how to get things done when you don't feel like it

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Kalyn's Coffee Talk

Kalyn's Coffee Talk

4 жыл бұрын

how to get things done when you're feeling stuck
welcome back to Koze Daily Brew SEASON THREE episode TWENTY-EIGHT✨
how do you break past inertia?
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@aprilovesyou4483
@aprilovesyou4483 4 жыл бұрын
“everything is aligned. it’s just waiting for you to check in.” good stuff.
@insyirah7675
@insyirah7675 4 жыл бұрын
1) dance to a current fav song 2) take a walk 3) clean/tidy your room 4) go through motivational pinterest boards 5) breathe in, pause, then GET TO IT.
@jennamarie8862
@jennamarie8862 4 жыл бұрын
i clicked so fast because i’m supposed to cleaning right now but i’m procrastinating hardcore 😂
@CarolineLivino12345
@CarolineLivino12345 4 жыл бұрын
love it! 😍
@bel.cascabel
@bel.cascabel 4 жыл бұрын
Would you consider making a video about selfsabotage?
@grinsRwins
@grinsRwins 4 жыл бұрын
Kalyn has a podcast about self sabotage 👌
@miablazekovic1125
@miablazekovic1125 4 жыл бұрын
Just set your timer to 10 min, use the 5 second rule to start and do 10 mins at the time. No need to procrastinate even more. Be sure to reward yourself after every 10 min block with a song or something small like a candy bar that makes you happy. Works for me 10/10 times. Baby steps are still better than 5 hours of procrastination and then 3 hours of guilt and non-stop work.
@teresaanthony9633
@teresaanthony9633 4 жыл бұрын
TBH the 5second rule never worked for me
@miablazekovic1125
@miablazekovic1125 4 жыл бұрын
@@teresaanthony9633 There is actually an excellent video by Mel Robbins on that very subject called "Why the 5 second rule doesn't work". I think she expleins everything so well and if you ever have 4 minutes extra of your free time you can check it out if you're interested 😊
@sukiatwal3762
@sukiatwal3762 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@dwipensarma4834
@dwipensarma4834 4 жыл бұрын
Me too, I use the same technique whenever I tend to procrastinate
@ErikaK
@ErikaK 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we just need a break just to analyse ourselves and find a why, why do we do what we do, what's our purpose... take a moment to re-center, to breath. Don't take it so seriously, have fun !! ♡♡♡ and love what you do :)
@sabrinaalexandra9902
@sabrinaalexandra9902 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed this, so thankyou ❤
@ErikaK
@ErikaK 4 жыл бұрын
@@sabrinaalexandra9902 sending love and the best energie your way ♡
@sabrinaalexandra9902
@sabrinaalexandra9902 4 жыл бұрын
@@ErikaK thankyou♡
@fatimaali6565
@fatimaali6565 4 жыл бұрын
this was the perfect time because I'm so stressed with school and leaving everything for the last minute just makes me more stressed so thank u. U deserve so much more appreciation💕💕💕
@lilangel0154ever
@lilangel0154ever 4 жыл бұрын
Everything you’ve described is literally how I’ve been feeling lately, and this really helped, thank you so much! ♥️
@Skizzle9295
@Skizzle9295 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve felt so stuck the past few months, it’s sent me into a serious depression where it’s hard to even get out of bed. Thank you for this❤️
@alpha6123
@alpha6123 4 жыл бұрын
Me too girl! Hopin it gets better...I laughed when she said that we're not lazy and I thought yes I am! I'm just exhausted when I'm in my dark place. I feel like I live in my bedroom. Case in point- I'm in bed watching this and commenting while I swore TODAY was the day I'd finally get up and clean my hellhole lol.
@Skizzle9295
@Skizzle9295 4 жыл бұрын
the entity I feel that! We just gotta take it one day at a time and now beat ourselves up on tough days💕
@pameladib4083
@pameladib4083 4 жыл бұрын
Love these tips, especially the one about asking yourself why is it you can’t start. One thing i do when i don’t feel like doing anything is not thinking about all the things i have to do, like i just do one thing without thinking about the next task. Sometimes it can be as silly as working out and going on with my day. So i just say to myself that i’m gonna do a small workout and i don’t think about showering or going to school, because sometimes just thinking about all the things on your to do list can be so overwhelming!
@roumy1640
@roumy1640 4 жыл бұрын
This video was really needed. I love how your videos are always on time 🖤🖤
@highlyfavored6671
@highlyfavored6671 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! This video was incredible. I woke up just feeling out of it. After midterms, I just lost my motivation, passion and drive for life but near the end of listening to your video I felt as if a fog just left me.
@amber965
@amber965 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I let myself jump right into a research rabbit hole, even if it's only loosely related to the task at hand. I often find that learning new and interesting things about whatever I am trying to work or focus on gets me really motivated to dive into what I need to be doing.
@princesschelsea1558
@princesschelsea1558 4 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how badly I needed to hear this. Started crying at work while listening to this ❤️ in a good, “someone understands!” kind of way
@AyseG2SJMS
@AyseG2SJMS 4 жыл бұрын
Ugh perfect timing as always😭💕
@MariJadeWrites
@MariJadeWrites 4 жыл бұрын
I am rewatching this in July 2020 because I made all these plans and Bullet journal spreads for my goals but when it came down to getting to work in the morning of July 1st I suddenly felt blocked. I've been getting into learning about chakras as well and I feel like I am blocked inside of me, and asking myself what stops me from getting to my dream life, the answer is "me". I get to overthinking and overanalysing things and then stop myself from picking up my graphic tablet to learn more about digital art or making that new KZfaq video... so thank you Kalyn for all of your hard work, this video helped me know that I am not alone struggling and that I can get through this. Just need to meet myself where I am at and get to work :) thank you
@sarahharrison2657
@sarahharrison2657 4 жыл бұрын
I love the idea of personal video journals. I can’t wait till we look back on all that you’ve created a year from now or even 10 years from now. You speak for a large % of us gals.
@carlagilmartin2059
@carlagilmartin2059 4 жыл бұрын
Been waiting for youtober since November 🤗
@carolineharden5359
@carolineharden5359 4 жыл бұрын
Ah I haven't watched your videos in a little while because I was stressed with university and exams, but now I feel so ready and open to receive them
@CarolineLivino12345
@CarolineLivino12345 4 жыл бұрын
*Love your videos Kalyn! You always make me feel better about myself 😍✨*
@KerriB
@KerriB 4 жыл бұрын
Saturday is my day off from editing for clients and I'm looking forward to playing video games tonight after getting some work done on a few courses I'm taking to help improve my author platform :)
@mishmishstudio
@mishmishstudio 4 жыл бұрын
This was right on time for me. All I really wanted was to crawl into bed. Watched this video, got a cup of tea, talked to my mom for a few minutes and I am like a new person. Thank you ❤️
@Raniyahbrown
@Raniyahbrown 3 жыл бұрын
saw the crystals and subscribed instantly 💞
@klioon8611
@klioon8611 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Yes, you are right. I face that from time to time. Stuck and feel demotivated. Just the right time😊.
@ameliawirt8398
@ameliawirt8398 4 жыл бұрын
Needed this so much!! Thank you Kalyn!!💕💕
@BridgetReadsandReads
@BridgetReadsandReads 4 жыл бұрын
You ALWAYS make the perfect video and podcast for the season I am in in my life. I ♥️ you! Thank you!
@veganwithissy4427
@veganwithissy4427 4 жыл бұрын
Love these tips, I often watch advice videos on youtube and honestly never really find them that useful or even realistic sometimes! I've been following you on youtube now for years and always find it so crazy how as time goes on and you and your channel change my interests/morals/beliefs have always changed along with you! I remember discovering your channel years ago I think it was some sort of organizing video or something and you had loads of great videos on things that I was interested in then - and then I remember going through a few different stages over the years when I wouldn't really come onto youtube much and then I'd catch up with your recent videos and just be mind blown that you were talking about things I'd just been reading about! It's happened with so many things like mindfulness, meditation, yoga, law of attraction, veganism, self love, mental health just countless things - even just interests and attitudes/opinions on things. (I know I originally discovered your channel based on similar interests but a lot of the other things are completely unrelated and are super coincidental). I find it so fascinating that life/the universe really does have a way of attracting different people into your life that are really on the same frequency as you. Anyway thank you for being the cool, kind, positive, creative and inspiring person you are - had so much great advice from your channel over the years and you always have so much love and positivity to spread and I'm super grateful for all the hard work that you put into making your bomb videos !
@summerotto627
@summerotto627 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your advice kalyn!! ❤️
@emilyruth22
@emilyruth22 4 жыл бұрын
YO that's so crazy you mentioned the photo booth thing. I've been making video diaries for years now and it helps me immensely! It's not super often but it's actually so fun to look back and view my mindset during different moments of my life. Thank you for the wonderful content as always
@ixbitexu
@ixbitexu 4 жыл бұрын
I loved this video so much I watched twice, now three times. I found these tips helped my especially the photo booth thing 💗
@neathenerd
@neathenerd 4 жыл бұрын
You’re killing it with these!!♥️
@freyas5272
@freyas5272 4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I’m feeling right now. Love this advice ❤️
@HarryThomasPictures
@HarryThomasPictures 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this terrific daily brew. Playing my favourite songs and soundtracks always gets me motivated. Loved seeing Bentley in this video☕️🧡❤️✨!
@admirbarucija2018
@admirbarucija2018 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed this right now, thank you! 💗
@alorainautumn
@alorainautumn 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite videos of yours 💕 Thank you for these reminders!
@lanaaslife
@lanaaslife 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this so much! I've been feeling this way for over a month now, the lists of to do's are piling up and nothing has been getting done. Thank you :)
@jillianwalker5058
@jillianwalker5058 4 жыл бұрын
You speak right to my soul sometimes! We are so similar in many ways, and it’s nice to know I’m not alone. This was a good one, thank you Kalyn!
@inas5557
@inas5557 4 жыл бұрын
Just the video I needed, the beginning sounds like my life everyday. Some of these I allready do, some not, will try. Thank you, love ur channel 🖤 watch atleast 1 video every morning with my morning coffee 😂☕
@EvaAntonia1
@EvaAntonia1 4 жыл бұрын
I know this feeling so well! So, thank you for these tips!!
@AlliAsAlways
@AlliAsAlways 4 жыл бұрын
The part about thoughts being tangible... 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@bilyanabalkanska2977
@bilyanabalkanska2977 4 жыл бұрын
Liking and commenting before even watching the video because we all know it’s going to be perfect 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️ KozeCrew 🤩
@_sanskriti.22_
@_sanskriti.22_ 4 жыл бұрын
Ohhhh myyy Goddd!!!! I've been making videos talking to myself for a few months now!! Whenever I feel down, looking back into those videos really helps. 💟
@jenneferrvalerin6723
@jenneferrvalerin6723 4 жыл бұрын
I love this video !!! Thank you for all the tips !!! I do some of them and now you gave me motivation for more inspiring ideas !!! Thanks girl !!! 🎯🎯🔥💞
@nelyassin
@nelyassin 4 жыл бұрын
I love these chats. Thank you.
@aureliaschurmann7417
@aureliaschurmann7417 4 жыл бұрын
What I actually needed to hear! Have to finish a paper today and yesterday I just could not concentrate on it.
@feliciawilson2130
@feliciawilson2130 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely need this today....and have been for a while. Haven't been feeling motivated to do anything and need to.
@asiamiwillbe
@asiamiwillbe 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing as always...I always used to do the photo booth thing but it's been a long while, I think I really needed to hear that also good to know am not crazy...Definitely gonna be dancing as well. love u n thank u...
@elianim5472
@elianim5472 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this video. It was so kind and helpful. Thank you!!!
@blue_boulevard4429
@blue_boulevard4429 4 жыл бұрын
You ALWAYS get me motivated somehow 💚🍃
@Lisa-qt7pw
@Lisa-qt7pw 4 жыл бұрын
great video! I totally bookmarked it - need to hear this more often than you'd think ;) Thanks Kay
@kchapin3
@kchapin3 4 жыл бұрын
This was super timely for me! I’m starting out on my own in a new business. I know that I’m talented at the core of what I’m setting out to do, and I have a plan that coming together and evolving, but I feel stuck, lost and overwhelmed pretty often. I think mostly it’s fear that makes me feel that way so I can definitely put some of these tools to task!😊
@jesch319
@jesch319 4 жыл бұрын
Same here! I am so passionate about what I’m setting out to do, but find myself so... lazy about getting started! Perhaps it’s fear for me too? I’m gonna journal it out. You’re not alone girl!
@mariakulane2240
@mariakulane2240 4 жыл бұрын
OMG this helped me out so much !!!!! 💗💗
@annnnnnnnnn1188
@annnnnnnnnn1188 4 жыл бұрын
wow this popped up on my recommendations right at the time when i need it
@abigailwiddows
@abigailwiddows 4 жыл бұрын
I usually get it done with the mindset that I can do something fun after
@mercedesmartinez8650
@mercedesmartinez8650 4 жыл бұрын
Yes needed this video. Work sucks lately lol I struggle to get through my day sometimes.....
@kananiakina3356
@kananiakina3356 4 жыл бұрын
Kinda crazy how badly I needed this video right now and it just happened to pop up at the very top of my home page
@samanthabissell22
@samanthabissell22 4 жыл бұрын
couldn’t have said it better myself inspiring video
@CherryBerryFashion
@CherryBerryFashion 2 жыл бұрын
12:22 ❤️ thank you
@presentlymine
@presentlymine 4 жыл бұрын
I love u so much for just making these. :)
@ivonaivona79
@ivonaivona79 4 жыл бұрын
Bentley in the pillows😅💕💕
@gracegreen9584
@gracegreen9584 4 жыл бұрын
that impression of bentley made me laugh so hard 😂😂 gotta take moments to not take things so seriously!!
@boomcdonough4423
@boomcdonough4423 4 жыл бұрын
That is such a beautiful color on you! Love from Missouri
@chloeadventures5175
@chloeadventures5175 4 жыл бұрын
Love your tips, and song recommendation 😊 could you do another tips on beginning to journal vid ♡ I feel like every time I start one it just becomes a to do list journal....
@kashvigoel87
@kashvigoel87 4 жыл бұрын
Ah, so helpful! Thankyou:)
@samdevine
@samdevine 4 жыл бұрын
Dancing! 💕That’s so funny I do the same thing 😂 it just wakes me up. Sometimes just need to get the blood flowing.
@DraneaLee
@DraneaLee 4 жыл бұрын
I relate to dancing it out. I've done the same at my former 9 to 5!
@nickkeyp
@nickkeyp 4 жыл бұрын
Great video came at the perfect time 😍💖
@SimplyMoiii
@SimplyMoiii 4 жыл бұрын
Me: Two hours before homework is due. I should be working on it. Also me: Ooh Kalyn uploaded! Homework can wait! 💁🏼‍♀️
@zainabqueen123_4
@zainabqueen123_4 3 жыл бұрын
thank u God ia am always stuck between studies and work
@lauras.4783
@lauras.4783 4 жыл бұрын
Do you read my mind how do you always know what video I need in the exact moment 😂 ly
@naomiruth7340
@naomiruth7340 4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos so much and your intro is fire !
@videoplaylist5973
@videoplaylist5973 2 жыл бұрын
Love it
@katiaromanova4384
@katiaromanova4384 4 жыл бұрын
lmao I had to laugh aloud when you imitated Bentley saying "uhh I want to jump on the bed but I have too many thoughts so I can't"
@gardenofnea
@gardenofnea 4 жыл бұрын
liked before I watched it bc this is something I struggle with atm
@ghufranrashed4535
@ghufranrashed4535 4 жыл бұрын
hi can you do spiritual reading again
@progressnotperfection9920
@progressnotperfection9920 4 жыл бұрын
Love this
@nans1111222233334444
@nans1111222233334444 4 жыл бұрын
Missing vlogs on your main channel❤️
@brittneys6904
@brittneys6904 4 жыл бұрын
This is the 4th week in a row you’ve uploaded a video on a topic of a thought I had or something I said. Are you in my house? 👀😂
@tylerxking186
@tylerxking186 4 жыл бұрын
Good advices babygirl
@vasitinatoba5121
@vasitinatoba5121 3 жыл бұрын
I am determined to spread the word about Forwago. I tried everything and this was the ONE. Trust me, start using it, and you'll see crazy results on your personal progress.
@28groundzero
@28groundzero 4 жыл бұрын
I sit and open my laptop. Open my files and I get overhwelmed cuz I don't know how to approach what I'm working. So I stall. Watch a movie and then after that's when I work
@morgannicole208
@morgannicole208 4 жыл бұрын
Me currently
@annakassolis9312
@annakassolis9312 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Kayln!!! I love your videos I have watched your videos for 5 years and love all your advice and content. Have you ever read Bob Goff- Love Does? I think you would like it, it changed my life. Have a good day :)
@vindvlogs
@vindvlogs 4 жыл бұрын
omg I do the Photo Booth thing LOL
@Issa3221
@Issa3221 4 жыл бұрын
What app is it?? I looked it up and I dont know which one it is😭
@Lyra_moon
@Lyra_moon 3 жыл бұрын
💓
@anarasevic4972
@anarasevic4972 4 жыл бұрын
goddess :) thank you so much.
@millieortizactor
@millieortizactor 4 жыл бұрын
I've been doing the photobooth video venting thing (only for myself) for like YEARS. It's been kind of like video diaries to me that definitely helps me just get my emotions out. But it is WILD to me that anyone else does this! lolll
@Issa3221
@Issa3221 4 жыл бұрын
I looked it up but I don't know which app it is 😭
@millieortizactor
@millieortizactor 4 жыл бұрын
@@Issa3221 it's the webcam video record app that comes with any Apple computer or laptop. If you don't have Apple, any webcam or your phone will do! 🙃
@dreamsbylauren
@dreamsbylauren 4 жыл бұрын
HI, I'm also a dance advocate
@madeleinepousar
@madeleinepousar 4 жыл бұрын
If you are feeling really stuck and everything else fails, you need to listen to the song "Perfect" by One direction. Everything will then be okay, I promise 👍🙈😍
@annagrosz3633
@annagrosz3633 4 жыл бұрын
Which books are you reading at the Moment? Would you like to do another favourite book Video? :) I really like your Videos 👍😊
@AguusGi
@AguusGi 4 жыл бұрын
at least right now.... I hate that fourth dimension having a tough time been stuck since... forever
@Stretchmyshithole
@Stretchmyshithole 4 жыл бұрын
sounds JUST like khloe kardashian
@DaisyTT
@DaisyTT 4 жыл бұрын
I used to be so inspired by your channel, but i feel like videos in Koze channel are very repetitive, rushed and preachy. Miss 2018,2017 Kalyn content. Wish you the best though...
@eca4040
@eca4040 2 жыл бұрын
big needed this right now. Thank you 💕✨
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