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The truth is with narcissistic abuse you become under the influence of something that you have no idea that you're under. By definition, the person that coined the phrase narcissistic abuse - which I talked about in my last video - it was Sam Vaknin who coined the term narcissistic abuse and part of the reason he did so was obviously to distinguish it from emotional abuse and what I liked about how descriptive his definition is that he says narcissistic abuse involved brain washing it involves psychological invasion. Now had I never been through narcissistic abuse, had I no idea what that was I would think that was a little far fetched I'm not going to lie. But when you've been through it that is exactly what it is so today I want to talk about how narcissists regulate themselves through your nervous system - that's part of that psychological invasion. And the reason I'm talking about this is that when you don't understand what they're doing and why, you play into it, you play into their psychological dance. AND you do things that are helpful to them - because they need you to behave in certain ways in order for them to act as their best self. But those behaviors that you wind up falling into are super beneficial to the narcissist and super damaging to you. So I want to make this information known and available first of all so that you can understand it - when we can understand it we can start analyzing it objectively and we can find where we are falling into these behaviors that are damaging.
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