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I stayed with my narc husband because my mother kept telling me that any father was better than no father for my children. Boy was she wrong!

On reciprocation, I remember a street person who sat quietly with a sign asking for money. When I placed money in the bucket, he held my gaze and gave me the most heartfelt thank you I have ever received in my life and it’s a gift I still hold dear. No manipulation, even when in great need - a truly humble and great person.

Succinctly outlined and clarified. As you say, it happens so gradually. Actually quite sinister and when you look back you can 'see' the behaviour come out of the shadows...and then it disappears again so you're never quite sure what you've 'seen'....until...you've crossed them and then out it comes again in full fury. We do berate and blame ourselves but as you say, these people are very skilled at hiding who they really are. Thank you for your insights 👌

Why didn't I find you sooner? I wish I had known what he was doing to me in the moment, I would've left in a heartbeat, without him trying to pull at my strings. Your videos are so empowering. A sense of obligation is what made me stay, hell even enter a relationship he coerced me in, because I told him I didn't want to! 🤦‍♀️

Narc : Vacuum your dreams( because I just reduced them to dust) Victim : I thought you understood me NARC : I know you are nothing Victim : I was always there for you NARC : I never saw that. You are delusional Victim : I feel confused Narc : that's because you can't think.

I have followed so many channels to talk about narcissist, this channel is the best among the whole KZfaq. May I ask do you do group counseling or live session with your followers"

From experience, it's difficult for one to decipher how they ended up here, however furthermore, that being said, it becomes even more difficult to explain to others when reaching out for help. Most people either don't look beyond the veil and/or haven't begun their own inner work...therefore they simply just can't relate. For me this has led to a spiraling scenario where (with no outer validation, which leads to no outer help to get away) I end up staying longer, and the cycle has just continued to spiral downward due to isolation from the shame of where I find myself and of also of being poorly judged by outsiders who simply have NO clue. (Malignant narc father and two narc brothers.) The random couple times an outsider (pretended) to be a friend they actually turned out to be exploitive (and likely altruistically narcissistic to some degree), only causing me to have to juggle more narcissism. 'Jumped from one hot frying pan into another. This abuse is often complex, yet insidious, and if the victim doesn't see it it's very unlikely an outsider will grasp it due to both the shiny veneer and smear campaign the N has put in place.

Bingo! This perfectly describes the dynamic that went on in my family. I’m an only child, my mother fits this description to perfection and as their child, I was taught to be just like her. Spot on and very informative, thank you!

Depressingly I know I had no choice to be in a relationship with a narcissistic mother and an emeshing father since My existence can't be without them

Thank you! Keep them coming!

There is a man I care about whom I believe is under the influence of a narcissist and this happened on a trip we were on. Another narcissistic type at least exaggerated (maybe totally faked) an ailment and the man eventually figured out she was lying. This gives me hope re: the second narcissist whom, I think, is a little more savvy than the malingerer and probably goes back and forth between this and the "technique" discussed in the first video. I hope and pray it's sooner rather than later!

Very good way to explain this…You described this very well.

I know how I ended up here. I want to know how to exorcise it from my subconscious.

It’s very insidious..they are like a chameleon, they can change their behavior quickly to suit their wants or..mine thinks if he starts acting very nice again it abolishes all of his bad behavior, as you mentioned in one of the previous videos. I’ve also realized that at times mine wants to repeat his mother- son dysfunctions and try to talk down to me like he’s the parent so I’ll say “Don’t talk to me like that, I’m your wife not your child, I’m an adult with human rights”. But, even after you think you’ve ironed out the problems, they repeat it or you know you can’t go on living with someone who’s treated you so poorly, even if they start being nicer..

Thank you.

Eye opening content. Thank you 🙏

Thank you!

Yip I realised I couldn't do right for wrong... It was totally mentally n psychologically exhausting... WHY.. WHY ! couldn't I make them feel better... WOT was I gona do to make them feel better when all the time I.. ME was dying inside coz knew I could NOT save them from THEMSELVES.... it WASN'T you ...it WOZ them.... So get the script guys... They are NOT happy, NEVER have been happy n NEVER will be happy... with or without you.. n thats the TRUTH ❤❤❤ Bye the way I stayed so long partially financial but also fear of physical violence and 2 yrs on from split STILL weary 💞💞💞

this describes my mother.

How do you not feel obligated when you gave birth to them and you see their frustrations even when they turn it at you. Came with my own issues. Recovery from a massive stroke at 42 from a chiropractic carotid dissection diagnosis by a neurologist.

I stayed cos my self esteem was so low I never believed I'd get anyone as beautiful again, even if she didn't love me and was abusive..I didn't deserve better.

I commented on another video how one can also end up with a landlord like this whose without a conscience and believes it's okay to collect over five thousand dollars in rent and finds no inconvenience when quickly cashing it at the bank. One whose intentionally commits substantial violations (uninhabitable living conditions i.e, .. without heat or hot water to bathe) for the entire 4.5 months you've lived there and one who is so extremely toxic and delusional, that not only are they married and propositioning you for outings, but constantly disrupting your peace and quiet enjoyment while at the same time intentionally violating your (served in writing) boundaries, You'll be met with amped up harassment and outrageous accusations with absolutely zero proof what so ever. The miserable, lazy and greedy pathological lying gaslighters will just continue to argue (want to be right and try to convince others) that they've already addressed the issues when in fact and with proof, no they haven't. In their arrogance and with their false sense of superiority they actually believe themselves to be above any rules or the law.

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Nije mi rečeno da postoje manipulatori, ima mnogo i zena manipulatora, ovdje u bosni se dobija posao preko veze..mnogo nas lažu, tipa daa se neko oženio, udao, i neki ne govore pravilno...