how to build REAL confidence: self-worth tips, magnetic confidence, beat insecurities and glow up!💖

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Tam Kaur

Tam Kaur

Күн бұрын

This is how you ACTUALLY become confident. On my confidence journey, I have had the craziest self transformation. I literally went from introvert to extrovert and camera shy to model! I'm so passionate about helping you achieve your highest level of self-confidence so I've outlined 7 in-depth strategies on how you can become your best, most SECURE self! say goodbye to insecurity and hello to being THAT GIRL 😚
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@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Apologies for speaking so fast in this video! I got way too excited 🤣 I appreciate your feedback tho! Watch it in 0.75x speed if you need 💓
@miljoenk7303
@miljoenk7303 Жыл бұрын
I came to the comments to say I usually speed up videos. I appreciate the pace lol.
@mxrtina3846
@mxrtina3846 Жыл бұрын
Your pace speed gave me a good shock in the intro. Which helped me pay attention. 😆🤭🤭
@lprein
@lprein Жыл бұрын
What matters is you enjoy making the videos, and I understand you:)
@musdalivaanwar6927
@musdalivaanwar6927 Жыл бұрын
This is the normal speed for me when I listening video and I also speak in this speed if the theme about my passion 😉😉.. so I understand baby
@hot_mocha_9070
@hot_mocha_9070 Жыл бұрын
I did that immediately
@vineetaagarwal6267
@vineetaagarwal6267 Жыл бұрын
It hit me hard when she said , " When you think others are judging you ,it's actually you judging yourself. "
@niseu77
@niseu77 Жыл бұрын
yess i feel that too its actually me being too self aware while other people dont really care anyway
@samrafferty0803
@samrafferty0803 Жыл бұрын
This really stuck with me. Going to try to remind myself of this
@ennafromuk
@ennafromuk Жыл бұрын
Yaaa 😞
@thesevenkingswelove9554
@thesevenkingswelove9554 Жыл бұрын
If I am being honest, people do judge you, but you judge yourself a lot more. People will laugh at you when you have an embarassing moment but will forget it in a moment whereas you might remember it forever.
@sakshinagannavar
@sakshinagannavar Жыл бұрын
That's deep honestly. I actually felt it.
@blzywilson
@blzywilson Жыл бұрын
1:29 external vs internal 2:52 The truth about affirmations 5:20 your proof portfolio 7:09 embarrassment is a choice 9:53 be authentic 15:22 confidence=real self love 17:27 meet your younger self
@mintpink
@mintpink Жыл бұрын
Thank you :))))
@minico7790
@minico7790 Жыл бұрын
17:27 meet your younger self :))
@mahinafajardo
@mahinafajardo Жыл бұрын
@@mintpink m lo I’ll. I
@onemillionpercent
@onemillionpercent Жыл бұрын
thank you sm
@Alexa_luvsyou
@Alexa_luvsyou 17 күн бұрын
I hope when you sleep, your pillow is cold both sides
@swanne.9
@swanne.9 Жыл бұрын
I had a glow up at 24, but still it is hard to be confident after feeling an outcast for so long. It definitely requires consistent effort.
@peyirete7733
@peyirete7733 Жыл бұрын
Feel this to core
@ssilham2000
@ssilham2000 Жыл бұрын
So true ...
@windws7137
@windws7137 Жыл бұрын
Hey what have you done for the glow up if not a secret?
@swanne.9
@swanne.9 Жыл бұрын
@@windws7137 well I got a pixie haircut, it helped a lot to change my looks since my long hair was too big and heavy. Also it forced me to take better care of how my face looked, so I started a basic skincare routine and some facial yoga. I started drinking more water. That overall helped me like myself better and keep a better mood. I recommend practicing a hobby too, it helped me to feel better and I think that also increases your attractiveness
@windws7137
@windws7137 Жыл бұрын
@@swanne.9 Thank you for the answer!♥️ I'm incorporating little by little skin care, but still sometimes get in into the rabbit hole of "it's over" pill, so it's important to hear what REAL people say
@morkmeinyourheart
@morkmeinyourheart Жыл бұрын
one thing that helps: DO BETTER. eat healthy. drink water. take vitamins. work out for health. go out. take a walk. sunbath. start fixing things internally and you will feel better and you will gain confidence from the inside. when you feel satisfied with yourself, it will be easier to be confident and go out, make new friends. it is NOT that easy esp when you have depression LMAOOOO (me) but starting this year, i really put effort because im just sick of being depressed for a long long long time and im just sick and done and i want to live life. AND IM LIVING LIFEEEE
@SN-vn6wb
@SN-vn6wb Жыл бұрын
GET ITTT! You got this 💯💯💯
@nathalies7977
@nathalies7977 Жыл бұрын
You've got this ♡
@ThisisJenn
@ThisisJenn Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏 You're doing it!!! Same here 💗✨️
@erine6985
@erine6985 Жыл бұрын
Since you’ve become more confident do you feel like more strangers come up to you?
@morkmeinyourheart
@morkmeinyourheart Жыл бұрын
@@erine6985 maybe not strangers (since i rarely go out lmao) but i feel more encouraged to start a conversation with my co-workers at the office, and i think that’s a good thing! because i used to be so closed off to the point im afraid to engage in conversations
@MjayBaby
@MjayBaby Жыл бұрын
When I speak those beautiful affirmations to myself I also say “I believe every word I just said to myself, amen.” It helps me sleep @ night 🤣💖
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Love that!
@wolfiesasha887
@wolfiesasha887 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 such a good idea, thx 🙏
@qayathetruestepper
@qayathetruestepper Жыл бұрын
This is profound. Lemme get to trying this omggg thanks for sharing 💓
@MjayBaby
@MjayBaby Жыл бұрын
Y’all are so welcome! ☺️☺️
@minfires7572
@minfires7572 Жыл бұрын
This is so helpful because sometimes i say things and it seems so impossible that deep down i don't even believe it 😭
@Milaa9987
@Milaa9987 Жыл бұрын
OMGGG!!!!!! As an insecure 15 year old who does ALL the things you mentioned in your "before", this is SO SO SOOOOOOOOO INSPIRING. With this one video u have literally revived my confidence and given me a new sense of self. I CANNOT THANK U ENOUGH. "When you think others are judging you, it's actually you judging yourself" and "embarrassment is just fear" hit me the most. I needed this video sooooooooooo much. I literally can't thank u enough for uploading this!! You have a new very passionate (and newly confident) subscriber!!!
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ellacaulfield9939
@ellacaulfield9939 Жыл бұрын
Confidence: 1 - trust your own opinion 2 - build a portfolio of proof for yourself (choose things that I think will make me confident that are aligned with my goals) 3 - stop judging yourself (have a conversation with myself to be kinder)
@_youdontnomi_
@_youdontnomi_ Жыл бұрын
I used to be so incredibly shy and lacked self confidence and even though I’m still on this journey and consistently growing/learning, I’ve come so far. My younger self would be so incredibly proud. I wish the best for everyone’s self love/self confidence journey 💝
@adeliaforte
@adeliaforte Жыл бұрын
This year I'm really focused on my glow up. Tired of not doing what I really want bc I feel insecure and put others' opinions first. Thank u beauty
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
You got this!
@theprettygoodgatsby
@theprettygoodgatsby Жыл бұрын
Good luck on ur journey babe! I hope to find that for myself as well someday
@minfires7572
@minfires7572 Жыл бұрын
This is me this year as well!! Turning 20 this year and I'm so tired of being insecure because of my weight. Let's make 2023 our year
@kookie_2178
@kookie_2178 Жыл бұрын
​@@minfires7572 i hope you reach your goal ❤
@chloefreestyles
@chloefreestyles Жыл бұрын
disconnecting from unsupportive people (including family) helps with your confidence too 🧿
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Absolutely !!!
@jasnaoravil2087
@jasnaoravil2087 3 ай бұрын
but also instead of (just a mild suggestion:: may not be true in ALL cases) disconnectiong completely, try to voice ur authentic self infront of those people and even if they arent listening just voice up yourself and leave. whether they listen or not its on them.
@IrzaArias
@IrzaArias Жыл бұрын
My jaw dropped when you said you are 22 years old omg wow, I’m 22 too. I love seeing a beautiful woman embracing her roots, herself, and with an abundant mindset. Currently I’m heavily working on myself and definitely took a lot from this video alone. I so resonated and it really put things in a different perspective. May I add that this is my first video of yours that I’ve watched!! Thank you so much, you’re going big places beauty✨🫶
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@barraquinhadepa
@barraquinhadepa Жыл бұрын
usually I get an ick from videos about self confidence, but this video feels so different from other "self confidence influencers" videos. like, there's so much honesty, she speaks like she truly understands that it's so easy and so difficult at the same time to love yourself and be confident (bc she does!)
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that! Xxx
@dagorad3723
@dagorad3723 Жыл бұрын
16:14 I never thought of it this way, I’m very attached to academic validation and place all my worth on how I’m doing. Any time I get a bad grade I find myself not being able to make eye contact, not wanting to make conversation, having bad posture and overall hating my life. That comment was really enlightening, thank you
@devanshibhatt522
@devanshibhatt522 Жыл бұрын
True, i too face this, and it's more now when I am in my coaching, because you can't keep having outstanding marks
@jyanashree
@jyanashree Жыл бұрын
Never have I related to something so much
@juliak3760
@juliak3760 9 ай бұрын
Aw the younger self one made me cry cause she was so cute and had such big dreams and now I'm pursuing them! My younger self is such a fan of me! ❤️
@tamkaur
@tamkaur 9 ай бұрын
Yes!!!
@MoyinoluwaLaoye
@MoyinoluwaLaoye Жыл бұрын
Normally I don't like to reply to videos because I think of what people will say or how they'll react but I'm stepping out of my comfort zone and doing this right now
@user-sj6ec7op2p
@user-sj6ec7op2p 3 ай бұрын
You are doing great ❤
@estephanelia
@estephanelia Жыл бұрын
i think alot of us the problem isn't lack of confidence it's lack of humility. same difference but we have to just be aware of the duality. if we're too confident in one situation or dynamic, it leaves room for us to lack confidence in another and vice versa, of course. balance is the key. ⚖️
@Scorchinghotoil
@Scorchinghotoil Жыл бұрын
girl this is massively helpful... coming from a brown girl (irrelevant but got to put it out) currently in Ireland for bachelors.. managed to make few international friends... but still made an identity as a shy Indian girl... and its a massive pain when I have to get out of my comfort zone especially the presentations and speaking out. I definitely needed this video.. THANK YOU SO MUCH
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
you got this ❤️✨
@nathalies7977
@nathalies7977 Жыл бұрын
I know it is hard when your ethnicity is completely different, specially in those northern European countries. But you need to change the approach and think about yourself as an exotic beauty ✨ you'll drive 'em crazy.
@mariah-rv4dk
@mariah-rv4dk Жыл бұрын
i feel like you shouldn’t have to change yourself (like who you naturally are example; an introvert, i am one) you shouldn’t have to pretend to be extroverted if it’s not who you are. i think you can achieve confidence without conforming to societies standards. but that’s just me my self confidence/self love journey will not be faking my personality. being authentic to who you really are i think is better because it’s not exhausting it’s natural and effortless.
@skyybanni6667
@skyybanni6667 Жыл бұрын
the way I’m seeing after searching on yt “how to be an extrovert” lmao
@PrettyZ-qu6ws
@PrettyZ-qu6ws 9 ай бұрын
yeah idk if I lack confidence or if I genuinely just want to be left alone.
@_melany_melo_
@_melany_melo_ Жыл бұрын
I’m proud of you girl. God will take those who appear to be the least qualified, and qualifies them! And when God qualifies he OVER qualifies! You’re living proof of that. Sending lots of love and encouragement❤️🥰
@tokyo204
@tokyo204 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful way you phrased it
@Itachi-eg9ig
@Itachi-eg9ig Жыл бұрын
Made my day. I'm gonna write it down on a paper and paste it on the wall ❤❤❤
@fouziapasha3822
@fouziapasha3822 10 ай бұрын
I used to feel so anxious whenever I had to go outside to get something I used to beg others to come along, now it's not even a second thought most of the times. I remember feeling so insecure with the way I looked or the clothes I wore that I couldn't bear to interact much with others. Seeing your video made me realise who far I have come. Thank you so much Tam. Love you ❤️
@yasminchowdhury3909
@yasminchowdhury3909 Жыл бұрын
its crazy how when youre insecure you will believe in our own limitations so much you cant see past them and you assume you're right about what you can do and be I bumped into a teacher I had at school and I told her where I am now thinking she will be surprised how far I've come and what I ended up doing she wasn't she actually wasn't when people around you tell you what your limits are what u can and cant do just remember u have no clue how many people in your life you have met that actually believed in you there's no way you can know everyones thoughts on your ability use that too your advantage and understand that sometimes the people closest to you ( including yourself ) have the least idea of where you are going to end up and the amazing person your going to become also remember how many positive thoughts you've had about other people and their potential. I doubt youve told most of them my teacher knew and understood my ability more than I did. always do the inner work and try and analyse what you want and worry about how afterwards
@anniegrace2131
@anniegrace2131 Жыл бұрын
Her voice is a booster its a burst of gratitude and positive
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
❤️
@Juwairiyah49
@Juwairiyah49 3 ай бұрын
Yes❤❤
@forevermoa9378
@forevermoa9378 Жыл бұрын
I always feel like an embarrassment and even heard from a teacher how cringe I can be. I know that too. Sometimes I’m quiet and so, sometimes loud. Thank you for helping me realize that you don’t have to be an embarrassment just because of other people. ❤
@yguish
@yguish Жыл бұрын
Sorry your teacher made that comment, super strange it probably stems from their insecurities
@kookie_2178
@kookie_2178 Жыл бұрын
I get embarrassed easily, it's sad 😢❤
@forevermoa9378
@forevermoa9378 Жыл бұрын
@@yguish thank you and i think so too now.
@forevermoa9378
@forevermoa9378 Жыл бұрын
@@kookie_2178 It is. I hope it gets better! I usuly think now when I get embarrassed "someone else can be embarrassed for me instead so I dont have to" and then the feeling goes down.
@rukayattaiwo701
@rukayattaiwo701 Жыл бұрын
Your teacher is cringe.
@diannusmt8499
@diannusmt8499 Жыл бұрын
I seriously cried so hard. I have been asking the universe for help because.my self love is zero lately and then your video popped in my page thank you so much 💕🥺✨
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
You got this ✨💗
@Neha-wt3bs
@Neha-wt3bs Жыл бұрын
This spoke to my soul. I’ve been in a cycle of not being confident and hating myself for so long that I wasnt sure why I was this way or how to work on it. Thank you so much for making this video! I cant wait to try these things out.
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
You got this!❤️❤️
@toyang..
@toyang.. Жыл бұрын
14:00 TRUE! i like wearing big girly ribbons and bows and headbands in uni, and im in college already so like nobody wears stuff like that anymore. wearing cute hair accessories is my exposure therapy
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Love that for u
@faircure
@faircure Ай бұрын
went on a mediocre date today where i could tell the girl was becoming uninterested because i was putting myself down, getting too nervous, etc and looked up videos on confidence because i was just so sick of being like this. a lot of what you said is the same as the things i hear from my therapist but it still made me cry very hard hearing it laid out so plainly. i'll try to act on a lot of the things you mentioned. thank you for making this and i hope one day i can reach the same point you have because it's not worth living life like this
@destinyatinuke1660
@destinyatinuke1660 Жыл бұрын
This is the most detailed video on self confidence I've come across and it's also the first time I actually took down notes from a video into a journal. Thank you for this 💖
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!
@m.borealis
@m.borealis Жыл бұрын
I literally never comment, but all of your ideas are another level and I want to say how much I appreciate it. They're amazingly deep and hit a point. I came across some of them in therapy and also while studying psychology in uni. Might rewatch multiple because every word is valuable
@bankrolldame
@bankrolldame Жыл бұрын
I freaking love your channel. I thought I reached a high level of confidence and unapologetic attitude which is true to some extent, but since a recent crush I realize that the people I actually want to connect with, I still really do feel some insecurity and need for validation that I thought I shook off! Your content is rlly helping. love u girly
@judycarrasco74
@judycarrasco74 Жыл бұрын
This is, hands down, the best advice I've seen on building self-confidence. Thank you for addressing my doubts on affirmations! And what you said about seeking reassurance hit hard because that's an area I struggle with.
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! ❤️
@samrakhan5187
@samrakhan5187 Жыл бұрын
i love the way you're pushing us to love ourselves ❤
@martinafrancisci2284
@martinafrancisci2284 Жыл бұрын
You don't know how important this video is to me 😭thank you so much for your words and advice 💕 you made me understand that confidence is really something you built everyday and achieve progressively ! All you need is faith and constance to put yourself in "those scary situations" 👏
@AlexisEdwards-jb7cv
@AlexisEdwards-jb7cv Жыл бұрын
I love your energy in these videos, you can really see how passionate you are and you KNOW your ish girl - maddd respect 💓
@gpg9891
@gpg9891 Жыл бұрын
You are such a ray of sunshine. Thank you for being you and sharing your inspirations with us!
@indiawallbridge2109
@indiawallbridge2109 Жыл бұрын
I took a moment at the end to channel my younger self and tell myself how proud I was of me. I didn’t realise how much I needed to hear that. Thank you for the reminder 🤍
@angelicgirl333
@angelicgirl333 6 ай бұрын
I used to be very shy and I had no confidence at all but I'm still growing and learning from your videos💗 I'm only 14 and everyday I'm trying to be better than I was yesterday and you really helping me thank you so much 💗
@ducksad24
@ducksad24 5 ай бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO. i wish i found your page earlier because every single one of your videos that i've watched so far has successfully motivated me. there are lots of content creators who really just provide you with tons of tips and stuff but i never felt the vibe match. i've always been a cheerful and bubbly person but the last 3 years i was so reserved because of my surroundings (i had to live in a place with literally little to no one around). i think we are really similar as a person (you are obviously better in many ways since you have more experience and stuff). some of your words really hit different and i think i'll remember those when i'm feeling like i'm being judged or insecure. the genuine tips (along with the real experiences) are priceless istg. all of this really helps !! 💞
@wonqr
@wonqr Жыл бұрын
i love her energy sm omg
@shrekke
@shrekke Жыл бұрын
I love how real and relatable this is, really helpful
@estherkisoi2935
@estherkisoi2935 Жыл бұрын
Your content is literal gold.✨
@asytoki
@asytoki Жыл бұрын
YOUR VIDEOS MAKE ME FEEL SO COMFORTABLE AND HAPPY OMGG
@GloryOfMyLife
@GloryOfMyLife Жыл бұрын
I really love your energy! Sometimes you forget how far you've come in life and where you once were.. Thank you for reminding me! Great advice ♥
@yanggie-no1iu
@yanggie-no1iu Жыл бұрын
I'm young and I've just started to worry about self-love and confidence. It's been a major issue in my life but it's only now I'm serious and not half-assedly trying to be better. This video broadened my horizon. Good luck to me & my sis/bros out there 💕
@Femininepurpose
@Femininepurpose 6 ай бұрын
This girl and video is GOLD. I am 33 years old and I am still learning all of this. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and gifts with us, sis!
@pranatinaik23
@pranatinaik23 8 ай бұрын
She changed my whole mindset
@avishiagarwal983
@avishiagarwal983 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing these tips... It makes me feel so seen.....some of the points you made really caught me off guard like deriving my sense of confidence and self worth from external factors and hence never feeling enough... Made me realise the amount of self work need to be done... And kudos to you for transforming so much in a relatively short span of time👍
@tracywigginsbossmoves9490
@tracywigginsbossmoves9490 10 ай бұрын
You’re so anointed for this!! 🙌🏽Love your teachings, delivery, and energy! ❤
@HabibahsLifeLessons
@HabibahsLifeLessons 4 ай бұрын
This is beautifully done and a lot of things relatable 🥰
@SenyoritaStoic
@SenyoritaStoic Жыл бұрын
Girl, you're on fire! These are all traits of a mentally strong lady!! Love from the Philippines!
@morta7828
@morta7828 Жыл бұрын
Omg! Thank you so much for this video! It feels like these tips are really different from what I have heard most of the time, and I feel like I will be able to do them. You're awesome, girl! I'm so happy that I found your channel!! ❤️
@luhan7644
@luhan7644 Жыл бұрын
Yoo! This is making me happy to feel like I am walking on the right path because when people judge me for being too cringed or too sensitive to them shaming me, I was feeling like maybe I reacted sensitive was wrong, now after being here I feel authentic and I was standing up for myself, now I feel totally refresh🍃✨ I was about to lose my confidence 😂now just level up baby💛
@8aidat
@8aidat Жыл бұрын
i love you so much, everything you’re saying is hitting home and helping me be a better woman. i watch this video more than i listen to music
@jenniferhernandez9181
@jenniferhernandez9181 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I struggle so bad with self love and confidence and your words have helped give me such a great perspective. Specially, doing this for my younger self. It makes so much more sense now❤
@Mia-vs2oz
@Mia-vs2oz Жыл бұрын
I relate to your journey SO SO MUCH!!! I'm also very proud of myself for how far I've come
@aadishreee
@aadishreee Жыл бұрын
omg I just hope this video reaches out to more people this is so helpful
@elisabettamihali8661
@elisabettamihali8661 Жыл бұрын
You really made me realize how much my self esteem is under the ground and that maybe this is the root of all my problems. Because if I will continue to hate myself, I won't go anywhere in my life. So, thank you so much💖💖💖💖
@alex-hh6ly
@alex-hh6ly Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad i came across your video. I sat through the whole thing without skipping or getting bored and i resonate with everything you said! maybe it’s cuz i also talk fast but i understood everything and i love ur energy lmao 😭 i needed this thank you!!
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Omg loveeee thank you!!
@Melunaffected
@Melunaffected Жыл бұрын
the way you express yourself is wonderful and your advices is precious and useful, thank you very much for the video and keep going
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
So nice of you 🥺❤️
@skyybanni6667
@skyybanni6667 Жыл бұрын
you’re so real, this advice is helpful
@janatdhanwani
@janatdhanwani 6 ай бұрын
Your videos are literal gold TAM, I discovered your channel yesterday and I'm here to stay:) THANK YOU FOR BEING THE older sister we don't have
@taslucky1439
@taslucky1439 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with the points you made esp regarding exposure. For a long while I isolated from people which made me develop social anxiety. I was sick of the way I lived but I was also scared of failing or getting rejected when going to meet new people so I applied for a job that FORCED me to meet up with people every single day (worked in customer service) and I forced myself to talk to everybody at first it was so nerve racking and I hated it but after a while of doing it I became much more confident in my social skills and realized that I never actually had a problem in socializing I just gaslit myself into believing I did.
@reemt6286
@reemt6286 Жыл бұрын
very well said, you have an amazing way of articulating your thoughts and words. this video was so motivating. thank you
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
So kind. Thank you
@ankitaatal1154
@ankitaatal1154 Жыл бұрын
watching you gives me confidence 🥲
@goldenmystik
@goldenmystik Жыл бұрын
“You’ll never see them again” that hit me because its so true.
@samiyaelevated
@samiyaelevated Жыл бұрын
I love your video, it has helped me to become more confident and loving myself. Keep up it!
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad. Thank you 💖
@glolikejaaay
@glolikejaaay Жыл бұрын
God you’re so right ! I literally get scared of getting out my comfort zone n don’t do what I need 😭 my social anxiety is baaaddd
@bprincess7071
@bprincess7071 Жыл бұрын
I can't even describe how much i love this video and how much it's helping me ♥
@Taehyungkim23071
@Taehyungkim23071 Жыл бұрын
This girl literally just opened my eyes now that I think about everything she said now everything makes sense I just am so thankful to hear this and see this video
@jiyacandance
@jiyacandance 9 ай бұрын
If you were standing in front of me right I would have hugged you so hard🤗🤗 for telling me that I should love myself first and just don't care how others are think of me 💝
@EstrellaAgesta
@EstrellaAgesta 5 ай бұрын
Inner confidence is the hardest for me, having an exam and constantly thinking that you might do badly is horrible! This video helps a lot to remember and appreciate the small achievements of the past. 💜
@tamkaur
@tamkaur 5 ай бұрын
You got this🤍
@mariamj3147
@mariamj3147 2 ай бұрын
Girl, you so wise for 22. I learnt so much here. Thank you for sharing your insights & your experiences. God bless you ! ❤
@YogaBlissDance
@YogaBlissDance 7 ай бұрын
Love the BOLD jewelry and the colors you wear they flatter you.
@MotivationTub778
@MotivationTub778 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for always providing us with best content Tam ❤
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!!
@simonesharmaa
@simonesharmaa Жыл бұрын
i have been looking for a youtuber/page that posted content like this!! ive been watching u on a loop for sometime now and i am only learning and growing confident which is insane! ive always faced problems with being myself and authentic but you addressing this is making soo much more sense now, thanks tam ily so much heheh
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
aw I’m so glad!! thank you for being here 💛✨
@ACook-fc9kd
@ACook-fc9kd Жыл бұрын
i feel like i can see the authenticity through the screen!! you are slaying SO HARD and inspire me to be just as much of myself as you are of you.😄
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@wassszuuuppp6226
@wassszuuuppp6226 Жыл бұрын
YOU ARE LITERALLY THE BEST OMG
@crystalskulloracle6457
@crystalskulloracle6457 Жыл бұрын
Love everything about this! Thank you for sharing your story and true authentic self 🙏🙌🥰
@Luciaa_327
@Luciaa_327 Жыл бұрын
Thank you God for sending me this wonderful angel into my life!! I found you randomly on my recommendations and You really helped me to become more confident and to be my best self Ily so much
@kansis4734
@kansis4734 Жыл бұрын
First video about confidence that actually resonates with me ❤
@roselinelee
@roselinelee 10 ай бұрын
"It's better to be me, than to be liked by everyone"
@roche07_
@roche07_ Жыл бұрын
You don't have to be someone else just to fit in🥰I love the confidence that's radiating from this video, opens my eyes through a lot of things and idk why but I can't stop smiling while listening to you talk :)) ❤️
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@mariajosephine6917
@mariajosephine6917 Жыл бұрын
Could you also do a how to spend ur lone time productively and healthy
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Check out my solo date vlog on my channel! I talk about it there 💖
@savannahalexis2271
@savannahalexis2271 Жыл бұрын
Omg I’m actually obsessed with you and your channel! I love your personality! Keep doing you! ❤
@user-vl7yk8id3f
@user-vl7yk8id3f 9 ай бұрын
I always gonna be proud of myself in the future for listening to self development videos like these. Tam you're literally my angel❤❤
@user-my8qj
@user-my8qj Жыл бұрын
love ur energy! thanks for sharing this
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
thank you 😊
@veronicamilanovic694
@veronicamilanovic694 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the great content, I wish you and your channel to flourish and grow constantly❤ btw, your earrings are unbelievable!😍😍❤
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
You’re too kind!! Thank you so much 😊
@HoorenSalazar_01
@HoorenSalazar_01 5 ай бұрын
I'm so glad that I found your channel... Listening to u is better than reading 10 self guide books.. Nd fr! I been suffering with seeking validation and listening to u has started bringing real changes in my life... I'm just so thankful to you.. It's been much better bcz of u❤️❤️
@notiamceleste
@notiamceleste 9 ай бұрын
Hey there! I'm new on ur channel here and WOAH! You nailed it! I seriously LOVED the vid like, WOW! All the tips were AMAZING but that YOUNGER SELF tip got me SO SHOCKED. I was like, NO WAY! Bcz, I just implemented this tip myself like without any reference! I just told myself to try things this way & WOW! I saw this on ur KZfaq channel for the first time. Honestly loved it! Keep goin'!❤❤❤❤
@reginageorgetownuni
@reginageorgetownuni Жыл бұрын
Real self worth will come from working on yourself irl and not on social media. Some of the most active people on social media are usually the most insecure
@fiathemuslimah
@fiathemuslimah Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! A lot of the stuff you said has hit me hard and snapped me back to reality, especially when you said embarrassment is a choice. Btw I LOVE YOUR ENERGY 😂❤❤
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
hahah THANK U ☺️💕
@minico7790
@minico7790 Жыл бұрын
This is all so true and things I never hear anyone else say, it's not obvious things it's things I didn't even notice! Thanks allottt
@Idontgs
@Idontgs 10 ай бұрын
This actually really helped me, especially the authenticity part, feeling different everyday drained me and hearing this was so helpful, thank you.
@LuvArsha4eva
@LuvArsha4eva Жыл бұрын
Binging all your videos. Love your content! ❤️
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
You're the best!
@Koyochan9
@Koyochan9 Жыл бұрын
One of my new year’s resolutions was to improve my self-confidence. Immediately after I wrote that down, I started to doubt my ability to achieve that goal. I really appreciate you making this video ❤
@nirvanalife9762
@nirvanalife9762 Жыл бұрын
you give out positive vibes,it is really refreshing.
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
🥹🥹🥹🥹
@gaal-baloghjulia7994
@gaal-baloghjulia7994 2 ай бұрын
you're the first youtuber whose motivational talk doesn't make me feel like shit, but actually makes me want to improve :"-) also i love listening to you, you have a really nice voice! 💗
@DianasReviews
@DianasReviews Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this confidence video Tam 💜 I’m a new subscriber 🙌🏻
@tamkaur
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Yay! Thank you!
@kayleewmorgan
@kayleewmorgan Жыл бұрын
My problem with filming in public is I feel bad for the people around me because I realize that they probably don’t want to be in the background of a video that’s going to be put on the internet.. and people get upset when they realize they’re being filmed, that’s why I haven’t been able to film in public. Any ideas there? Cuz I’d love to just do it! It would add so much to my videos.
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