They could be an analyst as well, something like an... Analrapist

Potato Moustache Productions I know right,usually this advice would cost hundreds of dollars

lol

You may be lacking in warmth.

saves me bucketloads of money monthly

Thanks, this helps me allot

Facts

Thank you. I was reminded of some of my past ways and though I feel I have an obligation to face what people have to say about my past misdeeds, it left me distraught and hating myself a little. It was nice to read this before bed though.

Oh wow, for some reason your replies didn’t appear in my inbox. I had revisited this video to comment this... A Man Is... A man is not quick to anger He’s not one who’s quick to brawl If you see a man bullying others He’s not a man at all A man is not a quitter He’s not one to turn and run When the going gets rough, he gets tough He’ll remain till the job is done A man takes no satisfaction in seeing another fail He encourages all to try and to believe that they can prevail A man will never boast or brag or kick sand in your eye He’ll stand firm on his conviction with his head held to the sky A man will always lend a hand when he finds a friend in need His character and his integrity makes him a true friend indeed --Mychal Wynn

@Azo Zyten I believe that this quote is stemmed more towards people whom of which have done some really bad things inside/outside of prison, and are trying to redeem themselves. To compare it to someone who commented genocide is something I don’t think is an applicable action regarding the quote.

Joe "I can say very profound stuff sometimes" Rogan

How To Be A Man? Totally ignore females and focus on yourself 110%.

It doesn't always make you realise but it should.

@@incorectulpolitic ignore female what? female ants? female cats? female house sparrows?

Just don't be a simp 👌🏾👁👄👁

Another sensitive dude who enjoyed the video

​@@OfftheChainz hi another sensitive dude

Best answer!

Wrong. You're a man when u act ....

Great Analogy. Also, Women can be Hot and at the same time, Cold.

Ouf Nailed Cool Warm man...

@mato paz But are we not imperfect by nature? And a perfect balance is hard to define or measure.

Did you notice it was Hitler? LOL.

Lmao if anyone told me that while there's fire in the house I would automatically assume they're a psycopath

That's not all that's rising "Honey".

@@joeprimal2044 Dude, that's what I said!

Yoo😂

Nah, forget that stoicism all the time BS. Everybody has feelings and everyone needs to share them. It's just about finding the appropriate moments to do so. You can't be a warm man and be always stoic. Being stoic all the time and repressing your feelings is what causes people to explode with violence and rage.

@@Starmast3rmusic You don't understand stoicism. You have a misconception, peddled by lazy ppl who haven't read anything. I can only conclude you are buying into the feminist narrative.

@@Starmast3rmusic You are completely wrong Stoicism is not based on denying or repressing emotions it is based on controlling them which is one of the most important elements of masculinity because you know when explosions and road rage happen when people are not in control of their emotions when they are not stoic let me teach you something feelings change really really all the time a person who puts his feelings first and foremost is a person doomed to failure and is like a leaf in the wind waiting for his feelings to lead him through life like a pathetic and incompetent leaf But when a person decides that his decisions, his principles, his tasks, and his goals are more important than his feelings, that's where he can achieve greatness, that's where he can reach his full potential, and that doesn't mean denying them or suppressing them, that means controlling them, and that's what exceptional people and successful people do. Emotions can be treated like energy but you are the one who has to control and choose where this energy goes and this is reflected in stoicism and control of emotions If I hate the way my body looks I can use that energy to feel depressed cry and complain about it or I can use that energy to go to the gym and work on my body if I feel angry I can use that anger to do something productive and I can use that energy to kill someone Controlling your emotions and stoicism is one of the most important things. It gives you the option not to act impulsively due to the emotion (for example, anger to violence, sadness to laziness, etc., etc.) and it gives you the option to direct the emotion to a productive and positive place as opposed to a destructive and negative place

Great Quote thanks for sharing

@@TOPOWTOPI agree with what you said and it applies to women as well although I think women get a pass for a few more emotional days

Aw man. That's great !!!

you can support by watching the ads. lol \

sar sar3ouf I guess Alain doesn’t need any financial support tbh. He is very well off. Thank you will do. Or some further ideas to work on.

Dude watching "How to be a man" when his country is getting bombed and all. What a legend

Thank you in the name of all humans! From Serbia, love.

being everything at the same time always works

So... keep the balance within oneself?

Exactly!

Yes! balance is everything

Yes, precisely. I think men are better built to juggle both - i.e.- warm inside the home towards their families and cool(er) in their dealings with the outside world. Women in comparison have a harder time with this, perhaps due to their diminished ability to compartmentalize as efficiently as men generally can.

Exactly, I've never labelled myself as I'm not manly or anything, just that i'm me. Other guys care so much about this, you can still be masculine and not base everything off some construct of a man

Don't be a pussy

@@ssssSTopmotion stop saying or you'll grow one

@بدون إسم yes

@بدون إسم be urself

Stop! don't be a misogynist.

1. Be strong and powerful 2. Have a vejay

@@PineappledoesnotbelongonPizza2 well she got atleast to be able to cook...

they could honestly do something similar to what this video is, except touch on the importance of femininity

@@PineappledoesnotbelongonPizza2 🤣

Baba Bono, with all the strength of a raging fire, mysterious as the dark side of the moon 😂

Baba Bono 😂😂😂

Hilarious😂

I'm never gonna catch my breath

Disney's last pro-man anything was that song.

Darth Vin "Wow, girls, look at that room temperature hunk a meat over there!". He is neither too hot nor too cold, he's...Lukewarm Man!

Darth Vin lmao

XD

And what would such lukewarm men be like?

Darth Vin the temperature is 29.7. quite hot right

Good point. Experience

Omg I saw you everywhere , mustache guy !

Hi dude! Nice to see you here too!

Like you know what being a man is like ,you spend all your day on KZfaq writing unoriginal comments and you also have an anime profile picture!!!

@@ssssSTopmotion being a man is a social construction , and anyone quite fit with the characteristics. So you're not a man either , and there's anything wrong with that. So stop attacking people idiot.

camokazi1313 but they change it all the time!

I could be wrong, but I get the strong sense that this is called or at least an adaptation of Dadaism

Norma I love that whole moving cardboard cutout look.

it's memful

PartiZAn18 This isn't anything remotely close to Dadaism.

Like a duck gliding in water - cool above the surface but paddling furiously underneath

mrD66M well said

dammit, stop reminding me about point 1 and 2. which I did for so long

How To Be A Man? Totally ignore female and focus on yourself and Jesus/God 110%.

Be Guts-y ....... XD

Lol I have literally been doing the same for over a month, loving it

Truly lovely

Seems a one-way ticket to becoming an alcoholic imo

That is true of women too.

Thanks for sharing it 💪🏻

The calm and reserved man is also the best provider and, by far, the most violent and effective should he have to defend his family from harm.

Lmfao

should have watched the whole video

😂😂😂😂

Temperature's rising!

Even if that's true, how did you get so confused about the video you did that, AND got more than 400 likes for it.

AeR But the warm man makes sure all the boys have a cold one to crack

kyle jensen truly poetic

YASS

And they don't drink Banana Daiquiris or Cosmopolitans.

AeR a cool man is a man who can understand the concept of MGTOW IS FREEDOM

What is chad exactly ?

@@wecantcontroltime a walmart version of a badass basically

But ending up a simp

Chad is a beta. Men need to be Mode One.

Unfortunately being the Chad gets the girl

Osuka M'balali hey i was curious

so what are you doing here? 😏

LOL

Νο, but surely a true man understands the purpose of this video, is aware of its statements and can recognize them... And someone who can be a bit successful too gets solutions to them.

This was very warm

Todoroki: Literally both

J U C H E N Todoroki: My man.

@@mrhyd3524 Your opinion: personally disagreed with, but, nevertheless, respected

💯

great one

you are describing Lord God Jesus Christ

this is like the realest shit anyone's ever said on youtube

I prefer a society that has standards. And since most of those standards are innate, all we really need to do is set realistic goals for our young men and build their confidence by allowing them to fail and learn instead of telling them they can be whatever they want, now sit down and shut up, have you had your ritalin?

Well said

Frederick Swan Forcing people to be up to specific standarts isn't really an optimal idea, pal. Wouldn't be the first time guys have killed themselves because they couldn't live up to what society expected of them. Just let people be as best as they can.

The irony is that everything you said is technically a definition

Junebugz There is a difference between being cold and being cool. Emotional numbness is emotional blindness, which results in miscommunication with one's own self and others. Emotional calm comes in recognising the emotions that rise, yet not being taken for a ride by them. This way, one has the perspective to act appropriately to it than simply being reactive to it. An individual who has made this as second nature to them may seem cold and distant, but their actions would command respect and speak wisdom than a thousand hollow words and reactions.

LuiKang043 Such wisdom, gosh I miss that in the people I meet

LuiKang043 Nice

Yes

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Who says we don't?)

Very Terry Gilliam...love it!

No

Wiraga Adi lol thought the same thing

Maybe Goku and Vegeta

Jotaro n josuke

Family Guy VS Bob's Burger

The cool man knew strength was necessary for peace. While the warm man knew love was necessary for peace.

I just hope more soft men watch It and man up

@@bol4death i hope i could man up :') (im 18)

@@yugouzumaki996 Its quite understandable and im 19 btw, Today's men have low testosterone and idk why. It's the media and how they treat them. Honestly real men are build through pain and adapted them as lessons and which makes them alpha. I'm a guy with a high testosterone due to having big hands, Thick neck, athletic body, body hair, Big nose and also big pp (Yes it's some details like that that makes you have high testosterone)

@@bol4death i do have some of the details u mentioned , and lack some of them as well, im working out to build a body (im not overweight, and used to do sport my entire life but i never actually tried to build my body uk) so im working on that, but the thing that i want to really work on it is the ability to say no and be more confident (i don't understand why im confident around some people and complete silence machine around others)

@@yugouzumaki996 How to say no, You say this because you realize you are a man as well and they have to accept It even If they cry about it. Don't be ppl pleaser by saying yes and agreeing on everything on their topic. Do not lie to yourself and them, And don't matter how they feel afterwards to you when you say no because you are also made in flesh like them, There's no difference except personality. You must have your own ideals and personality and should not care what others say about you and be worried about that. You say no to let them know that who they treating and talking Is a person too like them not a robot or slave. In time you will overcome fear and say no bit by bit. It all takes time hopefully it helps. Also saying no will earn you respect that Is makes you noticeable for your actions

The first thing i noticed about the picture was the eyes. They seem so expressive, and the first thing that went through my head when I saw the painting was: "He looks like he is in pain".

Thank you very much for the information. Just found that audio books of his stories are available on KZfaq.

It´s nice to read your lines, I am happy for you. I work with men and often see how the "too cool to care" mentality makes them really ill. If encouraged and not challenged, it warps the perception of reality and the self. Some of the most beautiful and profound moments are witnessing a man breaking through that wall of defence and false stances, looking the truth in the eye and accepting it. It takes a lot of courage and humility and is admirable. Take care of yourself and I wish you all the best.

Maria Urbel I feel too cool to care as a woman, because of my parents and their parents ( I guess it's a cultural thing).i remember as a kid when I cried my mother punished me. For many years I was disconnected with my emotions and I think now I'm trying to reconnect. But it's so hard without professional help

koshka marvel Dear person, I know it is difficult, it cannot be easy. In fact some patterns go through many generations before someone who is willing to challenge them brings upon a change. Families are quite rigid systems, each person, behavior, relationships, even illnesses have their own function. You have discovered important things about yourself and I hope you continue on this journey. If you feel professional help is necessary, do seek it. There might be painful moments ahead, but there is also light at the end of the tunnel: you can come out of it a stronger, wiser person.

Maria Urbel thank you for your support. I hope to find a real professional, unfortunately my previous attempts wasn't great.

There is a difference between being cold and being cool. Emotional numbness is emotional blindness, which results in miscommunication with one's own self and others. Emotional calm comes in recognising the emotions that rise, yet not being taken for a ride by them. This way, one has the perspective to act appropriately to it than simply being reactive to it. An individual who has made this as second nature to them may seem cold and distant, but their actions would command respect and speak wisdom than a thousand hollow words and reactions. It's the difference of neither ignoring the stinging leg pain you have nor obsessing over the sensation of it and avoiding any pressure on it, and instead finding out what the cause of the pain is and fixing that cause. If it be a cramp, then taking the decision to do appropriate stretches to fix the issue. A reactive would instead give it no such deeper thought and simply not put any strain on it and complain to everyone to accommodate for the problem without looking into fixing it properly.

Joy De ayyyeee

Thats funny. I’m a warm man called Luke.

I'd say your more of a tepid man, or maybe an above room temperature man.

Luke I'm your father!

And I am very good bad boy, I am also a day dreamer and a night worker.

underrated comment

Thanks for recognizing :) Most people watching the video will never read my comment though, too far down.

This is a really good comment and there's a lot of value in a balanced view like this. Consciousness of shared vulnerability, if thought through, should ultimately lead to a kind of confidence. I think TSoL probably chose to highlight the 'warm' side as a kind of activism. I feel our times are essentially narcissistic and competitive so foregrounding a compassionate realism is very worthwhile. And ultimately one cannot say everything that needs to be said in 4:32, so shifting the conversation positively has value as well.

This! This is it! I agree with every single word. I don't usually like comments but when I do I _really_ mean it.

I know that TSoL can be flawed, but the British accent keeps making me forget.

Every time they say try harder just to suck out your life force.

Every time they say try harder just to suck out your life force.

TISQUESUSA Man I love Clint but he breaks the coolmeter.

He's got sunshine in a bag

The future?

Gorillaz reference?

what about Steve McQueen?

Zzid I won't ruin the 69 likes

Merely lukewarm.

ohhh so youre making fun out of us right? bitch? lets have a silent Moment for the word women i mean look at it lolololololol i mean doesnt it look like a rip-off of the word man? pfff hahhahah

NEVER HUT!

Lmaooooo

You clearly have been paying attention to the wrong media, and you haven't been talking to many women. If you are interested, I can point you to a number of discussions of the problems of femininity, and its potential bad consequences for women and man alike. Or to more centered discussions about what femininity (or masculinity) should be, with interesting arguments on all sides.

No name is right. In current western society you are not allowed to criticize women as a group of Femininity without facing tremendous backlash. But it is perfectly fine to demonize men and masculinity all day. This is thanks in large part to Toxic Feminist as well is Conservative Traditionalism. This is why you frequently hear about how "Toxic" Masculinity is but NEVER here anything about femininity being Toxic or Negative at all. You hear people openly saying boys need to be taught not to rape but never hear the same said to girls. Same when it come to Violence. You hear "Never Hit A Girl" from a very young age repeated over and over again but how often do you hear "Never hit A boy"? Likely Never. This is the reality of our current sexist society that normalizes sexism against men by arguing sexism against men isn't even possible. Thanks Feminism.

No name is wrong, Titus (why not Aurelius?). It all depends who you talk to, and how open- or close-minded they are. Note that you are criticizing women as a group here and nothing happened. I have criticized women, men, and people as groups on different occasions, and I didn't see anybody react angrily to me -- as long as they hear me out. How about you? How comfortable are you with people who disagree with you?

That was indeed the traditional view in some (but by no means all) primitive cultures, but there is no reason to consider it as better than a view that says men, like women, have intrinsic value. The argument that women's existence has value in itself solely based on reproduction (which means, by the way, that women who couldn't reproduce were as 'valueless' as unproven men), while our modern sense of self worth needs something other than that. What once was is not what is, nor is there any reason for it to be inherently 'better' in any way than other ideas.

British Blue, I think she was in principle... agreeing with the idea of having exactly the discussion you're engaging in here. Maybe you didn't read her entire sentence: she said "we have no problem ABOUT HAVING A DISCUSSION", whereas you seem to have read "we have no problem" period. Doesn't it seem to you a little arrogant to ascribe to other people intentions or beliefs that they explicitly disavowed? How would you feel if she decided to tell you what you think or feel, and how much of "the problem" you are, without listening to what you are saying? But hey -- I am personally interested. In your opinion, feminism aside, what is femininity? What are women?

Me?

Haye Zette Oh, thank God, I thought for a sec there was a stalker or something.

Then again...is paranoia ever healthy? Was I a better man before I was dragged out of my so called normal behavior by a KZfaq stranger?

Had no idea there were so many folks that remembered Mulan about :D

TheGuyYouShouldListenTo Jr. best comments ever

Mr. Fabulous, the gardevoir the warm man is way too pathetic here and yes I know people who are perfectly described to be warm according to this video, and I gotta say its way too pathetic. Everything you said is correct but we don't live in times where we belong in one category. The cool guy in here is obsolete, too hardened by life, but then you have people like me who can write a book about life but chooses to let stuff go and because of experience I can relate to more people that way, my point is the true man according to my experiences has all these qualities and he uses them according to the person or situation at hand.

Mr. Fabulous, the gardevoir because thats what they are. if someone spills something on you you dont reward it with a big tip. If you do that you,re a wimp.

Well spoken

yea but the cool guy gets to fuck more and thats really whats life about for a man from a biological perspective

Warm men MAY be able to more easily make their woman feel cared and loved for...that is if anyone cares enough to date a warm man. I've been warm most of my life and didn't start getting noticed much by women until I started acting cooler. The only women who go after warm guys are the ones too insecure to be with cool guys

no fat chicks.

Fuck me did I laugh at the end hahahaaha

I've got most of those things, and even better then 6 pack abs, i've got a whole keg B-)

Fuck off with the vulnerability shit. Stocisim is ideal.

Haw haw

Since it's so hard to find a definition of what a cool or warm man is. I think you should just try to follow your own truth. As a women that's more attractive and that's what I do personally. The more you follow your emotions and don't deny them the more you're true to yourself.

@@thisisntallowed9560 But you are not your emotions. They aren't really a part of you. Following them won't get you anywhere, which of course doesn't automatically mean you can't experience and acknowledge having them in the first place. Perhaps you just worded it weirdly, nonetheless this advice seems weak to me.

@@patrolmostwanted I would argue we are both our emotions and our thoughts. That's why clinical depression exist. I shouldn't have said ''follow your emotion'' so quickly, I think we should always listen to our emotions, and use our rational mind to decide how we will act on them. Never listening to your emotion would leave you in a dark place I think. We know we are authentic when something ''feels right''. Also even if you decide to ignore your emotions, you will still act on them unconciously, so it's better to be concious... I learned that the hard way because my mother isn't emotionally intelligent/mature.

@@TheNaishproductions-tn3yb Partially true but it goes a bit deeper than that. It's a part of you that gets annoyed by that person after all and it's you who lets those bad emotions run rampant inside your head. You can of course end the relationship but after doing so you should also do some thorough mental self-examination and try to come out of it as a better person, so that you will be more stable the next time when something similar happens.

Iya dong

you mean it's warm tho

If you are interested in ideas regarding manhood feel free to challenge yourself with the videos I share on Mastery Order channel. I share Infos that might help you on your journey of becoming a mature man. All the best to you!

People are attracted to what they're attracted to, it's a completely individual preference. To say otherwise would be akin to denying the momentous degree of complexity that exists in the world around us. The world is not black and white.

Titus Orelius It's not "right now." It's always been the case. Biology, evolution.

GrenadeJunkie Just because individual preferences exist doesn't mean there aren't larger trends we can accurately observe and use. It is generally true that women are attracted to wealth, success and confidence. The qualities of the "cool man" represent that. Just because it's neither 0 nor 100% doesn't mean it's not a valid observation. Talk about black and white thinking. "The world around us is too complex" is a useless truism in the context of studying a specific thing or making a particular observation. It's about as relevant as saying "we can never be absolutely certain."

Titus Orelius I think they are attracted to a modern uninformed view of what a cool man really is. The most powerful men are not fully cool as traits such as being affable and having good social skills are important in business and power. A truly cool man is wild and a true warm man is domesticated. A powerful is neither entirely but balanced.

I actually yawned wtf

Beatrice T hey 🤨

🤣

wtf dude

very wise.

Marvi Rafael Montecillo Not really. It doesn't describe a shift as much as a number of personality traits.

BRo 100%

possibly

Martin Lazo Or grumpy

It's the other way around: the cool man is the warm man in the making IMo

Why was he putting women on a pedestal in the first place? "To thine own self be true." Likewise, a woman shouldn't put a man at the center of her universe, either -- we should be our own suns, and then reach out to others only once we're alright with ourselves and ourselves alone. Anything else is a folly that will end in "if only I had _____ I'll be happy!" thinking, which ends poorly. External validation is never the way to become alright with our true judge -- ourselves. The REALLY cool AND warm people know this. It's not about NOT caring about others -- it's about being TRULY fine with OURSELVES first and foremost.

Jessica F that sounds like Randian philosophy mixed with new age self-help dreck.

Mike k .... and then the new man is wise and remember how women treated him and what they are really after to and uses them as what they are heartless objects.

Very true. Although its not the only way, because some are born into this, but then again, very very true.

Luca Raimondo - I don't think mike k has so much enlightment as you do because his words were "he shows that he can support a family", so basically he kill himself trying to climb to the top just to have one of those dumb bitches that treat him like shit on top of himself.

Jordan Leach feminist would freak out about misogyny or something so probably not

NekoWolf, not necessarily. Their video would probably talk about the double standards and warring demands that society makes on its women - then it might talk about how to ignore all the impossible goals and just live your life in a way that makes you happy while harming as few people as possible. At least that's what I would write.

Jordan Leach people are already freaking out here over this video so

Computer17Blue Yeah. Pretend like that's true.

abhishek kumar FYI that did recently happen,it was in the news and I've read MANY stories in the past that go the same way.It's a constant cycle.

This, gentlemen, is the essence of all philosophy.

Mago Tropical Be a balanced warm/cool man and inherit the earth.

Joseph Brand do what You know You have to do.

Best advice: 1. Crush your enemies. 2. Enslave the survivors. 3. Acquire currency. That's how my great-great-grand daddy did it.

These are not extremes. These are both absolute truths. I incorporated both into the essence of my character and what i found is that i became the most attractive person in any setting at all times people are practically gravitating to me and i became everyones friend and for no other reason.

"It is sad to have no friends. It is even sadder to have no enemies." You "incorporated both into the essence of your character?" So you are pretending. You are a fake. You don't incorporate these things son. Thy are either a part of you o they aren't.

Tony Gambino well i guess you're right about that. So maybe i misphrased the actual meaning what i wanted to convey. What i meant was i have found myself growing into them without me noticing. I just reached an understanding of people that made sympathize with them and vice versa. I don't have enemies not because i suck up to anyone or because i act in any way or form incongruently with my character but rather because ive found away to breach the wall of misunderstanding between me and others by putting myself in the shoes of those im talking to at any moment. In the end what i found is that people arent so different from you and I. We just pursue the same desires differently due to different beliefe sets. What pains us stem from those same desires basically but we give them different reasons than whats actually aching us. I don't have enemies because I learned how to deal with their pain and their beliefs in a way not to disrespect them while informing people about how to not disrespect me. And they listen because I don't give them reason to harm me as anyone else does. Enemies are nothing but two souls unable to communicate properly. The idea one would want to harm another is nothing more than misinterpretation. In reality no one cares about anything but their own happiness. And once you discover the key to happiness and piece of mind you start to notice how to help people get what they really need and want. Granted i've yet to discover the whole truth about the subject myself but somehow i managed to make an internal science and a philosophy about it that just works good enough for my needs and others for now.

Great point. It's all about perception

Thats because if he is confident enough to do that, than he doesnt have too many of vulnerabilities to open up in the first place; he is a cool guy. Regular guys (the ones that are easy to find) are as insecure as you can get.

vulnerability is weakness. why do you have to see mens weaknesses? .the only thing you can do with that is use it against us when the relationship goes left. i see being vulnerable as putting a knife on my back that someone can push in whenever they see fit

Ability to understand the very nature of flaws in humans is more a strength than a weakness. It' seems like your perception of what characterizes real strength and integrity is warped.

maybe I misinterpreted what Freya Shipley meant by openly vulnerable. I just don't think its a good idea to trust anyone too much. I know people who have been ruined because they were sharing things that they should have kept to themselves.

This is exactly what she means. A man whose strong in vulnerability is a man whose strong in an area most men are weak in. It is rare.

exactly.

Snap...

Preach

This applies to all humans, but dammit I'm so bad at the last part! I know in those moments that I am losing my shit and that I can stop and do better, but I just WON'T STOP LOSING MY SHIT BRUH!!

@@melnjada2 In those moments it's the lizard brain taking control, making your brain scream DANGER. When that happens I try to remember that no matter what, the outcome is always better if my human brain takes control and manages the situation. Psychological risk management or "how not to freak out" is something that can be improved, if it couldn't then proffessions like military or pilot would not exist

ian birchfield Because when cold and warmth colide you get a storm.

Warm air rises and cool air sinks. Put 'em together and you're goin' no where

ian birchfield Yes, you hit the nail on the head. Men who are both exist on a higher plane and have very little competition. I am striving to be such a man and to balance my moral and amoral side.

ToniHimself Agreed. People are attracted to storms. They are dangerous and frightening but regal and majestic at the same time.

I think it's possible to be both cool AND warm. Cool in that you cultivate your unify your profession, passion, and potential into your life's purpose, and that is a sheer booster of raw charisma. Warm in that you elevate those around you and demonstrate emotional awareness on par with your highest vocational skills (with luck, even unifying the two). I believe if one can be both cool and warm at the same time, they will be unstoppable.

Who are you kidding?

I guess that's a personal philosophy

everyone needs approval. that is just cool - man talk again. :)

Having a penis wouldn’t make you a real man! Pure toxic masculinity.