How To Avoid Failure In Your EARLY 20's

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How To Avoid Failure In Your EARLY 20's

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I sometimes think back like “I wish I knew that at 20…” or “Imagine where I would be now if I took more action…” and “If only I bought bitcoin when it was $1…”
I’m sure you’ve all been there
This fueled the idea of today’s video
7 tips that I wish I knew when I was 20, now in your hands to implement!
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:34 - Point #1: Constant Criticism About You Is Probably True
1:09 - Point #2: 90% Of Negotiation Success Is In Starting It
2:13 - Point #3: Scarcity Is Often A Sales Tactic
3:26 - Point #4: Arguing Over Life Philosophies Is A Waste Of Time
4:27 - Point #5: Value Experience Over Theory
5:37 - Point #6: Remove Lies Of Omission
6:36 - Point #7: Growth Comes When You Do The Opposite
7:59 - Foreign Channel Announcement
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@d1wav 4 жыл бұрын

This man said “when I was in my 20’s” I thought he was 19 😂😂😂

@mmagoat9636 4 жыл бұрын

He's in his 90s

@justslightly7794 4 жыл бұрын

Literally

@kk-kk352 4 жыл бұрын

17 i thought

@atomamalgam7607 4 жыл бұрын

black dont crack

@daniloss1319 3 жыл бұрын

ME TOO I WAS JUST GONNA COMMENT!

@SeanBagheri 5 жыл бұрын

dude, you look 22

@TheFuture36520 5 жыл бұрын

He is so young because of his appetite and it ain't for kids

@me_hanics 5 жыл бұрын

The Future what apetite?

@adrian3747_ 5 жыл бұрын

Ikr lol

@CloudsLikeThese 5 жыл бұрын

For. Real. Give us your skin/diet/exercise routine or fess up to where the fountain of youth is.

@ichbimmichelle 5 жыл бұрын

Well, he made his own path instead of slaving his 20s away 🤭

@sukhrobadilov159 4 жыл бұрын

Time-codes: 1. 0:34 if you countinue to hear something about yourself, it's probably true 2. 1:10 When it comes to negotiations 90% of success is in starting it 3. 2:14 Scarcity is often just a sales tactics 4. 3:27 Arguing over life philosophies is basically a waste of time 5. 4:27 Value experience more than book smarts 6. 5:48 There is such a thing as a lie of omission 7. 6:37 Growth often comes when you do the opposite of what worked before

@ghilessaidani3929 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks my man that was helpfull

@user-rs4ci3fn2d 4 жыл бұрын

Eh , but he’s only 31

@slimshady2612 4 жыл бұрын

thank you

@cloudyclo 4 жыл бұрын

He always posts that in the description.

@lolychungus5517 4 жыл бұрын

Carl ok boomer

@Mark-yb1sp 4 жыл бұрын

I am 60 yrs old. You just saved me much heartache from now until I am 80. Thank you.👍🏻

@mrfabi5943 2 жыл бұрын

Now that's an attitude!

@shambhawirimal57 2 жыл бұрын

Blessed my eyes!

@mambutuomalley2260 5 жыл бұрын

Regarding point 4: Arguing about personal philosophies is a waste of time. Discussing them on the other hand is extremely valuable.

@abilawaandamari8366 5 жыл бұрын

Indeed.

@Luis-cp2ls 5 жыл бұрын

Marshall!!!!!!!

@WhitePikminPro 5 жыл бұрын

Well it's actually worse than that. Point 4 is itself a personal philosophy of His. Argumentation is merely a method of discourse and can be incredibly fruitful if done with a joint desire for truth. I get his point, but he is simply wrong if taken literally. To argue his point is to do exactly what His point is condemning.

@GinodiFonzo 5 жыл бұрын

Also, advocating for what is essentially a business strategy coupled with a complimentary lifestyle choice is not "arguing over life philosophies" - not even close.

@rickagard7398 5 жыл бұрын

@@WhitePikminPro "can be incredibly fruitful if done with a joint desire for truth" So, basically never.

@rissandimo 5 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love your videos!!! And what makes them even better are: 1. There is no annoying intro 2. There no music playing in the background 3. You almost never tell us to subscribe or hit the like button

@olliepopAMV 5 жыл бұрын

omid nassir because he knows that we’re most likely to subscribe and like the video if we come to that conclusion ourselves, not when he says it. Kinda like inception

@fortnitepartynite3067 5 жыл бұрын

There are no long ads either

@justs_ 5 жыл бұрын

Doing one of any of these wouldn’t be very charismatic.

@willlikessports4171 5 жыл бұрын

Also, unless I missed the cuts, the video is pretty much all done in one take, which makes it seem more genuine and researched

@015AEX 5 жыл бұрын

How can you love someone’s videos that literally help you not be yourself

@ABock4 4 жыл бұрын

“If you’re especially in your younger 20s, and you’re making your own path, don’t tell people that it’s going to work. Do it, and have the patience to let the results and the proof be in the pudding.” I’m 22, and I have taken some time off from school the past few years. I have been in community college the last couple semesters, but now I feel that I am ready to go off to a four year school again. But I often find myself explaining my plans to other people, especially my parents. This video helped me to realize that a lot of that need to explain is coming from my own insecurities about my plans, and how I’m trying to make my way in the world. I find the quote above simple, yet applicable to my life, and it helps me reassure in my own mind that I am capable of finding my own way in this world. Thank you Charlie for the wonderful advice! I’m so glad that I found your channel!

@Ann-kv3yb 4 жыл бұрын

I'm 19 and I withdrew from the 4-year I attended this past January because of academic and personal pressure and I learned two things from my time there. First, after serious denial, that my parents had basically planned my life out right under my nose, and that I have no idea what I am capable of doing since I didn't know really who I was. Everything felt rushed for so long and I wasn't allowed a voice in my own future, meanwhile throwing out ideas to people who pestered about what I was doing and why. I am still not fully sure (I thought I was supposed to have this eureka moment of "this is exactly what you're supposed to do with the rest of your life in this exact field" based on everyone I asked. Definitely not the case for everyone.) but I'm learning more about myself given how things have gone since I left and with time and work, I can better figure out where I work best and make the most of continuing college when I feel ready to return. Thank you for your story. It's nice knowing I'm not the only one who has needed time at a point so early on to figurine things out.

@ABock4 4 жыл бұрын

Ann You’re very welcome. Just know that you do have time to figure your life out. I definitely felt, and sometimes still feel, the very pressure that you’re describing. It is often very difficult, but what I have learned is that you have to take ownership over your life as much as you can. You have to press on, and really try to understand what is the best thing to do for yourself and for your future. And I have a good relationship with my parents, but I’ve had to really detach myself from their way of thinking about my future plans. It has helped me at least get my feelings across to them about my college decisions. That is something that takes a lot of work. But if you’re able to do that and convince yourself and your parents that you can make your own decisions, it will be then that you are in full control. I believe that control in our own life journey is something that we are all striving for. So yeah, like you said, just know that you are not alone in your struggle to find your path. I may not know you, but I believe in you! Take your time, and no matter what, don’t give up! You will find the path in life that you were meant to take.

@focusedallday5620 2 жыл бұрын

facts, people will naturally will always want an update like if you're life and plan is some series that views a new episode every Sunday. Keep it to yourself, and enjoy the steady bubble until your dream materializes.

@conniethesconnie 2 жыл бұрын

Make lots of money, work your own hours, no experience needed. These are often scams. Telemarketing, door to door, high pressure sales, That talent scout who says you could be a model or singer if you just get a professional portfolio or demo tracks - at your expense will ghost you after they have your check cleared. When your family and friends are telling you not to do something it often isn't that they don't believe in you rather it's that they recognize that the path you are getting ready to turn down is not going to take you in the wrong direction.

@carsonfujita-turnbull4549 Жыл бұрын

Thinking of doing the same thing. How'd it work for you?

@grosventre9929 4 жыл бұрын

I love the fact that you talk faster than most youtubers you’re literally the only person I sit and watch without having to adjust the playback speed to

@1010cryptosonny 4 жыл бұрын

you know its kinda funny, i was thinking the same thing. 90% of the time i adjust the speed to 2X or 1.75X but not for this guy. It was only 1.25x :-) cheers.

@anjalii42 3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@guezwhu174 3 жыл бұрын

Me with my 2x on this video thinking it's just the right speed: 👁👄👁 😂😂 but then i also have captions on 🤔

@elijaheskin1 3 жыл бұрын

@@guezwhu174 me too haha

@guezwhu174 3 жыл бұрын

@@elijaheskin1 Hi-5 fellow fast reader hahaha

@DemetriosLevi 5 жыл бұрын

Wait...you're not in your 20s? Damn son, looking crispy 👌

@thesuperiorbench6307 5 жыл бұрын

Demetrios Levi I second that

@stardust4001 5 жыл бұрын

How to look that young at 30 lolll

@izuix5629 5 жыл бұрын

Have you seen Gleb Alexandrov?

@JimboRustles 5 жыл бұрын

Looking like a male model tends to help with the whole charisma thing.

@energyclown58 5 жыл бұрын

He is in his 10s.

@phale426 5 жыл бұрын

1. If you continue to hear something (particularly criticisms) about yourself, it's probably true. Try to seek out honest criticism . 2. When it comes to negotiation, 90% of success is in starting it. Even if you don't think there is a chance, you never know what might happen if you just ask for it. Don't be afraid of rejection. 3. Scarcity is often just a sales tactic. In your 20s, there is very rarely an opportunity that will be gone forever once you miss it. Don't jump into an opportunity unless you would do it without the scarcity. 4. Arguing over life philosophies is usually a waste of time. Don't try to convince others, JUST DO IT and let your results speak for themselves. 5. Value experience more than book smarts. Often times, you can make incorrect assumptions based on what you read. It's better to experience things firsthand. 6. There is such as thing as a lie of omission. Withholding important information is just as dishonest as saying something untrue. Being honest in sharing ALL of what you have to say goes a long way to improving relationships. 7. Growth often comes when you do the opposite of what was working before. People and times change. Don't cling on to old, rigid axioms that may not apply to you in the present.

@UFCxRAMPAGExPFC 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@aryamonmukherjee5303 5 жыл бұрын

The world needs more people like you

@maximyles 5 жыл бұрын

Jason Stone he’s not doing it for you, he’s doing it for himself. These are his notes, I’m about to do the same thing.

@skidibidup 5 жыл бұрын

thanks brother.

@shmel3689 5 жыл бұрын

@@maximyles he shared them. He didn't have to, but he did. I think it deserves a "thank you"

@anb1142 3 жыл бұрын

The more you too talk about your dreams, less you feel like working on them.

@temho2142 3 жыл бұрын

I read something about that. They called it ZFE and I Standby it.

@flopro1 3 жыл бұрын

The idea relates to telling someone you're going to run a marathon. People will say 'good job' 'good for you' and psychologically there is a little part of your reward center that feels like you've already ran the marathon, therefore decreasing your motivation to actually do the marathon. Same concept!

@EpicRekoray 3 жыл бұрын

@@flopro1 ooooooh... my.... god. I thought about that and you are right. I reflected a few things and in that cases that was true! Hey, thanks for sharing that ♥ I gonna to change that habit. I think this will improve my live, so for real: thank you very much.

@flopro1 3 жыл бұрын

@@EpicRekoray no problem!! It's something I've known for a while but don't always put into practice! It's especially hard when someone asks what I'm up to, or what I've been doing or working on, I try to be vague but it can come across as rude sometimes, so I then try to shift the focus back on them instead of talking about myself. Tough to be mindful of, but thanks for your response as a good reminder @Rkry! 🙏🏽

@EpicRekoray 3 жыл бұрын

@@flopro1 I think we are able to reshape our reward system in our brains, like anything else - buuut that might be hard work, instead we should learn how to handle that energy to guide it the direction we want to. So, do u know the Achievement Motivation Inventory test - short AMI? Everbody have deeply motivations, a deep reason why we do or dont do something and most of the time we are not aware of that. One big driver In our cases might be the appreciation from the outside . The AMI will give you some deep knowlege about yourself and your motivations and with that you can control that huge energy. I will do the test soon! (:

@bullseye6969 4 жыл бұрын

His face is perfect to play role of Next young Joker.

@teensllb3083 3 жыл бұрын

Skjshkjj 😂

@jlaanswth6008 3 жыл бұрын

Agree

@loop5720 3 жыл бұрын

Kinda, I don't think his eyes matches that much

@bart797979 3 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure he will appreciate such personal remarks, but this is the internet I suppose lol. Put your face out there and people will comment on your appearance. Jack Nicholson was practically born to play the joker with his face imo, but heath ledger and J phoenix, I wouldn't say fit the bill... and yet ledger's joker is thought by many to have been the best. My conclusion would be that it takes more than just distinctive features to make a good joker. Makeup and charisma are just as important, as well as acting skills of course.

@bovinejangles 3 жыл бұрын

WE DONT NEED MORE JOKERS!

@aperson8375 5 жыл бұрын

I think the main reason I subscribed is because he never told me to subscribe and he’s just so charismatic it’s hard to not like his character.

@blueanimul 5 жыл бұрын

bani-bani hmmm I didn’t notice he was charismatic

@ivag.5398 5 жыл бұрын

Same

@SupremeDouchebaggery 4 жыл бұрын

@Rentals Mass yet you're here

@nadie-qm8rq 4 жыл бұрын

He is reading your mind

@samuri1887 4 жыл бұрын

@@SupremeDouchebaggery he never said he didn't like watching. He just said the guy seems fake

@johnny14980 5 жыл бұрын

"They said don't do drugs" "I had to blaze a new path" this guy def smoked the good

@williamnjagi2388 4 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@thegoodkidboy7726 4 жыл бұрын

he mentioned psychedelics before

@Joe-qm9cp 4 жыл бұрын

You are wow comedian

@josephpalmer6844 4 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo

@bluhcrih3127 4 жыл бұрын

Weed isn't a drug

@marcoglara2012 4 жыл бұрын

I said it before and I’ll say it again, kudos on having one long uncut/unedited video. Many charisma and advice videos show their hosts speaking well because they were edited that way. Your public speaking ability appears to be immaculate and the single long video proves this.

@jonnyb1856 3 жыл бұрын

this comment shows that you have a level of understanding, consciousness and gratitude of no other, I appreciate you and I hope you live happy and long!

@prepperjonpnw6482 3 жыл бұрын

I think he speaks to fast. Other than that I agree

@haynescommabrooke 4 жыл бұрын

Man I really keep watching these videos as if I’m going to miraculously gain flourishing charisma and the ability to talk in front of crowds without melting into myself

@kyledelcotto4550 3 жыл бұрын

You will. I as best man gave the speech in front off a large wedding. Now after I actually would be excited to do it again and feel honored I got to represent a great friend into his love and connection. The learning is the knowledge you will use and call on to conquer what is in front of you. Once you gain the experience you will grow the confidence. Call on yourself and you shall appear

@_Odinn_ 3 жыл бұрын

Damn

@Oversampled 5 жыл бұрын

How in the world you are 31, 25 max

@pedromarymichelparks5345 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!

@Charismaoncommand 5 жыл бұрын

Tip #8 Drink the blood of innocents to stay forever young

@mångata0 5 жыл бұрын

Charisma on Command I think he’s serious

@vawaken3860 5 жыл бұрын

Charisma on Command holy fuck Charlie, that's dark af lol

@vicb931 5 жыл бұрын

No smoking, no drinking (alcohol), exercise, eat healthy

@YokoshimaOfficial 5 жыл бұрын

His mouth shape and, movement are amusing to my eyes. It's surreal.

@princessrockz1000 5 жыл бұрын

JakulaithWolff how so?

@jaimecucalon2804 5 жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one.

@jareddeleon8836 5 жыл бұрын

@sontyre4950 5 жыл бұрын

I get what you saying lol

@lookatmyright 5 жыл бұрын

It's so fucking wide... The same with me dude

@JeiBurke 3 жыл бұрын

"Things I didnt know in my 20's" Like how to age?

@somsangsi 3 жыл бұрын

True 😂

@jackfavvv0280 4 жыл бұрын

"Dancing is for women" Latinos: Hold my Taco.

@rubencastellanos8732 4 жыл бұрын

Hold my arepas

@manuelriveros2911 4 жыл бұрын

hold my empanada

@darktrooper-ub6eo 4 жыл бұрын

hold my baleadas

@layladventures 4 жыл бұрын

Hold my cerveza

@b1l12 4 жыл бұрын

@@layladventures i was lookibg for this. Ty.

@vlol6268 5 жыл бұрын

30? Just come clean, which vampire clan r u part of?

@maybemaeb 5 жыл бұрын

He's a Toreador, clearly.

@NG_ez 5 жыл бұрын

Maybe an elf🤣🤣🤣

@JillianMurrayy 5 жыл бұрын

This is too good😂

@abhishekx4185 5 жыл бұрын

Lmao😂😂 u made my day man

@vlol6268 5 жыл бұрын

@Karan do you need any more evidence?

@ashleycnossen3157 5 жыл бұрын

#1 doesn't always apply. It only applies when you're in a safe space (as you mentioned) and the criticism is coming from safe people. Sadly many people grow up in abusive homes, find similar relationships as adults, and never know anything else.

@Consolous 5 жыл бұрын

I guess that's why it says "probably true"

@antonydrossos5719 5 жыл бұрын

I've gotten criticisms from "friends" about my artwork, meanwhile none of them could draw a decent "stick man" to save their life. It's like Katt Williams said, when people tell you to "Do your own thing", they mean to do what THEY think you should do

@11warum11 5 жыл бұрын

I thought that he meant from all kinds of people. Like not only your (possibly abusive) family, but also your friends, coworkers, maybe even strangers. I think you should always consider the magnitude of what the other person is criticizing about you. It should take a lot of convincing from more than one group of people to reconsider fundamental life choices, while you can accept minor criticism about your outfit from just a single person. There's also the matter of competence. Seek advice from people who obviously know more than you, not your best friend.

@ashleycnossen3157 5 жыл бұрын

@@11warum11 Yes, I think at the heart of it our thought is the same: consider the source. I think his message is good and applies to most healthy people, but I threw this comment in for the sake of any watching who might be in abusive situations and don't have the maturity to understand that they need to consider all the sources speaking into their lives. My heart really goes out especially to kids who grow up in abusive homes. The reality that is modeled to them is way different than what's actually normal. So as adults, they seek out what they know in terms of relationships, not what is "normal." I realize my comment isn't necessarily helpful to abuse victims, because if they're still in an unhealthy place, they probably don't have the tools to discern who is safe in their life and who is not; and if they are in a healthy place, they've already at least partly learned to realize the difference. But I thought it MIGHT help them not take the message totally to heart - which is probable since it is coming from a charismatic speaker in a power color, and might end up reinforcing some of the abusers' words and tactics.

@loladownz5117 5 жыл бұрын

i agree with you.

@istvankertesz3134 4 жыл бұрын

8. You'll make mistakes and it's okay, they help you grow.

@user-so7nd5zl2b 4 жыл бұрын

His mouth movements look like animation I can’t stop looking at it

@SharonTseung 5 жыл бұрын

7:42 - the summary of points!

@Luke-qp9fd 5 жыл бұрын

Sharon Tseung thanks. I can use that 7 minutes doin something else now 😂

@SharonTseung 5 жыл бұрын

@@Luke-qp9fd hahahaa right

@rikardotsamsiyu 4 жыл бұрын

스런 트승1

@senkkella7664 4 жыл бұрын

@@Luke-qp9fd Nah u cant

@Luke-qp9fd 4 жыл бұрын

QuickSilver43 yes i can

@ajiththomas2465 5 жыл бұрын

Wait, you're 31?! Damn, you look so much younger. Are you by any chance related to Keanu Reeves? AKA the immortal vampire action star that hasn't aged in 25 years and will probably outlive us all to the heat death of the universe?

@miguelrobb5719 5 жыл бұрын

Ajith Thomas Keanu Reeves! Lol I thought I was the only one that notice this dude hadn't aged since the matrix films. What the hell is his secret? Does he soak himself in rhino piss an hour a day or something? Lol

@ajiththomas2465 5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, Keanu being some ageless immortal is such a meme that it even appears in his work. I remember that a Squarespace as starring Keanu Reeves advertising his motorbike business featured the implication of him being immortal. And then there’s that hilarious “Quantum Chess: Paul Rudd vs Stephen Hawking” video that also had Keanu as an ageless immortal. Hilarious.

@aqueousconch1103 5 жыл бұрын

Now look at Jared Leto

@blainefire4588 5 жыл бұрын

I thought he was 19 years old

@lukasbarnes 5 жыл бұрын

He’s pretty much the same age as Lawrence fishburne, the guy he starred with in the matrix. I.e. Neo and Morpheus. But even then Morpheus looks twice his age. Think it’s like 2/3 years different but still.

@tannerlong3495 4 жыл бұрын

I used to watch these videos when I was younger, and stopped when I got a new computer, and was doing pretty well in general so I no longer searched for these videos and they didn't pop up in my recommendations. I am currently using my old computer, and I'm glad I saw this video. I have been in sort of a rut in the past few years and I really think your videos help me see things more clearly. My confidence has been terrible in every area of my life, even in things that I know I am good at, I still question myself. Thank you for all you do to make these videos, they really can help out those who may not have guidance or any real role models in their life

@xoderapoker 2 жыл бұрын

It's been 4 years since I completely shifted some of my life's paradigms. And I feel now that it really was the best choice, but tremendous growth comes with a lot pains you have to surpass. I must say dude, I found your channel a few days ago and I'm learning a lot. Thanks for sharing your experience 😁

@ashleycnossen3157 5 жыл бұрын

Also, I always believed I was a truth-teller, but then I realized I was being dishonest by always hiding my thoughts and feelings from people.

@ZeroBaller0 5 жыл бұрын

Amén me too

@charlesahweyevu 5 жыл бұрын

You can't go around telling people that are fat that they're indeed fat.

@ashleycnossen3157 5 жыл бұрын

@@charlesahweyevu Lol that's true. I was referring to the healthy communication that's supposed to happen in relationships.

@JoseCastro-nw6zj 5 жыл бұрын

Thats me. I sucks at expressing feelings

@suckmydingledong 5 жыл бұрын

Nothing but a dirty rotten liar, I am.

@billdodds5255 5 жыл бұрын

Enjoyed this quite a bit, but felt compelled to comment. I am entering my 60s and have watched a lot of young folks grow up, friends and family. As someone who cares deeply about young people and their success, I have gone far above and beyond trying to communicate this type of knowledge/wisdom. I reached the conclusion that pretty much everyone in their 20s has heard these messages, but were unable to learn the lessons of life without experience being the teacher. There is only one key thing young people should know. Listen and learn from the experiences shared.

@moontan3927 5 жыл бұрын

Very well said. It frustrates me no end that my partners teenage children have lots of knowledge but not acquired much through experience, yet hold the belief that the experience doesn't count for much. It's like scoring 100 in the pen and paper learner driver test doesn't mean you can drive.

@Chris-pk6ot 5 жыл бұрын

This is so incredibly true. Well said!

@kivanc6 5 жыл бұрын

Perhaps we are meant to make those mistakes. Hearing great advice only works if you are ready for it. And if you are ready for it you were probably about to figure it out on your own anyways

@emprendedoressueltos 5 жыл бұрын

the worst thing that you can do is relate with people older than you. they will always think know better than you and never let you lead. most of people paradigms suck shit but since they are older they are solid. so they will trick you into thinking they are rigth. if you want to influence people you could never influence them. focus on younger people instead.

@Uncommon_Sense01 5 жыл бұрын

This is so very true! I'm 30 and i try to teach my little brother (21) some of the things i learnt in my 20s. He doesn't get a lot of it because his brain hasn't matured yet and he hasn't made enough mistakes.

@cassiedeehoo 4 жыл бұрын

Great advice. Number one is not always going to be true especially if you grew up in a narcissistic community and you are being gaslighted. I was in an abusive relationship for years because people kept telling me it was my fault for not putting up with it for misinterpreting the obvious abuse etc etc. When was actually happening is that he had value to them and I had none. Sometimes people don't want to believe that but there is the other end of the spectrum or bell curve if you will. just putting that out there just in case there are any other people out there who are in unhealthy toxic possibly narcissistic relationships.

@haridineevikhe8549 4 жыл бұрын

I m 19 and I have felt all of these things myself especially about not blindly following elders.. my mom is ideal but her suggestions have made me stagnant a couple of times. The one I found the most valuable was about scarcity. You're great👍👍

@DuncanCustomAirbrush 5 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I feel like I'm starting too late. I'm 38 and just quit my job this past February to do my art...but I'm going for it anyway!

@potatoking2217 5 жыл бұрын

38 years old is still young. Pursue your passion, not everybody has one. Good luck.

@DuncanCustomAirbrush 5 жыл бұрын

@@potatoking2217 Thank you for the encouragement!!👍

@a.demifemiflapo5795 5 жыл бұрын

@@potatoking2217 What a username 😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@Indi_Waffle_Girl 5 жыл бұрын

You've got this!! That is such a hard choice. I'm going through something similar myself. Way to be brave (:

@DuncanCustomAirbrush 5 жыл бұрын

@@Indi_Waffle_Girl Thank you very much. Pray that it work out for the both of us!

@unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 жыл бұрын

Never explain yourself to others, that’s what people do when they have low self esteem.

@mysteria8663 5 жыл бұрын

I wouldnt say never cause thats too extreme, but generally i agree because i would spend a lot time thinking how to justify myself so others can accept me and my choices.

@Rithmy 5 жыл бұрын

I explain myself when its not clear what im doing. Only explain yourself when others dont understand and/or ask.

@MT-zu2uq 5 жыл бұрын

As a nurse, this is a bad idea haha

@l.ferrer7923 5 жыл бұрын

How about You explain yourself so you are NOT misunderstood or have your points misinterpreted? 😱 There are times you MUST explain your points. 😂 Too bad some people are highly judgmental I end up having to "explain myself" a lot in the beginning... it was a tiring effort... I stopped. 😎

@AmericanHairlines69 5 жыл бұрын

But what do you mean by "never explain yourself"? In wha case should I never explain myself?

@zainabb.5602 4 жыл бұрын

The reason I love this guy is that he seems genuine besides the Psuedo self help gurus.

@davidwhite1867 2 жыл бұрын

Charlie, I just found your videos today in 2021, I think they are fantastic! I've been to many seminars as a sales guy and have heard or learned many of the tips you offer starting at age 18. It's all worked very well so far, I'm now 57, self-employed, and work only a few hours a week to enjoy everything that's important in life. I would recommend to any young person to listen and practice the ideas and concepts you promote. Keep it up.

@kuzuri511 5 жыл бұрын

Did he just said that he's 31? 0.0

@vaerii9094 5 жыл бұрын

He s getting younger every time i watch his videos

@Handlellc 5 жыл бұрын

The thing that stands out to me is you doing it all in one take. No chopped together edits like is common on KZfaq. Conveys authenticity and shows you are actually what you advertise in these videos.

@ec.miguel 3 жыл бұрын

I’m turning 22 this month, this is vital information as I’m making major adjustments in my life right now. Thanks for this, Charlie.

@oliviakboateng 2 жыл бұрын

Truly inspirational stuff. I literally watch lots of these videos for hours of the day. Thank you

@chaotic_raisin 5 жыл бұрын

What about "Stop explaining yourself"? You know, the thumbnail text. Was looking forward to hearing more on that point

@spencersantiago7263 5 жыл бұрын

I feel like that goes in line with the argueing of philosophies. He didnt need to explain why doing the things he read in the book were better for his folks and such he shouldve just went and did it, as he said.

@chaotic_raisin 5 жыл бұрын

I felt as though it could have been added on more as its own point but I agree it applies to the unactioned thoughts

@patriot1303 3 жыл бұрын

He’s not gonna explain himself to why he put that on the thumbnail and didn’t talk about it now it makes sense

@HSG4meR 3 жыл бұрын

@@patriot1303 I feel attacked

@Show_Ethiopia 3 жыл бұрын

i think he meant that in the book thing he told to his family and got kicked about

@fernandogomezdelatorre3296 5 жыл бұрын

These tips are life changing! Thank you for sharing Charlie! For me, a thing that has helped me achieve my goals this year is just starting the task, not thinking too much about it but just starting. I got the best results by just starting things I thought I could never do and never imagined I would come this far.

@Just-Nikki 5 жыл бұрын

Fernando Gomez de la Torre that helps me as well. I tend to over plan and overthink bc I’m a perfectionist and I always felt like I had to do things perfectly the first time. I get so much more accomplished by just going for it.

@fernandogomezdelatorre3296 5 жыл бұрын

@@Just-Nikki yes, thanks for sharing your view!

@reshpeck 5 жыл бұрын

Excellent perspective. Thinking about finishing a task before you've even started puts the pressure of the entire process on you all at once, which makes simply starting extraordinarily more difficult.

@waterhead1029 5 жыл бұрын

@@Just-Nikki Like Van Halen says "Go ahead and Jump" I think of the crazy fucks that had the strangest contraptions they were trying to fly in the old newsreels. Attaching wings to themselves, jumping off of buildings. Didn't work out too well, but they weren't on the sidewalk watching. Watchers don't move things forward much.

@SkillGame 5 жыл бұрын

This is so true. I have a bad habit of procrastinating things if I'm not able to picture exactly how I would do them, especially if I know they involve challenges that I've never faced before. I'm learning that when I start things I can usually figure them out along the way (or even ask for help). I at least figure them out better by starting them than by sitting around thinking about/avoiding/dreading them.

@pipes9878 3 жыл бұрын

When I was 18 my father knew nothing, when I reached 21 I was shocked by how much he had learnt. 🤣😂

@tairix3616 4 жыл бұрын

Rule #4 actually resonates with me so much. I did the same as you, telling people how’s we all gotta be investors and business owners through online so we can seize mobility and financial freedom. But I realized I did this to also affirm myself. I did not think that this doesn’t apply to everyone. Everyone has their own freedom I guess and all I can do is hold it to myself. One of my super trader friend also taught me silence is key 🔑 I am 24 and I started doing everything opposite like 2 years ago. I have seen more growth in this short 2 years than when I was going to school for 16 years!

@memyselfandi985 5 жыл бұрын

For number 7 I had a huge personal breakthrough. When I was only 10 I was diagnosed with depression and immediately put on medication. The meds started adding up until by the time I was 22 I was taking 6 different medications and still suffering severe symptoms on and off. Finally I spoke with my doctor and asked for a different approach. I tapered off all of my meds and focused heavily on diet, exercise, and very conscious efforts to change how I viewed events in my life and manage my emotions. I have been medication free for 4 years now and had drastic improvements. Obviously talk to a doctor and do your research when it comes to mental health but know there is more than one solution to a problem.

@ManSeekingChrist 5 жыл бұрын

I agree with the “stop explaining yourself” thing. You look like you’re in your twenties btw. I’m in my late twenties now and I finally stopped explaining myself this year. It’s POWERFUL.

@davecullins1606 5 жыл бұрын

My mom's very soon turning 50, and she's STILL doing it for almost everything. She even explains why she does you a favour, and how it's just a convenience for her. She even explains herself if it's just some neutral unimportant thing such as she's using a spoon to scratch the remains of something in a bowel because it's more efficient. I'm like: "WHY DO I HAVE TO KNOW THIS??"

@christking85 5 жыл бұрын

Did you watch the video? Or just comment on the picture? Cuz I have seen a couple comments like yours but haven't heard that said in the video. I don't understand commenting like you watched and liked the video but couldn't take the time to actually watch it

@christking85 5 жыл бұрын

@@davecullins1606 j feel the same way about your comment. " Why do I have to know this?" If you want to brag about your mom... CALL HER

@hahaboy211 5 жыл бұрын

@@christking85 was thinking the same thing. Watched the same thing, and picked up he doesn't say jack all about "stopping explaining yourself". I would have been keen to hear more about it though. Not sure why he's use it as a bait to get views.

@koffz-nl2118 5 жыл бұрын

@@christking85 number 4 talks about it

@KRUS3 2 жыл бұрын

Just bookmarked your channel. So much value!

@ryanemslie7719 4 жыл бұрын

This will most probably go unread, however, I just wanted to thank you for this channel. About two hours ago I discovered this channel and i have been watching your videos continuously only to take a break to discuss ideas, that you have brought up, with friends and my dad. You have provided real intellectual stimulation and provoked an inquisitive nature within myself as to why social interactions go as they do and in what ways ( as well as why) we can improve them and gain the desired result. Thank you very much and I look forward to watching the rest of your extensive library of videos.

@lightningmonky7674 4 жыл бұрын

*Turns 21* "Things I wish I knew in my 20's!!!!"

@turnitupwithnelly-2337 4 жыл бұрын

31*

@microz0258 4 жыл бұрын

Hes 31 lmao

@microz0258 3 жыл бұрын

@@Noone-rd1rs r/ihavereddit

@microz0258 3 жыл бұрын

@@Noone-rd1rs also in no way shape or form did i miss the joke. It’s funny, i chuckled at it, just not accurate for his scenario lol

@j.k.6865 3 жыл бұрын

@@microz0258 that's ironic

@barneyclifton6402 5 жыл бұрын

31 and still getting ID-ed haha

@ThatEflatGuy 4 жыл бұрын

This was really great advice...particularly the last point. I’m changing my habits. I have enough information to be politically active, and I wish to create opportunities for a healthy exchange of ideas rather than the bullying that we often see today when politics are discussed. It has really worked out well so far, and improved the trust between myself and friends/family.

@AutoMotivate 3 жыл бұрын

I have been stuck so many times in life. What made the difference? One, moving out of my parents during high school. I have quite several jobs because I have gotten stuck. I started this KZfaq Channel and as a main money maker while I grew this channel, I was a personal trainer at a box office gym. I got the most stuck in my life during that job, so I quite that job and became a solo trainer while I grew this channel. Now, I am slowly moving towards becoming fulltime on KZfaq, helping people without actually sliding a card. That's my favorite.

@marcinskibinski8263 5 жыл бұрын

Rule number 8: if your body part or a piece of clothing just starts mildly smelling funny , it means that to others it smells like a rotten rat and they probably smelled it long time ago and talked about how disgusting you are by now.

@scarletth8211 4 жыл бұрын

Wow what happened

@rasamasala 4 жыл бұрын

Hah damn. Good to know lmaooo

@coolpfpbut9505 4 жыл бұрын

You like to overthink things huh

@usamashoaib6688 4 жыл бұрын

The wise one finally spoke it.

@GpuInDanger 4 жыл бұрын

Oh god

@terencehill3972 5 жыл бұрын

8 Everything is situational Here's the opposite list : 1 Believe in yourself 2 A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush 3 Opportunity doesn't knock twice 4 Communication is the exchange of ideas, thoughts and feelings 5 Knowledge is power 6 The longer the explanation the bigger the lie 7 Growth comes from continually doing something Take from it what you want

@rkcj101 4 жыл бұрын

Terence Hill yeh but he did mention, “sometimes” or “for some people.” for example, just because an opportunity only comes once, doesn’t mean you NEED to take it, or even that you’d be happy doing so.

@luzbenitez1799 4 жыл бұрын

For #4 he said arguing not discussing, that are two different forms of comunicating something, I guess

@predraggrujic2239 4 жыл бұрын

These aren't opposite at all...

@predraggrujic2239 4 жыл бұрын

@@luzbenitez1799 when was the last time via discussion somebody changed your mind on a life topic? If they did, it's probably a sign you're insecure, gullible or under 14

@nathanvanderriet209 4 жыл бұрын

@@predraggrujic2239 Predrag Grujic That is sarcasm right? Just in case it's not, I think it's worth saying that in fact I think if you haven't ever changed your mind after discussing something then you are in fact the one that is 'insecure, gullible, or under 14'. I think it is ludicrous to assume that your views must be correct and even more so that you must argue for them and against other views and then be 'beaten' to change your mind. The world is an extremely complex place, humans are extremely complex beings with vastly different experiences, I don't think any of us can expect to have any of the answers, nevermind all of them, and I think we should all be eager to hear new viewpoints and opinions and to then apply that information to our own ideas and views and see what changes (and of course be prepared to allow the changes to occur). Again, sorry if I am in fact preaching to the choir, it just comes across like you were being sincere and I wouldn't want someone reading to get confused.

@ila326 3 жыл бұрын

This video actually helped me turn my life around. So grateful that such free content exists in the world.

@stormysnyder4693 3 жыл бұрын

This guy is a thinker... very intelligent and mature ways of thinking. Gives good advise to others based on his own experiences 👏

@fahadmehrab580 5 жыл бұрын

this dude is some professional stuff that jawline, clean teeth and gums, his way to smile, delivering of words and topics

@bard1250 5 жыл бұрын

Looks play a factor

@robertshields5541 4 жыл бұрын

That’s why he’s teaching us about charisma. He’s got all the tools

@whattheshit4936 3 жыл бұрын

his smile reminds me of a frog

@dogmiagy 3 жыл бұрын

Aaaand... no cuts!!! Respect!

@AlchemistsTable 3 жыл бұрын

Short, concise, non-emotional content. Great points, no BS, all positive and self-helpful. Very professional.

@whyitstrending1085 5 жыл бұрын

I think these are really valuable takeaways, but in order to really understand each of these concepts, I think you have to live through them. You have to have the personal story of YOU experiencing each one of these mistakes, feeling the consequences of them, and then experimenting with a different way of approaching them. And I think that's a really long process that is really hard to accelerate. Good on you for trying though Charlie, I bet you're helping a lot of people.

@yipi9162 5 жыл бұрын

Why It's Trending that’s a good point but I feel like most people have experienced some or most of these situations at some point already, and felt the consequences of them but maybe not quite made the link yet. This video helped me identity mistakes I’ve made before so now I can be more aware of how I handle the same situations next time. I agree with you about needing to experience them yourself though

@whyitstrending1085 5 жыл бұрын

@@yipi9162 you right.

@anshul_himself 5 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. It was really unsettling for a video to have pieces of discrete content so dense, packed in such a short duration. I mean, these life lessons are some of the really significant ones which many of us don't stumble upon soon enough or atleast learn to imbibe until quite later (or never). But it just felt wrong for them to be mentioned like a bullet list. This is some heavy stuff. It should be treated accordingly. I still appreciate the video though, really good stuff. Didn't see it in one go. Stopped after point 4. Will pick up from there later. I am going to take my time to digest it. And yeah, like you and this video said, point 4 would apply to this video in a meta-sorta way too.

@whyitstrending1085 5 жыл бұрын

@@anshul_himself I think this is still a really valuable video though, don't get me wrong. Like in hindsight after re-reading my original comment, I think videos like this that are available to young people are much better than the alternative, where these videos don't exist. Or even worse, videos that preach the opposite, or videos devoid of any self-improvement concepts at all. Charlie's channel has helped me a ton in my own personal growth and development, and even if you can't apply these strategies in any sort of practical every day sense, it still plants a seed. And that seed starts your thinking. And thinking eventually becomes actions. So honestly, in hindsight, I think watching this channel is a really great way to plant seeds in your subconscious mind to start to begin thinking about ideas like this. I know I sound like a tool. But that's what I think.

@veganmagick7251 5 жыл бұрын

No no no sure some people have to learn the hard way but I just need to hear the advice or see someone else struggle to know not to do something

@veekay6142 4 жыл бұрын

All that u said is correct ,I love the way u talk ,so clear and to the point

@lifewithdylan6414 2 жыл бұрын

A lot of these types of videos have very similar advice. But this advice was all very different. Kudos and thanks!

@BOBofGH 5 жыл бұрын

31?! Dude. What skin products are you using? Asking for a friend.

@starcoreart 5 жыл бұрын

product's called a healthy lifestyle

@cheesecakelasagna 5 жыл бұрын

Username checks out...?

@corbittscorner 5 жыл бұрын

Pilzkopp we aren’t all so blessed

@cornzillafedro9085 5 жыл бұрын

Money

@moseslee5721 5 жыл бұрын

It's called having charisma

@spingmufh1007 5 жыл бұрын

Charlie, you have changed my life in so many positive ways and have made me so much more confident when talking to people. Thanks man

@Charismaoncommand 5 жыл бұрын

~ Glad the channel is making such a positive impact!

@WiPri0371 2 жыл бұрын

A book by Chris Voss, Never Split The Difference, essentially addresses half of these. It's about learning to negotiate in pretty much every area of your life. From business purposes to personal/love life. And he's worth listening to; He has 25 years experience as a professional FBI negotiator who went to one of the premiere and well known ivy league colleges in one of their business classes and pretty much made fools of those enrolled straight out of the gate. The first 3 chapters are alone worth the price of admission. There are 10 chapters so PLENTY to digest.

@danzarlengo7127 2 жыл бұрын

Asking others for feedback on yourself can be life-changing. I was 60 before I realized I had Asperger's. No one mentioned it to me because they assumed I knew. It is unimaginable how different my life could have been had I known that.

@the-messymiss 5 жыл бұрын

When he said "I'm 31" I was like NO WAY, he is 9 years older than me. Please make a video about how charisma can make us look younger. Shout out from Brazil, by the way!

@Someone-hj2mn 5 жыл бұрын

Well, people always said I'm ugly..

@bigmax5780 5 жыл бұрын

BITCH SAME HAHAHAHA NOW I JUST ACCEPT IT XD

@SleepyCity0001 5 жыл бұрын

The way you view yourself is your choice. Don't let others words change the quality of your life or self esteem :p

@shinshung645 5 жыл бұрын

I understand that this may hurt you, and that's normal - it's a jerky thing to insult someone. But I believe this is your opportunity to reflect on yourself once more; not to necessarily think that you are defined by the insult, but rather the criticism itself. This means that you have to work on your self-esteem, observe your lifestyle and choices that affect your charisma, confidence, etc. It may be a challenge but you got this, Cemil!

@colecoke6996 5 жыл бұрын

You probabbly are learn to accept it

@AhmedalHijazi 5 жыл бұрын

Cemil PCMR man don’t care human being not just can (body) Human being (soul / Heart / Mind) Just believe in your self

@Winter-lk5cn 4 жыл бұрын

I got taken aback when he said "now that I'm 31." Where? You look 22 at most!

@mojo_joju Жыл бұрын

You make a lot of good points, sir. You must’ve had one hell of an adventure in your life. Keep up the good work

@matrinoxe7439 5 жыл бұрын

Currently 21. This was very valuable. Thank you.

@randumpotato 5 жыл бұрын

19 year old here, thank you for the insight, Charisma! I’ve been watching this channel for a few years now, and you give best most genuine tips. Perfect balance between under/over confidence.

@Charismaoncommand 5 жыл бұрын

~ Appreciate it!

@tardybloomer 2 жыл бұрын

this video is old but it was recommended to me, so I gave it a watch and dude...point no. 4 speaks volumes. not only do I do this with myself (trying to convince _myself_ that the path I'm choosing will be worth it in the end), but some of my close relatives do this. this video is such an eye opener. thank you very much. :)

@binaryglitch64 4 жыл бұрын

Before I get started, I already know this one's gonna hit home.

@zacari.zarpado 5 жыл бұрын

"now that i'm 31..." wait what

@strazniczkanocy5386 5 жыл бұрын

"Pause." is actually my new life motto. Thank you!

@biblicallyaccuratecockroach 3 жыл бұрын

The "don't justify yourself" was a lesson that has paid off for me. Often I would tell my parents "i wanna do this or that" and they would immediately shoot it down, because it was pointless, I was wasting time, questioning my ability to even do the thing. At a certain point I stopped announcing, and started doing. It wasn't pointless, I was investing time, and I was more than capable of doing the thing. Now instead they mock me for putting too much effort into these endeavours. At the same time they praise my accomplishments, they make snide comments on how I didn't need to "try so hard" to make it good, which is completely baffling. Same when they ask me to do something, then criticize me for "putting too much" into it trying to make it good. If you want half-assed do it yourself.

@gabechristianson7089 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome information. I am learning a lot of this information as well in my 20’s as I venture into new career avenues.

@himayalaputra4682 5 жыл бұрын

3 advices for anybody becoming in their 20's: 1. Be good looking 2. Socialize (mingle and experiment with different people and things) 3. Have a solid skill set (personally and professionally) Source: words from an experienced soul:-)

@gianniszacharopoulos5725 5 жыл бұрын

Himayala Putra Thank you oh wise one!

@nashbueno 5 жыл бұрын

2 advices for anybody in their 20's: 1- be good looking 2- be rich

@DisplayLine6.13.9 5 жыл бұрын

@@nashbueno Number 1 optional.

@30gsp 5 жыл бұрын

Actually regarding the "good looking" point, I've realized that, not everyone can be good-looking however everyone can be a better-looking version OF THEMSELVES. If they exercise, eat healthy, develop good lifestyle habits, pay attention to their clothing (it need not be expensive clothes but it better fit well, colours go together well, etc.), pay attention to personal hygiene and grooming (hair, beard, etc.), it can make a huge difference, not just to their physical appearance but also to their physical, mental and social well-being. This coming from personal experience.

@TinyLordCthulhu 5 жыл бұрын

wow I have none of these

@julien156 5 жыл бұрын

Dawg, you’re 30...?

@brunito9823 5 жыл бұрын

He looks like 20 😂

@julien156 5 жыл бұрын

Would’ve e said 25 MAX

@RainmanWyzwoliciel 5 жыл бұрын

There is something funny in calling Charlie a dawg.

@newpowerup1996 5 жыл бұрын

he became 31 this octobre

@happytime2781 5 жыл бұрын

good genes, I got same having 33 people give me mid 20's ^_^

@basdistelmans 3 жыл бұрын

This video inspired me. I opened up and asked someone close to me to help with my impulsive spending habits. Thank you for the great work your doing.

@eddyjolo 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this - especially that last tip. Havent been enjoying my job but need to set up a few things before I jump ship.

@TimeCenaPSW 5 жыл бұрын

You look like you’re still in your 20s

@tuffguytofiles 5 жыл бұрын

KingMoe lol I thought he was like a super smart 24 yr old

@DtheEvil 5 жыл бұрын

@@tuffguytofiles same, if he said he was 24, I wouldn't have blinked.

@kanyaratthompson8250 5 жыл бұрын

@@tuffguytofiles n.

@Johncena-bk1lg 5 жыл бұрын

That's the power of being lean

@adrian3747_ 5 жыл бұрын

John cena why do all lean people look soooo young ughhh

@Rattattattatt 5 жыл бұрын

I'm kind of confused. The thumbnail says "STOP EXPLAINING YOURSELF", but I feel like that idea wasn't addressed adequately. Is the thumbnail a mistake?

@sheppyhuds 5 жыл бұрын

He didn't talk about that because that would mean explaining himself

@peterdentice5725 5 жыл бұрын

Hudson 😑 I would rather have something that suggested what to do when I'm feeling a desire to explain myself. For me, borderline click bait. That being said, I understand what your getting at.

@herculesmaclamore3483 5 жыл бұрын

@@sheppyhuds i think you're right

@herculesmaclamore3483 5 жыл бұрын

@@peterdentice5725 if you feel a desire to explain yourself that means you're insecure that your actions/thoughts are right.. so do what you think it is right and you won't have that desire in the first place

@peterdentice5725 5 жыл бұрын

Hercules Maclamore I get what your getting at, but it's because I can see what I said wasn't understood and I'm given a generic answer. Sometimes it doesn't even fit what I said. They give a Generic response, then head nod, I keep eye contact, they say "wait what was that?" This is about giving my helper commands on what to help me with.

@AndyBlackJnr 2 жыл бұрын

Was that one take, without a single filler word? Dayum. Boss level presentation skills.

@rick15666 3 жыл бұрын

Man, I’m glad I subscribed to this channel. The man speaks Truth, well condensed down to what matters.

@berkaykurkcu 5 жыл бұрын

One thing I wanna ask.. How can you speak for 10 minutes straight without pausing or cutting any parts of the video? Are you memorizing everything or is there a prompter action going on? Thanks!

@Charismaoncommand 5 жыл бұрын

I memorize the high level idea of what I want to communicate - I talk more about the process here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ncefq7t3z9uapaM.html

@Pwop_ 5 жыл бұрын

@@Charismaoncommand Thank you! I was wondering too because I noticed you look away from the camera so I knew you weren't reading it, and there were no full cutaways to animations. Thats amazing I'll have to see the other video as well.

5 жыл бұрын

he is a robot.

@berkaykurkcu 5 жыл бұрын

@@Charismaoncommand Thanks a lot! I do same kind of content in Turkish(well, not really same but,lets say close) and I am doing a lot of cuts. This will help me! Appreciated

@thomasdwyer1167 5 жыл бұрын

This is a great question, because he’s very succinct in his points and the fact that there are no cuts is ridiculous. I could never do this, the way he’s doing it.

@arshiasaberi8435 5 жыл бұрын

Charlie's mouth looks like Viper's mouth from Kung Fu Panda

@asherjack2378 5 жыл бұрын

Arshia Saberi I can't unsee this

@aminachirguita1399 5 жыл бұрын

I can't unsee it😂😂😂😂

@flanbenflen9069 4 жыл бұрын

My god

@_a_hassan2985 4 жыл бұрын

Wait his name is Charlie?🤣

@flanbenflen9069 4 жыл бұрын

@@_a_hassan2985 yes

@xingmenneigong 4 жыл бұрын

Wow your little learning curbs makes me appreciate being an empath. Your list makes me realise why you made this channel. It's because you were so hopeless and needed to learn.

@jerevickers7883 5 жыл бұрын

Are you related to Emilia Clarke? That eyebrow & mouth movement is so exciting and makes what you're saying more interesting. Glad to have come across your channel!

@DanDorland 5 жыл бұрын

7:22 I'm 25 and can definitely relate on this last one. In your teens you think your parents don't know anything, when you're scraping by in your early 20's you start craving their advice, and eventually you strike a balanced, realistic view, where your parents have lived a lot longer and experienced much more, but are still human and don't have all the answers.

@linhlooper637 2 жыл бұрын

this is just so true =))

@dotconnector1746 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing these lessons! How amazing is it to have learned them so early in life. Every single video of your channel provides a ton of value, great to see!

@obscuriosities 2 жыл бұрын

This vid is SO good. So much A+ info, so consolidated

@jocampo9435 5 жыл бұрын

Yo!!! Do video on skincare & how to look 20 when 30!!!

@blimeygirl4357 5 жыл бұрын

I don't think it's skin care, it's mainly cause he has a baby face. I mean his skin is great, don't get me wrong.

@reshpeck 5 жыл бұрын

I'm 37 and look about the same age as him. The trick is to not have kids and drink plenty of whiskey. At least, that's what I think is what worked for me.

@Sara-us1mn 5 жыл бұрын

Literally just wear sunscreen, every day. Seriously. Wearing sunscreen is the most proven and effective way to prevent wrinkles. Stop tanning, people.

@MrTimmywizzle 5 жыл бұрын

Exercise, sleep, eat pretty well, don't go crazy on the drink, reduce stress. Don't 'sun worship'. And then never get fat and stay lean.

@ruok3351 5 жыл бұрын

be asian

@IAmNumber4000 5 жыл бұрын

“When I was younger what worked was listening to adults, to study hard, to not do drugs...” I’m putting your advice to good use by tripping hard on acid right now lmao

@jakeoswald8017 5 жыл бұрын

I needa do some psychs again soon

@omnistellar5647 5 жыл бұрын

@@jakeoswald8017 Saaaaame

@hawkbird6294 4 жыл бұрын

can confirm, but i never was good at listening to the rules to begin with..

@yourname1869 4 жыл бұрын

Acid & mushrooms are not bad drugs. Change my mind.

@jimicampbell3063 4 жыл бұрын

The secret of the stars lies within the eyes just a word to the wise

@zoeloka9113 4 жыл бұрын

I like how he was brief and quick to the point but made all necessary points 👏🏽

@michellemar21 3 жыл бұрын

Loved this video. Thank you! Especially the part about arguing with people over lifestyles.

@charlesfurfur 5 жыл бұрын

Wait.... you mean you're not in your 20s anymore???????????!!!!!! What sorcery is this? ????

@Pyarilovely 5 жыл бұрын

charlesfurfur he is 31 now

@taraconstruction5796 5 жыл бұрын

Twilight

@Tomi_janet15 5 жыл бұрын

😂🤣

@MindNow 5 жыл бұрын

*Brother, i totally agree on the scarcity and convincing others on your philosophy because I was also guilty of this* Thank you for sharing this with us man! Winny out... _for now_ 😉

@abidnordin9717 4 жыл бұрын

A charisma guru having things he wished somebody would tell him in his 20's just reinforce the fact that nobody in their 20's will actually listen to all these warnings.

@sn6953 3 жыл бұрын

Not when their parents tell them but when a handsome guy in the internet says it,it sounds more acceptable to them for sure since he is younger and more relatable to them...damn I wish I had the power of fast and in your pocket internet in my 20's😩

@SomeGuyHowGoesIt 3 жыл бұрын

@@sn6953 also it sounds more objecticve coming from someone who's main deal is teaching this stuff and not someone that tries to teach through personal anecdote or loose teaching

@Henryguitar95 3 жыл бұрын

That makes 0 sense

@nickkyriakidis1661 4 жыл бұрын

Something that I have to add to point 3 is When for example something originally costs 10 bucks and it's currently 40% off, you don't save 4 bucks, you spend 6. If you end up buying everything you see is on sale, just because you think you are saving on money, your pocket will still run dry at some point.