I distanced myself from my daughter (15f) over a misunderstanding, and now she won't return. AITA?

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16 күн бұрын

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@Avicii-NO1 14 күн бұрын

You screwed up, you pay the prize. It's called consequences of your actions!

@scottibrown3274 14 күн бұрын

YTA. I find it concerning that OP instantly blamed Kate for the missing credit card, when he didn’t even say if she had a history of rebellious behavior and from what I presume she doesn’t. Kate is better off living with her aunt, OP would need to get himself into therapy and maybe offer to pay for something for Kate (like college or a car)

@keikokatagiri4813 14 күн бұрын

Honestly the quick reaction makes me suspect he's quick to anger like that and he may or may not have had a good hand on what his wife chose to do too

@adina5073 14 күн бұрын

as much as it would be nice for kate if he did pay for her college or buy her a car, it would be highly toxic since it would be a result of him love bombing her to get her back instead of facing his own issues that got him in his position in the first place

@lunamorningstar5488 12 күн бұрын

@@adina5073honestly with how kate almost took her own life too, make u think if this was a pattern with op, high chance he pushed his wife to that end with how he acted and acting.

@amyk9397 14 күн бұрын

so you commonly loose things but decided no way could i lose my card. blamed your daughter, insulted her and kicked her out. but its ok because you found it, cried and apologize

@maishatahajeba2349 14 күн бұрын

The fact that he even called her names over this...

@perfectlyimperfectgirl2631 14 күн бұрын

Op is absolutely the asshole if my dad did that I wouldn’t want anything to do with him for my own mental health especially since he was his daughters only parent and they were probably very close because of that

@Infectedhyper 14 күн бұрын

U CUT OFF UR DAUGHTER BECAUSE OF A FUCKING CARD?!?!??!

@Idontknow-br6me 5 күн бұрын

Ikr , that not only could've blocked with is phone but also he could've watched his bank account activity, cuz if the d'autres had it and used it , he would've seen it

@nekoneko8164 14 күн бұрын

YOU ARE THE ATA . you need " PARENTING CLASS" .

@lunamorningstar5488 12 күн бұрын

Yeah, after hearing ‘I don’t want them to be involved with the parenting, since I always wanted to do by myself’ after ‘I don’t have much help in parenting’ is dicey to say the least. Like instead of asking for help and learning to be a single parent, he sticked to his gun and look what it resulted in.

@lanahribar3785 14 күн бұрын

You lost her for good It's your falt

@Froggy_Boba7400 14 күн бұрын

I like(sarcastically) how op tried to get sympathy by saying that his wife died and that he didn't have much help with parenting and then say "That is why this happened." Like, no it isn't. You jumped to conclusions and blamed your daughter, calling her a b*tch. And how at the end he tried to be like "It wasn't my fault cause I didn't know!" LIKE GIRL- You still yelled at your daughter, called her names, and kicked her out. and over a damn credit card that you had already cancelled?! So no one could even use it if they wanted to?! I'm sorry, but op does not have my sympathy and I hope his daughter stayed with the aunt cause op obviously got some issues if he got that mad at her over a damn credit card. Like, I understand being upset over it, but kicking your daughter out?! Yeah, so, in conclusion, Yta.

@thechosenone9769 8 күн бұрын

He said he didn't have help but then said he had a lot of other relatives but he didn't want help because he wanted to do it by himself so he had help, he just didn't want to use it. He was using that as an excuse. That's all it was

@Jess-jt4zf 10 күн бұрын

That behavior would be unacceptable towards a 15 y/o EVEN IF she was the one to take the card!

@AdaKizi248 14 күн бұрын

Has he tried apologizing to her? If she won't come to the phone, write her a letter.

@cherylsmith1121 14 күн бұрын

Yes, you truly messed up.

@lorilynne571 14 күн бұрын

First of all, YTA. You blamed your daughter for something she didn't do and haven't even apologized. The best thing you can do is give her time to process her emotiona, and in the meantime, you have to work on yourself. Clearly you need to to work on self-improvement. Don't rush trying to fix your relationship and work at your daughter's speed. She gets to decide if she wants you back in her life. Take it slow.

@marekwantuch8838 13 күн бұрын

1: That’s not a misunderstanding, that’s you being a bad parent. Who TF sees something went missing and first thought is thats my daughters fault? 2: YTA

@daphnepoon9380 14 күн бұрын

YTA

@aidenhardy8138 14 күн бұрын

Ok while I've never believed in therapy this is someone who needs it

@Yooomama531 13 күн бұрын

Yes you screwed up and you tried apologizing to her which she didn’t want to hear it I think it was a little over the top of her trying to take her life over something small like this, the thing is is that yea you made a mistake and you understand that you did and your willing to fix it if she dosnt see that then you need to give her space to think it over, she is just a kid and her emotions are running high so give her a moment to just try to think it over

@bengi6745 12 күн бұрын

Yes of course you are the ah. Even you asking the question makes me think that you are probably thinking not a big deal it was just a minor misunderstanding. Let me tell you it definitely was not. Take responsibility for your actions and act accordingly. If you want a better relationship with your daughter please see a therapist. Self awareness is really important to see that our actions affect people around us. Please if you end up going to therapy take it seriously