“my mother committed suicide when i was a child and i was the one who found her” ... holy shit. i cant imagine what that was like

"Because that's death, it's not romantic." This. We like to romanticize everything, it's not good.

Yes, my mother. When I received the news that she had 24 hours to live. I wasn't sure that I could but I went and stayed overnight in her hospice care room and saw her take her last breath. It was full circle, she saw me take my first and I saw her take her last.

"I was the one who found her" I relate maybe 90% to this since it wasn't my mom who i found it was actually my best friend. imagine getting a missed call from your best friend and seeing how close you live together, you go over to her house and when u enter she's just hanging from the ceiling with her eyes open wide in her room. I wouldn't even wish my worst enemy to feel what i felt.

Okay but the story about the girl screaming "I don't want to die" and then dying really hit me.. What a horrific way to pass..

The girl who said “why are you asking this?” You already know she had been through shit

"a guy died from a seizure and then a guy gave him CPR and he came back to life and then we got pancakes" sounds like a regular show episode lmao

As an EMT, I see death all the time. My first one was a man who just died in his recliner. Got on the scene, did CPR and after a little bit, he started bleeding out of his mouth and it looked into his eyes and underneath his head. I still remember his face and eyes to this day. Been three years ago

Nobody’s talking about that poor girl who’s mum committed suicide when she was a child and she was the one that found her that must have scared her especially seeing her mum like that and a young age god bless.

“he came back to life, we got pancakes” if only all deaths worked like that huh.

Until 3 weeks ago, I had never actually seen someone die, like in front of me… But my mom had a heart attack, and she asked to be kept alive long enough to say goodbye to my sister and I. Then she was unplugged from the machines. We stayed in the hospital room and actually saw her take her last breath. I firmly believe that she’s in Heaven, no longer in pain, but dang… seeing that shit has messed me up permanently! 😔

I was holding my mom’s hand when she died. It was so peaceful. She suffered 22 years from Parkinson’s disease. She was in a hospice facility and they were so good to our entire family. They treated my mom with such compassion.

" My dad had a cancer " " My mother committed suicide when I was a child and I was the one that found her " I can not even imagine that. :"((

Why is nobody talking about the woman who found her mom after she killed herself as a child thats so sad

Last month, my fiance overdosed. I was the one who found him, it just looked like he was asleep. He was peaceful and his face just looked disturbingly calm. Once I realized what was happening, I had to Narcan him and call the ambulance. As soon as I Narcanned him, it looked like all of his air got shoved back into lungs. When the ambulance came, and he was being brought to the stretcher, he barely seemed like himself. It was so odd. Later on, I got to the hospital and the doctor told me he died twice. He died, then I Narcanned him and again in the ambulance. Luckily, he's doing okay now. He's in rehab, and that experience helped us both to realize things. He wants to be sober, and live a long and fulfilling life, and I have never ever loved someone so much. I'm so grateful everyday that he's here again. I would've missed my best friend.

I appreciate you guys including a diverse group of people in the video. I am a hijabi woman myself and to see a hijabi woman being included actually made me tear up a bit because the islamophobia around the world has gotten so much worse, and it is unsettling to see. I felt like you guys appreciated us here so thank you

"Where do we go, after we die?" "I think we go to the same place we were before we were born" I think this is the best description of what happens... after...

when that lady said “why are you asking this?” that is the most uncomfortable & disturbed ive ever felt.

When I was in 4th grade, my teacher had the whole class gather around to inform us that one of our fellow students had passed away. Bailey was his name. This was roughly 16 years ago and I think about him from time to time. I wish there was a way for me to find out more information about his death, but I'm not having any luck. I wish you were still here Bailey, you were truly a pure soul and you will be missed.

I didn’t see her die, but my grandmother passed away in her sleep and I saw her right after. She was cold and the idea that she was no longer here left me speechless.

"he died... but then came back to life... and then we got pancakes."

cut isn't "taking a dark turn" - it's always been this brutally honest about neglected topics. i'm not at all surprised by this question.

the dude who said "no it's okay" to the girl who apologized for crying really warmed my heart in many ways

I'm a veterinary assistant. Nobody talks about the mental exhaustion of medical jobs. I'm 16 and I have watched many animals pass away right in front of me and have had to hold them and prepare them for cremation. The owner's stories are the worst part. One time a woman came in and her cat was in the process of passing away and she was heartbroken. I tried to speak with her and empathize and she told me her husband had just passed away a couple of months ago as well. She also struggled to pay for the medication and process, but she never directed any anger toward me or the staff. She was thankful that we were there. My heart broke and I hugged her and told her life would be better for her soon as that is the way of the universe, and that was probably the only time I've ever cried at work.

“He went “UGHHHHH”- came back to life *and we went and got pancakes* “

C'mon, too many of these comments are about how people answered weirdly and didn't show emotion. When you witness something **that** traumatic, an automatic response is to shut down your emotions so you won't break down.

seeing my father die was the worst thing i’ve ever experienced honestly and ive been through other things but the helplessness you feel is something i can’t even begin to put into words

In January of 2022 I found my neighbor and good friend dead of a stroke. I had to do the compressions until medics arrived. It was very hard and found myself seeing the image of what I walked into everyday. Three weeks later my husband and I were on Uber scooters when his malfunctioned throwing him head first into the concrete… I held him covered in blood trying to apply first aid to him. Unconscious and bleeding out until paramedics arrived. While we did loose him and He was presumed dead to me for over an hour…. He survived by the grace of god after 4 cranial fractures . I have needed a group or trauma therapy and this video has definitely helped. I hope that anyone who has been in this situation knows you are not alone. There is definitely a lack of resource for people who go through this… thank you for this video. It’s given me a little bit of closure.

“Have you ever seen someone die?” “Yes, this cat was walking down the street-(more ranting)- and then we got pancakes

*because thats death. and its not romantic* well spoken.

I was with my father when he passed. It was a very peaceful experience. The day before was awful, but his last day, he was very quiet and serene. We were all with him and he just took a deep breath and was gone. That was it. He was in hospice. I'm glad I was there with him.

“He died…then he came back to life..then we got pancakes”

*"And we went and got pancakes"* Not the ending we expected but a pleasant one at that

“ he came back to life and We got pancakes 🥞 “

i work at a funeral home and see at least 1 dead body each shift, it gets hard seeing the family’s reactions to seeing their loved one like that

I saw my dad die from cancer in 2014. He went out slowly in a matter of a few hours. That's the hardest thing I've ever done in my life, I was holding his hand, rubbing his shoulder and hair, telling him we all will be ok, that he needed to rest from the pain, but inside I was screaming for him not to leave. I was only 18 and I needed him for so many more things in my life. He went in peace, surrounded of the people he loved the most (my mom, my brother and me).

“The child sitting next to me got decapitated” that turned my stomach

I kind of wish this didn't jump between people so fast.

My grandma left us yesterday at the age of 63. She was sleeping for weeks already, and we took the decision to stop the medication. It took 45 minutes. We were all here for her, her sister, brother, mother, daughter, son, niece and me, her grand daughter. The most horrible is seeing the monitor at 20 beats/minute and realizing : it's happening. I'm crying while writing this, it's been one day only but we were all holding her, caressing her face, telling her how much we love her, she was not alone

I am in my 20s and an EMT and unfortunately I have seen things ppl cannot imagine. I’ve seen many deaths. The worst of it all is I’ve seen ppl mourning the death of a loved one on scene and it saddens me to say that we are insanely undervalued and underpaid. On one occasion at the start of a 24hr shift I saw 4 ppl pass within the first 6 hours of my shift. 3 of which my partner and I performed CPR, unfortunately none came back. 2 of the individual were only in their 20s. Later that day my partner and I received a write up for what the company calls “not completing our shop check out” which is one of then most common and minor policies that every EMT can easily forget to perform due to the fast pace and call volume we receive. I realized at that very moment that the company sees us as numbers on spread sheets they do not take into factor the amount of Physcial and mental stress the job has on us. 17.25 an hour is a crime rate for the things we’ve had to see and do.

You can tell that the woman who witnessed the child being decapitated has spent a long time working through it by the way she speaks about it

Ok I’ve seen a lot of comments saying, ‘’That girl who talked about the child being decapitated was way to happy!’’ It’s called a coping method. She was traumatised- if you see a dead body without a head you’d be scared to death to and you’d try to be happy. So stop blowing up saying she’s ‘happy’ that the child died. Ridiculous. Don’t attack me but, really, stop. You’d be the same. Even if you aren’t people want to try and be happy when it comes to death because it brings pain to everyone. Edit: 2.1K likes I- THANKS-

I’m a nurse in palliative care. I’ve been with a number of people as they died, and have also pronounced many deaths, and informed family members that their loved one has passed. I don’t find it scary or creepy, so much as just very surreal that the person’s spirit, all the things that make them the person they are, just disappears.

When me and my friends were on a trip in Egypt, a group of people with guns tried to drive by our whole bus. Only 1 guy got shot and it was the guy behind me. He got shot from his head so he instantly died. It could have been me since he was the one who got on the bus right after me. Sometimes I think of that and appreciate my life more.

„Why are you asking this???“ she looked really stressed

The woman who experienced the child next to her getting decapitated is just.. sad. 3:57

My father. I sat with him and my family as he passed in hospice care. It was the most difficult moment of my life up until that point, but years later, I now know that it was also the most transformative moment of my life. I appreciated my life, my health, and the love I was lucky to receive from friends and family more than I did before. It took me years to shake off the depression, but I'm a better person today and I'm grateful that I had the emotional intelligence to know that it was a fortunate way to let go of a parent, to be there for them in the moment they needed me most.

Witnessing the death of a loved one is the worst heartache anyone can imagine...the seering pain gets worse everyday. I was 12 when I had to say goodbye to my brother and at that age you build up angst and you find reasons to blame things on yourself or question many "what if" scenarios. Years later my father slowly succumbed to Alzheimer's. The pain of seeing a parent pass is truly an immeasurable anguish. Shortly after, it was my dear mother. Although I was there, I couldn't look at her while she took her last breath because I didn't want that to be the last memory of her...the despair is permanent and something you can never recover from.

“My mother committed suicide when I was a child. I was the one who found her.” That hit me so hard...

"The child sitting near me was decapitated. And died."

When I was in the 6th grade my grandmother collapsed on her front porch from a blood clot and was transported to the hospital. When we went to visit her we were so afraid and unsure of the near future. The first night we finally got to see her.. I was in such shock I never really got much of a word out. I just wish I'd hugged her a little tighter and a little longer then because I didn't realize it would be our last. Later that night we awoke to an emergency call and stormed back to the ICU just as she was being wheeled away for emergency surgery. Frozen, I watched as she passed within 5 feet of me for the last time and I didn't see her there and it still haunts me to this day. I start my senior year of highschool in a week and its coming up on the anniversary of her passing, i just hope I can graduate and make her proud. Don't let any word go unspoken to those you care about, you will regret it like I do. I love you Nanny, sipping sweet tea and cheering on the Broncos with a bird's eye view in heaven!

It changes your whole life. I feel like I'm not myself anymore since that day.

Death doesn’t really scare me, dying does.

This lady is saying this so calmly “a child was decapitated next to me”

I once saw my mom on the ground in the kitchen floor, there was yellow stuff coming out of her mouth. When I saw that I screamed my lungs out and I had adrenaline flowing. Luckily me and my brother called the ambulance and she stayed there for a few days, but she's good now. I'm just so grateful, I don't imagine live without my mom.

watching this after my grandpa died in front of me today kinda comforts me, so thank you for doing videos like this

'-he came back to life' ' Then we went and got pancakes'

"why are you asking this" she was terrified. Her face scared me tho

When my great-grandma died (she was 100) my family was kind of relieved. She was a lot to take care of and living any longer might have been painful for her. We weren’t happy that she died, but we weren’t depressed.

I know many people may not see cats as humans or whatever but my 13 year old cat sure was part of our family. I was like 10 when she was going to the vet for something. She was in her cage at the time. And me being a young child thought nothing if it. My mom came home with an empty cage that day.

I still can’t comprehend how the lady who witnessed a child’s decapitation was so calm. Gives me the chills.

“Why do you think death is so hard?” Because you are losing someone that you love and will never ever see again. You have to live the rest of your life without them, not knowing what happens after death. It is inevitable

My husband died from cancer. I tried my best while making him company in the process. Seeing your one dying is the sadest and the most dramatic experience out there.

You can see the smiles fade from their faces when they are ask the question.

“The child next to me was decapitated and died” Okay that just hit hard...

All these people look like you hit randomize on a sims character.

When the guy asked the interviewer, that was so sweet. If it doesn't exist already, I think a video where the cut staff gets interviewed could be pretty interesting.

I didn't see him die, but the man I was with died in his sleep next to me in 2009. I did hear what I now know to be a death rattle. His death destroyed me. RIP Patrick.

“This guy had a seizure and then someone came to gave him CPR then we went to get pancakes”

Nobody: That one calm ass woman: "the child was DECAPITATED and... died"

I saw 3 people get murdered in a mass shooting half a block from my house. It's been 6 years but it still haunts me to this day.

I witnessed my mom shoot herself in the head. That was the most horrible experience I have ever seen felt in my life. And my existence has never been the same. It has been 13 months and the pain of losing her this hurts as much as that day.

i feel really terrible about the one girl who found her mom after she committed suicide. that's one of my biggest fears, finding someone i love dead. and especially as a child.

“The child sitting next to me was Decapatated” Oh shit......

“He died…and so one did cpr and he came back to life……and then we got pancakes 🥞” Laughs* “I’m being dead ass 😎”

i’m not the kind of person who usually write a comment on youtube videos. but this video touched me. last christimas, as usual my family was having a diner at my house, and suddenly my grandpa started to feel awful and fall asleep on our sofa. 5 minutes later he’s breath started to change and he died. all of my family was calling for his name and i had to watch my grandpa dying in front of me. i have anxiety attacks and depression. it’s not easy. enjoy ur life as much as u can and say to the people u love, that u love them. it was heartbreaking and painful to watch his dead. i had to call him to see if he was alive or not. i really hope that if someone has depression like me or feels bad about something that u can be better, we all will. :)

"I saw a child next to me get decapitated" "[I saw] my little brother [die]" "My mother committed suicide when I was a child, and I was the one who found her" Man that's heavy...

Man: he had a seizure and someone gave him CPR and then he came back to life. *then we went and got pancakes*

This is helpful to me right now having a ptsd flashback right now knowing I'm not alone and others are still unable to speak on it

I saw the head cook of the kitchen I worked in die. She suffered a stroke and had a bad fall that took her pretty fast. What made me so mad was that she was the sweetest, most considerate person, and as she was being taken away by paramedics (who took 20 f’ckin minutes to get to a RETIREMENT HOME), the head honcho of the place turns to me and starts discussing options to keep me employed there - I had given my two weeks like a week ago… She was just so full of life and love for others. To the point where she wasn’t thinking of herself or her own health. Looking back, I recall not seeing her take many breaks or a lot of days off. She was already doing so much, right up until she passed… and the gm, owner - whatever tf his role was couldn’t even shut his mouth until she on the ambulance.

“have you ever seen someone die?” that woman: YES!😜💕🦋✨

06:30 “Death is the one thing in my life that doesn’t scare me,” “Why aren’t you scared of death?” “Death just is, and things that just are its not good or bad, its just something that has to happen.”

I watched my granny take her last breath, both of my sisters left the room a little bit before bc they just couldn't handle it. Me, my mom & grandfather stayed. The sound of her last breath is something I will never ever forget.

I have... My 3 day old daughter, my first born. She took her last breath in my arms...felt her heartbeat slow to a full stop...

interviewer: have you ever seen someone die? people: no interviewer: okay bye

The woman who found her mother dead from suicide, immediately brought tears to my eyes. I almosssst made it through the video without crying

I was at this choir concert and it was at a resting home. There was this guy in the audience and I just see this nurse check for breathing and then take him out of the room. He was blinking as he was leaving so he didn't die in that moment which I am very grateful. I had two people who died in the hospital and my parents wouldn't let me see them because they had all these wires hooked up to them so I'm happy they wouldn't let me go through that.

Is nobody gonna talk about the guy that saw a cat come back to life then went to get pancakes? I love him

for everyone who started crying i just would have hugged them immediately

CUT ask 100 people either makes me laugh or cry theres no in between

Watched my mom die when I was 9, she had pancreatic cancer and I woke up to my dad screaming her name at 5a.m. Ran into their bedroom and she was laying there with her eyes open, not breathing. It’s a sight I can’t unsee. It’s the first thing I think of when I think of my mom and I hate it. It’s the first and last thing I think about everyday, I haven’t lived normally for 14 years. I wish my brain could just forget it.

i love what the last person said. I love how he just says it is what happens.

"and she was screaming "i dont wanna die i dont wanna die" then she died" :(

Lightest part of this video: “then we went to get pancakes.”

I think is that it makes it so much better and easier that the man behind the camera also opened up about his experience with death

I liked the last guy , “death just is, and things that just are. It is neither good or bad, it just has to happen”

Why is no one talking about the woman’s mother who did suicide.

“Have you seen someone die” “Why are you asking this!” “It’s for our video, if you not comfortable with-” “No”

Watching my grandpa take his last breath was really the worst pain ever

my great grandma died right in front of me as i was giving her my last hug while she was in hospice 🙂