I was 6 years old when my 11 year old neighbour (also a girl) would take me to her room and touch me inappropriately, and if I may say so, sexually. She would also force/manipulate her younger sister to do the same and this went on for about a year. I understand 'child on child sexual abuse' is a thing, but blaming a child as young as 11 for sexual abuse seems a little cruel. On the other hand, I went through the same trauma as I would have if an adult had abused me. I was still hurt and I didn't deserve to go through any of it at that age. I am 19 now and I still don't know what happened to me. Was it bullying? Was it sexual abuse? Or was it just "kids being kids"? I have traumatic experiences but no one to blame. On a different note, I couldn't agree with you more Prachi, when you talked about how important it is for kids to be taught about good touch and bad touch. I wish I knew about it when I was a child so I could have asked my parents for help :)

Really love that there are people like you that care about us who suffered from sexual abuse in this world

Prachi, Incase if you don't realise You are the sunshine for a lot of us out here. I am so happy you came up with this video Its been a decade since i was sexually harrassed and after years of trauma , I am finally trying to learn about my triggers and how to shut it off However, I realised food to be my happy place and got indulged in it fully. There were days when I would munch on a lot of sweets and my favourite desert just to fool my brain while going through the sudden episodes. I ended up gaining 15 kgs in less than a year ( especially after covid) I am trying my best to be healthy and not reach out to munch while being low. To everyone who has been sexually abused by either a stranger or a family member, I would like you to know that.... YOU NEVER GET OVER IT YOU HAVE TO LEARN ABOUT THE COPING MECHANISM AND DO THE RIGHT THING TO BE WORTHY AND PROUD of yourself. It never gets over but it will be easy Trust me ❤️

Prachi u r actually doing amazing job.. Even after being a soft hearted person you are talking about these things and sharing about it... Thanq prachi.. U are helping and healing a lot of hearts ❤

I have been sexually abused 1 or 2 month's ago and till now I just couldn't forgive myself for not speaking up for not stopping him. My body just froze right their at that moment I couldn't speak or remove his hands. I didn't even have the courage to tell anyone, I m just 15 my mom won't believe me. I just started self harming again ( again, because I stopped doing that a few months ago only) , I tried really hard not to but crying doesn't help anymore I can still feel his hands on my body. Thank you so much for making me understand that it was not my fault ❤

Prachi. May be I am saying this for the 4th or 5th time but I have to say this. You are doing an amazing work for the society. I have myself been a spiritual healer, so I know the importance of healing. More power to you for more and more good work which I am sure you are destined to do.

if u really wanted to heal yourselves and other , and rise above trauma then read -> 1.The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. 2.The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog: And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist's Notebook--What Traumatized Children Can Teach Us About Loss, Love, and Healing .

KZfaqr like you are inspiration.... And there are youtuber like priyanshi who literally done victim shaming and blaming instead of helping her since she was 14 year old.. A child victim of sexual abuse should not be shamed or blamed even if he or she takes pleasure or even get orgasm... Or even victim who r underage consent is also not been considered ...stop victim blaming or victim shaming they already feel guilty ashamed even if they consented or take pleasures.. We r no one to blame them... Its not at all their fault its the part of the abuse they just trust wrong people which they don't even think that they r bad.. I myself know about consent at the age of 16 We must take our responsibility and should save a victim instead of blame or shame them its more traumatic for a victim and its also triggered and its mental harassment for a victim.. Its totally fine if you have taken pleasure this doesn't mean you r playing victim card or something but in reality you r still a victim.. Sometimes victim takes many years to realise that he or she has been sexually abused if he or she suffers trauma or get information lately.... They didn't even realised that someone has break their trust or someone has used them as an object if they get counselling timely they get to know that even their pleasure response and gaining their trust loosing their innocence is a part of abuse.. Even if a child victim goes by herself or himself to the abuser for pleasure or love or attention should not be ashamed.. Because its the part of the abuse and its not their fault they just got trapped in it and that's what the abuser wanted so it's not at all child fault to go by themselves several times to get pleasures or to feel guilt after that because it's a part of abuse the abuser exactly wanted this to abuse you or use you as an object. And they r successful to loose your innocence and that's the reason its not your fault .. They loose your innocence and you trusted as an innocent child to wrong person so even if you let abuser touch it's still not your fault.. Because they r able to gain your trust.. This usually happens in case where relatives are the abusers... And the victim usually trusted them because his or her parents also trusted them... They use coercion emotional manipulation threats to get child consent... Bullying them or confuse them.. So it's not at all victim's fault sometimes there is no force involved in the abuse but it's still the abuse... Even if the victim enjoy it..it doesn't matter they r innocent child who is going through an adult thing that they don't even deserve at such age.. Even they go to self blame mode that they don't care about their dignity or they take pleasures now society people will judge them.. And they call them by many names.. But the reality is even if you did this at any age if you r underage it's still not your fault in my eyes.. Since it's an adult thing and adult has much knowledge about this crime and even childrens as well who is committing the crime if they know about it there are juveniles too but still choose to abuse you... It's not your fault . A child consent doesn't matter its still considered rape molestation and sexual assualt sexual abuse.. So do not choose to abuse a kid even if they say "ok" or "yes " ... Its your responsibility your crime to still choose to abuse them and not giving them proper direction not asking them who teaches you such things... Or to report to their parents directly about their abuse.. . Sometimes victims remain silent thinking that its their fault its their mistake as well that they take pleasures so their parents will scold them give them punishment and fear that has been created time and again by the abuser in their mind while brainwashing them that since they have taken pleasures also they r equal participant in it so their parents will scold both that's how they manipulated them .. Its the fear of punishment sometimes that the victim didn't speak up and making more mistakes..keeping it a secret gradually victim starting enjoyimg the abuse and trauma bond has been formed... And they started getting kindness and started getting attached by their abusers and they felt cheated that that abusers has cheated me.. Or something its not at all their fault everything was a part of abuse.. They got to realise it once they suffer trauma and they understand emotional manipulation when they become big.. An underage gullible child who didn't have proper knowledge and can easily get trapped into such things who don't know emotional manipulation as such at that time suffers and go through self blame because society usually blames the victim to enjoy... Or narrow minded society usually shames the victim only.....which is not even their fault.. Only the clever child maybe know about manipulation or something who r manipulative themselves I can expect an 18+ adult to understand what is manipulation not an underage gullible child who trusts everyone easily.. Even bad person.. Its not at all their fault just learn from the mistakes and don't trust everyone blindly not everybody is good or not everyone is bad .. Every child deserves a good childhood with love care understanding and affection Not lust emotional neglect bully or judgement or shaming Its not victim fault its the failure of society that we r not been able to sace them

Trigger Warning: This video might trigger those who struggle to cope with stories on sexual abuse, etc. Discretion is advised. *Today’s letters* ** Letter 1 - Starts at 1:08 Hi Ma'am So I am going to be very open and upfront with my question, but watching child porn…is it really wrong? Why is it a problem if I like masturbating while watching it? It’s just a fantasy isn’t it? Now, I know deep inside that making one is a crime, but all I am doing is watching and fulfilling my fantasies…all just in my head. Is this something that should truly, rationally be considered bad? ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ** Letter 2 - Starts at 7:17 Hii Prachi didi, I am a 15-year old boy from Bihar. I am writing to you because I have finally started to come to teams with my feelings and it’s been very hard. When I was barely 11, I was attending a family function. So I was inside my grandmother's car, just playing a game on her phone. I don’t know when, but I fell asleep. When I woke up, I didn't have clothes on my body and the driver was harming me sexually. (I avoid the word 'rape' because it's very hard to use about myself.) Let me tell you, this is a driver that everyone knew, trusted, you know, the ‘family driver’. I kept shut, and tried to shut out my feelings too. I felt numb, there was physical pain too, but shutting myself out was the best I could do. The abuse continued, and I kept staying quiet. About a couple of months back, the flashbacks started again. Like if I am on the phone, or the faces of people I met right before sitting in the car will just "flash". Does this make sense? I don't know what this is about, but they keep getting more and more frequent and more and more horrifying. I have reached out for help online etc, but nothing has worked for me. My parents are doctors, but no, I absolutely cannot open up to them, so that's not an option. Please suggest something.

Best video soo far prachi ..... Awesome.... For 2nd letter I really wish if he could forgive himself and try to tell his parents.... This will be extremely helpful.... And that family driver should be punished.... How dare he prachi ... I just really hope ...he should open up because for people who do sexual abuse , their only strength is that they believe people will be calm for their own safety or whatever....

Hey prachi ! You just explained all the points so well. Can uh make a video on how to heal from rapes and child abuse even after years passed

Happy makarsankranti di and di your thoughts are very clear which make you give advice clearly di...👍

Hi prachi I am 20 now but in all my childhood the environment in my house was very toxic such as females are not allowed to live freely, my opinion never mattered, even i was not allowed to say no to anything wrong happening,my father is alcoholic and physical voilence is very common. This i think affected how i perceived the world outside, it shattered my self confidence even now i felt numb in any situation which requires smartness, like in october i was attacked by a men who do not have good intensions, i could not even scream, but anyhow i was able to save myself , but the problem is now i can't even remember his face, what i remember is he is middle aged men on bike. Is anything wrong with me, is am mentally disable Plz suggest me 🙏🙏

Like you talked about PTSD and ways to deal with it in this video,could you please make a full dedicated video on Maladaptive Dreaming? It's the hardest thing to deal with atleast for me. I have found out certain coping mechanisms for PTSD but for Maladaptive Daydreaming,it's difficult. I'm trying to get out of it but it's just not happening. Your advice maybe would help me. And yeah thank you for everything you're doing. I've been obsessed with your channel since the past two months.

Been through it!! Struggled a lot coping with this trauma!! This video has just given me more power and strength! ❤️

I will suggest cookie that she should openly talk about the sexual abuse atleast to her mother but also to her father so that they can take legal action for her atleast know that what their children has gone through... Atleast they will make sure about your safety dear...

Hi, Prachi di, you are an angel..!! I've been through a lot similar to our second letter. I can't thank you enough for doing this, i needed this the most. Love you ❤

Hey everyone! I really need your suggestions. One of my student who has her boards this year is facing a lot these days. Her mom and dad keep fighting in front of her and sometimes they physically hurt each other too. Her dad is even threatening her by saying if she 'll not score good in her boards he'll beat her mom. After a long she has finally confessed these to me but I really dont know what should I do or what should I tell her..please help.

HEY cookie - I am also from bihar and what you experienced has happened me and I also had been through it. I also have no one to take to this is very very bad not have anyone even parents in these cases !

Such type of issues should be raised and talked about. M glad u came up with this video. The advices are worth looking forward. Also Cookie if u are reading this, it's not your fault at all. Look forward to the advice of prachi m sure u will be able to heal u are stronger than u think. U are not alone :) take care! Bless u and u may have a peaceful and happy life ahead 🥰

I love Prachi for n number of number I can't even count I genuinely pray that God bless u plz Don't ever ever stop being such a good human being. This world needs more copies of u ❤️😂

Hi Prachi (I am your new subscriber) your videos are really very insightful.

It has been scientifically proven and addressed that it's normal to feel numb or even freeze at a utmost shocking moment. Apparently,Its trauma response to the stimuli

Prachi: one of your most mature advice here. For both the cases.

I like your outfit!

Biscuit: it is essential you seek out therapy. Basis of sex is consensual pleasure between two persons who are adults. That's why gay sex is fine but sex with kids or animals is NOT. The fact that you wrote this letter is heartening. So please seek therapy. It will help.

Brahhh, you and shwetabh gangwar always gives me a new perspective towards my life

Love you prachi di.. You are a wonderful person❤❤❤❤❤

This one is very very sensitive and informative video as well..

Thanks prachi di much needed topic for us

This was much needed. Thanks for the video Prachi

Hi Prachi didi, how can I connect with you? I wanna share my problem with you.

Hello di let me tell u my small story. Its so sad and heartbreaking that I have absolutely no one with whom I can share how I feel. I can't do that with my family because they are super strict and I am left with no friends. So it started 9months back when I met this guy online. We clicked instantly. At that time I was soooo depressed because I didn't get selected in my NEET exam and was feeling like failure. Had no confidence nothing at all. So this guy just made me feel like it was worth living life. I got into relationship with him just after month of us talking. The fact that his dad met an accident and was bed ridden instantly sparked me that I gotta help him. I used to cry alone because o was wasting time talking to him instead of studying because I had also taken a drop and my exams were just 3months away. He was just so toxic and I knew it. But still I couldn't walk out of it. Fast forward I didn't make it in my 2nd attempt too. Less by 18marks. And I continued being with him. With no self esteem I continuously took his bs. I won't say I was perfect either but I surely knew in used to get 1000times more hurt. Maybe he knew it and used to take advantage of that💁. We used to continuously break and patch up because I was taking his shitty behaviour lack of consistency and what not. We once broke up on 29dec and he called me on 31at night all drugged after amazing parry with his friends cause he had nobody to talk to and was not feeling good after drugs. And I was there in pain while he was partying! That's how he used me. And just 2days earlier he told me that I am bitch and i am not worth apologizing for calling me one. That I am ruining his mental peace and I cry so damn much when I did nothing for him(I did once cry on vc when he was breaking up with me in front of him). Di idk I want to move on and be happy. This is my 2nd drop year. He used to kind of save me whenever I got anxiety attacks by thinking of fact that I won't make it. He just blocked me everywhere and I also don't wanna reach out to him. Its just I am unable to cope with this. I feel my self respect has been tarnished. What should I do to cope with this. I tried talking to ppl and everyone around is just so selfish. Idk what to do.

Beautiful top prachi

Can you tell me from where you brought the Top. I liked it a lot.

Di please I have mailed my problem to you... please answer

Amazing 💞💞

Thanks prachi di

I have a fnd who has experienced such sexual abuse where her neighbor uncle had shown his private part to her while she was hiding under the cot while she was playing hide and seek with his child. And this doesnt come under " BAD TOUCH" But the intention is sexual. So i think we should ho beyond this 'touch' logic to identify such sexual predators and protect our children

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Prachi I believe cookie should open up infront of his parents.Since they are doctors they will understand what he is going through. He needs therapy for what he's going through.And his parents should know about the driver.

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I have a lot of issues... I can't afford therapist. What should I do? Please help.