How to be a priority not an option - 4 powerful steps that work

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@audra1976oliver 10 ай бұрын

Im just thankful I had a good marriage. After listening to this, i think about how easy it was with my husband with high compatibility. Hes been gone 4 years and it seems like forever sometimes. Compatibility is so important. Dont ever settle for someone just because youre lonely. Being a widow is a whole different learning curve.

@thejackbutler 10 ай бұрын

Glad you had that ❤️

@justine8118 10 ай бұрын

Compatibility in all parts of one's life is so important for a healthy and lasting relationship

@audreyandrea460 10 ай бұрын

The first point feels like a bucket of ice water poured over my head. I definitely expected the nearly impossible upgrade.

@bekstayo 10 ай бұрын

oh my gosh! I am so glad i'm not the only one who feels that way. I've stopped watching because i have to process it and admit it's what I have been doing, before i can go on to "ice bucket over the head" number two.

@helenzielasek1812 10 ай бұрын

I Love it. Be sober. Very clear. Thank you !!!!

@lightbodies 10 ай бұрын

Oh my gosh, so sober and logical and refreshing! I feel empowered even thinking about approaching future relationships with my head on straight like you are suggesting. Thanks for that!

@thejackbutler 10 ай бұрын

Happy for this 🙏

@elskar1 10 ай бұрын

I was downgraded to one night per week with the offer to be upgraded to 2 nights again. If I were to commit to hang in there while he takes a few more years to get a divorce…I said it’s a no go and a few months later, I’ve been replaced so it’s probably a blessing in disguise and I’m glad I was staying true to prioritising me finally

@thejackbutler 10 ай бұрын

Yeah does sound like a blessing. Well done for prioritising you 🙏

@IkaMiranti 10 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@mn9120 10 ай бұрын

You have such a calm vibe. Thank you for sharing it. 🙏 It is simple, we complicate our lives. 😊

@thejackbutler 10 ай бұрын

Thank you. I like having that impact.

@graceperez5620 10 ай бұрын

This message came at the perfect time for me....thank you❤

@yvonneschermerhorn866 10 ай бұрын

I like the graph example!

@thejackbutler 10 ай бұрын

Glad it was landing! May have to crack out the whiteboard next time! ;)

@anon_ya 10 ай бұрын

Very helpful

@bellagrace947 10 ай бұрын

Useful. A great reminder!🙌🙌🙌

@thejackbutler 10 ай бұрын

😊

@Jakilyn 10 ай бұрын

My recent ex was completely out of alignment with me. I was never a priority. I couldn't even get a 5 minute phone call over a 2 week period. His priorities were guy friends, alcohol & sports. Yet he claimed I was his "everything" and wanted to "build with me" he just didn't want me enough I guess. I had no choice but to end it

@thejackbutler 10 ай бұрын

Sounds like you found your clarity 🙏

@livyogilife 10 ай бұрын

I’m going through the same thing…struggling with do I stay or go

@Jakilyn 10 ай бұрын

@@livyogilife I can't speak for you, but I wish I'd ended it sooner. Once they show you that you aren't a priority the first time, it's time to go. Wish them well and move on. Life is precious ✨️