How & Why to Set Goals (for people who feel lost in life)

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struthless

struthless

2 жыл бұрын

How and Why to set goals - from lost to found.
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@struthless
@struthless 2 жыл бұрын
Lol I'll straighten my posture for the next vid, I spent the mic stand money on frames
@Loefoll
@Loefoll 2 жыл бұрын
I was just about to ask :D
@katierobertsart5658
@katierobertsart5658 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha! Was wondering!! :D
@robertbikers9502
@robertbikers9502 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this video is quite visually incongruous with the message you are trying to convey.
@Todiros
@Todiros 2 жыл бұрын
Ha, I was thinking... why the mic is so short, that must be uncomfy! xD
@lisettegarcia
@lisettegarcia 2 жыл бұрын
Lol.. looks like you're super into us. I didn't mind it. On my channel, I just use the sewing machine cover as my microphone stand. 🤣 Maybe you could use a shipping box from your garment line.
@Hi_Im_Akward
@Hi_Im_Akward 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you always tackle that darkness. You're the opposite of toxic positivity. You're healthy positivity. Tackling that dark shit is half the battle. And you short cut it so easily. "Because it feels good" 🤯 thank you. I love your videos
@reemam8965
@reemam8965 2 жыл бұрын
I felt like crying as early as "without you the world would probably still be as bad. with you, you do have the potential to make it slightly better." struthless is truly a gift and the world is definitely substantially better with you in it - thank you!
@ronie_artwork
@ronie_artwork 2 жыл бұрын
I was crying two hours ago about the fact that I couldn't set goals correctly. Two possibilities : you're my spiritual mentor or google is listening . Cheers from Belgium, I love everything you do 🤘
@Sholpan-c6j
@Sholpan-c6j 2 жыл бұрын
I think social media can listen to our thoughts, already
@ronie_artwork
@ronie_artwork 2 жыл бұрын
​@@Sholpan-c6j if it's true then good luck social media, it's not a quite place down there :D
@Sholpan-c6j
@Sholpan-c6j 2 жыл бұрын
@@ronie_artwork haha
@marcoscarlomagno3065
@marcoscarlomagno3065 2 жыл бұрын
Both of them 😂
@titatesta4577
@titatesta4577 2 жыл бұрын
linking jealousy with direction is one of the best things I've heard in a while. great advice
@sarahisatitagain
@sarahisatitagain 2 жыл бұрын
I've noticed your videos are the type of videos you have to watch at least 2 times to get the most out of it. One to enjoy the video and visuals, to get that mind blowing feeling out of it. The second to "do your homework" and apply to practical life. Getting people to watch stuff is hard, but your content is so good it deserves a double watch. Thanks for your videos. All of them, even the ones you think aren't that good. I've learned at least 1 useful thing in each of them or they have moved me to a better state of mind with your sense of humor and metaphors. Just bought your book and it is helping me understand the stuff my therapist can't. Thanks
@abhisheksharma2138
@abhisheksharma2138 2 жыл бұрын
The only "self help" channel that I never miss a video of, thanks mate!
@alancooke6630
@alancooke6630 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. My problem is I suffer with anxiety, and goals make me anxious. I have abandoned so many that when I set a goal and I DO manage to complete it, I am more relieved that it is over than getting a sense of achievement. So a long term goal, even broken down, is a wait on my shoulders.
@App.ollo_
@App.ollo_ 2 жыл бұрын
When I needed him the most, he appeared. Cheers yellow hat guy, luv u
@Hardts
@Hardts 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for doing these videos. I keep ending up in depression. Poeple tell me I have a lot to offer, but I often don't see it that way myself, or am totally bogged down by mental health issues. Sometimes a video like this can give a little push in the right direction.
@KariN-rt1ok
@KariN-rt1ok 2 жыл бұрын
I honestly love your videos so much. Every time I step in one of your videos, you give me a breath of fresh air.
@mahakaransandhu917
@mahakaransandhu917 2 жыл бұрын
mate your videos are bloody brilliant, deeply insightful, full of deep wisdom and come at exactly the right time -- appreciate your work brother!!
@melissarichard4533
@melissarichard4533 2 жыл бұрын
I just live how passionate you are about your art and guiding others. you're the best :')
@erin2150
@erin2150 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't' even hesitate to buy your book just now. Each video I watch is teeming with fun tidbits of life with just enough wit and critical thought to keep me entertained and growing as a person. I'm really excited to read it.
@skyh1348
@skyh1348 2 жыл бұрын
I'm s happy i found your channel a couple of months ago, one of my favourite youtubers right now. Keep being yourself man :)
@EL_ARTEM
@EL_ARTEM 2 жыл бұрын
Totally appreciate your talking style. For this type of videos it's very important to be not annoying, and you got it rly well
@pauli8379
@pauli8379 Жыл бұрын
this is literally the best youtube channel ever. thank you so much. you changed my life 3 years ago and now i kinda lost the direction a bit again and came back here to find this amazing video. thanks man.
@courtlovecat
@courtlovecat 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know how it is possible for someone all the way across the earth to speak to exactly who I am as a human, but I appreciate it. Thank you for sharing everything you do. You've given me a lot of hope. Keep it up, man. 👍👍✌
@ishverma8263
@ishverma8263 2 жыл бұрын
i LOVED this video. I felt it was very authentic and different from the other goals setting vids i've watched. Thanks man, keep posting!
@rihariteare
@rihariteare 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this brother. Your Uber line really got me because I have done that more time than I can remember. I feel grateful for this breakdown my dude. It really makes goal setting a whole lot easier with these steps. What gets me excited is making entertaining videos based on daily situations when learning a new language. Purely for entertainment, but that’s all I have for now. Will do the breakdown and mapping of it all this week! Thank you so much. Have a wonderful day!
@cheese3640
@cheese3640 2 жыл бұрын
I swear your uploads come at the exact right time. Thanks so much!!
@Alchemistels
@Alchemistels 5 ай бұрын
This video has given me some hope thank you! Been feeling lost on what makes me happy and what to dooo x
@fdora20
@fdora20 Жыл бұрын
What you said about jealousy is so life-changing man... I appreciate so so much that you always try to give us an option to use our negative feelings in a useful way. Thank you so much ❤️
@shannonkreiv5618
@shannonkreiv5618 Жыл бұрын
fair play to you admitting your jealous tendencies! Especially in the online world it's easy to fall into the trap of portraying perfection, but what I love about you is that you're authentic 💜
@dizye2971
@dizye2971 3 ай бұрын
its so nice to be remembered that you aren't alone in this. no one has it all figured out and thats okay. Keep pushing everyone
@naomistone
@naomistone Жыл бұрын
I love how you mentioned that quote "following the fun" and if you are not having fun then you are doing it wrong! Because life is supposed to be enjoyed and your goals should have something that excites you!
@maridesconsi
@maridesconsi 2 жыл бұрын
i just absolutely freaking LOVE your videos and everything about them, you inspire me SO MUCH, AAAAHHHGGG!!!! (this is me hugging you for very far away, hope you felt some warm fuzzy feeling or whatever). have a great day man
@abiomer415
@abiomer415 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this vid Cam! Also I started reading your book 2 days ago and I'm enjoying it so much, can't thank you enough!
@sutter9702
@sutter9702 Жыл бұрын
this video has become one i go back to multiple times when i feel lost. thanks for reminding me/us there is a life to be lived somewhere between extremes.
@invervluck2899
@invervluck2899 Жыл бұрын
This changed my life, I made a list of decisions a little over a year ago, and because of this video, I’m in a much happier place today. However, I stopped doing the journaling after only a few months, and I can tell that my goals have fallen to the wayside. But a friend asked me today how they could keep up with their goals and daily stress, and I suggested this video. I decided to watch it again myself, and I’m filled with motivation to restart the journaling I started when you first released this video. I hope it turns out well, thank you and keep doing you.
@jorgleiger
@jorgleiger 2 жыл бұрын
I've never been more excited about an upload!!! Thank you!!
@dylanelkins2259
@dylanelkins2259 2 жыл бұрын
I love how he recognizes on some days we feel like shit and others we feel like we can accomplish anything. This bipolarity in my own emotions from day to day really set me back and i’m glad he points this reality out.
@ipekkomurcu
@ipekkomurcu 7 күн бұрын
I love everything about this video, thank you so much for this! The presentation, your energy and all the helpful genuine tips. I wish you all the best and thanks again ✌️✨
@TheEefaShrof
@TheEefaShrof 5 ай бұрын
Dude, you are brilliant!!! Thank you for the clarity and making it fun.
@jishnuchatterjee6517
@jishnuchatterjee6517 2 жыл бұрын
I love the aesthetic of this video. In fact I loved it so much that I had to pause the video to comment down below. It's very wholesome and .... just super nice. Thanks.
@lauragale6920
@lauragale6920 2 жыл бұрын
You are a wonderful human being with wonderful content, that comes across perfectly - easy to take in and relaxing to watch! X
@brianmichael5935
@brianmichael5935 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man good to see a vid up. Worth the wait. I appreciate you bringing reality and a strong positive outlook. (:
@thecommonnovelist4181
@thecommonnovelist4181 2 жыл бұрын
"Follow the fun!" Ferrrr sure. I really struggle with this, as most times I've followed the fun I've managed to turn something I really enjoy into drudgery. Mostly just pinning too much importance on it, and trying to do too much of it, thinking about it in my off time etc...burning out on it. Anyway, your videos help so much and I'm starting your book once the kid is in bed tonight. Cheers!
@attacatz8945
@attacatz8945 2 жыл бұрын
Same for me. I'm having to teach myself that it's okay to take breaks, even from fun. Depression and perfectionism really make you think that fun things arnt as fun anymore. If you're up for advice(I dont know you so feel free to ignore this I may be wrong), try to relax. Practice being okay with taking a 30min break from EVERYTHING without feeling bad about it, then once you're relaxed, make an achievable goal and do it. This is kind of what he touches on in the video lol but with an added "it's okay to get burned out so give yourself a break so you can get back to it". :)
@Olivia-fl3bn
@Olivia-fl3bn 2 жыл бұрын
Same here, I learned my problem was I put a huge expectation on everything I touch. I feel like I have to be the “best of the best,” and shouldn’t it be easier to do that if I choose something I actually enjoy? It very quickly takes the fun out of it. I’m slowly but surely cutting out the expectations, negative thoughts, judgements, criticisms, and comparisons I not only get from others but also myself 😅 Best of luck to you and finding the fun again!
@MellowMutts270
@MellowMutts270 4 ай бұрын
I am struggling with the same thing. I think a part of my problem is that I take things too seriously and too personally. I have always been extremely harsh on my self and being that way over the years has caused me to avoid playfulness for fear of looking like an idiot. I don’t care if others judge me it’s me and the viciously pessimistic voice in my head that bother me more.
@user-il8ue7dq2z
@user-il8ue7dq2z Ай бұрын
I really appreciated the music and the mood of this video ❤ I felt so understood and validated. Thank you!
@BigRigTrig
@BigRigTrig 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being real man, it’s hella refreshing
@jasmarr
@jasmarr 2 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful . Thank you so much for sharing this with us. And I can not believe I saw this video for free on KZfaq. The quality is too perfect!
@Karmer
@Karmer 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for the start point of 'lost'!!!!! It's definitely rare to find a video like this because everywhere presumes we already have our 'goal'.
@AceGunnerManEIR
@AceGunnerManEIR 8 ай бұрын
Yes so true subscribed after that
@potentialhb0mb
@potentialhb0mb Жыл бұрын
I just found your videos and I love them. Your approach is so helpful and makes so much sense. Really needed this. Thank you.
@velmineb5807
@velmineb5807 2 жыл бұрын
I was on a long car ride looking for a good video and I got this notification. Off to a good start today ♡
@TheKidWithTheAfro
@TheKidWithTheAfro 2 жыл бұрын
you posted this at the perfect time for me, just got out of a relapse slump (with help from your videos) and been lost on how to maintain positive behaviors. love your work man hope you see this!
@lindahernandez3984
@lindahernandez3984 2 жыл бұрын
I love your content so much! One of the most authentic KZfaqrs out there 💛
@TapiTalk
@TapiTalk 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing! I really appreciate the amount of effort and quality of this video, I'm trying to get my life back on track and this is actionable. I will definitely be watching this a couple of times
@cleverscreenname5698
@cleverscreenname5698 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 80 pages into your book and I love it. I can really hear your voice in it. I’ve been using it to get some Struthless content between your last post and this one. :)
@Kringeladida
@Kringeladida 2 жыл бұрын
I love this swirly font. It gives me happy „you can do it“-vibes. 👀 Thank you for the worksheet! 🧡
@n.e.m.o7255
@n.e.m.o7255 4 ай бұрын
Makes so much sense. Most of the things you mentioned were relatable. I experienced these feelings a lot and I'm just so tired of not doing anything about it. I'm gonna set goal and stick to it this year.
@blakebolt9205
@blakebolt9205 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love your content and the way your brain works, thank you for sharing this wisdom, this is gold 🏆 especially for people with ADHD like me
@sofiaarvegardwallin4297
@sofiaarvegardwallin4297 2 жыл бұрын
You were recommended by a friend. I am very grateful for that. Thanks for your brilliant videos. Fun and informative. BRILLIANT. I would love that video on parenting. I speak about leadership, culture, and personal growth and a lot of parents don't realize they become leaders the day their kid was born ... Bad leaders (parents), create bad cultures (environments) and hinder their members (kids) to grow and develop in a healthy way. Luckily, we can heal and grain a lot from healing. Anyhow... So looking forward to that video. Just hearing your take on it will be therapeutic for so many of us, I'm sure. Thanks for all your great work.
@PetDKK
@PetDKK 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! All the words you choose are just perfect. You describe things so well and you're so kind, understanding and relateable in your words ❤️❤️❤️
@HP-mk2lw
@HP-mk2lw 2 жыл бұрын
I love your book. It’s also the only book about anxiety that I can get my husband to read. Thanks for creating it.
@clairechapman5842
@clairechapman5842 Жыл бұрын
Always love and appreciate this content, thank you Struthless!
@ravenecho2410
@ravenecho2410 5 ай бұрын
Hey i saw ur video two years ago, i set big ambitions, ive achieved 95%. Was looking at my paper i wrote and i am never where i thought i would be. I have tons more dreams to keep going. Just wanna say ur video is still as relevant and i remember seeing this, after having had written what i was working on. Thinfs even 10 years ago i thought were impossible. Im having new types of goals, like meeting people and things but i still have my fire in my belly
@andersforsberg9626
@andersforsberg9626 2 жыл бұрын
Just gotta say, I love your videos man. You always give really great advice in such a lighthearted way. And often I even get a laugh or too out of watching them. Thanks a lot! Cheers from Stockholm, Sweden
@mariapaszkowska3311
@mariapaszkowska3311 2 жыл бұрын
this video came at a moment when im totally lost and have no idea what to do with my life, cheers mate! i ordered the book so long ago that i think it got lots somewhere and will never reach me
@nicholassouliotis6621
@nicholassouliotis6621 2 жыл бұрын
You’re the goat, such a unique balance, keep up the good work mate!
@Corwin19
@Corwin19 2 жыл бұрын
Yay new struthless video! Love the new background too. Also, that is one heckin cute doggo you've got there =D
@ArgenAndJael
@ArgenAndJael 2 жыл бұрын
There's so much helpful stuff in this video that I had to get out paper and a pencil and take notes! Thank you so much for making these videos!
@KindaCarolin
@KindaCarolin 2 жыл бұрын
I watch your videos like I should've watched my college lectures. I learn so much from taking and revisiting my notes from your videos. It's shocking how relatable they are and how well timed your uploads are. Great work yet again! I'm off to go set myself a goal with actionable steps ^^
@kellywilson7936
@kellywilson7936 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for creating and sharing this! Such a helpful tool!!
@diegovillanueva8049
@diegovillanueva8049 2 жыл бұрын
Your channel is one of the best things I found on KZfaq this year. I really appreciate your content and it has helped me a lot.
@marseltukhvatshin4880
@marseltukhvatshin4880 2 жыл бұрын
hey, Campbell, your impact is priceless! thanks for the wisdom 🙌
@jazwonderful6604
@jazwonderful6604 2 жыл бұрын
Love your content because it lets me know that I’m not alone in whatever it is that I’m going through (hint: i’ve just turned 20, so it’s a lot) and it makes me do something about it, think in order to take action. Thank you! You’re helping not only me but so many people.
@sentryslayer16
@sentryslayer16 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video! i was just writing goals when i saw this when looking for music. Keep up the good work, you're awesome.
@skop3569
@skop3569 2 жыл бұрын
It has been 70 seconds into the video and it directly spoke to me for my depression wtf i feel understood when even i couldnt understand myself or couldnt gather the necessary thoughts to understand myself for months
@Csoery
@Csoery 9 ай бұрын
Great video, thanks for the upload. I'm "between goals" atm and was looking for a bit of inspo. I found your thought process really uplifting. I know you posted this a while ago but still wanted to say that I'd noticed and enjoyed the animation even before you mentioned it as your goal :)
@annabellamusic
@annabellamusic Жыл бұрын
All of your videos are so unexpected and exciting! I am never disappointed!
@Waichouu
@Waichouu 2 жыл бұрын
Recently found your channel , your videos are actually so so very useful and easy-to-apply in my life.You helped me with grounding myself a lot!!Thanks man you are the best ❤️!
@damienro0
@damienro0 Ай бұрын
Im diving in this subject in this is one of the best ones ive stumbled upon, thanks
@diegolikescode
@diegolikescode 11 ай бұрын
my dear, your book is great! I just finished reading and it is a MUST for most people in this day and age. Thanks for your great work and video
@kikaa6091
@kikaa6091 2 жыл бұрын
i gave up on these self help vudeos a pong time ago but man you make actually good and practical points thank you
@mashainmotion
@mashainmotion 2 жыл бұрын
your animations are so dope! you make everything so short and simple, lovin' it. 👌🙃
@sydney2802
@sydney2802 Жыл бұрын
Ok, your 'move the arrow' along for your goals written on pieces of paper actually made me audibly gasp and say- out loud and alone in my room- that's a GREAT idea.
@martinaodell2866
@martinaodell2866 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reminder! Your book is on my amazon Christmas wish list
@hannahdirenzo
@hannahdirenzo 2 жыл бұрын
i like your videos because they give me the motivation and direction i need in a simple, funny and casual way
@hoghug4338
@hoghug4338 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, you seriously always have the perfect video at the perfect time
@honeybees6040
@honeybees6040 2 жыл бұрын
Finally! A new video I've waited it from yesterday and then it came out today :D
@lemonadeslices
@lemonadeslices 2 жыл бұрын
i love your worksheets; they're super helpful. this is also very timely for goal setting in 2022; thank you.
@vika.v8917
@vika.v8917 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for videos like these. Love your content and it usually pulls me out of downward negative spirals my mind tends to follow. 🖖
@GuardianOfFey
@GuardianOfFey 2 жыл бұрын
Already having a worksheet instead of always writing notes helps a lot, thanks for posting it.
@peachwatercoloreyes
@peachwatercoloreyes 2 ай бұрын
thank you man this was needed in my life these days
@louistaylor98
@louistaylor98 2 жыл бұрын
Just started a new project in the last few weeks after stopping my full time office job. Cheers for the inspiration man :)
@victorialynn6248
@victorialynn6248 2 жыл бұрын
I really like all of this video but specifically the part 4 and putting the tasks on the wall with the arrow. Wow!
@nifty127
@nifty127 2 жыл бұрын
You sir, are a Godsend. You have no idea how you're helping put and keep my shit together.
@asmalljoy
@asmalljoy 2 жыл бұрын
Man. This was just what I needed. Thank you so much. There's SO much value here!
@CameronBlakemakesvideos
@CameronBlakemakesvideos 2 жыл бұрын
Man I've had the hardest time understanding why and how to set goals which has led to me not being as successful as I would like to be in certain areas of my life. You've broken it down to something I completely understand and want to try. Thank you so so much!
@therobotwithhumanhair3846
@therobotwithhumanhair3846 2 жыл бұрын
Divine inspiration at play change my mind. May the Most High bless you.
@15MinuteModeller
@15MinuteModeller 2 жыл бұрын
Think this is one of your best vids yet and certainly hits the spot. 🙂
@ravnn_
@ravnn_ 2 жыл бұрын
Off topic but... I love your new setup! It love how professional it looks and how it still shows your style/art work. All things aside though, I love how you explain things. I truly believe your videos are much more affective than many of the other videos I've seen. I'm looking forward to your future videos!
@NewKidOnTheBlock100
@NewKidOnTheBlock100 2 жыл бұрын
dude this is one of your best videos yet
@nusspliLP
@nusspliLP 2 жыл бұрын
bro, i love oyur stuff! discovered you one, or two weeks ago, and iam so happy :D nice dude, perfect content and i love your accent! keep it goin´ greetings from germany!
@sparklypoof
@sparklypoof 2 жыл бұрын
I just finished your book last night and cannot wait to go back and do all the journaling exercises!! I love the metaphor as a whole and really enjoyed the simple way everything was laid out. you are SO appreciated!!
@Sonia-gm4sg
@Sonia-gm4sg 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for adding a worksheet! It really helps a lot to just fill in the blanks and have the instructions/answers just a glance away :)
@willnoel5201
@willnoel5201 Жыл бұрын
Incredibly informative and concise. Thank you for what you do! I really feel understood.
@fairaies1786
@fairaies1786 2 жыл бұрын
As always thank you 🙌🏼 just what I needed to hear
@meanncat3050
@meanncat3050 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly already decent at goals...just thought I'd watch for a refresher. Also sent this to my Mom and Sister, hope they show it to my older brother because everyone in my family appears to be in a rut that they seem to be taking out on each other and me as well.
@kristiwidner7880
@kristiwidner7880 Жыл бұрын
Thanks! I am actually linking a bunch of your videos in my class for graduating high schoolers taking an alternate route to graduation.
@Jess-zz2je
@Jess-zz2je 7 ай бұрын
If anyone in my life would have provided me with this when I was graduating, I don't think I would have been so lost in the world. Your students are lucky to have you
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