MOST MEN ARE ACTORS PLAYING A ROLE Chapter 10 of The Father Daughter Talk

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@Paths2business8406 5 жыл бұрын

A guy friend of mine told me years ago, "Never tell a man what you expect from him, let him show you on his own, that's when you will know if he is the one for you".

@staceyj3667 5 жыл бұрын

Yep whenever a guy asks me I just say if you fit the bill I’ll let you know just be yourself. That’s he tell tell sign they trying to fit the mold

@Paths2business8406 4 жыл бұрын

@@staceyj3667 Yes Mam! All truth!

@karenmcgee1869 4 жыл бұрын

Great advice!

@kylietaylor396 4 жыл бұрын

Better One no no no please don’t bring up being Christian! Then they can easily pretend they are!! Let them speak what they believe FIRST!

@EmpressofChrist 4 жыл бұрын

💞

@ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429 4 жыл бұрын

This man's daughters are VERY Fortunate to have him as a father.

@enigmaticladypisces3169 4 жыл бұрын

I ONLY Compete With The Woman I Was Yesterday so true! 💓

@arteikah 3 жыл бұрын

Yes ♥️♥️

@conniekimes6019 3 жыл бұрын

Amen Pastor never had father but thanks be to God amen

@conniekimes6019 3 жыл бұрын

Happy New year to you and your family God bless you all.

@nf9917 6 жыл бұрын

Don't trust the leaves, wait on the fruit and fruit requires time. PREACH PREACHER

@islandgirl01 5 жыл бұрын

Yep! 'cause eating an unrippend fruit will give you colic.

@michelleottley5292 5 жыл бұрын

Yes he will be that one and eating pork chops sandwiches and he don't do his prayers and disappears after the baby born ....A. A Adams and Amanda Calderon Irene and pookie Corinne 🧐😯😲😎

@Willa4420 5 жыл бұрын

The fruit is proof on what kind of tree this is.

@ngreat4390 5 жыл бұрын

Girl I check the roots too. If he ain't led by the Spirit, then he ain't a son of God and is only pretending. The SpiritGod will reveal a man's heart to you if you ask him. Some have a form of godliness powered by pretense

@ngreat4390 5 жыл бұрын

Girl I don't have time to waste so I check the roots first. If he ain't led by the Spirit, then he ain't a son of God and is only pretending. The Spirit of God will reveal a man's heart to you if you ask him. Some men have a form of godliness powered by pretense

@spicy1ize 6 жыл бұрын

You should have added Mr Nice Guy....The one who says Yes Too Everything you want,he doesn't Argue or Challenge you....Then he gains your Trust,the Mask comes off and he's a Covert Narcissist it very Insidious .

@mik7564 5 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@sapiosag9306 5 жыл бұрын

A lesson I will never forget!❤

@haitiangal1361 5 жыл бұрын

spicy1ize Eww I hate guys like that anyways. You could say Nazis are awesome and they would nod their head in agreement.

@MA-yv8dw 4 жыл бұрын

@@sapiosag9306 I'm witcha

@lilpinkbubbles6592 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, I was married to that man too!

@Barbinez11 5 жыл бұрын

Been praying for a husband for years, but am coming to the realization that I should praise God I’m still single!! Seriously who has time for these jokers he is describing?😂

@lenadeena321 5 жыл бұрын

LMAO!!!!

@cherrylu2733 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly i feel the same way

@joyceboyd23boyd87 4 жыл бұрын

Bobbi Nez KEEP THANKING CHRIST FOR THE RIGHT ONE WHO THINKD YOU ARE THE BEST. THATS IF YOU BELONG TO CHRIST! AND YOU'RE SAVED BY HIS GRACE. HIS PROMISES ARE FOR THOSE THAT ARE HIS AND THEY ARE A SURE THING. HE MAKES GOOD HIS PROMISE YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO KEEP FAITH. KEEP PRAISING HIM, HE HEARD YOU.IF YOU ATE LOOKING FOR GOD THE FATHER HE WILL POINT YOU TO CHRIST THE SON THAT CAME OUT OF HID MOUTH JOHN 1: READ IT ALL

@NoName-sp5dp 4 жыл бұрын

@imobeus1 immature where?

@thetraporacle998 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@SwtSexiness 6 жыл бұрын

Most men are sick! I don't care what anyone says. These men who do all this evil heartless things lying, and deceiving women for sex are no different than a sexual predator, or rapist! So ladies from now on when you meet a man always see him as this type of man.

@shelly-annjohn9634 6 жыл бұрын

Hi agree yes they con women and dump them .Rapist so true.

@shelly-annjohn9634 6 жыл бұрын

Stay bless

@SwtSexiness 6 жыл бұрын

Shelly-Ann John Thanks you too!

@gypsyspirit8472 6 жыл бұрын

SwtSexiness 👏👏👏👏

@kittybumbum5988 6 жыл бұрын

That's such an interesting point. I'm going to think deeply about that. Makes me so sad and disheartened.

@CMM726 6 жыл бұрын

God has called you to do a great work. A lot of women need to hear this. A lot of young women never had a dad who cared about them enough to teach them.

@ladylilo6044 6 жыл бұрын

Caroline Murray I concur. My father was MIA most times. Learned a lot on the streets of NYC growing up, unfortunately I was quite promiscuous, always looking for love bc I didn't get that from my father. Thank God, my Heavenly Father for saving me, He knocked, I answered and have been delivered and set free. I've forgiven myself too. Praise you Jesus❣️and hearing Pastor Robert's teachings help so much.

@never4saken165 5 жыл бұрын

Or stay around

@edunlap6594 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly. They rather go to the corner store, consume sports channels, etc.

@ngreat4390 5 жыл бұрын

Caroline Murray because they didn't really know the truth either. My father was around and loving but his marriage was hard from the get go. I later realised it was because he applied certain personal ideas he didn't get from God. He prayed and prays for me to have a great marriage and teaches us patience but he hadn't gotten the formula yet. For most people in the world relationships are basically guesswork. I used to be confused about marriage too but the Holy Spirit came in and taught me and renewed my mind and now I have a great perspective on marriage, I know what to look for, how to know if they're suitable for me etc. It's awesome. The Holy Spirit is really the best father and teacher. If you'd like me to share my ebooks, subscribe to my channel or send me a message to helenenangs@gmail.com God bless you!

@lady8741 5 жыл бұрын

Cuz they were too busy out tryin to play women, dog women and cause this cycle to repeat ..degrading, devaluing but then wanting a female to lift the. Up ..

@lesleyelalami2562 5 жыл бұрын

Often the butterflies are not any indicator of love..... they're part of your warning system telling you to run.

@christinag1998 4 жыл бұрын

Yep 👍

@Stvalencia 4 жыл бұрын

Lesley EL ALAMI exactly. Butterflies are lies!

@Righhhhhtttt 4 жыл бұрын

Is this true?!?

@llanneg.v.c545 4 жыл бұрын

Lesley EL ALAMI 😂😂

@LisaMarie82. 4 жыл бұрын

Never heard this but looking back this is sound advice.

@revolutionofmind1709 6 жыл бұрын

I've seen men's fruit and they all turned out to be rotten apples!

@sophisticatedmm3632 6 жыл бұрын

Revolution Of Mind wow that's deep

@AliciaExploresLife 5 жыл бұрын

😂😂❤️

@ngreat4390 5 жыл бұрын

Are you on God's database? If you're fetching from the wrong well, you'll always be thirsty. It'll take Jesus Christ to reset your desires like the woman at the well. Look for a man who is on God's database. How will you know? Well, walk with the Holy Spirit, he alone can teach you everything you need to know about marriage. Pastors, books, advice will always seem like a large pile of dos and don'ts that will take you eons to unravel until you're frustrated. Ask God for the Holy Spirit and that he should teach you all you need to know about marriage. That's the only way to be the right person, find the right person and marry right.

@NoName-sp5dp 5 жыл бұрын

@@ngreat4390 most men are not that good. The bible literally states it over and over. How many stories of betrayal and lies just for sex have men done for how many years now?

@ngreat4390 5 жыл бұрын

Kufre Akpan well, women are not that good either. Women mislead and use men all the time, right from the garden... The Holy Spirit gives a very sound training on marriage without the use of books and preachers. He will revolutionise your thinking on relationships and love. When he does, you won't need to argue with any man. Instead, you'll know how to identify the right man (someone whom the Holy Spirit has equally taught, tried and tested on marriage). I can share some lessons God taught me on WhatsApp +2348061398101 Everyone wants a good spouse but they will only get perilous times if they go for a worldly pers

@imunique10 8 жыл бұрын

I wish i knew of this stuff when i was younger.😣

@JustDoRight 6 жыл бұрын

imunique19 me too. Smh!

@tstyles9690 5 жыл бұрын

M€ TOO!!!

@AsharntayKingston 5 жыл бұрын

Me too...

@monicap8208 5 жыл бұрын

So do I .

@islandgirl01 5 жыл бұрын

And the teacher showed up at the right time and the students are ready!

@flyandshy00 6 жыл бұрын

And most of them are very bad actors.

@katk3489 5 жыл бұрын

I M A QYN so true

@Kam-pz5tb 5 жыл бұрын

They think they are fooling someone

@valeriegaddy8833 5 жыл бұрын

Apparently... Some.. Pastor s....Are.

@tandrinebray8194 4 жыл бұрын

The first one is not until u have experience you will get tricked.

@barbarawilliamson136 4 жыл бұрын

They belong in b movies..

@suzannejambo1254 5 жыл бұрын

"Never take a man at his 1st words.."

@Italiana72787 5 жыл бұрын

Can’t tell you how refreshing and healing it is to hear a man tell it straight. My father was not a protector.

@seductruss 6 жыл бұрын

Don't trust the leaves....look at the fruit💟💟👏👏👏

@gracious2070 5 жыл бұрын

Some women give church men too much credit, and it's only because they go to church...devils go to church too. God said no man is perfect and that is including "church men". Thanks Mr. Blake's for the message.

@doulikeswag 4 жыл бұрын

Tares among the wheat

@_theerealnono_7694 4 жыл бұрын

None is good but God, Christ said it Himself. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@ThanksThanks-cm4ce 2 жыл бұрын

True!

@latashascott3503 6 жыл бұрын

A lot of our fathers are those type of men. My dad taught us that’s just how all men are. Sad

@TheMonica82 5 жыл бұрын

Yep, same thing I thought! The "Fathers" are out still running game their darn selves lol.. How can they slow down long enough to teach his daughter a life long lesson! Sad - just Sad~

@Juniperberry1 4 жыл бұрын

Do you really believe all men are this way? All?

@jamillecollins364 5 жыл бұрын

To all the other ladies that have been celibate for years.. I say that’s a beautiful thing.. I have been celibate for 21 years .. my ex-husband was my last and female co-workers look at me like “What?”. I love the fact that I am celibate ..and I give God thanks for that.

@ThanksThanks-cm4ce 2 жыл бұрын

Yes and God bless & strengthen us all. When they run when they hear "I'm celebrate" PRAISE GOD!!!

@aquariusense 5 жыл бұрын

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@veganmagick7251 5 жыл бұрын

😂

@FreedominLove711 5 жыл бұрын

lmao

@jlovesj3335 5 жыл бұрын

Im crying

@Robynkay 5 жыл бұрын

😂😂 damn , facts tho! 💯

@lolag4383 4 жыл бұрын

@Isa Rivera yes she dropped all the jewels in her videos

@jeanhennessy8606 5 жыл бұрын

I am 61 and have been dating for the past 8 or so years. My heart is breaking at the state of this world and the state of men. I would have never thought it would be like this with (haha) mature men. It is exactly the same. White, Mexican, Asian, Black...it is all the same. Using women and wanting no commitment of any kind. Pastor you are a Light in the dark tunnel. Good men need to start educating young men how to be Christ like and follow a good path. Something has to change.. Thank you God for Pastor Blakes!

@barbarariley3488 4 жыл бұрын

I am 72 widow. I had an encounter with my first player at 68 yrs old. Old man thinking.he was some.kind of special. He was handsome and could sweet talk like I never heard. Turns out he id just a low life dirty old man. Its not just young guys.

@sophisticatedmm3632 4 жыл бұрын

@@barbarariley3488 Absolutely absurd

@winfredmuthoni1728 3 жыл бұрын

It breaks my heart too

@jessicawestbrook3730 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@tjones5399 5 жыл бұрын

My great grandmaw used to say "These men just wanna jump up and down on ya" I was like what does this old lady know.......I should have listened. This would have saved me from these frauds.

@cheshahale 7 жыл бұрын

I had a church guy some years ago. He was someone I knew of from high school...turned out to be a demon. They are a trip!!!

@Africangyal 5 жыл бұрын

They're the worst. The biggest hypocrites

@lovemewhite3939 5 жыл бұрын

I know what u mean.

@sadepayne 4 жыл бұрын

Yep! I can definitely attest to that🙋🏽‍♀️ I remember my grandma even introduced me to one guy from our church. I didn't tell him what I wanted and I noticed in ONE WEEK OF TALKING. That he had a controlling side and I crazy not so Godly side. I ran 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️ 2nd Church guy was raised in the church since he was young. He reached his teens and up, and was sleeping with everybody. Even broke two friends apart in our church. My young butt dated him, but I knew my limits. Broke it off quick.I ran 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️ 3rd Church guy he LIED about having a second child, claiming he only has one. Didn't have a car, but wanted me to pick him up for a date. Had the nerve to tell me, since I'm a Christian woman(which I am not, I'm spiritual, no religion). That I should be okay with picking him up and paying. Because he's going through hard times, lost his job and had to send his kids Birthday cards. I never dated him or took him seriously. He reacted by cussing me out, saying he should go back to being a dog, sent pictures to my phone in briefs with his penis imprint. Immediately said sorry to me, but I wasn't taking him seriously. He also told me I better hurry up and grab him, cause some woman wants him to move in😂🤣😐🤨. I ran🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

@EmpressofChrist 4 жыл бұрын

@@LisaLisaCJ 💞

@EmpressofChrist 4 жыл бұрын

@@sadepayne lol

@xaviersanders1553 7 жыл бұрын

some men consistency can even be fake at the beginning especially if he calls u wayyy to murch..narcissists do this

@Simplyluwi 6 жыл бұрын

GiGi moore hmmm deep

@stephz423 5 жыл бұрын

I made the mistake of being too available from day 1. Started with a coffee date and he immediately messaged me to do dinner later that night that I agreed to so he could romance me. This led to him saying all the right things every day for 2 weeks, charming and treating me like a princess. Gave me a key, told me all about his neglectful childhood, that he just wants a normal peaceful family life.... was a gentleman until he hooked me emotionally them it turned sexual because I allowed it so then he started with the sly comments to guilt and shame. Psychological and emotional abuse, push and pull, dangling the carrot and he picked fights to end it but always put blame on me. I’m working on myself now and these videos have been a God-send! Blessings to all who are finally getting these words to help them!

@MomsMoneyMindset 5 жыл бұрын

I can relate to this statement. Ended up in divorce.

@sweetolives2467 5 жыл бұрын

Femme Fatale Texting is to set up dates only..period.

@sweetolives2467 5 жыл бұрын

Femme Fatale Listen to SheRaSeven 1 on Utube. She has a lot of videos that’ll put you in a whole different mindset where these good for nothing men are concern. Doc Reid, Tony Gaskins, Debra Cooper have some good ones too. 😊

@Que772 8 жыл бұрын

I've met the praying church player before . Thats when I first learned about wolves in sheep's clothing.

@sweetolives2467 5 жыл бұрын

quetahackworth I’ve met the church player who knew the whole bible but turn around and told me “I’m a man first”.😳

@DorGiftofGod 5 жыл бұрын

@@sweetolives2467 Lord have mercy!

@daphneduryea9136 5 жыл бұрын

My husband was that & it turned out he was gay. And it was his closeted gay Holy-Rolling father who pressured him to marry. It was 35 years of wedded Hell with this man & it ended with his suicide to spite his father.

@darcelwhit7852 5 жыл бұрын

@@daphneduryea9136 TV movie material. Wow

@NoName-mm6gh 4 жыл бұрын

Sweet Olives 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@suzannejambo1254 5 жыл бұрын

"The most first few phases in a man are not genuine." He sizes you up as you talk way too much (TMI) too soon and he figures you out there and then.

@kyzmet123 5 жыл бұрын

These are the lessons that my father, grandfathers, and uncles taught me. I didn't always listen but I smartened up really quickly. All young girls must hear this!

@malikalenesey2446 5 жыл бұрын

I'm a young college student im listening😊

@l.a.w.79 6 жыл бұрын

Lol. A guy friended me on Facebook per his request because we had been talking for a long time...and quickly unfriended me when there was NOTHING on my page to feed on. I have very little on there. He showed his true colors immediately. He was livid and said I was playing games😂😂😂

@lexianonymous7690 3 жыл бұрын

You sure dodged a bullet!! I'm sometimes amazed at how guys completely fold and the truth comes out as soon as they think they're not gonna get lucky. It's like a switch. It's always kinda shocking when their nice, sweet, calm, charming side suddenly becomes angry, pushy, disrespectful, and mean. It's like, are they even the same person???

@simpleekomplikated8713 5 жыл бұрын

"... At least 9 of them not gonna call you tomorrow, more than likely 10 not gonna call you"... 😂😂😂😂💀. I so love these messages.

@_Carmelia 8 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you more than words can express.

@lesleyelalami2562 5 жыл бұрын

Nice comment, I think we all do. x

@CR-gb3nz 7 жыл бұрын

Extremely helpful and full of wisdom - I thank God for your life Sir. As a 19 year old from London, trust me when I tell you thank you! I honestly believe that you have saved me from future unnecessary, dysfunctional relationships. I'm very happy to hear this at my young age. Been praying to God to have a discerning spirit and He lead me to your videos. Will be buying your book soon. God bless you Pastor. 😊

@andreaworten2135 6 жыл бұрын

Well done ..but all that wise stuff u reding from some books ..and mix a bit of ur one exp.right ..? ;)

@firesign4297 5 жыл бұрын

😊👍👍😊❤

@sophisticatedmm3632 6 жыл бұрын

Ugh I'm 34 years old& have NEVER been in a serious exclusive relationship. Watching this video makes me feel better being selective & having a spirit of discernment. Watch for the fruit men bear, not just what they speak

@shanellyoung8238 3 жыл бұрын

✋I know that's right!!

@Virtygo22 6 жыл бұрын

It’s sad that most men are taught that they must lie to get what they want especially to women. And especially black men do this!!! It’s a shame that I am to expect that everything that comes from a mans mouth (that’s not my daddy) is an outright lie.

@leanneginnetti5952 5 жыл бұрын

Tyleshia, why you throw out the race card, especially black men!??! Guys will lie just to get the cookie period. The reality is it's the black men that YOU attract from within. Maybe you've been lying to yourself about something whether recently or from something as far back as early childhood. Dig deep and once you find it and acknowledge it, you will see that the liars will be phased out of your life slowly but surely:) Best of luck to you and be patient.

@October3074 5 жыл бұрын

It's not sad, it's despicable

@NoName-sp5dp 5 жыл бұрын

@@leanneginnetti5952 no boo. Majority dont offer anything. Atleast other people will atleast try to offer something and court you

@DeBellanadi 5 жыл бұрын

Leanne Ginnetti cause that from her experience... can’t be mad if that’s slll she got from BLACK MEN

@DeBellanadi 5 жыл бұрын

Leanne Ginnetti and it’s crazy how ur defending black men , she didn’t want them to treat her like trash they just did and she’s only telling her experience , she didn’t ask for this .... and a hot dog will holler so are you a black man that is butt hurt cause people are calling U out for ur bs

@TheCMJernigan 7 жыл бұрын

So, the man's whole mission is the cookie? Geesh...That's sad.

@RCBlakesJr. 7 жыл бұрын

Cynthia Jernigan An undeveloped man that doesn't understand the purpose and power of the woman. Unfortunately too many men are UNCONSCIOUS. There are some great guys.

@TheCMJernigan 7 жыл бұрын

I pray that one, just ONE of those great guys finds me in the near future. I love your teachings Pastor Blakes! They bless me, inspire me to greatness, correct me and encourage me. Thank you for taking the time to help us!

@firesign4297 5 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏...... 95% ! Of these... menBOYS!... Do NOT! even deserve!....a...GOOD!....Woman!...Period.

@firesign4297 5 жыл бұрын

@@RCBlakesJr. 👏👏👏

@makeitcount2985 5 жыл бұрын

Isn't it, what an empty existance.....

@rizen9457 5 жыл бұрын

You cant even tell what type of tree it is UNTIL you see the FRUIT. Go slow with friends and dating. With people in general.

@ul6442 6 жыл бұрын

You will Know them by there fruit not their conversation. 🙌🏾

@millybadze2117 6 жыл бұрын

Uniquely Lovely Amen and Amen!!!!

@cherylmcleod7357 7 жыл бұрын

Exactly..The New Game Team "No sex..til marriage"

@LylieRandale 7 жыл бұрын

Cheryl Mcleod are you serious? OMG im shocked .....

@liteoreo 6 жыл бұрын

rape would sky rocket

@millybadze2117 6 жыл бұрын

Cheryl Mcleod yesssssss!!!!!!!

@marjn1030 6 жыл бұрын

That's old school. Women need to get back on the old path.

@theguerrerogirls267 5 жыл бұрын

Marriage don't make him a sheep... Speaking from experience... We got married and the MASK CAME OFF!!

@Candaicelovesjesus 6 жыл бұрын

“He and his wallet fades into the sunset...” LMBO 😀😃😃😃😃😃😃🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭

@Wild.horse. 4 жыл бұрын

Bye✌️

@JohannahArrington1908 5 жыл бұрын

My dad taught me these things as a very young child, I was able to dismantle the game and avoid mistakes with lifelong consequences. Thank you for being a father the fatherless. @rc blakes jr

@queenofhearts1138 6 жыл бұрын

Im 34, and I've really lost faith in the black man. Are you telling me that some men are intentionally playing on a womans vulnerabilities? It is very hurtful. I dont want to deal with black men anymore from my father who left, perverted stepfather, molesting cousin, little brother is mad at me and resentful, the father if my child is a bitch. I am so disappointed in the black men who have come into my life in all different capacities.

@Anna-ml7rm 6 жыл бұрын

Your gonna find it doesnt matter the color, theyre all alike

@paulajames3937 6 жыл бұрын

Musiq Love Hun, there are good people and bad people; the color of the epidermis doesn't mean a thing,as far as their spirit is concerned. This coming from a "swirler". Stay Blessed!🙏

@jenpw1525 6 жыл бұрын

Men of all colour are the same. I thank you for these teachings. I get so upset and feel so used once I finally sleep with them and they loose interest right after. It’s like they get the candy and now want another flavour. I’m learning to withhold sex until monogamy. I get too emotionally invested into these men and then when I lose them it is like a death for me. Thank you pastor.

@andreeavasile3828 6 жыл бұрын

Queen ofHearts I pray for healing in your life in Jesus's name

@AliciaExploresLife 5 жыл бұрын

Queen ofHearts I understand your anger, but those men you & I encountered where damaged, broken, Lost boys, Healthy Real men Protect women..get better not bitter, your a Queen👑

@annaoliver3041 5 жыл бұрын

Thinking back I saw the signs that this man did not want a permanent relationship/marriage. I take accountability for wasting 3 years. RC, "you and your wife are a gift from God, giving us wisdom."

@peekaboots01 4 жыл бұрын

I wasted over a decade. Three years is nothing. You're still young.

@whatabouttheworldawokeyet9574 3 жыл бұрын

🙏

@reedbeans7869 5 жыл бұрын

Since I’ve been listening to you almost two years, I think. I got Rid, Of a 20, year Soul Tie!! 🤗, now living for me and not Settling! Thank You! I came on in a Depression, I’m so much Better!

@greaterishe7197 3 жыл бұрын

Praise God.

@adrenna1973 6 жыл бұрын

energy does not lie...it can not be faked.

@kaybellefonte6702 5 жыл бұрын

Trust your intuition ladies!!

@Zarasha1 6 жыл бұрын

This is good advice. Especially for women with children.

@feliciahogan7854 5 жыл бұрын

I knew I wasn't crazy! Everything this pastor is saying is so true and I'm a firm believer.

@nativegoddess1111 7 жыл бұрын

I'm only 18 and been in a relationship for a year and I told him too much about me I've had relations with him several times unprotected I really regret it and i have a dead beat dad so he didn't tell me that men are like this so I want to thank u for telling me how men are

@nativegoddess1111 7 жыл бұрын

And now I'm heartbroken he told me if I have a baby abort it and he called me dumb he knows I'm not a fan of life and everything I waited 6 months to sleep with him but I wasn't really ready

@xaviersanders1553 7 жыл бұрын

I like Cucumbers wow so sorry to hear that..hope you learned a very valuable lesson and learn to love yourself..its the greatest love of all

@sabsays4091 6 жыл бұрын

I like Cucumbers He's such a POS. I know it hurts but focus on yourself and level up --- the moment he senses you've moved on, he'll come back and don't give him the satisfaction of allowing him back into your life

@tidbitsofmotivation1403 6 жыл бұрын

It's never to let to stop and change. Don't feel you have to keep doing something I don't care if you did it a hundred times before you can still stop and don't let anybody shame or convince you different....be blessed little sis..😇

@enigmaticladypisces3169 4 жыл бұрын

Saahira Dunford I pray beautiful that you are in great spirits in 2019! You are not alone sweety! Peace & Blessings

@M_Monroe 7 жыл бұрын

You're talking about a narcissist, I disguise my social media, these demons are not clever at all. I love to play the psychological games with them makes em mad as hell and doubt themselves and their abilities in the art of trickery it's hilarious.

@ak-47intelligence75 6 жыл бұрын

M. Monroe : same thoughts. What he is referring to is a narcissist.

@bettinaivory28 6 жыл бұрын

I do that too 😁 They can't handle it...

@AliciaExploresLife 5 жыл бұрын

M. Monroe 😂😂

@karminfennell7132 5 жыл бұрын

Enjoy your company ladies, love ourselves first & foremost. Patience will pay off.

@rhondahill5261 5 жыл бұрын

Seems narcissist are all over the place. Church's bring it out, gives them permission to be misogynistic.

@michelej9496 6 жыл бұрын

Neither will you know a man in 10 years, if he has something he want's to hide. My mother is the reason I married the man, that carried me off captive.

@ginab.4605 7 жыл бұрын

2017 and woman are still putting their feelings on social media #shakemyhead..

@sophisticatedmm3632 6 жыл бұрын

Gina Bee IKR don't wear your heart on your sleeve

@flashylights 5 жыл бұрын

Now its 2019 and they are still doing it 😕

@basicinfo2022 4 жыл бұрын

I used to do that but now it's grown to making my social media private and I only repost empowering quotes.

@tinishawashington9110 6 жыл бұрын

I'm in Philadelphia and again I prayed for understanding and two days later I found you...thank you

@raquelmalone1614 7 жыл бұрын

I am forever changed! #Nevertoooldtolearn

@beautyshines2124 2 жыл бұрын

"Never define a man until you've tested his character." Thank you Ptr. Blakes for the beautiful message. God bless you and your family more!👍🙏

@vilindaveronica5703 5 жыл бұрын

2 Timothy 3:13 But evil people and impostors will flourish. They will deceive others and will themselves be deceived.

@kimshippy266 6 жыл бұрын

You're THE BOMB PASTOR BLAKES, you should have seminars for men and women,you are TRULY GOD SENT!!!!!THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!!!!!

@misst.e.a.187 5 жыл бұрын

Lack of integrity is endemic. Better to stay single.

@Melly16yr10 3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@ciao2315 4 жыл бұрын

My ex husband who is a narcissist said these exact words “I felt like I was an actor the whole time” ....yeah...I’d say this falls under the deceiving category.

@petragodfrey4716 5 жыл бұрын

Allow yourself to allow men to proof if he is a good man . Dont give in to sweet talk and false love, if he love you, want you he will marry you .

@davidnyu29 5 жыл бұрын

My father died in 1962 I was a baby. My mother never remarried, and the lost of my father has had a negative impact on my life. I thank you so much for your fatherly advice.

@miriamsworld127 5 жыл бұрын

I’m glad I see now the VALUE in taking tine to get to know a man

@fksdnkefknfeefwbfebid 5 жыл бұрын

I had a guy stalk me who was on the downlow. He was activly trying to destroy me every single day. If God wasn't in my life and I would have engaged in sexual activity with him, he would have put me at a HUGE risk, and destroyed my life. And the sex part is not always true, sometimes they're VERY evil and they'll be patient and wait just so they can discard you after they get what they want. These brothas are patient.

@fksdnkefknfeefwbfebid 2 жыл бұрын

@Violet flower amen!

@JM-kb1ei 5 жыл бұрын

My father has been in prison my whole life. I have been in toxic situations my entire life. I bought your book tonight. Thank you

@maybay1977 8 жыл бұрын

We love your ministry and call upon your life Bishop. But we also love the ways you utilize the gifts that God has given you. Keep sharing Sir, we're out here listening and adhering. God bless Leading Lady as well.

@RCBlakesJr. 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much. I really appreciate it.

@maxios 8 жыл бұрын

+Robert Blakes PREACH PASTOR.

@capellascott8821 7 жыл бұрын

I want to thank on of your members, for introducing me to your teaching. Bishop, you have ministered to me dear and I thank you!! May God continue to bless you and your family!!

@caline626 6 жыл бұрын

Such a eye opener, we must pray for discernment because without it we will be played. Thank you pastor for this.

@tytyevans1306 4 жыл бұрын

Finding a good man is so simple look for consistency has he been on his job for years has he gone to his church for years. Be direct......ask questions when you meet his family ask some questions ones that aren't obvious to your agenda....

@relishapugh1247 5 жыл бұрын

I didn't have a father, & I look at u as A FATHER figure. THANK YOU, LORD for sending me in this direction 👏

@Natalia-lk7hw 6 жыл бұрын

No way in hell would I give my daughter's number to a teenage boy. Those women were simple and naive.

@adelineproverbs3139 5 жыл бұрын

Wow. I guess there's no such thing as a man of God. I guess I'll be celibate for the rest of my life. Perhaps, that's my calling. Great teaching dad.

@jessicawestbrook3730 3 жыл бұрын

Starting to think the same thing.

@chasingclouds7101 5 жыл бұрын

Captain kid lol! I can't believe I'm 44 and still didn't realize these things. Thank you Pastor for being the dad I never had.

@gregf7624 5 жыл бұрын

I married with church man,was the worst experience I have...open your eyes sisters.Thanks papa🤗

@krissylee7940 5 жыл бұрын

Heartbroken. I wish dad would have talked to me! Same pattern over and over again! Thank you for your hard work and all your information. It's hard to hear but I'm so thankful

@arttwinsdarkvslights6698 7 жыл бұрын

smooth operators....so called. christian brothers....beware if he dosent even let u speak....your time to is valuable.... Value urself

@HelenaNYC 6 жыл бұрын

I'm a 40 y old white catholic female,an RN from NYC originally from Ukraine.I stumbled on your videos while searching for some information to help raise my 12 y daughter as a good person.I appriciate your work and helping ppl.God Bless You. Like ,Subscribed.

@janinemccullom1025 8 жыл бұрын

Pastor, I appreciate your teachings. Thank you for bringing these conversations to women; young and old. We all benefit from your insight and the wisdom God has given you.

@umichgal1 6 жыл бұрын

Pastor Blake, I am not a particularly religious woman, but I thank you for your knowledge and the gift of sharing it. You have helped me see things more clearly and act accordingly. Thank you again.

@Mscoffiedash 6 жыл бұрын

That was my fault from my ex of 10years! I wish I knew about this years ago! But my pain built my character! It’s hurts to finally wake up! Grabbing my heart every night because I was so gullible and silly and lack of even on my spiritual journey! I’m learning one day at a time to forgive myself! Yeah I was hood winked! But I’m still alive!

@Jassywazzy1 4 жыл бұрын

I grew up without a father, due to him being murdered when I was 2. I’m 28 now. This information is so useful. Just wish I was able to find pastor Blake’s videos sooner.

@sweetscent2622 6 жыл бұрын

Mine was a cross between captain kid and spiritual rastafarian with dreads, headwrap the lot. The guy was no more a rastafarian than a ball head!

@mejustbeingme1207 6 жыл бұрын

JoJo LMAO

@classylady9295 3 жыл бұрын

Lol!

@monicadantata 5 жыл бұрын

WOW to the beautiful woman who struggles financially these "ballers" trap the naive woman. Education is and financial independence is crucial. but also discernment as a lot of these predators are in the work place and on the college campus ! thanks so much

@kheleecebrown1799 10 ай бұрын

Exactly l can relate that's why you talk less and listen more. It gets them every time 😅😂 🤭. All those false acting gone and there true nature is revealed.

@ngreat4390 5 жыл бұрын

Series of questions won't help you. Actors already have ready prepared answers to any questions you may have because he has practiced it on others. Again, because your ears are itching to hear what will be relieving, you're willing to believe whatever he tells you so that the relationship can move forward. So what can help you? The Holy Spirit. Walk with him, learn from him and listen and obey. He'll give you the blueprint to recognise the right person for you and most importantly, he'll make you the right person. God specialises in giving good gifts and perfect presents. If you're not walking with God, you'll pick the wrong guy/Lady. That's a fact

@Klassyhk 4 жыл бұрын

@Helen Enang I read your comment before I left this page but was led back by the Holy Spirit to find your post again. I am testifying to the truth of your statement. If we would seek God's will in relationships, the Holy Spirit (He) will guide you. He will illuminate. He will reveal what is true so that it will be obvious to you what is false or fake. The Lord does give good gifts to us. Wisdom is one of those gifts. We must ask for it and glean from the wisdom, in a practical sense, being shared by persons like RC Blakes and others on YT.

@amandabulmer2158 4 жыл бұрын

Sadly , we are living in an age of Narcissism. Not many people know what humility, and integrity , meaning is , it is the sign of the times that we are living, in the world today...

@shekinahfire5936 4 жыл бұрын

Yep; 2 Timothy 3 🔑💯

@123gigiroxx 6 жыл бұрын

God bless you, now that ive crossed over into womanhood , just beginning to understand about life and men . A lot of things ive had to try and understand on my own since I never really had a strong positive male influence in my life . Your word are truth and really has opened my eyes and I pray God blesses u for speaking up .

@TheJasminegilchrist 6 жыл бұрын

I guess the 58 dislikes are from guys 😂😂.. Good info, Thank you brother RC Blakes. God bless you

@latrellestewart173 7 жыл бұрын

thanks bishop this video was empowering because I know men who have left there own families to be with another woman on the other side of town and have talked her in to believing he's a good man.

@parkermarie2 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I'm so mad I just found you. I've been celibate for two years, but didn't understand why or how I knew not to bite. Your videos have given me my Queendom validation and helped me to understand I am right where I need to be. You have my attention and respect.

@divinediva_ 6 жыл бұрын

Pastor Blakes your videos are so real and refreshing! I feel blessed to have come upon them. At this point in my life, I have learned many of these things through trial, error, heartache, and experience. In either case, my spirit rejoices at your willingness to share this with all the sisters that will hear and receive! God bless you sir! 🙌🙌🙌

@tanekaalexander8040 5 жыл бұрын

Pastor Blake's! You ain't nothing but the TRUTH! I wish I had this guidance and teaching along time ago!!! Keep on motivating Much Love and Blessings🙏💖👑

@mzyelow 8 жыл бұрын

You have been a total blessing to me and my relationship mishaps. I have been sharing your video's with my girlfriends. God Bless you!

@pamtough9019 8 жыл бұрын

Me too. I'm sharing these videos. It has helped me too sis. Past and present.

@tamicagle1729 5 жыл бұрын

AMEN.! Character is everything in a relationship!

@Willa4420 5 жыл бұрын

I wish I had this info when I was a young woman. He is speaking truth here. Real world realities on what is out there.

@debrabonaparte6772 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this information. I am old and have gotten so much value of this. I never had any of this information from my father that I recall. Great teachings I've learned from your lessons.

@VisionVoyagersOG 8 жыл бұрын

thank u Pastor you're doing a great work and helping folks.

@deeleon1565 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this, I need to listen to this every day for about a YEAR!!

@raejudah 5 жыл бұрын

I love your teachings!! You're healing a nation of Women with these teachings!!

@islandgirl01 5 жыл бұрын

I go to sleep with your videos playing...get it all in my subconscious. I wake up with such clarity as I listen to them again.

@ivalinapasse2469 5 жыл бұрын

Awesome to hear Father Daughter Talk!!! God is so Good you lead me here just to Listen to words of Wisdom!!!

@lindacshort3558 3 жыл бұрын

Wow Pastor Blake; I have put all your video's on most of the Celibacy groups on FB and my friends! May God bless you and thank you!

@Margo_78 4 жыл бұрын

Preach Pastor Blakes!!! You are speaking the truth. God bless you and Thank you🙏🏽.

@AnaMartinez-ij1fm 6 жыл бұрын

I have listed to several videos and it has taught me soooo much. You have empower me. thank you so much!

@ambermarie8554 3 жыл бұрын

I’m finding out more and more why I am becoming uninterested in men and finding someone to spend my life with. So many games. They are deceitful arrogant and use you.