How Height Affects Men's Dating Success

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Chris Williamson

Chris Williamson

2 ай бұрын

Chris and Macken Murphy discuss how much height actually matters to women. How big of a factor is height according to Macken Murphy? What other traits do women look for according to Macken Murphy? How do men view height in women according to Macken Murphy?
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@ChrisWillx
@ChrisWillx 2 ай бұрын
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@RPRsChannel
@RPRsChannel 2 ай бұрын
I reposted this here. ---> Tall Women die more often alone, Tall Women have fewer children or more often no children, Tall Women have fewer relationships with Men, Tall Women have less Sex, Tall Women are more depressed, all this because a Tall Woman is waiting for a Tall Man; but Tall Men want Short Women not Tall Women. So, Tall Women are themselves their bane of their existence. Now...this next sentence is hard as I forget what this is called, but the crank/angle in a Woman's neck is important, at a certain age this is the angle She had to tilt her head up to look at her Father, maybe when She was 4-5 years old. As an adult; this is what She instinctively is looking for, it usually tends then to be a 6'2"-5" Man. So, in a World where all this is true, Tall Women pass on Men shorter than them; and without knowing; they die a little each time.
@476429
@476429 2 ай бұрын
I'm 5'7". I was rejected by a woman shorter than me specifically because I wasn't over 6' tall. But I've also been pursued by women taller than me. And most of my relationships were with women around my height. Based on my experience, it just depends on the woman. I never thought a 5'11" female high jumper would be interested in me, but she was. And I never thought a woman shorter than me would reject me over my height, but she did. My advice is to take care of yourself, be fit, and present yourself well. There's nothing you can do about your height so don't even give it a second thought. The right ones will like you and the wrong ones won't.
@amfortas
@amfortas 2 ай бұрын
I'm 5'7 and never had a woman say anything to me about height and I've had far too many relationships
@476429
@476429 2 ай бұрын
@@amfortas Yeah, I only had the one woman specifically say I was too short (and she ended up marrying a basketball player). Other than that, it's never been an issue.
@djangomarine6658
@djangomarine6658 2 ай бұрын
​@@amfortasWhere you live makes a huge difference. I'm 5'7" as well and it was not a problem in California, but it's a BIG deal in Texas.
@dansykora2292
@dansykora2292 2 ай бұрын
I've had the same experience - short women have been far more vocal about wanting tall men than average height women.
@arneilmarquez
@arneilmarquez 2 ай бұрын
I think height does play a factor. I've dated mostly girls a bit shorter to shorter than me. But on one date, a girl wore heels and she was a bit taller than me and she apologized about it.
@user-es8zy9zr7t
@user-es8zy9zr7t 8 күн бұрын
There's a book called Height Maximization Protocol Unleashed, and it talks from increasing your height techniques to boosting your height potential, it's the real deal
@siraha4837
@siraha4837 8 күн бұрын
bro do you really blieve you can change your height aftier a certain age
@omnissiah7247
@omnissiah7247 8 күн бұрын
Sure, by a couple of centimetres no doubt with stretches, most coming from the spine decompressing.
@bocelott
@bocelott 7 күн бұрын
@@omnissiah7247 Yeah but those gains are temporary. Like for a few hours temporary.
@jevzi2463
@jevzi2463 6 күн бұрын
just buy platform shoes and maybe a taller hairstyle but thats about it after you finish your growth spurt
@DeusExMachina50
@DeusExMachina50 4 күн бұрын
The only way to increase your height after puberty is with limb lengthening surgery.
@stratosfire1943
@stratosfire1943 2 ай бұрын
Being 5'8' can say it SUPREMELY matters to women
@RojaJaneman
@RojaJaneman 2 ай бұрын
No. Only to American women. It’s not a universal thing. Because here, society KEEPS FREAKIN repeating weird things like “tall, dark, and handsome” as some biblical standard. It’s NOT a real thing. It’s made up. Then entire generations in d last few centuries have been repeating that trash to their kids. It’s a virus. Specific to a single culture. It can b remedied, if and only if, people tried to look outside their bubble and realized that there’s a world out there, and there’s immense beauty and incredible ideas/norms out there. 🙄 There’s a reason y nature prefers variety and connections.
@johnnkurunziza5012
@johnnkurunziza5012 Ай бұрын
5’8 is a lot better than 5’4.
@sarpsays
@sarpsays Ай бұрын
5'8 is not even short at all.. you're taller than most girls, and taller than quite a bit of men still even. I'm 5'8 and literally.. never.. ever had a problem with height in dating. Dated girls shorter taller and around my height. When I go to a club I see plenty of men shorter than me.
@vitorpereira5461
@vitorpereira5461 Ай бұрын
at south america 5'8 is short too, but you can get away. I mean you will be called short but most women dont really care that much. 5'7 below is where the problem resides
@rogerteaminski6351
@rogerteaminski6351 24 күн бұрын
@@sarpsays No, its about average, but logic does not apply to women lol.
@JeffreyWongOfficial
@JeffreyWongOfficial 2 ай бұрын
As a taller guy myself I’ll always stand with my shorter bros and call out height-double standards/hypocracy everytime I hear/sense it from a woman. And it’s funny how easily you can make them see that they mistreated alot of men without realizing it themselfs. One example that I like to use with them is: “What if you could filter bra size in dating apps like bumble/tinder? What if guys would write “only girls with C+” - guess that would create a big outcry by most women, while demanding a height requirement/filter seems to be perfectly fine”
@TheAmericanAmerican
@TheAmericanAmerican Ай бұрын
Heck yes! Literally had this discussion with my wife the other day! I'm 6'2" and I stand with my ShortKings!
@cosmiccatzen
@cosmiccatzen Ай бұрын
lol, we found the tops!
@TheAmericanAmerican
@TheAmericanAmerican Ай бұрын
@@ALLTake-v2p She thought it was a valid comparison.
@BryJovi17
@BryJovi17 8 күн бұрын
The entire western society does not allow you to have this conversation though, that's precisely the point. This example is something the black pill men have raised many many times over the last decade but everyone just bats back the argument with semi-cancel culture stating that everyone saying this is an incel. Women are not allowed to be judged on things outside of their control such as their weight and bra size however, to a very great extent, both those things CAN be controlled. Weight is partly genetics sure, but it's also what you eat and your exercise levels. If you've not been given the best hand of cards genetics wise then you have to put more effort in than those luckier women than you I'm afraid. But stats show that most western women are overweight today (more than 50%), so how can that possibly be genetics when this was not the case 2 generations ago? Bra size, well women can just get plastic surgery to increase this, and it's not ridiculously expensive either, compared to the insane lengths a man would need to go to to have surgery in order to increase his height by a few inches. The operations are incredibly dangerous and long-winded to go through. Women can get their boobs done and healed within a matter of months. How is it logical or fair or KIND for any woman to judge a man based on his height when it is something completely outside of his control...? 🤔
@dwdwone
@dwdwone 44 минут бұрын
Great call. I'm going to remember that.
@jfs5873
@jfs5873 2 ай бұрын
As a short guy I've noticed that the only women who have expressed interest in me were Latinas. They are also the only ones who don't start off conversations by asking for my height
@billnye7625
@billnye7625 Ай бұрын
Take the Latinapill 🗣️🔥🔥
@toasterpastries5811
@toasterpastries5811 Ай бұрын
I'm 5'5" and I can confirm this is accurate. They don't demand extremely high standards for physical attractiveness.
@lotta1517
@lotta1517 19 күн бұрын
Well they are usually also shorter than average women...
@toasterpastries5811
@toasterpastries5811 18 күн бұрын
@@dwdwone because they're just happy to have a Western white man.
@ayoPHREEK
@ayoPHREEK 4 сағат бұрын
One of the many reasons to love Latinas 😂
@burnhamsghost8044
@burnhamsghost8044 2 ай бұрын
I’m 52 years old. I’m my experience, it’s one of the most important things to women.
@fwabble
@fwabble 9 күн бұрын
This is correct.
@studyplatform6486
@studyplatform6486 3 күн бұрын
ᴡʜᴀᴛ's ʏᴏᴜʀ ʜᴇɪɢʜᴛ ʙʀᴏ?
@thomasbuxton2648
@thomasbuxton2648 25 күн бұрын
As a 5’2 guy 31 year old guy who’s been rejected my whole life, ive come to terms with the fact I’ll most likely be alone and die alone. The thing with being a short guy is that women won’t be attracted to you, and many times they don’t know why; it’s at a subconscious level. I haven’t been told point blank, as some people in the comments have mentioned, that I’m too short. However this doenst make matters any better. As I said, a lot of times a lot of women don’t know why they’re not attracted to you. Being a short guy, you’re simply invisible to women in terms of attraction. No matter how great your conversational skills are, most people (women included) will see as you a great, interesting, lively guy to enjoy time, but you’ll never be a romantic/sexual option for them. Even if they’re not “put off” by you, they’ll won’t be “attracted” to you. Their feelings towards you will simply be…neutral. I also dislike it when people say “just be confident.” Confidence makes absolutely no difference if a woman is not initially attracted to you. Confidence cannot manufacture attraction, it simply retains, and increases, attraction that is already there.
@bro918
@bro918 11 күн бұрын
Yeah youre seen as a harmless teddy bear. Or maybe a 'cute' puppy or something. Thats the vibe I get at least
@vinipcplayer
@vinipcplayer 6 күн бұрын
go to asia
@APR702
@APR702 5 күн бұрын
You gotta get the shoes that have some big soles and go after the girls who are 4”11 5-1” and you’ll get one baby don’t quit
@ryanlee6291
@ryanlee6291 5 күн бұрын
I'm also 5'2 33 years old. I get laid pretty often so I'd like to debunk that myth right now. I also do a lot of testosterone and people say I have a nice face/teeth. Hairline is about toast tho lmao. But being jacked I feel has put me easily in the top 10%, I always have 150+ matches on tinder and live in a medium sized city. I have fucked girls 6' tall. IDK what particular advice I can give but I can tell you that height is just one part of the equation. Being short isn't a death sentence, I'd get that mentality out of your head. I did it too when I was young and it's a downward spiral if you ruminate on the thought of not being worthy because of your height.
@JWStreeter
@JWStreeter 4 күн бұрын
​@@APR702shorter women actually often want a taller man even more, because of how vulnerable they feel
@donh1572
@donh1572 2 ай бұрын
I switched my dating profile from 5’11” to 6’ and my matches went up dramatically
@amfortas
@amfortas 2 ай бұрын
Doubt
@donh1572
@donh1572 2 ай бұрын
@@amfortas don’t care what you think
@eat_ze_bugs
@eat_ze_bugs 2 ай бұрын
If you put 5'12" women would probably still think you're too short
@donh1572
@donh1572 2 ай бұрын
@@eat_ze_bugs there is truth in that
@user-ok8mz5pn2d
@user-ok8mz5pn2d 2 ай бұрын
I did and immediately got more likes/matches as well
@jaythakkar2558
@jaythakkar2558 2 ай бұрын
nah tall women got it so much easier than short men, the "tall girl problem" is that they want to find a guy taller than them and rejecting dudes that are around her height/shorter, sounds privileged asf
@yellowwall3471
@yellowwall3471 2 ай бұрын
Not true, in my school tall girls and when I say tall I mean around 173-177 date guys that as much as them or just slightly more or even shorter guys.
@lightningbolt4419
@lightningbolt4419 Ай бұрын
@@yellowwall3471cause there are only so many chads above 6ft
@yellowwall3471
@yellowwall3471 Ай бұрын
@lightningbolt4419 its genuine relationships. Height is not the number one thing women look for in a man here in Greece. This 6ft BS is something of an issue in the US as far as I am concerned.
@Fleischgewordener_Sterbehelfer
@Fleischgewordener_Sterbehelfer Ай бұрын
​@@yellowwall3471Yeah but they date and she short guys dont. Who has it worse?
@SaturnFrost
@SaturnFrost Ай бұрын
Exactly, tall girl problem is just tall women suffering from Hypergamy. It's not men rejecting them, its them doing what most women of all heights do, limiting their options.
@perzonne6302
@perzonne6302 2 ай бұрын
I met a woman online and picked her up in my mustang once, and we had a great time talking and driving around and smoking for 3 hours. She was smiling the whole time and even felt up on my leg and body. Then we got out of the car and she saw i was 5'7 and all the color disappeared from her face. She went "ohh wow ur short....". Then we walked up to the front of the bar and she suddenly said 'i dont feel like going out anymore, just take me home', and i never heard from her again. So yeah😂 ive had multiple situations like that one where every other variable is removed and women love me, and then my height enters the equation and women dip and i never hear from them again
@gj9157
@gj9157 2 ай бұрын
Clown world
@BWater-yq3jx
@BWater-yq3jx 2 ай бұрын
So you picked her up from the kerb? I mean how did you never get out of your car?
@Cordexx
@Cordexx 2 ай бұрын
that's terrible. its insane how women can do that but when its about weight, if u even MENTION weight ur instantly evil and mysoganistic. like image u saw a girl you were going out with, and she had a condition so no matter what she did she couldn't loose the weight, and u still said, "Wow... your really fat." even though she COULDNT change it.
@perzonne6302
@perzonne6302 2 ай бұрын
@@BWater-yq3jx I pulled up to her house, texted 'Im here', and she came out and got in passenger. We were actually supposed to head straight to the bar, but instead she just started talking to me and we found a shady spot and chilled for an hour. Then we picked up some green and she got out and bought it and came back. So yeah all in all I didn't actually step out my side for a few hours
@perzonne6302
@perzonne6302 2 ай бұрын
@@BWater-yq3jx I pulled up to her house, texted 'Im here', and she came out and got in passenger. We were actually supposed to head straight to the bar, but instead she just started talking to me and we found a shady spot and chilled for an hour. Then we picked up some green and she got out and bought it and came back. So yeah all in all I didn't actually step out my side for a few hours
@rynegade
@rynegade 2 ай бұрын
My wife kept referring to me as short. I am not particularly short, but I am shorter than average. I am taller than 37% of American males. After years of just taking it, when she was pregnant and distressing that our children will be short (and implying it's due to my lineage), I laughingly and annoyed calculated that she was actually only in the 16th percentile for American females and that she was the one significantly bringing down the average. She no longer calls me short.
@jcronin3155
@jcronin3155 2 ай бұрын
She has no respect for you if she kept on emasculating you like that.
@rafaelmartinelli9377
@rafaelmartinelli9377 2 ай бұрын
There is no such thing as "height gene"...
@flacjacket
@flacjacket 2 ай бұрын
​​@@rafaelmartinelli9377of course there is, what are you smoking? Of the 11 men across three generations on my moms side one is 5'8", one is 6'0" and the other 9 are between 6'3"-6'6". You dont randomly get 9 people in the 99th percentile in one family, height is absolutely heritable.
@rafaelmartinelli9377
@rafaelmartinelli9377 2 ай бұрын
@@flacjacket No its not, genetics is one of several other factors that determine an individual’s height. My cousin's parents are below average in terms of height, and he ended up being almost the double of their size, and i saw this happen to several other people. I suggest you stop consuming this "red pill" trash and study a little.
@benitocamela174
@benitocamela174 2 ай бұрын
​@@rafaelmartinelli9377genetics is most definitely the number one determinant in height, either your friend has a secret father or his grandparents are taller. There is no "height gene", it's a combination of genes that will determine your height. The parents could have had lifestyles or a condition while growing up that didn't allow them to reach their maximum intended height (this has happened to a family member)
@bimotavdue4129
@bimotavdue4129 2 ай бұрын
Next week "How much do men ACTUALLY care about weight"?
@stevecooper7883
@stevecooper7883 2 ай бұрын
And weight is temporary, height is essentially unchangeable lol
@mikelitorous5570
@mikelitorous5570 2 ай бұрын
Men don’t care about weight as much as they care about body fat %. Some women especially girls who are into their fitness could weigh more than men simply because of genetic factors. Yet their body fat percentage will be very normal. I dated a girl who’s 5 10 when I’m 6 foot and she probably weighed more than me even tho she had a low body fat percentage (Curvy, plus had very big legs)
@sheadoherty7434
@sheadoherty7434 2 ай бұрын
Funny enough men don't care about weight that much. We care much more about what that weight is made of and how you wear it
@blacklyfe5543
@blacklyfe5543 2 ай бұрын
A lot
@blacklyfe5543
@blacklyfe5543 2 ай бұрын
A lot of men care about weight. Most men don't want to date a woman who is obese or overweight.
@naisyjohns
@naisyjohns 2 ай бұрын
Short Answer: Yes
@chrisallwhite
@chrisallwhite 2 ай бұрын
Long story short: Yes
@naisyjohns
@naisyjohns 2 ай бұрын
@@chrisallwhite .......you got the pun, right?
@XxDrAgOnXSwAgxX
@XxDrAgOnXSwAgxX 2 ай бұрын
@@naisyjohnsit was a good pookie
@ricardoge96
@ricardoge96 2 ай бұрын
Long answer: Yes it does, but who cares
@phillipsnichole2857
@phillipsnichole2857 2 ай бұрын
Shorter answer: no
@jeremyg591
@jeremyg591 2 ай бұрын
Incels are largely right about their observations on human sexual behavior.
@Copy725
@Copy725 2 ай бұрын
Always have been about a lot of things
@Arejen03
@Arejen03 Ай бұрын
its not not what the mainstream wants to hear thats why they are shamed. Man without hope and purpose are the most dangerous man for society so they need to keep the narrative that height doesnt matter.
@MrOndra15
@MrOndra15 Ай бұрын
Yeah because of scientists who actually study the topic lol but people still deny a lot of the stuff even though data supports the incel theories :D
@153ridzzzz
@153ridzzzz Ай бұрын
Thats because the blackpill is based on science and academical statistics. People will deny it however because they just cant face the truth and are scared that it will mess with their fantasy of a 'just' world.
@Chud-mb7gl
@Chud-mb7gl Ай бұрын
​@@MrOndra15incel theory: women are attracted to men who aren't ugly and not attracted to men who are ugly ie incels
@Telcontar86
@Telcontar86 Ай бұрын
"Tall girl problem" is that tall girls have a hard time finding men taller than them, and a lot of the shorter guys they've dated are either insecure about the height difference or, if he actually isn't, she's convinced that he is based off her previous relationships. I'm 5'7" and have dated taller, shorter and the same height as me, makes no difference at all to me as long as we click
@oicrusader2143
@oicrusader2143 5 сағат бұрын
Nice pfp
@garydossett6688
@garydossett6688 2 ай бұрын
Every woman who asks for a dude over 6’ needs to show up to the date with a scale they’re willing to step on. Dudes will wait.
@alexisc7565
@alexisc7565 2 ай бұрын
Won't happen. Stay mad lol
@garydossett6688
@garydossett6688 2 ай бұрын
@alexisc7565 we know it won’t happen cause that would require women to be accountable. Tisk tisk sweetheart.
@natalia_00123
@natalia_00123 2 ай бұрын
No problems
@thedog5k
@thedog5k Ай бұрын
@@garydossett6688 It also requires men to hold women accountable, which wont happen.
@serenityjewel
@serenityjewel Ай бұрын
Have you seen men nowadays? They need to bring their own scale and a tape measurer.
@truthlemonade9793
@truthlemonade9793 2 ай бұрын
I have a hard time believing that tall women have it worse than short men in the dating market. The average male height on dating apps is 6'1? Why? Dating app users probably skew younger, so taller. Men are likely to lie about their heights. The shortest men are likely to not even bother with dating apps.
@michaelangst6078
@michaelangst6078 Ай бұрын
Women on dating apps swipe left and right the vast majority of the time based on facial attractiveness. Sure, some women will not match a dude because he is not 6 feet, but that is a small percentage of women.. Dudes with attractive faces also have a way better chance of that women actually meeting him and taking it serious... Average face guys that list themselves as 6'4 and receive matches may talk with the women for a bit, but the woman is way more likely to be hesitant to actually meet him
@drewg7441
@drewg7441 Ай бұрын
Most women set their height filter at 6', so they wouldn't even see the face of a man under that height.
@alexal8088
@alexal8088 Күн бұрын
@@michaelangst6078 that's not what the data shows
@AJ-HawksToxicFinger
@AJ-HawksToxicFinger 2 ай бұрын
I don't have a problem women preferring taller men, especially women who are tall themselves or even just developed early so they were 'bigger' than the boys in grade school. I get that. The 4'11 woman who wants a 6'3 man, now that is ridiculous.... BTW - this prejudice extends to board rooms as well. An 'Executive' under 6' is not a Unicorn but still pretty damn rare
@BenjaminBadbrother
@BenjaminBadbrother 2 ай бұрын
It's probably not a direct prejudice but a vicious or virtuous cycle. The child that grows up tall gets rewarded, encouraged, and has advantages for opportunities which leads to further opportunities and advantages. The opposite being true for exceptionally short people. This is a systemic part of the culture. This has lead to a strong correlation that height greatly predicts the winner of presidential races. Which has led some candidates, possibly Desantis, to wear lifts and special shoes.
@New_Identity
@New_Identity 2 ай бұрын
It's nature. A lion doesn't have to prove it's a lion. As a very tall guy, I don't have anything to prove besides my ability to fit in small spaces. There isn't much I can't learn that requires physical skills, I don't ever have to worry about someone picking a fight with me, and I'm naturally decent at public speaking due to thousands of strangers asking me how tall I am each year and even more than that staring at me everywhere I go. Tall w/ short is the ultimate "opposites attract". My fiancé and I have a 21" height difference. I always felt odd walking with a really tall girl. I think it's amazing that they are tall but it's never been for me.
@RibeyesteakSachertorte
@RibeyesteakSachertorte 2 ай бұрын
@@New_Identity out of interest, how tall?
@gj9157
@gj9157 2 ай бұрын
​@BenjaminBadbrother Yeah it's just a positive feedback loop.
@New_Identity
@New_Identity 2 ай бұрын
@@RibeyesteakSachertorte 6'9
@itsthed5951
@itsthed5951 2 ай бұрын
Good morning to all you short kings, finally Chris has asked the real questions.
@perzonne6302
@perzonne6302 2 ай бұрын
calling urself a "short king" is where u start losing
@mark9294
@mark9294 2 ай бұрын
@@perzonne6302how so? I think males could definitely do with some positivity and mutual affirmation
@loverofhumanity
@loverofhumanity 2 ай бұрын
@@mark9294 that's not positivity. That's actually a negative patronizing label. I genuinely find it weird when people use that label. As if your calling someone not a real king. No he's not a king, he must have that short attached to him because this is how we see him.
@gillroygarlic3616
@gillroygarlic3616 2 ай бұрын
I agree; short isn’t something to really be proud of like being fat. Women use the bbw, to be delusional. Men shouldn’t be delusional . being short is unfortunate but also a trial in life a strong man can flourish in being.
@perzonne6302
@perzonne6302 Ай бұрын
@@mark9294 if you keep that up all you'll have is positive affirmation from other males😂
@jurgen951
@jurgen951 2 ай бұрын
I wonder if the imperial system being in feet/inches is the reason to such a high threshold of 6 foot (183cm), mainly being a round number. In the metric world, I would say 180cm (5ft 11) is more often the threshold for a lot of women.
@max-cs4pz
@max-cs4pz 2 ай бұрын
This is exactly the crazy thing. The biggest cutoff criterium is a arbitrary round number…. In most of europe the biggest cutoff is 180cm and in US it is 6ft. While in many eiropean countries the average height is more than in the US.
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 Ай бұрын
Well said
@User40919
@User40919 12 күн бұрын
That's true. In most countries that use the metric system 180 cm is the threshold for women. Anything below that is a failure and anything above is success.
@Llama_charmer
@Llama_charmer 16 сағат бұрын
Thats an interesting idea actually, probably has some merit
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 11 сағат бұрын
@@jurgen951 it matches "6 pack, 6 figures, etc.
@Victor_Andrei
@Victor_Andrei 2 ай бұрын
I'm 6'2" and I absolutely refuse to share this information to see if that'll put them off.
@greatcesari
@greatcesari 2 ай бұрын
6’3 and have never used a dating app (probably never will), but if I did I wouldn’t share this information because I wouldn’t want to attract superficial women who care about height.
@AlmostlessThanHuman
@AlmostlessThanHuman 2 ай бұрын
@@greatcesari bro you think you're not attracting women superficially through your height in real life lol even more so brother
@TopTickJack
@TopTickJack Ай бұрын
@@greatcesarisorry bro but this doesn’t make sense, unless you completely like a woman based off solely personality. I mean it’s like being super good looking and saying I’m not posting my face bc i don’t want people to want me for my face
@rosezingleman5007
@rosezingleman5007 2 ай бұрын
Our family are all tall, but one of our daughters met a guy in college who is only 5’4”. They have three teenagers now, including a short son. She never considered it an issue, thankfully.
@Aspire705
@Aspire705 2 ай бұрын
So is the son shorter than his mom? That'd be super interesting to see because I read somewhere that it's biologically very rare for a son to be shorter than his mom unless he was extremely malnourished growing up or he had a growth disorder or something.
@gj9157
@gj9157 2 ай бұрын
Poor son, hopefully he grows up.
@AlmostlessThanHuman
@AlmostlessThanHuman 2 ай бұрын
R.I.P to the son
@Jeremy-ql1or
@Jeremy-ql1or 2 ай бұрын
"She never considered it an issue, thankfully." When your daughter's son starts to find himself constantly rejected and it starts to effect him emotionally, she will realize it is an issue.
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 Ай бұрын
Thays an outlier. 5 ft 4 is very short.
@alexandercluster3003
@alexandercluster3003 2 ай бұрын
Anyone who says it doesn’t matter has NOT been a single man in his 30’s. It not only matters it is most women’s absolutly a women’s number one requirement.
@jeanbob1481
@jeanbob1481 Ай бұрын
agreed always have been the full package except five foot 5. Pretty accomplished but no women ever wanted anything from me.
@pap4539
@pap4539 13 күн бұрын
I get plenty of interest at 5'7" in my 30's as a single dude
@alexandercluster3003
@alexandercluster3003 13 күн бұрын
@@pap4539 I’m married but that doesn’t mean dating wasent way harder for me then a guy who is 6’5
@PapaPablo-ok4u
@PapaPablo-ok4u 2 ай бұрын
I'm looking for a woman under 160 pounds without kids.....impossible.
@restingsmirkface
@restingsmirkface 2 ай бұрын
The answer according to every girl I've dated or even been close friends with is yes.
@DarkMatterScoot
@DarkMatterScoot 2 ай бұрын
Definitely a difference between online preferences and who women are actually attracted to in person.
@anisenkrill6179
@anisenkrill6179 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely. 6'-1" typed in your profile and displayed in tiny font on a 4" screen is a whole lot different than 6'-1" standing two feet in front of the girl.
@murphymacken
@murphymacken 2 ай бұрын
Agree; 5'11" IRL is quite tall, but even that's discriminated against online.
@phillipsnichole2857
@phillipsnichole2857 2 ай бұрын
Short King pulls for a reason. Personality transcends everything.
@AlmostlessThanHuman
@AlmostlessThanHuman 2 ай бұрын
No difference between real life and online lol women are overwhelmingly attracted to taller men
@xjoemallardx
@xjoemallardx Ай бұрын
I have a friend that literally told me that she only wants someone 6 ft or taller.
@kc270352
@kc270352 2 ай бұрын
why we still asking these questions, YES they do
@freeottis
@freeottis 2 ай бұрын
Because we still hope it’s not true for some reason
@kc270352
@kc270352 2 ай бұрын
@freeottis women want to feel protected by their man, it's not rocket science 🙄
@gj9157
@gj9157 2 ай бұрын
What we should be asking is, why do so many refuse to accept it?
@Bass20HZobsession
@Bass20HZobsession 2 ай бұрын
every day another boy turns 18 and needs to learn this
@joe42m13
@joe42m13 2 ай бұрын
If you're maximizing looks, you're likely to attract people who's highest value is looks. Become a competent, well rounded person and you'll probably start finding the same
@freeottis
@freeottis 2 ай бұрын
“The same” meaning people who value looks?
@stevecooper7883
@stevecooper7883 2 ай бұрын
​@@freeottis😅 life lesson
@CodeNameCheese_
@CodeNameCheese_ 2 ай бұрын
@@freeottis it's human nature to value looks lol
@TheDallasDwayne
@TheDallasDwayne 2 ай бұрын
Based answer.
@TheRealHerbaSchmurba
@TheRealHerbaSchmurba 2 ай бұрын
People want looks not smart competent well rounded people. Did you not think about that before typing?
@eatonh
@eatonh 2 ай бұрын
Would be interesting to have a jubilee-style video where girls guess random guys' heights. I wonder if most girls think 5’10” is 6 ft because of how 6’ is treated as normal height.
@hs-fu6qt
@hs-fu6qt 16 күн бұрын
That's because most of 5'10guys say they r 6 so girls r conceived guys height that way 😂
@DavidBruceChadington
@DavidBruceChadington 2 ай бұрын
*Main Points* *1.* _Multiple Studies show that women prefer a certain amount of height. ''Not too short and not too tall''_ *2.* _The difference between 5.4ft and 5.8ft seems to be a big deal_ *3.* _Then it starts to taper off around 6.1ft_ *4.* _Women mostly prefer a men that is taller than them._ *5.* _The Tall Girl Problem= Taller Girls have a rougher time on the dating market._ *6.* _Educated Women are more married and less divorced than less educated women._ *7.* _Things get better. In Europe, women are becoming more and more willing to date hypogamously so we're seeing much more of these pattern where super educated women_ _are like ''You know what? Sexy plumber, sexy firefighter. Let's have it_ 😍 *Funfact:* *_The average male american height is 5.9, but on dating apps 6.1 (But it is not 100% researched)_* *Sidenote:* *_These studies looked mainly at ONLINE preferences._* *_And a preference, is just a preference after all_*
@stevecooper7883
@stevecooper7883 2 ай бұрын
More fun facts: in the western half of the US, men are taller than East of the Mississippi River. In my home state of Utah, the average male height is just under 5'11''!
@Cordexx
@Cordexx 2 ай бұрын
@@stevecooper7883 same i live in minnesota and the average height here for young men spesifically (age 18 to 25) is 5,11.
@mudblood9699
@mudblood9699 2 ай бұрын
College educated women initiate divorce more often than non college educated women.
@badart3204
@badart3204 2 ай бұрын
@@stevecooper7883east coast has more Southern European lineage so that makes sense
@liveforever4190
@liveforever4190 2 ай бұрын
Exactly. It's just a preference, but not a requirement. I can't tell you how many guys I see with beautiful women who are considerably shorter than me, and I'm a little over 5'10". If it was that strict, none of these guys would have girlfriends or wives, let alone attractive ones with great personalities. In real life, many other factors can outweigh a lack of tallness (and please, it's not just wealth, although sure it helps; work on everything else first, get some dating experience, and then tell me all they're looking for is height and wealth). It's similar to how we all prefer women with say, a more generous posterior or bust, or a beautiful face, but plenty of us would be willing to date a thinner girl, or even a girl who's pretty but isn't stunning (I can't tell you how many times I've found a girl beautiful who would not make the cut for a modeling gig, but I still found her very pretty; they're not ugly, just not stunning - you know the phenomenon I'm talking about brother,), if she had a lot of other qualities we valued, and it happens every day. It's the same for women in my experience. They don't value the same things we do mind you, but they're willing to make a trade off for other qualities they want. Build yourself up in those areas, make yourself valuable, and height won't prevent you from finding someone to share your life with, not working on those other factors will. Just look around and tell me with a straight face that shorter than average men can't be with great women, and that all women only get romantically involved with 6 foot rich guys. Exactly.
@katemaura1545
@katemaura1545 2 ай бұрын
Interestingly I also thought I would marry a guy that was taller than me. Part of this assumption was most likely due to my dad being 6'1" and my mom being 5'2". I'm 5'6" and my husband is 5'6" as well. Personality was much more meaningful than height.
@turtle-ot2qc
@turtle-ot2qc Ай бұрын
​@@ALLTake-v2pJesus loves you 💓
@ghomood
@ghomood 6 сағат бұрын
personality is just a cope
@wild_seabass
@wild_seabass Ай бұрын
Height matters. However, if you're getting rejected at average height, it's most likely that she doesn't find you attractive but citing height is a gentler form of rejection than telling him he's unattractive. Unless they're also tall themselves, most women can't even visually distinguish heights between the 5'10"-6'0" range
@jeanbob1481
@jeanbob1481 Ай бұрын
Nah some of us saw it in real time : Hitting it off really well but once she realize you are short she excuses herself. Like you are sitting or in a car and once you stand up the whole dynamic changes.
@marmolejomartinezjoseemili9043
@marmolejomartinezjoseemili9043 Ай бұрын
@@jeanbob1481 But how often is that, and whats your height?
@blacklyfe6881
@blacklyfe6881 Ай бұрын
I'm 5'11
@Llama_charmer
@Llama_charmer 15 сағат бұрын
I have a friend who is about 5'7-5'8. Relatively attractive, in good shape, dresses well. The other 3 in our friend group (including me) are between 6ft and 6'4. He has far more success than any of the rest of us. Its happened right in front of us before. He's gotten 4 or 5 girls phone numbers while out with us. But here's the kicker, hes easily the most confident and outgoing of us all. Really good at flirting and has mastered the ability to read people and ride the line between flirty and inappropriate. Atleast take comfort knowing that any girl who would prioritize your height over any other characteristics wasnt worth dating anyway.
@yoloswag4204lyfe
@yoloswag4204lyfe 2 ай бұрын
Everyone bases their experience off of dating apps. I am 5'10, I didn't start struggling with dating at all until 2015 when dating apps started really taking off and I started using them way too much myself. Any "struggles" I did have before then were my own fault. Stop trying to use dating apps to find dates and anyone would have much more success. If dating apps weren't so commonly used now we would be having a lot less of these conversations and videos
@gj9157
@gj9157 2 ай бұрын
How about the guys who do have success on dating apps?
@yoloswag4204lyfe
@yoloswag4204lyfe 2 ай бұрын
@@gj9157You mean the 28-30 year old 6’2 chad models that are .05% of the population? Sure they will have it easy on dating apps
@TurnOntheBrightLights.
@TurnOntheBrightLights. 2 ай бұрын
If a woman prioritizes height, move on to other quality women. I'm taller than average and it still annoys me 😅
@freeottis
@freeottis 2 ай бұрын
You’re taller than average so you don’t know what it’s like
@ginobenedetto4943
@ginobenedetto4943 2 ай бұрын
@@freeottisI’m 5’6 and even I can empathize with him dude. I get turned down because I’m short, that’s fine. But when someone likes me, I’m confident they like me for me. He has to deal with shallow women who may only be interested in his height, and people are much more than that.
@TurnOntheBrightLights.
@TurnOntheBrightLights. 2 ай бұрын
@@freeottis Right, but it doesn't mean I have to entertain a woman's idea of meeting a minimum preferable height. Even if I was short or average, this is the same mindset I'd have.
@TurnOntheBrightLights.
@TurnOntheBrightLights. 2 ай бұрын
@@themacocko6311 Height is out of one's control; weight largely isn't.
@AlmostlessThanHuman
@AlmostlessThanHuman 2 ай бұрын
Good luck finding one that doesn't care if you're 5'3
@drjay182
@drjay182 2 ай бұрын
I used to get a pretty regular amount of matches on bumble before they forced to add your height. I added my height (5’9”) and my matches dropped to zero
@AngelofJustice412
@AngelofJustice412 2 ай бұрын
The fact that bumble, an app that prioritizes women’s wants and needs (or at least claims to), mandated that users list their height says all you need to know
@drjay182
@drjay182 2 ай бұрын
@@AngelofJustice412 yeah, I deleted it several years ago Also, I remember many years ago on bumble males could search for “body types” (eg. Athletic, curvy, etc). But they took that function out and kept height I guess it is an app made for … obese girls that are attracted to guys 6’ or taller 🤷‍♂️
@Jeremy-ql1or
@Jeremy-ql1or 2 ай бұрын
@@themacocko6311 That was true a few years ago but now most women have used dating apps. Once they have, they take all that superficial stuff into the real world. So once they do "Under 6' swipe left" online, they start doing that in the real world.
@Arejen03
@Arejen03 Ай бұрын
Im 5'7 my dating app times i was a ghost.
@marmolejomartinezjoseemili9043
@marmolejomartinezjoseemili9043 Ай бұрын
thats mostly because of people on those apps, maybe use diferent apps or try to do the (admitedly dificult) thing of just meeting women in real life
@name-vi6fs
@name-vi6fs 2 ай бұрын
It depends on the culture. In the US and UK, a lot. In Germany, not as much. The men are still taller, but the women are surprisingly tall.
@thomass07.
@thomass07. 6 күн бұрын
Bro germany is going crazy. I'm 5'11 and i've been called several times that i'm short.
@Yoshualove69
@Yoshualove69 16 күн бұрын
I'm 5'2. I accept being alone
@IrinaZhygalyk
@IrinaZhygalyk 2 ай бұрын
I’m dating a man who’s just a bit taller than me. It really doesn’t matter that much if you find someone attractive and interesting enough to go on a first date with.
@brownwhale5518
@brownwhale5518 2 ай бұрын
Height has few if any underlying signals about behaviors and health. Weight can signal underlying issues concerning behaviors and health.
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 Ай бұрын
No, but tymhe chances of having "tall sons" is higher with the tal guy. It's genetics and it's built into women.
@janetmcguffey1394
@janetmcguffey1394 2 ай бұрын
a taller man does catch my attention..BUT acouple of my biggest crushes were confident guys with personality to spare- both about my height (5'5")....
@kitkakitteh
@kitkakitteh 2 ай бұрын
Agree, I did the same thing for the same reason: the confidence and his ability to set boundaries taught me so much. ❤
@gj9157
@gj9157 2 ай бұрын
Can't out win a confident tall guy though.
@danmarinho1403
@danmarinho1403 2 ай бұрын
​@@gj9157Can with a lesser facially attractive taller guy tho
@Manolothekid
@Manolothekid 2 ай бұрын
Chris Williamson, are you the one that does the voice for Wojak?
@TungTran-pp3tx
@TungTran-pp3tx Ай бұрын
I am very short 5’3. When I was younger, I wished I was taller to attract more girls. My saving grace is I am not ugly…about average looks. Now I am way older, married with children, I focus on making money, raising a family, and take care of myself.
@risegaming2047
@risegaming2047 Күн бұрын
How many men was your wife with before you?
@Leefortvna
@Leefortvna Күн бұрын
@@risegaming2047this is the questions that’s never asked or answered
@theiberianbadger0123
@theiberianbadger0123 Ай бұрын
I’ve lost count how many times I’ve been rejected solely on my height. That’s literally been the sole deal breaker for so many women.
@marmolejomartinezjoseemili9043
@marmolejomartinezjoseemili9043 Ай бұрын
how do you know though? with a good ceirtanty?
@tempsoda
@tempsoda 2 ай бұрын
I think the problem is that in real life its just a preference, or 'in an ideal world he would be X' but if you get to know someone who's values and personality gel well with your own, it's easily overlooked. However online, where you're just literally checking boxes to narrow down options, those connections are missed because of some arbitrary metric that has no bearing on the relationship whatsoever.
@gj9157
@gj9157 2 ай бұрын
Or they just have too many options to choose from.
@tempsoda
@tempsoda 2 ай бұрын
@@gj9157 online they do, I don't think they have any more options in real life than any other time.
@AlmostlessThanHuman
@AlmostlessThanHuman 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely false height is the most important thing to women online or not
@tempsoda
@tempsoda 2 ай бұрын
@@AlmostlessThanHuman if that were true there wouldn't be any short men in relationships would there? I can think of some well known short men that seem pretty happily married as well as normal guys I know in real life, and most people will.
@gj9157
@gj9157 2 ай бұрын
@tempsoda Most aren't actually, most short men are excluded from the dating pool.
@Jakensik
@Jakensik 29 күн бұрын
it's not over, it began
@lukas-personal
@lukas-personal 2 ай бұрын
I am 10 feet tall and I can say, yes they do
@andrewrai5752
@andrewrai5752 2 ай бұрын
I doubt you get diminished returns after just 6’1” maybe 7’1”
@michaelangst6078
@michaelangst6078 Ай бұрын
Very true. I'm pretty sure women the vast majority of women left swipe on average faced dudes that are 6'4 all day, but if they see him listed as 6'8, quite an alarming percentage of women would match if his face is at least decent..
@Scriabinfan593
@Scriabinfan593 2 ай бұрын
My mom is 4’11 and my dad is 6’1.
@helmeteye
@helmeteye 2 ай бұрын
5'6, Wife is 5'2. With that being said, I've always thought 5'8 and up are my preference.
@Hazardlv
@Hazardlv Ай бұрын
Im 20ft11 and i gotta admit sometimes its a struggle😢
@kevinwilson7318
@kevinwilson7318 18 күн бұрын
1:43 5’4” is a lot more than just a “bit”of a problem, it’s a HUGE problem. I firmly believe that nowadays if you are under 5’7” in the West it’s basically a dealbreaker for 90%+ of women.
@fiat_ow7876
@fiat_ow7876 15 күн бұрын
I think that number is slightly low. 5'7 would be around 95%, and 5'6 would be into the 98, and then every inch below that creeps up to 100% from 99. 5'3 would be around 99.8%
@kevinwilson7318
@kevinwilson7318 15 күн бұрын
@@fiat_ow7876 I agree. Especially when it comes to legitimately attractive women. Since they know they have a lot of options 5’7” or shorter would probably be a dealbreaker to 99.9% of them lmao
@fiat_ow7876
@fiat_ow7876 15 күн бұрын
@@kevinwilson7318 Yeah it’s insanity man. This definitely was not an issue 30 years ago to this extent.
@kevinwilson7318
@kevinwilson7318 15 күн бұрын
@@fiat_ow7876 I fully blame dating apps and social media platforms for this because: A) It makes the top 10% of men way more accessible to women. B) All of the horny men and simps women get attention from on social media and dating apps has definitely inflated their egos and made them feel worthy of these ridiculous standards. I’d say 6’2”+ is ideally where you want to be at nowadays. 6’0”-6’1” is still solid, but even at this height you’re going to need a face and body that are considerably above average.
@kevinwilson7318
@kevinwilson7318 11 күн бұрын
@@fiat_ow7876 yeah, I fully blame dating apps, the internet, and social media
@diegoayala634
@diegoayala634 2 ай бұрын
5’10 gang
@chuch541
@chuch541 2 ай бұрын
5’11 gang burntOrangepill
@realAdamClinch
@realAdamClinch Ай бұрын
I'm 5'7 and I do just fine, but that's based on what I personally want. if my goal was to get tons and tons of hookups, then maybe I'd feel like a failure lol but that never brought me any happiness anyway. my thing is, what's the point if it doesn't become special? why hook up if I'm not gonna see her again? I've always preferred building something emotional and substantive, even if that means waiting or getting my heart beat up a few times in the process. and that's because I'm happy with the rest of my life, so I can fall back and recover pretty well when things don't work out.
@thecrymble2646
@thecrymble2646 2 ай бұрын
His Cap looks nice, does someone know the brand
@dwdwone
@dwdwone Ай бұрын
Im 5'2" and have to admit, my options when dating were limited. Now im old and it doesn't matter any more, but when i cared, it did a lot. Women instinctively want to feel small.
@bro918
@bro918 11 күн бұрын
Wait so did you find someone eventually? Or forced to give up
@dwdwone
@dwdwone 11 күн бұрын
@@bro918 I used various "tricks" which made it easier. It was still difficult but not nearly as bad as before. I've had a number of relationships so I guess you could say I did OK.
@bro918
@bro918 11 күн бұрын
@@dwdwone damn, brutal, glad you had some success
@Es97Coqui
@Es97Coqui 3 күн бұрын
Kids? I’m 26 standing at 5’3 and apparently it’s f’ing “unethical” for guys like us to have kids because our kids will be short and suffer the same fate as us.
@dwdwone
@dwdwone 3 күн бұрын
​@Es97Coqui I've got two. My son is 5'7" and my wife was 5'5. Genetics have a funny way of working things out.
@user-zs1fr7im6l
@user-zs1fr7im6l 2 ай бұрын
Only 14.5 percent of men in America are over 6'0" ! And most are lying about being six feet tall LOLOLOLOL. At a true 6'4" and a 1/4 women really don't know how tall I am !
@hs-fu6qt
@hs-fu6qt 16 күн бұрын
Women might think u r 7'lol
@Butlins14
@Butlins14 Ай бұрын
I see so many 8+ women going with 5"8-5"10 men usually boy band lookalikes
@Deac0n_Blues
@Deac0n_Blues 2 ай бұрын
So as a 5'3 (160cm), what am I supposed to do?
@patnor7354
@patnor7354 2 ай бұрын
Get a passport. Sixpack and six figures help as well.
@T-Hawkeyes
@T-Hawkeyes 2 ай бұрын
As a shorter guy, I can tell you, you gotta find a shorter girl. It’s math.
@user-ch6wv7mf2x
@user-ch6wv7mf2x 2 ай бұрын
😊😊😊
@flch95
@flch95 2 ай бұрын
And then you see a 5’1 girl with a 6’4 guy and think, “man….of all the ones you picked” lol.
@joe42m13
@joe42m13 2 ай бұрын
I'm 5'6, but I've dated girls from 5'2 to 5'10. Having personality can help, but having insecurity definitely hurts
@nicimie
@nicimie 2 ай бұрын
Sorry can I ask how tall you are? 😁 as in when would a guy call himself short
@T-Hawkeyes
@T-Hawkeyes 2 ай бұрын
@@nicimie5’7.348”, but I’m not counting 👀
@jonathanjoestar275
@jonathanjoestar275 2 ай бұрын
From the naked eye. 5'10-6'0 almost looks the same, it's crazy 😭.
@kitkakitteh
@kitkakitteh 2 ай бұрын
Nah, it doesn’t. But maybe. But it also doesn’t matter ❤
@fmcdomer
@fmcdomer 2 ай бұрын
So women with 6' minimum filters Are missing out on all the 5.9" 5.10" 5.11" Who could be a better match or a billionaire lol
@erik4177
@erik4177 2 ай бұрын
@@kitkakitteh „Yes but no, also it doesn’t matter.“ Thanks for the input 😂
@gj9157
@gj9157 2 ай бұрын
​@@kitkakittehSo it does matter.. lol
@neilt6480
@neilt6480 2 ай бұрын
In actuality, you're probably right. But I reckon that women have come to this number because they look at a guy's relative height. 5'10 looks a lot different to 6'0 when they're standing next to each other.
@EddyMarvelous
@EddyMarvelous Ай бұрын
I'm 5 7 never had a problem getting girls. I'm sure I've been filtered out by a lot of girls but I'm 32 with a BC of 30+ including a 5 year monogamous relationship and multiple 2 years. I think it helps I stay in shape and train combat sports
@johncraven7864
@johncraven7864 2 ай бұрын
I switched my profile height from 6’2 to 6’3 and still don’t get any matches
@stevecooper7883
@stevecooper7883 2 ай бұрын
That's essentially no difference. There's diminishing returns after 6'1''
@NoName-qs7ed
@NoName-qs7ed 2 ай бұрын
Ya fr
@csack7904
@csack7904 2 ай бұрын
I've listed myself as 6'3-6'4 on a dating app before. 6'8 seems to intimidate the ladies. Not so much in person, but on paper they seem to think 6'8 YIKES
@MarylandGuy-ey3st
@MarylandGuy-ey3st Ай бұрын
You got a niche market though
@cseptember6562
@cseptember6562 2 ай бұрын
Never in my life heard a woman say her ideal man was short. Short men are universally seen less attractive and there is no short man who wouldnt look better if he were taller.
@JeffreyWongOfficial
@JeffreyWongOfficial 2 ай бұрын
No kidding, I’ve actually heared in IRL from some, one of them being a particularly beautiful woman who was herself around 5’9 / 5’10 who told that she preferred the proportions of men being on the shorter spectrum - but yeah, those of course are the minority - but then you also have to consider, when women say tall, we often overestimate what they are looking for in real life (and broad shoulder and other features can compensate quite a bit) - only online dating with a focus on numbers is kinda toxic in terms of height preferences
@cseptember6562
@cseptember6562 2 ай бұрын
@@JeffreyWongOfficial Sure women like that exist but they are outliers. I think when women say tall they mean 5'11 and up. That is where a noticeable difference from average height (5'9) begins. I dont think that is an overestimation. When most say tall they mean relative to the height of other men not to their own height. I dont think a 5'2 girl would consider a 5'8 or 5'9 man tall even though they have decent height difference. I also think the impact of broad shoulders is overvalued. Its not a make or break trait like height can be and it only really helps taller men. I doubt a short guy with broad shoulders would see any significant boost from it.
@max-cs4pz
@max-cs4pz 2 ай бұрын
@@cseptember6562 as a short 5ft5 guy I have the impression that when I am in really good shape it helps a lot. Still I would prefer to be 5ft10 to being muscular
@max-cs4pz
@max-cs4pz 2 ай бұрын
At a party I (5ft5 )once met a girl who was there with her boyfriend(in an open relationshoip) who was maybe also like 5ft7 ish and she actually hit on me and told me she kinda likes shorter guys and she also tried to kiss me…. And on another occasion one girl in my friendgroup said that she usually goes for shorter guys when we were discussing ex partners and so on
@JeffreyWongOfficial
@JeffreyWongOfficial 2 ай бұрын
@@cseptember6562 well, there still are plenty of shorter/average height guys with girlfriends. In academia for example you often see intellectual overachievers with beautiful and highly educated women despite them being not exactly overachievers in the height department. So yeah, I think - also for women (who aren’t by any means a homogenous hivemind) - we men are a mixed bag of traits, similar to how women are to us. Some features society and you might value higher than others (usually on an individual basis), yet it ultimately is a blend of those. Like a very attractive and sophisticated female once said to me: “well, if he’s a handsome doctor with a good family-background, which woman would care if he’s 5’7 or 6’3?”
@TestTest-hu1gj
@TestTest-hu1gj 2 ай бұрын
Funny phenomenon, im same height as Chris 5"10 but i also have almost only taller male friends. Im not short by no means, but when you're around them with them out, you're suddenly the "short guy". lol
@APR702
@APR702 5 күн бұрын
Guys only go up by one inch or 2 . Style your hair spiked can help make you look taller. Get the shoes that make you look the tallest (sneakers with insoles ) (dress shoes with tall heels) (running shoes with tall soles) AND MOST IMPORTANTLY DRESS WELL . You have no idea how much having nice clothes can increase your chances . and remember keep trying you only fail when you quit not when you’re rejected
@TheSoggyOne
@TheSoggyOne 2 ай бұрын
gg i'm 5'4. Please let me respawn as a 6'3 gigachad. or a crocodile. thanks.
@bro918
@bro918 11 күн бұрын
its all so tiresome.
@k.k8291
@k.k8291 2 ай бұрын
Don't need any studies for that, it's obvious.
@ded-rocinteractive8536
@ded-rocinteractive8536 2 күн бұрын
He nailed it. It's not about being taller than 'them' it's about how your height looks in comparison to other men/women around you. Women tend to be more socially dependent within their validation system so they need you to look taller than the majority of the people around you -- the wider, social surrounding. Not just her.
@Pahwah
@Pahwah Ай бұрын
Facetilt - David Buss. It explains height preference from an evolutionary perspective.
@JackJonValois
@JackJonValois 2 ай бұрын
The average select by women on Tinder and Bumble is 6'4 so set your height to that. I am 5'11 and have been on 82 dates and non of them noticed so only worry about their height in comparison.
@Arejen03
@Arejen03 Ай бұрын
would be hard for me as 5"7 lol
@JackJonValois
@JackJonValois Ай бұрын
@@Arejen03 I wouldn't even bother with dating apps at that point
@hs-fu6qt
@hs-fu6qt 16 күн бұрын
Since most of 5'10 guys saying they r 6' If u r real 5'11 u could pass as 6'1 so perfect height for every girls 😂😂
@JackJonValois
@JackJonValois 16 күн бұрын
@@hs-fu6qt I just put in 6'4 and most of them were too dumb to even notice, I think like 2 out of the 82 I went on a date with asked about it who were like 2 inches taller than me that lied in their bio but I was trying to avoid the tall women anyways. Its funny though that women tend to lie about themselves being much taller than they are.
@RavarsenBlogspot
@RavarsenBlogspot 2 ай бұрын
How women chooses men is also known as eugenics
@shin-ishikiri-no
@shin-ishikiri-no Ай бұрын
True.
@bro918
@bro918 11 күн бұрын
AKA natural selection. Evolution. Some win some lose.
@ziwer1
@ziwer1 6 сағат бұрын
🤣🤣
@eNv3n0mX
@eNv3n0mX 2 ай бұрын
Im 6'6. Everyone asks how tall I'm, I say 6.4
@ryanbakerproffitt1830
@ryanbakerproffitt1830 2 ай бұрын
I didn’t watch the video. A lot. Glad I could help.
@DaDainDan
@DaDainDan 2 ай бұрын
I think it's important to emphasize the sources being cited (Speed-dating, Dating Apps, Stated Preferences). It is all low-engagement first impressions. Vibes and actions are significantly more important when it comes to attracting women (for long-term relationships), and that just doesn't bear out in those kind of environments. I guarantee, if you compared the kinds of men women have dated/are dating to their stated preferences, there would be major discrepancies. This is even true with men when it comes to valuing girls' looks. The reality is that if you meet someone you click with (emotionally, comedically, whatever) you would date them in a heartbeat even if they didn't quite meet your ideal preferences.
@renachiiuwu6463
@renachiiuwu6463 2 ай бұрын
It isn’t black and white. Both “look’s, and personality traits” are equally important for LT relationships. Certain level of mutual physical attraction needs to be met.
@AlmostlessThanHuman
@AlmostlessThanHuman 2 ай бұрын
Wrong height is a single most important thing to women if you are below her minimum threshold then odd of it happening is slim to none regardless of the other things
@DaDainDan
@DaDainDan 2 ай бұрын
​@@renachiiuwu6463 It is undeniable that there needs to mutual physical attraction. Looks are almost always important in terms of getting your foot in the door. You're probably never getting a date if your vibes+looks score doesn't meet a certain threshold, but once you're actually dating, you're generally only moving forward by maintaining vibes and having good character. I really just have an issue with the people who grossly exaggerate woman's standards and/or use their own physical attractiveness as an excuse for why they aren't pulling. Most people can look decent if they try to, so long are they aren't obese or deformed or something. The reality is most of the guys complaining about this shit either are already attractive enough or at least have the potential to be, but they either aren't talking to enough women or are too social inept to successfully court one. It's also possible their own standards are too high. Based on a couple of my friends and statements from other dudes online, I think porn, anime, IG models, Hollywood, or any combination of the four have broken their minds as to what normal women actually look like.
@AlmostlessThanHuman
@AlmostlessThanHuman 2 ай бұрын
@@DaDainDan "grossly exaggerate women standards" no one's exaggerating anything bud but it's literally what they asked for themselves
@AlmostlessThanHuman
@AlmostlessThanHuman 2 ай бұрын
@@DaDainDan says anime is a problem has a cartoon profile pic lol bro I don't watch anime and I haven't watched porn in like a year and a half worse decision of my life by the way because the majority of women consider you just above the moral equivalent of a rapist or murderer just because you're sub 5'5
@153ridzzzz
@153ridzzzz Ай бұрын
As a 5'4 guy. From what i have seen. If you are shorter than 5'6 as a guy. Its basically over. Better to not even try at that point since its just a waste of time.
@troublemaker948
@troublemaker948 16 күн бұрын
why specifically shorter than 5'6 and not 5'7 or more ?
@153ridzzzz
@153ridzzzz 11 күн бұрын
@@troublemaker948 Its just what i have seen from experience. Once men go below 5'6 cutoff. Its just near impossible to get a girl. Even at 5'6 to 5'8 its fairly tough to get one these days with modern dating standards.
@bro918
@bro918 11 күн бұрын
over
@Es97Coqui
@Es97Coqui 3 күн бұрын
Seriously like I don’t get how 5’7 is “short”. That’s totally wrong. Short is actually below 5’6.
@risegaming2047
@risegaming2047 Күн бұрын
There's practically no difference between 5'4" and 5'6". If I were to put it into ranges, I would say
@antnfs
@antnfs 2 ай бұрын
Always wondered where the milky bar kid would end up…
@patnor7354
@patnor7354 2 ай бұрын
$100k. One study found that when comparing men of different heights and incomes being over 6' was equal to a shorter man earning 100k...
@HectorHughMunro
@HectorHughMunro 2 ай бұрын
I was in a conversation in Asia with some ex pats. Someone asked why the men were dating both races but the women weren’t. One of the women said that it was that she didn’t want to date someone shorter and the others slowly nodded in agreement. This was in a group who otherwise had positive attitudes towards the concept of diversity. At the time, I was shocked by the dual standard.
@fiat_ow7876
@fiat_ow7876 15 күн бұрын
I'm 5'5 and I have not had a single woman attracted to me in my 24 years of life. I had 1 girlfriend, but she used me for attention, and didn't really realize it cause I was young and dumb, and she cheated on me with some dude that was like 6'3, a drug dealer, and worked at a Dunkin donuts. I did the red pill meme shit of having a high paying job, improving my physique, doing a lot of stuff for my face (skin care mostly and a few other things related to that) and it has legit done nothing for me. At the most, people treat me nicer now. I firmly believe that it's a biological impossibility for woman to be attracted to a man that's only slightly taller or the same height as him. I seriously don't think I will get a girlfriend who won't leave me and actually treat me nice unless I get surgery, which honestly doesn't really appeal to me much.
@bro918
@bro918 11 күн бұрын
How do you cope? What are your copes? Im older and shorter than you, kinda just hoping AI/robotics can soon reach a decent point where I can experience something
@fiat_ow7876
@fiat_ow7876 10 күн бұрын
@@bro918 I mean I have a pretty great life, good job, good friends, nice family, and I’m in great shape so the only hole in my life is intimate relationships. I just count my blessings and truly accept who I am, my strengths and limitations. I’m sure there’s a woman out there that will accept my height but that’s like finding a needle on the moon.
@risegaming2047
@risegaming2047 Күн бұрын
I wish I could accept reality and just move on. But I feel much too jaded after learning the reality of life.
@fiat_ow7876
@fiat_ow7876 Күн бұрын
@@risegaming2047 The feeling will go away with time. You can do pretty much everything in life except unfortunately a romantic relationship if you aren't blessed with physical attributes.
@risegaming2047
@risegaming2047 Күн бұрын
@@fiat_ow7876 "With time" I'm assuming you've had this realization for a while now? I'm in my early 20s and only since last year have the layers of these blackpills started to unravel to me.
@Half-code
@Half-code Ай бұрын
lol the backwards cap exposes the dark tetrad
@TheBruvleigh
@TheBruvleigh 2 ай бұрын
im 6'3 im glad i have at least one thing going for me lol most happy i have a mrs so i dont have to deal with this crap anymore though
@nateleibold4221
@nateleibold4221 Ай бұрын
It accounts for 33% of a woman’s attraction scale. Which is the leading metric of all the stated preferences.
@tarwin5317
@tarwin5317 2 ай бұрын
crying in 5'5 ft
@Christians9955
@Christians9955 2 ай бұрын
I m 5'7 - happy with my height. Dated woman were taller then me, 5'9 max. Never spoke to them about it and never was a issue. I find with smaller woman, 5'3 and less they want men +6'1 which is ridiculous. I can understand a woman wanting a taller men but when its way to tall then its odd and annoying.
@yoonshub
@yoonshub Ай бұрын
Nah man there are some of us who wants shorter guys, I'm 5'3 and i want a man who's 5'3 or up I dont prefer extremely tall men, i just want to look up in his eyes without hurting my neck😭
@Christians9955
@Christians9955 Ай бұрын
@@yoonshub that's a rare then. Trust me, most women want the opposite to you at your height. I know a guy who's that height. From Sydney, Australia. His Italian background.
@Es97Coqui
@Es97Coqui 3 күн бұрын
You’re not short dude…. seriously? Short is actually below 5’6.
@TraceyBarracloughInspiration
@TraceyBarracloughInspiration 2 ай бұрын
The taller the better; however, I’m only 5’ so there’s a lot of scope 😂
@Razear
@Razear Ай бұрын
The de facto cut-off that women insist on imposing is 6'0" on dating apps since they're naturally afforded an abundance of options. It essentially renders any guy below that arbitrary threshold SOL through no fault of his own. And the byproduct of this reality is that it encourages men to lie about their height, which cyclically poisons the dynamic for both parties.
@Qqqqzzzzznnnt
@Qqqqzzzzznnnt 2 ай бұрын
I’m 7’11 it’s tough out there lol 😂
@One_Flew_West
@One_Flew_West 2 ай бұрын
My husband is only about an inch taller than me. I'm 5ft 7. I have a bit of a thing for shorter guys. Tall men do nothing for me.
@JaymieSxxb
@JaymieSxxb Ай бұрын
Speak that real shi
@Es97Coqui
@Es97Coqui 3 күн бұрын
That’s not short baby. Short is actually below 5’6.
@One_Flew_West
@One_Flew_West 2 күн бұрын
@@Es97Coqui Many, many women would disagree.
@Snarge22
@Snarge22 19 күн бұрын
If I got on a dating app and said I was (only) 6'4" (subtracting three inches off my height), would a 5'7" women be able to tell?
@rixcyricky
@rixcyricky Ай бұрын
Im 5'11 solid and i dont see much difference when im around 6 foot friends , but when it come to women eyes , its a different stories😂😂
@armorbearer9702
@armorbearer9702 2 ай бұрын
So would a taller than average woman be more open to dating a shorter guy?
@TurnOntheBrightLights.
@TurnOntheBrightLights. 2 ай бұрын
No, they're less likely to, as the general rule for women is that they want a partner at least taller than them.
@EowynRises
@EowynRises 2 ай бұрын
I did, I am a Dutch 1.85m tall woman. I found that it takes a confident man to not care or even like it that I am taller. And confidence is very attractive! I also had a shorter guy lead me through my first ever tango, very confident with firm grip and lead, it was amazing!😊
@neilt6480
@neilt6480 2 ай бұрын
@@EowynRises In my experience taller guys tend to be more confident, which may be part of why they're considered more attractive.
@ErikTheWildlifeVolunteer
@ErikTheWildlifeVolunteer 2 ай бұрын
​@@EowynRises Thanks for sharing your experience. I am a Dutch-American man living in California. I've been curious to know how to meet single women in person who are taller than me (175 cm). I have a strong fondness of taller women, and would be thrilled to date one.
@Arejen03
@Arejen03 Ай бұрын
nah, tall woman want tall man, short woman want tall man
@crazycatpetera1404
@crazycatpetera1404 Ай бұрын
I’d say anywhere between 6’1 to 6’5 would be perfect for most women. It only really tapers off when you’re a giant… like 6’6, 6’7, 6’8 etc but it’s still a very masculine trait so it’s less problematic than being 5ft nothing.
@fionanicholson1995
@fionanicholson1995 2 ай бұрын
Huge roll
@marlonelias
@marlonelias Ай бұрын
I’m Subscribed to both of these guys!.!.
@ozkancagatay
@ozkancagatay 2 ай бұрын
I'm 5'9 but i have good facial features at least. I console myself with this.
@Arejen03
@Arejen03 Ай бұрын
as a 5'7 guy its an insult when a 5"9 guy thinks hes short xD
@ozkancagatay
@ozkancagatay Ай бұрын
@@Arejen03 i dont want to offend Anybody. Until my puberty finished i didnt ate any protein due to my ultra poor family so i always imagine what i became if i could get some protein. Instead i ate just plain bread and some jam and butter on it whole day and years and years.
@EntrepreneursInCars
@EntrepreneursInCars 2 ай бұрын
Why did Macken skip over the fact that fitness cues, and a v taper, can minimize the points lost by shorter men?
@cosmiclounge
@cosmiclounge 2 ай бұрын
Presumably for the same reason he didn't find it necessary to declare 'all else being equal' after every statement. Obviously, physical attraction is not simply a monotonic function of height. However, ceteris paribus, 6'1" always trumps 5'10" in the aggregate.
@anisenkrill6179
@anisenkrill6179 2 ай бұрын
Stepping on your wallet to get to 6'-1" also works really well Rich...
@murphymacken
@murphymacken 2 ай бұрын
We did discuss this elsewhere! :) We talked about how bodily masculinity was a better predictor of male mating successs than height.
@cosmiclounge
@cosmiclounge 2 ай бұрын
And because these 'solutions' are self-evident to the sort of person who doesn't mistake their IQ for a percentage; if one cannot measure-up favourably on a particular axis, then of course, it behoves to compensate in other domains. Arguably, the salient advice would be to cultivate your USPs: Eric "Lizardman" Sprague might indeed alienate 95% of the theoretical dating-pool, but I can guarantee that the remaining 5% won't care less whether he's 5'6" or 6'6"-because there's only one Eric Sprague, and within the domain of 'Lizardman embodiment' he reigns unchallenged. If you haven't the pedigree to make it as a stallion, then the solution is to make yourself a unicorn.
@renjit9044
@renjit9044 2 ай бұрын
Because it helps, but only on the margin. Would still get rejected by the best of the younger women. Race, Height, Money, all matter. Wrong race or height usually knocks you out with a lot of the attractive women despite fitness cues and money. One big issue is with obesity and female mental issues there are not enough decent women to go around.
@andreasv9472
@andreasv9472 2 ай бұрын
Weird that filtering on height is kisher, but men can't filter on breast or butt size. What's the difference? They are both superficial attributes.
@wejpasadena1
@wejpasadena1 Ай бұрын
I’ve heard women say they would NEVER want a partner shorter than them. I understand wanting a tall guy…but NEVER?
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