what to do next

They never leave then be looking dumb sitting at the health department

Once u and your spouse is separated, it’s over for ever. Even if u do get back together, it’ll never ever be the same.

She has 2 kids already I have 1 she wants to get married move it and all that but doesn't want a child. My daughter is 18 hers are 9 and 10. I really don't know what to do

You are so right wow

Best thing to do is keep to yourself and work on self...

This really helped a lot!

Mine is a little different. I have 2 kids from the marriage. So it’s stress and fear on how I will manage them alone.

Leave. It’s the same, but now the loneliness and rejection can be solitude and productivity.

Women require way too much maintenance. Me me me me. Don't change for them. Don't need them.

my friend has a son who is being back stabbed by his girlfriend who acting that she loves him

Just dont open any other relationship doors until you are sure of the status of the marriage...

1st corinthians 7:10. If a woman departs let her remain unmarried or reconcile. Matthew19:9 saving fir the cause of Fornication. Priverbs19;9a false witness will not go unpunished and he who lies will perish. That is the person who put out this video mark 10 11-12. . She shall be calld an adultress. Dont do it

Sounds like yall adore cheating and sin. You are married regardless of separation. It's called adultery. The seventh commandment. If you don't commit adultery and throw the doors open to the enemy the chances are better of reconciliation which is God's will. Is anyone true christian anymore?

I’m going through this we’ve only been married 4 years we have a 1 year old son and she’s currently pregnant now and she decided to move out 4 days ago.. it hurts so bad because I have no closure on the situation. I love my family

Thank you ❤