my first date was actually the movies haha, we’re both pretty introverted and thought it was a good idea to get a feel for each other. plus it gave us something to talk about afterwards, overall it was a success!

Also, coffee dates are a classic date plan, and they're awesome if they're early. If the date is good, you can do more after. If the date is bad, your day isn't ruined and you can go home/hang with other friends.

I just turned 20 and i'm going on a first date EVER i'm so nervous

This was the healthiest relationship advice video I’ve seen in forever!

I am a guy and still haved watched the video, i am really nervous for my first date even if pepole could say girls stress more. I don't care i am really nervous. But, thank to this video i've understood that the most important thing is to make the girl feel confortable. So yes, everybody wishes me luck i guess

I potentially have a first date on Friday and GOD I'm so nervous, I'm out of a long term relationship (6 years and we broke up April of 2022) so this is the first time I've dated or had a first date in like 7 years.

It's true, women do think more. We're no thoughts, just vibes.

so I'm 14, and this Saturday I'm going on my first date ever!! I'm so excited, we are going out to lunch at a Thai restaurant, but I really needed your advice, and since I trust your judgment completely, you really helped me. Thank you so much Heather

I always split the bill on first dates; I earn my own money and think it is kind of weird women wanting to be equal to men in society and at the same time expecting them to pay 😅 Later normally the guy and me kind of alternate with paying. But that's just my opinion. My now husband and me on our first date also split the bill. We really liked each other right away so that was no sign for no interest clearly...

thanks trying out my 1st online date :) gonna use this advice one day and journal your great tips. Looking so glowy and pretty

Tip: Vary your sentences so that you don't come up as robotic. For example, if you're sharing your opinion, instead of saying "I like...." maybe change it up to "I enjoy" or "I am interested in"

Hey Heather! Today I was like ‘what day is it?’ ‘Oh it’s Saturday’. Then I checked your channel cause I thought I missed your video yesterday, bc you post on Fridays a lot. Then I found you didn’t and I was like ‘Ok, I didn’t miss it’. Is that weird? Well, it’s me…so I wouldn’t be surprised if it came off as weird 😅 Ok, nice video. I know it was more focused on tips for women, but I definitely think you covered a lot of stuff. Being a guy I can say you were pretty much bang on about the guy stuff you mentioned. Guys like to feel they are ‘doing well on a date’. They love when girls laugh at their jokes (even when they suck), and they appreciate compliments too. I think the best first dates are the cheap ones lol. Maybe I’m different, but I prefer cheap dates…grab a quick bite to eat and find a park or something and chill there for an afternoon. Talk and get to know each other. Walks are the best. It’s a natural way to relieve stress, and works very well on first dates when both people are nervous. Plus there is always something to look at when you’re walking outdoors so I find the conversation flows more when doing this activity. I could write a long opinion column touching on your points but I won’t bore you with my opinions lol. You know, I can feel that you love helping people. It really comes out when I watch you explaining dating and making sure that both people on a date are respected and valued. I asked myself how can you be so much like this…then you said you were a Pisces…and I’m like ‘ahh, that explains it’ lol. Pisces are warm caring people….I’m a Pisces too 😅! Ttyl!

Great advice! I love your nail polish where is that from

I was thinking about how much this sounds like me and how I act on dates, and then you said you’re a Pisces and it all clicked 😂

$300 for a meal???? Girl, I'm too uncultured for this conversation I guess 😂😂

Im potentially going for first date this Saturday. Sooo nervous 😭. Trying to get out of my comfort zone. Wish me luck ✨🫶🫶 Ahhhh

I'm more interested in my education then being in a relationship, right now. I'm a freshman in College. Also, you look like Lana Condor and Lara Jean Covey.

If he doesn't kiss me first date I think he is not that into me or too shy... and it not working out long time. I think he should pay if he asking me out i have to travel etc.. Chemistry important.

If you were born from 2000 to 2010 your a GenZ

i love videos like this where you can just have one on one chats but the thing is i have never gotten to a stage where i even had a guy like me back its crazy to think that and im 28years old problem is i am very introvert and when I like someone i wont say anything even now. This guy I like his friends have asked me to just ask him to meet but I cant and I don't really know how to either

Hey comments ok I might be going on a date on Sunday. And it's gonna be my first date, and I'm really nervous. I'm a shy person. What would be the best place to go on a date? I was thinking, maybe Mini golfing or going bowling, or maybe going to see a movie, and I'm not sure if he's ever been on a date before. I never really asked him, so help a girl out pls 🙂

ALSO IM ABSOLUTELY TERRIFIED LIKE IM SCARED 😭 BUT WE ARE GOING TO A PARK AND IM AN Introvert ): SO IM LIKE IDK WHAT TO DO WE ARE GOING TO BE WALKING

The guy made her pay THE DATE ; HELL NO .

There’s only one part that’s confusing I’m pretty sure I’m just going to the park with the dude But we may get coffee I’m just kinda like…. Some guys or people say it’s attractive to offer to pay but then I’m hearing it’s not HELPP I don’t want to give him the wrong signals

You are gen z))

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