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@JohnWilliams-fi7rh9 жыл бұрын
I can't even trust my family members.
@tomdixon12138 жыл бұрын
It seems that some of the equation for a good friendship is mutual respect for each other's boundaries.
@OrgoftheOrganized9 жыл бұрын
When your chips are low you know who your true friends are.
@98983847178 жыл бұрын
we cant wait that could be dangerous
@christalclear82269 жыл бұрын
I miss my dear friend who died last summer. I feel as if she was the best friend I will ever have.
@tiahtjordan66928 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry about your friend. don't worry their with God now and resting in peace, I will be your friend also my name is Tmonie Tiah Jordan 😊😊💚🌸💕💗🕇🤗
@5winder7 жыл бұрын
... maybe so... until you meet Jesus... he's the best. He always listens.
@breenewi64056 жыл бұрын
awe ;c Sorry for your loss!!
@che_boy1207 жыл бұрын
I don't believe in friendships anyway. I am my own keeper. Humans are unpredictable.
@SD-rm5ty Жыл бұрын
This is what people don't understand about me, as soon as I get a whif of dishonesty I'll create distance from that person unless concerns are clarified.
@RadicalAwesomeness10 жыл бұрын
"Real friend"? I even have doubts about my own existence.
@carefulcarpenter12 жыл бұрын
"With love and compassion, your true friends will tell you what you need to know; others, out of convenience, will tell you what you want to hear" ~~cc
@HarveyPriceFTW12 жыл бұрын
A true friend tells you the truth,not what you want to hear,but how many people want to hear the truth ?
@dmarywarjri97765 жыл бұрын
What do we do when a friend backstabbbed and pretend on our face like nothing happened?
@solitajre22210 жыл бұрын
On test three, Personally speaking. On a couple occasions, where good things happened, a couple friends of mine came up to me and said straight out that they were really excited for me, but that they were a bit envious of what had happened. It was kind of like if your friend won a nice sum of money on the lottery, you'd be stoked for them of course, but at the same time you'd probably wish you had won something too. So someone being envious of you isn't necessarily a bad thing, as long as it doesn't turn into jealousy, because that's a deep seated poison.
@vinegaroon112 жыл бұрын
Charles Bukowski: "You want to know who your real friends are? Just get yourself a jail sentence."
@Elemgy533712 жыл бұрын
The more someone is all up in your shit, the less friendly you're going to feel toward them. Or maybe it's just me.
@ghostly211 жыл бұрын
Hmm, a little cold. However, it's kind of necessary, that and good friendships work within boundaries. If they step over those boundaries, or you step over theirs, have a right to say so, and take a step back.
@dynodish12 жыл бұрын
If you have to test your friends, you don't have any and you are not one.
@debrahancock79868 жыл бұрын
Frakly I find the Oposite is True, If your Happy Prosperious, Well Loved and Well onceted Freinds Come out of the Wood Works, If you Let any One know You Have a Problem, If That Person Doesn't Run Then You Have a true Friend
@FolkBoyify11 жыл бұрын
See how loyal they are. xD
@deksper10 жыл бұрын
Proverbs 18:24 A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.
@izitmepattavina865111 жыл бұрын
dicey stuff right here.
@HYPNOTICVIDEO13 жыл бұрын
After the series of test are completed and it concludes someone is not a true friend ,so now you have to pretend to be a friend to the person that was pretending to be your true friend . cool .
@athan114512 жыл бұрын
my father once told me a good friend helps you move, a great friend helps you move bodies. :))
@nowhereinslowmotion11 жыл бұрын
(continued)...I know if someone gave money to me to give to another friend, what I personally would do is give ALL the money to the person who is supposed to receive it and they get to decide what they'll spend it on. I would NOT take part of that money and buy something for the person, even if it is something they want - unless that person SAID to me to take part of the money and get me this item.
@melaniexoxo8 жыл бұрын
A week to find out if they are a true friend? THat seems a bit hasty to me.
@NarcissistFreealmost10 жыл бұрын
good friends are hard to come.. thanks for the vid
@cassott358310 жыл бұрын
thank you for giving such amazing advice!!
@roseheadupdo10 жыл бұрын
I find your advice very useful!
@toriverity727510 жыл бұрын
I just found out my BFF is not my real friend! I lost another friend :(
@sean0108910 жыл бұрын
Oh, sorry to hear that.. Hope you will find a true friend in the future!! Good luck!!
@ivettesolis88499 жыл бұрын
Don't feel lonely I lost two friends and they were my only friends at church along with the only ones in my grade so school is my only hope now
@lolilord54349 жыл бұрын
Thank you this helped me a lot.
@malayqamehboob71199 жыл бұрын
Me and my friend have been friends for 18 yrs because I'm 18 now thank you for sharing 😆😆
@melaniexoxo8 жыл бұрын
Based on this its possible I have never had a true friend.. except for my mom.
@5winder7 жыл бұрын
Same here... the world's full of narcissists. God bless you.
@zuhairreza6 жыл бұрын
lambchopxoxo mothers are always the best! Good luck, stay strong! ❤️
@TaRa95ns9 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful! Thank you so much for sharing ! :) I found out I have one true friend who ticks all the boxes :D And we're keeping our friendship strong. :) ... I think, atleast that has been my belief up to now, that we get one, maybe 2 of those precious friends in our lifetime, and we should keep them and appreciate them for as long as possible. :)
@Elemgy533711 жыл бұрын
You are probably a good cook, huh?
@lukemalone52249 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this video is great, thanks so much!
@nowhereinslowmotion11 жыл бұрын
What if you tell a so-called friend you don't want a reply back and they reply back anyway. What if someone gives this friend money to give to someone else and the friend who's got the money spends that money on something the other person needs, rather than giving all the money to the person who's supposed to be receiving the money in the first place so that the receiver of the money can decide what he or she will buy with the money. Sorry if this sounds confusing:(. (continued next post)...
@grcanbo11 жыл бұрын
Good video lady.
@grcanbo11 жыл бұрын
Call your friend at 4hoo in the morning and say im not feeling good ,Ex: i feel some tipe of anxiety and i cant breathe good, can you come with me at the hospital? True story it hapend to me and i went to the hospital with him and we left after 30 minutes...it was a test from him:)
@andreamunoz20539 жыл бұрын
Great advice
@fistoffries12 жыл бұрын
Good video. However I question the honesty test. A lot of abusive people hide behind being "honest" when they are being cruel.
@nowhereinslowmotion11 жыл бұрын
sorry didn't say that last part right....to edit: unless that person SAID to me to take part of the money and buy the item.
@fireyt75559 жыл бұрын
My friend is not a true friend
@francully223911 жыл бұрын
yes I agree
@ShunyamNiketana12 жыл бұрын
But does a true friend play testing games? Hmmm... Otherwise, the criteria are interesting.
@charlotterichardson28679 жыл бұрын
2:15 I have a question. If I just got to know someone and considered us friends, and she told me a secret, okay. If I repeat it, shame on me. If I keep it, great. But here's the thing: if I knew she was testing me, trying to trick me, then that means that SHE isn't a good friend because she's manipulating me. She and her partner are trying to get me to spill! So, bottom line, if you want to tell if someone's a true friend, don't repeat secrets, but don't trust those who tell "fake secrets." they don't trust you. Why should you trust them?
@Musicandfilms79 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your video, it was really helpfull! I have a question, for some reason i only atract people who are users in my life, it's always the same, they're only interested in getting things from me.Could you help me understand why this is happening to me? Thank you xx
@AdnanAli-xt4nu8 жыл бұрын
I had this problem. It's from being too nice and naive. People always told me self-respect is what makes you get respect. Learn to say no and go with your instincts as to what is right and wrong. Don't try to please people and care about what they think. Just do what you think is right for yourself. People will notice. They will know that they can't manipulate and use you so they will either respect you or go find someone else to use.
@jadaruiz490510 жыл бұрын
I have a friend that is spook fake she doesn't even realize it nut if I get her angryand she will turn everyone against me? What should I do?
@youtubeuser52769 жыл бұрын
This is a great informative video, but I would ask you to please slow down and compose your thoughts a little more before speaking on these subjects, possibly script yourself or whatever the case may be in order to improve your verbal delivery. I'm finding myself having to re-listen to your sentences over and over and over because they are worded very confusingly at times. With this piece of constructive criticism aside, very very helpful video.
@xbeautytypex11 жыл бұрын
my bff failed this test lol
@medoboss50119 жыл бұрын
I have never had a real friend before I want to be one boy friend but he sometimes turns on me
@brenme358 жыл бұрын
hey do you want to be friends call me 8six 3 six0two 6threetwo6 my name isBrenda
@katielastname955512 жыл бұрын
haha good one
@B3A5tAniM4l3dith12 жыл бұрын
@butterflyRegrets Ehh ive had this problem just invite Him/her over more
@briqel22678 жыл бұрын
My so called friend attacked me on her trampoline and said I was useless. I wanted to cry and kill myself but she should be thinking that for what came out of her mouth AND her actions!
@briqel22678 жыл бұрын
I was hurt and bleeding
@5winder7 жыл бұрын
God loves you... hang in there.
@INDUSTRIALIST123410 жыл бұрын
Hi ! I really enjoy your videos. Can you give me a woman's perspective ? I have been going to a gym for the last 6 months. From day 1 when I signed up this girl who works at the front has been all up on me. 1) She asks where I have been if she has not seen me. 2) She tells me I look great. 3) She goes out of her way to talk to me very often. Up to 7 days ago she told me How Great I am looking. The other day we spoke and I gave her my number. She took it. Said thanks. But didn't look very pleased. Please let me know what you think !
@susanna86129 жыл бұрын
So, what happened with the gym girl? You did not ask my perspective but as a woman I know how difficult it is being naturally friendly and nice to guys since they always thinks its flirting. It is not. Some people are just social and friendly. But in some cases it ofcourse can be flirting as well. Anyhow, I can go to tell some even totally random person that they look great or they have nice dress or shirt or hair...or what so ever. It just that, no agenda behind that opinion.
@Kimi26011 жыл бұрын
Good vid
@unfunnyryan10 жыл бұрын
what happens when we die?
@sannajohanna55798 жыл бұрын
I do not understand that "scarifying" point. Why should I want someone to scarify for me anything? I do not scarify anything for my friends. Why should I? I can feel empathy, but to sacrify? Why I should scarify for example a good offer in another country just because my friend thinks that she does not want to live without me? Why should I scarify that - or vice versa? Does a god friend ask me to scarify for her my own happiness? Telling me for example: "Because I do not have a boyfriend, you can not have either! You must scarify for me! Do not be with that other person!"
@sanctuaryspothome8 жыл бұрын
By sacrifice, she means that people who genuinely care about us would make reasonable (key word) sacrifices for us. Your examples such as not having a boyfriend because your friend doesn't, is not reasonable but is selfish
@paisleyspin50618 жыл бұрын
The word is "sacrifice" not scarify.
@deksper10 жыл бұрын
Proverbs 18:24 says that ONLY Jesus will always be there for Us at ALL times. NO friendship will surpass the loyalty of Jesus
@sk8forlife9012 жыл бұрын
lol
@Elemgy533712 жыл бұрын
I think you are beautiful, but I am concerned you are a bit manipulative. Maybe you should just try to BE a better friend rather than being so paranoid and manipulative. I hope you can address this in yourself, otherwise you may never have valuable rewarding relationships in your life. Good luck.