Lol :) u made me giggle

Hey don't despair! Can I go with you? pretty please! LMAO.

Same

That is how I've been feeling for some time. It's so exhausting.

Ikr

This, so much this!

Haha well said!

Good advice for many women.

Now, There's a nugget of gold right there!

Sloid many men as well

Those are the best relationships, imo. So happy for you!

@@4pensword4 this was my exact comment! When you believe you are out of each others league you appreciate eachother because they are essentially a “gift”. These are the only relationships I settle for!

Good luck in your upcoming divorce!

That's just gorgeous and SO cute!!

So you like it better that he's not confident??

Ha! Ha! 🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂

I saw it too and had a chuckle as well.

It was so cute!

I don't think it was humor.

Such a jerk

@seb asstion I know. I'm being devil's advocate. You know how emotional girls get when they are told they aren't pretty enough. If you didn't, let this be a warning.

The thirst is tangible.

@@phoenixzappa7366 We know Dr Grandes OLD would be lit up like 🔥

@@phoenixzappa7366 It makes it funnier that he just liked it but no comment...like low key agreeing with her that he's out of her league.

😆😆 So true. He's a baller that Dr G. 🏈

@@izzybizzy3030 he rarely coments

krissykat : 😂🤣😂

Lol...

@M Z I think you need to work on your profile writing skills!

Dating someone named Krissy is just asking for trouble.

Robert 😲 I’m not trouble allllll the time tho

You're also wuhite which is the only thing that REALLY matters 🙄🙄😤👉👎

@@thebtchthathikes1008 Depends on what you’re looking for 🤷🏽‍♂️ If you’re a black woman looking for a white man you’re significantly less likely to find a long term partner. Dating within your race is typically more effective unless someone just has an interracial preference.

@Jerseygirl8999 m There was a survey done by the dating site OKCupid a few years back that determined that the least desirable people on this dating site were black women and Asian men. There was also a survey - The National Survey of Family Growth - that shows something similar. Less than 2/3 of black women are married by 40, compared to 90% of white & Asian women and 80% of Hispanic women. I personally (as a black man) love black women but unfortunately the world doesn’t love them as much.

@@HaxStudio I would be very careful about how you interpret those statistics RE: black women being married by 40. Many black women have a long term partner that they don't "put on the books" with the government in order to maintain benefits etc. So it may not be that guys aren't attracted to them long term but that they monitor what info they share with the government.

Men hardly read profiles anyway, they just look at photos.

That is just disgustingly adorable. Congratulations!

I fell in love at first sight with a girl that showed up to a house party in a polkadotted dinosaur onesie. As soon as she came up the stairs I heard her laughing and I turned my head to look. She looked so ridiculous, and I was like, "HER!" I'm normally not very aggressive in pursuing women until I know they're into me, but I was on a mission immediately with her. Within two hours of meeting we were kissing and cuddling on the balcony, and ended up dating until she had to move halfway across the country. Worth it. Dinosaur girls are hot! 🔥 XD

I replied "because he was attractive". At least you're honest even if you're trying hard to downplay it.

I would agree but maybe recommend trim-up the goatee.

That would do it for me!

One thing I cannot tolerate is a liar. Most men lie about their age on dating apps & then they try to come clean, " If you made it this far into reading my profile, I am actually 7 years older . I changed the age for search purposes."....I immediately DELETE these losers!!! Or they say "I don't know what happened, but I am 7 years older than my stated age. I tried to fix it, but the app won't let me.".....lies!!

You are totally in the right to find that unacceptable. Out of curiosity, do you think you would have proceeded if he told the truth? Meaning, did he really miss out because of that stupid urge to lie.

Lots.

Not if he has millions in his portfolio at 30 years old.

One woman I met changed her profile before we met a second time. It was revised to say how important a degree would be for her partner to have. She knew I didnt have one. She said....but youre smart....I just dont want to date a truck driver. I told her, well I drove a truck for awhile....She seemed a bit pissy during the last drink.

Women tend to marry "up". She, with a PhD, may want a man with a bachelor's degree at least.

I would add to that, my friends and I have talked about this a lot and most men I talk about this seem to agree with me on this. Women who have a Phd or Masters typically are "career women" and most men I come across find a woman who is more family oriented (there for the kids more, at home more, not stressed out as much etc) as more attractive. On top of that, career women more often than not have become "masculine" in many ways (relative to a more "traditional" woman) due to the cut throat/masculine environment of most corporate or high level careers that a person with a PhD or masters typically have

Many PhD holders are unable to hold an intelligent conversation unless it specifically pertains to their career.

Very sound and sage advice. I think you need to coach @AlphaMaleRelationshipandBusinessCoaching

Spot on, Sir.

Miss E yeah these ”coaches” need the most help😂

Katie S S thx Katie. 😃

@@andreasleonlandgren3092 OMG! Tell me about it. If you check out the comments, there's one guy who's just trying to spoof one to be funny. I think the conversation is quite entertaining :)

I read somewhere that for Every 750 something messages you send out on a dating site there should be 2 chances a true love😉💥🔥, so start writing... honest, witty and kind💞

That’s why it’s helpful to videochat as soon as possible. Lots of men and women alter their pictures. It’s so easy these days on smartphones.

Wierd!

It might be because many people don't actually want face to face relationships. They may be frightened of taking that step. If that's the case then it doesn't matter if it's a fantasy that's being presented.

I agree, that's what I found when I was online dating. So when you first saw the woman that had done that you knew she was a liar and yes, you got let down that the purported 'goods' were not as 'advertised'. The other one was lying about their age.

Eight filtered photos in a profile look like six different women.

I tried online dating in my early 20s and it was a cesspool. Guys desperately trying to have sex with everyone. Then my friends started using the internet and I realized they would have sex with any guy I might talk to. NEVERMIND 😂

Lol for real!💯💯

Me too, voice is a big deal as well as hygiene!

the whole point is that you make a connection with someone who you personally have identified as being someone you may want to meet in real life. Meet them for coffee. Take 20 minutes, and you can look them in the eye and size them up! Much better than going to a bar. Much cheaper and time effective too.

Miss E exactly. It’s not like you’re signing a marriage contract by agreeing to meet for coffee.

@@John_Smith777 EXACTLY! It's not a big deal. I made another comment that seemed to generate so much blowback. Like somehow I'm leading men on by meeting them. HUH? I think it's quite the contrary. You meet, see i f you have a connection, and move on from there. I think it's pretty practical and straightforward!

The problem is social media has hardwired us to see and judge someone based on few photos and a info bio. So now looks are what get you dates. Sad world we live in :(

Nah The ugly ones are just as awful and if anything I found worse than actually attractive men because they are super insecure they’re all the same shit in the end

@@mpro9446 what? I'm kinda confused... both hot and ugly men are bad but the ugly ones are worse because they are insecure? I'm guessing insecurity is less tolerable then over conference... (idk) Please elaborate futher

@@randomserbianguy5677 basically I’m saying date who you like and are attracted to physically emotionally mentally. Don’t lower your standards, -obviously have reasonable standards - but don’t lower your standards thinking a less “attractive” guy will be better in personality or treat you better than a more “attractive” guy or someone ur more attracted to because that’s often not the case. ( and can also feel like a kick in the can when this person you subconsciously know you have lowered your standards for rejects you or cheats or whatever) . Nevertheless beauty is subjective and a persons personality is part of their attractiveness personality can make someone appear more attractive even. Blah blah blah. I’m done lol

@@mpro9446 Ah okay, now I understand. Got confused the first time because the comment was to vague

I wonder if he is in his peak...

doesn't have to be expensive... as a matter of fact my gf supported me when I was on a bad situation and now that we live together we share every expense

@One Man I have nothing that I fell replaces it and it’s quite miserable since I’m not by any means a lady’s man

​@@MM-nl8ci you don't move together with a roommate. You don't build a life together with a roommate. So, no.

@@hursimear3408 it's hard. I don't want to spend time dreaming about something that isn't gonna happen. I guess if it comes along 😭

Expensive? Wth? XD

Thanks for reading my post. I found that finding out in my forties that men thought I was too old, even men my age, and some in their 50's, was very damaging to my self esteem!! In addition, I have accomplished a lot in my life and have a Masters degree in Social Work along with extensive work and degrees in the Arts. I have done an album of original songs on which I sing. I had a picture which is an excellent and very professional looking picture of the cover of my album, on the profile. I looked very attractive in the picture as it was taken by an excellent photographer in Los Angeles who knew what he was doing. Much Later-A guy in Canada accused me of having created a totally fake profile. I told him it was not. Men online, do NOT seem to want very accomplished women. They REALLY like it if you are a nurse. But having interests in the arts, ether Art nor Music has never ever helped, even in person. They don't want you to have too many interests- at least on THAT site I was on. One guy online was totally suspicious of me because I have the Masters in Social Work and I was capable of diagnosing him. He was a jerk for thinking that way. So Basically accomplishments like mine have done me no good. This was a Catholic site by the way. I now believe men who are Catholic can be very VERY rigid. THIS is due to my many observations of these guys on that site on the forums and the many ways in which I met them in writing and in person. A rule filled religion like Catholic- does cater to a rigid person, and I have come to see this. But I am still Catholic. I don't care what they do. I am not going to look for an evangelical just to find a guy, even though I easily could have done so. Maybe I should have tried a Jewish site like J-date. Maybe Jewish guys like an accomplished woman more. I basically just COMPLETELY gave up, eventually. I wanted a Catholic but MY COMBINATION OF these requirements seemed to squeeze all the possible mates out of the sponge pretty quickly. If I were a nurse, or physical therapist.....something that implies sensuality.... !! I AM NOT KIDDING! maybe things would have been better. I have no good feelings about most of the men on that site. I met a few of them. One was a surgeon, who was a really dysfunctional Narcissistic and highly VAIN guy who was moving from town to town. He was lying in a way, about being an active Catholic. We went to mass a few times and I saw that he did not know the hand gestures right before the GOSPEL at Mass. He is still single. He was very sociopathic. He purchased 100 copies of a CD about Catholic Marriage and gave it out to each woman with whom he went a date. I learned a lot and now I belong to Ave Maria Singles but I never trust anyone who writes to me, NEVER. I GAVE UP!!! It has been too unusual and too much of a gamble in general. I make guy friends there but nothing more. I did however make a few friends who are men from the first site and they remain my friend and have later shared about their meeting the woman they wanted to marry! These were very beautiful results that they got from their search! I also made a few very important women friends as well. One of the guys I am friends with who is about 65 now just got married for the first time to someone he found. The possibility of predators being on a site, even a religiously oriented site, is very very real and still rather high. There were stories of women who met with some of the men on that first site that I mentioned, and there were a few stories of sexual assault. I know of one of those assaults from a close friend. Another woman told us in the women's forum about being begged for oral sex in the parking lot of a restaurant. I don't remember what she did. Believe me any bitterness that I am sharing here is well earned. I did a lot for the people on that site, in fact one couple met there because of me because I organized a cookie baking event. Then another couple thanked me due to the same thing. Those are wonderful results. I think it is wonderful that it works for some. I suppose I can try to remain a little more open but that does take energy that I might not be willing to expend.

@Day Night Yes. And I will again. I am just cautious as I should be. I agree it is about fertility. I do know of this.

@Day Night But I am not sure who you mean by my "dating pool." I gave evidence above of giving many men a chance. I did not list how many I did meet or go into that detail, not yet anyway..

@Day Night I am not certain you read my whole post. Could you read the whole thing please? I have given them a chance. I think I had turned away many when I was younger in order to proceed in my career plans. In any case I could try to keep an open mind now. It is not very easy. One of my aims would be to forget what I "learned" on the online site.

@Day Night Anyway thanks for responding. I am older now and am ready to keep trying to meet someone, but I have some cautiousness I have gained. I do have some accomplishments that some men might like now. I am just a lot older and that has made me discouraged, I have been told I do not look my age by very good sources. I will of course have to keep an open mind!!! I must. I have never really wanted to close that door!! I do like the company of men and do want that in my life!!! :) I do sound rather discouraged above. Sorry for that tone.

lol I have my plants, if I want to feel needed. 😁

@@WinnieDPue there are lots of cuddly (fuzzy, velvety) plants too! 😉

INFP by chance? 🙂

Lol infp here and agree with lynne

Then why are you watching this video :)

You are generalizing about men and women here. But what you are really stating is that those who get a ton of messages often raise their standards. These are more often women just because of prevailing cultural norms are that “men make the first move”. But that is certainly not absolute. Conversely, those who receive very few messages sometimes lower their standards or change their profiles. My experience has also been that those who receive few messages and replies often ask trusted friends to read their profile and give feedback about if they are unintentionally turning others off. All of these strategies are sensible. We all want to get a reasonable number of messages from desirable people. We do want others interested in us but we don’t want to be inundated with messages. Few of us have time to go on dozens of dates every week so we narrow interested parties down to those we feel are most desirable. I amazed how many people on the dating profile asked me out on dates without reading my profile about what I like and don’t like. Someone 20 years older or younger who lives hundreds of miles away and who doesn’t have one type of interest in common with me probably hasn’t read my profile but just thinks I’m pretty and doesn’t care at all about compatibility. Men or women who send messages like that rarely get replies. Also, some dating sites only allow paying members to send messages or paying members to see your picture, etc. There are lots of “tire kickers” on dating sites who really aren’t interested in going on dates. Some don’t look at messages. Some just get a narcissistic thrill over how many messages they get but they have no intention of answering. So we shouldn’t feel rejected if we don’t get a reply on a dating site. There is a good chance that our message never actually was read by a real person so it’s not really rejection.

@@GoodnightJLH I'm here for the generalizations. Its a game of odds.

@@falakoala4579 I'm turning 31 in January and my standards just keep climbing 🤷‍♀️

@@falakoala4579 I'm turning 31 in January and my standards just keep climbing 🤷‍♀️

Fala Koala on point

Find a way to get your confidence and mojo. And please don't become another disaffected man and turn to the MGTOW/INCELS!

Miss E thanks. I'm alone but not a loon.

@@nottooherbal that'll be my motto from now on

@@nottooherbal Alone but not a loon. Words to live by.

@R RQ you don't really get why he used that particular word, do you? Are you allergic to wordplay?

classicarah haha right on.

God bless you. 20+ years is really rare these days

@@the300XM8 thank you 🙏🏻

because if you're ugly, being confined to only other ugly partners seems like a rough deal. life's short and you only live once, man. go out there and get what you want.

because a lot of people think more highly of themselves than they ought, they don't necessarily understand that the person is out of their league.

Unless they consider you a whole person and not just an accessory, *and* you're bringing other good stuff to the relationship.

Like Charlotte and Harry in Sex And The City - - that time when she SAID it... Oooooh But they got over that and had happily ever after...

my ex gf was so insecure she left me .....

Exactly....💯💯

You'll wait for a long time. Unless of course you're rich, in which case, they'll pick you on your perceived status and wealth.

Good luck finding that unicorn.

The men are interested only in what you can do for them. Sex, or money, or better yet both. Or someone to give them attention in some way. Or someone to cheat on their wife or girlfriend with.

@@user-wm4je4ct8y that's why there are so many men on there compared to women, many are already involved with another woman. You can't believe any of them. I basically wrote off that method of dating. Every person I met was awful.

Same lmao

I don’t know if you are aware of this but grown men are still little insecure boys. They could be in their 30’s, 6,2ft, 210 lbs of muscles, but deep inside they’re still that little boy on the first day of kindergarten, frightened and insecure! What is even worse in your case, is that you have a doctoral degree, when you mention that to a guy you probably get one of these two reactions 1- Oh wow you’re really smart, with a big smile but deep down he is already thinking how he will get rid of you! Trust me, it might sound weird but that’s what they’re thinking. 2- As soon as you tell them about your degree the conversation takes a drastic turn, even though 30 seconds before everything was fine. He just became terrified of you, because he doesn’t see you as an equal anymore, he sees you as superior and that in a guy’s head is not the way it’s supposed to be. You just brought him back to that first day of kindergarten! What you need find yourself is a MAN a little older than you, that is successful and you will see that it won’t bother him the at all, and probably will be a plus in his book an intelligent and beautiful woman, it will be like hitting the jackpot for him!

Only for weak insecure men. I’m a high school drop out worth millions because of real estate. My wife is a lawyer. What she makes in a year, I make in a month. Women don’t care as long you’re richer then them.

Typically, the less attractive women have to crack a book open in order to survive. The better looking ones just land a guy with money. So I'm surprised that you only have a Doctoral degree.

@@DrumWild lucky for me, I have already found my soulmate-an attractive man who also has a doctoral degree. We are equals, which works best honestly. Good luck!

I think it's difficult for both.

Personally, I love Tinder. 90+% is pure garbage. Kinda like KZfaq. You have to keep a critical but open mind. Separate the wheat from the chaff. But there are some keepers out there. Just like Dr. Grande :)

Tinder is the Heterosexual version of "Grinder", the Gay dating app.

Hey now! I met my husband on Tinder! Going through divorce after 3 years, finances destroyed, in therapy, traumatized by this narcissist, restraining order! I do not do social media nor will ever do online dating again. As a side note: another person I met on Match was catfishing me. Wanted $15k. When I didn't send it, he kicked me to the curb. 20/20 hind sight, the catfish option would have been the less destructive and costly choice! D

Definitely not 57% men on Tinder. More like 95% and 5% average girls.

Commando Master this is way too accurate

Pumped and dumped

But he's so clinical about it! 🤔

Physical appearance is essential. Without some level of attraction and compatibility with physical attributes, the connection is less optimal. I agree that over time, attraction can increase, especially if sacrifices and investment are made for the betterment of the relationship, but if initial default attraction cues are ignored, it will create risks for growth.

I agree it’s important that you like how your significant other looks, I don’t agree that they should be rated on a “conventionally attractive points scale” aka “leagues”. I think people who are raised to only be attracted to models and actors will have a lot more difficulty finding someone who is actually compatible in personality and other important traits such as kindness, supportiveness, desire to spend a similar amount of time together, actually having fun, enjoying similar types of activities or having similar taste in movies/media etc... to clarify :)

I don't think there's a conventional scale. I think each individual creates a scale based on their interests and values, but then uses numbers or other rating methods to cut to the chase when sharing information. As for being raised to only desire models and actors, dating apps and social media are the problem. Because the messiness of the real world is mostly excluded within these virtual connections, people are able to seek instant gratification with a perception of low risk to achieve it. People who actively use these platforms as their main method to connect are deceiving themselves into a flawed notion of real world attractiveness.

I disagree I think beauty is much more objective than subjective. Say if Rihanna stopped dating her multimillionaire Arab prince boyfriend, or whoever it is she’s dating now, and instead decided to settle down with a broke, buck toothed, pot bellied alcoholic with a receding hairline that would colour everyone surprised.

Very well said

Norm MacDonald said "Women always say they want a guy with a sense of humor... but turns out they just laugh at handsome guys."

@@aakkoin 😄😄😄

aakkoin ..yep or they want witty, sarcastic, funny men because not only do they entertain women and make them feel better (like some sort of court jester), but they will also have better earning potential and be able to dominate or manipulate other men more easily

Your KZfaq profile photo adds a great deal of irony to your post.

Debra Kight: You are not smiling in your photo.

Some people arent as good as others at throwing up fake smiles 2000x a day.

Some people think Im mean!

😁

He must be good at avoiding procrastination! He comes out with a lot of videos!

I am working on this. I am also a list maker. So my tip may not work if you too are not a list maker. My therapist recommended that as I thought of something to do, to just get up and do it. Instead of making a list, get overwhelmed, exhausted or happy with my list and not get any further in getting anything done. (We always assume you start from a seated or prone position). Of course this is great for little things (which during depressive times all things are huge things so put that judgment aside). Here's a simple example: So, you're on your couch. You think, 'Gee, the laundry is piling up and it needs to get done". You remember that you agreed that as you thought of things you would get up and do them. So, you get up and do a load. You might have to do lots of steps to get it done (sort laundry, get supplies, get dressed, brush hair, fill car with gas, go to laundry mat, load laundry into machines, remove from last machine, return home, bring laundry inside home, sort, fold, hang, put in closet, put in drawers, etc.) but you commit to doing things as they come up, however you are needing to do them. This way you learn you have commitment to following through and completing tasks. I still write lists and sometimes flowchart processes but that is just prep work for doing things as I think of them. I used to find satisfaction in just thinking about the thing and never taking the idea to the level of testing it in reality. I always got my laundry done, until depression set in and laundry was a new challenge. Recovering from depression I still find pursuing a new field of work difficult but housework is getting done, yay. Some tasks are more humbling than others. You might only think of something to do when you are actually ready, too. I think it is a simple idea and a doable one if you will commit to stopping what you are doing (keeping the couch or bed in contact with floor, something it does already by itself, haha). Then get up and do what you just thought of from start to finish (i.e., make a meal, do laundry, make bed, scrub bathtub...not all the steps required for running a successful business, writing a 10 page term paper, losing 15 pounds, etc). These last things you will have to think of the first step, do it, then continue as subsequent steps come up and need doing. PS. Commitment to and honoring you calendar/planner are concurrent actions to take. These are tools you will utilize and like all tool skills you will modify, improve over time. You will change. You will grow. You will learn. I believe that you merit achieving your goals whether they are improving your health or wellbeing, fulfilling outside commitments or self care. Completing small tasks informs you that you can do what you set your mind to if you make the agreement that you WILL do it as you think of it. Give it a shot. Keep track of your results. Eventually it will become progress perhaps something like success will be achieved. Your definition of success likely will be modified, too. My best to you!

@@Wishful---Thinking this is the longest comment i have ever seen. I'll read it later. Or never.

@@dogie1070 ha ha

@@Wishful---Thinking 😄

Fake it til you make it.

I find that community to be so fascinating. I read "The Game" in like one sitting. Guys used to try their lines, usually on my friends, at bars. I think they never tried them on me because I could see right through them. "Get Rich Quick" schemes to anything, including sex and dating, are never a good idea...

@@misse7154 Perhaps they didn't try them on you because you're more attractive than your girlfriends and they thought they didn't have a chance, or because you're less attractive and they were not interested.

@@andyisdead I'm sure they were disinterested in me, because I am completely disinterested by a lack of intellect and authenticity.

@@misse7154 'The Game' was probably mostly fictional and the success they did have was more a result of them hitting on thousands of girls a week which was kind of a novel strategy for the time. My original comment though was more referring to the early "manosphere" shit that came well after that book was published.

Not only dating as many as you can, but also inseminating as many as we need to until we find *the one* or a few that can suit our persistent needs. Just like many of these ladies advising others in these comments say "have some self respect to find a man that will cater to you". (Lots of self-involved women in the comments) 🤣

@@troy3456789 Being chased around by a small army of needy exes and child support payments would not make you an attractive partner to a high quality woman ...

@@castirondude I didn't say that in today's "modern" world it might not be costly. Just show you have no visible means of support and the taxpayer picks up the tab. I think it's done all the time. We pay them to breed.

Are you speaking of KZfaq coaches? I have never seen much from them that is very deep in general.

the trick is to start when you're 8 years old

You forgot... 3) Be female if you are less than 30. 4) Be Male if you are more than 30.

Does that mean 7 percent are lesbian.?

@@ErnestPiffel no, it probably means that the same men approach women in a clubbing situation

@@ErnestPiffel No he means those 2% of men hook up with that same 9% of women. Would you look at that the old 80/20 rule but repeated by a "professional".

Either 7% of women lie, or 7% of men lie

🤗

This is actually a very good idea.

I’m sure you have all of the traits to make a perfect girlfriend/wife to a man with the traits you listed. Now what you really meant is “Well off and attractive” not educated and decent.

@@hunpo1 My daughter convinced me to give it a try the other night. Did my profile, within half an hour I had about a dozen messages, 3 were military men, 3 were doctors, there was a vet, and 4 were pilots. They were all very good looking. Where was the trucker, the guy who owns a bar, the jail guard, sanitation worker, why no dentists? I am sure they were all fakes. Nope, didn't even reply to any, let alone throw myself. I'm sure there are good men out there, but I think you have to wade through a sea of sharks to find them. Oh, I forgot the movie producer.

Hate to tell you, but he had just told us in 1 of his latest videos, that he has been married for 27 years and has three children....bummer : (

If they are wearing sunglasses in their photo I think "What a jerk!" Don't they know that eyes are the Windows of the soul?

People online are not all authentic or even truthful. Meeting in person in person, is much better. But there are so many factors to consider that eventually become played out...because Life is like a box of chocolates.. You never know what you're gonna get...

Thats is a total win.

After you've learned to love yourself, I would encourage you to go back and see if you have a totally different experience. I would be willing to venture a strong guess and say that you will :)

You used a hookup App to find love....you can't bake a proper cake with subpar ingredients.

@@misse7154 shut up hole

Tinder is for booty calls.

He was being more honest than many!

Lol true!

Im in a happy relationship sonit doesnt pertain to me but i think cute things like " Its just lunch!" Allowing perhaps shy busy nice people to get ised to going on nice social dates is a great idea! Life tends to snowball in a positi e direction ! When people get used to thinking ofcthemselves as someone fesirable who goes on nice dates easily and may even be seen doing so it perls them up and puts a spring in their step! I also think those songles fun activity programs also seem like a great plan. ! Folks get to get put hsve fun mert friends and there is that added spark of being single among singles which can get lost after school years ! WONDERFUL PROGRAMS ! WHOLESOME!

How about “Your cute! Im cute! Me thinks where a match maid in haven!”? :D

@@kikiKaysie 😂😂😂

I can't stand when people write emails in abbreviation form eg. I like u 2 b...

I checked your gender and...yeah. check.

Amen🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸❤️❤️

I've seen you before.

cryora where?

What if you are both

@@hjblacdes61 If your both then that means you have been suffering the paradox of choice. you don't pick anyone, you feel lonely, then you go right back to the swiping to repeat the cycle.

@@D.Ark-0 damn

But which self? You talk to your sister different than your BF and different than your teacher or student, but they are all "you" being honest. Usually siblings that are very close communicate in a way not tolerable by a mate. I'm the same as you with grammar and being forthright and always read the profiles of women with odd or even lousy pictures or none at all. They tend to be better looking and higher self-esteem. A few years ago? Why wait?

E, what "debate?" Everyone who has any positive sexual experience knows that it begins and ends in the mind. The exterior can either be a deterrent or an attractant, but is never the pivotal issue...ever. Yay! There is hope for everyone! --haha

@@charlesfoster575 recently Mark Ronson (a singer) "came out"as being sapio sexual. There have been media reports about others "coming out" as being a sapio sexual. I think for this audience, it's just normal. But apparently the rest of society doesn't deem it so!

Charles Foster I’m also not sure about the word “debate” being used. I think it’s kind of interesting that they have coined the sapiosexual label. And is it really describing attraction to intelligent partners or is it really just describing attraction to a person based on their knowledge and beliefs that they express? After all, there are some really horrible people who are highly intelligent.