My lord!!!

LORD!!! I FELT THAT!!!

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Yes 🙌🏾

That part💔💔

Needed that reminder

Hahaahha

You can patent that and print T-shirts!!

I put that one in my notes!

I needed and still do need to hear from blatant blunt truth! I had to allow that hurt to flow through me and move on and stop going back at my lowest point and create my own closure. Thank you Pastor I appreciate and both you as my spiritual father and I love both of y’all!

I felt this

Yep mourning the idea of it not the reality

I love your aunt

How are you? Two years later. My mother tells me the same thing and I’m only about a year out and she says I’ve yet to truly see who this man is yet and when I do, I’ll be asking myself the same question.

Wow God bless her! I have a aunt just like that, always covered me with the truth. Especially when I didn’t wanna hear it! Lol

I sure do now have a Aunty from another mother. This is a great example of how we learn from great comments like this❤

Thank God for this Man of God and the truth so many of us need theses Words of encouragement in our lives It’s truly a Blessing Thank u You have help me see and find my peace Speak the truth Pastor set us free 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Yep! JESUS is in the business of healing

Totally right on!

I felt this in my SOUL 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

So what if that person change and come back to the most high

@@Mosthigh14 , That is my prayer for my Prodigal spouse. That doesn't mean that I would take him back immediately - or ever. The situation is now in God's hands, His timing, and His ability. God understands that pain such as this needs to heal. I've listened to many KZfaq videos of prodigal spouses that have reunited with a praying spouse. Most of the time, the spouse that was left had a spiritual transformation in their relationship with God - as well as did the prodigal. Also, most of the time that prayers were answered, it took upwards of several years for the process to complete. Look up The Prodigal Spouse video...there is much work in healing - on both sides - with both people. Most people do not have the discipline to listen to God on these matters. God has me in a waiting period. I am not dating others, or waiting on my X to return. I am waiting in the Lord for Him to direct my ways as I relearn to take care of myself and 100% let the Lord deal with my X in whatever way He deems necessary. Amen.

That is so deep and so TRUE!

Ladies, please stop trying to get closure from a past relationship. They owe you nothing. You owe yourself healing and a new beginning. Why ask for closure from someone who doesn't give two cents about you... Whilst you are waiting for closure he has moved on and enjoying his life and definitely not giving you a second thought. Whilst you remain stuck!

GOD deliver us revenge us heal us we have d VICTORY

Monica Johnson , I love what you’re saying I needed this wow thank you too 😥😥

Yes Morticia!! Amen

@@jacobromero2634 amen

Darvell Wilson run the other way remember why...🏃🏾🏃🏾

Darvell Wilson I am in the misdt of a painful unexpected divorce now. The word of God says it’s like a ripping. Pastor Blake’s has helped me a lot. Look up Pastor Stephen Darby and you will learn what most of us have missed spiritually. The word says that a seed must die first before it can grow. Brother let your flesh die daily to what if thoughts so your spirit man can harvest🙏🏿

Darrell Wilson I am praying for you... Go through the process of healing... Keep moving forward it may hurt but God is with you through it all. Be encouraged...

@@aaroneaton138 I am praying for you... Keep pressing ...

What I can't understand is why the sorry woman and sorry man can't link up & why the good man and good woman can't get together.

"my crown need adjusted" true words.

I understand this all to well like a fool I put All my feelings out there for someone that didn't feel the same they calim they were chasing me but I didn't respond so I guess they move on but when I decided to react they had checked out but for yrs I put too much into them I did things that now I realize wow how dum how foolish how stupid was I looking and now after 20yrs he say he realized the woman he could have had but I will NEVER give him a thought now I would be past stupid

Needed to be dust off and repolish amen thank you lord I was blind but great teaching release!! Deliver !! And set us free amen amen amen

Dont be hard on yourself sis, it has happened to the best of us, we cant go back and change the past, but we can love forward with wisdom and lessons learned.

Nikky Shamz lessons learned for sure 🤔

Yes! And EVENTUALLY, you will be at a point in your life where you're Thanking God that he moooved that person OUT OF THE WAY for your REAL and TRUE Blessing to happen. When your TRUE thing happens. l grieved so hard and so long over the ending of a BRIEF relationship with a Narcissist! l was ridiculously in pain, and it truly did feel UNRELENTING, as he said in the video. But it did finally pass. l had been SO down, and had lost my dignity at first and made all the wrong moves while in my initial sorrow! By the time l reached the point of Anchoring Myself in My Dignity, l had already let folks KNOW, but l never did it on Social Media. Unfortunately, l gave him THE Satisfaction of knowing that he had hurt me badly. He moved smooth on and married the next chic about a year after he dumped me. But not having to see him everyday anymore was a huge help in my healing.

Wow I also lost my dignity n gave him the satisfaction. He's got the new chic n they look so happy...I know in my heart of hearts he will marry her.

Neyra Anderson 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼♥️♥️♥️👑👑👑 I know how bad you feel. I’m trying to get out myself. I feel trapped and knowing you’re out gives me hope. Let’s pray for each other. Let’s give each other love and encouragement. We have to forgive ourselves! We need to remember how much God loves us. He is for us. The Devil is a liar!!! Psalm 46:10. Be still and know that I Am God!!! We are Gods Queens. He redeems us!!! Matthew 8:27. Who is this who the the wind and the sea obey. Fight and Pray. You will seek me and find me when you search with all your heart. Let’s trust the wait. Get ready for it. Lead from the back. We trust you Jesus. Lol I’m trying to just throw my whole being into Gods word because this is literally dealing with a demon! I need HIS protection. God has the last word. God gave me a word about going before me and lighting my path. So God, I am ready... LIGHT MY PATH. We will not bow down to weak men who cannot handle Godly women. This is our journey. With The Father, The Son and the Holy Spirit, we will conquer!!! We have NOT lost our dignity! We have been given the power of the Holy Spirit and He wants us to use it! Thank you Holy Spirit for crushing all evil lies the devil has told us. He is a liar! God is the truth! He reigns. We will NOT give a weak excuse of a miserable boy or girl that kind of power over us!!!! Never!!! God has the power over these people. The God of Gods did not give his son for us to to just give in to this evil. Jesus is worthy!!!

Me too..God bless you praying for healing

Thank you. 🙏🏽

Amen.

Amen !!

@@RCBlakesJr. Pastor is Bishop C. Blake's your father, by chance? He's a remarkable minister🙏. Plz pray for me... i lost a loved one to Covid recently& the pain has been unbearable. Just worried about my sis kids now💔

I love Christ Yes he was. He was Sr. and I’m Jr. Wow. I am praying now for the Holy Spirit to give you relief from the pain. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this.

Very well said amen

Thank you for sharing your experience. I am currently at stage 4. But sometimes go back to the angry phase and other phases. Because I had his child 7 months ago. Was about to write why I still go back to other phases, but NO. I am walking into my future, without him🙏🏼

Amen

Wow you’re going to be okay, trust God’s timing 💯

I've cried..my next step is to keep my full attention on myself. It's so strange how God has presented this presentation/words of wisdom just on time. Before I continue any further 😊😊😊

That part!

That right there!!!

I'm with you sister

The struggle is real God help us

You can do it Amazon warrior!!!! Please stick to your word! You’re so much capable of finding a man you love and TRULY respect!

I’m in your same situation 20 plus years Married thru the church. He was unfaithful had a child, forgave him because I could not let go and move fwd. Come to realize all these years married to a narcissist. Thank the Lord he finally healed me. Took 3 1/2 to grieve and let go. But I am free from him now. Focus your eyes on the Lord and pray hard. I wish you the best. I completely understand what your going thru. 🙏

@@GR-me4fg Thank you. I'm suffering from severe CPTSD but maintaining NO CONTACT is really helping me with my healing. He is now openly juggling between mistresses even if we are yet to divorce. The island where am from is so small and everyone knows what he is doing. I feel so much shame. But am also in a much better place in my life - working on myself and dealing with with painful traumas stemming from my childhood. I know God removed him from my life for my own protection. The trauma bonding was so strong that I know I would never have left.

@@hazeleyes2381 don't be ashamed, you have nothing to be ashamed of, his actions are a reflection of who he is,the kind of man he is, his values, the things he holds dear, not you, it's not a reflection on who you are as a woman or what you were to him, as long as you know you did your best, release him to God, he has a void that only God can fill should he choose to surrender his life to God, but that's his problem not yours, it will be challenging because of the years invested but always know with God you have more than enough strength to overcome, you are already an overcome thru Christ. Be blessed Sis.

@@hazeleyes2381 can you move to a new place where you can have a clean slate to start over?

@@hazeleyes2381 Always keep your head up and look to Jesus for everything. Read how luscious He is described in Psalm 45! That helps me when I think of the ideal man. Then read Ezekiel 16 and see how God loves us despite our mess and nastiness then chase this Ruth and Proverbs 31 to see how we are attractive to God in our love for Him and how He blesses us. What I love about Ruth was she had no need for a man or a thought for one, but God blesses her with a good man. I hope this helps!

Yes you've got it a clown! We both know now!!! Good for you queen!

Same

Hi Pastor BlakeI'm from Green Bay, Wisconsin I just left a relationship and found out he was a narcissist. I had to get out he tried to control every aspect of my life. It was very stressful. I'm so appreciative for you to share your knowledge on these abusers and to enlighten women what to look for In these destructive relationship

Same here 👋...amen!! Thank God for his messages

Yes!

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I understand the feeling 💔🥺😢😭💔

Me too

Your are worthy of love and respect!! ☺️

kt lashsalon thank you!

Move on dear.. You are beautiful.

@@sylviaobrien7939 Thank you

Love it.❤

Excellent!!

FORWARD ONLY ✝️💪🏾 the BEST is yet to come

Me right now

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 you can do it

But God!

Hallalula and God bless

Speak bishop

Glory to God

Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 KEEP ON SMILING 😊 7777-8888 Great abundance Awaits JUST FOR YOU 💐

Mine is too.

Guilty as charged! I even went to the morgue to look for the body. I'm feeling better now, thank goodness!

I love it as well. Love this man, saved my life and if I doubt I always run to my favourite Pastor. God let me to him.

AMEN

I know how you feel. Can’t understand why it’s taking so long to get over this.

Pamela Swantek I hope we both find peace one day.

MsKayy maybe we should both have a funeral for our exes.

Pamela Swantek lets do it! Finally put them to rest.

MsKayy it hurts I so know. I had to understand that I couldn’t move on because I wanted to know WHY! They will never tell you because it causes them to be accountable and deal with their issues. You can’t heal getting into another relationship. Love yourself, treat yourself and celebrate yourself. I’m praying for you.🙏🏿

How to move on from broken relationships to freedom How to move on from broken relationships to freedom and what God has destined for you.

Glory to God!

Great pastor God bless you 🙏

I wish I would have known this 8 months ago. Maybe I am just ready to hear it. This is a perfect plan for me to follow.

Be aware of those "hoovers," when they try to suck you in again. They push you away, and then, pull you back again, just like a vacuum cleaner does. Unless the devils have been evicted, like pigs in a parlor, the parlor still stinks with them in it!

Wow

jazzip this was so well said! Thank you for sharing your wisdom! I sinned against myself by tolerating a narcissist and not loving myself enough to walk away. God Bless you!! 🥰❤️❤️

Sis. It’s so sad that we cause wounds in others that require so much healing. Be blessed and be encouraged 🙏🏿

Aaron Never Forsaken thank you!

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Same here

Keep trying...

Thank you girl thank you for the support

Going no contact will not hurt him....it helps YOU get away from him, physically and more importantly, mentally. No contact is for your well being......to heal

God is a healer sis.

Be encouraged Alyssa!! He was never worthy of the time and effort you gave and allowed! Moving forward trust God, Love self & God! Do not look back! I know in my past relationships I tell myself that I gave more than enough time for the individual to demonstrate love, compassion care but now, time up! No Matter what the situations were! Let it go!! A clown in a crown!!!😇

😊🙏🏽 Thank God

Same 🙏💫🤓

I’m healing over 8 months relationship

24 years...30 months after. It gets better. Prayer, content and videos like this and many others - educating myself, seeking Godly counsel, breaking soul ties, and calling it what it is - not romanticizing them... it's all necessary. It's a process. R.C. Blake's brings it on this subject! The lights are ON!!

Just started my journey out of 19yr narc marriage...and pastor really opened my eyes to what was going on...

I’m so sorry for the things you endured. Praise God for healing your life.

I am in Cypress, Tx!!!!

Progressive Distraction… Brilliant and Thank You for the tools of Healing❣️

Shawn Gee I Pray you receive truth in such a way you cannot continue in that dysfunction 🙏🏾 an awakening that’s the only thing that helped me

@@paulamcnairunapaulagetic thank you. I have made my mind up that I can't keep living with a possessive and selfish relationship