how to emotionally DETACH | master detachment in dating, manifestation and life
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Күн бұрынThis is how you detach in dating, manifesting and daily life! I start the video by explaining what detachment is IN-DEPTH, debunk the misconceptions and provide examples and affirmations on how to introduce this practice into your life. Detachment is the key to controlling your thoughts & emotions and get more peace of mind. By adopting a detached mindset you can start building up your dream life and stop wasting it by dwelling on negative feelings so often. YOU GOT THIS, GOOD LUCK X
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@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Did this video make you look at detachment differently? 👀 reply and let me know!
@hannahmariecreates Жыл бұрын
yes definitely!
@damn.aayesha Жыл бұрын
Growing up I had emotionally distant parents which really messed up my relationships in all areas. But this video has changed my whole perspective of attachment and will definitely make my life better. Thank you I love your videos.
@richamishra8374 Жыл бұрын
You Really Changed my life and you gave me a new thought for my life✨️ I really appreciate that I found your KZfaq channel 💛 You are queen for a reason and you deserve soo much♥️ I loveee youuu lotsssss🤌
@Deekshanya.M.S Жыл бұрын
I so much loved this video.. "if anyone talks bad about us being detached then they are not the right tribe for us" was such an eye opener. At this 'now' watching ur video resonates with me a lot and aids my inner-growth 🎉❤ Thank you And congrats on ur own jewellery brand.. must be a new amazing milestone of ur life 🎉🎉🎉
@cindybecerra9052 Жыл бұрын
I loved the affirmations! Definitely a bonus!
@kala4668 Жыл бұрын
this is my favorite affirmation when it comes to detachment: "im not afraid to lose people who dont want me, who dont respect me, and who didnt bring any value to my life"
@Jesusssss132 Жыл бұрын
Well I'm so afraid of losing my friend group bc I feel like I'm such a bad friend if I lose them 🥲🥲🥲🥲
@kala4668 Жыл бұрын
@@Jesusssss132 its normal to feel that way, but you cant always please everyone, especially when they are bad for you
@belindastyles7070 Жыл бұрын
Wooooow
@lisamaiden1892 Жыл бұрын
Amén
@sakshiyadav709 10 ай бұрын
thankyou for this affirmation, I added this to my affirmation list and gonna use it 😊
@austinwest5277 Жыл бұрын
as a man watching this.. i am ready to enter my unbothered girl era
@eccquity1058 2 ай бұрын
I patted myself on the back
@shamsaldhuha3166 Ай бұрын
Go sis
@calligraphywithme7183 Ай бұрын
Cute 😂
@uhmno1 Ай бұрын
😂😂
@Graanvlok Ай бұрын
❤
@itzmyladyB Жыл бұрын
LAW OF DETTACHED 1.-Stop trying to change people, force connections 2.-Allow yourself to be autentic 3.-Don't force situations 4.-Uncertainly = Reality 5.-Everything that happens it's for my bigger benefit 6.-Embrace the mistakes, lost, pain, as it comes it goes
@Anna-vz2fn Жыл бұрын
Thanks ❤
@itzmyladyB Жыл бұрын
@@Anna-vz2fn my pleasure 💋
@skillearn4 9 ай бұрын
Tam is really a great sister for us...she is kinda helper for any girl who is suffering from certain things and can transform herself into unbothered and peaceful hot women❤ Love you Tam
@__.angel1111.__ 14 күн бұрын
💭
@natashadickson4819 10 ай бұрын
"Everything in life is temporary." "Be okay with the loss." "Detach from the outcome." ❤
@heba5253 Жыл бұрын
"Love without attachment is the purest kind of love, because you understand that your bond with another person can end at any given moment, and that they could betray you and break your heart at any given moment, but you still decide to take the jump and open your heart to them and care for them, and invest your time and energy into your relationship with them, knowing that you might not get anything in return because they are fully in their right to turn around and leave you, and and you are fully in your right tor turn around and leave them, when they're no longer serving you or aligning with you, but you still stay in the moment, cause you value their energy and their character that much, that is LOVE"
@sw3ta 11 ай бұрын
Damn , it isn't said "LOVE = living on valued energy" for nothing 🦢
@scarasimpnation 10 ай бұрын
4:25
@LoveTheVoid-lg4ss 9 ай бұрын
but that sounds horrible to me 🫣
@creativeedge4102 6 ай бұрын
I'm exactly in this situation. Don't know what to do😢
@bantanglow4929 2 ай бұрын
@@LoveTheVoid-lg4ss that's cuz you dont value and love yourself
@ameyameilani Жыл бұрын
affirmations: i have everything i need in this moment what’s meant to be will always find a way my desires are always seeking me out, it is safe for me to let them go and trust the process i am okay with any way the situation goes because everything always work out in my best interest i am aware of my feelings without letting them control me i am not strict on my idea of how everything should be other people and myself can flow freely and i let go of all expectations i focus on my own energy and my own life i choose to be free from the good and bad ideas of others i release the need to judge or criticize
@kiiikaaaaaaaaaa7099 Жыл бұрын
Is that you on your pfp because you’re literally so damn pretty I am in awe
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
🥰🥰🥰✨✨
@EarCandyAsmr Жыл бұрын
I love these !!
@ameyameilani Жыл бұрын
@@kiiikaaaaaaaaaa7099 yes omg tysm 🥹
@NataliaCopeland Жыл бұрын
pure gold, thank you
@heba5253 Жыл бұрын
"self love us really important because when things don't work out, we are happy to comeback home to ourselves, nothing in life is ours but ourselves, but actually we lose everything, but we are meant to experience it anyways to get the lesson that it came with, so we can grow to the people that we were always meant to be"
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
🥰🥰
@angieg733 Жыл бұрын
😊
@user-fs2qf8kg2t Жыл бұрын
@@tamkaur What are the magical affirmations to get rid of debt?
@marianavm2355 10 ай бұрын
@@user-fs2qf8kg2tlmfaooo
@V.i.j.i Жыл бұрын
Tam and Liz are the girls sent by god/universe to save other girls .... So grateful to have found you out tam
@gandako1294 10 ай бұрын
Sameeeee girl. They're both my absolute favorite. Tam and Liz supremacy ✨💖
@miro4106 5 ай бұрын
facts!!!!
@Fireflies2202 2 ай бұрын
Who is Liz?
@Sumirevins Ай бұрын
I'm boy but I need to learn this too. Ruined good friendships coz of it😭
@Paulina-dn3mf 24 күн бұрын
@@Fireflies2202 Thewizardliz :)
@shawnshazam1912 Жыл бұрын
A great tip that my therapist gave in regards to feelings of anxiety and fear of abandonment is this: push through the feeling and don’t fall into obsessive and controlling behavioral patterns because they are only going to make the anxiety worse and keep it alive.
@milktealatte6706 10 ай бұрын
Video notes/sparknotes
@milktealatte6706 10 ай бұрын
Summary - You can not control anything except for yourself. You can’t control how people think of you, what will happen in the future, how things will turn out, so stop trying to control it. If its not something you have control of let it go. Accept that bad things will happen and instead of being sad about something change it into something to be happy about. Change the narrative to something sad to something happy. Plus life is so fucking short. All you have is the present life, not the past, not the future. You can only control what happens in the present moment, so make that you best few seconds of your life. Instead of worrying about shit try to do everything in your power to enjoy that time you have rn. A way to stop attaching to people is to be whole by yourself and if you think you are attaching find out what you are using that person for to fill up a hole in yourself and find a way to help yourself.
@gigiblack2231 6 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@sushmitanaik1577 25 күн бұрын
Thank you
@deepikamahesh4631 18 күн бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCHHH!!!!!
@paigem7886 Жыл бұрын
I think detachment happens naturally when you process the trauma. It takes looking at your wounded inner child, understanding that the original trauma is NOT your fault, feeling his/her pain. and you will find you are released. Trying to channel being healed only works for so long, believe me. I am the queen of looking the other way and suppressing. This video is an excellent tool to start seeing one's patterns and building trust that its safe to cut the cord and go on faith
@DiamondsRexpensive Жыл бұрын
True
@CordeliatheChorkie Жыл бұрын
agree! I just learned this in trauma healing with my life coach. detachment strategies are tools...you have to fix original trauma, and it takes serious work. The trauma shapes our behaviors and psyche, which we are trying fix and improve...relearning behaviors, habits, and routines is a conscious and focused effort. so grateful for these resources❤.
@Self-love-mastery 8 ай бұрын
Trust woman, your comment is far too deeper than the actual Video . Saying this, with no intention of dissolving the content of the speaker! Concept itself is great! Detachment in love
@theoneonly8916 Жыл бұрын
Found this video at the RIGHT moment. I’ve realized a few months ago that everytime SP left, I cried, let it allllll go, didn’t care, and literally the next day told me he loves Me, wrote me a letter expressing everything, asked my ring size and everything. DETACHMENT is the key. Now I just need to learn to be consistent with it. Because I’ll get detached for a good bit but then for some reason I start giving in and can tell the shift in energy on both ends.
@theoneonly8916 Жыл бұрын
I’ve also realized that’s why random fleeting thoughts Manifest SOOOO fast, because there’s no negative or positive attachment to it. 🖤 everyone has their own experiences in realizing the patterns and where they’re going a little wrong.
@cloudymoon5442 Жыл бұрын
Slay sis
@Michealjacksonlikestoeatkids Жыл бұрын
So do you just stop thinking about it?
@theoneonly8916 Жыл бұрын
@@Michealjacksonlikestoeatkids I’ve gotten to the point of manifesting where my mind and body are occupied with better things in life. Anytime something “negative” happens, I just think to myself “it’s okay, this is suppose to happen for me to be able to get my manifestation”. And it ALWAYS happens like that. There’s been a chain of events for EVERYTHING I’ve manifested. I don’t have to obsessively affirm or anything. There were times when it’s ALL I did ALL day long every single second. I would keep my mind FILLED, but it was coming from a place of lack. I realized with self concept that I can be happy with myself and love myself. It took a WHILE because I had such a shitty story with my self concept. But it was worth it. I’m completely aware of my thoughts, but when I want something, I have to actually remind myself to randomly (maybe 2 or 3 times) a day “I’m going to get” whatever I want. They start becoming fleeting thoughts and then manifest (my experience though, everyone is different)
@Michealjacksonlikestoeatkids Жыл бұрын
@@theoneonly8916 oh ok thank you so much thats really helpful
@deekookie20 Жыл бұрын
Detachment is healthy for the mind , body and soul. Everyone must practice this. 💗💗
@riashaiju8715 Жыл бұрын
I'm finally learning to set boundaries. Literally texted my friend that I was looking forward to the end our friendship because it was too dramatic and draining....this video was much needed sis. Thank you 😭😭😭
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@PurpleDolphinLover Жыл бұрын
How did you tell her that? Please give me tips!
@riashaiju8715 Жыл бұрын
@@PurpleDolphinLover Hey, Communicating directly to that person about how you feel ( how they crossed your boundaries)is the first step. Try to avoid getting angry. And tell them you want to respectfully end the relationship. This is what I did. Maybe it helps 🫂
@PurpleDolphinLover Жыл бұрын
@@riashaiju8715 thank you so much 😊
@eugenehoek. Жыл бұрын
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU 🤍
@deekookie20 Жыл бұрын
Detachment is creating strongest boundaries to yourself and with other people around you for your highest good and highest manifestation 🙆🏻♀️💜
@heba5253 Жыл бұрын
Affirmations~ -I have everything I need in this moment. -whats meant to be will always find a way. -my desires are always seeking me out so it's safe to let them go and trust the process. -I am okay with whichever the situation goes because everything always happens in my best interest. -I am aware of my feelings without letting them control me. -I am not strict on my idea of how everything should be. -Other people and myself can flow freely and I let go of all expectations. -I focus on my own energy and my own life. -I choose to be free from good and bad opinions of others. -I release the need to judge or criticize.
@xxvoid4 Жыл бұрын
I cannot stress this enough to be attached from others in order to love yourself more. I can be with someone, love them, maybe even be married to them, and I still will be detached to them out of love. I’m trying to protect my peace
@annac.5630 Жыл бұрын
Something like this happened the other day. I "lost" someone in late January and I felt really bad the entire month of February, which obviously hurt my perfomance at work. Long story short, I got fired and I knew it was my fault. It was REALLY hard, but at the end of the day I accepted my responsibility. I learned from the experience and started to apply to new jobs. Next thing you know, my manager contacts me the following day and he told me that they thought about it and hired me again. I think it had to do a lot with the fact that I let it go and I didn't attached to the situation and the what ifs.
@Marmar777. Жыл бұрын
Recently went through a heartbreak as someone who is anxiously preoccupied attached. I have been watching your videos and I am making progress in becoming secure, detached, and not caring about the opinions of others. I never thought it was this possible for me to feel comfortable in my own skin. Thank you for these videos. 💕💕
@nirvana6382 Жыл бұрын
omg we have the same attachment style and currently going through a separation 😭
@alzbetahaskova2701 Жыл бұрын
going through the same right now, wishing the best of luck for both of us, we've got this
@ElvishHerbology Жыл бұрын
Me too ! ❤️🩹
@ortegajulzzz Жыл бұрын
The books "Insecure in love" has been really helpful for me with understanding my anxious attachment style and how to heal it. Same goes for the book "Attached". Highly recommend you guys read it!
@Marmar777. 11 ай бұрын
@@ortegajulzzz thank you !!
@sunnyray4065 Жыл бұрын
I’m 31 and only just found your videos. May I just say how incredibly thought out and mature your videos are. I’m like 10 years older than you but you have much more wisdom than me and I’m actually learning a lot from you. I’m single for the first time in almost a decade and I’ve never been single for longer than six months since I was 17. I’m learning to not seek male validation and have more self confidence. Your channel is a god send.
@kaseygrace1396 9 ай бұрын
I hope you are well! I’m 20 and going through a break up right now. Thank you for sharing! You got this. Hope your journey since this comment has been prosperous :)
@sunnyray4065 9 ай бұрын
@@kaseygrace1396 hello! Yes it has been an incredible journey. In 2023 I’ve planned to visit 9 countries, I’m always out with friends and my job is amazing too. It’s been an upgrade
@TrinaMoitra 7 ай бұрын
Tam Tam Tam… I can’t thank you enough. 4 years of anxiety & two paid courses. This free video made me feel like the glacier in me is melting. I watched & re-watched it 4 times. Don’t even want to cry to release. It’s okay! ❤
@quendelf Жыл бұрын
One thing needs to be made clear here - we all need HEALTHY attachments. Humans need stability including in other people and that is normal. The focus should be healthy attachment, which ACCEPTS that things aren’t always forever. But we need to be very careful because there is a real issue with toxic individualism in our modern society.
@Robyn_YU 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying it, detachment can also be a trauma response even if you feel emotionally less bothered by it, doesn't mean it's the healthiest option. A healthy attachment/stability can bring a lot of happiness and peace not only for yourself, but for your partner as well. From a guy's perspective, imagine if your boyfriend was taking his shitty ex out to the Maldives, Italy, Paris, the most expensive places, most romantic dinners and giving the most thoughtful gifts, but you? Nothing... You barely get any of your love and effort reciprocated or even appreciated not matter what you do, the abusive Ex got 100 and 10 % but they hold back with you. I don't think the solution to dating is to detach and close of your full effort/love forever, as a Man I love providing, supporting, being romantic and making her feel loved, but if I'm not fully appreciated in return it stops feeling fulfilling and starts becoming draining, I can't give all my love indefinitely without receiving 100% back, you can give 100% in the moments we're together but also 100% to yourself in the moments we are not. (still being thoughtful of your partners feelings and not doing something you wouldn't do if you were with them) Over all it's a double edged sword, you detach and yes. It will be easier to get over them and move on, but it also will never be as deep and profound as giving 100%.
@ilona5746 Жыл бұрын
HOW DID YOU KNOW- this is just what I needed. So ready to enter my unbothered girl era ❤
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
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@reneejoseph5030 11 ай бұрын
I have to admit. I have watched this vid 3 times in the last few days. It's like comfort while I go thru this phase of my life.thank you
@shota8601 Жыл бұрын
Timestamps if anyone wants to use it! 1:22 (law of detachment) 11:16 (detached while dating) 17:46 (detached while manifesting) 20:25 (detached on a daily basis)
@cogaichamchi674 Жыл бұрын
thank u so much❤
@emmabingei Жыл бұрын
tysm:) youre such a lifesaver
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
❤️
@Ijustwantthepainover Жыл бұрын
bless you!
@clarityshine4623 Жыл бұрын
“It’s your want, not your need” felt that.
@kriegbiaye4964 Жыл бұрын
I think this video should be watched every Sunday, before the week starts, so we can remember what matters
@alessadolan5718 8 ай бұрын
“It was nice, but i don’t need him” 🥺💗
@Anu_diaries7 Жыл бұрын
Somebody made me feel bad about being detached and made me feel guilty about it. This video really helped me realise that I am not wrong. Thank you 💜
@divyakunwar143 Жыл бұрын
This is literally the best video I've ever seen! I've been struggling to move on with my past "situationship". I was really in love with him and SO ATTACHED. But now, I don't really feel that attached to not only him but anyone and everyone else! Words can't describe how grateful I am. My mental health was a disaster but you really helped me a lot. So, Thank you so much! Wish the best for you!
@thecommenter3560 Жыл бұрын
I had a similar situation. Having good mental health and peace of mind is a blessing. Some people don’t realize how better it is for them until they finally cut toxic people and situations out of their life.
@divyakunwar143 Жыл бұрын
@@thecommenter3560 IKR!
@PinkLady860 Жыл бұрын
I am in the EXACT same situation right f***ing now and I can agree that this video absolutely worked as a game changer!
@PinkLady860 Жыл бұрын
also i absolutely wish you the best and hope you find the strength to keep reminding yourself, too!
@divyakunwar143 Жыл бұрын
@@PinkLady860 I wish you the best too! I hope you get better and better everyday! And, the universe WILL workout in your favour. Also, gurl that situationship guy is back and i have absolutely no idea what to do he says he left cause other people told me bad things about me and says he loves me and ngl i am still in love with him and i have no idea what to do 😭
@star._.822 3 ай бұрын
bro shes so pretty i love this girl and her videos ong
@sophilopez5017 Жыл бұрын
I got out of my very first relationship almost 2 months ago. This video helped me a lot. I'm really just trying to get back to normal and not be so emotional all the time. Thank you for helping me see things differently.
@Iknowyourehungrybitchhh Жыл бұрын
Girl you are my therapist for real. Your video drops are all aligned with the situations going on with me. Exactly when I need validation, your video of validating yourself comes up. Now I’m struggling with emotional detachment and I’ve been discouraged because of some negative events, and here you are reminding me that “ I should embrace the mistakes, the negative situations because they are lessons and without learning we can’t grow. I appreciate your content more than you know. I hope you know you’re changing the world for real. I have so much love and gratitude for you and what you’re doing. You’ve helped me so much ❤✨🌈 thank you !!
@paigem7886 Жыл бұрын
synchronicity! love it
@0KaitoShion0 3 ай бұрын
Girl, holy guacamoly. The way you explained all of this - especially how we form and why we maintain attachments - was so clear! Told with ease and from an experienced heart! I now realise that my anxious attachment is pretty much selfish in that regard that I don't dare to tap into my own resources. The complexes run deep, but man, there's no need to use another person for that! There's so much I have yet to learn...Thank you for your video! And for putting it out there so simply and clear to understand. ✨🧿🙏
@girl....642 4 ай бұрын
I'm crying because I missed someone who's"so much busy" to have time for me and it started to effect my life and I hope I'll detache myself from that-live u tam
@youwish6066 5 ай бұрын
I really needed to hear this right now. My ex broke up with me and lost feelings for me and isn’t hurting at all. While I’m here bawling my eyes out, being anxious 24x7. I realised that I need to practice self control and live in the present moment. I was in love with his potential and wasn’t actually in love with who he was. I need to keep reminding myself that I need to love myself and prioritise me over anyone. Thanks a lot!! ❤❤
@0Annou0 Күн бұрын
Falling in love with the potential of others is such a trap...im going through it too. Good luck, I hope you are better.
@marcokuhner2445 10 ай бұрын
I hated it so much when you said to leave the people be how they are. Don’t try to change them. Embrace the pain and the fear. Felt that immer conflict. I’m gonna cry in my room haha. But you’re right of course. And the sooner you accept the situation and let go of the perfect fantasy, the more grounded you will feel. Wow, the girl I am dating could really hurt me, abandon me and betray my trust and I’m going to embrace that cuz I’ve got me…. That hurts so much. But now I know why
@DidiLeahLaurenKenston1111 Жыл бұрын
My confidence has dropped completely all of a sudden and I am trying to hard to bring it back up. I was never like this before and I attract everyone to make me feel awkward so definitely need to manifest better things. Your videos have been helping me so much, thank you.
@xWabbli Жыл бұрын
This video is so important. Although deep inside we „know“ all of this, I feel like we’re often not aware of/forget these basics. Thanks for this beautiful reminder.
@PinkMoonDreams Жыл бұрын
Everything I used to feel but could never put into words. You took me back to how I felt before my beliefs and life were shaken. You made me feel so understood and loved to the point of crying.Thank you so much.
@varsha2199 Жыл бұрын
I follow you on TikTok too and you’re such an inspiration. I’m someone who struggles with a lot of self-doubt and end up putting things off till the last minute. Now I’m trying face things while being scared, and as you said it’s not scary as it is, and the more I expose myself the less scarier it becomes. Thank you so much and keep inspiring 🥰
@aniqaasif3003 Жыл бұрын
I've actually taken your advice and I've started going places by myself without feeling lonely or needing someone with me all the time.
@artmarefuel 11 ай бұрын
I didn't know how badly I needed to hear this video this morning. Thank you so much!
@linhthuy9724 Жыл бұрын
literally, all of your content just amazing and its always pop up on right time, whenever i need a helping hand. You just so kind and openness ,fully sharing everything authentically with your own experiences and THAT SAVED ME these day when i have some problems of creating boundaries🥺 also i found that your accessories in all videos just so beautiful and attractive, i usually look at them every 10sec 🤣
@zozozoooo34 Жыл бұрын
the amount of love and effort that was put into this
@hopefarawayy 11 ай бұрын
wow this was really comforting haha i'm only in my first year of college and i've already lost three friends, a "situationship" came to an end and i have mixed feelings about it everyday. I really love your vibe sister! thank you^^
@vedantikamahadik2803 Жыл бұрын
She literally knows what we need to improve our lives....love ur content..💕
@michellesutton3945 Жыл бұрын
The amount of videos I’ve watched before this one is crazy and they left me hurt and confused about things. But this gave me peace and gave me something I can do to help my mind relax. Thank you.
@ouma-bm1vd Жыл бұрын
i'm so glad i found your channel a few days ago!! you've change my percepective on so many things thank u so much for sharing omg i've been struggling with detachment lately and this video helps tremendously! love u, you're incredible, have an amazing day/night if u happen to see this
@dianecruz1828 Жыл бұрын
Omg thank you for this. I was feeling so lost and found this at the right time. The universe just loves me so much. 🥰
@swanbabe Жыл бұрын
Girl I discovered your channel last week and I’m telling you I’m in love you’re helping so much💖
@arimasingh3394 Жыл бұрын
You legit saved me from my shadows❤ you have a long way to go 🥺
@yinpassion7817 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I found your channel! I love all your topics and the way you passionately talk ab it hypes me up more than a lot of other KZfaq videos 😂 Love the energy and wisdom you bring💗💗💗
@asansh9656 Жыл бұрын
Girl..i love u so soo much…u r teaching me like a big sister!! And I couldn’t be any happier to learn it from you!! U just clarified my whole situation ..all love…stay positive and spread positivity!♥️
@TRALILAtromimi Жыл бұрын
girl you're the best, you kindly remind me of the truths of life while making me laugh and also making me relax. You're amazing, thank you for your content!
@emnawithane674 Жыл бұрын
I totally understand ur words cause I went through attachment for the last two years and Im proud of how far I've come right now💜✨and I think it was necessary to get through these experiences to become the better person I am today
@poetrybysuhashani__ Жыл бұрын
absolutely loved this video & the way you explained 'detachment'. it's such a positive & healthy way to be whilst building your dream life & you explained it beautifully✨
@dragonfruit352 Жыл бұрын
WOMAN I FREAKING LOVE U FROM THE BOTOM OF MY HEART
@CandyFloss162010 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are helping me SO MUCH. Thank you for creating them x
@Jessica1144 Жыл бұрын
you know it's so inspiring to see a brown woman you can look up to and feel motivated by, giving you advice. You don't see many of us putting ourselves out there
@evasabet1018 Жыл бұрын
Why is that important? Im looking at a beautiful human with a strong message, and until it it got pointed out, I wasn't even thinking about it. Thoughts like these are what create division in today's world
@ayybibi Жыл бұрын
@@evasabet1018 it’s very uncommon to see brown women speaking about topics like these, the culture is very different than the western world/western women. it’s just a fact. no division.
@aaliyahfan1love 11 ай бұрын
I can't even explain how happy I am that I came across this channel and videos! I was feeling really hopeless and have been in 2 back to back relationships with my current one with my boyfriend failing. My friend told me about the attachment styles which I went on KZfaq to search for some self help or videos that could provide help or advice and honestly Tam should write a book! I'd be the 1st on line to buy. One, she makes everything easy to understand and she gets it. Two, I felt like I was the only person going thru this and no! She gets it and breaks it down. I literally was snapping and clapping while watching this and 2 other videos I've seen so far!! LOL. I was writing things that stuck out to me as she was going along in the video and I am excited to put my best foot forward. I was feeling down and out and this type of relationship stuff can seriously cause thoughts of doubt, self-harm, and not loving yourself the way you should. Thank you Tam for being so inspiring!!! ❤
@sadet952 Жыл бұрын
I legittt cannot wait for your next video, your so good at what you do😭😭😩😩
@charlottemonteyne390 Жыл бұрын
You explain everything so good! I love your vibe! This is the first video from you I watch, and following you right now! Have a lovely day!
@changveronicas Жыл бұрын
tam im honestly so excited to see how successful you become tam! im rooting for you from california! 🎉
@agostinaodierna6787 Жыл бұрын
I really didn't understand fully what detachment is before this video, this helps me so much right now, thank you Tam
@aditipandey5899 Жыл бұрын
You are a Big Sister every girl needs 🥺 Thank you so much 💕
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
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@RB-ok9ss Жыл бұрын
@@tamkaur what about your trying to protect your peace and detach but you live in the same town and go to the same college, how am I supposed to grow but then get reminded whenever I see them (I get reminded of some of the little good memories but more of the bad ones and how they did me wrong and still are at a distance).I want to be unbothered but I feel bothered whenever I see them again. I’m not sure if I should say hello when passing or smile or do nothing n ignore. But it’s hard for me to do any option because I overthink it. Any advice? Please❤
@RB-ok9ss Жыл бұрын
@@tamkaur what about your trying to protect your peace and detach but you live in the same town and go to the same college, how am I supposed to grow but then get reminded whenever I see them (I get reminded of some of the little good memories but more of the bad ones and how they did me wrong and still are at a distance).I want to be unbothered but I feel bothered whenever I see them again. I’m not sure if I should say hello when passing or smile or do nothing n ignore. But it’s hard for me to do any option because I overthink it. Any advice? Please❤
@foivechan Жыл бұрын
I watched an earlier video of yours and made my mind that I’m in my unbothered girl era 🎉. And I’m loving how stress free I am
@tusharikaahlawat1381 Жыл бұрын
i've read the power of now tam and its actually changed my life. like i could relate to everything you said in this video detachment is magic
@mariedawson6615 Жыл бұрын
Love your video...makes a lot of sense. I have been so attached to one person for over 1 year n honestly im the only one hurting myself. Thank you for making me realize how much easier life can be. ❤❤❤
@jessicabsable Жыл бұрын
Just found out this channel and loved it! As a philosophy teacher I appreciate the dept of your thoughts!! Great work, keep sharing your wisdom, let's get stronger together girls!!
@Mo-qm9md Жыл бұрын
Literally taking notes on this vid cause this is such an important mindset I need to work on and I am relying only on myself to improve
@fatimah.mp4 Жыл бұрын
just wanted to say that I love how u worded everything so well
@mademoisellecupcake4047 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know how to make you realise how much gratitude I have towards you for making that video ❤ like thanks you SOOO much!!! Love youuu
@akifahm6624 Жыл бұрын
This video came at such perfect timing thank you so much Tam I think I need to have this video on in the background as a daily affirmation ❤
@user-uf9sv6sj1b Жыл бұрын
1. Permita que as pessoas sejam quem são e não tente muda-las. E não force conexões que não existem. 2. Não force situações 3. Separar dos momentos tristes esperando que sempre haverá uma solução para você
@mystupidlovesong 6 ай бұрын
Sitting down, reflecting and writing your triggers and actually taking time to schedule yourself to change your mindset is the key! Thanks for that ❤
@Ashleyaliyah77 Жыл бұрын
Girl your videos are helping me so much with where I am in life right now. I really love this.
@liyandayi1409 Жыл бұрын
You broke this down really well, I’m so happy to have found you. I’m definitely going to have to come back to this to refresh my mind. Love from South Africa 🇿🇦
@melissaw3020 Жыл бұрын
Omg thank you so much for this video. You articulated so many things I've been feeling lately, but didn't know how to express!! I have been feeling a bit guilty lately because I just don't really feel like spending much time with a lot of a my friends. But I don't feel sad or depressed. On the contrary, I've been feeling extremely creative lately and just enjoying staying at home alone and making art. Sometimes I wonder if it's normal that even though I have lots of people in my life who I care about deeply, there's really no one who I could lose who would drastically change me, my life or my perception of myself. Ultimately I connect with other people because I like to do so, not because I NEED it.
@mamtachhapola9508 9 ай бұрын
tam i am writing here to show my gratitude for you girl. i haven't started the video but this was the one i was finding w/o knowing. thank you so much for being there whenever i need any video to make me 'me' again. you are the best
@stargirl78636 2 ай бұрын
« im literally so grateful for all that i’m blessed with » claiming this 🎀
@Cosmo26271 11 ай бұрын
Wow! I’m 47 and you’ve taught me so much!! Tons of gems in this video, I had to take notes! Thank you so much Tam ❤
@camkin7916 Жыл бұрын
This is literally the only video that actually helped me understand and apply detachment ,all the stereotypes,all the examples,you explain it so well.Thank you!
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!❤️❤️
@ariannemyg6260 Жыл бұрын
just went through the worst talking stage and i stumbled upon this video on my recommended. thank you so much, i really needed this 😊
@taaaa233 8 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I needed. Loved the part where you explained the difference between how men and women handle their feelings. It's so true!
@clairejoseph9398 Жыл бұрын
Thank you need to detach more!! Have to listen to this video on repeat until the message sinks in!!!!
@KR-dk3eb Жыл бұрын
Thank you for discussing such topics & explaining so accurately relatable things!👍 U truly deliver valuable content!🙃✨
@niharikamishra8759 Жыл бұрын
She doesn’t know how much she is helping me and other people to get over of some traumas. Thankyou so much ❤ i love your videos and you have so much knowledge thankyou for sharing with us❤
@aiousheegogoi1189 Жыл бұрын
Love you girl. And love all the people in the comment section. I needed this
@flw1522 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad this video came up on my recommendations as I was feeling bittersweet about my best friend judging my career choices, while working on giving up on the need to please others for so long! I’m fully aware of how I shouldn’t let her opinion or anyone else’s have an impact but I can’t really fight it, it’s frustrating
@eeshaniapte3902 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I needed this. I found this video at the right time. This is a sign. This video actually helped so much that I literally took down notes. I am going to start implementing changes in my day-to-day behavior and thought process.
@fernroberts_property117 Жыл бұрын
Love the directness, it’s so refreshing
@liquid_luck Жыл бұрын
You're so healthy and give off such good vibes! I know you don't know me and we'll probably never meet but I'm so glad to have you in my life for the time I see you in your videos. (And not in a creepy way I just watch them once when they come out.) Could you do a video on healing and personal growth? Sometimes I get phases where I try to grow too much and stress myself with becoming better to the point it gives me anxiety and other times I'm just too frustrated to do the work and confront myself with stuff all over again because it didn't magically heal after one sprint. Like I don't know how can I do this in a healthy way? And do you have some advice on detaching from the need of success? I thought I was over it but it just keeps coming back sometimes from the inside but often from the outside too. And how to set big goals and not freeze with anxiety every time you attempt to take action on them? That was so much and I literally just wanted to write that first sentence. Anyways have a nice day everyone☀️
@jeriyn8956 Жыл бұрын
it's how I NEEDED THIS right now 😭😭 I loved all your videos and subscribed the 1st time I seen you 💗
@tamkaur Жыл бұрын
Ahhh thanks for the support
@janam1083 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I didn’t realize how badly I needed to hear this until your words helped me to really understand. Thank you for making this video, because I finally get it. ❤
@Iampinklover 3 ай бұрын
I sincerely hope you are satisfied with your life right now. Your contents are huge help for a lot of people struggling to settle with their emotions and thoughts.
@bunny19-xk5mj 8 ай бұрын
You don't know but You Helped me in so many ways to open my eyes and gain clarity of the situations of my life...i even wrote the things that i need and would need in my copy ❤ Thank You 😊 Stay Blessed 🙌
@empressgeorgena311 Жыл бұрын
Thanks sis 💖🙌🏽 - I’ll put it into practice! Also, I have read The Power of Now. It truly is a life changing resource! 🧚🏽♀️💯
@kritikaboola7844 Ай бұрын
Thankyou Tam, so much! ❤ I really needed to hear this because I was going crazy and obsessive over someone until I realised that it was probably not even worth obsessing over. And I really mean it when I say it that you and wizardliz have changed my life for good and I could see myself growing and realising my worth and potential. ❤
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