Are you looking for tips on how you can win your wife back you hurt her? Watch Paul shares some tips on what you can do to make your wife back to you and make your marriage happy again.
I'd like to help you with this and I think I can. But let's go back, let's not just deal with how you may have hurt her now or whether you have been and chances are great -- you've been hurting her right along. Let's go all the way back to before you got married and how you treated your wife to be your girlfriend. The girl you were trying to make your girlfriend.
How did you treat her?
Because there's a spectrum, there are things to do and things to not do, and the things that you
are doing. Your mindset way back when you were winning her. There was nothing that you would have intentionally done and you were very careful to not unintentionally do that would have hurt
her back then.
What happened?
I want to open up marriage to you a little bit. I want you to see what you're missing because I don't want you to just make her feel better. I don't want you to win her back. I want you to have what you should have had from the beginning.
Why did you get married?
You got married to be happier for the rest of your life and selfish/selflessly. You are going to accomplish that by making your wife be so happy like she'd never been before. You probably used to stay in touch with her all the time. Say wonderful things to her. You used to smile at her,
listen to her, praise her. You would never have even imagined yourself yelling at her or criticizing her or doing anything that you can imagine that would have come close to hurting her feelings.
And now, God knows what you've done maybe it's infidelity. I don't know, it doesn't make any difference how you hurt her. Probably, that's what it is if you're coming to this video and looking for help.
Let's be realistic marriage is not a kind of thing where you're looking to balance out the wrongs with a few rights. You're not trying to manipulate your wife into loving you and caring for you but
maybe that's missing in your marriage. It's likely because it's ironic and I'm digressing a little bit but not really. Everything that we do in life we know automatically that whatever we're taking on
requires some kind of maintenance. Even if you buy a pair of pants you know you got to clean it. You know you got to make sure you don't get a stain on it. That's maintenance but when you get married you don't know that because you don't know anything about marriage -- nobody in the western world or even the eastern world.
I could tell you that's for sure. We've been doing this for 20 years. People don't understand marriage neither do you. Let's open this up to the reason why you got married in the first place and the reason why she got married in the first place was to be happier, and how do you achieve happiness ever-expanding happiness every single day because even if you got a brand new car
it's going to make you happy for a while but not every single day for the rest of your life.
And yet that's what you want out of a marriage and there is a secret sauce here that's called
unconditional love. You know we don't really understand love. We don't and I know why it's because the world rejects the idea of spiritual love.
We don't like to hear anything that's spiritual or maybe religious which is kind of weird when
you think about it in the context of marriage because marriage is all about love, soul mates.
What do you think that's just a term made up by a greeting card company? No, you are essentially a soul. You have a body and you have a mind. I know this is very esoteric. I'm not going to preach a religion to you but it is the reality. You are a soul. You can discover that on
your own.
There are many spiritual paths where you get to separate yourself, you might say from your mind and your body in stillness and realize, what do you realize? You realize love -- that's who you are.
That's your soul. So the soulmate deal is connecting your soul to her soul using your mind, using your body to achieve that and experiencing ever greater love which means ever greater happiness every single day of your life. You didn't know that and here I'm telling you this. I'm not talking theoretically, I should say I'm not talking theoretically.
This is reality. This is how you do it but we live in a western world filled with western psychology
where they say that love is an abstract thought and yet, it's the only reality that is pertinent to marriage. Well, how do you reconcile this? You don't -- they're wrong. You got to learn about
marriage from the bottom up. When I used to work directly with couples or individuals which is what it's really about because and I'm going to tell you this. You've never heard this before either.
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