I'm a nursing student and I just want you to know that being in a woman's clinic shouldn't make you feel uncomfortable. I could understand why you'd feel that why, but understand that sometimes biological males have to go to female only clinics for certain illnesses. And the secretary had no right to tell you that, like you said it is no ones busy (other than yourself and your healthcare team). I am so glad that you are becoming more comfortable with yourself and have a blessed remainder of your journey.