This Video has literally change my life. After sitting back and allowing I get asked by my number from a man and an other seeks me out somehow on social media. The world is looking different at you when you’re confident and happy about your life ❤️

For family, friends, and relationships= feminine energy. For career = masculine energy. ❤️

It took me 14 years of dating to realise that MEN LOOOVE TO MAKE WOMEN HAPPY. Literally, they love buying gifts, helping with grocery bags, helping with little stuff. It makes them feel needed, desired and proud. I heard many times my male friends being sad when they said their gf didnt like the gift and dont know how to make her smile anymore or she doesn't let me help her. It took me years to stop fighting about it as if I was fighting for my independence and except that Im worthy of nice things. Let man be man. Disclaimer: Im not talking about man who do stuff/buy stuff to get something in return for you. Beautiful video, all of them and thank you for your work 🍀

When I‘m in school or working I want to be in my masculine energy and when I‘m not in school or woeking I want to be in my feminine energy. Love this balance

Feminine ENERGY. You gave me the words to describe a long time friend of mine. I couldn't put my finger on it until now. See, she's not feminine/girly but has a rather tomboyish style and yet I never saw her as super masculine. This soft light energy comes off of her in waves! In my 10+ years of our friendship, I've never once heard her put down another woman. She got this calm personality but isn't shy or quiet. She sets her boundaries in simple but firm ways. I'm always over the hill with happiness whenever we meet because her presence is so refreshing 🥺

This is everything. I was raised by a strong willed single mother. Learned to do everything by myself because no men were ever around to help. I was taught to survive. That energy has subconsciously been carried into my romantic life and I am now seeing that I was never taught feminine energy.. I always wondered how women can get a man to do everything for them or have a man intently pursue them. I get it. Now I have to remove myself from this logical analytical masculine persona, and be vulnerable enough to embrace the abundant, feminine, feeling side. Been getting back into ballroom/ swing dancing where men are forced to lead and we embrace being receptive and following his lead. Its been such a good analogy for my life. Thank you for this video!

"you can chase your dreams and have a soft girl life at the same time"

Been in “survival mode” since I was little and want to very much be in my feminine energy. I’ve got most of it down, but keep being pulled back into the masculine by friends and family. I’m forever the mother, fixer, counsellor. But what I really want is for someone to be that person(s) for me and a safe environment to be in my feminine energy. Work in progress, which is why I haven’t dated in a while, but feel like I’m getting there. Boundaries and living my life to the fullest, have been the biggest steps.

Be assertive, ladies. Confidence and assertiveness go side to side. Go after your dreams. Don’t just sit there pretending it’s feminine energy. Chase after your dreams and goals.

1. Prioritize yourself - Do what you love (hobbies, socializing) - Create chaotically (arts, projects) - Take time to care for yourself - Surround yourself with what you love (people, home) - Channel anger into rage (create and destruct) - Take pride in yourself - Prioritize fulfilment over productivity 2. Stay calm - Take time to calm down, and be present (meditate, do nothing) - Focus on your body rather than rationality - Don't perform/work too hard - Don't control: let life be - Don't fill every silence - Allow things to be easy - Release the need to prove yourself - Allow yourself to be mysterious/don't focus on proving yourself 3. Present yourself with grace - Dress with grace - Take care of yourself - Hold a delicate posture - Personalize how you dress - Just do whatever makes you feel feminine: perfume, skin care, etc. 4. Communicate tenderly - Use a feminine voice - Use polite language - Talk tenderly, and mainly through showing rather than talking 5. Own your desires - Express your desires - Trust yourself to choose the right men - Trust yourself to speak up when something is up - Communicate clearly 6. Don't fight - Let men be free - Respect men - Keep peace - Don't criticize men - Allow men to be unexpressive about their emotions - Allow yourself to disagree - Don't require people to agree 7. Be thankful - Honour men's protection and provision - Receive men's affection - Show appreciation 8. Listen actively - Read and consider people's emotions - Don't fill every silence 9. Be joyful - Be playful (in conflict too) - Enjoy your time - Remind people how great it is to be a woman and to be alive 10. Focus on your body - Direct your spirit before your action - Don't focus on rational debate - Sit down and relax - Experience your sensuality 11. Be loving - down to earth - humble - unentitled - confident - holding strong boundaries - compassionate - nurturing - trusting - open - creative - strong-minded 12. Connect - Show love to children - Connect with other women

Even tho I’m a feminine soft woman.. I don’t think this should be imposed on all women.. love people for who they are❤️

Girl gave us a whole therapy session in less than 20 minutes, I appreciate this so much, it's eye opening

As someone who's always displayed a masculine energy in relationships, this video is literally what I needed to see. I can't wait to put this to use for myself.

Out of all the videos I've watched about feminine energy this was THE BEST. There are others who talk about dressing and "talk like a girl" be more girly and stuff. I love how you explained the difference between feminine energy and femininity just in the beginning! Amazing content!❤️✨😭

Such a inspiration! Every girl should watch this video! I recently started watching them and I’ve already chnage my live immensely. Your words repeat in my head throughout the day and inspire me to take back my life. I’m doing everything for me now and it’s thanks to you! Thank you tam!❤❤❤

I always get to a point in which I am so overworked, sleep deprived because I want to achieve so many things at once and this is exhausting! This video was a great reminder for me to take a breath and calm down and believe in myself and that not everything has to happen today, thank you ❤

The feminine and masculine has to be balanced in ourself.❤

Ma'am. You didn't need to sit there and explain my whole entire existence. Like why are you in my brain??! omg, I took SO MANY notes, listened to everything twice, and I will be rewatching this video many more times. Thank you for sharing sis

This video came just in time. I was so burnt out at the end of last year because of hard work that at one point I just stopped to have any emotions. I didn’t understand why some girls can get what they want while I have to constantly work and it’s still never enough. However, I decided to at least try to stop complaining all the time, took a break (which really helped), changed my wardrobe and hairstyle. I am trying now not to overthink everything and live with joy. After watching this video, I realized I’m going in the right direction. Thank you!

Thank you so much for this video. I just had a discussion with my sister about changing my style to more be feminine because i only dress casual/comfortable but i want to be like hyper feminine. Im definitely currently moving in my wounded feminine/masculine energy but youre teaching me that the changes arent just about style but are internal also. Im so ready to start making small changes to be the woman of my dreams!!!

This was a stunning video! She made so many great points, was actually doing some self-reflection whilst watching it.. definitely made me aware of things I’m unraveling within myself, and becoming aware of certain things within myself too, on my journey😌🍃

I love this video! You did a fantastic job of explaining everything clearly and concisely. My bf has been trying to explain this to me for the longest because while I would say I very much agree with this lifestyle for woman, it’s hard for me to actually live it coming from a traumatic childhood where I was always needing to be on edge. However, i’m not sure if its the way my bf explains it or that I am just very defensive but whenever we talk about this, I just end up offended & mad haha. Hearing it explained by another woman is a lot more comforting and makes sense. Anyways, thank you for the video 🫶🏻

i’ve been waiting so long for someone to be able to define this and you did it PERFECTLY.

I'm living in my Masculine Energy for so so long, and I'm tired of this. It feels so difficult to even think of being in my feminine. But I'll try my best to be in my divine feminine! Thank you so much Tam. ❤

I love "feminine" men though, who dont feel like they have to provide for me but instead show me their full range of emotions. And I will care for him just like he cares for me-those are my rules :)

I'm working on my feminine energy and confidence and your videos are so helpful, Gorgeous. Keep it up!!!🥰❤️

OMG , it just blew my mind Without sugar coating anything you told us the nicest thing ever

i am blown away by how much love and gratitude i have for you tam. we are so close in age and you inspire me so much (especially having your own apartment + living alone). i watch your subscriber count grow like it's my own success or someone close to me. that's how proud i am. i'm rooting for you so much and i'll be here til your last vid. i've been manifesting more like-minded friends for awhile now, so i'll see you soon

This video made me realize that I am more in my feminine energy than I thought, but also in the middle of learning to allow myself to have that soft and abundant life, and being in the receiving energy. Thank you for your clear explaination

Great video!!!! I’m an avoidant attatchment style in my masculine energy quite often. I push men away all the time. This video was very eye opening. So glad I found you!

Bless you! This video was mind opening and I needed it so much!!! I have recently started my journey towards amplifying my feminine energy that - as you say - was already within me, but I had the typical clingyness and neediness of masculine energy. I am learning to stop that, to love myself even more and guys… it is actually working!! I am am starting to attracting masculine men and I feel like I can pick! Omg thank you!!! Will give you a follow ❤️

Best video on Feminine energy! I think women who have had to take on the masculine role or the provider role at home struggle to tap into the feminine because we’re not used to just receiving. It’s always been challenging for me to let a man do things for me or provide, cause I would feel like I am not doing my part or afraid that I would become dependent on the man. It takes consistent effort and self awareness to tap into your feminine energy and sometimes that effort inherently causes you to feel masculine. The key I believe is letting go of control and allowing things to flow. Having that balance of maintaining your standards, never compromising and being able to relax throughout

Thank you Tam, you truly touched me with this video. A lot of femininity channels expand on the outcomes of choosing a feminine lifestyle but not exactly how to achieve it in your everyday lives. This was a great take. Please please please make more

I can’t believe this channel crossed my feed at the absolute perfect time. Everything you talk about is exactly what I’ve been struggling to find. Your examples feel like you snatched them from my daily thoughts and actions😂 Super grateful for you❤✨

This is the only video that answers all my questions, not beating the bush, judt straight to the point. Thank you!

This video rlly helped me look at some things differently. I’m going to stop trying to control everything and base my results on the way I feel about myself, as I’m enough just by being me. Thanks a lot for this video ❤

How in the WORLD do you not have more subscribers? ! This video came at such a good time for me and I resonated with so much of it. I just ended a long term relationship and the universe is speaking loudly to me about my future and relying on my intuition and ability to manifest my reality. This video was incredible and gave me the motivation and strength to listen to the universe and fully embrace this new journey of self love and growth. Thank you so much, you’d earned a subscriber❤️❤️❤️

Hey there! You actually made me understand why I was always scared of being attached to a person or being vulnerable. I always had thought that i need to lead or else it won't work but now i got that i have to heal my wounded feminine energy. Thank you so much, love!!!💞💞💯💯

Wow! This is the first video of yours that I've seen and it's amazing. You made so many great, concise points that I haven't thought about. I related to the wounded feminine part a lot. I think this video is going to make a difference in my life, for the better! Thank you!

Love that younger girls can get knowledge regarding these things early on ❤️

I am really confused by this, you would say I am a woman who’s in her masculine energy because I like to handle things, solve problems, take care of my lover and provide. But otherwise I nurture, spread love and am fully okay with who I am and how I look so picking people because I need them to survive doesn’t fit into my being. Why should women lay back and do nothing instead of keeping their life together and surrounding them with only the best people for them and creating a safe environment to fully express themselves?

I can see a hell lot of difference in my life since i started prioritizing myself ❤❤❤❤ i loved your msg on feminine energy and thankyou so much for sharing this with us. Proud of you girl❤

This video is about to be the best I’ve seen …you broke down everything to a better understanding ,literally spoke about me now I have a clear insight of all I need to know and begin my journey to bring out my feminine energy… Thank you I’ll be stuck on your page onward 😊.

Oh my god girl you’ve put this across so well 🙌🏻 thank you for this content! It’s opened my eyes! This just helps me declutter so many things on my mind and know myself better

Cuz bayybeee I needed this video about 5 years ago lol! Great Advice! I'm a big sister with a younger brother, it's refreshing to take in some big sister vibes! So happy I came across your videos ♥

Thank you so so much for this!!!! I learned that my whole life I’ve been operating in masculine energy!! I’m a single mother of 5 and have always had to take on that role. But for the past 2 years, I’ve been waiting to change that and operate in my feminine energy but didn’t know how. I took sooooo many notes and will be working on implementing them ASAP. I see that I’ve been taking some steps in the right direction unknowingly. But you’ve given me clear cut directions on how to walk in my feminine energy…Thank you 🙏🏾

U definitely not bashing !! You confirming what my intuition been showing me , this here boosted my ego I always been a 50/50 woman taking care everything, reflect self care andd all that this whole video was really worth watching thank you so much !!

Ive always struggled with codependency and very masculine energy, where Id take control or beg for the guy to change instead of leaving if my boundaries are crossed. I now realized its the exact reason why all of my exes were in their feminine energies (wanted to be mothered, "needing" me instead of loving me, etc) Been on a self improvement journey for a few months now, my progress hasnt been linear, but its going!

Thank you!! There were so many useful tips in this one. I was raised hyper independent and it’s something I’m working on deconstructing. I am learning and realizing I actually like to let other help me when I need it and they can.

Best feminine energy video on here!!!! I love how you talked about attachment style

After years of doing things to please men, I’m happy to say I’m healing. thank you so much for this video. I do things for myself & myself only. :) if he doesn’t like me too bad, on to the next!

"I allow feminine energy to enter my life!" Thanks Tam for everything that you do for us ❤

I had so much confusion about feminine energy,coming from a tomboy. I took a path of femininity instead of feminine energy.Thank you very much, best explanation.

at first i was like idk about this girl but she had extremely valid points every time !! thanks for that

Oh god Tam I love you sm like you explain things so well, they hit my heart just right, and honestly I ALWAYS learn from your videos. Thank you for existing ♡♡♡

You go Queen 👑 This video definitely did help and I felt more in my feminine energy just by watching and listening to you girl! Thank you 🙏🏼

damn sis you read me about being in my wounded feminine 😭 i started changing that recently but i truly needed to see this.

Literally the best video Ive ever seen on this topic. That’s what I needed to hear because I have been in the hustling culture for almost all my life until I started to prioritize my peace and just started living my best life. Watched it on 0,75 to make sure I got everything. I would also love if you spoke a bit slower so we get all your points! They have so much power ❤

Your words are so inspiring to me. I honestly didn’t know I was a wounded feminine energy until you spoke about the traits

This was amazing to watch. The place I work, the stuff I’ve been through has really got me masculine traits. My job requires me to be dominant, be providing and I feel like I’ve been in survival mode my whole life. Everywhere I go, everything I see on social media has gotten me the idea that I need to work 24/7 and that I’m not worthy if I dont have a million dollars by 25. I’d be a failure if I take a day off, I’d be a failure if I decid to relax instead of working. Lately it has caused me some depressive feelings and has gotten me into substance abuse and I stopped taking care of myself just so I could finally get a fucking break. Thankyou so much for this video (btw, I’ve been sober for a couple of weeks so it’s going better)

I love how she distinctly separates feminine energy from femininity and clarifies that feminine energy doesn't mean being submissive to a man and letting him decide and control over my life. I feel this concepts are not explained enough to society and it gets misunderstood so easily. Thank you Tam for spreading the word to all the people out there❤️❤️

I LOVE LOVE the disclaimer love how this is about loving you and not men!! Love you for this 🩷🩷

I love my man's money

Thank you! I love the way you explained this🥰 I'm going to have my 14 daughter and her friends watch this video. You did an amazing job🤍 so much better than I could explain!! Much love and blessings to you 🙏😇

I love you ❤ this is a pure, authentic, passionate and inspiring woman. Sending love to all healing from feminine wounds ❤

Omg i never thought I was in my masculin energy but this was just so eye opening. It all makes so much sense. 🤯 thanks for sharing your knowledge 🙏

I just came across your channel and I'm super happy to have seen this video! I needed to hear this! Love love love this content and the energy you bring to the topic. You're amazing with how you break down feminine energy I have a much much better understanding. Appreciate this so much!!☺💜💞💕💜🤗

The point I love most about gaining feminine energy is finding the balance and truly understanding that you can chase your dreams while also living a soft life❤️

the best video I've seen on this topic so far , loved it soooo much 💖

wow girl wow. I am so impressed by you. I have already started my level up journey but I recently found you and you and the content you are giving out is so amazing and helpful. Thank you so much

I feel like I manifested this video, I needed this 💜

This video really helped me a lot! I’ve been going through a bit of a hard time recently, exactly like what’s been mentioned in the video, I think up until I met him I knew what I wanted in life and I didn’t care about what others thought of me as long as I am happy. I also loved travelling and spending time with the girls. When I was with him he made me feel really bad about the way I am thinking and I think in a way he gaslighted me and I just felt so insecure and he says I need to made more effort to look after him and to please him. I started to do a lot of things for him that I never do for anyone else before and what do I get ? Exactly what you mentioned ; a guy who wants to 50/50 a guy who is acting like he needs to be nurtured by his mother. And always complaining I’m not good enough. I’m working back on my feminine energy again and being a better me. Never again will I be so stupid to act like this again!

Thank you for this video! I almost want to cry! You've helped me so much ✨️🌱

I have always asked myself about the reason for all the problems and negative feelings that I have but now I know the reason thanks to you and I will work to overcome them Thank you really for this video it helped me a lot....

Right every bit! How can someone be so intelligent?! Hats off lady

OMG! This was such a great video! Every word, I was like PREACH!!! Thanks for this message!

Tam is healing so many people and getting so many lives saved thank you for this

Wow so impressed! Please show us more of this theoretical knowledge in practice. How does a day of radiating feminine energy look like?? I'm excited to find out more❤

you and Liz are the sisters I always needed

Happy to know there are more and more high value women! Good video

personally i dont think feminine men are any different i think they r just more sensitive. also females arnt a prize to be won they are people to be nurtured and catered for. also female can can make plans its not always to man does everything, it should be a 50/50 effort so both parties are equally putting the same amount of energy into the relationship so that way its not one sided and unbalanced.

thank you so much for the video! I love how you stated that masculine and feminine energy have to be balanced, because i've been thinking that i only should have such a big feminine energy. i like your explanation. xoxo

This video his really opened my eyes to a lot, I'm grateful to have come across this especially since I'm just starting my self care and healing journey after being in a flight or fight mode for as long as I can remember.

I LOVE LOVE this video!!! ❤❤❤ wish I knew this before I started dating, I could have avoided so much heartache and time wasted.

I appreciate how this can be empowering to many people by sharing that women should not have to settle for anything that doesn't value them for who they are and definitely think that a lot of these ideas are quite outdated. Using "feminine men" to talk about me who take advantage of people/are insecure and project is quite odd, men being very feminine is normal and men who feel in touch with their own feminine energy aren't any less than. Men have. People can be anything and shouldn't be limited to a black and white mentality. The range of human emotions and energy is so vast. Also saying women NEED masculine men is also very heteronormative. There are many women who aren't interested in men at all, and this black and white thinking excludes people who don't align with both feminine and masculine energy. yeh.

This is the first video I have watched that explained feminine energy to me just the way that it is, Thank you!

I very much am an avoidant as well. I've become aware of this as i've grown and now i'm allowing myself the time to relax and not worry about the future as my anxiety sets in when i do. I'm practicing allowing and also asking for what I want without shame or guilt. It's been so freeing. Also just accepting the moment for what it is and not trying to change things makes moving on so much easier. It's a bit of a paradox but once you learn to listen and trust yourself again, things flow naturally

💖🌼🌹 I am a mother of grown children, and I am happy to see the shift in young women for living, manifesting, and celebrating their feminine energy. We need that because the hectic modern world with its pressures has gone upside down and forced us as women to take on a variety of masculine roles, mostly out of necessity, in order to take care of ourselves and our families, in order to pursue our careers, in order to appear adequate, competent, and equal. But the trade off is that we often have to supress our natural goddess energy and neglect our own nature and needs. I love your message. However, I found your delivery of this topic to be a little bit difficult to withstand because of the editing. Basking in feminine energy and being soft reflects greatly in our mode of expression, so the way we speak and the way we communicate verbally and through gestures should be relaxing and calming rather than loud, rushed, and pressured - and I see this style of grinding, fragmented delivery in a variety of subjects all over social media. In the case of presenting this topic, in my opinion it works counterproductively and creates a sort of inconruance in the message. I work in the mental health field, and one of the skills that are essential in my line of work is the ability to calm people and instill serenity and trust. Feminine energy comes in quite necessary in such circumstances. I know I am being critical, but I want you to know that your content is beautiful and much needed, and I so appreciate it, but I believe it should be "softer" as a principle and model, and delivered with more downiness. 💖🌼🌹💖🌼🌹 Great channel.

I really needed this video, thank you so much! It has made me realise about the things I have been doing right, and wrong. I, however, do have a specific thing when it comes to splitting the bill on the first date, I always thought that was the most polite thing, to at least offer to pay my part, and I feel awkward if I don’t. Maybe that’s just a little too much masculine energy that I have and need to work on? Because I feel like it always is rude if I don’t even offer to pay 😂 and it’s always such a weird moment that I get nervous about it :/

You have become my morning routine .I watch your videos before starting my day.

You are literally the best women.. I have been in a very bad confition but you made me stood strong thankyou

Raising my daughter to be 100% able to do things herself; buy her own house, maintain her car, be able to do DIY, acheive at school. You should be able to know you can do things yourself.....but LET men do things for you 😉 And assertive communication. ALWAYS. Ultimate secure attachment move 👍🏻

Tam, I LOVE your content SO FUCKING MUCH!! I love how you show that it's all about balance and not about being 100 % masc or 100 % fem. That we can chase our dreams while having a soft life. Every woman should see this video.

This is the BEST explanation of true feminine energy I have found. Thank you so very much! 💕💋

11:15 - never felt more heard seen, and called out before in my whole life 😂 i hit that subscribe button so fast! thank you so much for this video, it really opened my eyes to a lot of the mistakes i’ve been making in my wounded feminine energy

Everything a woman needs to know about feminine energy in a nutshell!!! Thank you!

Thank you! Very well spoken & pin pointed a lot of things we all can work on. 💞

I use to be wounded feminine but I’m currently in healthy feminine energy ❤

Thank you for the advice sis 💛

Love so much of this video. So much of my healing journey has been healing the feminine energy which you have helped me understand 💕