How To Get A Man To Respect You 100% When You Walk Away (And Even Come Back Later On)

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Elliot Scott

Elliot Scott

Күн бұрын

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@MsNobody
@MsNobody 2 жыл бұрын
NEVER LET A MAN TELL YOU TWICE HE DOES NOT WANT YOU. WALK AWAY WHEN HE BS YOU.
@AlwaysASolution-qj9be
@AlwaysASolution-qj9be 2 жыл бұрын
This is excellent advice! When a man doesn't respect or value me, i say to myself with a smile: "I love the sound of my heels walking away from something that does not serve me and someone who does not value and respect me." 👠👡
@Mindsetolympics
@Mindsetolympics 2 жыл бұрын
such a beautiful way of putting it!
@WanM786
@WanM786 3 ай бұрын
He never can give excellent advice. Because he is not a very honest person. Anyone can tell you what you want to hear.
@wilderheartland3920
@wilderheartland3920 Жыл бұрын
Why a woman lowers her standards is because our natural impulse as a feminine is to relate, and our unconscious programming on how to do that is to try to relate to the other by sacrificing ourselves and our needs through nice, acquiescent, agreeable, enabling behaviors. We'll go wherever the other goes, live how they wanna live, believe what they say, because as "good little girls", this is how we all "get along". We lower our standards because we believe that's how we relate when his standards are low. This is what we learn "playing nice" is. This is our f*king programming. "Nice". And it's just as deeply distorted, just as painful and destructive as the masculine's program of being an insensitive, self centered as*ole. Equally dysfunctional. Thank you for supporting everyone interested in getting a leg up.
@Marcianamusic_
@Marcianamusic_ 7 ай бұрын
Amen
@Nilzaneva
@Nilzaneva 2 жыл бұрын
Guys invalidate girls speaking up by saying they are needy, these guys are immature and lack the communication skills for a grown up relationship. I started walking away when my standards are ignored, next! I’m looking for my life partner, the one that will step up to meet my standards and put in the effort. Not entertaining anything less, my time and energy is of great value. Thanks for making this amazing content! 😊
@jjc2323
@jjc2323 2 жыл бұрын
Yes - I had a guy tell me once I was controlling - Umm no. I set him straight right away. Then a few months later I asked if even even still liked me and wanted to continue talking romantically - he sent me a video on overthinking things. Ended up dude is still hooked on his ex fiancée and was just wanted casual until he thinks he can win her back. I think this coach should do a video on how some men are still attached to ex’s and haven’t moved on (stuck and emotionally unavailable) and the signs of that. Took me 6 months to figure it out. Still continued being friends after but that really led no where (his request). What a time waste.
@Gigi-rg7xy
@Gigi-rg7xy 2 жыл бұрын
Was with my bf for 3 1/2 years and we have a child together. He suddenly felt “confused “ and wasn’t “sure” about me. I dropped him and said I didn’t want to be with someone who wasn’t sure about me. Not looking back . I’m not anyone’s toy or backup because they think the grass is greener elsewhere…
@ChristinaOstil115
@ChristinaOstil115 2 жыл бұрын
You still have to get child support for the baby.
@j-tenn226
@j-tenn226 2 жыл бұрын
These men are so confused these days and don’t know what they want smh. More emotional and indecisive than women.
@jayc342009
@jayc342009 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChristinaOstil115 she is the one who dropped him though, she isn't entitled to it
@FlordosAcores
@FlordosAcores 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. You made the best choice!
@Gigi-rg7xy
@Gigi-rg7xy 2 жыл бұрын
@@FlordosAcores thank you so much 😊
@raginisharma9302
@raginisharma9302 2 жыл бұрын
Yes lack of clarity creates problems . And it’s even more problematic when the guy avoids any form of communication but continues to give misleading signs. That’s when it gets bloody so confusing because you don’t know whether you are misinterpreting him or yourself. Solution: Raise your standards and walk away after convincing yourself that you did put your best foot forward. But it’s just not there so carry on with your life ……without him
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@diannecastillo15
@diannecastillo15 Жыл бұрын
This is soooo truuueee. I was in this kinda situation where I thought he was interested in me bc he was always staring and stuff like that and all other stuff happened. I tried to get him to be friends with me and be freely able to approach me but he’d always just position himself wherein I’d have to approach him first but at some point I stopped trying. I told myself that if he really wants to talk bc we’re classmates anyway, he’s going to come to me. So every time he gets close, if he doesn’t speak, I don’t either. Thennnnn I found out later on that he actually has a gf and I hate that he made me feel as if there was something and I hate that I put effort in him when he has a gf. I became someone who went after a guy with a girlfriend and that really hurts me and my pride bc I am NOT that type of person. And the worst thing is, he made me think if everything was all just in my head. 😭😭😭
@lnaph
@lnaph Жыл бұрын
Also, if he isn't consistent it really doesn't matter what he says...because even if sowmthi g happen happen he would be getting comfort from you..and it would be a compulsion to contact u 9 times out of ten
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 5 ай бұрын
Exactly. I always first check myself if I'm triggered etc. If i feel I am reasonable I tell a man what I feel or wonder about. Depending on his response there will be an outcome but either way the torture and wondering stops.
@BiancaBronte
@BiancaBronte 29 күн бұрын
The male best friend we all need
@beebee32002
@beebee32002 2 жыл бұрын
My theory is that when there's no clarity, we think that if we lower our standards he'll like us more and spend more time with us, and clarity will come out.
@delia8392
@delia8392 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we lower our standarts to tell us a stupid story about how the other person is still worth it etc etc. -.-
@KmLa7
@KmLa7 Жыл бұрын
So true, I've recently been in this situation. I almost get desperate for clarity or even closure to calm the overthinking 🤦🏽
@EllieM_Travels
@EllieM_Travels 11 ай бұрын
I don’t want to “get” a man to do anything. If it’s over I don’t want it back.
@cheriew2512
@cheriew2512 2 жыл бұрын
I think you’re one of the most straight talking relationship coaches out there!
@TheTtart
@TheTtart 9 ай бұрын
Oh. My. Lord. If only I had come across your stuff months ago. 🤦‍♀ Would have saved me so much time and heartache.
@touche5029
@touche5029 Жыл бұрын
I called it out and walked away..its been 2 weeks now of no communication..im working out, praying eating right, and crying sme (cz i love him) but i refuse to go back he will have to mke this ish right...not me this time
@mylife2022
@mylife2022 Жыл бұрын
Please keep going, and keep your head held high.
@reneehyslip4549
@reneehyslip4549 Жыл бұрын
Can you give us a update?
@basicinfo2022
@basicinfo2022 10 ай бұрын
Sad but true that most men will take advantage of you if you allow it and will manipulate the situation to benefit themselves the most. Women have to set the standards and boundaries of how men access or treat you. Dont be passive with your life.
@Mindsetolympics
@Mindsetolympics 2 жыл бұрын
Sooo true he would be a damn fool to think that he should invest more when I have a lack of clarity and give him all these advantages!!! I learned that this year and last year! “If you waste your time then he will waste your time”
@Saboramii
@Saboramii Ай бұрын
Don’t meaaannnn shiiiiiiiitttt 😅😂 love you Elliot!!! You’re so protective of us lol 🫂
@Liz-dragon-street.
@Liz-dragon-street. 24 күн бұрын
Fooled me ones shame on you Fooled me twice shame on me ❤ love from the Netherlands
@Jkattaa
@Jkattaa 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. It really resonates with my current situation. I broke up with him a couple days ago because I know I deserve clarity and communication and he couldnt even give me that. ✌️
@mustaphaibrahim5791
@mustaphaibrahim5791 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphaibrahim5791
@mustaphaibrahim5791 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@Swiss_Girl
@Swiss_Girl 2 жыл бұрын
did he come back?
@Jkattaa
@Jkattaa 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swiss_Girl I blocked him on everything. I don’t want him to come back. It’s unlikely that he will ever change, I have decided to focus on myself and manifesting my own happiness and abundance.
@rjlondon5801
@rjlondon5801 2 жыл бұрын
Girl I’m literally going through this right now. Day 5 no contact x hope you stayed strong 💪
@marlinsexxyhowell548
@marlinsexxyhowell548 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Agee! Never let anyone waste your time!
@sanatm
@sanatm 3 ай бұрын
point to point . everything you said is giving me goosebumps . i had several failed relationships . i understood . i was the problem . being nice is too weak in today's world . we kissing their ass, we bowing in front of them , we agreeing and accepting their little little shit turns into big poop commode. holy shit .
@007stinkey
@007stinkey 3 ай бұрын
I have this vid repeat!!!! Love it!!! Preach Elliott!!!
@karenfischer
@karenfischer 2 жыл бұрын
Great information! Thank you so much for your great wisdom :)
@hilarydaly1872
@hilarydaly1872 2 жыл бұрын
Ah this me Lack of clarity, even though I asked for it, led to dropping standards. Kept giving benefit of doubt. Ended it at weekend tho. Feel relieved.
@gigi5310
@gigi5310 2 жыл бұрын
As always!! Very well said!!!!!👍❤️👏👏👏👏
@sashaenglish2755
@sashaenglish2755 2 жыл бұрын
Love your honesty! straight up, no bullshit 🙌
@heidimoleculie
@heidimoleculie 2 жыл бұрын
Wow needed this 🙌🏻
@clover84htx
@clover84htx Жыл бұрын
My favorite dating coach ❤️ loved this video! Elliott will tell you how it is 🙂
@zmaf1543
@zmaf1543 2 жыл бұрын
I have about 15 guys chasing me. Because I genuinely don't care for them. I hate sex which is probably a bonus. Who can be bothered with this hook up culture and fuckery. 😂
@Khadijah_respectfully
@Khadijah_respectfully 2 жыл бұрын
I hate sex too, lol. My player has been chasing me and I think its because I'm repulsed by him AND he knows it. I guess he wants to change my mind about him.
@zmaf1543
@zmaf1543 2 жыл бұрын
@@Khadijah_respectfully it's funny that when you're repulsed by them they feel like they need to prove themselves 😂😂😂
@Khadijah_respectfully
@Khadijah_respectfully 2 жыл бұрын
@@zmaf1543 this is very true. I treat him like trash and since he's used to having women drop their drawers for him at the drop of a dime, he doesnt know how to take me. Now he claims hes falling in love, lol. I dont even like him like that !
@sunii4264
@sunii4264 Жыл бұрын
Fuckery. You get points just for using the word.💜
@marlenysmarte8098
@marlenysmarte8098 Жыл бұрын
Humans are like that, they care about the one that doesn’t care for them at all
@ed000
@ed000 2 жыл бұрын
I like your sincerity! Thank you.
@gabbymontoya2085
@gabbymontoya2085 10 ай бұрын
Love how you are straight to the point .. I’m learning how to walk away sooner .. and not be patient anymore with the BS
@glowshine8102
@glowshine8102 11 ай бұрын
Elliot honestly some guys are just immature and That's what annoys us We want mature men who are honest nd upfront that saves us all time and energy
@aizac.1979
@aizac.1979 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with the communication part 😂 Many men have this problem.
@lorieammons9370
@lorieammons9370 Жыл бұрын
Perfectly said
@susan5048
@susan5048 Жыл бұрын
He’s not doing this or not doing that because HE IS NOT INTERESTED. You are not the one. Drop the Mic.
@nunnallyai
@nunnallyai 5 ай бұрын
It’s more because the women is respecting herself and he isn’t respecting her, he probably was interested
@xulyns.4572
@xulyns.4572 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much this advice actually worked he texted me and I also prayed 😅🙏🏻
@charlieb4050
@charlieb4050 2 жыл бұрын
What I’m gonna do❤️🙏
@amandavictoriasewell7393
@amandavictoriasewell7393 Жыл бұрын
My standards are so low - I have taken him back time and again. No more. I'm pressing the nuclear button. He has the assets too easily. Thanks to your videos, I'm finally going to give HIM clarity, and leave.
@mad5467
@mad5467 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes if they have an answer ready for you that’s something you have to keep in mind as well because guys that do that are guys that are manipulators.
@fernandadeonna
@fernandadeonna 10 ай бұрын
I love how straight up he is
@paulagill6486
@paulagill6486 2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou I needed this advice and I think your great x
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@jinkazama1992
@jinkazama1992 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Elliot, you always give out the greatest advice ☺️❤️
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@jeanlemcke6458
@jeanlemcke6458 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant as always, Elliot !
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@SuzD0n
@SuzD0n 2 жыл бұрын
I think this is my favourite video so far.
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@theeladyj
@theeladyj 4 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@noxolosakang6547
@noxolosakang6547 Жыл бұрын
you are the best
@OriginalInsightsTarot
@OriginalInsightsTarot 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@marimar8175
@marimar8175 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!❤️❤️❤️
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@discombobulatedfishbowl7548
@discombobulatedfishbowl7548 2 жыл бұрын
I'll bet Elliot gets so tired of hearing the same stories when he's consulting women.
@ashsqx3246
@ashsqx3246 2 жыл бұрын
Because men use the same abusive tactics
@_rabia_demir_
@_rabia_demir_ 2 жыл бұрын
what a great video
@mustaphaibrahim5791
@mustaphaibrahim5791 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphaibrahim5791
@mustaphaibrahim5791 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@BalladofJanine
@BalladofJanine Жыл бұрын
Finally someone tells it right
@kourtenayt1927
@kourtenayt1927 Жыл бұрын
You and mindful attraction/toxic dating coach are the best on here for sure! Thanks for all you do!! If you're ever answering free questions in your video I have one - met with two different guys off dating sites and things were going great (around 3 dates in for both of them) and I noticed they update their dating profile - both of the most seemed really into me - interested. I had to end things after seeing that. I don't think if you were really interested in someone there would be any need to update a dating profile? My friends say people are still allowed to date after 2 or 3 dates but it feels disrespectful to me. thoughts?? :)
@kourtenayt1927
@kourtenayt1927 Жыл бұрын
To clarify. .. it's okay if they're dating people I just think it's very blatant to update a profile that you know I will see... it just seems deliberate
@artemisappollo1491
@artemisappollo1491 Жыл бұрын
Yes, those are my favorite 2 as well..they both tell it like it is and both are so funny 🤣
@lifestylebyyou
@lifestylebyyou Ай бұрын
If nothing is official yet, I'd say its okay to date others.
@jasminewatson5723
@jasminewatson5723 2 жыл бұрын
i needed to hear this because i need clarity Elliot
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@ceciliagarding4271
@ceciliagarding4271 2 жыл бұрын
Truth bomb💪🏽💪🏽❤️❤️
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@b.t.734
@b.t.734 Жыл бұрын
I think you are actually wrong. When a woman gets into a something-ship with a man, something in her hopes that this man will take the lead. It looks as if she wants him to take control of what is or can happen, but that he will take it or her to the right goal or place. So, woman lowers her standards? No: she is letting him visualize the road map and take her there.
@verarobinson6759
@verarobinson6759 3 ай бұрын
True ❤
@tess7798
@tess7798 2 жыл бұрын
Was the title ever addressed in the video?
@januarybaby
@januarybaby 2 жыл бұрын
Well. This was a fun pill to swallow.
@mustaphaibrahim5791
@mustaphaibrahim5791 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphaibrahim5791
@mustaphaibrahim5791 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@mr.rightone6588
@mr.rightone6588 2 жыл бұрын
It's like that game where you just try to reject the other person first right?
@valenciahenderson3489
@valenciahenderson3489 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!!!!
@stefincanada
@stefincanada 2 жыл бұрын
But if they always go to the path of least resistance then why would they even bother with anyone who takes effort to get.
@c.j.mackay4032
@c.j.mackay4032 2 жыл бұрын
High value woman
@adday.
@adday. 2 жыл бұрын
Because when there's someone we really want, it's different from when someone serves themselves on a silver platter to us. Men have a harder time than women saying NO to the latter bc of their biology.
@Pacifica74
@Pacifica74 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@lauralynch3726
@lauralynch3726 Жыл бұрын
I tried to purchase the e book twice but have not received it. I can’t find where to get help
@shannonpickens7695
@shannonpickens7695 2 жыл бұрын
Lol. “Your communication sucks!” 😂
@akuasalaam490
@akuasalaam490 2 жыл бұрын
A lack of standards... A lack of clarity... "You gotta call that sh** out!"
@morgangonzalez01
@morgangonzalez01 2 жыл бұрын
Accurate accurate accurate
@mustaphaibrahim5791
@mustaphaibrahim5791 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphaibrahim5791
@mustaphaibrahim5791 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^.
@rosannamiranda4620
@rosannamiranda4620 Жыл бұрын
I call out guy and he got mad at me and call me bicth and he pick big argument and than he play victim and then he called me crazy and than I blocked him 😊
@panthers4440
@panthers4440 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 brilliant!!!!
@c.j.mackay4032
@c.j.mackay4032 2 жыл бұрын
Me problems vs we problems. I feel like so many ladies don’t understand this
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@Highpriestess9696
@Highpriestess9696 Ай бұрын
If you’re wasting your time he’s going to waste your time factsssssss
@wellness-coach
@wellness-coach 2 жыл бұрын
But is like not way out They go for the path of less resistance so they will walk away from standard???? They will benefit from the resources we could be means they benefit the own ego which means not emotions and means manipulation Is that??????
@sarahatkinson1092
@sarahatkinson1092 2 жыл бұрын
Tough loveeeee !! I love you! Lmfaoo let’s be friends 😂❤
@lauraa2778
@lauraa2778 2 жыл бұрын
4:11 soooo true, glad I walked ...
@NoVivesDeEnsalada
@NoVivesDeEnsalada 2 жыл бұрын
6:36 Elliot, the saying es Nip it in the bud. Not butt. 😂 let alone ass. Good advice as always.
@annettesanchez3665
@annettesanchez3665 2 жыл бұрын
Elliott!! Please please give advice on dating single dads! Some of these signs you talk about don’t necessarily apply to dating a single dad. They don’t have the time to invest as much as a non-dad. I am dating a single dad. I do have to take a backseat. Just recently there was an accident with one of his kids. He cancelled plans (obviously). And a side note, we rarely see each other. I’ve known him for almost two months and we’ve seen each other twice. Lots of talking in the phone and texting. Anyway, I was totally ok with it and made sure he knew. But now he’s acting different. It was immediately after the accident. The day before he was all in. I feel like maybe it put things into perspective for him. Like maybe he sees that he isn’t ready for a relationship. That is just speculation of course. But! I need advice and I’m sure there a lot of out there that need your advice on this subject! Help!
@jenj1221
@jenj1221 2 жыл бұрын
What ended up happening? I recall dating a single father , and he was “into” me but faced the issue of moving. We met on his vacation in the states. He planned to move to Florida when his son was a little older, hence why he was here. he’s from Germany and ironically hates the cold. He invested a lot into me and into a possibility. Flying here a few times, paying for dates, hotels, (thousands if you add it all up🤨🤔) etc. At one point he was so into it that he almost couldn’t make it to one of our meetings ( fly to me) that it threw him into a depression for a few days ( the thought of not being able to see me truly hit him). He said it crushed his soul that he did what ever he could to make sure he could make it. I mean it wasn’t easy to hear the full struggle. With all this said…all it took was one ☝️ talk with the ex assuring him he’d never see his son again. He called me in tears saying “ I don’t see it working.” I was like did you Honestly look into all your options? He practically screamed “ I’m not losing my son.” 🤷🏽‍♀️ he was so torn on what to do. I believe they are more honest than the average guy and it’s not easy to date… I decided to kind of hang in there for a little being that he was devastated about it and I as well. We had to face a break up that we both didn’t wish to have. In many ways we were good for each other. He did introduce me to his family and the friends he had here. They actually truly liked me and it made our bond that much stronger. It meant a lot to him that I’d get along with everyone. Eventually we let it go…. I did find my guy… these videos are fun to watch to see the many mistakes I made in the past. I’m definitely learning a few things… although they are more genuine they have more on their plate to make a decision.
@annettesanchez3665
@annettesanchez3665 2 жыл бұрын
@@jenj1221 we are still together. I am being patient. I was seeing him once every two weeks but we have added a day during the week. When his kids are not there. We are taking it very slow. We are not committed. I think it will take longer than the 2 months that Elliott recommends. I am not dating but i am open to it. We are not committed and I definitely not going to put all my effort into someone who does not want to commit. He texts me every day. He calls me on the nights when his kids aren’t there. I do not text unless he texts me. I do not call him. I’m leaving it all up to him. I am not chasing this guy. When we are together I can tell that he is absolutely smitten. BUT how do I know for sure yet? I hate to say it but I have closed off a piece of my heart to be safe. Until I know for sure. But down in the open part of my heart, he is all there. Damnit! Lol I will keep you posted!
@annettesanchez3665
@annettesanchez3665 2 жыл бұрын
Well, rest assured. Single dads are Douche bags just like regular guys. He was saying all the great stuff they say in the beginning. Two months of bliss. Best. Sex. Ever. Then the pulling away started. We were not in an official relationship by the way. So her went three days without texting. Then reappeared. He apologized for it and I told him that I needed him to answer a text back like a normal human being. He agreed. Then he did it again. And then he went out of town for work. Texted me and said he was out of state. Two more days go by. No text. So I went on tinder. To put some eggs in other baskets and I saw him on tinder. And! He had put a new picture on his profile. A.picture he had sent to me two weeks before that. He has texted and I am not responding. My value is huge and my assets are wayyyyy to expensive for him. As Maya Angelou said “When someone tells you who they are believe them!” He told me and I’m listening. I could not have been this strong without you Elliott. Thank you.
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@forestfairy352
@forestfairy352 Жыл бұрын
“Nip it in the butt” bahaha love it when people say this it’s so cute. It’s bud, btw. So it doesn’t grow. If you nipped a rose in the bud, it won’t grow.
@angelabvlogs5490
@angelabvlogs5490 2 жыл бұрын
Elliot , Can you do a video about cheating and why men do it?
@FM-zg5hz
@FM-zg5hz 2 жыл бұрын
Because he doesn’t respect you.
@j-tenn226
@j-tenn226 2 жыл бұрын
Men do it because they can. That’s about it. There is no rhyme or reason.
@angelabvlogs5490
@angelabvlogs5490 2 жыл бұрын
@@mstenacious274 great answer thanks
@musicmaker1311
@musicmaker1311 2 жыл бұрын
@@mstenacious274 beautifully said
@queenie8230
@queenie8230 Жыл бұрын
I walked away because he wouldn't ever commit. I've told him never to contact me again if he doesn't want a future with me. He cares about me a lot as a friend and didn't want me to walk away, but he also understood he can never give me what I want. Idk if he will chase me. He even told me he won't, he cant Edit: He was a friends with benefits but stopped it because I fell hard. He didn't want to lead me on and wanted a platonic relationship because he cared about me. He did tell me from the start he cannot commit to anyone so I'm guessing it's my fault
@scalpfarmer8289
@scalpfarmer8289 Жыл бұрын
any updates? 😭
@queenie8230
@queenie8230 Жыл бұрын
@@scalpfarmer8289 we no longer speak. He wants nothing to do with me.
@FionaAgbayani
@FionaAgbayani Жыл бұрын
We're on the same boat... thank you for sharing this...
@SS-cd6ie
@SS-cd6ie Жыл бұрын
​​@@queenie8230 why not? Btw he would commit just not to you. If the right girl came along he would commit. It happened to me and it's truly heartbreaking. You dodged a bullet to be honest
@queenie8230
@queenie8230 Жыл бұрын
@S S I tried explaining that to him. But he kept insisting he would rather be alone for the rest of his life than to walk away from someone. He was engaged twice and broke it off because out of nowhere, he just wanted to be alone. He said he didn't want to drag me along like he did with his exes and so why he chooses to be alone. I've mentioned that if we remain friends, I would be hurt if he ever ends up in a relationship. He laughed and said well to bad, you won't get hurt cause I don't want to be with anyone period. We no longer speak, tho. He was the most kindest soul and giving. He stayed up for days when I had a family emergency to keep me company and was always giving ALL his time, but he just couldn't give me what I truly wanted, which was a relationship. He called me his best friend...
@tinkerbellUK
@tinkerbellUK 2 жыл бұрын
How to get clarity?
@terryseufert5011
@terryseufert5011 6 ай бұрын
A lot of alone time, soul searching...self awareness. Self love.
@kimberlymay9497
@kimberlymay9497 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏 funny but true🤷🏽‍♀️
@beccagoven7304
@beccagoven7304 2 жыл бұрын
Yea
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@How.Dare.You.
@How.Dare.You. 2 жыл бұрын
Is it really about the number of dates? Shouldnt be about if we fell in love or not? Whats the point to force things?
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@Mari-lv1rd
@Mari-lv1rd Жыл бұрын
He will keep his emotions in check and just play the game as long as he is allowed....thats why Elliott is telling you to draw a time line of 15 dates so that he does not waste your time.
@funnygirlever
@funnygirlever 2 жыл бұрын
Time to fix my 👸 . 💯🎯‼️
@mustaphaibrahim5791
@mustaphaibrahim5791 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphaibrahim5791
@mustaphaibrahim5791 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@lucysmith4693
@lucysmith4693 2 жыл бұрын
when we pull away or initiate/activate no contact - can we do this without telling them as in silence? I have asked him to speak to me and talk our issues - he agrees but never takes the time or prioritizes me or something comes up. I am tired and now I don't wish to explain. its been 4 days of no contact - he is traveling but i just have had enough and want to pull back and not gift him my absence permanently
@chrisannemoore4257
@chrisannemoore4257 Жыл бұрын
He sounds like a douche bag if he’s stringing you sling. Cut him loose!
@Layla-hg4ux
@Layla-hg4ux Жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@theeladyj
@theeladyj 4 ай бұрын
Wow you really dragged me
@Barbara-zo6pq
@Barbara-zo6pq 5 ай бұрын
How do you walk away in an elegant way.
@andreeabugar9651
@andreeabugar9651 2 жыл бұрын
How can I raise my value after being a lil bit intimate? I feel like he thinks he got me 100% and he’s feeling too comfortable..
@gabbynash1207
@gabbynash1207 2 жыл бұрын
Make him put in the work and pursue you. Don’t chase and don’t ever be too available. It’s hard when you feel anxious, but I promise it always pays off in the end.
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@Nono38-jj1tk
@Nono38-jj1tk 10 ай бұрын
A little bit intimate?
@gabriellacindyxoxo
@gabriellacindyxoxo Жыл бұрын
but he is the one who wanna take me out im the one who dont i dont like fancy places lol
@Releasewithphilece
@Releasewithphilece 13 күн бұрын
@ChristinaOstil115
@ChristinaOstil115 2 жыл бұрын
I end up arguing with the guy and asked him why don't he apologize to his grandkids about his bad behavior as a man.
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@5O4evr
@5O4evr 2 жыл бұрын
The love of my life (I'm a man) told me to stop calling her bc her grandmother got cancer and is 86. We were very close... together a lot..She stopped talking to me 5 days ago but was reading my texts which varied a lot bc well... Obvious reasons.. I did not just do the play it cool and stay silent. My emotions varied so I told her all kinds of different things in text from sweet to romantic to furious... Today I flipped out on her and she blocked me everywhere..This woman wanted to have my kids and everything... What is her deal? Anyone know what this is about? We love each other so much.
@ksref
@ksref 2 жыл бұрын
You didn't respect her wishes at a stressful time for her, instead putting your own need for connection first. I'm not surprised she's silent. You need to leave her be, you're only driving her away with the texts.
@5O4evr
@5O4evr 2 жыл бұрын
@@ksref if she doesn't need me during a hard time she doesn't need me at all. When she comes crawling back, I will laugh at her and never talk to her again.
@5O4evr
@5O4evr 2 жыл бұрын
@@ksref you don't want to be needed? You don't want your absence to be felt?
@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
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@mustaphamohammed8158
@mustaphamohammed8158 2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
@1msubschallengewith0video62
@1msubschallengewith0video62 2 жыл бұрын
Respect everyone who were involved in this. Seriously the best peice that I've ever seen on KZfaq. 🙏🔥🔥🔥🙏HATS OFF TO YoU ALL! LOVE YOUR VIDEOS !!! 🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@1msubschallengewith0video62
@1msubschallengewith0video62 2 жыл бұрын
Respect everyone who were involved in this. Seriously the best peice that I've ever seen on KZfaq. 🙏🔥🔥🔥🙏HATS OFF TO YoU ALL! LOVE YOUR VIDEOS !!! 🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@1msubschallengewith0video62
@1msubschallengewith0video62 2 жыл бұрын
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@1msubschallengewith0video62 2 жыл бұрын
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@gabriellacindyxoxo
@gabriellacindyxoxo Жыл бұрын
i enjoy being home with him
@954dreamer1
@954dreamer1 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been practicing in the mirror how to say I’m going to go
@wiam7575
@wiam7575 2 жыл бұрын
Second
@abundance3696
@abundance3696 2 жыл бұрын
1st
@reading7324
@reading7324 Жыл бұрын
All the dating coaches are like "men are shit, here's how you deal with it, and walk away walk away walk away" Whereas women are like - 😌😌 true lovee ...oh no 😔
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