Lovelies, I love so much making those videos for you!!! Tell me in the comments what is your little thing that makes you feel and look unique and fabulous. Thank you for loving, living and sharing this video. Love you xxx Frederique ❤️

My best tip comes from my Father, who was a professional artist and photographer. Wear clothes that fit. Fit is essential. Forget the numbers; wear what best fits you..For the lines of a dress to move and flow correctly, for it to hang gracefully, to be most comfortable, it must fit correctly. Wearing a size too small for your body will not make you look smaller. It will accentuate every bump and flub, making you appear larger. Employ a seamstress to perfect the fit.

I am 70 in a couple of weeks (still 25 in my head!) My own idea about dressing well is to be elegant and chic by wearing good quality classics, which do not need to be expensive - such good vintage shops and auction sites available for these. I take note of current trends, and some can be incorporated into my way of dressing - a nod to fashion, which gives a modern look without looking out of place as an older lady. Keep a modern hairstyle, nothing more ageing than a helmet type style held in place with pots of hair spray! I wear great wigs, so I can frequently change my style, they are so good these days that nobody would guess its not my hair. Look after your nails, wear good shoes and natural look make up - essential! Best of all, smile! It instantly lifts the face and makes one look younger!

My go to secret to be stylish - to swagger! I stand up straight, throw my shoulders back, step out and smile at anyone foolish enough to make eye contact. Also Chanel No 5 and Diorshow Mascara with a dusting of powder. Thank you Frederique for all of your encouragement.

Can I just say that your “click, click, click” has me saying it with you. Keep being you!! That’s why we watch you: you are real. xo

Love this video and love Frederique! I just turned 62 and just retired from my job. 2022 is all about becoming the best me I can be. I signed up for the styling course since so I can finally learn to dress my 5 ft 1 inch hourglass frame. I gave away 80% of my clothes to charity yesterday and feel fantastic! I’ve learned more from these videos in a month than I ever knew before about dressing well and feeling confident. Please keep posting! I am shopping for new clothes, shoes, everything. Next stop, learning to speak French!

My tip for always looking stylish and put together is to have a ‘uniform’ - I know what styles of tops, pants, jackets etc. flatter me, and I have them in various colours and sleeve lengths for different seasons. Also, I buy jewelry, scarves, etc. from a charitable organization that pays women in the developing world a fair wage for their work, then sells it in the developed world to raise funds. I’m doing some good with my fashion budget, and I always look totally unique. This probably wouldn’t work for someone who really cared about fashion, and/or loved to shop, but it works for me!🙂

One of my tips as I age is to not be rushed. Been there done that. I take my time now rush for nothing!! Merci for all your enthusiasm and fab videos💜 love the monochrome look

I love your videos, I am 68 and I keep thinking I am getting old and that sucks. But you have given me new light . Going to grow out all that old garments that are me look old. And start getting things that will look fresh and natural. 🌹❤️🌹❤️🍾🥂

Thank you!!!! You look so beautiful- I’m enjoying your videos- after a divorce - now single parent- 3 little girls- one who is disabled- years of neglecting myself- I’m choosing to be kind to me inside and out - and find my fashionable self, again.

Excellent video. I try to follow all your tips. Since I'm in my 70s, I try to stay away from senior centers and take classes at local colleges. Somehow that tricks my mind into thinking I'm in my 20s lol

You are so right about perfume: I have worn “Opium” for a very long time. My grand daughters love it! One day I was going up the stairs and a coworker was behind me and she said she loved my perfume and when I told her, she stopped shocked as she was wearing the same: did not smell the same at all. Different phd of skin.

I am 75 and have never lost my excitement in the clothes I wear. It makes me feel good and confident

You’re so very sweet and kind and give fantastic advise. I’m 76, still don’t look too bad for an old lady! I keep classic for the most part and try to have the best quality I can afford. So many people are shocked to find out my age. I love that! I can’t believe it myself at times. Keep up the great content and your wonderful attitude. God Bless! Oh, and you look fabulous in this vid!!!!

Any day above the grass is a good day!

Frederique, I got to say this, the reason why I love and enjoy ALL your content ... is the core essence of who you are and how beautifully you embrace and appreciate each person's uniqueness... it is a very special gift to have and you overflow with it. Thank you so very much, yes, we are each unique noone in the past present or future was/is/will be you AND life is a journey wherein we learn to discover and grow ourselves as we also grow to love and appreciate others. Big bear hugs xx

During covid I was on the phone with a girlfriend (both 72) when simultaneously I got a call from the owner of my cosmetics store saying she would deliver my makeup to my mailbox on her way home. This was very kind of her. My friend on the other phone overheard the conversation and said don’t tell me you are still purchasing expensive makeup like that. I thought you are darn right I am. I use that makeup daily. I don’t overdo it but I’m trying to look presentable even if I’m staying home. This friend was a fashionista in her early days. She hasn’t thrown the towel in completely but I was somewhat surprised. My mother was always groomed and so was hers. I do care to make a decent appearance.

Hello Frederique! Girl, you look fabulous today in your white and red lipstick! Thank you for all your advice. Confidence is a struggle. 💕

I cannot reiterate enough that being comfortable in your own skin is THE MOST important lesson anyone can ever learn! This is a great video!

I love the idea mutual kindness and support among fellow women, not competition. Unfortunately, I was raised in a time and place where we automatically looked at other women and did a kind of mental, critical analysis and makeover of everything from their figures, hair and makeup to clothing. Teenagers were especially cruel, picking apart everyone’s perceived “flaws”. Sometimes we even talked about our criticisms to others, how nasty. I’ve tried to fight this mindset all my life, with some success. Life is not a beauty contest, even if we were raised to believe that it is, and we were. I believe that this thinking originated in the times when getting the “right kind” (i.e. with wealth and status) of husband was considered the most important thing in life for women, but it isn’t.

I love watching your videos and I really do feel like I am sitting down with a friend chatting when I watch your videos. I love your style.

Click click click. That sounds so cute!♥️

"Try to pay yourself a compliment." 😊 I love this! I have not thought about it this specifically before. I have heard people say to look in the mirror and say something nice like "hello beautiful!" But what a great way to sharply focus on those good feelings, to find something specific to compliment yourself about, rather than harping on the specific details of what we don't like. This is so valuable! 😊🙏 Thank you for using these specific words. Also, you look wonderful! 😃🤩 Thank you for continuing to radiate and inspire.

Putting on some jewelry always makes me feel more presentable, no matter what I'm wearing.

Frédérique you know I love all your videos! I wanted to share something with you and your viewers. I have this exercise that I learned once at a training (I didn’t make it up). It’s for learning self esteem. Each person works with a partner. You tell her a compliment. She has to listen, look in your eyes, say thank you, pause, and then say “It’s true.” This is really hard. Then you switch. Anyway, I did this with a patient the other day and guess what compliment she gave me? “Vivian, you have such a great sense of style!!” I said “thank you! It’s true!” And I immediately thought of my style icon Frédérique and to share this here!

Thank you Frederique! My little thing that makes me feel great always is putting my hair up in a messy bun and throwing on hoop earrings. Really easy and always looks good! 😘

You have such a positive attitude ☺, I say, if you tell yourself negative comments constantly... the brain doesn't forget this... so let's try like you said ,find a positive thing about yourself every day ....thank you for sharing your love ❤. Bisous.

My best tip for feeling fantastic is not to worry about what other people think, be happy for other people (their success does not take away from yours) and smile. Confidence and inner contentment shines through and is very attractive. Or just do what I do, wear bright colours, statement accessories, and a giant fur coat😂

Such a positive and uplifting message, Frédérique . You are the best!

I'm so glad to have found your channel. Not only is your advice and guidance so helpful, you make it fun. Love how you remind us that we are all individuals, all beautiful and deserving. I may not comment a lot but so appreciate every video💙. And you! You're so very beautiful. At 67 I am not afraid nor uncomfortable telling another woman she is gorgeous

I did click thumbs up. I'm not sure why you only have 170k subscribers. Not that 170k is too shabby! But you deserve so many more! You're doing a great job!

I just went shopping and my focus was neutral colors and classic styles. I'm so excited to dress for church this morning. It's really my only "social" outing each week.

Best video yet!! Love the “Be kind to yourself”. I’m my own worst critic, so I’m definitely going to try that! ❤️X

Hi girl, looking fabulous today 😍 Lol! My favorite thing that helps keep me stylish is kindness, my smile and my positive attitude 😘

I am 57 but i have such a good response when i go out. I only buy items for my wardrobe wich Can mix an match, and did that for 30 yrs now. No buying mistakes, i know what fits me and wich colors to wear. I am a designer, and personal stylist and Color consultant, wich really Viva me great pleasure when i can help others to find their personal style. I live in Scandinavia and our skin is very fair wich makes Black steal all the lige dåfrom us if we dont put on colored scarf , turtleneck and shirts wich match our own colors and skintype - hair, eyes and skin. It id really all about knowing the skincolor you have warm or cold, then you always Can find items wich shows the best items for you . Look at the Palm of your hand, compare it to your girlfriend. You Will then very fast se what the diffrence between. Pink/White = cold undertones in the skin or Yellow/Golden =Warm undertones in your skin . That Will help you to find the colors wich compliments your eyes and hair too. One Golden rule is, the eyecolor you have is for sure always the Color clothes wich Will make you look stunning. And remember there is a diffrence if the Color comes there with you or people see you as a person because you made the fantastic Color choise wich makes you glow and be seen

Frederique even your name is classy. Thank you for such great tips.

You have inspired me to go through my clothes. Today, I tried everything on and the things that I didn’t work I took straight to charity. I’m tired but happy that what is left fits and looks good. Thank you!

You look good when you are happy. And you are happy when you are surrounded by nice and good people, when you love what you do and when you do nice things to you. Very good video. Greetings, Ewa

I feel fantastic when my hair is done. While I Sometimes enjoy having my natural hair, there is something about a good blowout that makes me feel and look good. Also with lots of homeoffice I purchased some flared strech-pants to wear, instead of wearing sweat pants all the time or stiff jeans. This makes me feel good.

Wonderful advice on styling and absolutely be kind to yourself, something I’ve learned in the last few years I spent most of my life as a nurse ( now retired) being kind to others and ignoring my own needs! 🥰🙌♥️👏👏😻🌈🌟💫☀️ Love you and your energy! 🙌🙌🙌♥️😻⭐️

I binge watched so many of your videos to the point I dreamed about getting a job working for you and you were super fashionable and cool.

So true. We need to repeat this to ourselves, me included. I long for my pre-menopause days, but I know that I'm a better person now. Your makeup looks great! Thank you. 💖

Great video. The little thing that makes me feel confident is wearing a watch, I don't know, I just really like how it feel. And I love the jewelry you are using today and the white jacket, you look amazing.

A fun pair of shoes always elevates my mood.

😄I saw another lady's comment ( Stephanie Evans) and I couldn't help laughing, because that's exactly how I feel (45 but 25 in my head). I get told so many times I look much much younger, and I'm grateful for such lovely complements. ANY way...HELLO Girl nice to see you again!🤩 Ok what makes me feel fantastic...Silent Confidence, projected by being humble and friendly. That is very important to me and I teach my twin girls exactly that! O wish I was still 20 just to wear those tight mini dresses again. I still love and wear my jeans, slim fit or bootleg, just the way I have always liked it. And I am so sorry, if I dissapoint you know, but when I was a teen and even in my 20s I was so in love with my "Doc Martin boots" (those "millitary style" boots) that I wore them with a dress, jeans, skirt, my shorts, my jump suits, anything BUT my bikini okay😂 So, the moment that I saw those boots back in fashion, I just couldn't resist and I bought a black pair once again, and Girl I wear them PROUD, well not with everything in my wardrobe anymore because I am older now, but I still wear them with a skirt, my jeans sometimes and with my boho chic pants🤫🤭yes, I know 🙈but it doesn't look weird or stupid, I will never leave my house looking like a clown, promise😏 Thank you again for another great video Frederique! Lots of love, o and you look beautiful in white Girl!!❣

I’m 74. I love it. I dress in modernist style. I follow your great advice. I shop vintage consignment for quality clothes. Fewer crazy hormones keep me happy. I started smiling more. I love makeup. It is an art form.

Wow! You do look super chic Frederique! Great video! My advice for us more mature ladies is to keep interested. So many over 60ies think its crazy to still be interested in clothes, looks, style. No its not. Its a matter of self respect. Keep yourself looking the best you can be. We don't all have pots of money to spend but even on a budget we can save for that classic item of clothing, we can take care of ourselves, be kind to ourselves, put a smile on our face and step out with confidence. xxx

Bon jour, Frederique! I LOVE LOVE LOVE your "F" necklace--it is such an elegant little touch! 😘

Good to see that you practice what you preach, Frederique! Communicating with such energy and elan. Yes you are right about the value of 'neutrals' in our clothing combinations, and about expressing individuality in our clothes - while remaining , of course, appropriate to lifestyle and occasion. This should all help us reach that holy grail - elegance!

Thumbs up!!! Click, click, click. Another winner! Any advice on shoes? Undergarments? Being kind to yourself is key! Thank you.

Yes, a black jacket...the blackest you can find! The blacker the fabric is, it will match easier with other black garments in your wardrobe. Cheap 100% polyester fabric is never really black, having an unappealing light reflecting shimmer. Seams never sit flat with polyester either, ironing makes it worse by making the fabric shiny. Look for winter weight, or fine summer weight wool "suiting". Quailty black velvet for cool weather dressy days and evenings also. Stylish gold jewellery completes the look. A lint brush will be your friend. 👱‍♀️❤

Hi Frederique! You look fabulous as always. Terrific advice to be kind to ourselves and others. If I notice someone took extra care to look their best…I always complement them. If I get a complement it means the world to me. Growing older isn’t always easy….it doesn’t take much to tell someone something nice. It could make their day!!! Hugs to Oscar. Best to you always. lol xxx

Bonjour! I would love to see photos of how your style has changed from 20s to now!!! Could be very fun!

My tip for looking and feeling great is to add a scarf to the outfit somewhere. If nothing else, it covers my aging neck! But I do love the creativity a scarf allows, and a jolt of color it gives to my neutrals, which is all I usually wear now.

It does start with being kind to yourself and others! That is the foundation of our beauty, then we can add the "lipstick and bobbles" Loved this video.

This made me feel more motivated, getting up and working out.

I cannot be without my black blazers, wearing with sneakers and jeans in the day and then wearing the same with heels at night.❤

Your style advice is as wonderful as the reminders about self love 💕

The problem with living in southern california near the beach is that no one ever dresses up. It's shorts and tees or athleisure wear all year and all day and night. Even the nicer restaurants you see women in such casual clothes. I always feel overdressed if I make an effort. I love stylish clothes.

Hi I am facing a lot of issues at the moment and finding it very hard to make decisions. I have so many cloths sitting there, and I mean many. Yet I do not feel right in my skin, it is making me feel very sad. I have not always been like this 😢. I am 65 now. I love watching you posts, they make me smile.

Cute little necklace, Frederique!! I always put perfume on - Coco Madamoiselle - woke up from surgery once to the doctor asking what I was wearing because the staff had loved it. My winner this week - finally found that "heavier" day jumper in cotton (cannot wear wool). It has been on my "need" list for two years. Difficult for me as I am a petite five foot tall and 106lbs and it is easy to look like a little box on legs! Once I realised it was a winner, I went straight back to the shop and bought it again in a second colour.

May I just say...Frederique I love the wave in your hair and that lipstick is 🔥! Love all your content! This video was a really good one! 💗

Dear Frédèrique, I love to watch your videos. Plenty of useful, feminine advice and style that is easy to buy and is not too expensive. Merci, Vous êtes charmant.

It’s so essential (and often difficult) to pay ourselves compliments - but what an awesome way to start the day! I plan to incorporate this into my morning routine now! Thank you, Frederique x

Thank you, Frederique! Great video again. For me, I feel happier with myself if my skin and hair are healthy. No matter what I'm wearing, if I feel my skin and hair look good, I feel better. I also, as you often say, think knowing what suits me helps me to choose clothes that I feel good in. It also saves me money because I make fewer mistakes when I am shopping. And, being kind and pleasant to people we meet, is one of the most stylish looks we can wear.

I wear mostly Neutrals, but I even wear black leather pants with an Oversized button up White shirt that has a bright orwnge toned red Artistic design on it. I like the Classic Chic look. And I wear it well..😍

Red lipstick every day! 63 and feel much younger!

Thanks for being a cheerleader for women everywhere ❤️

My Classic wardrobe is Timeless & I am youthful & Timeless too❤

I can be so rushed at times or not feeling like dressing up but, as long as, I can put on my lipstick and shades, I am fine. Lipstick is a must, or else I look so drained and near death 😊😉❤️ Also, keeping a current hairstyle will make you look years younger

Love, love the video and yes, whether I am working around the house or going out, wear a good perfume. I also wear Coco Mademoiselle and consistently get compliments! I recently turned 69 also heed your advice on neutrals. I have incorporated more solids and neutrals in my wardrobe and feel I look "classier" in the solids. You are such a wonderful inspiration and always smiling and happy. I can watch your makeup and fashion videos all day. Cindy

Thank you! We are all worth it and you show me how and I thank you for it.

Thank you so much for your wise classy and self empowering advice. Blessings

I enjoy picking out what to wear and even though I am retired, I still like to look stylish! I play Pickleball, a racquet sport, and have several little dresses and shorter leggings in fun colours, instead of thirst and shorts for wearing in the summer when we play outside. I do love my cashmere sweaters and although I am limiting my purchases and purging my closet, my pets just bought me a lovely blue one for Valentines Day! Always love your videos and advice!

I found my style of grafic tees, and then I thought I am mature now I need to dress a bit more my age, nope. So I love my white button downs and just incorporate the two. Living my best life, well some days lol, at 52, not caring what others think.

I love white on you and the coral pink lipstick 💄 es magnifico on you!

Love you're ideas fun yet classy. That's you too! 👍😉

I Reeeeaaallllly Loved this Video... I resonate that we need to change our mind-set and be kinder to one another as women, but ESPECIALLY kinder to ourselves... 🤗🤗🤗

Love to watch your videos, they are so informative. Live French fashion, I am almost 60 and feel the same, no natter what age, dress what makes you feel good, no matter what others think. Thank you for an excellent video❤Please do videos of a stylish, chic, classic, but stil sexy wardope for woman over 50. ❤

Hi Frederique, thank you, thank you, thank you. Your video is like a big hug!😍

Love your energy.....helps one look ageless. Your smile is fabulous. I love classic clothes. They take me everywhere around the globe! Your channel is terrific.

You are a wonderful host. Thank you for all your tips. At my age (55) I have many questions and you are spot on with everything you share with us. Thank you!

What an uplifting tutorial Frederique! You are so right about everyone needing to be kind to one another, including ourselves. Thank you for the helpful information!

I put unworn items in a "not right now" box rather than donating. Can't tell you how many times I've regretted giving something away.

I’ve been packing up to move and just caught up with your latest videos, totally agree with all of this but especially the last point. We don’t need to tear each other down

Had to stop the video, to let you know, you look amazing with the new look. The teeth, the lashes, your just glowing. Love it

Frédérique I love your videos! This one was so helpful to me! Thank you! 💗💗💗💗

I am not on FB. You are the only FB I pay attention to and look forward to your visits to enlighten me. I think of you as the older sister I never had, who guides me. You are so right: if we do not really love what we have to wear, we will choose a favorite thing and wear it to death. You showed us such good examples, some of which sparked ideas for my wardrobe.

Hello frederique! I always love your videos, your advices/tips are practical. I don’t own any luxury items but with your tips I try to work on the classy things that I have. Watching you is like taking advice from an older sister who’s very chic and successful. I aspire to look as beautiful as you when I’m at your age♥️

Frederique, found this very inspiring. You're an excellent coach on this subject. Yes, do more!

It is so true “be kind to each other , women”! Love your videos ! Keeep going!

So true I know bright scarf colors & warm neutrals, classics are the best for any age! You are really pretty today! I think you are the best! We are not getting older - we are getting better! Thanks! 😊💕

CIAO Frederick, you're right when you said the perfume issue and COCO Mademoiselle is my always favorite. And yesterday was the superbowl @ California, was sunny, flip flojo day😩 wich I hate. For coming yesterday morning rainy day and Cold weather. Now, yesterday morning rained with tunder storms. So today, I'll wear more apropiate to today;'s weather and I'll prepare myself for spring, and dress happy colors to chear myself. I Turner 49 years, but with more joy, I'll dress proper colors. I have a square body type. And I love style puffer jackets and sweater vests😎

I wear leggings or skinny jeans and oversized t shirts, sweaters, tops with sneakers or sandals and always in monotone black or sometimes grey. It makes me feel so good! So I know I don't look "fashionable", but I feel so good and I like the way I look and that means when I go out I don't worry or feel self conscious and what a gift that has been!

Thank you Frederique! Your smile is contagious, you are so graceful. Thank you for reminding us not to be our own worst critical voice. I needed to hear this message today. Have a lovely day.

Always looking forward to your videos, Frederique!!! I've used so many of your tips already!

Thankyou 😘Once again Frèdèrique for your burst of energy and inspiring advice, it's so true, that we need to be kind to ourselves and celebrate our individual style, looking to be creative with our clothes can be fun.

You are always so positive and fabulous! I’m loving that jacket…Please tell me more about it 😁

Totally agree!! Love your videos!

You look stunning in white and that red lip!!!! :)