Takes a lot to talk about this issue on the internet and normalise your own experiences, I hope everyone commenting is kind. This topic isnt generally discussed as an addiction because it is still a bit taboo so I really hope this video helps a few people.

I am nearly three years sober from porn and masturbation, and all of these ideas in one way or another were significant contributions to how I was able to overcome the addiction (it was most definitely an addiction for me). Another thing that really helped me was reviewing the AA program multiple times through, the 12 steps to recovery and all that. Gotta emphasize though, I used the 12 step program MULTIPLE times before I was completely sober. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and advise, it's incredibly important to make those connections, like you said, and remove the shame in order to provide room for healing.

"You watch porn to get turned on, because getting turned on replaces stress, and anger and sadness". I've watched many many help quit porn videos, and this quote hit me like a lightning bolt. I've been trying for 10 years to quit, and never have I heard that put so concisely. Thanks for having this video here. There's a lot of gold in it.

Thanks for talking about this, especially when I see male peers getting teased about it should they decide to not watch porn, like they're going against nature and doing something detrimental.

I don't know if you will ever read this, but thank you Jono. I've been struggling with a porn addiction for years now with relapses and everything. So thank you for being vulnerable. I hope that someday I will be close to where you are at.

This video reminds me of something else I've learned from relationship therapy and psychology: there are 2 main kinds of sex - performative and connective. Healthy relationships can have both but primarily focus on the connective kind. The connective kind is where physical intimacy strengthens and nurtures a couples' connection and relationship and communication and feelings of bonding and closeness. Whereas the performative kind can veer too much into the "physical intimacy as a job or chore" area where you can feel like you're just performing and serving as a form of entertainment and physical gratification for the other person, which can result in just the opposite of what physical intimacy should do and can cause feelings of resentment and distance and feeling used, uncared for, unappreciated, and being in a superficial, one sided relationship.

I feel like this also ties into hypersexuality as self-harm. Thank you for these videos; I always learn something helpful.

This is very valuable. Thank you. Healthy ways I cope: Hug a loved one Sit outside (a quick walk would be great but I would have to pack up 4 kids and they would want the park too lol) Dance party with the kids Sleep meditation on youtube Face mask Quick shower Piano practice That trading the rush for the peace is incredibly life changing. Thank you.

I appreciate your gentle analysis of such a difficult issue. While I don't struggle with this particular topic, your advice can apply to other unhealthy habits that I want to part ways with.

A good (and true) mantra for all addictions based on escapism and trying to substitute something else for real life, and/or as a way to cope and not have to process one's emotions in a healthy or productive way is: "Real life is ALWAYS better than fantasy." If for no other reason than in real life you can actually ALWAYS do something to make your real life better.

Thanks for this video! I am a loving supporting sister of a brother where his porn addiction took him down into truly dark side of this industry. His words not mine. It is true how the shame and secrecy only makes things much worse. He is doing very well but is still haunted by what addiction has cost him in his life. I am a fellow professional and my brother and I are are very close. The secrecy kept him from sharing what was going on with him including me. It took all my sister and professional tools to keep him together/alive once everything hit the fan. There needs to be more good education on this topic.. off my soap box now. This just hit me in a very personal spot.

Thank you for being so open and sharing your experience

I can't put into words how helpful this is, thanks for posting this. People don't talk about this addiction enough because it doesn't fall the most in line with other kinds of addictions, and it's also probably the most embarrassing, but it's a very real thing and it's good to talk about it. I feel a little more normal seeing that other people struggle with this kind of stuff

i just... can't thank you enough for this video. your help means the world to me right now

2nd time watching this video for inspiration. Quit cold turkey 209 days ago. It’s hard as hell. Great fear of losing the love of my life. Can never go back. Learned so much and still learning. Thanks so much. I still have some hard days but knowing what I’ll get out of it and what I can lose . It’s not worth it, my life with my wife now is so much better

What a powerful and very needed video. Thank you for having the courage to address this.

Most constructive advice I have ever received about porn addiction

I do the same thing with social media. Every point you make fits exactly with my addiction.

Great info! Here is what I have found works for me. I like to 1) read inspirational books, 2) writing my thoughts & fears gives me a better understanding about what I am feeling, 3) prayer & meditation are very helpful, 4) As was mentioned in this video the connection to others is critical. If I find someone who needs a little (or even a lot of) help & I do something for them my desire towards my bad compulsive behavior disappears immediately.

Really appreciate your transparency and your willingness to speak on this, thank you friend. I've dealt with this for many years and am in a season again where I want to be sober from it and change. It's led to other bad habits that I want to change as well, so I appreciate The encouragement and healthy perspective of no black or white thinking. 👍🏼

"the person you can talk to" is something I never thought I could have. I'm about to turn 18 and I have been... basically everything that Jon has communicated in this video for a long time but haven't made my journey to quit into an actual JOURNEY until I had an intimate experience with a friend last month and realised that my brain and body could not go beyond the frameworks of pornography for interpreting that interaction, despite me being able to do so with many other interactions that night. I was thankfully able to communicate these realisations to her which I am very happy about but once I had admitted that I had a problem, I naturally had to go through some pretty tough steps... and here I am watching & commenting under this video. The truth is that everybody deserves to have "the person you can talk to", especially young people who are not only subjected to the porn taboo but the "discussing sexuality with minors" taboo. Also, something I really appreciate is how this video separates people's values from their habits. It's a very strange process to separate those things for yourself but you need to if you're gonna get better. I have the same basic goals that Jon expressed in this video and have, specifically over the past year, been doing a lot of great work on solidifying great values and principles like that in my daily life. ...but the habits will still be there. Your voice of reason is not enough. That point also helps reveal how stupid the shame element is with porn addiction.

Johnathan speaking from personal experience

Thanks for the video, dude. Hope I can free myself from porn in 2024! The first step is taken 🙏

Thank you so much for this video! I loved every second of it! So much content around porn addiction, especially on youtube, is targeted towards cis men. And It appeals to this sense of masculinity that doesnt appeal me at all. So leaving that out of the video and instead choosing pure vulnerability is amazing! I have added this to the top of my playlist for videos I go to to remind myself the road ahead is not impossible!

My son says thank you for this video! And thank you from me too!

This is very helpful, thank you

Thank you for this video.

I really appreciate this! thanks a lot

The way I phrased it to a friend who was struggling with porn addiction was, “You are worth so much more than that. And who you marry will be worth so much more.”

I accept you very much with that past of yours and applaud you for doing the work. In a spiritual sense, you could say you went there to be a better support for your clients now. Since you are not watching it anymore but maybe have current clients, there are some updates that maybe good to consider. In terms of why things can be a bit more complicated these days. There's 3D simulations (that are near realstic or complete fantasy). And a full range from dumb, to full story telling and slowly even considerate behaviours (and maybe to be soon updated even with the whole hygiene spectrum?). So moral motivators are fewer. At the other hand, physics don't matter much, so people with no reality check can get really in trouble. By starting in their real life relationships with a set of understanding that is not just "fake" but completely outside of the possible. At one hand it's probably easier than ever to receive visual fantasy support for self-care as a single. If you're good at discernment and your self-care comes with good conscious balance. At the other hand the absence of actors probably makes compulsions worse, as the supply barely knows any limits. I bet that is very very difficult to handle as therapist as well as for people who are affected with negative impacts. Prof. Robert Sapolsky has a KZfaq series of Stanford lessings on behaviour that was/is super interesting. I remember him mentioning that studies on the subject of that type of material was halted, because it showed to have negative effects on the researchers. So if you are affected, maybe it helps you to let go of some perceptions of yourself. Even people consciously conducting studies are not immune to how our brain reacts to it. And apparently we work with VEEERY outdated "hardware" that handles reality and fantasy exactly the same in terms of how we process information etc.. The good news: We can re-train ourselves. And just like the decision to remove an old street and build a new street isn't "done" with deciding to do it, we all painstakingly slowly grind through the process of building new brainpaths and stopping to take that left turn to the old street on auto pilot. Each of us on several matters at each time. We're a constant construction site. You know what that means for the flow of traffic in town! XD

This is great! Thanks for all of the resources you've provided! If I can provide some constructive feedback: I think the movie inserts are pretty out of place in these kinds of videos. For me, they just kind of deflate the conversation by adding a laugh in a serious conversation. And seem to distract from the discussion overall.

Thank you Jonathan, for this (genuinely great) video AND for the warning about ChikFilet's Oreo shake. I've not tried it and now know not to. Ever! 😳

Thanks for this man ❤

1:10-2:02 So, to summarize, what he’s saying here is that, porn is all about lust and NOT sbout sex. And while these two terms may share surface level similarities, fundamentally they are very different. Lust is all about liking someone’s body and physically wanting their body whereas sex is much more about intimacy, closeness, and really taking time to connect with someone on a deeper and more intimate level. And I think that good quality sex is just a sign of a healthy relationship.

Thank you for this video

Jonathan, since you made this video, I would strongly recommend checking out the films Don Jon (2013) and Shame (2011). Very different genres (Don Jon is a lighthearted romcom and Shame is a bleak and realistic drama), but the former does a great job showing how porn creates unrealistic expectations and objectifying views of women and relationships for Jon, versus how much better off his dating life, and just life in general, are for letting that go. Shame is an unflinching look at the life of a sex addict, and how this addiction is just slowly wrecking his life. Tough watch, but it has Michael Fassbender's best work IMO at the same time. Both well worth seeing

My boyfriend and I had a discussion very early on in our relationship about porn - one of my previous relationships watched porn behind my back when he had promised me he wouldn't (we met at church and dated almost all the way through high-school), and when I found out, he admitted that my aversion to sex was what drove him to it. It made me feel dirty and ugly. And my current relationship hasn't been touched by porn; however, every time my current partner starts casually talking about porn stars which he has a shockingly encyclopedic knowledge of, there’s an awful pang in my gut. And I'm so scared to bring it up.

Thank you man you are so right 😢 lord please

Thank you for your excellent videos. I'm German, I can understand you perfectly because you speak clearly, understandable, you have a very good body language just " speaking to people, addressing them" as if you were in the same room. Although I am not addicted to pork, I have other problems (stress, anxiety) and I really, really like the way you show your connection to your wife ( in another video). I subscribed and hope to find advice to cope with my personal problems. Anyways, thank you so much. Gaby😍👍😍👍😍

Thank you for these videos and their variety. I’d like to see some content that addresses more time-sensitive addictions… like spanking children. Sounds kinda silly compared to the topic of this thread but I can see some crossover. I was spanked young, taught to spank my siblings and, today, I do not want to spank my children. Fighting that impulse can be maddening. What would you say to folks who struggle with addictive impulses but can’t afford to walk toward commitment? It sounds nice, but the pressure is on. Especially when it effects some small human’s future. Maybe what I’m really asking for is content on generational trauma… ready… GO!

I cope by praying and or fasting and or talking about things that hurt/annoy me. I used to gratify myself in the way mentioned in the video but that was mainly due to giving in to the lie, that I wouldn't be able to experience a healthy sexual life anyhow. I got over that and some monts later came to know my now husband. But I would say self-gratification for me was rooted in the ability to love myself in a healthy way. Now, even if we don't get to be physically intimate I don't do anything to replace it or make up for it. It's just like eating from a trash can.

Addictions thrive in secrecy and condemnation. You condemning yourself or others condemning you. "Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only love can do that." -Martin Luther King Jr.

Thank you soo much for this vidoe it was soo helpfull

i believe the rise of loneliness and rise of pornography addiction is interlinked and because of social media we have lost our innate ability to connect and being understood by the tribe...and establishing human connection and having an understanding spouse will improve ur situation hopefully...i havent married yet but i see that there is a kind of assistance that can be established

I’m able to go about three days without it now, but I managed about 25 days last year, but I had to be very mindful of where my thoughts were leading me

There's always the question of purpose. Quitting porn is not so much about your ability to quit, because then ego and self-esteem get tied into it and failure feels like you've been deemed insufficient. I've found that the best motivation is to quit for a reason. For me, it's all about dedicating myself to my wife. When you're addicted to porn the only thing you want is to be away from your spouse so you can masturbate in peace, because it's self-gratification. If you dedicate yourself to your spouse on the other end, you can't wait for them to come back, and it's a self-feeding loop in either direction.

Thank you very much.

or maladaptive day dreaming, or any sort of escapism that is between you and your true emotions, your real life and the people in it.

On day 12 , thank u 😇💪

been learning how to change bad habits and a book that is very helpful in learning about how they work so you can change them is "the power of habit" by charles duhigg and it is so amazing the way he does it so if anyone needs reading material to help defeat any bad habit that would be the book id go for.

thank you

I think I must be tired today, because I first read the video title as "How to Get Free From POM Addiction." (And - somewhat fittingly, actually - over the past few days I've been playing a certain video game too much, where one of the power-up items is a magical pomegranate called a "Pom of Power." For a moment I thought, "Oh, wow. A video about overcoming a Pom addiction. That was timely." Heh. Anyway.) So, I'll preface this by stating that I've never developed a true pornography addiction. I've been lucky enough that between experiences with my family, my faith, and all the severe depression that bipolar disorder brings, I almost never feel a thrill from pornography. Most of it downright repulses me and makes me feel sick when I encounter it, leaving me no desire to seek out more. However, I should admit that some artworks, which are merely suggestive, sometimes hold my attention more than I think I should allow. Thankfully, that hasn't become habit-forming, though I think it is something I still ought to work on. But as for me, the compulsion (not really an addiction in this case) that has caused me the most grief is obsessive gameplay, to the point that it's not even fun anymore; I'll find I'm just trying to seek a state of mental oblivion, and hide from the world for a while. Most often that takes place via video games, but I also sometimes have that problem with things like crosswords, number puzzles, and solitaire card games that I start doing obsessively, just to keep my mind absent from reality. I think that's one of the same goals that a person has when dealing with a pornography habit; it's a release from reality, sometimes pleasurable, sometimes merely tolerable, but always providing a temporary escape, one that is supposedly better than the misery of real life. Several things have helped me to deal with, and mostly overcome my particular compulsion. I think the two most helpful things in this regard, are unfortunately two things that became very limited since the pandemic started - especially while I've been trying to recover from my own post-COVID-19 symptoms. I find the most help from having positive social experiences with genuine friends, and from having meaningful work to do and meaningful service to give. Since those things are so hard to procure these days, that's probably why I've found myself starting to slip again recently. But I'll keep at it. Anyway, that's all I have. I don't know if that's at all helpful for anyone to hear, but there you go. All the best with your own battles, too.

Hello new subscriber, love cinema therapy. I was wondering about your thoughts if addiction is self destruction. A movie I thought about was Annihilation and do we as people tend to self destruct so we don't commit suicide? I just thought concepts from this movie could fit well in this channel as well as your other. Thank you for any input

Please im so addicted watching now

Thank you. I have used these ideas to cure my addiction to the phone and social media. The weird thing is there also are vey positive things from social media so this is what I find hard to balance. But each time I feel tired (during the day or night) I grab the phone. This is also a replacement for my need for connectiin and “resolving” different emotions. Btw, where is the balance? Sometimes I seek youtube or something uplifting to cheer me up, that’s healthy isn’t it? How much is too much?

Could you please do a therapy on grief avoidance in Fleabag?

Me seeing the title of the video:I am all ears brother!

Its been hard for me. I was taught how to masturbate at age 3. I did it every day. When I was 12 I found porn. I used that a lot. Im an 25 now and am working hard to get out of the addictions. Its all I know I have to re teach myself and be okay when a relapse does happen. I get really bad withdrawal symptoms. I now have been replacing porn and masturbation with caffeine. I have always felt judged for being a woman addicted to porn. Its not talked about and it is very shaming where I live.

For me, porn started years ago when the whole female population made it clear to me that I repelled them. Thus, I’ve never had a relationship, and never even kissed a woman. If they are ever nice to me, I brush it off, because I don’t trust them, and if they have ever been interested in me I don’t have the experience to recognize it.

Just to note, hopefully correctly, that porn compulsion, and morbidly obsessing over porn in shameful secret, isn't the same as accepting one's high "sex drive" (highly responsive arousal cycle is more accurate I gather), and being healthily open about planning regular masturbation time as self-care. There's also ethically produced porn, and ethical, measured ways to consume it. The porn industry seems from all the research no more compromised than any other late stage capitalisms. It's mostly the taboos and criminalization around porn and masturbation that cause the seediness. Dr. Lindsey Doe probably did some videos on all this as well (I think she's a trusted source?). Anyway the media sex work and self-love aren't the problems being addressed in this video (I hope? I feel like this wasn't directly said, and often "sex addiction" conflates a lot of things). Sorry for the rantyness; I've a whole personal growth thing around this stuff so had some thoughts.

I had an issue with porn masturbation when I was a teen. There was a time I stopped and it wasn’t an issue anymore, but there was one stressful semester in college that seemed to bring the habit back with a vengeance. It’s still an issue that I’m working on, but it’s really helpful to know that I’m not the only one that has this struggle of not just getting rid of the habit but also that carnal longing for a rush.

12 Step Addiction Recovery Program. Period.

Are the steps of quitting smoking basically the same?

What should I do if I know my husband is doing this but he won't admit it, he just gets defensive? We have a beautiful baby girl and I don't know what to do.

Question: you mentioned in your other video that you were Demi sexual? How can you be attracted or aroused by pornography? Don’t you require an emotional bond before you become attracted or aroused? P.S thank you for your transparency and honesty, I love your channel, as well as cinematherapy!

I'm having a very hard time being in a relationship with someone who has this addiction. We have had multiple conversations about it, and everytime they would say they can't stand to see me cry and hurt me, but turn around and go right back into porn. Everytime I found out about it has just lead me to feeling as though we aren't in a relationship even though I love them dearly. What can I do to make them feel that I want to help them?

On the other hand I was taught by a trusted adult who is also a Psych PhD to watch porn to save me from jumping into marriage just to have sex, because religion. There is icky porn most of them are but there are also good ones for women that are sensual and non degrading and just shows how women can enjoy the entire thing and feel empowered. Addiction is real and for anyone who has viewed them as a minor well that's a no go. I only started at 20 and only when I'm PMSing so there is a healthy way to consume porn. It's erotica literature, not that 50 shades ick, but visual. So yeah do you and be a functioning healthy human being. People have choices just make sure the choice is good for you and everyone around you. I'm Catholic and God still loves me 🙏

Never realize my husband has porn addiction until he cheated on me... after he cheated he admitted he had fantasy sex life. That's how he got carried away from our marriage 😢.

1. recognise 2. walk towards full commitment 3. eliminate black or white thinking 4. find the healthy replacements 5. the cure for addiction isn't sobriety, it's connection 6. open up and find someone you can talk to

Congrats, you've got a new addiction! Talking about it ;D

I’ve been watching porn since 12 years old and I’m 20 now still watching

I would be so gratefull if you please make a video of how to stop hipersexualizing women and pervert looking.

Por addiction is the wrong way of living and i don't wanna keep living like this , there is alot of videos of how they quiet and one day our turn will come

Just found out my spouse is addicted to porn. He swears he hasn’t cheated on me and that he loves me but I caught him looking up women on Facebook that worked in his area. He struggled with it in the past, and it started up after he lost his 21 year old cousin, my older kids lived back in causing stress , losing hours at work, and now his dad was diagnosed with a mass on his lung. I don’t know when it started again after his 3 year supposedly being done with it, from July’s 9 until I caught it last week. I love him but the stuff that he watches is disgusting and makes me sick. He said that sometimes you click on one and something comes up you don’t want but it stays on the search history. I need help. I am so broken after 9 years, I love him so much but I feel like since my kids have found out I have to leave! What should I do? He lied and lied until 8 hours later outside my door, he knocked and told me the truth. What should I do? (My kids are 20 and 22 before anyone freaks out)

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i just cant fight the urge for me it stims from my frustration of being a virgin

The need to cream!....oh milkshakes are good too

No one: Porn: Look, man. Step sister, ridiculous crap.

I use it to get rid of distractions when I want to focus, I can't focus when I don't use it, it used to be only for satisfaction.

What are you doing stepbro😂

Am I the only person in the world the watched porn and got terrified instead of exited?

Can't claim to be addicted to it, but I feel like actually talking to some seriously broken women are what ruin my view of women.

If porn is addiction, much like alcohol or drugs, then no one should encourage relapses or think it's okay to stumble. You are either sober or not. Period. You would never say to an alcoholic "wow, instead of drinking vodka for xx days you've drunk wine only x days, thats a progress!".

In my case, as a Christian, God helped me to quit porn and masturbation 8 years ago. There have been two times when I fell to the temptation to watch some film sex scenes during that period of time though, but I haven't been physically masturbating since I was 16. I'm 24 now. If you are trying to quit; there is hope for you. You can do this!

Jonathan says that the sex shown in porn doesn't represent reality and not only is that true of course, but I'd like to add a few things to that: Also, this reminds me of something else I've learned about the psychology of sex: that there are 2 kinda of sex - performative and connective. Healthy relationships can have both but primarily focus on the connective kind. As to the "realism" of porn - I'm a straight female, am NOT young (have lived a looong time 😜) and have maybe seen porn in my life less times than I can count on both hands. But, I've seen enough to know what's pretty representative, and for me to be able to say it DEFINITELY does not portray real life intimacy and closeness and connection. What it DOES do is do to sex what Hollywood does to romantic "love" - it makes sex into a consumable product / marketable commodity and form of entertainment - an immediate gratification, dessert - before - veggies, quick fix, visual, cinematic, completely artificially exciting fantasy. And just like Hollywood, always with artificial and happy endings. Sorry. That last part was maybe a bit much. 😂🤨😒 But true! Porn sex is COMPLETELY "in theory", "fantasy" sex and 100% PERFORMATIVE. I mean the poses and angles they use to meet the visual requirements of the camera and VIEWER / AUDIENCE (not the participants, who again are literally working and doing a job) can be wildly impractical, anything BUT sexy, and downright uncomfortable and even nonsensical for partners in real life. And again, the actors in pornography are acting - they are PERFORMING for the camera. In real life how much fun and connecting and productive for a relationship is it for one or both people to feel that their physical intimacy life with each other is PERFORMATIVE?!? And where your attractiveness and desirability to the other person depends on how well and often you "PERFORM" - and how well and according to what the other person wants?! - And how your attractiveness and worth is based on how arbitrarily sexually appealing your physical appearance and body parts are to your partner - much less on any given day? I mean talk about one sided and horrible and socially, emotionally, spiritually and mentally exhausting and unfulfilling. A LITTLE romance based on each other's physical sexiness might be okay, depending on the desires and turn ons of the people involved cuz mutual physical attraction / chemistry IS a small but essential part of a romantic relationship, but generally the goal of physical intimacy is to feel and develop and build closeness and connection with your partner, NOT to provide your partner with THEIR real life POV (point of view filming style) live porn experience - made to order by and for THEM/the other person. At the very least, not MOST of the time. Physical intimacy and physical touch in a relationship is a form of communication and specifically and actually, the more actual communication (learning each other's likes and dislikes, fantasies, boundaries, limits and everything else) is critical to actually mutually enjoying physical intimacy instead of dreading it or feeling like it's a job or chore or one sided, or God forbid, a performance, much less always a performance and only for the other person's physical gratification. I'll also say, porn can do a terrible disservice to women in that somehow it can get into males' brains - if they're not smart enough to be careful - it can program males into thinking and expecting, AND WANTING - that women should do all the work of physical intimacy - turning the GUY on and being "sexy" for them and PERFORM FOR THEM - THE GUY - in bed. Basically, if guys don't see porn for what it is - a paid show by performers being paid to perform a visual fantasy for a camera and audience - then those guys - if they're not careful - are going to bring totally avoidable and nonsensical problems and expectations into their relationships and bedrooms and treat their real world women pretty crummily, stupidly, ignorantly, and immaturely. Porn can create males who are boys arrested in their human development as mature, intelligent, responsible adults and definitely in the area of their roles as adults in human romantic relationships. Basically, some reprogramming and major reality checks are going to be in order if / when social programming of males by porn has happened. Also, as a female, the porn I've seen (though again, admittedly little although I think it's pretty representative of the genre) - ALWAYS highlights the GUY'S orgasm at the end and that's it. That's when the scene ends. Meaning: okay! Shows over! Nothing more to see or do here! Granted, that is a more obviously visual ending for the visual medium of film than a female's orgasm, and there are other reasons why that's a more cinematically clear and almost practical way to end those scenes. But again, as a female, I'm always like, uh, what about HER orgasm, people?!?! (Or whatever it is that SHE wants)? I actually read an article that said there are some female pornographic film makers these days making more "feminist" and female driven porn that solves that extremely bizarre, unbalanced and male centric bias but still, pornography isn't a good thing to make a habit of at all for many reasons (many if which Jonathan mentioned) but also another reason to reject it and how unrealistic it is (or should be) is that it's almost laughably, bizarrely, and unnaturally male centric. I mean, couples are made up of TWO people. One more note on how artificial it is, I remember reading an interview of porn actor Evan Stone and he said his whole job (and the female actor's) during any shoot was to make sure they were both positioning and highlighting the female/s in the scene to best appearance and visual advantage with the set and lighting and camera FOR the camera at all times. Imagine having to be aware of all that the whole time. Sounds like a lot of work. And definitely not very "enjoyable".

Ich möchte nur anmerken wenn der Grieche jetzt einen allein Gang macht ohne das ich positiv ei wirken helfe ich nicht beim cleaning!

❣️ P r o m o s m!!!

don't have an addiction. but my dyslexia read this as how-to gets free porn I had to reread it 4 times till my brain snapped right

Feel like porn are like potato chips, or Chick Filet shakes, not bad for you in moderation, besides everyone needs loving even if it’s loving yourself. Porn just brings you there faster.

Oh, this is mind-blowing! Genius work! 🌟 👅👅👅🍑🍑🍑

Oh no is chick fil a homophobic 😭

Although porn addiction is definitely real and unhealthy, there's a lot of generalization about porn here. If you go to the right places, it gets a lot less gross and objectifying.

Just get addicted to something else! It's how I quit soda.

i hope you werent paid from chickfila

Maybe I SHOULD listen to Enya... There's no way I could do anything in general with that garbage playing, let alone something sexual.

Sounds interesting but what if you arent able to find a lady to have sex with. Everything you said sounds simple enough but what if you havent been laid for years.

Ich hör keine Mädchen schnulzen Musik! Wer hört so einen Mist?

Stoop. You know what you were doing with that thumbnail.

Promoting addiction to Click It...and watch your time disappear

Number 1. Porn addiction isn't real. Problem solved.