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@Stargirl04055 ай бұрын
just when i was thinking my phone is the problem
@aditi50985 ай бұрын
Same here
@starboystargirl-sb4fi5 ай бұрын
Ahaa ahaan 😂
@Xatanaz5 ай бұрын
Ah ya ves
@kashew4445 ай бұрын
Lol samee
@klusainova29145 ай бұрын
literally SAME
@tass26025 ай бұрын
"if something is free, you are the product" this one hits soooooo hard !!!
@QWERTY-hl6wm4 ай бұрын
this is a very known quote and it is not hers :)
@bettina57555 ай бұрын
„You just watch it and you neglect your life“ THIS IS SO TRUE
@user-is6jv6yh4y5 ай бұрын
for real lol
@ourladyofsorrowsxx2 ай бұрын
"5 hours a day" bestie it’s 11-12 hours a day
@lilithworshiper2 ай бұрын
No fr
@kanhaiyaismylove15 күн бұрын
for me its 13 hours :( I am trying to fix it though and I struggle with depression so it makes sense
@nabivr.5 ай бұрын
Oh my god ...the perfect red shade is everything ..
@unconsciousfairy85635 ай бұрын
i was looking at it the whole time it really suits her
@Persian_amy4 ай бұрын
Her make up is so gorgeous!suits her perfectly! We need her to upload make up tutorials 😍✨♥️
@narcissisticqueenn5 ай бұрын
This is literally what I needed. My phone is destroying my days and I’m grateful that you made a video about it.
@gameover93215 ай бұрын
Kafka is so proud of you mother
@alya31212 ай бұрын
I just realized something the phone is a tool to use for us people. But we are becoming the tools of the phone. We are addicted to it.
@starplayzreadbio3734 ай бұрын
My screentime last Thursday was 12 hrs 56 mins 💀
@alya31212 ай бұрын
fr like everyday 😢
@deluludiyaaaАй бұрын
I used to be like all of you now it's like 4 hrs I've never been happier
@sheisyasmine5 ай бұрын
This is what I need after feeling frustrated because of overusing my phone.
@Jasmina18185 ай бұрын
This is a real issue in our society that many of us don’t want to admit, I’ve seen a lots of youtubers talking about this topic and the views are over millions yet people still are addicted to social media, including me, it’s like an escapism from reality and a “modern” coping mechanism of early trauma
@brynne772 ай бұрын
I've noticed this, too, Jasmina. Yes, there are a LOT of videos on youtube talking about this, yet very few people are willing to get a small flip phone and cut way back on staring at their phones so much and actually participate in their lives.
@MarieLuise11115 ай бұрын
I'm 13 and a few months ago I deleted all social media (instagram,tiktok,snapchat) and although it hasn't been that hard, after a month or so I decided to download snapchat again because of the social barriers that come with deleting everything, especially at my age. Still, I find myself procrastinating on applications such as KZfaq and Tumblr, and you're right. It's a real problem. I feel trapped in a way, in a repetitive cycle. Social Media is manipulating us and taking away our free will, without us even realizing it. It's genius, really. And as beneficial it can be to spread awareness, positivity and growth, I feel like it's being misused, like it makes life meaningless because everyone around me is trapped, and only a select few really care about the effect it has on us (atleast in my age group), therefore making this journey a lonely one. I really really really wish I was a teen in the 2000's, everyone seemed so much more free, happy and healthier.
@MarieLuise11115 ай бұрын
I'm kind of ranting right now, but I feel like everyone growing up too fast, I mean 10 year old's at Sephora, buying expensive skincare for they're clear, spotless skin? It's the media. I don't blame them, brands and influencers don't make content targeted toward our age group and we consume the daily thoughts and worries of 20,30 year old's. Multiple brands make lots of profit off of this, so nothing will ever change, it's only going to get worse. It's sad, really, I'm not surprised everyone my age is depressed, EXTREMLY insecure (l have some friends who've already self-harmed and had suicidal thoughts at 12!? CRAZY.) It's all just fucked up. Like, I still WANT to play mermaids in the pool, still WANT to make slime with no borax, still WANT to go to a playground or some fun slidey place with bouncy balls and play tag. But, instead of doing that, I'm told (by the media) to workout, put on makeup, cover up, but not too much. Get a boyfriend, have an "aesthetic" lifestyle, watch my diet, have millions of different skincare products, perfumes and more. I'M STILL A KID. And people just blindly follow that then they're labeled as "basic" and they should get a "personality" it's like, there's no winning. It's just a repetitive cycle that never ends. I know this is very confusing and everything but I just had to get if off my chest. I don't know. Again, really really really wish I was a teen back in the 2000's.
@StorywriterNisa5 ай бұрын
@@MarieLuise1111Youre so Right! Im also 13 and here you’re being judged by looks. I have Snapchat, TikTok and many other social medias, but I really wanna stop being so much on my phone. And honestly, in the last two weeks I didn’t delete them, but it’s because I’m bored of it. I still have them tho, but I really want to just change my entire life. I don’t know where to start tho, but you’re right. We’re only 13 and we should enjoy our life however we want! ❤❤
@raphaellejones4 ай бұрын
the fact you are already consicous of this at 13 is amazing! well done@@MarieLuise1111
@AlexandraAxelsson-ul1rg4 ай бұрын
@@MarieLuise1111 Exactly how I feel right now :(
@brittneyyoung18822 ай бұрын
Very good!
@ShadySideUp5 ай бұрын
I deleted all my social media almost 2 months ago. My overall mood and mental clarity has greatly improved, and now I’m seeing other ways I use technology to distract myself. Even being on KZfaq now, getting an email notification, a text message- it’s a dopamine hit. Soon will be removing all notifications from my phone, and only using a computer to check emails and KZfaq
@Thatprettychica5 ай бұрын
Same here, i deleted Snapchat and Pinterest a month ago and deactivated my Instagram like a week ago and then I started spending hours watching a serie on youtube but thankfully she posted
@nadine23615 ай бұрын
But don't u get FOMO?
@ShadySideUp5 ай бұрын
@@nadine2361 no, I don’t. All I’m “missing out” on is recycled issues that have always been talked about, ideas and thoughts with no credibility or value. Any the ideas and thoughts with real value get absolutely no where when they should. The arguing just for the sake of arguing, flexing your life when you’re actually miserable. Almost no one has an original thought anymore because we are all being fed the “right way to think” about things. I’ve learned a ton from the internet, but I’ve also wasted 5x more of my energy by feeling like whatever someone else was doing had any value to me. Everyone just talks in circles. There’s no answers to all the problems. It’s a great way to make us feel helpless. Also the constant up and down emotions from scrolling made my brain too full to even consider anything else. I’d laugh my ass off one video, sob the next, get angry at the next, cry again, laugh again, mad again, confused, laugh. My equilibrium was fucked and I couldn’t even see it. Suddenly my FOMO for my own life and my own story became stronger than my FOMO for someone else’s. I’m 23 today, but next week I’ll wake up 50 years old. Doom scrolling and watching mindless content 75+ days a year is not the story I want just because I rationalized it like if I didn’t keep up I would miss something important. You won’t. I started looking at historical discussions, sooo many of them were still having right now. I’ll have a facebook memory from 7 years ago, advocating for a law or something that we still have made 0 movement on and are still talking about. Try to see it. Every single point has been talked over and over and over and over before. They recycle the arguments every generation.
@Meghan1445 ай бұрын
KZfaq is social media
@fdfd-rn8bp5 ай бұрын
@Meghan144 youtube is not social media. you can use it for learning new things and improve yourself but with social media apps like instagram tiktok etc you can't do this. you just scroll and lose time with them
@ziyaaaaa.4 ай бұрын
I am done with my glowing rectangle 🥴 Thank you for the amazing video
@lavenderhoney7775 ай бұрын
I needed this so badly. Thank you mother.
@Persephonesmind5 ай бұрын
🥹🤍
@mimidream5 ай бұрын
Tbh last week I had a moment of realization about how dangerous the phone is By losing focus and feeling depressed for no reason like its so bad frrr
@user-ls4us9bu6d5 ай бұрын
This is so true. I’ve been addicted to my phone since I was a young child. It was a way for me to forget about my worries/anxietys. It’s so toxic though because these worries would just build up until I exploded. I feel so unmotivated in my life. A lot of people don’t like themselves and they don’t understand why. Well here’s the truth. You don’t love yourself because you never do what you need. You scroll on TikTok instead of cleaning you room, you talk to random people online instead of making real connections, and you hide your emotions till you explode. You are worthy of everything, please don’t let addiction stop you from becoming yourself. ❤️
@Zoe-nl1jn5 ай бұрын
1. Create routines : ask your self what the dream/perfect routine the best version of yourself would have & then create non negotiables & negotiables 2. Set time limits on how long you stay on apps & reward yourself for every challenge you overcome : long time pleasure over short time pleasure 3. Set your phone screen to black & white ( it makes it leass visually appealing & therefore the less colours you have on your phone , the less dopamime is going to be released when you use it 4. Get clear on what you are really missing out : 5 hours of daily screen time is in total 75 days of the year . Which means you wasted 25% of the year , so use that time instead investing on yourself , something beneficial ( like spending your limited time on this earth with closed ones , or doing something meaningful like building skills so you won't regret it in the future ) 5. Prioritise yourself: You don't want to spend your whole life being the audience of someone else ! Go & live your own life ! You want to create your own memories , your own life & your own skills . Think about even getting a flip phone ( she has a nokia flip phone ) so now no one has access to you & neither do you to anybody 6. Create balance between consuming & creating: you are not here to just watch others ! Turn your energy inwards , create something!!! ( paint , create music , write poetry , write a book ) turn your pain into art
@flowertea80945 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏼
@Maevar75 ай бұрын
Thanks you sm
@ur.v1xen5 ай бұрын
Just before my exam when I'm procrastinating and surfing through yt shorts. THANK YOU MOTHER.
@shidraparveen25935 ай бұрын
social media is hell and its so hard to escape. i deleted all of my socials last year except KZfaq bc thats the only source of entertainment that i thought I'd be having. i thought i wouldn't spend much time here as compared to all those short-form content apps but i was WRONG.i switched to long-form content like true crime documentries or just a podcast and started getting addicted to those. i was in total denial at first but i finally realised that now i was addicted to KZfaq. thats why i started putting my phone away like in some cupboard for most of the time of my day.
@tisssha_255 ай бұрын
I gasped to realise how true it is when she said "if something's free you are the product"
@user-sn3rp6tk9q5 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right. The phone is destroying my life in general.
@BJ-zg7zu2 ай бұрын
Turned my phone to black and white immediately after she said to- I literally feel the difference, I’ve seen adverts while finishing her videos and emojis now and my brain almost feels a little more relaxed , lots of gratitude for this Chanel 🙏
@_IVe_-by9ix4 ай бұрын
I am so grateful of you honestly. May you live a wonderful life and meet the wonderful people!
@motivationwithpreeta5 ай бұрын
'you're so powerful!❤ If you think you're not! You're not!'
@cathy_tkat3 ай бұрын
Wait , she literally changed my mindset now
@leeona.ch25105 ай бұрын
immediately did what you said to do, and now I am going use this time to actually do something worth MY time. will not let a glowing rectangle waste my precious time 💀
@alisha33.4 ай бұрын
Am using my phone 8 hours a day and it's definetly not ok because am a student am about to graduate high school my final exam is coming in 3 months i have always dreamt of being the top student in my whole country because the government grades our exams and it's doesn't seem like am going to be anywhere near top student out of thousands of students all over the countrty. My laziness and phone addiction has gotta stop Thanks for the advice it knocked me back into my senses❤
@_glossierush2 ай бұрын
Good luck!!
@qmjrq5 ай бұрын
thank you so much for creating this video. i’m in high school and there are no limits to phone usage (even during tests) and everyone thinks i’m strange for not really using my phone or keeping headphones on 24/7. it’s refreshing to remember that there are people out there with the same values and priorities as me, especially because i spend so much time in a draining environment. sending love to you xx
@emnemnem18895 ай бұрын
Beauty and brains, good to speak about this issue!!! I myself, am not an addicted girl. I just like the phone for pictures, recipes etc. But I can go many hours without a phone lol, I love paper books. The only thing I'm really addicted to is tea. People need to switch their phone and go hug trees smh
@mkayyy92845 ай бұрын
The black and white screen is such a good tip. You can also add it to your control center to turn in off and on when you want.
@caffinated_fleshbag5 ай бұрын
I realized how bad my addiction was [because of my declining mental health] because my Instagram use age was 7 hours a day [my country does not have TikTok. It is banned]. Since, last year I resolved to reduce my Instagram use age because that is the only social media app, I use the most. I am proud to say i have reduced it to 1 hour on the daily average by turning off the notifications reducing and refreshing my following to accounts that only give me knowledge and this video is only helping me reduce it more! So, this is like a reminder to me to keep going. Thank you so much!
@bettina57555 ай бұрын
I hate this digital world
@hiiroft5 ай бұрын
such a perfect timing thanks, Alessia
@behasht5 ай бұрын
I really needed to hear this. My phone addiction has gotten so bad recently. I’ve gotten so lazy I can’t do necessary daily tasks. Thank you for the advice
@dearxdiary5 ай бұрын
Bro I was scrolling and I couldn't stop myself and just got the notif. The timing is crazy 😭
@Sillyillylilly5 ай бұрын
Mother has gifted us on this blessed day with her wise words again
@ysabel79005 ай бұрын
These last few days I was thinking about this topic and today you put out a video about it! Thank u❤️
@jayadvice5 ай бұрын
*THANK YOU FOR UPLOADING THIS IVE BEEN ON TIKTOK ALL DAY AND I REALLY WANNA DO SOMETHING BUT I JUST CANT BUT THANK YOU FOR THIS ‼️‼️‼️*
@nubalatunajjina92895 ай бұрын
I LITERALLY SQUEALED IN EXCITEMENTTTT WHEN I SAW YOU UPLOADED!!! LOVE YOU ALESSIA!!
@felixfelicis80985 ай бұрын
the MOST realistic video I've every watched on overcoming phone addiction. persephone you really are the best i love your videos💕
@duongnguyetlam2695 ай бұрын
thank you so so much Alessia I really needed this at the moment
@Urzv_5 ай бұрын
I’m so proud that I found this video, it was all I needed, thank you so muchhh 💗💗💗
@MotivationTub7785 ай бұрын
Thank you Alessia! Not on social media, but I'm addicted to listening to music and it's really disturbing.
@bts4everrr5 ай бұрын
You posted this just when I needed this reality check about my phone addiction. I've been scrolling thru this device on multiple apps every single day, including today and right now. But seeing this I have promised myself to get rid of my phone addiction. Thank you so much queen 👑.
@linnieelvira88455 ай бұрын
I was just thinking my phone was a problem because I realized I can’t seem to look away when I’m scrolling online. I feel hipnotice and it’s crazy. I will really use all your tips because you’re sincere and you help me see what is the problem, how is it caused and what can I do. Love your content ❤
@Shheezzzzz5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much I literally needed this like I have exams coming next week and I was so additicted to the phone I was like blind folded.Thanks soo much once again ❤😊.
@natalkakati5 ай бұрын
i loveee that you mentioned to mute notifications, i only didn’t mute them for my parents because im still young and everything could happen
@elegant31175 ай бұрын
thankkkk u alessia, i need this as a student!
@Persian_amy4 ай бұрын
Thank u queen!I REALLY NEEDED THIS😩btw i never get tired of watching u!you’re so goddamn gorgeous!!!my eyes been blessed and also my mind for listening to your worthy words! ♥️♥️♥️
@Xatanaz5 ай бұрын
The problem was being aware of hundreds of different thoughts all at once and it feels like every they all you as if you’re talking to yourself in a endless loop and it was an overload of thoughts and emotions that needed to get my mind under control and today is done.
@vwe1I5 ай бұрын
I really needed this as I've lately discovered that how im an overachiever w a completely fucked up nervous system and unable to do anything unless its an emergency. Ive those procrastination tendencies, along w anxiety, and a reliance on emergencies to kickstart action as it is attributed to factors like pressure of impending deadlines triggering productivity as well as a fear of failure that intensifies when faced w urgency. And all this creates a pattern where i delay all my tasks until the last minute which leads to a cycle of stress and relief and all this is because of the damn phone amd a screentime of over 8 hrs and all the potential is basically just going wasted. You don't wanna regret later, start changing now. Bitter fact but the world doesn't wait for anybody so we gotta keep moving and I'm trying really hard to change! Thank you for this reminder ily
@-_--bp6nf5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this, definitely a reality check I needed. I'm ready to stop self sabotaging and finally be happy with myself. You're doing wonders for the world ❤️
@Jade-es9oo5 ай бұрын
Thank you, your videos always motivate me to discipline myself!!!
@gratitudeattitude40545 ай бұрын
Thank you for creating this you gave a lot of great advice💖
@demiiiiv5 ай бұрын
thank you for this Alessia ❤ Divine timing honestly, I'm struggling with an extensive phone use for a long time and it has a big impact but now thankfully I know what to do and I'm aware of it
@user-re7pt5nh5w5 ай бұрын
This is actually something I experienced, and yet Alessia came in the right time, I feel awake and realize a lot after watching this. So thank you, Alessia ❤❤❤
@Waresa085 ай бұрын
Thank you for changing the direction of my existence towards something better. You're allowing me to bloom in so many ways that I don't know what I was doing before. I thought that no one ever care. I thought that I knew exactly that I will never be loved and that the flow of my current life i deserved the worst. But you came along, and it all becoming crystal clear. I realised then that I could become a better version of myself. I started to see both my imperfections and perfections and understand what it means to let growth in, what it means to let experiences impart useful knowledge, and what it means to let love in. I started valuing myself and becoming determined in ways you've taught.. Im becoming more whole by myself than I've ever been before..I love you so much ❤
@phoenixalpha46075 ай бұрын
THE WAY I NEEDED IT.
@3amtunes5 ай бұрын
The day I decided to stop my phone addiction. Your video came up. Love u ❤😊
@sofiagimenez28305 ай бұрын
It’s summer holidays for me so I needed this video, specially in this time
@Silversubs290785 ай бұрын
I'm 17 and your videos have helped me so much. You and liz are my queens ❤
@annaskaldina6094 ай бұрын
Thank you, Alessia ❤ I love the last phrase "Earlier the internet was an escape from the real life, now the real life is an escape from the internet...". This is so true, I can relate
@zaritiseawi5 ай бұрын
Perfect timing!! I am on my social media detox it has been 5 days but my current plan is keep detoxing till 21th day.
@hoaipham86954 ай бұрын
You are getting more and more beautiful day by day😍 Thank you so much for your meaningful video. It means so much to me🙏🏻
@lenishime63355 ай бұрын
OMG queen, u definitely read my mind! The last night I went through a bad sleeping time, and all because I spent time on my phone over 2 hours after my sleeping time, and this made me feel so bad about myself and my health :((( thanks for the infos sz
@Fille_verismo5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, very usefull video. Once ive stopped smoking after 8 years so i hope once i can get over phone addiction. Also youre makeup is really beautiful
@s1k3pp4 ай бұрын
Thank you so so much, I really need to hear this, and watch this❤❤❤❤ I’m waking up, and I’m starting to get better
@urgurl63 ай бұрын
wow.... i cant explain how much i needed to hear this! thanks admin i will always love you for being able to put my mind at clear vantage. THANKS!
@Jassssss883 ай бұрын
this was VERY helpful. specially the part where u talked about trying to escape from an emotion, that was something that i NEEDED to hear. TYSM for this amazing video. new follower right here :)
@shamia4365 ай бұрын
Alessia you possibly couldn't! I have been struggling with constantly being on my phone since last 2 weeks! You really are the answer universe is sending me. Thank you sincerely for this
@alienbarbie7775 ай бұрын
hi gorgeous! thank u SO much for this, i really needed this today. u r so so appreciated & loved
@ElviaTheStar5 ай бұрын
Your elegance is everything ~ also, I love the new editing style because it makes your videos seem so luxurious without even mentioning how amazing your makeup and clothes always look 💋🌹
@bobohuns92305 ай бұрын
omg, this video came at the perfect time for me! it's the motivation I needed, thank you
@douaadoudi60735 ай бұрын
Perfect timing, i needed this
@rjmb0ra5 ай бұрын
you look so gorgeous, alessia ❤ also love this video. i've been doomscrolling on instagram and youtube a lot lately, and my screen time has been crazy. hopefully i end this addiction by reducing my screen time and actually living life outside my phone. being on my phone is like an escape to me. and i try to distract from my real life by constantly getting hooked on overconsuming content online (which is clearly not helping 🤠🖐🏻)
@anisayari78334 ай бұрын
I always wanted to write and I've been spending my time scrolling down and being ''the audience'' of other people'' as you perfectly said it. I even used to read 4/5 books a month.... now I need to get back to my old habits. I used to be fulfilled and happy ! Being accessible 24/7 is mentally draining !
@we_re.no.strangers.to.love.5 ай бұрын
I love this video!! You're amazing at explaining it. I would like to also add that when you decide to get off your phone, be careful of the other hobbies you pick up! Don't watch Netflix or TV anymore than you already do. For the first few weeks, your brain will want to replace that dopamine hit with something else. And yes, try to limit your KZfaq consumption. Getting off the phone is a process, but so is retraining your brain after you're off. You guys got this!! It'll be easier after a few weeks. :)
@gisellematamoros68065 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this! These are great tips!
@ItsMarianaBorges5 ай бұрын
OMG Alessia today I was thinking about that I needed to stop being on my phone too much!!
@likusmith3 ай бұрын
Alessia, you are a real helper. whenever I'm feeling down, I always watch your videos. you are Incredible. ❤
@Slynnalynna4 ай бұрын
3:48, so true😅, I think posting about yourself is weird, and people constantly watching other people is weird
@user-bq7jy4lg8b5 ай бұрын
Du schaffst es immer wieder EXACTLY die Sachen anzusprechen die grade brauche ❤️
@celestialmonarch15 ай бұрын
Loved the video, I would love to hear you talking about smoking/drinking and eating addiction (consumption for pleasure, not nutrition). I think those issues should be addressed. Thanks for the vid ❤
@shalxnda2 ай бұрын
Literally. People even get bored just sitting outside without anything. Put the phone down and go for a walk yall or at least don't go on it
@Helpingmyself4 ай бұрын
I've known the dangers of my phone, but I realized that since I get so stressed from studies (and the idea of being able to do a lot of things but I cannot choose one), I try to escape it using my phone. Thank you for this so much.
@ptfolklore21823 ай бұрын
EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED. thanks mother.
@brynne772 ай бұрын
This is a VERY good video. Thank you for saying this! You're right using your phone (or laptop) for too long is bad for you for a lot of different reasons.
@b0gsvevid15 ай бұрын
Alessia, thank you so much this video was just perfect right now because I wanted to read more and be lass at social media have a blessed day xx
@happypink875 ай бұрын
The last two minutes are perfect ty mother 🙏😭💋
@Inchayushi5 ай бұрын
thank you.....i really needed this...i don't know why but lately my screen addiction is increasing so severely that its almost concerning now.....i'll surely follow your advice and try to reduce my screen time 💖
@Persephonesmind5 ай бұрын
I am proud of you dear ♥️
@charlie_07575 ай бұрын
You don’t know how much you’ve helped people. Keep doing what your doing!!💖
@elpidachsp51185 ай бұрын
You're amazing! Thank you for this video!!!
@coquetter0s35 ай бұрын
i needed this omg you are a life saver frrrr!!
@mayanlogos9217 күн бұрын
I dont have much to do off... I dont like to watch to others ppls life, but i like learning a lot, on diff religions, spirituality & such, that ofc ig lots of infos many of which i dont need & anws i keep forgeting stuff... thank you, i needed these... be blessed
@moonlit.heavenn5 ай бұрын
" glowing rectangle " - alessia, 2024
@itsminaaa5 ай бұрын
Mother is mothering!!!! Amazing video (so grateful for this)
@Angel340132 ай бұрын
I really needed this
@mare_serenitatis5 ай бұрын
hey there Alessia, I haven't started watching the video yet but I just want to thank you for everything. You made me learn so much. I hope all the kindness and nice things in this world find you. Lastly, I am sorry if I said anything incorrectly, English is not something I am best at. 💗