How To Be The Most Charming Person In The Room

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Have you ever wished there was a blueprint you could follow to make people instantly like you? Good news, there kind of is! All you have to do is follow the 3 Fs. Be Fascinating, Funny, and make them Feel Good.
I know, easier said than done. But in today’s video, you’ll get a set of tools that make it easy to do each. We’ll do this by breaking down some of today’s most charismatic celebrities, most prominently Will Smith and Chris Hemsworth, so you have real life examples you can model.
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How To Confidently Flirt With Anyone:
• 7 Attractive Habits Th...
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:26 - #1: Set stakes to hook people
1:22 - #2: Make your stories Immersive
2:33 - #3: Make your story relatable
3:53 - #4: Use the charades method
6:16 - #5: Use the fake out method
7:36 - #6: Use contagious laughter
10:10 - #7: Give high quality compliments
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@KarlKoesser 2 жыл бұрын

Lmao I love how every time the narrator says to avoid being fake, Jimmy Fallon is on screen. Your editing is noticed and appreciated 🤣

@lottostuuud 2 жыл бұрын

💀💀💀

@hellfish2309 2 жыл бұрын

Not his fault Jimmy earns it

@Aixmad 2 жыл бұрын

and when he said sarcasm can be interpreted wrong he showed brie larson lmao

@tamararizer3138 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@iagobroxado 2 жыл бұрын

Gotta keep consistency hehe

@maniac3292 2 жыл бұрын

Will's just enthusiastic and attractive to anyone but his wife

@Lycan23beast 2 жыл бұрын

Dammmmmn

@24irishka 2 жыл бұрын

It's easy to like someone when you get to see bits and pieces of someone's personality. In a day to day life people tend to take it for granted, OR there's other sides of it. We can't know the whole picture, but just the people close to him.🤷‍♀️

@maniac3292 2 жыл бұрын

@@24irishka either Will's a humongous simp or its all just negative publicity stunt.

@ohkayethen 2 жыл бұрын

lmao damn man 😂

@manicmurph 2 жыл бұрын

It's cause he's bi sexual and his sugar daddy is a guy named benny madine. True story.

@trymeimalreadyaghost1456 2 жыл бұрын

After watching several videos of charisma on command I've found little bits and pieces of the advice creeping into my conversations so I'm hooked going to keep watching and rewatching.

@justinfernandez9876 2 жыл бұрын

Bro I rewatch videos I already watched because this information is golden and I always forget most of them

@kendawgthemasterdude 2 жыл бұрын

You'll notice you absorb things gradually, but real improvement comes a lot quicker if you consciously apply their tips

@zabava3248 2 жыл бұрын

@@kendawgthemasterdude This☝️

@mariannaanagnostopoulou6624 2 ай бұрын

that's what I.m going to do, watch this for days. I remember when I was a teen I'd watch friends all the time and pretty soon I started joking like Chandler. It's been years since then and I don't do it as much, but watching something can really help

@inskinov412 2 жыл бұрын

I'd love to have the charisma Will Smith has. The ability to walk up on stage and slap a comedian across the face in front of the world, and later, make a speech about how good of a person I am. so brave.

2 жыл бұрын

It's always really uplifting when you watch a Charisma on Command video, and you already do some of the things in the video.

@highliving-animatedvideos5831 2 жыл бұрын

*7 habits that make people instantly like you* 0:27 - Set stakes to hook people into your stories 1:25 - Make your story immersive 2:36 - Make your story relatable 3:58 - Use the charades method 6:18 - Use the fake-out method 7:41 - Tell stories you find funny to trigger contagious laugh 10:13 - Give high quality compliments Hope this helps! *High Living* 🚀🌙

@Godongo 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

@GHIBaal 2 жыл бұрын

GIVE THIS MEN A CAPE

@atomicdancer 2 жыл бұрын

Question: How to tell interesting stories, and also keep people off your private property? Answer: Set stakes to hook people.

@ayan1618 2 жыл бұрын

@@GHIBaal its already present in the description

@kindboy3140 2 жыл бұрын

Tricks to tell fascinating story 1. Tell the story in present tense 2. Use sound effects 3. Embody yourself and your characters

@Lewis_Jones 2 жыл бұрын

3FF’s. Be fascinating, funny and make them feel good! Good storytelling is a gift. Setting stakes is a massive tip!

@TwistedTriggerEnduro 2 жыл бұрын

Watched these videos for years and can confirm, they work. Being genuine, open, honest, and funny are critical. Working on being funny. The rest shouldn't be that difficult for most. 💪

@SeanLunny 2 жыл бұрын

Be genuine and people will gravitate to you

@oneworldonehome 2 жыл бұрын

"The great relationships will come in facing great change and difficulty because it is within this environment that the deeper and truer nature of people becomes evident. And people will have to choose a greater allegiance within themselves and a greater allegiance to others. This is where great relationships become recognized, cultivated and expressed." A quote from *The Great Waves of Change* - a free online book I warmly recommend!

@AxxLAfriku 2 жыл бұрын

My haters throw rocks at me and IT hurts. I hope they don't throw The Rock at me because I like him as an actor. GAGAGAGAGA!!! I am funny!!! I am the funniest KZfaqr EVAH! Please agree, dear ib

@infamouscoffee4934 2 жыл бұрын

@@AxxLAfriku what did I just read

@julieann1975 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@johnchapman5125 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Ivan.

@charleelastname4262 2 жыл бұрын

I just want to say.. I used to watch your vids with only people I liked in the thumbnails but you've proved yourself to be a good youtuber and now I watch all of the vids. Basically what I'm trying to say is that I was so picky and judgemental but you have helped get my out of that state. You've helped in more ways than you know, thanks. Keep on doing a great job 😁

@MahyarJavadi 2 жыл бұрын

I was watching a video on the Breaking bad Crew on the Graham Norton show, the way Bryan Cranston tells stories is amazing, there has to be a video on him.

@mochaest1994 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been acting like this lately and can confirm it’s a great way to make connections

@eyepodwalkman6247 2 жыл бұрын

If you're a celeb people will hang on your every word and find everything you say delightful.

@djtdawg87 2 жыл бұрын

Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

@rebeccam2176 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed he should be a video on power or being a leader cause I’d follow him anywhere

@mr.e6748 2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss

@CarolinaGirl6919 2 жыл бұрын

There are certainly some very strong psych and social methods he puts to good use.

@iamhis4749 2 жыл бұрын

I have natural charisma and have allway's had people tell me that i'm the life of the party but through depression and some hard times i kind of lost my spark for life but these video's remind me of the good times, when i used to really connect with people. Thankyou, it's such a positive way to encourage people to use their qualities to the best of their ability and to feel more confident, liked and included. Everyone likes to feel seen and heard and that's important. Just remember that you're all beautiful and unique in your own way and you all have something awesome to offer. Just believe in yourself. This is a really great channel! 👍 Much love!

@kayelle8005 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes people with natural charisma are the last ones anyone thinks to check in on. They seem so confident and at ease it can be difficult for people to consider that is only part of that person’s persona and experience. I hope you have reclaimed some of your spark and that your friends are supportive.

@hypnero7664 10 ай бұрын

Binging videos from this channel.... never gets old, like a refresher even after yrs

@jetsetwithjess8752 2 жыл бұрын

This is soooo accurate! So many people I love have these traits!

@brtats 2 жыл бұрын

tried these and im engaged right now! you've changed my life

@tylerharrell9862 2 жыл бұрын

Love storytelling techniques, will be trying to remember these when out 😂 practice, practice, practice.

@EzekJohnson 2 жыл бұрын

This is a GEM. Thank you so much charisma on command for sharing this amazing video

@sriram181 2 жыл бұрын

Can you please start using non celebrity people as examples cuz yk , majority form a positive bias towards celebs making them automatically charismatic in people's subconscious mind I feel . Thank you ❤️❤️

@peterDcontact 2 жыл бұрын

Why would someone click on a video talking about someone who is not famous? They want people to watch this videos. They can talk about criminals, but those are also famous in a way.

@sriram181 2 жыл бұрын

@@peterDcontact still man , my point being celebrities automatically form a charismatic charm in the audience's subconscious mind because of their status , and I've seen many people as " charismatic " as Will Smith who are not treated the way will Smith is solely because they weren't " WILL SMITH "

@peterDcontact 2 жыл бұрын

@@sriram181 that true. Fame beauty and money influence people's opinion, unfortunately

@willcover6142 2 жыл бұрын

@@peterDcontact because everyone knows famous people are charismatic. You would want to know and see how it works for people that are not in the public eye.

@IndieRockerHippy 2 жыл бұрын

Have you ever done a video on Sam Rockwell? He's definitely one of the most charismatic and charming guys around. So lovable.

@DemetriPanici 2 жыл бұрын

*"Just keep in mind: the more we value things outside our control, the less control we have." -Epictetus*

@hammads9045 2 жыл бұрын

48 laws of power, just read this line a few days ago

@xmateosx 2 жыл бұрын

Raise the stakes! What great advice to give an aspiring storyteller. Thanks

@miguelwill421 2 жыл бұрын

Always very good, is your job! Thank you!

@MONEYSNEAKERS 2 жыл бұрын

consistently good content -- never stop guys

@BrothaNeo 2 жыл бұрын

This is an excellent video and it does speak truth! Especially with the helping other people feel good. One of the major things I have noticed about being a likable person is ENERGY! Positive energy is essential and is the underlining factor on if people will like you or not. Everyone shown in this video as great examples ALL exhibited positive energy! The other important thing is your own personal development! Personal development will allow you to be more comfortable and relaxed about yourself. Allowing you to come across as authentic instead of artificial. I speak so much about personal development on my NeoOneness Subliminals KZfaq channel because I am a personal development consultant.

@NeoOnenessSubliminals 2 жыл бұрын

My other channel is here.

@n-silvabts9178 2 жыл бұрын

I love your videos! Can you make one for teachers? And, if possible, for teaching different ages of students? Children, pre-teens, teens and adults? Please? Please?

@stijnnoorman 2 жыл бұрын

Charisma on Command with another great video, I hope you'll reach 5mil this week. Good luck guys! 💪

@IsaacJoshi 2 жыл бұрын

*"Impressing people is utterly different from being truly impressive." -Ryan Holiday, The Ego is the Enemy Great Stuff!*

@jihyelee7140 2 жыл бұрын

Also, not to be rude or whatever but everyone that’s demonstrating these “hacks” are all really good looking people and they’d captivate me off the bat anyways

@notproductiveproductions3504 2 жыл бұрын

Any advice for people with Asperger’s? I’ve been asking around for tips on learning how to interact but I keep getting drown out by “teach us how to be confident again”

@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 2 жыл бұрын

What do you find the most challenging when it comes to interactions?

@notproductiveproductions3504 2 жыл бұрын

@@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 adapting to the “rhythm” (as Ezra Miller’s Flash would say) of new people

@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 2 жыл бұрын

@@notproductiveproductions3504 ah yes, it can be really powerful to start taking a look at where your discomfort is coming from. So when did it develop and what is causing the heavy 'resistance' to new people. Usually it boils down to something internal. Does this help?

@mr.e6748 2 жыл бұрын

@@notproductiveproductions3504 Use small conversation "probes" say things that someone could react in any way, and then based on their reaction you could have a better grasp of what they are all about.

@azuraroycroft2419 Жыл бұрын

This is very helpful

@christophercohen418 2 жыл бұрын

7:44 "It's not about forcing yourself to laugh,..." Shows clip of Jimmy Fallon. 😉

@siddhantjaiswal2110 2 жыл бұрын

With Craig Ferguson you are already gonna unlock the next level dude!!!!

@carolinec2498 2 жыл бұрын

Would you be able to do a video on English comedian Morgana Robinson? She is so funny, charming and personable and I'd love your analysis! I'd love to see more examples of charismatic women in general.

@WilliamJonesChess 2 жыл бұрын

Can you do a video on Jason Silva? He is a speaker on flow. Every time he speaks, you get the chance to fall in love with his mesmeric poetry.

@DemetriPanici 2 жыл бұрын

*“It’s time you realized that you have something in you more powerful and miraculous than the things that affect you and make you dance like a puppet.” - Marcus Aurelius*

@AhmetKaan 2 жыл бұрын

SUMMARY: 0:27 - Set stakes to hook people into your stories 1:25 - Make your story immersive 2:36 - Make your story relatable hope this helped :)

@basketman05 2 жыл бұрын

Please, make a video about Starlord's charisma (Peter Jason Quill's) from Guardians of the Galaxy! Exactly about the character's charisma!

@aksprkl6594 2 жыл бұрын

"Be fascinating" Thanks.

@decayedtooth2564 2 жыл бұрын

What’s funny is I started watching Norm McDonald clips and pretty much learned that by making myself laugh others will laugh with me which made me more confident socially. Rest in peace Norm

@mariannaanagnostopoulou6624 2 ай бұрын

you should use the story Leonardo told on Ellen about the engine of a helicopter exploding. It's not a bid geal, nothing happened, but the way he narrates it, is amazing. Just a suggestion, I love your content!

@EzekJohnson 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing video

@zabava3248 2 жыл бұрын

Can you The Real talk show and do a breakdown on each cohost?

@orolinc1804 2 жыл бұрын

Very good

@AscendedMasculine 2 жыл бұрын

Who immediately applies what they learn from these vids?

@LexyMe123 2 жыл бұрын

😑

@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 2 жыл бұрын

@@LexyMe123 how come so sad?

@the1337fleet 2 жыл бұрын

I keep the lessons in my head for some next interaction "later" that I'll actually never have soon enough to remember the lessons. And then I'll replace what I learned here with another video/email. Rinse and repeat. Because like most people I'm an info junkie.

@hebercluff1665 2 жыл бұрын

I'm an author, and I actually watch these videos for my characters. Does that count?

@shailenpoojith7303 2 жыл бұрын

Yes.

@Idiot-tx8lf 2 жыл бұрын

KEEP IT UP!!

@leehilborn8118 10 ай бұрын

i really hate how charming and humble and tall and also handsome chris hemsworth is

@ianhollowood3548 2 жыл бұрын

Would love to see a video on what makes Bill Murray so funny and cool

@ky... 2 жыл бұрын

I NEED y'all to do a breakdown on Vince Staples' charisma

@anotheryoutubeaccount5259 2 жыл бұрын

No.

@Vortecs Жыл бұрын

Will is really good at talking with his hands, especially when he talks to Chris Rock.

@WakesAndLakes 2 жыл бұрын

Omg thank god my friend BruceLeeEditz recommended your content. Awesome stuff

@dylankopff5062 Жыл бұрын

G I Jane ..can't wait to see it

@NUGGet-3562 2 жыл бұрын

1:29 this is the correct character for this scenario lol

@shh0167 2 жыл бұрын

PLEASE I NEED THIS i constantly need everyones approval :'O

@casparuskruger4807 Жыл бұрын

polite--confident--knowledgeable.

@nishantmahajan9282 2 жыл бұрын

Nice video

@yoon9521 2 жыл бұрын

How to approach someone who takes things seriously all the time? My manager is the type that won't laugh at anyone's joke unless it's someone respected (aka the higher ups or her clients), she won't go out to socialize and would rather stay home (even if her clients invited her, she'd send one of her staff), and if you tried to discuss about her awkwardness she'd make it your fault. She's too strict that she asked us to stop addressing each other (between staffs) casually and that we should tone down our laughter (which made us completely silent when she's around). She told me twice that she's especially hard on female staffs because she doesn't want to hurt male staffs' ego, so it's even harder for me to approach her. I'm really thinking of changing jobs because of her but I want to try win her over. Any ideas?

@faayumcheese 2 жыл бұрын

To me it seems like in the workplace she’s really worried about what people think of her. I think maybe you could speak to her and try to bond over your mutual understanding of male ego and how it has affected you personally.

@shannonk1351 Жыл бұрын

@@faayumcheese bonding over a common enemy is a great idea.

@rileycj 2 жыл бұрын

I lost it when they added Rusita at 7:46😂😂😂

@kayelle8005 Жыл бұрын

Am I the only one that wanted to hear the end of all Chris’ stories.

@privateequityguy 2 жыл бұрын

*"If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can't hear them..."* If you are reading this, I hope you have an amazing day!

@manicmurph 2 жыл бұрын

I've done a lot of this stuff naturally. The being funny, the hand movements, but I never knew I was being "charismatic"...lol.

@Faiz-dn1xt Жыл бұрын

This channel help us very much.. But I didn't know this language as well but i understand by your comments freinds... And one thing I didn't understand in this video is what set stakes means?? Can someone explain me please!!

@Nash9r 2 жыл бұрын

3:17 Everybody has to see that podcast. The chemistry between Von and Peterson was magic and for me quite unexpected.

@Faiz-dn1xt Жыл бұрын

What is meaning for set stakes?? Someone explain please !!

@ConnorRK-pn9yj 2 жыл бұрын

Video on Neal Caffrey from White Collar

@bingolayb0054 2 жыл бұрын

Would like to see a vid on your thoughts on Ricky Gervais' style of comedy

@henryairconcepts2999 Жыл бұрын

Be good looking and super famous. You’re automatically charming 😂

@sachinmahajan4362 2 жыл бұрын

Nice video. Please make a video on Shah Rukh Khan charisma. He is one of the most charismatic actors in bollywood. Please

@sathyanarayanay.h.9630 2 жыл бұрын

He is definitely not

@gracielabravo4315 2 жыл бұрын

That's why he's an actor... I am not an entertainer or a clown...hahhagagaha

@latiel2207 2 жыл бұрын

How to make people instantly like you. Tip #1 Do not slap them in the face

@TheRealCoozi 2 жыл бұрын

It worked! A buddy of mine just married Megan Fox.

@ashishrana9467 2 жыл бұрын

Hi sir I'm from India and i really want to join charisma program but it's a bit expensive for me i even tried to borrow some money but couldn't make it can you do something about it so that i can also join this program and be charismatic.

@kemsolid 2 жыл бұрын

I like these selfishly because I do most of these naturally already!

@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 2 жыл бұрын

Great analysis, Will Smith is one of greatest entertainers of our time. Thanks for the video!

@mathieul4303 2 жыл бұрын

He wasn't able to entertain his wife 😢

@bamboom9201 2 жыл бұрын

You might want to update this video, one of your examples just won himself the "lifetime achievement award for unlikeableness" for his actions.

@albaghdadinoah7196 2 жыл бұрын

Can you analyze the charisma of Ronald Dacey in Startup

@kuuuueee 2 жыл бұрын

We need a video on James Spader!

@epictom3423 2 жыл бұрын

Epic

@shashankvats753 2 жыл бұрын

Please please please make a video on ANDY SAMBERG!!! PLEASE!!!!

@hamartian 2 жыл бұрын

"some behaviours only acceptable for Will Smith" :D

@hxrshyt 2 жыл бұрын

The fact that your story got a follow up joke from RDJ means you did good

@adventurepantsmcgee 2 жыл бұрын

OMG Chris Hemsworth throwing the snake back in his son's bedroom. 😂

@steadfastviolist 2 жыл бұрын

Step 1. Don't slap people

@MichaelAussie05 2 жыл бұрын

What I have learned from this video. 1. Be really attractive. 2. Be good looking. 3 Don't be ugly.

@ramishanwar8989 2 жыл бұрын

Should've watched attentively lmao

@edofluit6568 2 жыл бұрын

not every good looking person is charismatic

@Skrintex 2 жыл бұрын

can you do a video on satarou gojou please

@nickys8328 6 ай бұрын

It would be cooler to show more clips of other celebs and not only the same 2

@katiearbuckle9017 2 жыл бұрын

"Why have we never farmed the Dodo?" - This question started a 2 hr conversation with a new friend at a Renaissance Faire. And I had to find hooks early too, I was told by my grandfather not to be disrespectful and to stay away from Politics and Religion. So I literally look for random stuff to talk about everyday related to other interests and topics I like.

@m.hughmungus121 2 жыл бұрын

"I disagree" - Jada Smith (probably)

@mr.nobody2244 2 жыл бұрын

Not bragging or anything, but I'm doing all the things these guys recommend in their videos naturally. So, essentially I'm on a journey figuring out why I'm so popular and why people are always so friendly and nice to me 😅

@sukanyaiyer8776 2 жыл бұрын

Wow imagine if you were bragging 🙃

@D00Rb3LL 2 жыл бұрын

Cap

@mr.nobody2244 2 жыл бұрын

@@sukanyaiyer8776 Their videos are like a self discovery to me.

@edofluit6568 2 жыл бұрын

@@mr.nobody2244 well you certainly dont come of charismatic here. more like a selfabsorbed human

@justenbach1573 2 жыл бұрын

Can you do a video on Triumph the insult comic dog? or a video on insult comedy?

@tzrner7252 2 жыл бұрын

Step 1: have a story to tell

@TheMountainPeople 2 жыл бұрын

There needs to be a breakdown of crocodile Dundee and his confidence!

@chaudharymohin8937 2 жыл бұрын

We forgot all this when we are in real conversation.

@dougwarner59 2 жыл бұрын

Don't be a fake but listen to Dale Carnegie's how to win friends and influence people. Now I am confused; should I be a fake or not? To be honest I read that book about 15 years ago and got nothing out of it; Your videos are a million times more helpful than that book.