How To Focus On Yourself To Get Your Ex Back After A Breakup. By Coach Lee
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Күн бұрынInformation on how to focus on yourself to get your ex back. In this video, Coach Lee explains how focusing on yourself can help you get your ex back after a breakup while also helping you become stronger, more attractive, and more aware of the other important relationships in your life.
Focusing inward after a breakup is the most attractive thing you can do while also giving you a good chance of reuniting with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend.
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@AMLFilms 3 жыл бұрын
It's been 6 months after the break up, it was hell at first being alone but i focused on myself and my craft. I blew up on KZfaq during the no contact period and now she wants me back. Sorry i'm not interested anymore. Peace.
@gaoang3391 3 жыл бұрын
I was ok until I saw their picture , this week I’m like the first month on my break up .. almost 6 months break up as well near 3 months NC , he is in a rebound 😒...I want teach your point
@AlienAmerican 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah you did, nice job!!!
@AMLFilms 3 жыл бұрын
@@AlienAmerican Thank you
@juliet3227 3 жыл бұрын
Wish I was in your shoes right about now
@AMLFilms 3 жыл бұрын
@@juliet3227 your time will come 🙏
@Tyreek99 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think forgetting what happened is the hardest, thinking of her with someone else makes me sick to my stomach 💔
@maybugz 3 жыл бұрын
Stay off of dating apps, Facebook and all that shit. Work on yourself, work out, keep your home and your clothes clean, eat well. All these little things help to make you feel better. I'm 5 months on now, its a slow process so don't expect to be ok in a couple weeks.
@aditikamble7001 3 жыл бұрын
@@maybugz kudos to you ! ^_^
@georginabrigs1891 3 жыл бұрын
Sad but also true :(
@abhisheksherring43 3 жыл бұрын
Same here bro 👍
@ifealade7547 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@alifaimama5808 3 жыл бұрын
"i am going to toughen up. I am going to focus on me. I'm going to let my ex figure this out because they've made a mistake, i'm not going to fix their mess, they need to realize this on their own and i'm gonna help them do that. In the meantime though, i am gonna focus on me. i am gonna surround myself with people who love me and care about me and won't break up with me, because i deserve that. "
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
I’m on the same wagon as you!! 👏🏼👏🏼 96 days
@leftwinglimbaugh9224 3 жыл бұрын
You: “ ...surround myself with people who love me...” Covid: *exists* Me: :’(
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
Alifa Imama How are you doing??
@carrellaurente4232 2 жыл бұрын
Do it for only for yourself dear
@surrealfeline 2 жыл бұрын
I WILL GET THROUGH THIS ONE WAY OR THE OTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@fabiusmaximus2356 3 жыл бұрын
Day 19 of No Contact. Already feels like it's been a decade.😑
@vietnamsapling9129 3 жыл бұрын
Me too! Today is 19 days of no contact. I miss him so much
@fabiusmaximus2356 3 жыл бұрын
@@vietnamsapling9129 I miss her as well. BTW it's interesting that you are also on day 19.
@aronchas 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine me, 2 and 1/2 years of no contact 🤣
@fabiusmaximus2356 3 жыл бұрын
@@aronchas Oh boy😁. If I reach that point I'm not sure whether I'd bother to look back.
@aronchas 3 жыл бұрын
@@fabiusmaximus2356 I will tell you the truth, I still miss her, even though I have been with other gals, she still on my mind, and there is no single day I do not remember her. Maybe because we were together 5 years.
@juliet3227 3 жыл бұрын
5 months NO Contact and going strong. Do not contact them guys!
@joycesexton2495 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you 🙏🙏😇 ur strong
@juliet3227 3 жыл бұрын
@@unlikerjm Coach Lee says not to. I did the stupidest thing by contacting on the 2nd month and I got blocked instead😂😂. I went No Contact
@gaoang3391 3 жыл бұрын
@@unlikerjm never contact them till they reach out
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
Ruwai rmnh Every relationship is different and the cake isn’t done just because you smell it. 🍰
@ananunez1423 3 жыл бұрын
Day one for me
@seanfredericks_ 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach lee for getting me through the first 2 months. Now I’m happier than I ever was with her. Focus on yourself like he said
@shripadsawant1756 3 жыл бұрын
god bless❤️
@maybugz 3 жыл бұрын
Im 5 months on and like a different person I was a few months ago. Keep at it, you're that bit closer to happiness each day!
@Jakecaseyy 3 жыл бұрын
So happy for you !!
@shripadsawant1756 3 жыл бұрын
@@babagod2348 im powerfull too i have powers to remove ur comment😂
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
Pranav Sawant 😉😂
@allthingsforthesoul1886 2 жыл бұрын
its nice to have validation that I'm on the right path. I'm going to gym, I'm focusing on my family and business, I'm studying again and these help me forget about my pain sometimes.
@plunderersparadise 4 ай бұрын
It's good to read that. I started contacting my good friends, I'm a bit stunned, but setting up good routines
@edwardchace9923 3 жыл бұрын
Legit coach. His methods assures and considers two major eventualities: - you will heal and remove interdependency from your previous relationship. Move on, per se. - you will get back with your ex because you moved on without closing doors for ex, and for anyone basically.
@MazenMarakebgiBadBoy 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy after 3 month, learned new hobby and had my new appartment, reading new beneficial books etc. Thanks coach
@skincarerainbow4950 6 ай бұрын
That's the spirit ❤
@nylonbird 2 жыл бұрын
I threw my ex for a loop because I acted calmly, didn’t cry, and politely told him it was weird to stay friends lol a mutual friend of mine said it was the first time a girl had responded like that to him while he was dumping them. I’ve been in no contact ever since-day 37, since then he’s told another girl that’s she’s beautiful on social media. It sucks, but I think NC is working because I’m starting to see him as the d*ck he really is and that the person I want to be with will never treat me like this :D
@valerie2827 Жыл бұрын
🥳🥳🥳THANK YOU COACH LEE!!!🥳🥳🥳 No contact does work - as Coach Lee says, "believe & trust!" After 8 years together, we broke up in July, & he moved out. I was DEVASTATED. I never ever in a million years thought he would actually move out. We talked off & on in August because we were both confused about what we wanted, if we could fix things, etc. And then he met the "rebound". When I found out about HER, I finally told him we don't need to talk anymore and to leave me alone. That was last Wednesday. I did not contact him again. He showed up at my door this afternoon. I was shocked, to say the least - i thought he'd moved on. Well, apparently he dumped the rebound & wants to come home. I told him I wasn't sure, we still have a LOT to discuss & things to work out. I'm not sure what will happen, but we agreed to get together sometime this weekend to "talk". 🙏🤞🙏
@crystopher-aaronricafrente1103 Жыл бұрын
Happy for glad it worked out for you(:
@pandora9092 Жыл бұрын
How are things now?
@Robertgio Жыл бұрын
I sincerely hope things worked out for you.
@IvanaGirl Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t take him back
@rakeshbaruah3203 3 жыл бұрын
She ended our 10 years relation about 25 days ago. Its been 22 days of no contact since then. I dont need her anymore. I am a happy person now.
@joycesexton2495 3 жыл бұрын
be strong brother 💪🙏💪🙏
@veeoby3364 2 жыл бұрын
Look within, you might be the cause of the breakup. Just saying.
@spunkycat88 3 жыл бұрын
What i love in this vid: "Time is on my side" Thanks coach Lee... i will focus now to myself and improve the better version of me👍🏻
@gothamcity007 3 жыл бұрын
Good job! Focus on yourself 100% As an woman respect yourself become more traditional and submissive to receive the greater reward. Don’t follow this bullshit feminist system! Write a list for the “Man” you desire and take your time remove yourself from the market.
@Tyreek99 3 жыл бұрын
I think most ex’s move on unfortunately, the sad truth but most do, if you’re lucky they come back but most of them don’t, especially to the guys out there - work on yourself for the Queen that’s going to come and love you correctly 🖤💭
@George-Aguilar 3 жыл бұрын
It’s been 10 months. I month of limited contact and I have healing slowing. Just tired and want it to end. Praying for patience and strength.
@Jakecaseyy 3 жыл бұрын
You got this man !! Love your self
@gothamcity007 3 жыл бұрын
Dude you need to let her go!!!!!!!!! It’s been 10 months you still obsessed with her. She moved on long time ago it’s time for you to move on as well NOT with other woman but moving on as an man with your mission and purpose.
@ppv1780 3 жыл бұрын
How long were you guys together ? If you were together a short amount of time then yeah, she has probably moved on either way, you could reach out, if things don’t work out or she seems cold/distant then just keep moving forward as you already tried and it no longer depends on you. Good luck
@uranne 3 жыл бұрын
I prayed to God to give me many wholesome things to put my attention on instead of obsessing over my ex. I found a vlogger that I really love and now I am watching his videos more and more. The vlogger is a philanthropist and is humorous so he makes me laugh and he warms my heart. I am thinking of the ex less and less. Praying for comfort and strength for you. 🙏
@LiLgPnoy15 3 жыл бұрын
I made all the classic mistakes after my ex broke it off. I begged, I cried, I tried to use logic. I kept telling her I understand her side. You know where it got me? Nowhere.
@amanpradhan5221 3 ай бұрын
True. It was too late for me too when I understood this. I never heard from her again.
@Sharnic285 3 жыл бұрын
Me and ex, separated 5 months ago, we talk coz our baby girl we sneak in some unrelated talk. But little does she knows that I not only after breakup I got new job but am stable, more solid in foundation I am now doing things not only I but we never got to do. I know once she finds out what I am doing she will think twice. Self care and better yourself is the key I believe that
@isaachayes21 2 жыл бұрын
Yea Coach Lee, moving on is moving on. I now focusing on myself physically, emotionally and mentally. Since l hit the gym, l am looking really great. Thanks Lee.
@theoriginalmurphy5015 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach lee, I been focusing on myself being happy & I realize I dont want her ass back at all 😎
@leroytorres1979 3 жыл бұрын
Last of this sounds like you are still mad. Lol
@theoriginalmurphy5015 3 жыл бұрын
@@leroytorres1979 never mad! Realization sets In all our minds young man, especially when It was made to be your fault all the time but wasn’t at all.
@BunnyMaester 3 жыл бұрын
@@theoriginalmurphy5015 Preach, brother!
@BooTanner 3 жыл бұрын
It's been over a month and I still wake up and wonder if it's a dream. I have been focusing on myself lately and my body feels great, but my heart just feels like crap. My ex said I was too available and I don't know how to work on that. Do you have any videos on being less dependent on someone else. I feel like I've seen all your videos, but that's probably not true. It's been a tremendous help, and thank you Coach Lee!
@williamnesh223 3 жыл бұрын
You look at detachment videos some co dependent videos on how to not depend on their presence while you working on yourself. Get you more goals to achieve more hobbies to build plan you some trips go travel meet and mingle with other people if they aint thinking about you dont think about them.
@thelovechannel7236 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being real . You’re one of the best relationship coaches on you tube .
@GM-nf4bw 2 жыл бұрын
Separate loss and love! I have watched your videos today over and over. This separating loss and love really opened my eyes. I am feeling the loss so bad that I feel in despair. This is calming my anxious heart ❤️. Thank you!
@LabradoodleTofuBoy Жыл бұрын
Me too. I'm like a stalker watching almost all of Coach Lee's video. He's honest and speaks on behalf of heartbreaking souls like us lol. I'm still mourning. I'm trying to let it go so I can focus on myself. One day at a time I kept saying.
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
@@LabradoodleTofuBoy I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. It's awesome! myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@LabradoodleTofuBoy Жыл бұрын
@@jannlewandowski5540 Thanks Jann. I have moved on! He betrayed me & it is not worth saving
@jasoncavill8179 2 жыл бұрын
After a month of working on myself physically, financially, and socially...my ex said she was hurt because I wasn't doing this before the breakup. She's been showing signs of wanting to reconnect, and I'm sticking to strategic contact, because no contact is impossible living together with 5 months left on the lease..and we have a baby. Rough situation, but I'm turning my life around.
@jasoncavill8179 2 жыл бұрын
Update: 3.5 months after the breakup, and she is solid in her decision. I messed up by being heartsick and unable to show strength with self respect. I did everything you shouldn't do, and made it so much worse. We still live together, but I became obsessed with what she was doing..I finally turned my energy inward and have been staying away from her. Things calmed down and I think she's talking to someone else now. Not going to ask anymore. I'm trying to move on...
@skincarerainbow4950 6 ай бұрын
@@jasoncavill8179i hope you are doing well..
@aliciau2276 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Coach! Almost 4 weeks of NC and I rewatch your videos for motivation.
@marydaniels8829 3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos..cant say enough how you have helped me these last couple of months
@Sweesweet12 3 жыл бұрын
The speech at the end of this is pure gold. Thank you Coach Lee! 🔥🔥🔥
@adblrow1514 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos have been helping a lot thank you. I’m still hurting a lot but I’m doing my best to focus on myself and better myself
@Jessy-bh4or 3 жыл бұрын
He’s my favorite relationship coach here on KZfaq. I always recommend him to anyone I know that ask me for advice lol. I tell them to binge watch his videos.
@JD_BigBLANKETS 3 жыл бұрын
Another great one coach, I bought the Emergency breakup kit. I screen recorded & made a album of those vid and the vid on KZfaq and will literally put headphones in and play back your videos daily
@nalinidubay414 2 жыл бұрын
You're directly talking to me . I appreciate your videos coach Lee.
@vickir9375 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice coach!! Thx so much, I always learn another tidbit of knowledge after every video of yours that is always applicable in my life. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
@roikaew 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach Lee. Your videos help me a lot especially this. It’s encourage me to do no contact and focus on myself to be the best version of me. You are the best coach. ❤️
@jullaosabel4233 3 жыл бұрын
The best coach in KZfaq. Always on point and very realistic. It's like I know what you're going to talk about but when you explain it, I always learn something new. Thanks coach!!!! God bless you. ♥️
@wall1025 3 жыл бұрын
I’m about one month of NC and I dream of her all the time. I want to reach out and be with them but I’m tired and can’t anymore. I’m enjoying going out and having fun with my friends. Take a trip if you can and do all the things you want!
@rickcanencia5762 2 жыл бұрын
This was an excellent video. Provided tons of insightful information that made a lot of sense to me. Thanks coach Lee! 🙏 🤙🏽
@2002farhad 3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, you are most greatest man in this field I ever seen, I start to listen to you from April, and that time I did lot of mistakes despite I heard you, but now for four month I'm keeping NC and she reached out few times, but I didn't fool myself as those reach out were not genuine as I wanted, as now is going I am getting really happy and understanding your words very better, as you are telling the separation is not forever, it may be months or maybe years, but what is important is our sanity, we should understand our worth, and we should respect to ours at most, if someone is coming along that's perfect, if not, there is no solution, so salute to you, you ever lasting genius in relationship
@cydionaldo8495 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach Lee for the encouragement. Four months of silence and getting better every day. Remove all messaging app on my phone and less active on social media. Focus on getting in shape and healing.
@muzih.ngwenya9768 3 жыл бұрын
I have no words to thank you. Matters of the heart are often very difficult to manage. Your videos navigate. Your videos make what would be a very difficult journey so smooth. Thank you. You helped me today. I wish i had came across you a few weeks earlier. However, better late than never. Much love. South Africa.
@desmartin1974 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach Lee. You are a blessing 🙏You gave me courage how to move on every single day. I feel like life is not complete with out the person that you fell in love with. I’m in a stage of grieving and you helped me how to continue my life and focus to myself. This NC rules sucks but I promise myself to have dignity , acceptance and respect what he wanted..
@jessepushor9967 3 жыл бұрын
been 5 months no contact finally feeling better some days are better than others but thank you coach Lee for Everything
@ismahanemansouri9268 3 жыл бұрын
thanks so much your advices are so real and accurate 😊👏🥰
@robbolanos3054 3 жыл бұрын
I made a lot of mistakes and I’m on month 3 of the break up and we officially started no contact Work on yourself! After 2 days of no contact I’ve learned to love those around me and to learn to love myself. Don’t give up on yourself. Keep fighting for YOU
@robbolanos3054 3 жыл бұрын
Talk to yourself, cry, but focus on you. Do what will make you happy
@blackrose4858 2 жыл бұрын
Best guy I have watched hands down he just makes you feel like life is going to be OK 👌
@georginabrigs1891 3 жыл бұрын
This is true coach! Before ypur vid i was telling my self although it hurts a lot that "i will get throught this" "i can forget you", etc.. It helps!
@KenRFoxNashvilleSEO 3 жыл бұрын
Great Great advice. Works for winning back healthy relationships AND for recovering from abusive relationships
@riponmiah8274 2 жыл бұрын
thank you coach lee, every time im feeling down i watch your video's and it really helps me to calm down and stay focus on no contact's
@thirdwatchupdate 2 жыл бұрын
He asked my best friend out. He has zero principles. I lost all respect for him. I would rather be single and listen to Coach Lee's wisdom.
@kingnralphgaming4983 2 жыл бұрын
Coach lee I wanna say this is some solid advice it makes perfect since. It’s litterly everything me and a couple do workers talked about last night and it makes perfect since
@Taran532 3 жыл бұрын
Coach, your advice saved my marriage. Thank you so much.
@tiglathpileser3329 2 жыл бұрын
That point of separating loss & love is very useful.
@gamerzterritory6731 3 жыл бұрын
Perfecting timing making this video, and as usual, outstanding advice. Please bring back your Skype services!!!
@joshichauhan040 3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee is one the iconic Coach.. I love his story “Baking the cake” Example Love this videos, watching over and over🙏 I’ve one problem every times I leave comments some scammers wants to contact their person for black magic to get your ex back so please peoples careful and follow coach Lee principal, Thanks Coach❤️🙏
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
Thank You Coach Lee!! I needed this today to push through the 90+ days of NC. Remembering that we need and we can and will get through this and we need to focus on ourselves and loving ourselves. God Bless You because I don’t know how else I would be as strong as I am without your encouraging messages in your videos♥️
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
Today is day100 and I can see ME again!! I Love Me more!! ♥️
@gabbymontoya2085 3 жыл бұрын
Even through all the turmoil of a breakup of a situationship still feels like a real BREAKUP I’m distraught even after 2 months.. I will not be misjudged or mistreated. I find comfort in all your videos I AM BETTER than all this .. NO TO DRAMA.. ever
@Nimbus3690 2 жыл бұрын
That ending is a mic drop. "I'm gonna toughen up, I'm gonna focus on myself and let my ex figure it out because they made a mistake and it's their mess."
@summerjunell525 3 жыл бұрын
Man! You have really helped me move on with my life. I just want to say thank you and God bless you. I've focused my attention on a new business I've started and I'm working so hard I barely have time to think about my ex but when I do I hurt for a little and realize they will most certainly understand one day how much I loved them. On the upside, I don't think I'll care one way or another if they come back. I'm truly a prize and one day ill find someone who doesn't have to lose me in order to realize that. Thank you. I'll continue to watch and share!
@pandora9092 Жыл бұрын
Man, your story is motivating for me. Right before my partner left, I was planning to start my business. I had nothing, and already work full-time (+overtime), so I wanted to spend my weekends on this endeavour. Now, I'm spending my evenings and weekends trying not to get overwhelmed with anxiety. I'm feeling mentally paralysed. I can still work properly, but I live like I have a rock in my chest and I feel haunted by the memories of him. How did you manage to get out of this preoccupation and focus on building your business?
@alperdomurcuk161 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Coach Lee. Many thanks for your help.😔
@andrewwall428 2 жыл бұрын
think this is honestly the best advice. since we split mid March. After being rejected after me begging ect I've been working on my self with eating healthy and I've lost weight that I gained over the years I'm now at the fittest I've been for a long time so even if we don't rekindle our marriage I'd like to thank her for motivating me and I'll continue to strive for the goals I want. New me new mindset. I love my wife but won't hang around for ever. your advice is spot on Lee just gutted I never knew these things before being dumped. it should be taught in schools so kids can learn and relationships could be helped before making things worse.
@pandora9092 Жыл бұрын
Your message is very encouraging for people like me, at the beginning of the process! Do you have an update?
@andrewwall428 Жыл бұрын
So nearly 9 months later it turns out my wife was getting me out of the picture so she could pursue a relationship with a cult leader of 50 years of age. I'm only 36 I'm sure there is someone out there for me to love eventually for now I'm going to continue doing what I've been doing for nearly 9 months and that's working on my self. I can hold my head up and know that I fought all the way for us and she didn't.
@pandora9092 Жыл бұрын
@@andrewwall428 oh wow, that's a whole other beast (like cult leader implies some brainwashing). Anyway, it's good to hear that you're still at peace with being separated. I'm also ok now, I think that I needed to be treated badly enough to be forced to work on myself and stop needing others to give me the love that should come from within. I assume it won't be easy all the time, but right now, I managed to see the toxicity of several of the people closest to me, and how I've indulged into these behaviours out of needing the love of people who can just love me on their own terms or use me. Now I just have to let go of needing the love of people unable to give it in a healthy way, and that includes my partner. I hope everything will keep going well for you!
@andrewwall428 Жыл бұрын
Hello Pandora he was a cult leader and yes he's brainwashed my wife and manipulated her and sounds like he convinced her to leave me so he can get with her and they have both destroyed a young family in the meantime. I have also learned the same as you and that I don't need people in my life that can't make a difference to my life like I did for them. Hope your ok in all of this mess that has drained our lives. I still miss my ex wife it's ashame that she did what she did we built a good life together I built us a home and a family and she binned the lot without a seconds thought of what I did for us. Ah well someone else will gain a good man and I've learnt alot about myself these last 8 months.
@She.33 7 ай бұрын
This video makes me feel better. I keep replaying it. Thank you for your help. Your logic busts through the pain in my heart so i can focus on a more positive mind.
@joncarbone 2 жыл бұрын
I watch these videos while working out, running. The best
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Joncarbone, I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. It's terrific! It has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@SNEHAGUPTA575 3 жыл бұрын
Nice suggestions thank you coach ❤️💙 you're best ❤️💙 person on globe 🌎
@MM-lb9np 2 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee Is The Truth!🙏
@shamishapatil6731 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your guidance 🙏🏼
@kruthihn3129 3 жыл бұрын
Thank u coach lee..love you so much❤️❤️ u made me strong. when I was desparate to reach my ex, watching your videos made me strong. My ex came back and spoke with me.
@attitudeonaltitude..3507 11 ай бұрын
Am beyond grateful 😅😅😅😅😅
@lmm222 2 жыл бұрын
You are amazing! Thank you, again!
@stevep4358 Жыл бұрын
You're the best coach for anyone in this situation. I've known this subconsciously and have been doing this. You have reinforced it and given me comfort in knowing I'm on the right track . Whatever happens I'll be stronger smarter wiser from any adversity.
@fmc4505 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach Lee. You are 100% accurate!!!!!!
@angellamellanie 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought I would be so at peace, been 2 weeks & a half, I’m not stressed not worried, I thank you for helping me let go without depression
@lcm1964 3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee your advice is the best...
@teresebjorsenius6432 2 жыл бұрын
I am starting to feel so strong because I realize that I can live without him. I stay positive because I believe that he might come back and while I am waiting in silence I do other fun things and take care of myself. I don’t feel that there is any rush to get back together, I know he needs time to realize what he is about to loose. And if he never comes to that realization then I don’t want him anyways. I am focusing on my goals and what kind of relationship I want. Yesterday I seriously started considering moving on, I lost the fear of letting go of him. And when I woke up this morning there was a text from him, testing the water I guess, he seems to be scared that I am moving on. Now I just have to play it cool…
@terael5637 2 жыл бұрын
Heya! What ended up happening with your ex? Hope you are doing well!
@humdrum9351 Жыл бұрын
Update?
@EducatedPsycho95 Жыл бұрын
I love that you admit that if you love someone it’s next to impossible to just flip that “love” switch off. A lot of other coaches will tell you to get over it. So say a close relative passes away, should you just turn that off too? Thank you for speaking the truth, coach Lee!
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
TadAustin2014 That is absolutely correct. You CANNOT just stop loving someone like flicking a light switch on & off. People need TIME to grieve. When they rebound, YOU are on their mind. People who rebound need a FIX, but it doesn't last! Let me recommend Coach Lee's Workshop for you know it's really difficult and I've certainly been there. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.
@EducatedPsycho95 6 ай бұрын
@@Whatsthedealio1977 hope you get through whatever it is you’re going through. Since posting this I’ve found the one I know God wanted me to be with.
@kirstencortez8190 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach Lee !ilove you!❤️😘
@williamnesh223 3 жыл бұрын
Thank u coach lee god bless
@nandophan5467 Жыл бұрын
For fellow folks that are going through this, it may be hard at first to think straight, my advice is please seek mental professional help first (hypnotherapist or counseling) first, if you want to get her back then look for dating coach, the goal is to clear your judgement first before advancing to next steps
@egosunsense3420 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks coach it means a lot.
@thelovechannel7236 3 жыл бұрын
It’s been 4 months no contact now . Unfortunately not by choice but by no contact order . I’ve watched this video Over and over especially on my anxious days when I feel all hope is lost of recovering my love . It helps me regain focus every time and not give false hope . I’ll be patient no matter how long it takes .
@pvz0484 2 жыл бұрын
Ugh, that's gotta suck. I'm so sorry :/ Do you think at this point, moving on is the best thing we can do for ourselves?
@annabylina Жыл бұрын
How are you doing today?
@thelovechannel7236 Жыл бұрын
Amazing , we are back together after going no contact twice . He needed to make serious changes . I moved on , bought a house and began to think for myself again and embrace and love myself . We have a child and I reached out to co parent . We agreed to focus on our child not the past and after 4 months we’ve taken accountability for our actions and fallen in love again as new more evolved people .
@MarionFiedlerMusic 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this. Breakups are bad shit.
@whennyali3251 3 жыл бұрын
you really good looking coach lee stay safe
@aniballugo555 3 жыл бұрын
This is the 3rd time I hear this video.., what a jewel it is 👏👏 Thank you Coach Lee for being the great support for those of us that trust and believe there is a great loving relationship moving forward with my ex!!
@acavmusic 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir. 👍🏻
@3pstudio358 3 жыл бұрын
Very good!!!
@cocobreeze12 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the guidance! This is exactly what I needed. I realized I was doing it all wrong, but I'm glad I recognized that. I know it's better late than never. I am just not sure what to do because we still currently live with one another and are more or less roommates. I am not in a place financially to move (neither is he) and we are just coinciding with one another. For the most part things are fine, but how do I utilize the no contact rule while he is here. I have already spent time away from him but needed to come back to my space.
@ritadearriola3982 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the informative video. Would you be able to do a video on if x hasn't contacted you for 2 years. I still think about him all the time.
@_astro_4291 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe u should take the step and contact your ex a this point 2 years is a lot show that you changed that you are a new
@lola6778 3 жыл бұрын
This is so real
@gew977 3 жыл бұрын
its been 2 years since the breakup and he still texts me to catch up but its not worth it if he doesnt talk about us and is willing to do the work.
@ivionsterviper9605 3 жыл бұрын
It depends, what does he talk like, does he seem to have any interest in meeting up?
@cadanflix 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I could flick it off because it’s been so long. I didn’t know a short term relationship could be so meaningful.
@user-uu7sk8bz5l 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You very much Sir.💓💓💓
@thomesc6214 Жыл бұрын
Absolute legend!
@terezavalencia2908 Жыл бұрын
Focusing on myself by getting better. Getting back out there and met new friends. All without getting into a rebound! Not focusing on wtf he’s doing I’m done.
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
terezavalencia2 You my dear, are very smart! Rebounds are the worst thing after a breakup. Give yourself TIME to grieve and heal. Meet your friends and have fun..❤️👍
@defactok4661 3 жыл бұрын
Wish i could help u with deleting comments of these spammers that try to earn off of your videos by spamming random numbers Gotta be super annoying Hope you arent too stressed out about it,keep the good work!
@evelien6901 3 жыл бұрын
Hey I've been spending 10 minutes so far doing exactly this!! I think it's super annoying too. Coach Lee ever asked his subscribers to become moderator to delete the comments of those spammers and he made me one of them
@defactok4661 3 жыл бұрын
@@evelien6901 if help is needed im up for it !im here most of the time anyway .NC sux)
@evelien6901 3 жыл бұрын
@@defactok4661 Unfortunately I can't make you a moderator myself... If coach Lee hopefully sees our comments he could do that
@tomdizzi5237 3 жыл бұрын
"Do it for you" best sentence ever..
@JustinWitDaCamera 3 жыл бұрын
Broke NC accidentally after 2 1/2 months but I’m on day 3 of starting over. Its a major setback emotion-wise but started NC back immediately. It’s mostly for me to heal b/c I want to be comfortable whether she comes back or not.
@pvz0484 2 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee mentioned it's okay to break contact by then. What pushed you into feeling like it was a set back? Was it their response?
@xoxo-vp7ww 3 жыл бұрын
Loss vs. Love - or - Loss and Love 🥺
@Sense-xu3ik 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you that very true
@abdessamadeaouni1121 6 ай бұрын
I don’t want her back to be honest ! Wanna stop this pain of missing in this no contact
@hobbypsychologinYT 2 жыл бұрын
When you started to watch coach lee‘s videos to get over your ex but now are in love with coach lee hahahha i love his dry sense of humor, it’s hilarious 😍
@teresebjorsenius6432 2 жыл бұрын
I know, I’m falling in love with him too 😂
@vivianjunesales5650 3 жыл бұрын
everytm I watch ur video I feel much better compare this past few days..now I'm ready to move on and forget wat happening in my life..
@kristineparrotta2456 Күн бұрын
Coach Lee.... You are the best!!
@chilloften 3 жыл бұрын
Awe, I love it! Thank you Coach Lee.
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