I'm so tired of people claiming harassment whenever another approaches them about something they owe. Just because you'd rather not hear about it, doesn't make it harassment!
@deemcgriff41966 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@elainevankat53536 ай бұрын
Exactly!!! It’s so irritating hearing defendants cry… about being harassed!
@pattyredd80706 ай бұрын
Absolutely! I would be pissed too. Shes an adult not a child.
@craZbeauTful6 ай бұрын
I think he would've called her out on it.
@gabs46926 ай бұрын
Yes you are absolutely right
@sweettexastee6 ай бұрын
Am I the only one who thinks it's selfish that she received $50k from the estate and didn't feel that she should even pay half of the funeral costs?
@zuritribe48446 ай бұрын
i do think they could have gone at least half on his credit card bill
@leir20056 ай бұрын
Some people come into money and conveniently forget that they owe others money. My sister in law owed us over a grand and when she got a blessing she started flexing on social media and when she got called out on it she claimed she spent it all. We were never given a dime. Shameful when situations like these have to come to litigation but it’s the only way some people will learn 😢
@jonathandossous50446 ай бұрын
I mean technically she did give him half of the funeral costs when she gave him the $3500.
@LegalMuva6 ай бұрын
No, you’re not
@nununicole94086 ай бұрын
Where did they say she got that much at
@sevinsweets51405 ай бұрын
“My mom would want me to use the inheritance? to build my life” Girl pay your bill.
@brandinelson79414 ай бұрын
Her mom would be ashamed how selfish the daughter is.... When she ain't anything special.
@TamaraBlackwell-gp1fh6 ай бұрын
She is delusional. You're living with the man for free you cant give $6,000 for your mothers funeral. Thats pitiful
@carlakenyon60735 ай бұрын
She is! Let’s be clear, he’s not your father
@mikeyh06 ай бұрын
She knows she agreed to pay him back. She lacks character. Youth is no excuse for lying and refusing to own up to what you promised.
@kennethimpelmance91076 ай бұрын
You nailed it. Poor character.
@murphywallace93366 ай бұрын
100%
@aerotaken53576 ай бұрын
Especially since she basically admitted afterwards
@yeshuachristdrivenandinspi69986 ай бұрын
You are so right . She's a very shallow person and ungrateful. There's a lot of other questions we could ask about this situation such as why didn't her mother have a life insurance policy? Even though her mother had a relationship with this man he was not her husband and she is not her daughter. And after all is said and done she comes into $50,000 does not think that she needs to compensate this man for his kindness? How DESPICABLE and EVIL 😡
@user-be1bm5vq6p5 ай бұрын
I Agree
@barbarawallach13346 ай бұрын
The defendant is such a liar. Out of $50,000 she couldn't pay back $6,000....?
@angeltellez52766 ай бұрын
I’m sorry, but you can’t say “I didn’t choose to live with him. I was 19”. You’re an adult at 18. No one forced you to live with him & your mom.
@sherreefelstead40136 ай бұрын
JM is so tactful in being sympathetic, when in all honesty she wanted to tell them to grow up and stop playing victim: "I'm only 20 and he's harassing me" The defendants have to be responsible and realize there's a debt to pay especially after receiving a 50k estate.
@aprilpinketon25676 ай бұрын
But, that’s not like anything she said. I wouldn’t lay around with a man for 15 yrs that didn’t want to marry me and be responsible for me I responsible for him. I don’t understand why ppl play like that. I’m all of nothing. No matter what age I wouldn’t play. Especially if I am a women raising two girls. I do feel for the girls. I blame the mom for picking a guy who wouldn’t go the whole way with her and leaving the young girl to clean it all up.
@christopherbako6 ай бұрын
The vultures come out when there's a dead person. Her, fake voice.😊Doesn't fool me. She wants that money.
@Web198146 ай бұрын
Is it just me or does she sound like she is talking in a softer voice to seem sweet, fair, and innocent, but probably in real life she doesnt sound like that?
@kay221006 ай бұрын
I don’t think so because her voice didn’t change when she spoke to Doug
@queenlauraa39686 ай бұрын
I agree !!!!!
@aprilshines95216 ай бұрын
Right!!!
@tjduprey6 ай бұрын
Is it because she's fat or because she's black that you don't think her sweet voice is real? Your statement says more about you than her.
@deemcgriff41966 ай бұрын
Omg I was thinking the same thing!!! Talking soft for sympathy...
@Arc696 ай бұрын
Contract or not if someone paying for my mama’s funeral I’m definitely paying that person back and will hold them in high respect for giving my mama a proper burial
@daynasafranek7807Ай бұрын
Exactly. It’s the right thing to do, even if he never asked her for the money. He was there when she needed the money and is so ungrateful. He lost her mother, too. Disrespectful behavior!
@Arc69Ай бұрын
@@daynasafranek7807 facts
@jusmejaussyb82376 ай бұрын
I really hate the fact that this gentleman was made to feel guilty for wanting his money back! You got 50k and didn’t even care to pay him back. SMH
@melissaloewen93226 ай бұрын
The estate absolutely should pay for funeral costs, it's not your inheritance until all the final costs and expenses are dealt with. After that use the remainder however you want.
@hadley4076 ай бұрын
The daughters should have given him the money out of the mother’s estate. That is what her estate was there for, to cover her final resting costs. I don’t think the mother would’ve wanted him to be burdened for all those years paying a credit card bill because of her. It sounds like the daughters were just being selfish and wanted the $50k for themselves.
@MOAB-UT6 ай бұрын
yes
@chevysmith67236 ай бұрын
There should have been a separate burial plan or life insurance policy to cover the funeral. If he had ever married her (after 2 decades of being a couple), it would be expected that he, as her husband, paid for the funeral. Period.
@nyxium28316 ай бұрын
@@chevysmith6723I think you’re missing that if he had married her, the estate would have gone to him and not the children. He would have obviously used the estate to pay for the funeral costs. That’s what usually happens; as the judge said, funeral expenses usually come out of the estate.
@kristi67416 ай бұрын
@@chevysmith6723burial costs come out of the estate. That’s the purpose of a will and absent one, the estate may go through probate to first ensure all remaining debts are settled and then distributed as appropriate by law
@OOOGhost-girlOOOshhhhh6 ай бұрын
This is another reason why you can’t help people out…
@MOAB-UT6 ай бұрын
She is being irresponsible. She lived for free and she did not like his tone. Entitled. Good for him for not allowing himself to be taken advantage of. Daughter disrespected her own mothers memory by being selfish. He was obviously a good enough man for her mom for ~20 yeras. This daughter inherets part of $50k and does not want to give this good man a dime. He is grieving too. She has her whole life to live- he is likely retired and every dime counts. Shameful on her part. Over the years he likely gave her much more too- treated her like a daughter. She is very cold towards him.
@luv4ever1016 ай бұрын
whats sickening to me is he was enaggaed to their mother for 3 yrs and had been her man for 15 years and yet he Contributed ZERO TO HER FUNERAL..NIOTHING. yes he loaned them money but he wanted every dime back. that man has no morals. most people if its your loved one or partner in life you would poay something. he could have said yal paid me back almost 4,000 so i'll let the 2,000 go as my contribution to the woman i loved funeral instead of taking her teenagers to ciurt. judge million said morally he should have paid something its horrible that he wont but i cant make him. you call him a good man..geez he couldnt even help bury hsi woman
@MOAB-UT6 ай бұрын
@@luv4ever101 If what you say is true- you have a point but it sounds like she was freeloading and the funeral was just the tip of her entitled iceberg. I bet he raised and paid for her since she was 5- like she said. Neither of us really knows. I say good for him- too many men are suckers. She wanted to live for free and not pay a dime for anything. I have a problem with that. He is likely retired and broke and she is sitting on $50k. Do you rely on a man to fund your life too? You seem to be projecting just a bit.
@mahailiabrown39726 ай бұрын
@@luv4ever101in all reality I would just be very Frank with this statement just because he was engaged to her doesn't mean he has to put down a dime of his money he still loan the money it doesn't matter if he got that money back that still shows the kindness of his heart if someone still loves you money that shows a lot including if you don't know if that person still needs their money back regardless to pay bills or whatever that's another thing third of all she still has family and her family is supposed to pay if she is not married to nobody she was not married to that man yet therefore her family pays for her stuff they did not do that he did he made donations he been raising that girl she wasn't getting no rent to him and you want to come after him no I'm not having that because in my head that that's a bad image of your personality
@luv4ever1016 ай бұрын
@@MOAB-UT sounded like her mom was the person who paid for everything in their relationship. when he did do something for the mom he made an itemized list for even minor stuff like putting 420 gas in the car. yes he made the list cuz the daughter knew he was freeloading so he actually made a list. IF IN 15 YRS U CAN RECALL EACHG TIME U PUT 2 bucks in the car and it fits in one paragraph that tells u who had the money. so th emom raised and paid for her kids. but the fact that he was there for 15 yrs and then suddenly wants to charge the teens is horrific. who does that? . hes a loser and jerk thats what the judge basically said so but then told her legally he can be a jerk. judge was saying that and looking at him cuz she wanted to see if he had a heart or would donate at least something to the funeral of the women he was with for 15 yrs. judge does that sometimes and the person wud sometimes say "im gonna drop that part of the suit". not this guy. if u noticed the man kept saying i helped her by getting her to sell her house etc. it was all about her money. he made the mom move in cuz he knew there wud be a payout but she ended up dying. i cant imagine being with someone like him who wudnt help my teens i mean at least donate a few hundred. if it were the other way around i wud help his kids pay, not loan but help pay.
@MOAB-UT6 ай бұрын
@@luv4ever101 I picked up on that too- her money but if he was really that bad, why did she stick around him all that time? There are usually 3 sides to every story- his, the mothers and the daughters. They all seem like mostly decent people but these two both seem cheap. Daughter was trying to freeload- sorry. She is not his daughter- he does not owe her anything technically. No- he is not a generous type but that is not a crime which is why the judge had to technically side with him- even if she did not like him. He is not very likeable but she also needs to grow up and pay her own way in life. Over the years I am sure he paid for a lot of her stuff. In 15 years he only wants costs for a funeral that she promised at the time to pay for...and she is sitting on $50k. I am more on his side- sorry. You probably relate more to her. Do you have people pay for you- is that what love means to you? Learn to pay your own way- over time, he will get tired of it, trust me. It never ends well. You need to develop your own skills and earn a living as a strong, independant woman...or not. It's your life but I am older and know how things go.
@soloman_am6 ай бұрын
The defendants need to realize that they were an extension of their mother and now that she is gone that man has no obligation to take care of them regardless of 15 days or years men prefer to start their own families
@aprilpinketon25676 ай бұрын
I’ve been married to my husband 13 and together 15yrs. I had a daughter in a prior relationship. I was very young. The difference here is I married and my husband has raised (my) our daughter with me as his daughter and with our children together all as one. Women need to stop laying with men for 15 yrs with no real commitment. Especially a mother raising two daughters! I think it’s shitty all around, but the mom let this happen.
@naturalanimals89026 ай бұрын
The mum was lucky that the guy took her on with her illness, then he took on her kids. Here is a case where neither the mum nor kids brought anything to the table. This is how good guys get treated all over the world. I am not interested in any woman, unless she can reciprocate with things of equal value.
@cierrarandolph1745 ай бұрын
@@naturalanimals8902 I’m sure you can find a good man
@davidwhite31806 ай бұрын
The Defendant thinks if she talks in that little voice she’ll receive sympathy
@Tiddywhisperer6 ай бұрын
She’s not even his daughter why she still staying there but complaining about paying for her mom. They should’ve had life insurance and if they didn’t then the mom estate is responsible of paying for the mom. Use the remaining money to start your life over with
@pmabrouk6 ай бұрын
This one hits home and brings up fresh, painful memories. Family members lose their moral compass when it comes to death and inheritance.
@unclebrother62446 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, you are 100% correct.
@elainevankat53536 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!
@MsJleeH6 ай бұрын
He is not her father. Why does she think he should support her.
@ChadSlampiece6 ай бұрын
In other words, the daughter saw the inheritance money and got greedy. Decided she wanted all the money for herself and stuck the funeral costs on someone else.
@jaynehogue24596 ай бұрын
First at 19 she us an adult and absolutely has a choice where to live. It is disgustingly entitled to think a child should not have to pay partly for a parent's funeral and discustingly entitled to think she doesn't have to re-pay him
@andreawalker57076 ай бұрын
It’s her tryna baby talk for me .. CHILE PLEASE !! 🙄🙄 this is a good example of people using what they going thru for sympathy to get by
@Vanessa_Martinez6 ай бұрын
She full of crap! It’s giving selfish. If anyone helped me with my d3ad mother stuff I’m thankful…. Girl y’all got 50K pay that man back his 6K in full that’s nothing. She’s a little entitled also that’s not your Dad him letting your grown self stay in his house was enough then you think you gone stay rent & bill free girl you can’t even do that with your dad or his side of the family! What ever this man do for you is a blessing you and him share no blood relation.
@billsurley92646 ай бұрын
Remember when 19 year olds were storming the beaches at Normandy. This one can't seem to wash her own arse, even if provided with a wash cloth, soap, and a map.
@elainevankat53536 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!
@elainevankat53536 ай бұрын
Defendant looks tacky… with that tattoo across her chest! 🤷♀️
@yung17176 ай бұрын
And those 19 yr olds shouldn’t have stormed beaches
@nrobo76926 ай бұрын
This younger generation are a bunch of entitled cream puffs
@michaelrusso68226 ай бұрын
"Remember when 19 year olds were storming the beaches at Normandy" ...now they're storming the buffet at Golden Corral.
@jovaanmills29686 ай бұрын
She wrong. You live in his house rent free recieved money from your mother and feel you shouldn't have to give the money back. She made out and said F you.
@Pinkdiamond125 ай бұрын
The audacity of the defendant. Nothing in life is free. Her mom should have had everything legally written up. She was 19, not a baby.
@user-tf8lh8kf3r6 ай бұрын
Why would she still want to live with him after her mother died?! Furthermore why would you not pay that man back out of her mothers estate?! What a brat.
@amal86316 ай бұрын
Because she lived with him since she 5 years old and he pretty much raised her, maybe that’s why.
@dillionoshea75355 ай бұрын
@@amal8631ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm that doesn’t excuse you from your debts…I would never skip out on a loan to my mom or dad “because they raised me” 🤦
@lukerinderknecht29825 ай бұрын
Because she wasn't paying rent.
@lukerinderknecht29825 ай бұрын
@@amal8631if you listen to 5:13 it sounds like her mother moved in with him when she was 19, not that she lived with him her whole life. At the beginning of the video he also mentions that she moved in with him and it sounds more recent than that they were cohabitating since the girl was 5.
@P101erla5 ай бұрын
Step dad basically dad HELLLOOO
@timeme036 ай бұрын
I love these types of cases. I always take them as an educational practice for myself and others. Let's really take a second to think things through. I saw a lot of comments about the girls being selfish or that the plaintiff (fiancee) was in the wrong to sue the girls. What we need to focus on is that the deceased and the plaintiff were together for 15 years engaged for 3 years. BUT NOT MARRIED! This was the biggest issue. The plaintiff probably already took financial hits due to his partner being on dialysis and unable to work. Yes there is an estate but it was never clarified to the young girls what it should be used for. They think it should be used to start their life. I actually can see how they think that since in movies and TV shows that's how it is viewed, however the debt that the deceased does incur the estate should pay for. This is why conversations, paperwork etc need to be in place at all times. The girls should have been aware prior too what happens if anything were to happen to her mom. You really never know when it's your time. We can say it's a moral right but he may have kids of his own and bills for them. If we play house, these types of things will happen. I don't care if you have $1000k in the bank. A simple conversation with your kids and proper paperwork will help your loved ones deal with expenses and drama that may incur.
@pauldexteryoung6 ай бұрын
I agree with the ruling. Maybe if there wasnt an estate involved to pay final expenses and he seems like he is in a deep financial hole that's why he is asking, plus they already paid half.
@perfectlyimperfect91296 ай бұрын
Very selfish!! That is mother!!
@queenbritt1766 ай бұрын
They didn't want to pay for the funeral expenses, nor did they want to pay RENT! They wanted to keep all the money which is fine but you'd still have to pay for the funeral expenses! They should have relocation after her passing if they didn't like him.
@Mom2jems6 ай бұрын
It's crazy how the daughters don't think it's their responsibility to cover funeral costs for their mother. It's not unreasonable for him to want at least 1/2 after getting $50,000. It's embarrassing how she wants to act like an adult bc she's getting an estate but for certain things she wants to act like a kid. Buying a guy with the $$$ is a dumb idea. She could have put down on an apartment and go live alone.
@paulastrose76156 ай бұрын
He has such a nice calm voice
@SmilingSynic6 ай бұрын
Getting sick of these 19 year olds these days who are too young to be financially responsible yet old enough to have an abortion, smoke, have tattoos, have a sex change operation, etc. Being an adult works BOTH ways. Talking like a baby does not make you one in the eyes of the court.
@mikemontana34435 ай бұрын
Defendant -- "I want to be treated like an adult except when it benefits me to claim that I am only 19."
@debrastone21986 ай бұрын
Not to make light of the Mom's death at all, but by that age, if you're working at all & living in someone else's home, you should be helping with bills. My brothers & I were paying a little with each paycheck we got through our summer jobs during our high school years. Our Parents weren't rich, & were trying their best to make ends meet while the 4 of us were growing up. And we didn't see any harm in helping. I believe that is part of good life/work ethics.
@naturalanimals89026 ай бұрын
Never let a woman move into your house and never lend a woman money.
@panamafernandez46416 ай бұрын
That's up to the parents/homeowners if they want to charge their kids rent.
@deanwinchestersgirl87676 ай бұрын
Right I live with my mom I pay 250 in rent plus the internet
@cosmo61806 ай бұрын
When me and my sister were teenagers and we both got jobs in a fast food place, we gave my parents 10% of our paychecks. Our parents just wanted to teach us responsibilities, and now that I look back on it, I am thankful. Not to say that parents who don’t do that are bad parents, every families dynamic are different.
@elle67146 ай бұрын
Lol that is not her real voice. She's doing her best to sound innocent and child-like to get sympathy.
@elainevankat53536 ай бұрын
Exactly…. And, the judge is falling for it!
@TrudiAnn11066 ай бұрын
This is precisely all I could focus on and it is infuriating! 😡
@elizabitchr.28356 ай бұрын
Us women can see it & know better. That’s exactly what I thought listening to her pity plea.
@Tahiha5 ай бұрын
“Dating” for *FIFTEEN* years? That’s not dating. Engaged for a THREE years? Wild.
@keestinnawilson80642 ай бұрын
Exactly!! I just don’t understand how people can “ date “ that long . If they were married the daughter wouldn’t have got a dime . That marriage license carries A LOT of weight !!! I’ve saw people that have built a life together then when one dies they walk away with nothing !!
@vih25826 ай бұрын
Her baby talk I can just tell how unbearable it’s been for him. 19 is an adult, pay rent weirdo.
@user-ob9ev9cw4f6 ай бұрын
Facts him and her mom dated not married, she got 50k and still had outstanding bills out here and she didn’t want to pay him because she feel she didnt had to it’s sad but the real thing is he want his money back just pay the man and leave it as that
@tonecapone26446 ай бұрын
You're with someone for 15 years, engaged for 3 and living together... I understand there's no legal obligation but geez, seems reasonable he'd cover some of the funeral costs.
@clwilson73186 ай бұрын
He allowed her daughter to continue to live with him. That's good for something. Besides, her insurance and estate is for funeral expenses.
@Gandrewjm6 ай бұрын
@@clwilson7318 exactly!
@dezaster26806 ай бұрын
Precisely
@tanyasfusome5 ай бұрын
You do understand that the estate funds should be covering all funeral cost and whatever is left over should be split between the family…so technically no one had to pay for the funeral and he should’ve gotten some of that 50K for being with that woman for so long but they weren’t married so he gets nothing
@Dein1046 ай бұрын
Money and love shouldn't mix but sometimes we hope the person that truly loves us would be willing to pay whatever it takes on our behalf.
@jeromecummings476 ай бұрын
She is young. That’s how they act. No sense of responsibility yet. But daughter said something that caught my attention. She said they are together. So the burden should be on him and not the kids. So I wonder if she feels that way about her moms belongings. Since they are together should he be the one who receives what she left behind. Of course daughter would say no.
@Mocharocks99665 ай бұрын
She has to learn to grow up . That’s all and this is a reality check that she needed .
@user-rm1br3sw7x6 ай бұрын
He made the gesture to pay for the funeral with the agreement that he would get paid back when the estate settled. He was under no obligationan to do so. The daughter received $50K from the estate, and feels no obligation to pay the balance. That's pure entitlement.
@mikadre126 ай бұрын
He was with the mother for 15 years and engaged for 3. They basically common law married.
@Steve-wf3vv5 ай бұрын
There are no common law marriages anymore.
@shawns.98326 ай бұрын
She is not a child get out that man house and pay that man back for your Mothers funeral
@Vanessa_Martinez6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@VLou-tw4ee6 ай бұрын
Hell no!! Thats was supposed to be his wife!!! He needs to take care of that
@Shaikhofilm6 ай бұрын
Whether she agreed to pay or not doesn’t make a difference . The deceased funeral expenses comes out of that estate - and it is not right for anyone to steal from it an use it for themselves . Even if a person is in desperate circumstances.
@stephanie-pf9bg6 ай бұрын
Think it's disrespectful that they didn't pay for funeral out of estate. They are not even grateful, he helped them out. Very sad 😔
@surfbreak1906 ай бұрын
"I'm 19". You're an adult at 19 🙄.
@jessanne4276 ай бұрын
That’s only when they want to do something they want to do
@paultin33026 ай бұрын
Wow people are so mean, he claimed he knew the woman 15 years but has no respect for her to even pay half the funeral bills, that love?
@Angela-qq6kq6 ай бұрын
Or a different way u could look at it is, she didn’t love him enough to put him in her will to leave him any money from her estate, yet her daughter who got it was so selfish that she couldn’t even pay a little towards her own mothers funeral cost.
@paultin33026 ай бұрын
@@Angela-qq6kq True, but people are so strange when it comes to money right?
@paultin33026 ай бұрын
@@Angela-qq6kq Technically she did pay half, right?
@tpoppy93035 ай бұрын
The estate got 50k so it would make sense for the estate to pay it especially when the dude is going broke.
@zoeg79856 ай бұрын
I’m only 19? I’m surprised the judge thinks he may morally have to pay for the funeral surprised me. I don’t think he harassed her, she just didn’t like the message. He kept her living there for free and there’s zero gratitude or care for him who loved her mother for over 15 years
@maienduo5 ай бұрын
This kids will end up on welfare system
@ariannadshaeАй бұрын
this is sad. this man paid for her mother’s funeral out of pocket and housed her completely for free despite being an adult and she can’t pay him back without being dragged to court? smh.
@africanqueen16556 ай бұрын
Her mother wasn’t his wife & mom knew that. Her estate is there to pay for her expenses. That’s not harassment it’s the truth. 🙏🏿🙌🏾
@MamaHarperr6 ай бұрын
I believe the defendant is a manipulative liar. The soft voice is questionable too. The judge was out of line for how she sided with the defendant's based on emotions.
@keekeedavis17046 ай бұрын
I don’t agree with the judge being sympathetic to the girls but the man who’ve been with this lady for even longer than they were born even as friends lost his partner. So to completely disregard his feelings is distasteful.
@TheTirado26 ай бұрын
After 15 years of a relacionship i would have paid the funeral in full!
@paultin33026 ай бұрын
I agreed why should he let off Scott free he didn’t love her or they would have married, he has no respect .
@unclebrother62446 ай бұрын
@@paultin3302how do you know she (the deceased fiance) wasn't the one who held off on marriage. You're assuming that the guy was the one dragging his feet. What if he wanted to get married all along but she was the one who hesitated?
@paultin33026 ай бұрын
@@unclebrother6244 He seems to be tight fisted that’s why I think it was him, most women like security.
@ericablige94496 ай бұрын
After 15 yr relationship I'm surprised he wasn't aware of her life insurance coverage. Not including she had serious illnesses. People need to turn off the TV, put down the phone ,back away from the computer and talk about what really matters.
@Gandrewjm6 ай бұрын
I would have paid as well, but I definitely would have expected some compensation when her estate was settled. I'm sure the defendant splurging on a new car only made things worse. She should have used the money to first cover her mom's expenses.
@kay221006 ай бұрын
I’d think the inheritance should go towards the funeral. He’s hurting financially and probably wouldn’t hound her like he did if she wasn’t getting an inheritance. He should’ve married the lady instead of playing house then he would’ve gotten some of her inheritance. I probably would’ve given him some
@mikesteele056 ай бұрын
Imagine how hard it was for him to have to sue the daughters of his fiancé. Surely, he cared about not only their mother but also them, considering he let the younger daughter live with him for free. If he put these expenses on his credit card and let it accumulate interest, it’s because he obviously couldn’t afford to pay out of pocket any more than the daughters could. Help the man out like he helped you!
@annamariegowithme6 ай бұрын
Her age is no excuse for not being a responsible adult. Someone should not have to bring you to court to settle your mom's estate smh that's just so tacky
@shanebarrett39966 ай бұрын
Deplorable?! What?! I think the fact that the judge called him deplorable because he was trying to get his money back is a little triggering for me. if the man is not rich and he needs the money to make ends meet, what is so deplorable about that? It's her own mother's funeral, and she believes she should pay absolutely nothing towards it? but be able to pocket all the money that was left behind? Is it me, or is the judge showing bias in this case?
@deanwinchestersgirl87676 ай бұрын
He owes that girl nothing he didn't marry the mother he didn't adopt her so pay him
@ShortThoughts996 ай бұрын
The defendant is manipulative, and entitled. The estate is responsible for funeral expenses. He was never married to the defendant’s mother. What a terrible young woman for treating a man who has been in her life for so long in this way. What goes around definitely comes around. Shame on her.
@florcanela496 ай бұрын
You are 19, you are an adult. You didn't move out after your Mom passed and you received 50k. Judge was a little mean to this man, who was there for them since she was 5 years old!
@valariehunter53896 ай бұрын
19 is just the legal age. It doesn't mean you have life skills or mentally mature. Some things you don't learn until you go through it. I agree that the girls should have paid at least half of the funeral for their Mom. But the man was in a relationship with the mother for 15 plus years and engaged for several years. So basically that was his wife whether on paper, or ceremony.🤔
@dominiquebaby6786 ай бұрын
19 is just 1 year removed form highschool. Rent is expensive
@galvestonsfinest5 ай бұрын
Crazy thing is...she went on a TV show that will end up paying what she owed...so she still wins 😂
@billgoodman35376 ай бұрын
Every time I have paid for a funeral for a family menber, it took years to get them to pay back their portion of the cost. I usually get critizism the funeral was "too cheap", not enough flowers, I did not rent a limo for the family. None of the dead persons friends showed up because "the funeral was out of their way". I was told to NOT handle the funeral arrangement by several family menbers who did not like the way I did it. When those people died, I had to arrange for the funeral and pay for their burial. They died broke.
@healsoflove777Ай бұрын
$20 says they spent that money already LOL
@nycBoricua6 ай бұрын
That wasn't his children or was he married their mother to be legally responsible so for them two adult girls to not pay for their own mothers funeral with the estate after is just unappreciative and selfish.
@ten12256 ай бұрын
If your mother has an estate then they should pay for 100% of it PERIOD. And you living in his apartment rent free...... tf
@joecastle99936 ай бұрын
Got money for a dumbass tatt but no money to pay back a debt
@deewah16986 ай бұрын
Fat people should not get tattoos.
@chuck93806 ай бұрын
She was your mom before she was his wife and the estate is suppose to pay for burial.
@aprilpinketon25676 ай бұрын
I’ve been with my husband 15 yrs, my daughter is from a previous young relationship. We’ve raised my daughter together. I would turn in my grave if my husband threatened to kick out our 19 yr old after I passed. But, we’ve been married 12 yrs and have been been tithed 14 yrs, so I understand that’s the difference here. But, I am like JM, she’s only 19 and just lost their mother. I would think he loved his finance so much none of this should matter or should happen. I guess ppl need to be sure who they’re laying with and raising their kids around. I know my husband wouldn’t mistreat our daughter.
@ninosimone6 ай бұрын
50k…. Pay the guy and move oN if you don’t want to be harass
@RedFoxwithTubeSocks-hi7jj6 ай бұрын
As soon as I saw that chest tattoo, I suspected the defendant was gonna be shady.
@lillianwilliams55106 ай бұрын
He didn't even need to bring to court his expenses for what he did prior to the mother's passing. There is something wrong with the plantif he is too articulate about the death and not showing any any sadness . Surely the mother told her daughters she had insurance. Something is wrong about this entire case.so if he got$3,500 then how much was the total. Tĥe insurance could have made a check separate to the plantif. This is sad. Once the mother passed the daughters should have gone to live with the grandmother. He got money from the sale of the house. I wonder if the sister got any money. This happens to many families.
@lillianwilliams55106 ай бұрын
I hope no one tattoos my name on anything but have it engraved on my headstone. Give money to charity. I don't like tattoos at all.
@timeme036 ай бұрын
You Got it wrong he had his own house and also the fiancée had her own house they both sold it. He only provided that as proof that he financially provided for the fiancée and he is already burdened.
@petaljoa87345 ай бұрын
She playing a damm game claiming I am 19 yrs old… plz pay the man
@lillianwilliams55106 ай бұрын
He may be their father but not married to the mother. The grandmother may not have wanted the girls to live with her, especially if she didn't get any money.
@timeme036 ай бұрын
I think she is using the estate $ to pay for the apartment that she now has. Which is sad because if she just gave the $ she would have been there rent free at least for a couple more months
@stratfordbaby6 ай бұрын
He's not their father.
@marskeins5 ай бұрын
Defendant has a lot of nerve. He let you live rent free with him and you can't help payback for your own mom's funeral. Smh
@perraru5 ай бұрын
I think it was inappropriate that the judge was shaming the plaintiff for wanting his money back. Wishing he'd go away? That was unnecessary.
@user-hs1zr6mc5d6 ай бұрын
@12:54 thats why they keep Doug around. He has a way of getting the truth out of the litigants without them suspecting a thing.
@anacondaadultlearningcente45226 ай бұрын
Couple = 2 Few = 3
@Bishop5454546 ай бұрын
You know what sucks? Being an orphan. I lost both my Mom and Dad within the past 6 years and it's truly the most lonely and helpless feeling. The two people who created me are gone, and I have trouble thinking about that. 😢
@kimr54796 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss prayers up for you!🙏🙏🙏
@unclebrother62446 ай бұрын
I think your message is powerful, and it should be a wake-up call for the many ppl who take their parents for granted. Your messages puts things in a proper perspective. I certainly wish you the best moving forward. 🙏
@jennylynx18696 ай бұрын
I hate how they make it seem like they have to actually pay it when the show pays it
@shinrips5 ай бұрын
I had a contractor doing home renovation. He never finished the work and it was horrible work. After many, many attempts to talk to contact him with no response, I sued him in small claims court and won but he claimed he didn't have money to compensate me but I see his daughter driving a brand new Toyota Corolla. Huh? Never trust contractors. Even signed contracts and losing their bond does not work in your favor as the client. Crooked contractors are the worst.
@ScarfaceIsMissingYou6 ай бұрын
I'm sorry you lost your mom...but its time to be an adult lil lady. He didn't harrass you, he asked you to pay bills. You had the grace and covering of your mother, but that man wasn't obligated to take care of you by any means
@danieltucker6326 ай бұрын
But Judge I’m just a sweet wittle girl and he’s a big meanie 🤦🏾♂️
@tomswill91895 ай бұрын
WOW THIS IS INSANE. EXCUSE ME ALOT OF THESE KIDS IN THESE DAYS AND TIMES. AINT WORTH A DAM. SMDH. U DONT WANNA PAY FOR YOUR MOTHERS FUNERAL SERVICES. AND SOME OF THAT 50,000 IS JUST FOR THAT.ARE YOU KIDDING ME.THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME. IVE SEEN THIS BEFORE.ALOT OF THESE KIDS ARE NO GOOD.
@cathylittleton73615 ай бұрын
Her estate should have paid it all off
@jm82805 ай бұрын
"The defendant definitely should have paid the man whatever was owed, especially considering she received $50k from the mother's estate. However, one would assume that if the man had been with the daughter's mom for nearly her entire life (almost 20 years), he might have been inclined to contribute to some of the expenses. Perhaps not the entire $6k, but at least half, especially considering they may have been considered common-law married in certain states."
@deragoo36245 ай бұрын
I feel the judge was trying to make the plaintiff feel bad. That’s not right
@IbleedPnk6 ай бұрын
Yes, they were a couple, but she was also your mother. If you had the means to help him cover the cost I don't know why you wouldn't help him.
@lydiagibbs48606 ай бұрын
SHOULD HAVE MARRIED HER AFTER 15 YEARS!!! THEN IT WOULD NOT BE A PROBLEM FOR EITHER OF THEM!!!
@nrobo76926 ай бұрын
That man owes her nothing. They arent his responsibility and has no obligation to give her a rent free residence and waiving her debt. Her claims of harassment while speaking in that fake baby voice was classic.
@Lovelyspyder5 ай бұрын
What a miserable old man. Hope he’s proud of himself. Judge was right, he has a moral obligation to eat the cost, she’s got an entire life to pay for, without her mother at such a young age, wtf is 𝘩𝘦 gonna do with it?? 🙄😡
@kandi6685 ай бұрын
Was there not some investment from the mother selling the house? Seems like he should have paid something for the funeral services. 15 years is a long time to be with someone and not feel responsible for some part of their life.
@jeanareed18545 ай бұрын
She wanted free living and keep the inheritance.
@THembrey3135 ай бұрын
I would have paid him the full credit card bill made him sign that i owed him nothing further and moved on
@kathyxiong55235 ай бұрын
It’s your mother it’s your job to do what’s right. He may be the boyfriend/fiancée but they are not married so he has no obligation to pay for her funeral unless he wants to. This girl is selfish and greedy. Her actions just proves how much she loves her mother.
@dorthymcbride33846 ай бұрын
What happened to the proceeds from the sale of the mom's house??