How to Be Effortlessly Charming: The Rock

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The Rock is someone who is extremely charming. He carries himself with a certain level of poise, right? From his smile, to secret handshakes, and the infamous eyebrow raise. And it all seems so EFFORTLESS, how is that? Seems like he's just "got it".
In this video, I break down some verbal and nonverbal cues that make Dwayne The Rock Johnson so charming and teach you how you can use those cues to become the most charming person in the room! Who would have thought these simple gestures could be so easy to learn...almost effortless 😉
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:43 The Smolder
3:29 Captivating Gestures
7:15 Dig Deep
9:58 The Savor Smile
11:29 Verbal Mirroring
14:26 Encouraging Touch
15:28 Eyebrow Raise
17:48 You are effortlessly charming
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@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Learn more about effortless charm in the article!: www.scienceofpeople.com/dwayne-johnson-body-language/

@yukasketch 9 ай бұрын

I love it when there are clear examples to each point

@vernaharris4700 2 жыл бұрын

He always seems so confifent. As big as he is, he seems so thoughful and gentle. I've always liked him.

@StrategicStripping 2 жыл бұрын

You're an incredible human being Vanessa. I've learned a lot from you, and I really appreciate the work you put out into the world. I find your fun-loving, transparent, silly self very admirable 😊 I wish I didn't already have a 10AM commitment. I'm looking forward to watching this later though 🙂🙏🏼

@MichaelRadi 2 жыл бұрын

Dolly Parton! Why is she so universally liked? Her cues have to be part of it!

@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 2 жыл бұрын

“You were born with wings, why prefer to crawl through life?” ― Rumi

@aparicioAA100 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe that guy is the "Rock", but you are certainly the Wonder woman! Your superpower is that pure and energetic vibe of yours.

@DiegoHernandez-bx7yw Жыл бұрын

Vanessa has become one of my favorites! I'm loving her book 'Cues' and these videos are also extraordinary. Top notch content and presentation, I'm super impressed by everything. Sending lots of thanks and love to Vanessa and the Science of People team!

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words! Thank you for reading and watching!!

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@user-rk2hx2bx1x 11 ай бұрын

I love the break downs of the different body language cues from public figures. It is super helpful and shows that anyone can use their body language as a superpower. I think it would be intriguing to see the breakdown of CEOs and founders. Some that come to mind are Ray Dalio, Gary Vaynerchuk (Vee), Elon musk, and others. Thank you for the awesome content and learning, you've helped me break out of my shell and build awareness to my body language.

@ScienceOfPeople 11 ай бұрын

I'm so glad you like this type of content! Thanks for the suggestion. I'm truly honored to have helped you break out of your shell 🙏

@Dragon_heart233 2 жыл бұрын

Your a guardian angel Vanessa.. lots of love and hugs to you

@joy-lopes 2 жыл бұрын

You're so creative! Learned a lot here, thank you!

@msnn5291 2 жыл бұрын

Love this analysis and the specific cues demonstrated. Plus omg, the Rock! Perfect subject matter. What a great guy.

@mikekimmel8544 2 жыл бұрын

Great message as always, Vanessa. Thanks for breaking down so well. You rock!

@bleezyit8293 2 жыл бұрын

No pun intended

@cristinareimers7833 10 ай бұрын

Thank you, Vanessa! This is Cris from, Madrid, Spain. You are such a great teacher .... (captivating gesture) Watching ordinary people's gestures always intrigues me. Especially watching moms and dads talk to their kids. That's when I see all the cues you have talked about in this magnificent video. Take care and keep them comin'! haha

@ScienceOfPeople 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, Cris! I appreciate you following along - looking forward to sharing more content with you. :)

@ethel1690cardew 2 жыл бұрын

Vanessa I listen to you before I go to sleep....your voice is very relaxing soothing.....then listen and watch your video again. Very informative very in depth....love them

@davidlovemensah1980 Жыл бұрын

I love this video, thanks so much Vannesa Van Edwards.

@filmstashnetflix 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so grateful that I bought your book, Cues, on a whim. I seriously love what you’re teaching!

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the support! I'm glad to know you loved it =) I hope it helped in some way

@josetom2736 9 ай бұрын

Great insight. Thank you so much.

@ScienceOfPeople 9 ай бұрын

So glad it was helpful - thank you for watching!

@virenpatel6666 2 жыл бұрын

thanks !!

@carmenortiz1342 2 жыл бұрын

👍🤗 happy holidays for you and your family Vanessa...Blessings ! You are amazing 💕

@gjd8849 2 жыл бұрын

Informative video. (I like all of your stuff). I always thought the single eyebrow raise was the one Dwayne gesture that was contrived. The others seem genuine. Thanks, V!

@bonjo8165 2 жыл бұрын

That was fun! Your a very engaging person. I think you would be so intrigued with Russell Brand. He was on MSNBC. They were so rude with him so he did every trick in the book. Very charming. Never raised his voice but they knew if they were good or bad😂

@DariusLong 2 жыл бұрын

That was a great video and your eyebrows are on fleek, btw. 😉 I think Neil Patrick Harris would be an interesting person to study

@selyemperzsa1 2 жыл бұрын

Brilliant video. The examples were very helpful, they will help me in the new job. :-)

@pollypocket7125 2 жыл бұрын

A lot of your videos remind me of content I’ve seen on Charisma on Command. He had used The Rock for examples like this a lot too! Very interesting stuff, thank you!

@maihealthnow6716 Жыл бұрын

Great video - I have your book on audibles- but could not conceptualize the smolder until I saw this video!

@susanmckenzie1055 2 жыл бұрын

Love this video...tough day at the office, indeed! Haha!

@ligiasommers 2 жыл бұрын

Fun and helpful 🙏🏻🌹

@advancedraymondology2914 2 жыл бұрын

You doing the "captivating gestures" along with the Rock was boss-level cute.

@EmmanuelFonte 2 жыл бұрын

So good!

@sindypetronella 2 жыл бұрын

love her teachings

@susaneshelman Жыл бұрын

I’d enjoy Hearing Vanessa dissect Dolly Parton’s charisma cues!

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the suggestion!

@memikel1489 2 жыл бұрын

The person I'd like to see you analyze your next viral video is...🤔 yourself Vanessa ...you are a complete rock star .. I appreciate you ALWAYS being EXCEPTIONAL

@Pdotta1 2 жыл бұрын

"Smolder" works for Rock because he's known for the humor of it, back to the wrestling days.When/If I do it, people think I'm scowling at them - not friendly. :-) To be honest, Rock comes off a bit inauthentic to me. He's all about business and will sell whatever he has to be sold at full intensity whether its good or not. He knows what he's doing when he does that. Great talk, thank you!

@TheFinalWhistleTV 2 жыл бұрын

Great content 💕

@jdill3350 2 жыл бұрын

Love this video! This is amazing, wonder if you have any recommendations on being more charming in written communication?

@stephenkushner8127 8 ай бұрын

Already have the book. It is great!!

@ScienceOfPeople 8 ай бұрын

Amazing!! So glad you enjoyed it ❤

@simkyjshah 2 жыл бұрын

You are effortlessly charming Vanessa!😍

@956recon 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome 👍 vid

@iihimiko 2 жыл бұрын

Your videos deserve more views :)

@dimitridehouck9506 2 жыл бұрын

dear God I love these video's they are so priceless! I bought your book yesterday.

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I hope you love it!

@supplychainsants 2 жыл бұрын

Charisma, Clarity , and Confidence, in Your Cues. Best Wishes 🤲 For Your Novel Book 👍 "CUES".

@mainelycify 11 ай бұрын

Good stuff

@ScienceOfPeople 11 ай бұрын

So glad you enjoyed!

@VeganEmpowermentCoaching 2 жыл бұрын

Love this information! I would like for you to analyze John Malkovich.

@KJC.91 2 жыл бұрын

I always find great value in Your videos, surely some of the best content online. 🌟🎯🏅 I would greatly appreciate seeing Your evaluation of Russell Brand.

@peppyminimalist3504 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for such an engaging and useful content, Vanessa. P.S. I always like your red dresses. I wish I knew where you get them :)

@MiranUT 2 жыл бұрын

Great video! Great gestures, Vanessa! I've learned so much from you over the years! Check the sound in the room you are recording in. Can you get something to absorb the reverberations in the room? It's a small thing, but the only thing slightly amateurish about the video. LOVE the dress!

@VijayKumar-rf1ow 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly I love u mam, because u r the best

@niadurha2159 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks much 🙂 Please do angelina jolie

@user-vm7xf2cj6r 2 жыл бұрын

i love you Dr vanea

@jennatalia9333 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the super powers ❤️

@cookingfordads 2 жыл бұрын

You are such a blessing to me. Thank you so much. I would like you to analyze John Krasinski or Reese Witherspoon. Thanks for all you've taught me.

@GraemeHawley1 2 жыл бұрын

Great video, I got a lot from it. Please do Jurgen Klopp

@bluechipcoach Жыл бұрын

One thing that the Rock did in the first clip which was not discussed (happy to be wrong) is the head tilt warmth

@kendracrispin5327 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this series, Vanessa. I'm already seeing many ways to apply what I learn from your videos, including the ones from Creative Life and People School. Would you be able to pick a few introverts who are charming? I keep hearing that Keanu Reeves is one, and he's highlighted as a person to watch for good charming body language.

@Poetry4Peace 2 жыл бұрын

YEES plsss

@NathalieLazo 2 жыл бұрын

Extraordinary person reading this, you are not define by your circumstance or your past. It’s not what happened to you that determines your success in life; it is how you deal with those circumstances that determines your success in life! You are strong, you are capable and practice forgiveness and gratitude everyday. This will change the course of your life forever! Love you always and I believe in you wholeheartedly ✨❤️ - Nat

@DavidLoveOfficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you :) Have you read Letting Go by David Hawkins?

@obadakhammash2680 2 жыл бұрын

I would recommend analysing Keanu reeves.

@kayleesolveigh 2 жыл бұрын

I first stumbled upon you, Vanessa, 5-6 years ago.. I was in Indonesia and tried to order your book from the US but it didn't arrive.. so I continued watching you on YT! Even your early videos have helped me a lot as a person in many circumstances. You and your incredible team deserve an acknowledgement. By the way, don't you think KATE BECKINSALE oozes that distinctive charm as well?

@otomatiasko5674 2 жыл бұрын

Nice! :) Can you do Nick Offerman pls?

@stickweldingro2054 2 жыл бұрын

Nice :)

@ThomasHordeMedia 2 жыл бұрын

All of your work and research is inspiring and immensely powerful thank you thank you thank you ! :)

@cindycoleman5196 5 ай бұрын

Great video. Would love you to analyze Jimmy Kimball, and Fallon.

@ScienceOfPeople 5 ай бұрын

Great suggestions! Thank you!

@shaheenmunawar3309 2 жыл бұрын

Dwayne Johnson does this in a natural way. This suits him. You are right. His conversation becomes more powerful. He drives ahead his ideas this way. You are absolutely right. But it varies from person to person. I know actions and gestures are powerful.

@memathews 2 жыл бұрын

So now we can smolder and smize for effect 😁

@tuckerdixon8032 2 жыл бұрын

The Rock's wrestling background is why he's so good at nonverbal communication. Professional wrestling is storytelling and the action of the "fight" is not mic'd so they must tell the story nonverbally. You could easily watch a WWE event with no sound and be able to retell the storyline.

@niadurha2159 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks much 🙂 Angelina Jolie

@Underdog_Basketball 2 жыл бұрын

Great video! I think professional wrestlers in general are very charming people. The person I would love to see one of these videos for is Brad Pitt mostly because you said he was more of a quiet Alpha male, when we don't typically think of Alpha Males as quiet. I feel like I identify more naturally with him. Also, I'd love to see one on BRUCE LEE just to some Asian American men in there too 😁 Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us!

@plakette26 2 жыл бұрын

The Rock ist auch a charming and lovely person. I love watching him. And I'm feeling you have a crush on him, too 🥰 cause you talk way faster and more excited about hin then in your other videos. I love that 🥰🥰

@filmyflies 2 жыл бұрын

Please make a video about Ryan Reynolds also

@HULKITUP 2 жыл бұрын

Great videos and we want more. Could you analyze Denzel Washington

@spa11199 Жыл бұрын

Oh Vanessa, can you share your wisdoms on being charming/ charismatic/ encourage positive energy in virtual set up (meetings, face time). Curiosity, is there equivalent of touch in virtual set up? :) New subscriber... Recovering ackward...

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Great question! You may find this article helpful: www.scienceofpeople.com/zoom-etiquette/ If you have more questions about this after reading the article, feel free to email support@scienceofpeople.com with your questions.

@DavidLoveOfficial 3 ай бұрын

Excellent work! I'd love to see your analysis of Russell Brand, Craig Ferguson & Prince. All charming in their own ways.

@ScienceOfPeople 3 ай бұрын

Thanks! 🙏🏻 They're interesting too! great suggestions!

@nityamsendabee1237 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video Vanessa :) Is there any chance you could please analyse Arnold Schwarzenegger?

@aspiretoinspire9679 2 жыл бұрын

Dwayne tends to be decisive, forward-thinking, and spontaneous with a natural aversion to rigid structure. As a Type Three, Dwayne tends to be ambitious, adaptable, and enthusiastic. Dwayne is generally driven and loves to set and accomplish goals. As an ENTP, Dwayne tends to be expressive, curious, and spontaneous.🥺🥺🥺

@sementhrower9161 2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@jzen1455 2 жыл бұрын

I'm an indecisive INFP who tends to be stubbornly set in his ways. I'm going to try to ask myself "What would the Rock do?" from now on.

@amysinger2201 8 ай бұрын

Stephen Colbert... I am constantly amazed at the information he is able to get folks to share in a radically short amount of time! some are classically tight-lipped difficult interviews and he manages to get them to open up in a few minutes. He is obviously an example of how is own openness about his trauma puts others at ease, but I feel like his theater training has given him a wealth of cues that magnify that ease... just curious. I am a tutor that needs to put students at ease right away, but i am also neurodiverse, so I really appreciate your breakdowns.

@ScienceOfPeople 8 ай бұрын

So glad you liked this one!

@Shivam-bj6my 2 жыл бұрын

Love from India🇮🇳🇮🇳

@robertnaab2711 Жыл бұрын

So now that I’ve been following you for a while and I do really appreciate all the things you do pulling out. I must say it’s very obvious that you have some sort of crush on the rock or maybe his “ock lol

@Mike_Virata Жыл бұрын

That's a nice shirt.

@loveabundance1111 2 жыл бұрын

emilia clarke! emilia clarke! emilia clarke! I love your videos and emilia clarke is one of my alter egos. I love the way she scrunches her nose and squints her eyes whenever she laughs!

@loveabundance1111 2 жыл бұрын

Please break down the charisma of emilia clarke.

@sandrapark4738 2 жыл бұрын

Great video. How about Lucy in I Love Lucy. She has such an expressive face.

@oneminutedaily6394 2 жыл бұрын

What a great video ! More videos like these on more people 👍🏼

@seamasmanly 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You! How about Mick Jagger?

@twils25 2 жыл бұрын

Have you ever thought to do one on Prince? That would be a great one

@Tothamoon 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for what you do, this has helped me greatly by showing the people around me that I care about them not just with my words but with my actions and body language. I have been very interested into reading both of your books. Which should I read first?

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Omg!! Thank you so much for being here and for the support! ❤ Captivate should be read first and then Cues =) Here is the Amazon link to both: www.amazon.com/Captivate-Succeeding-Vanessa-Van-Edwards/dp/0399564489/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1657066206&sr=8-1 & www.amazon.com/Cues-Master-Language-Charismatic-Communication/dp/0593332199/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1657066241&sr=8-2

@Tothamoon 2 жыл бұрын

@@ScienceOfPeople thanks so much!

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

@@Tothamoon To your success!

@aimenazim8898 Жыл бұрын

I must say your videos are fun to watch and there is always something to learn from. I would be happy to see video on Cillian Murphy main character from "Peaky Blinders" in my opinion he is the true alpha male, and he also made a lot of jesture in the whole series which made him heard in the room and got him the postion of leader.

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this suggestion!

@mommymanux 2 жыл бұрын

Great content! Can you do RuPaul? Thanks!

@dominicgutierrez1809 2 жыл бұрын

WHOOO LAUREN WHOOOOO!!!!

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks 💞

@abhijayagaming1851 Жыл бұрын

👍👍

@hk-1290 2 жыл бұрын

Vanessa can you do a segment about the "Charm 🌞" that is Danny Devito 😉!

@tontuella7346 2 жыл бұрын

I second this!

@jonr191 2 жыл бұрын

Is it the tightening of both lids as if you're trying to improve visual and or auditory focus because if so, I think I already do this

@thandolekoetje6848 Жыл бұрын

Please make a video on Keanu Reeves

@sarahcover7248 2 жыл бұрын

I love her dress it is so pretty! Does anyone know where I could order it?

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

My wardrobe is nothing but Amazon!

@aciddevil 2 жыл бұрын

If you want to see her points on eye gestures and raising eyebrows, look up Damon Salvatore from the show Vampire Diaries. Although he can exaggerate a little, it's still effective

@omnificent22 2 жыл бұрын

Please do maya rudolph, kristeen wiig, ana gasteyer, or tina fey !!!!

@prophet8photo 2 жыл бұрын

If you haven’t done one yet, you should do a Craig Ferguson video on how he used to flirt shamelessly with his guests on the late late show when he was the host. There are other videos on KZfaq that show examples but it would be awesome to watch you break down the verbal and physical cues and also how the other person reacts

@alwazyousuf280 Жыл бұрын

you are doing well....please discuss body language of engin altan

@kenechionuora299 2 жыл бұрын

You are effortlessly beautiful 🥰

@highperformer5532 2 жыл бұрын

Last minute of video was incredibly fun and charming even according to Vanessa's high standards.)

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Oh, why thank you! 😊

@crystalwinter9969 Жыл бұрын

Amazing I didn’t know it was called mirroring, but I have been doing this for years. I tell people that I feel like a Chamaeleon not because I blend in but because I blend well with various groups of people.

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Excellent insight! We're so glad you found this information helpful. :)

@1x0x 5 ай бұрын

we all do it on some level...