My one time boss told me I'm a very capable woman. I'm really proud of that comment. A friend once said "You Rock" about the way I tackle things. : D My mom's always telling me I'm beautiful and kind. Even my ex used to say I was special and valuable, and he made a point of reminding me from time to time, because he knew I'd need a top up.
@MichelleFarrismft2 жыл бұрын
I love this!! I love that you can own these loving statements about yourself!! Great job!
@Tmlatyoutube18 күн бұрын
Wow. I'm really enjoying your videos. Thank you.
@MichelleFarrismft17 күн бұрын
Yay! I"m so glad!
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Жыл бұрын
Key to loving myself more
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching Florence!
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Жыл бұрын
I was chasing that type of life style love it was self pity . When l need self love more
@richardeliasjames5190 Жыл бұрын
If the two of you are compatible and open to falling in love, eventually you'll be vulnerable with each other. And when you do that, you can truly fall in love. If you wait it out and prove to your partner you aren't going anywhere, this person will almost certainly fall for you eventually.
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Richard!
@norismendoza4503 Жыл бұрын
thank you, michelle. this is helpful.
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
Im so glad! I have lots of free resources if you’re interested in joining my list!
@specygirl852 жыл бұрын
I'm very lucky to find your channel..It will help me to cure my codependency. I started to watch it daily. I hope it will help me if I m consistent with your videos. Lots of love to you 😊
@MichelleFarrismft2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad! Would you like to get some of my free guides on codependency? counselingrecovery.lpages.co/codependent-worksheets/
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Жыл бұрын
Im struggling with it embrace my self esteem self love 💕
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
I hope these suggestions help!
@kimberlymej85842 жыл бұрын
Amazing and useful information. I struggle so much with low-self esteem and I eill tru to follow your advice 🙏 THANK YOU!!!
@MichelleFarrismft2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! You can do this! I just did a video about internal vs external validation. I think it might help. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/j7Vdns14p7y0n30.html
@canyouspellophthalmology2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this!
@MichelleFarrismft2 жыл бұрын
You are very welcome!
@sheenav55433 ай бұрын
Wow....great...
@MichelleFarrismft3 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@chloesunshine36922 жыл бұрын
Very helpful! Thank you so much
@MichelleFarrismft2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! Thanks for watching!
@matthewjahnke69569 ай бұрын
I fall into that.
@MichelleFarrismft9 ай бұрын
You’re not alone!
@suzannem8265 Жыл бұрын
Lightbulb moment, how can you accept love from others if you accept love from yourself, obvious now that I’ve heard it but never put that together.
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that helped Suzanne! Thanks for watching!
@Vaniiaa2023 Жыл бұрын
Hi, thank you so much for all your words and help. Iam so thankful that you crossed my path. Can I ask for a video on how to deal or better yet overcome being very shy.
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
Thank you - I will see what I can do - but that is not my area of expertise. Here is something that might help - do you struggle with negative thoughts about yourself and others? If so watch my video How to Get Rid of Negative Thoughts ( and Improve Self-esteem ) kzfaq.info/get/bejne/i6p3dcZirt2ZfZs.html. That might help get you started. Sometimes we need to get out of our head and just practice being in the moment. Start with the people you feel comfortable with - literally just practice BEING YOURSELF. We all bubble through this stuff - do don't expect yourself to do it perfectly. Hope that helps.
@Vaniiaa2023 Жыл бұрын
@@MichelleFarrismft OMG thank you for replying. Yes I’ve watch all your videos and some of them more than once to see if things sink in. Iam a codependent, have anxiety, depression and unfortunately I’m also very shy, I’m a pessimist over thinker about myself and life. Again thank you so much for being so kind and helpful.
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
@@Vaniiaa2023 You can do this!
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Жыл бұрын
My low self esteem impact me little bit
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Жыл бұрын
Those toxic relationships does get in the way little bit
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
Yes, they do get in the way but that's why doing your own healing is important.
@hypnozs9 ай бұрын
A couple of people told me I have pretty eyes and cheeks. And a few people said i have a good nose. That I am unique,funny And there is people that made fun of my lips and made me feel ugly But i started to like my lips And my bestie once said they are cute
@MichelleFarrismft9 ай бұрын
That’s a great start - focusing on what you and other like about you is important!
@nancyantonini1097 Жыл бұрын
Michelle you are Terrific Please keep it up ❤
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Nancy!
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Жыл бұрын
Low self esteem the tone was crazy
@raindrop50107 ай бұрын
#### Summary- - Negative thoughts and self-doubt are common with low self-esteem, which can contribute to anxiety and depression.- Seeking external validation for self-esteem is not sustainable, as it relies on temporary factors.- Building self-love internally is crucial for healthy relationships and accepting love from others.- Accepting imperfections and forgiving oneself are key to increasing self-esteem.- Acknowledging one's gifts and unique qualities helps in accepting oneself.- Writing down compliments received can help recognize and embrace positive aspects of oneself.- Self-esteem is about feeling equal and enough, not being arrogant or self-centered.
@MichelleFarrismft7 ай бұрын
Thank you! That's super helpful to those wanting to learn more!
@faithgirl97088 ай бұрын
Loving yourself doesn't mean that you feel depressed sometimes?. I feel depressed on vacations when i am not in everyday activities ❤but i love myself i run i eat healthy i put toxic people out of my life..❤
@MichelleFarrismft8 ай бұрын
That’s interesting- I think most people can feel depressed at times. But hanks for watching!
@faithgirl97088 ай бұрын
I studied psychology so my depression keeps less time than before!!!!Thank you!!
@christineknight56685 ай бұрын
My daughter says i talk too much. My job is working with customers and i have great relationships with them. My colleagues say others dont get me.
@christineknight56685 ай бұрын
I try to find a common interest to get conversations going. I feel uncomfortable not speaking because I feel it could be misconsrude as rudeness
@christineknight56685 ай бұрын
My daughter hurt me by telling me to shut up and not speak
@christineknight56685 ай бұрын
She talks a lot by texting and messaging friends she does talk but I feel uncomfortable and dictated to
@MichelleFarrismft5 ай бұрын
Have you considered therapy? It could help you work through these issues.@@christineknight5668
@MichelleFarrismft5 ай бұрын
Here are a few videos that will help. Understanding People who Talk Too Much kzfaq.info/get/bejne/apOJbLqqydm2mXU.html and Solutions for People Who Talk Too Much kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aMdneJaX2a_IomQ.html@@christineknight5668
@Myopiniononly Жыл бұрын
Yeah, it’s really gonna improve the relationship. Just ignore him. Take care of yourself they’ll come to you you know that won’t work. If they already doing what they’re doing let them do it you’re not having a relationship divorce him and you know what the next man and the next man and the next man, I’d be totally the same, if not stay single.
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Jerry!
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Жыл бұрын
Those corks corny solitude healthy formula relationship is way better than those toxic relationships
@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's way better to find healthy formulas that help guide your healing :)